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    Step daughter got a reminder spanking today.

    She had an issue with school today where she had passed a note to one of her friends saying the assignment they were doing was stupid, and she got caught. Nothing happened at school with the teacher. At home after a long talk on a very personal level with her about behaviors and...
    warlords1973 warlords1973 41-45, M 4 Responses Nov 21, 2014

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    Yesterday afternoon I had a run in with my

    oldest daughter Lana who is 10 years old. We have a rule that you don’t go down near the river lake that is in view of our home and is owned by our home owners association. Lana was next door with her friend and both of them decided to disobey and went down alone. I happened...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Jun 20, 2014

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    lisarowell420 lisarowell420 22-25, F 8 Responses Jul 6, 2014

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    when 2 of your kids are fighting,

    i dont really care for the reason or who started it. they are both dropping their panties and they both get the same treatment, then they can share something in common and comfort each other.
    MotherofBrats MotherofBrats 36-40, F 11 Responses Aug 10, 2014

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    Children needs to be disciplined,

    no matter the age or gender. That is how me and my sisters and my brother were raised - I was born in a underclass household in the early 70's on the countryside close to a small town called Basul in Ukraine. My father was a uneducated lumberjack and woodcraftman my mother...
    MaryKoviski MaryKoviski 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 1, 2014

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    my daugther hates the belt

    but its something she need's in her life she need's to understand she needs to be punishment to learn
    ROWELLLISA421 ROWELLLISA421 22-25, F 12 Responses Oct 28, 2014

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    A Conversation

    My daughter got in trouble last weekend for missing her curfew (AGAIN.) She got a spanking, and grounded for this weekend. Last night, not surprisingly, she started asking about being allowed to go somewhere. I told her no, she was grounded, and I didn't want to hear her whine...
    MichelleAnneWaters MichelleAnneWaters 41-45, F 11 Responses Mar 9, 2013

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    I don't really have much of a story.

    I have raised children and step children; I am now raising my 10 yo granddaughter, and when she looks at me with pretty brown eyes and says please papa.....I just melt. I don't mind discussing things with another parent in private...but I am not going to air personal matters...
    Bobp51 Bobp51 61-65, M 5 Responses May 4

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    When rules are broken,

    consequences should follow. I have a rule in my house that I do not allow gum because I was tired of finding it places I shouldnt. So upon cleaning up my house tonight, I found 2 chewed pieces in my kitchen. One on the tile floor, the other on a rug!! So I confronted all my kids...
    tiffyof6andtwins tiffyof6andtwins 41-45, F 11 Responses Sep 5, 2014

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    I'm not a parent yet But

    when I'm one I'm going to discipline them strictly but with love
    flowerpie flowerpie 13-15, F 11 Responses Jul 16, 2014

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    Any specific rituals

    that you as parent follow when spanking you're child"
    cobiba1975 cobiba1975 36-40, M 9 Responses Mar 31

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    I fell as though too many parents think of

    discipline as a time out, grounding, spanking, whichever the case may be. Look at it from this point of view though. If a child is not doing their chore, or not doing it correctly, they lose the convenience of the power operated devices to make their chores easier (dishwasher...
    babeluvs6n2 babeluvs6n2 46-50, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    I had to give my younger daughter 8 licks with

    the belt yesterday because she was mouthing and were disrespectful to her mother. I sent her to her room and told he to bare her bottom then I came and whipped her eight times and then sent her to the corner for 10 min.
    Nickgermany Nickgermany 46-50, M 11 Responses Jan 10

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    Oh man its been a rough week.

    My 10 yr old daughter has hit this stage where, for whatever reason, thinks being sassy and talking back is acceptable. She is my strong willed child, and has quite the active imgination. However that does not excuse the little attitude she's had this past week. I dont turn to...
    babeluvs6n2 babeluvs6n2 46-50, F 13 Responses Nov 16, 2014

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    So today I had to spank my 5 year old daughter

    Kaylee so this is what happed. The whole family were going shopping today. so we were at the grocery store and one of the triplets were having their tantrums so I told my Mike Sr (my husband) to go take them for a walk so he went of with the triplets Mike Jr and Josh. I stayed...
    kelly147 kelly147 26-30, F 9 Responses Mar 14

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    hello, I am a mom of a son 7

    and daughter 10, I discipline with spanking, would love to talk to other parents
    katemomoftwo katemomoftwo 36-40, F 16 Responses Feb 10, 2014

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    Over the years I have disciplined my children

    in many different ways. When they were younger I talked to them and tried to ration with them their faults. As they got older, I spanked them, if they did not pay attention to my warnings in correcting their ways. As teenagers, I take away their favorite things like a cell...
    mominlingerie mominlingerie 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 25

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    When I give my children an order,

    I do expect it to be followed. I do not like to repeat myself without consequences . This afternoon, I told my 13 yr old daughter to empty and reload the dishwasher (her usual chore). After the usual response "I will in a minute" , and 5 minutes later, I told her again to...
    babeluvs6n2 babeluvs6n2 46-50, F 6 Responses Feb 7

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    Oh my has it been a long day!

    And just going to be an even longer week. My 4 yr old has been impossible these last few days. She is usually quite behaved but not these last couple days. It's been one time out after another, a few swats here and there and another time out. My 10 yr old has been a handful...
    babeluvs6n2 babeluvs6n2 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 28

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    As a single mother of 5,

    I have to keep order in my house. So if you have to be told something more then once, chances are you will be out over my knee or sitting in timeout. This coming about after my youngest girls (8 and 9) were getting ready for a bath, and I told them not to make a mess, which of...
    tiffyof6andtwins tiffyof6andtwins 41-45, F 9 Responses Aug 6, 2014

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    Not really a story just an update I suppose.

    I fed my granddaughter dinner a little while ago, then had a talk with her.For some reason she has gotten into the habit of thinking that just because she gets to eat one day, she thinks she gets to eat everyday, and I told her that. Don't know what's gotten into that child. Of...
    Bobp51 Bobp51 61-65, M 1 Response May 12

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    The Wooden Spoon

    We disciplined our son and daughter with a very good implement, the humble kitchen wooden spoon.We found it a very effective implement in giving a good sting yet not causing damage like a cane, for example. We ended the CP around puberty, and now I often wonder if we should have...
    reggiefane reggiefane 56-60, M 43 Responses Dec 31, 2011

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    I am having difficulty with my eldest daughter

    who has starting swearing. I would like to talk to other parents to see how they have managed this problem.
    alicemother alicemother 31-35, F 9 Responses Feb 6

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    How do others approach a situation

    where you have a hunch your child isnt telling the full truth , but no way to prove it? My 10 yr old was riding bikes with friends today, and I was almost certain that I saw her riding down the middle of the road, obviou no-no, but one of her friends had on a similar...
    babeluvs6n2 babeluvs6n2 46-50, F 4 Responses Mar 15

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    Lucy and Layla are one in 3 weeks yay any way

    they were being "ninjas" and they attacked Jessie Jessie started crying I ran in they were in the corner very quick and so I called Lucy up put her over my knee and gave her like 3 light slaps on her nappy and then did the same to Layla and after they were sat by the changing...
    Jackandhisbabe Jackandhisbabe 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I know that I have not discussed it here

    but I am now in a loving relationship with an older man. I still have my own apartment but I stay over at his house more often than not. He has a 9 year old daughter and I have grown fond of her. Despite my fondness for her and her father as well as my knowing that she really...
    teresasimpson teresasimpson 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 8

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    Red Bottomed 12 Year Old Crying Herself To Sleep

    My middle daughter has had a real attitude problem the last few days. Several warnings seemed to fall on deaf ears. This evening, when I told her it was time to go to bed, she began arguing with me (despite always going to bed a 9:30 on school nights...) and that was, finally...
    MichelleAnneWaters MichelleAnneWaters 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 9, 2012

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    Believe you me, with two teenage boys at home (

    14 and 16), You have to exercise strict discipline if you're going to have any order in your home. I was raised by parents who did not hesitate to" give us the belt" and I have always used that same practice to keep my children respectful and well behaved. This allows us to...
    TheRiverRose TheRiverRose 36-40, F 9 Responses 5 days ago

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    Everyone knows all my children

    so when we go shopping everyone goes. my husband me and my seven children. so while im the store we let the four oldest wonder off TOGETHER and stay together and we keep the other im front of us. my kids are well behaved most of the time but some get out of line more than others...
    happilymarriedus happilymarriedus 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 12

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    My son is 16 but that doesn't stop me from

    putting him in his place, and I'm not afraid to either.
    SarahMom1978 SarahMom1978 36-40, F 13 Responses Sep 5, 2014

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    Hi I need advice on discipline My husband

    philosophy is to be a friend to a child. Please message me. Thank You, Catarina.
    catarina35 catarina35 31-35, F 7 Responses Jan 18

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    kids need Discipline all types not just

    spanking have to have rules and chores too
    rowelllisa72 rowelllisa72 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    When my children do not obey me,

    I certainly discipline my children in many ways. I either spank them over my knee, take away certain things, or even ground them. I see nothing wrong disciplining children. I know they understand I am trying to teach them the values between good and evil.
    momworkingout momworkingout 36-40, F 4 Responses Jun 16, 2014

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    Well step daughter did not make it

    as far as she normally does between spankings, her last spanking was Nov 21, and she got another one last night. She has this habit of not remembering to check her folder and desk area at school to make sure she has all of her homework assignments packed up. She had a make up...
    warlords1973 warlords1973 41-45, M 9 Responses Dec 5, 2014

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    Nice Try! A year ago,

    my daughter Lilly, aged 6 then, made an attempt to get out of a spanking, it failed. "If you girls are going outside can you please take Freddy with you and watch him? " "Yeah ok, come on Freddy!" Milly was happy to take him. ""Can he come on the trampoline mommy?" Ava asked...
    KirstyAJohnson KirstyAJohnson 31-35, F 6 Responses May 7, 2014

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    Holiday Spanking

    With the approach of Christmas, I thought I would share one of the rare Christmas spankings I've had to give to one of my children. Before I start, I know some may not agree, but I've always treated holidays as any other day in regards to expectations of behavior. They may get a...
    Sarah1966 Sarah1966 46-50, F 19 Responses Dec 23, 2012

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    Over The Knee

    I have 2 boys & 2 girls i discipline my kids by spanking.I am very strict & i won't tolerate bad behaviour from my kids in any way,if they're told to do something they're only told once,any more results in a spanking.if they fight they get spanked,if they're horrible to other...
    steveslittlehelper steveslittlehelper 36-40, F 19 Responses Jun 28, 2011

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    Two spankings in one day

    for the 14 year old step daughter. The first spanking was because she forgot to turn on her alarm clock and did not get up until 7 am when I woke her up. That spanking happened after she got home from school before we left to go the doctors. The second spanking was because she...
    warlords1973 warlords1973 41-45, M 5 Responses Mar 17

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    ROWELLLISA421 ROWELLLISA421 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 5, 2014

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    Dont Judge

    My names Jennifer. I have 4 children. 1, 3, 6 and 7... ALL boys!!! My husband and I do spank our children. Not a lot, at all. We use it as a last resort, and much rather would ground them or take something away. Sometimes, a spanking is just necessary. I have been called a bad...
    JennMomof4 JennMomof4 31-35, F 31 Responses Jun 19, 2013

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    I am a young girl who's dad has always be very

    strict. He gives me spankings a lot and chooses men for me to please. Why does he do this?
    soph99ep soph99ep 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 8

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    Does anyone still give birthday spankings,

    and if you do how do you give them?
    PunishmentPals PunishmentPals 36-40, M 3 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    I think it is necessary

    for children to grow up knowing boundaries. When they enter the adult world, they will be more prepared for the realites. I do not like to see children running wild and even telling their parents what they want and demanding this and that. If my children acted like that I would...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Aug 19, 2014

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    Last week my kids were all in bed

    when I heard laughing from one of the bedrooms, I suspected the twins but I wasn't sure and as their room is at the end of the corridor I checked the others rooms first, it wasn't Freddy, it wasn't Ava, so I knew it was the twins, i walked really quietly to their room, I opened...
    KirstyAJohnson KirstyAJohnson 31-35, F 8 Responses Apr 16, 2014

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    cobiba1975 cobiba1975 36-40, M 20 Responses Apr 20

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    Even though I have run into quite a few fakes

    and perverts during my nine months on EP, I have still not given up the hope of getting in touch with real spanking parents here! I have met a few believable ones, but sadly, they have been forming a minority! I still hope to meet more real parents, though, preferably mothers...
    Susanna3 Susanna3 31-35, F 3 Responses May 11

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