I Discipline My Children

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    I'm a dad of two boys

    and I spank them regulary. My Ex-Wife often told me, I should have a strict dad or uncle, because I'm often rude to other people and I deserve a spanking, too. What does other think about this or can help me to be a better role model.
    BadBoySpanking BadBoySpanking
    36-40, M
    Aug 21, 2015

    Today was a very stressful day.

    Kaylee was was in a very bad mood today she was back chatting, complaining about everything, arguing about everything and crying and moaning about the smallest things. She was playing with her Barbie dolls when I asked her to come and do her chores witch was to unload the...
    kelly147 kelly147
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Oct 4, 2015

    The rules were clear in our house.

    1. I will obey my parents or any person my parents place in authority over me. I will do what I am told to do when I am told to do it, cheerfully, and to the best of my ability. That also means when I am told not to do something, I will not do it. 2. I will not lie 3. I will...
    pagandad pagandad
    66-70, M
    7 Responses Aug 11, 2015

    I think most children today don't get

    disciplined. I do, but I am the only one like that in my class. And I will disciplnemy own children one day.
    erik2000erik200 erik2000erik200
    16-17, M
    2 Responses Sep 15, 2015

    passing out paddle ball paddles

    for Halloween once the ball breaks the mommies get a present the kids all seem concerned
    daddybuttspanker daddybuttspanker
    26-30, M
    Oct 31, 2015

    My mom has almost little to no authority over

    my younger brother, it's almost sickening to see how he can just run over her at 12 years old. At his age, just the mere MENTION of my mom's name was enough to make me reevaluate myself. The things he does now are the exact same things I would've gotten my a** beaten for...
    FabledTacoOfDoom FabledTacoOfDoom
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Oct 27, 2015

    I have 3 girls, twins Kylie

    and Kennedy 6 years old and Kayla is 7. 10 minutes after putting all 3 girls to bed last night I hear noises coming from the twins bedroom getting up and checking on them I found Kennedy in her closest playing with her Barbie's I walked her back to her bed tucked her back in and...
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Jun 11, 2015

    I'm not a parent yet But

    when I'm one I'm going to discipline them strictly but with love
    flowerpie flowerpie
    16-17, F
    9 Responses Jul 16, 2014

    watch out for some of the mothers in here they

    will block you for just saying hello
    spankyouhard9 spankyouhard9
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Dec 30, 2015

    Just paddled my 16yo

    for a bad attitude and not doing his chores
    mlpsvsu mlpsvsu
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Nov 25, 2015

    My parents discipline me.

    Dad promised me one for tomorrow, cos I didnt do my chores and was mouthing twice this week. I don't even remember when I was mouthy.
    erik2000erik200 erik2000erik200
    16-17, M
    3 Responses Jul 18, 2015

    I discipline my child with bar of soap

    when he swears. I'm curious to if there is other parents that do this and to what your rules are on how it is done
    keepkidsbabysforever keepkidsbabysforever
    41-45, M
    10 Responses Feb 17, 2016

    Last night our 9 yr old son did his 3rd day in

    a row bad attitude day...thd warnings he had been given had not made him behave so he was told he had a good spanking coming to him,but as we had his cousins at ours last night we delayed it til this morning...he went to bed early but at ten to eleven last night he came down...
    mukydaz mukydaz
    46-50, M
    7 Responses Jul 11, 2015

    Holiday Spanking

    With the approach of Christmas, I thought I would share one of the rare Christmas spankings I've had to give to one of my children. Before I start, I know some may not agree, but I've always treated holidays as any other day in regards to expectations of behavior. They may get a...
    Sarah1966 Sarah1966
    46-50, F
    16 Responses Dec 23, 2012

    I would say i am rather open minded

    and modern mother. i allow my kids a lot of freedom. but there are boundaries and crossing these boundaries must have consequences. consequences that make you really sorry and which you remember the next time you are about to make a bad decision.
    StickLady StickLady
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Oct 4, 2015

    With my middle 3 kids at church camp

    and my oldest no longer living at home. My youngest has been enjoying being the only child at home for once. She was really doing well had gone nearly a week without misbehaving. yesterday we spent most the morning running errands and when we got to the last one the grocery...
    southernlady38 southernlady38
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jun 24, 2015

    Neighbors told me about a bad prank involved

    property damage my son and other kids do to the house of a disables neighbor last year while Halloween. So this year no Halloween and he was put to bed early.
    youngmother25 youngmother25
    26-30, F
    8 Responses Nov 1, 2015

    There is a lot more to disciplining kids

    than just spanking them when they screw up, although that is a very necessary part. Another is not spoiling them. When I was little, I knew that if I got a big present, like the bicycle my parents got me for my 7th birthday, I better take good care of it, because if I didn't I...
    pagandad pagandad
    66-70, M
    6 Responses Aug 19, 2015

    I think it is necessary

    for children to grow up knowing boundaries. When they enter the adult world, they will be more prepared for the realites. I do not like to see children running wild and even telling their parents what they want and demanding this and that. If my children acted like that I would...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Aug 19, 2014

    I Believe that all children twelve

    and under should be put to bed at the same time every night by their parents, they should dressed in pajamas and have some type of overnight protection for their bladder. Children should remain in their bed until their parents come and get them. Discipline is a very important...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Oct 15, 2015

    Dont Judge

    My names Jennifer. I have 4 children. 1, 3, 6 and 7... ALL boys!!! My husband and I do spank our children. Not a lot, at all. We use it as a last resort, and much rather would ground them or take something away. Sometimes, a spanking is just necessary. I have been called a bad...
    JennMomof4 JennMomof4
    31-35, F
    24 Responses Jun 19, 2013
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    5 Responses Apr 3, 2016
    Heike38 Heike38
    36-40, F
    9 Responses Dec 30, 2015

    Last week my kids were all in bed

    when I heard laughing from one of the bedrooms, I suspected the twins but I wasn't sure and as their room is at the end of the corridor I checked the others rooms first, it wasn't Freddy, it wasn't Ava, so I knew it was the twins, i walked really quietly to their room, I opened...
    KirstyAJohnson KirstyAJohnson
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Apr 16, 2014

    The traditional anti-spanking arguments are

    being questioned in this interesting article: http://pjmedia.com/parenting/2015/11/06/is-spanking-really-that-bad/ The point is that many studies have not made any distinction between spanking and downright abuse. Spankings are indeed a very effective tool of correction if...
    LauChar LauChar
    46-50, M
    Nov 8, 2015

    I'm a single father of 7 grown kids looking to

    talk with single Pro spanking mothers or single moms who discipline their children that are looking for a male mentor please feel free to add me and message me anytime
    spankyouhard9 spankyouhard9
    56-60, M
    Dec 23, 2015

    It has been a very trying day

    for this mommy. My 11 yr old has had a sassy attitude since this morning, and has found herself standing in the corner twice as a result, my 7 yr old daughter has a case of the grumps, which has also resulted in standing in the corner, and a nap as well, and one of my 9 yr old...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Jun 21, 2015

    I know that I have not discussed it here

    but I am now in a loving relationship with an older man. I still have my own apartment but I stay over at his house more often than not. He has a 9 year old daughter and I have grown fond of her. Despite my fondness for her and her father as well as my knowing that she really...
    teresasimpson teresasimpson
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Feb 8, 2015

    hello, I am a mom of a son 7

    and daughter 10, I discipline with spanking, would love to talk to other parents
    katemomoftwo katemomoftwo
    36-40, F
    18 Responses Feb 10, 2014

    When my kids misbehave they get a smacked

    bottom.Even my 16 yr old!
    Shelley79 Shelley79
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Nov 14, 2015

    So today I had to spank my 5 year old daughter

    Kaylee so this is what happed. The whole family were going shopping today. so we were at the grocery store and one of the triplets were having their tantrums so I told my Mike Sr (my husband) to go take them for a walk so he went of with the triplets Mike Jr and Josh. I stayed...
    kelly147 kelly147
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Mar 14, 2015

    it's beyond me why anyone needs to make young

    kids cut switches so they can beat them. Sure, kids desperately need discipline and as a parent, I'm not advocating letting them off at all. I'm not even against spanking for most kids but switches and paddles? I find all of this glorification of punishing kids severely quite...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Jun 24, 2015

    Naughty Dad is looking

    for a strict uncle for discipline...not only my boys need it from time to time...my behaviour is sometimes ugly, too. Anyone can help me?
    BadBoySpanking BadBoySpanking
    36-40, M
    Dec 31, 2015

    Its been awhile since I've had to spank all 3

    of my girls at once for the same thing but the other day all 3 of them earned a good spanking. I was at work and called home to check in with my nanny and find out what everyone wanted to have for dinner. My nanny tells me all 3 girls are standing in the corner. All morning all...
    deleted deleted
    10 Responses Jun 19, 2015

    Even when it is close to christmas.

    Yesterday they did not help mommy doing their chores what gave them their first spanking and then they refused to go to bed early. Today it does not seem to get any better as their attitude is horrible.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Dec 23, 2015

    I had to give my younger daughter 8 licks with

    the belt yesterday because she was mouthing and were disrespectful to her mother. I sent her to her room and told he to bare her bottom then I came and whipped her eight times and then sent her to the corner for 10 min.
    Nickgermany Nickgermany
    51-55, M
    9 Responses Jan 10, 2015
    spankinggardener spankinggardener
    26-30, M
    1 Response Sep 24, 2015

    Being a parent is the hardest job in the world.

    At time's you have to be a strict parent. And yesterday was not the best start to the day. The story is below.
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Oct 31, 2015

    So last night me and the girl's stayed with

    Scott and his daughter. The girl's gymnastics coach called me and told me that I needed to bring bella and mindie to school at 7 then at 8. I was like alright that is fine. So to get the girl's to school on time we had to get up a little earlier then normal this morning. Bella...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Sep 24, 2015

    Hi, I'm a dad of 2 daughter

    and I discipline both of them. I am happy to talk to other parents about it and would love to know how you discipline your kids
    Liam2016 Liam2016
    26-30, M
    4 Responses Oct 24, 2015

    True Discipline

    We have always used a firm hand theroy of discipline. Training children on how they are to behave is not something that is done overnight or something that can be done using "time out". When a child knows the rules and clearly disobeys them there is nothing wrong with using a...
    jointhecorner jointhecorner
    36-40, F
    14 Responses Aug 20, 2011

    Where we live we can't spank them

    but that does not stop us from being strict and disciplining them. There are a lot of ways that make them learn as good as a hard spanking on their butts. Taking privileges away, long corner time, cold showers, running laps, and there is so much more parents can do.
    forevergeek forevergeek
    31-35, M
    1 Response Oct 17, 2015
    mumjenny mumjenny
    41-45, F
    11 Responses Feb 2, 2016

    As you know I spank and give corner time,

    well I also ground sometimes too. When my my daughters are grounded I take away there friend privileges, make up, and all there electronics. I also take away there leggings. My girls love leggings, so when they are grounded I take them away and make them wear jeans. Alex didn't...
    Spankingdadof3 Spankingdadof3
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Feb 6, 2016

    As a single mother of 5,

    I have to keep order in my house. So if you have to be told something more then once, chances are you will be out over my knee or sitting in timeout. This coming about after my youngest girls (8 and 9) were getting ready for a bath, and I told them not to make a mess, which of...
    tiffyof6andtwins tiffyof6andtwins
    46-50, F
    8 Responses Aug 6, 2014

    When rules are broken,

    consequences should follow. I have a rule in my house that I do not allow gum because I was tired of finding it places I shouldnt. So upon cleaning up my house tonight, I found 2 chewed pieces in my kitchen. One on the tile floor, the other on a rug!! So I confronted all my kids...
    tiffyof6andtwins tiffyof6andtwins
    46-50, F
    12 Responses Sep 5, 2014
    Germanmother Germanmother
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Dec 16, 2015

    When my children do not obey me,

    I certainly discipline my children in many ways. I either spank them over my knee, take away certain things, or even ground them. I see nothing wrong disciplining children. I know they understand I am trying to teach them the values between good and evil.
    momworkingout momworkingout
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jun 16, 2014

    Yesterday afternoon I had a run in with my

    oldest daughter Lana who is 10 years old. We have a rule that you don’t go down near the river lake that is in view of our home and is owned by our home owners association. Lana was next door with her friend and both of them decided to disobey and went down alone. I happened...
    deleted deleted
    8 Responses Jun 20, 2014

    Over The Knee

    I have 2 boys & 2 girls i discipline my kids by spanking.I am very strict & i won't tolerate bad behaviour from my kids in any way,if they're told to do something they're only told once,any more results in a spanking.if they fight they get spanked,if they're horrible to other...
    steveslittlehelper steveslittlehelper
    36-40, F
    18 Responses Jun 28, 2011

    Hi my name is Kellie i'm 32,

    married & i have 3 kids. Elizabeth is 6, Nathan is 5 & Cathryn is 4. My husband works away during the week so i'm at home on my own looking after the kids,they're very close in age which can be a blessing or not! Most of the time my kids are good kids,but sometimes they can be...
    foreverinblue foreverinblue
    31-35, F
    10 Responses Mar 9, 2014

    my daugther hates the belt

    but its something she need's in her life she need's to understand she needs to be punishment to learn
    22-25, F
    10 Responses Oct 28, 2014

    So today I spanked my daughter

    and I feel really bad, ok so this is what happend. We had a few friends over for a BBQ party. Aria was in a very bad mood for some reason. She was so attached to me, she didn't want anyone to touch, talk or look at her and she had this bratty attitude with everyone. So I put her...
    XxCharlottexX XxCharlottexX
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jul 27, 2015
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