I Dislike Limp Hand Shakes

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 478 People

    You Never Know When to Stop..

    sometimes the other one's pretty much directing the hand shake and it's like "up-down-up-down" but if it's a limp hand shake it's like "up-down-up-down-up-down..." and you never know when to stop because the other one doesn't change the intensity and so you...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 3, 2008

    I Prefer Them to Be Firm

    The only piece of handshake etiquette I struggle with is how long to hold on.  Otherwise, my shake is always firm & I wish to have that in return.  That's how I learned!
    debmichelle debmichelle
    36-40
    3 Responses May 21, 2008

    I Expect a Nice Firm Grip

    All of us out there have shaken a lot of hands, but one thing I don't like is a limp hand shake because I am a man and not a girl. I try not to shake people's hands because of germs, so I wait for people to shake my hand, and when people go to shake ...
    tampabaybucsfan tampabaybucsfan
    22-25, M
    Aug 21, 2009

    Untrustworthy...

    I absolutely, cannot trust a person with a limp handshake! It is so disrespectful in my opinion.. . . . almost as if you don't want to touch me. And that person can come off as weak and vigorless.
    LivingInMyDreams LivingInMyDreams
    26-30, F
    Dec 30, 2010

    Limp Handshakes Are A Passive Aggressive Superiority Complex.

    These types have never been educated in "Etiquette 101"..Next time some put up a limp hand, I'm just going to stare at it and then ask them, where you raised by a King and Queen?...This is how you shake! Bam, see! Easy! Nice to meet you!
    Marcus2013 Marcus2013
    31-35
    1 Response Oct 13, 2012

    Keep Your Hands In Your Pockets

    Unless there is some type of deformity or disability people should put forth a substantial handshake.  No muscle ripping, bone crunching is necessary.  It can be done properly and remain ladylike.  (I've heard, "Oh, a strong handshake is not ladylike."...
    aftermath aftermath
    61-65, F
    1 Response Feb 8, 2009

    Ew!

    yuck! the limp handshake is so creepy! it reminds me of child molesters, somehow. i don't know why. another type of hand contact i don't like is when people (especially creepier when it's men, somehow) have unnaturally soft hands. i used to get some of those when ...
    journeyfulloflaughter journeyfulloflaughter
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Dec 31, 2007

    They Are the Worst

    I shake a lot of hands.  Most people shake like the mean it.  Others...forget it.  It's amazing the vibe you can get from people by their handshake. I met someone recently who just stuck their hand out & let you shake it.  They didn't grasp your hand or...
    darlene darlene
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Jan 1, 2008

    Urrghhh,

    nasty!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 24, 2014

    Limp Hand Shakes Are Aweful

    It feels so disgusting to get a limp handshake from someone. It's like grabbing a soft sack of flesh with bones in it. I've never made any sort of association with a limp handshake and someone's character or personality, though. When I first met who is now one of my closest...
    MoonRabbit MoonRabbit
    18-21, M
    Dec 14, 2011

    You can a lot from a person from their hand

    shake. Typically the etiquette is to meet the other person's hand with equal force.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jun 30, 2015

    Communicates Volumes

    What is in a hand shake?  A strong firm hand shake says hello this is who I am, I am pleased to meet your acquaintance, I value you, I care what you think and I am confident in myself.  The other part of this equation that can not be neglected is to look the person...
    JacquesPierre JacquesPierre
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Mar 17, 2008

    Especially From a Guy

    I met this one guy at this "Model Congress" thing that I did in high school. Shaking his hand was like shaking a dead fish- cold and limp. He shook hands like a delicate princess. Weak handshakes are pathetic.
    tqoftu tqoftu
    22-25, F
    Jan 2, 2008

    And Clammy Ones

    Working with all guys and dealing with GM's and VP's you have to be aggressive... especially in a business that's mostly men. I know how to give a proper handshake... not too soft and girly but not "OMG IT HURTS" either. There is a happy middle and I often find that the...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality
    36-40, F
    Jan 31, 2008

    Dudes Always Trip Out

    Seeing this group made me laugh. I believe in having a firm handshake. It shows confidence and strength. It cracks me up when I'm meeting a guy and he shakes my hand like a *****. I always wonder, is it cause I'm a girl & they think I'm going to be delicate, or are they trying...
    bdmthrfkr bdmthrfkr
    36-40, F
    May 11, 2012

    A Woman's Handshake Should Be Strong.

    As a woman living in a country that doesn't have a tradition of women shaking hands, I always offer my hand to both men and women when I meet someone new.  Straight away it shows the other person that I am strong and honest - but when a man offers me a palid, limp handshake...
    Tinky Tinky
    36-40
    1 Response Jan 1, 2008

    I Don't Get It

    When you go to shake someones hand it's kind of disgusting when it feels like someone just dropped a lump of soft bread dough in my palm. Tighten up that grip a little, seriously!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 16, 2011

    Don't Trust a Limp Handshake

    Handshaking is thought to have originated in England as a method of greeting and a way to ensure that the other party had no weapons concealed up their sleeve. I really dislike a limp handshake, it gives me the feeling that the person is insincere and/or hiding something. The...
    zillaron zillaron
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Jul 2, 2009

    No Second Chances

    If you can’t shake my hand firmly and like you mean it don’t bother.  I hate when people’s hands are either clammy, sweaty or the person can’t grip my hand firmly.  Esepcially if you are male you better shake my hand like you mean it or you won...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    4 Responses May 12, 2008

    Limp Shake

    I hate limp hand shakes. If I've just been introduced to someone and they give me a limp handshake, it says to me, "I really don't care to know who you are". And if I've just discussed an issue with someone, and we're finalizing an agreement, a limp shake says, "I...
    CagedRaven CagedRaven
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Jun 24, 2009

    Am I Wrong?

    I rather enjoy watching men wince when I shake their hands. I get complaints about my handshake quite regularly. Does that make me a bad person? Note: If you're a dude and you complain about my handshake, you are telling me that you're a big baby. That's for letting me know...
    NoLongerHere NoLongerHere
    41-45, M
    2 Responses May 16, 2012

    Applies to fellow man not women.

    Just something wrong with a weak handshake from a man. I feel the opposite of handsake with women
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 9

    Limp Handshakes

    I like a good firm hand shake. Whimpy just doesn't cut it.
    bobbysgirl398 bobbysgirl398
    51-55, F
    Aug 28, 2010

    It's a sign of weakness.

    I always tell my niece to shake my hand like a woman! Lol
    BrittBratz BrittBratz
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jan 16

    Crush Me Good.

    You should shake hands with my brother-lol  Its like grabbing a fish....yuck. I told him once he needs to learn how to shake hands like a man. He has no idea. If you are going to shake my hand and are a man, you'd better give it a good crush. I always give a woman a good...
    bassplayer bassplayer
    46-50, M
    18 Responses Jun 1, 2008

    You Might As Well Tell Me You Are Worthless To Me In Every Regard.

    It is so insulting. It's difficult to fathom how a person can do this repeatedly to people and not get punched. I'm not old-fashioned and I don't like being touchy touchy but if you are going to shake someone's hand, just do it and don't act like a callous wimp because it...
    amethystascension amethystascension
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 15, 2011

    Hand Shakes

    When I shake hands, I like a firm hand shakes.  For me a firm hand shakes means business.  A limp hand shakes is p*ssies style.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Oct 8, 2010

    Nothing Annoys Me More

    Some people just throw it out there, like their hand's a dead slab of flesh. It's kind of creepy. And wtf am I supposed to do with that? Perhaps they expect me to get down on one knee and press my lips to it? I don't generally initiate handshakes unless I'm going for a job or...
    kikis2 kikis2
    22-25, F
    May 18, 2012

    Weak, Prissy

    I do not like my brother's girlfriend. Neither do I dislike her, I just don't like being around her, and it is all because of a handshake. The first time she introduced herself to me, I went to shake her hand and she held it out like she was some sort of freaking princess...
    eyes eyes
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jan 1, 2008

    BONE Crusher

    i had to join this group to share this story. Many years ago i was at a friends house one of my best friends who i have grown up with. He is a singer and he had a new manager anyway i was introduced to this man and he offered his hand as a friendly gesture i put out my hand and...
    thehippy thehippy
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jun 21, 2009

    Were You Not Taught How

    A firm hand shake is a wonderful thing.  It can tell a person a lot about you; expecially for a woman.  When you can give a firm hand shake you give yourslef more confidence and show others your confidence.  Most women are not taught how to give a good hand shake...
    Grits4life Grits4life
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Sep 15, 2008

    You Can Tell a Lot By a Handshake!

    you reach over to give them a hand shake and what do they give you? a floppy fish. what the hell does that say about a person huh?! * eww i dont know what your personal hygiene is like, im gonna hold onto as little of you as possible * im a lifeless corpse * i actually have...
    JulySunSoul JulySunSoul
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jun 22, 2009

    Eww

    Limp handshakes just feel gross to me. I don't know, but it feels all unnatural and so not cool. It feels like you're shaking the hand of a dead body, not a living person. And who wants to do that?
    JonFurniss JonFurniss
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jun 17, 2008

    Shake My Hand, You Flake

    I don't even care if your hand is sweaty, wet, dry, calloused, greasy, oily, disfigured, bloody, but if you offer it to shake, damnit I expect a SHAKE!!!  Not a finger or a light little nothing--SHAKE MY HAND!!!!  I want some strength, let me know you're...
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech
    22-25, F
    7 Responses May 2, 2009

    There is something so weak about a limp hand

    shake. My grandfather told me when I was very young, to grip a person's hand when they extend it, and shake it in return. You certainly don't have to accept a person's extended hand, but if you choose to, don't be half *** about it. When I shake a hand firmer then a grown...
    rottenrobi rottenrobi
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Apr 8

    Actually, I Hate Them

    I always make an effort to give new people I meet a very friendly, warm impression with a firm hand shake and a big smile. I absolutely hate it when it feels as if I'm shaking a dead fish instead of somebody's hand. It gives me the impression that they think I am beneath them or...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Mar 28, 2009
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Mar 9
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