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I Discipline My Husband

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 432 People

    Paddling Him On The Installment Plan

    Just last night, I completed my husband's latest punishment in response to his irresponsible use of our household funds. He thinks of himself as a poker stud, a player with a cool game and a poker face to match. The truth is, he loses far more often than not and his so-called...
    Golddiggergal Golddiggergal 36-40, F 37 Responses Jul 26, 2010

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    Wives: How To Spank Your Husband

    Cathy Benson has written a very good guide. This guide is from a male perspective. I was spanked by a flat-mate a time ago, and she got some things very right, and others a bit wrong. This is how I think it works, as someone on the receiving end. Adult consensual only! 1) Many...
    hml14a hml14a 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 2, 2011

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    I Am The One Who Gets Spanked

    My wife has been spanking me since I ask her in 2009. I felt I had done some things that made her angry and sad and I felt I was acting like a 12 year old sometimes. So what should happen to a 12 year old when he misbehaves? Get a spanking and that is what she does to me and I am...
    naughtyDen naughtyDen 56-60, M 1 Response Nov 30, 2012

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    Why Did He Forget?

    Melanie took the cane from the cupboard and flexed it gently between her hands. She loved the feel of it, the look of it, its potency even when at rest. She cut the air with it as if experimentally, enjoying the hissing sound it made. It spoke to her senses and the felt the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 21, 2013

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    Wife Punishes With Belt

    Yesterday morning I was in the shower when my wife came into the shower room, opened the cuble door and demanded I followed her into the bedroom. As soon as I walked into the room naked she tore me off a ***** for not paying a mail order bill which she had told me to pay and...
    slave2u62 slave2u62 46-50, M 11 Responses May 16, 2012

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    Disciplinary Records

    I recently wrote about how my wife thrashed me with a belt and followed up with a warning/promise that there would be more to come. This after several years of not wishing to recognise my need for discipline which I tried unsuccessfully to suppress. When she returned from work...
    slave2u62 slave2u62 46-50, M 5 Responses May 28, 2012

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    Paddled And Humbled

    So my previous stories had somewhat of a cocky theme. No longer the case. I drove home hammered the other night, actually scared myself. The next night my wife grabbed me by the ear, and marched me while scolding into the master bathroom. She yanked down my jeans and boxers and...
    broker12 broker12 31-35 2 Responses Nov 8, 2013

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    My Wife Orderd Me To Prepare Switches Yesterday

    Last weekend i had to take down a hedge that had grown out of control despite constant pruning and even attempts to cut it down to the ground that did not stop its wild growth. This hedge produces extremely long swithes 6-7 ft in length that are nearly perfectly straight. Before...
    kent1973 kent1973 56-60, M 2 Responses Oct 18, 2013

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    Harsh Discipline

    My wife believes in immediate and harsh discipline. One of her rules is that I am allowed no more than two hours of television a night, less if I’ve done something wrong. A couple of weeks ago I began to watch the basketball game. I have been restricted to no more than 75...
    grey44 grey44 41-45, M May 1, 2012

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    Advice

    We have started into discipline with a paddle but I my wife hasn't been very serious only about 6-7 whacks. I am looking for a wife that provides real discipline nothing sexual. Someone that demands chores be done, demands respect, provides regular discipline sessions, corner...
    rexalan rexalan 61-65, M 3 Responses Jul 16, 2013

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    ******* Morning

    My husband used to be my toilethuman On the morning when I am angry at him
    Blackrose1234 Blackrose1234 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 5, 2012

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    My Blistering Was On Her "To Do List"

    My Linda is very methodical and is constantly making lists, planning hers and my day .We got into it..... really bad on the way home from the lake. She was livid because on three occasions at the pool, I told some tales ....out of school …….regarding our personal life to...
    disgraziato disgraziato 66-70, M Jun 20, 2013

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    Upcoming Spanking

    A few days ago, I sat with my husband and we planned the menus for the week and mad out a grocery list. My husband does the shopping most of the time and he does all of the cooking, he enjoys it, so it works for us. I took the time to plan for shopping and this morning he goes...
    MsDommee MsDommee 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 29, 2013

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    Slipbottom Son In Law

    As some of you may have realised MrsNessa and slipbottom are related and allow relatives to share their experiences, a fact known to certain friends. Due to a misdeamenour my wife, slipbottom's daughter, has insisted I relate my first punishment at slipbottom's hands, very...
    slipbottom slipbottom 46-50, F 2 Responses Apr 18, 2012

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    How I Began To Discipline My Husband.

    Before we were married I knew that my fiance was mild and very self efacing to the point that he let me get away with almost anything. I, of course put this down to the fact that he was so in love with me that he would do anything for me and this was and still is true. I also...
    femdomgirl femdomgirl 41-45, F 5 Responses Jan 5, 2013

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    Humiliating Punishment By My Wife

    I was subject to humiliating punishment by my wife for talking rudely to her in front of few of our friends. I was sent to a barber shop with strict instructions to get my head shaved smooth.After I returned back with a smooth shaved head,she wrote "Punished by my wife with a...
    mwmb mwmb 36-40, M Oct 1, 2012

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    I Am Going To Paddle My Hubby Tonight

    I told my husband last night that I would paddle him tonight because he needs an attitude adjustment. When I came home from work yesterday, the kitchen was dirty and supper was not ready. Later in the evening, he was a little mouthy and even raised his voice. It was clear he...
    BethHamilton BethHamilton 26-30, F 15 Responses Oct 28, 2010

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    Rachel Disciplines Her Boyfriend

    Rachel had been woken from sleep when the telephone rang just after Midnight. It was Jon, a close friend of her boyfriend Carl. “I’m sorry to wake you… but Carl has had a lot to drink and I took his car keys to keep him from driving, I would have brought him home but I’m...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 20, 2013

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    My Journey As A Disciplined Husband

    I've been married for 28 years now, my wife started spanking me when we were dating but it was always done in foreplay. It had been that way pretty much for 20 odd years, then one day I said to her you should spank for disciplinary reasons not just as foreplay. Our kids had all...
    smoked59 smoked59 46-50, M 12 Responses Mar 27, 2012

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    Target Practice

    My wife has me bend over in the nude and then  uses her lipstick to create a taget/like  image on my bottom.She then administers furocious swats to my behind usng a fraternity like paddle.  She continuesthis,.....  until her arm is tired  and then checks to see if the...
    disgraziato disgraziato 66-70, M 2 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    Dannie Is Currently Under Punishment

    Dannie has been given a virtual manual of rules she is required to follow as my Sissy Slave that include detailed, varied, and quite humiliating punishments for breaking those rules. Well, yesterday afternoon I emailed her because we had something out of the ordinary we needed...
    RoxannaDW RoxannaDW 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 5, 2013

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    No Nonsense

    When I first met my husband his mother warned me that although he was a decent bloke he could sometimes be impulsive and needed discipline to bring him under control but she had not been physically able to do so since he was about thirteen. When I raised the subject with him and...
    slipbottom slipbottom 46-50, F 7 Responses Nov 26, 2011

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    Wives: How To Spank Your Hisband 101

    First, you must be determined that you are going to follow through with the discipline. No wife ever gets it right the first time. But, it will be a first time for your husband as well, so don't worry about that. It is extremely essential to remain totally feminine throughout...
    CathyBenson CathyBenson 46-50, F 47 Responses Dec 10, 2010

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    This was a club I never expected to be a member

    of. We've been married 25 years and as long as I can remember my wife has teased, "I'll pull your pants down and spank you so hard." About two weeks ago she administered my first of several spankings. After several weeks of trying to diet I have failed to lose my promised...
    drrandy drrandy 51-55 2 Responses Jan 25

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    Last Night

    My girlfriend spanked me last night. Hard. It was totally undeserved and she said as much. We were watching television when she remarked that she was bored, and that there was nothing worth watching. I agreed. Then she said “I think I want to spank you.” “Why?” I retorted...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 24, 2013

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    Trouble Brewing

    Today has been a really bad day! I had to leave really early for my work , and I woke up about 6am, much earlier than necessary, and feeling stupidly horny for no reason I can understand. I shook hubby to wake him, so that he could bring me off with his tongue, after all, what...
    pampereddiva pampereddiva 41-45, F 4 Responses Feb 10, 2012

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    How The Reality Of Being Spanked By My Wife Differs From Fantasy

    It's funny, but when I only used to fantasize about being "disciplined" by my wife, I always got turned on imagining long, severe spankings. Now that my wife spanks me for real, I have discovered that I don't have a high tolerlance for pain. The most common reason for spankings...
    darryl32 darryl32 51-55, M Jun 1, 2013

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    Maybe..Just Maybe!

    Since my "Advice Please!" contribution to this group I have received some useful advice which I have taken on board. But last weekend an incident occurred which was really unexpected but so encouraging. It occurred on Saturday evening after we had eaten a meal. My wife is an...
    slave2u62 slave2u62 46-50, M 2 Responses Sep 27, 2011

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    The Cane In The Loft

    The first time Joanne spanked me was shortly after we had begun sleeping together. We were in bed arguing about something and she pulled me by the hand over her lap while she giggled excitedly. She spanked me with her hand, softly at first and then harder and harder, even though...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 12, 2013

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    If Your Husband Is Ever Rude Or Impolite.. .spank Him!

      Dear Loving Wife: If you have a happy marriage, but sometimes your husband is out of line, is too quiet or just ignores you,  what do you do about it? Most wives elect to do nothing, and hope it gets better, but the problems or issues never really get resolved...
    CathyBenson CathyBenson 46-50, F 7 Responses Dec 9, 2010

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    Part 2--i Paddle Him!

    I wanted to follow up on my last post. When I got home, hubby was waiting for me just as I ordered--in our bedroom. I am not one to mess around. I immediately sat him down on a little seat we have in the bedroom and I took his hand in mine and looked him right in the eye. "I...
    BethHamilton BethHamilton 26-30, F 8 Responses Nov 8, 2010

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    Caned For Breaking A Promise

    As my wife has become more comfortable with the concept of a disciplinary relationship, she has become equally comfortable with using corporal punishment to enforce her rules. From slapping the backs of my legs she progressed to a hairbrush, a wooden spoon, and then a belt. She...
    slave2u62 slave2u62 46-50, M 3 Responses Jun 25, 2012

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    First "formal" Punishment

    I had one hell of a thrashing yesterday. My wife came in from work in a really bad mood. She produced one of her new disciplinary forms and told me to read and sign it. It seemed that I had caused some embarrassment and friction amongst her friends by talking to one of her...
    slave2u62 slave2u62 46-50, M Jun 1, 2012

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    I Must Stop Being Lazy

    I am still sporting many of the marks from a thrashing which I received nearly two weeks ago when my wife's cane split and drew blood. They have faded but are still recogniseable. Two days ago, on Sunday evening, I was watching football on the tv when my wife called me. She had...
    slave2u62 slave2u62 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 3, 2012

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    Punished For Not Being Polite

    I was instructed by my wife to share this. My wife often enjoys proving that she wears the pants in our house by creatively humiliating me in public. While leaving a happy hour last week I made the mistake of not holding the door for a group of five young women who were behind us...
    MaidToCurtsey MaidToCurtsey 56-60, M 2 Responses Sep 20, 2012

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    There Are Many Ways To Discipline!

    I have served many dominant women who have used various methods of discipline. If a woman truly believes in female domination and female superiority than she has no problem in using her man in any way she deems necessary to bring him under her domination. I would like to share a...
    magic7 magic7 56-60, M 3 Responses Jul 10, 2012

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    Mind Games?

    When, a few days ago, my wife told me I was to be "dealt with" for wearing shoes in the house and treading pine needles into the rugs, I was anticipating another caning or strapping. On my way home I received a text from her saying she would be about half an hour late from work...
    slave2u62 slave2u62 46-50, M 3 Responses Jul 6, 2012

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    Husband Spanked

    Usually it goes well with my husband. He is feminized by me. But sometimes his mind goes back to male. So I take care of her buttocks. My hand first, then the belt, and finally the cane. I do not often use a cane. He accepts himself more or less be a woman. But sometimes he...
    catherinembs catherinembs 46-50, F 14 Responses Oct 6, 2010

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    All Husbands Need Regular Discipline

    I discovered discipline and punishment fairly slowly. My husband is a wonderful man, who worships me and takes care of me in a very loving and sincere way. It was after he had been wearing a chastity cage for a few weeks, that he rebelled. I'd been warned that it might happen, so...
    pampereddiva pampereddiva 41-45, F 9 Responses Apr 15, 2013

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    I am a husband, regularly

    and often disciplined by my wife.I knew it would be thus going into the marriage....heck, she proposed to me at a spanking party, shortly after turning my bottom a bright red.I chronicle my life, with her and otherwise, on my blog, on blogger, so I won't be repeating much here.
    maleslaveShilo maleslaveShilo 56-60, M Mar 25

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    Related Experiences

    About a year ago my husband had an emotional affair saw the woman on a few occasions and texted her frequently until he was caught. My daughter and I frequent a store here usually...
    saltyorsweet saltyorsweet 31-35, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Children needs to be disciplined, no matter the age or gender. That is how me and my sisters and my brother were raised - I was born in a underclass household in the early 70's...
    MaryKoviski MaryKoviski 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    I think strict discipline is essential for girls/women. I believe in enforcing discipline with hard over the knee spankings !
    spanker30 spanker30 26-30, M 6 Responses a week ago

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    So. I wanted to update on how fabulous my husband is getting at all of this. It all started with hand spanking... and let me tell you, we've come a far way! This month marks a...
    Tihtil Tihtil 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 24

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    My husband spanks me when I deserve it. But I'm the one who asked to start this, and I really feel like it makes me a better person, and that it has made our marriage that much...
    Srkelly89 Srkelly89 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I think all girls should be disciplined daily! I crave a strong man to own me and set upon me his rules and if I stray from the guidelines he has set me I should be punished in...
    littlesubmissive littlesubmissive 18-21, F 30 Responses Mar 23

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    i am more disciplined physically than i am organised i control my body efficiently and never go half-hearted
    Hemanwar Hemanwar 18-21, M Mar 23

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    I am a married dad of three. My sons are 14 and 11, my daughter is 13. All are still disciplined by spanking though it is infrequent for the elder two.
    jayman83 jayman83 46-50, M 4 Responses Mar 24

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    I think there should be petticoat discipline. I think that because I love dressing like a girl. If I got punished I would love to have my punishment being a baby girl.
    Sarahismygirlname Sarahismygirlname 13-15, T Mar 30

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    Can a submissive surrender to her dom without the threat of spanking or other discipline?
    MrsHarley MrsHarley 26-30, F 6 Responses Apr 1

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    I wish I could discipline other people
    StellaNoir StellaNoir 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    For The Love of Sage- All troubles in my 17 year marriage begin with a little girl called Sage. She is the mixed race child my husband fathered during his 1st year in America...
    FromBehindTheIronCurtain FromBehindTheIronCurtain 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 29

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    We met because I started working at a university in a new city and he was my supervisor. After two weeks there we slept together and I became pregnant with twins. When I told him...
    valkyriebird valkyriebird 36-40 Apr 3

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    My husband has been battling depression for our entire 10-year relationship. It's become a third member of our marriage; a wedge pushing us apart. And I don't know what to do. I...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 24

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