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    kids do need good punishment

    and spanking my two girls can get vary mouthy at times so good belt whiping puts them back inline quick
    rowelllisa72 rowelllisa72 22-25, F May 24

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    When I give my children an order,

    I do expect it to be followed. I do not like to repeat myself without consequences . This afternoon, I told my 13 yr old daughter to empty and reload the dishwasher (her usual chore). After the usual response "I will in a minute" , and 5 minutes later, I told her again to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Feb 7

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    I had to give my younger daughter 8 licks with

    the belt yesterday because she was mouthing and were disrespectful to her mother. I sent her to her room and told he to bare her bottom then I came and whipped her eight times and then sent her to the corner for 10 min.
    Nickgermany Nickgermany 46-50, M 11 Responses Jan 10

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    Not really a story just an update I suppose.

    I fed my granddaughter dinner a little while ago, then had a talk with her.For some reason she has gotten into the habit of thinking that just because she gets to eat one day, she thinks she gets to eat everyday, and I told her that. Don't know what's gotten into that child. Of...
    Bobp51 Bobp51 61-65, M 1 Response May 12

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    I don't really have much of a story.

    I have raised children and step children; I am now raising my 10 yo granddaughter, and when she looks at me with pretty brown eyes and says please papa.....I just melt. I don't mind discussing things with another parent in private...but I am not going to air personal matters...
    Bobp51 Bobp51 61-65, M 4 Responses May 4

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    Practicing "tough love".

    .. Last night I had to give my 14 yr old son a strong spanking and although it hurt me as much as it did him, it had to be done. I found a zip drive while cleaning his mess of a bedroom. On the drive I found numerous pics of him and his friend from down the road. Evidently...
    TheRiverRose TheRiverRose 36-40, F 9 Responses Jun 25

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    So today I spanked my daughter

    and I feel really bad, ok so this is what happend. We had a few friends over for a BBQ party. Aria was in a very bad mood for some reason. She was so attached to me, she didn't want anyone to touch, talk or look at her and she had this bratty attitude with everyone. So I put her...
    XxCharlottexX XxCharlottexX 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Don't you just hate it

    when people think they know what's best for your children. I was at the store this other day with the twins. We went past the toy section and Aria saw this frozen toy she really wanted, I told her that I had no money to buy toys and were here to buy groceries. just then she...
    XxCharlottexX XxCharlottexX 26-30, F 6 Responses Jun 10

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    When rules are broken,

    consequences should follow. I have a rule in my house that I do not allow gum because I was tired of finding it places I shouldnt. So upon cleaning up my house tonight, I found 2 chewed pieces in my kitchen. One on the tile floor, the other on a rug!! So I confronted all my kids...
    tiffyof6andtwins tiffyof6andtwins 41-45, F 11 Responses Sep 5, 2014

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    I have 3 girls, twins Kylie

    and Kennedy 6 years old and Kayla is 7. 10 minutes after putting all 3 girls to bed last night I hear noises coming from the twins bedroom getting up and checking on them I found Kennedy in her closest playing with her Barbie's I walked her back to her bed tucked her back in and...
    KristanDanyelle KristanDanyelle 26-30, F 10 Responses Jun 11

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    when 2 of your kids are fighting,

    i dont really care for the reason or who started it. they are both dropping their panties and they both get the same treatment, then they can share something in common and comfort each other.
    MotherofBrats MotherofBrats 36-40, F 11 Responses Aug 10, 2014

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    Two spankings in one day

    for the 14 year old step daughter. The first spanking was because she forgot to turn on her alarm clock and did not get up until 7 am when I woke her up. That spanking happened after she got home from school before we left to go the doctors. The second spanking was because she...
    warlords1973 warlords1973 41-45, M 4 Responses Mar 17

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    Even though I have run into quite a few fakes

    and perverts during my nine months on EP, I have still not given up the hope of getting in touch with real spanking parents here! I have met a few believable ones, but sadly, they have been forming a minority! I still hope to meet more real parents, though, preferably mothers...
    Susanna3 Susanna3 31-35, F 4 Responses May 11

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    my daugther hates the belt

    but its something she need's in her life she need's to understand she needs to be punishment to learn
    ROWELLLISA421 ROWELLLISA421 22-25, F 12 Responses Oct 28, 2014

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    kids need Discipline all types not just

    spanking have to have rules and chores too
    rowelllisa72 rowelllisa72 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    it's beyond me why anyone needs to make young

    kids cut switches so they can beat them. Sure, kids desperately need discipline and as a parent, I'm not advocating letting them off at all. I'm not even against spanking for most kids but switches and paddles? I find all of this glorification of punishing kids severely quite...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset 36-40, F 10 Responses Jun 24

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    Last night our 9 yr old son did his 3rd day in

    a row bad attitude day...thd warnings he had been given had not made him behave so he was told he had a good spanking coming to him,but as we had his cousins at ours last night we delayed it til this morning...he went to bed early but at ten to eleven last night he came down...
    mukydaz mukydaz 46-50, M 10 Responses Jul 11

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    Well 3 days after is a new record

    for the step daughter. The daughter, who is 14 and is actually my step daughter earned herself another spanking today. This time for disobeying a major issue about talking to someone in text that she was told to not talk to on Facebook. This person who she sees at her camp...
    warlords1973 warlords1973 41-45, M 8 Responses Jul 3

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    Dont Judge

    My names Jennifer. I have 4 children. 1, 3, 6 and 7... ALL boys!!! My husband and I do spank our children. Not a lot, at all. We use it as a last resort, and much rather would ground them or take something away. Sometimes, a spanking is just necessary. I have been called a bad...
    JennMomof4 JennMomof4 31-35, F 31 Responses Jun 19, 2013

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    attention parents of central Florida If you

    need a disciplinarian for your kids msg me
    mistreszmayhem mistreszmayhem 18-21, F Apr 5

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    As a single mother of 5,

    I have to keep order in my house. So if you have to be told something more then once, chances are you will be out over my knee or sitting in timeout. This coming about after my youngest girls (8 and 9) were getting ready for a bath, and I told them not to make a mess, which of...
    tiffyof6andtwins tiffyof6andtwins 41-45, F 9 Responses Aug 6, 2014

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    I'm not a parent yet But

    when I'm one I'm going to discipline them strictly but with love
    flowerpie flowerpie 13-15, F 12 Responses Jul 16, 2014

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    Over The Knee

    I have 2 boys & 2 girls i discipline my kids by spanking.I am very strict & i won't tolerate bad behaviour from my kids in any way,if they're told to do something they're only told once,any more results in a spanking.if they fight they get spanked,if they're horrible to other...
    steveslittlehelper steveslittlehelper 36-40, F 19 Responses Jun 28, 2011

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    Last week my kids were all in bed

    when I heard laughing from one of the bedrooms, I suspected the twins but I wasn't sure and as their room is at the end of the corridor I checked the others rooms first, it wasn't Freddy, it wasn't Ava, so I knew it was the twins, i walked really quietly to their room, I opened...
    KirstyAJohnson KirstyAJohnson 31-35, F 8 Responses Apr 16, 2014

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    It has been a very trying day

    for this mommy. My 11 yr old has had a sassy attitude since this morning, and has found herself standing in the corner twice as a result, my 7 yr old daughter has a case of the grumps, which has also resulted in standing in the corner, and a nap as well, and one of my 9 yr old...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jun 21

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    When my children do not obey me,

    I certainly discipline my children in many ways. I either spank them over my knee, take away certain things, or even ground them. I see nothing wrong disciplining children. I know they understand I am trying to teach them the values between good and evil.
    momworkingout momworkingout 36-40, F 4 Responses Jun 16, 2014

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    Well step daughter did not make it

    as far as she normally does between spankings, her last spanking was Nov 21, and she got another one last night. She has this habit of not remembering to check her folder and desk area at school to make sure she has all of her homework assignments packed up. She had a make up...
    warlords1973 warlords1973 41-45, M 8 Responses Dec 5, 2014

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    My son is 16 but that doesn't stop me from

    putting him in his place, and I'm not afraid to either.
    SarahMom1978 SarahMom1978 36-40, F 12 Responses Sep 5, 2014

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    lisarowell420 lisarowell420 22-25, F 8 Responses Jul 6, 2014

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    rowelllisa72 rowelllisa72 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    True Discipline

    We have always used a firm hand theroy of discipline. Training children on how they are to behave is not something that is done overnight or something that can be done using "time out". When a child knows the rules and clearly disobeys them there is nothing wrong with using a...
    jointhecorner jointhecorner 36-40, F 14 Responses Aug 20, 2011

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    Hi my name is Kellie i'm 32,

    married & i have 3 kids. Elizabeth is 6, Nathan is 5 & Cathryn is 4. My husband works away during the week so i'm at home on my own looking after the kids,they're very close in age which can be a blessing or not! Most of the time my kids are good kids,but sometimes they can be...
    foreverinblue foreverinblue 31-35, F 12 Responses Mar 9, 2014

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    The ever repeating didn't clean room spanking

    happened today. She had not cleaned her room at all yesterday after camp and had clothes all over the place from her weekend trip to Great Wolf Lodge, so today when she got home from camp she spent a good 15 minutes sitting bare butt in a wicker chair then got her butt paddled...
    warlords1973 warlords1973 41-45, M 4 Responses Jun 30

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    So today I had to spank my 5 year old daughter

    Kaylee so this is what happed. The whole family were going shopping today. so we were at the grocery store and one of the triplets were having their tantrums so I told my Mike Sr (my husband) to go take them for a walk so he went of with the triplets Mike Jr and Josh. I stayed...
    kelly147 kelly147 26-30, F 8 Responses Mar 14

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    I think it is necessary

    for children to grow up knowing boundaries. When they enter the adult world, they will be more prepared for the realites. I do not like to see children running wild and even telling their parents what they want and demanding this and that. If my children acted like that I would...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Aug 19, 2014

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    im a father of 7 kids all disciplined growing

    up. if any moms need help with discipline and want to chat with a experianced disciplinarian then please add me and well chay.
    spankyouhard spankyouhard 56-60, M 4 Responses Jul 1

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    Lucy and Layla are one in 3 weeks yay any way

    they were being "ninjas" and they attacked Jessie Jessie started crying I ran in they were in the corner very quick and so I called Lucy up put her over my knee and gave her like 3 light slaps on her nappy and then did the same to Layla and after they were sat by the changing...
    Katieloveskitty Katieloveskitty 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    The Wooden Spoon

    We disciplined our son and daughter with a very good implement, the humble kitchen wooden spoon.We found it a very effective implement in giving a good sting yet not causing damage like a cane, for example. We ended the CP around puberty, and now I often wonder if we should have...
    reggiefane reggiefane 56-60, M 45 Responses Dec 31, 2011

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    Holiday Spanking

    With the approach of Christmas, I thought I would share one of the rare Christmas spankings I've had to give to one of my children. Before I start, I know some may not agree, but I've always treated holidays as any other day in regards to expectations of behavior. They may get a...
    Sarah1966 Sarah1966 46-50, F 20 Responses Dec 23, 2012

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    Our twin girls are 7 year old now

    and yesterday it was time for their bottoms to have a long talk with some switches. They asked to be allowed to play in our back yard and my wife told them they could. All was good for quite a long time but then they decided to play hide-and-seek but not only in ours but our...
    husbandanddad husbandanddad 36-40, M 2 Responses Jun 24

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    With my middle 3 kids at church camp

    and my oldest no longer living at home. My youngest has been enjoying being the only child at home for once. She was really doing well had gone nearly a week without misbehaving. yesterday we spent most the morning running errands and when we got to the last one the grocery...
    southernlady38 southernlady38 26-30, F 7 Responses Jun 24

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    My three boys are normally quiet well behaved

    but when they need to be disciplined they are, but even though sometimes I spank them it's done with love and never harshly.
    wackygramps wackygramps 41-45, M 6 Responses Jun 10

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    hello, I am a mom of a son 7

    and daughter 10, I discipline with spanking, would love to talk to other parents
    katemomoftwo katemomoftwo 36-40, F 17 Responses Feb 10, 2014

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    I know that I have not discussed it here

    but I am now in a loving relationship with an older man. I still have my own apartment but I stay over at his house more often than not. He has a 9 year old daughter and I have grown fond of her. Despite my fondness for her and her father as well as my knowing that she really...
    teresasimpson teresasimpson 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8

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    My parents discipline me.

    Dad promised me one for tomorrow, cos I didnt do my chores and was mouthing twice this week. I don't even remember when I was mouthy.
    erik2000erik200 erik2000erik200 13-15, M 4 Responses Jul 18

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    Believe you me, with two teenage boys at home (

    14 and 16), You have to exercise strict discipline if you're going to have any order in your home. I was raised by parents who did not hesitate to" give us the belt" and I have always used that same practice to keep my children respectful and well behaved. This allows us to...
    TheRiverRose TheRiverRose 36-40, F 10 Responses May 17

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