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I Discipline My Children

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    My names Jennifer. I have 4 children. 1, 3, 6 and 7... ALL boys!!! My husband and I do spank our children. Not a lot, at all. We use it as a last resort, and much rather would ground them or take something away. Sometimes, a spanking is just necessary. I have been called a bad...
    JennMomof4 JennMomof4 26-30, F 38 Responses Jun 19, 2013

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    My Twins

    My twins, a boy and a girl just turned 3 not to long ago.  I turned on the tv and put on Disney (Agent Oso). I'm starting breakfast and then I hear a *smack* and screaming. I run in just to see my daughter holding a doll and my son holding his face. I moved his hand and he had...
    AlexGuy AlexGuy 26-30, M 8 Responses Aug 31, 2011

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    Rarely

    My children are lovely. But they are children. They are naughty and act out sometimes. This is rare, they are as well behaved as they can be for their age, in my opinion, but there are ALWAYS moments when they need discipline. Usually not in the form of a smack, just a firm word...
    Mikenna Mikenna 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2013

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    My stepdaughter, In a recently blended family,

    there can be hiccups and struggles. One can be rules and discipline. My new husband has two girls who have been raised in... lets call it a permissive household. Their mother passed away when the younger was still an infant, and their father never quite had the will to...
    TammySingleMom TammySingleMom 22-25, F Jan 21

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    Shed Window

    Earlier today about 5pm,my son Daniel and my Nephew Connor were playing football in the back garden.....both were told to be careful with the ball and not to kick it towards the house,me and my wife were in the room when we heard a smashing sound,we both went into the kitchen...
    mukydaz mukydaz 41-45, M 6 Responses Sep 16, 2012

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    My 11 year old son and his friend decided it

    would be fun to trash mailboxes with a baseball bat at the other end of the street today. I hope the 10 licks of my wide belt across his tail got through to him. I just talked to his friend's dad, his butt was tended to as well.
    jayman83 jayman83 46-50, M 7 Responses Mar 30

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    I Spanked My Oldest Daughter

    Hello dear EP, My name is Mary. As I wrote in my introduction story, which you can go read if you like. Spankings happen quite often in our household - Both I and my daughters are spanked by my loving husband. I rarely spank our daughters, but in this case I did. It was a...
    MaryKoviski MaryKoviski 36-40, F 7 Responses Jul 31, 2013

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    The First Real Spanking I Ever Gave

    I mentioned in my first story that real spankings are something pretty new in our house, only a few months. It was something that came about when I started going and taking my daughters to church, and realizing they were, by far, the worst behaved kids in the church every Sunday...
    TammySingleMom TammySingleMom 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 30, 2013

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    About a month ago I had to give my daughter

    Milly a spanking. She is 7. Lilly and Milly were playing in the playroom. I went in and asked them to come and help me tidy their bedroom, well my little cleany- pop Lilly ran up like a shot. Milly carried on playing an so I was leaning In the doorway, arms crossed. "Milly come...
    KirstyAJohnson KirstyAJohnson 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Holiday Spanking

    With the approach of Christmas, I thought I would share one of the rare Christmas spankings I've had to give to one of my children. Before I start, I know some may not agree, but I've always treated holidays as any other day in regards to expectations of behavior. They may get a...
    Sarah1966 Sarah1966 46-50, F 19 Responses Dec 23, 2012

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    Breeding Monsters

        When a child kills a million people on screen then add physcotropic drugs the recipe spells disaster . Our society is flooded with these children . This is not a accident but intentional to turn good loving children into monsters with no feelings of regret remorse or...
    georgeb99 georgeb99 46-50, M 2 Responses Sep 27, 2013

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 23

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    Children need to learn a standard of behaviour

    both with each other and with adults. They need consequences for unacceptable behaviour and that discipline must be maintained, you cannot ever bluff in case the bluff is called.
    SarahTTG SarahTTG 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 11

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    Hello And My Story

    Hi EP members.  I am new here and wanted to introduce myself. My husband and I have a daughter 11 and son 8. He also has a daughter from a previous relationship who is 16. She spends part of the time at our house too, mostly in the summer. I was raised conservatively by loving...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Nov 20, 2013

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    It's Time To Get Out Of The Car Or Else...

    This happened one day when my son was 5 or 6. My wife and I were travelling with my four kids in the van. It was getting to be dinner time, so we took a vote on where to eat. Pizza Hut won. We all wanted to go except for my son. He wanted Burger King. Well, I was not going to get...
    Steve21048 Steve21048 46-50, M 6 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    Yes, We Spank Our Son! And It's Not Wrong!

    My husband and I do believe in spanking, and yep, we do spank our 7 year old son. I never thought I believed in spanking, because I wasn't spanked as a child. I really can honestly say I was disobedient and I had the biggest attitude to my parents because of it. My son was...
    SayitAintSo83 SayitAintSo83 26-30, F 7 Responses Dec 30, 2011

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    My Kids

    I am a dad of 3 girls and a boy and I am a firm believer in spanking, would love to share messages with any parent with the same beliefs or spanked teen
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 16, 2013

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    The Wooden Spoon

    We disciplined our son and daughter with a very good implement, the humble kitchen wooden spoon.We found it a very effective implement in giving a good sting yet not causing damage like a cane, for example. We ended the CP around puberty, and now I often wonder if we should have...
    reggiefane reggiefane 51-55, M 40 Responses Dec 31, 2011

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    Last week my kids were all in bed

    when I heard laughing from one of the bedrooms, I suspected the twins but I wasn't sure and as their room is at the end of the corridor I checked the others rooms first, it wasn't Freddy, it wasn't Ava, so I knew it was the twins, i walked really quietly to their room, I opened...
    KirstyAJohnson KirstyAJohnson 31-35, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    My Niece

    Well I don't have any kids but a niece which is 12 and a nephew who is 8. Just made the topic I spank my children because its the only one I had and they feel like their my kids somedays when I watch them. Well last night was not a good day my niece was acting out not listening...
    kimfaulk21 kimfaulk21 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 2, 2013

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    I Spanked My Teen.. Fair Decision?

    I spanked my 16 year old today for stealing 10 dollars from my purse without permission today and not telling me about it at all. She came home from the mall and I had noticed my 100 dollars diminished to 90 and her little sister, my youngest of 5, told me that Molly, my oldest...
    mamakelsey22 mamakelsey22 41-45, F 14 Responses Apr 1, 2013

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    Sometimes- But Rarely

    I have a 24yo daughter, an 11yo daughter, an 8yo son and a 7yo daughter. I spank RARELY. As in, last time I spanked was when I spanked my 8yo FIVE MONTHS AGO. I mainly use time outs, but sometimes it doesn't fit the occasion. When they are lost in emotion or are shouty or kicky...
    SometimesYouHaveToLaugh SometimesYouHaveToLaugh 46-50, F 5 Responses Apr 2, 2013

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    Diciplindad Diciplindad 31-35, M 7 Responses Mar 16

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    The Belt Or A Strap???

    Should I use the belt on my daughter? She is very rebellious and disobey a lot I have threaten to use it before but never had. Punishments I use: I spank her I use two methods of spanking 1st I swat her as a warning I pull down her pants and swat her backside 3-5 times and if she...
    Stepmom98 Stepmom98 26-30, F 12 Responses Oct 11, 2013

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    Both girls spanked today.

    Lucy(8) and Mary(5) were fighting over some toys all yelling and pushing each other. I warned them to stop a couple times and they didnt. Not respecting each other , not respecting me and not respecting their mom who is 7m pregnant. So they got spanked for it. wooden ruller on...
    Jim30 Jim30 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 24

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    At The Store

    I'm so proud of my son. I had to go to the store today. My mom, me and Blake went inside. I told Blake that we weren't there to look at toys and stuff we needed food and that was it. He agree and we started on our food journey. There was a little boy close by and he was throwing...
    ChattyTara ChattyTara 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 25, 2013

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    Am I Not Way Too Old ?

    Hello everyone. I never came here so let me introduce a bit myself. I'm Rachel and I'm 19 yo (well, i'll be 20 by the end of the year) from England (i don't want to say exactly where to keep privacy). I found this website by google because i needed some advices from poeple I don...
    TheRachel TheRachel 18-21, F 14 Responses Sep 9, 2013

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    I am a father of 4 whom firmly believes in

    spankings all the way to adulthood. My girls are 11, 16 and 16 and my son is 17. Would love to chat with real other parents with the same beliefs..
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 18

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    Children needs to be disciplined,

    no matter the age or gender. That is how me and my sisters and my brother were raised - I was born in a underclass household in the early 70's on the countryside close to a small town called Basul in Ukraine. My father was a uneducated lumberjack and woodcraftman my mother...
    MaryKoviski MaryKoviski 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    Emma

    A couple of days ago Emma told Mandy that Connor had taken some money out of the money jar on top of the cabinet...she told us she had seen him take it and that he had put it into his pocket and gone out to play....as we knew what was in it we counted it and found there was £5...
    mukydaz mukydaz 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 29, 2013

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    Yes I Do- And I Am Proud Of It

    I am the lucky mam of 3 children, aged 5, 7 and 8. I won't say their names for privacy reasons. Now, before I leap into talking about the discipline I use (most isn't corporal or physical, a small part is), I want to say a disclaimer: my three children light up my life, they make...
    PlayDohIsThePlaythingOfDemons PlayDohIsThePlaythingOfDemons 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 9, 2013

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    I think I should put everything down in black

    and white. In 1988 I started a relationship with a woman who had a 12 year old daughter. She, Diana, was a lovely girl. However, her father was North African and she had inherited some of the mercurial characteristics of that region. I had often told Ursula, her mother, that...
    daith1956 daith1956 56-60, M 2 Responses Feb 21

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    Spanked 13 Year Old

    I am a 33 year old single mother to 13 year old Skye and 11 year old Emily and there is a lot of spankings in my house! Yesterday i was working all day until about 7 at night so the girls had been at my mums house, when i went to pick them up i knew instantly something was up. I...
    Spankingmum11 Spankingmum11 26-30, F 20 Responses Sep 10, 2012

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    I Spank My Kids

    I do feel it is okay to spank your kids. I have a 16 year old son and a 9 year old daughter.I use spanking as a last resort. We talk first, extra chores second, groundings third and then if those don't work I will spank their butts.I spank my daughter with a open hand over my...
    EricRight EricRight 31-35, M 22 Responses Apr 29, 2011

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    True Discipline

    We have always used a firm hand theroy of discipline. Training children on how they are to behave is not something that is done overnight or something that can be done using "time out". When a child knows the rules and clearly disobeys them there is nothing wrong with using a...
    jointhecorner jointhecorner 36-40, F 16 Responses Aug 20, 2011

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    I am wondering is it common to get aroused

    while disciplining your daughter. I feel so guilty I find myself being lax on her. Sometimes I spank a lot longer because it is so arousing. Is this just one of those things that is common but not spoken about.
    therightwaytodoit therightwaytodoit 26-30, M 7 Responses Jan 25

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    My stpdaus are 5yrs and 8yrs.

    They are Lucy and Mary. They moved in my place 5months ago when me and their mom decided to get married. I took over the discipline immidiatly since their mom is suffering from ptsd due to her past abuse and is a very weak character. The girls know it and used to have their way...
    Jim30 Jim30 26-30, M 3 Responses Jan 23

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    "I'm Sorry Miranda"

    When my ex and I was together we had 3 kids total, 2 was hers from previous relationship and 1 was ours. Her oldest Brandy was 7, Miranda was 4 and John was 3. She really never disciplined them, she gave me consent to punish her two if need be. One day Brandy came home from...
    EMTSPANK EMTSPANK 36-40, M 2 Responses Oct 2, 2013

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    First Time

    A couple nights ago I gave my daughter her first spanking. She is 5 years old. I have always been against spanking but she was just out if control. She is usually vary kind and well mannered. I grabbed her by the arm and pulled her skirt down and gave her a good 15 maybe 20...
    cupcakelover1 cupcakelover1 31-35, F 7 Responses Feb 13, 2013

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    Blake Taylor

    My son Blake is 3 years old and he is a sweet little boy. But today was not his day! My boyfriend came and picked me and Blake up to go out to eat. I always tell Blake to be on his best behavior and normally he does. Today this message didn't go though. We pulled into the...
    ChattyTara ChattyTara 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 11, 2013

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    My Two Girls

    I am a young single mother. I made some mistakes (that I will do my best to make sure my daughters do not repeat!) and wound up with two kids by the time I was 18. They are now 8 and 7, both girls. We went through some rough times, but I have a job, and I recently became a...
    TammySingleMom TammySingleMom 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 29, 2013

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    Hi my name is Kellie i'm 32,

    married & i have 3 kids. Elizabeth is 6, Nathan is 5 & Cathryn is 4. My husband works away during the week so i'm at home on my own looking after the kids,they're very close in age which can be a blessing or not! Most of the time my kids are good kids,but sometimes they can be...
    foreverinblue foreverinblue 31-35, F 13 Responses Mar 9

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    If You Love You Will Spank

    A husband and fathers duty is to protect, provide and when necessary administer corporal punishment.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Nov 11, 2013

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    My Son Gets Paddled, First Time At Age 10...He Needed It... And Got It Bare-Bottom And Over My Knee!!

    David gets his first real paddling... David got a good, bare-bottom and over–the-knee paddling at age 10. The paddle was a gift-shop purchase and had some silly wording on it. One thing I knew: thin as it might be, and only 12-inches long by 3-inches wide, it could work magic...
    samyork samyork 56-60 7 Responses Feb 11, 2013

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    Over The Knee

    I have 2 boys & 2 girls i discipline my kids by spanking.I am very strict & i won't tolerate bad behaviour from my kids in any way,if they're told to do something they're only told once,any more results in a spanking.if they fight they get spanked,if they're horrible to other...
    steveslittlehelper steveslittlehelper 36-40, F 22 Responses Jun 28, 2011

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    hello, I am a mom of a son 7

    and daughter 10, I discipline with spanking, would love to talk to other parents
    katemomoftwo katemomoftwo 36-40, F 10 Responses Feb 10

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    I Discipline My Children My stepdaughter,

    In a recently blended family, there can be hiccups and struggles. One can be rules and discipline. My new husband has two girls who have been raised in... lets call it a permissive household. Their mother passed away when the younger was still an infant, and their father never...
    TammySingleMom TammySingleMom 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 21

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    I am a married dad of three.

    My sons are 14 and 11, my daughter is 13. All are still disciplined by spanking though it is infrequent for the elder two.
    jayman83 jayman83 46-50, M 4 Responses Mar 24

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    My 5 year old stpdau hates taking baths.

    The other day she defused to come in to take a bath and ran away from me. When I got to her told her was going to be spanked. As I was carrying her upstairs she used a curse word so I spanked her right there. I then went to the bathroom and got a hairbrush to spank her with. I...
    Jim30 Jim30 26-30, M 4 Responses Jan 25

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    When You Have 11

    My children are great and very well behaved..... most of the time but when you have 11 kids, you need to punish them when they misbehave. I am a single parent. My husband cheated on me and walked out on the kids. I don't hear from him anymore. My children's ages range from 3...
    whateverhummer whateverhummer 31-35, F 7 Responses Jul 10, 2012

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    I Sure Do!

    Discipline and abuse are two totally different things....it really bugs me when people say that spanking is abuse. I discipline my children, I teach them right from wrong, I love them and cuddle with them. If you choose not to spank your children, fine...good for you...but don't...
    caitg caitg 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 8, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I have a distaste for people who say things like "I was hit as a child and I turned out fine" or "Children need to be disciplined". There are so many ways to have discipline...
    baconrind baconrind 26-30, M Apr 9

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    I think strict discipline is essential for girls/women. I believe in enforcing discipline with hard over the knee spankings !
    spanker30 spanker30 26-30, M 6 Responses a week ago

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    At a loss… A friend of mine, who is beside themselves over their 12 year old's recalcitrant behavior, asked me what spanking implement is most appropriate to use in disciplining...
    phillysteve phillysteve 36-40, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    I think all girls should be disciplined daily! I crave a strong man to own me and set upon me his rules and if I stray from the guidelines he has set me I should be punished in...
    littlesubmissive littlesubmissive 18-21, F 30 Responses Mar 23

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    i am more disciplined physically than i am organised i control my body efficiently and never go half-hearted
    Hemanwar Hemanwar 18-21, M Mar 23

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