I Dislike Being Pinned Down Or Controlled

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    Tbh, who would like being pinned down

    or controlled? Everyone wants freedom. I can handle myself. I can handle myself with someone by my side, but I don't need to be controlled. Course, I don't like controlling others either, just seems awkward. *cringe* I think it's funny when people try to control people who just...
    CutiePie199 CutiePie199
    22-25, F
    Jun 3, 2014

    Marriage Has Me Pinned Down

    Yes, that's the way I feel about my marriage -- pinned down.  I realize, too, that it has to do more with my partner than marriage itself.  Why do some people feel a need to pin down others or control?  Because they are insecure or seek the upper hand, that's what...
    think2much think2much
    46-50, M
    1 Response May 4, 2008

    I Loathe Being Pinned Down....

    I loathe being pinned down.  I very much enjoy making my own rules.  I live by my own life.  I've been controlled far too long, by far too many other people.  I'm totally accepting of watching what someone else wants to watch on television, for in general I...
    calgarianqt calgarianqt
    26-30, F
    Apr 14, 2008

    I Hate Being Told What to D...

    I hate being told what to do, where to go, what to look like, who I can talk to. Its my life, not everyone elses.
    turtlemusic28 turtlemusic28
    26-30, F
    Apr 14, 2008


    I don't mind being guided through things, someone leading and I will follow.  I am independent though.  I do have my own mind, my own thoughts, my own opinions. I was never meant to lead the crowd.  I don't belong at the back of the pack either.  I belong somewhere in the...
    Lucidblue Lucidblue
    36-40, F
    1 Response Apr 17, 2011

    My Husband Is the Posterchild For Mental Abuse .

     and because of him i wont put up with it ..  hmm i did a post a lil bit ago that was about i cant keep a man to long .. and i was just thinking about this exp. and that exp go hand in hand . I tend to have a no tolerance approach to relationships .. if one thing wrong...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 24, 2007

    In Terms of

    While I am submissive and do like this very much in the literal sense, and have great joy in being pinned down in that way and controlled I dislike emotional pinning-down, in that not being encouraged to grow as an individual.  I dislike my tastes and desires being...
    deleted deleted
    Oct 31, 2008

    My Last 2 Relationships Wer...

    My last 2 relationships were very controlling and abusive, and i vowed I would never let that happen again, plus I'm a little on the rebellious side, so I hate it in general when someone trys to control me.
    keyna keyna
    36-40, F
    Apr 14, 2008

    Feel Im Being Controlled

    I know what Im doing.& where Im headed so, since you people would need need to look up wikipedia to find the word compromise, I continue on & leave the controllers & manipulators to  their dishonest behaviour.
    amharvey amharvey
    46-50, M
    Oct 22, 2010

    Weakness Causes Tragedy

    The madness started about 10 years ago when I began an Internet relationship with someone while I was living with my girlfriend. As a 23 year old guy it was a recipe for disaster and one thing led to another. Subsequently I broke up with my girlfriend then I moved out on my own...
    Alcopop Alcopop
    31-35, M
    Feb 15, 2010
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