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I Dislike Overly Competitive People

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    Is Competition Linked To Personal Unresolved Issues?

    The reason why I am writing in here is that after almost two years of nightmare, I cannot figure out if I'm a competitive person myself or I've been a victim of unfair play created by a highly competitive person. Like all people I have been jealous about petty things, but...
    TinaLeMar TinaLeMar 26-30 Aug 16, 2011

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    Competitive

    I have a hard time with competitive people.  I personally believe being competitive is poor self-esteem.  When I say competitive, I mean when someone tries to beat you at everything thinking s/he is the best or better OR if you have something, they need buying the same thing...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Aug 17, 2011

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    Hippy Banters

    I think it is safe to say that confidence is widely considered an attractive attribute. There is something comforting and reassuring about someone who is confident but there is a point where they start toying with the Dark side. I have no problem with confident people, I even...
    Linxer Linxer 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 29, 2010

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    i cant stand all the overly sexual things that are posted here. some of us get sickened from reading your disgusting sexual fantasies. if you want sex so damn much then you should...
    psychedeliica psychedeliica 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 27, 2014

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    I really dislike it when people call me by my first name when it's clear that I go by my middle name. And I also have a friend who goes by a double-name but everyone calls her...
    Audrina14 Audrina14 13-15, F Jan 5

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    I'm a very competitive person and it's not an overly good trait in my opinion, a little competition is fine but I've pushed that. Anything I do I feel like I can to do it better...
    TallyO TallyO 13-15, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    At about 24 I found a welfare shop that had the most exciting retro garments to look through, There were wigs and corsetry in super condition but best of all the 30's something...
    Lin79 Lin79 31-35, T 2 hrs ago

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    People who try to do right are always wronged.. there are so few of them and so many bastards out there.
    FoxieRoxa FoxieRoxa 18-21, F 15 hrs ago

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    Kids make me anxious, mainly because I have anxiety, mixed with deep depression. I have had this since I was in my mid teens. I never had a good friend and only one at a time who...
    psychologicallydamaged psychologicallydamaged 41-45, F 5 days ago

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    Seriously, people?? I mean, I dislike some of his policies and don't always agree with him, but he's the President, can we try RESPECTING him?? You know, seeing as he was elected...
    Boulier Boulier 18-21, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    I dislike when people talk to me like I'm dumb. Why can't people think before they speak? Why do people feel the need to know everything? I don't care if you know everything, just...
    Berryqueen Berryqueen 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 12

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    I cant stand people who think there better than someone or to good to talk to someone, or on the other hand too quick to judge someone. Its like some of the people on here, when...
    xXSamanthaCDXx xXSamanthaCDXx 31-35, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Assam violence toll mounts to 75.The death toll in Tuesday night’s terror attacks by militants of the National Democratic Front of Boroland (Songbijit) on Adivasi villages and in...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F Dec 25, 2014

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    5 Things I like: 1) Spending time with friends and family 2) Honest People 3) Comedy 4) Cooking 5) True Crime Shows 5 Things I dislike: 1) Manipulators 2) Bigotry 3) Abuse of...
    JackMann JackMann 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    In my case, it's not really a 'new' person. I've known this girl since primary school and for some reason I've never been able to establish, she's always disliked me. I've a very...
    AliasTaylor AliasTaylor 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    It is when I find myself being negative that I dislike myself. Example, getting jealous. Jealousy or envy is such a pathetic and waste-of-energy human emotion. It eats away at your...
    mercifulpennies mercifulpennies 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    Hi. My name is Cat and I am seventeen years old. I have tried to kill myself four times and so far have not been successful. I think that people shouldn't be overly judgemental and...
    Catemily7797 Catemily7797 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    Story Time: (Warning: This is kinda long) I will not be saying anyone's names in case anyone on here goes to my school. These are wonderful people, inspiring people, and I respect...
    xCrowSong xCrowSong 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    I hate alot of people. And get mad at a lot of people
    Sadfate Sadfate 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I have spent my last year with mean people. They are not good people. They play with emotions of nice people. They are manipulative. I have wasted lots of my time and energy on...
    Somexyz Somexyz 26-30, M 5 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    I have been in one place too long. The call to move elsewhere hounds me. The place is not right for me...I finally managed to explain that to him. It is a place with very little...
    ObiOneyouremyonlyhope ObiOneyouremyonlyhope 41-45, F Dec 27, 2014

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    Even though I dislike Most people I can't help but to watch people and wonder about their lives.
    Holmesdown Holmesdown 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    People try to hang out with me because they pity me. They always ditch me last minute though, making up lame excuses. It happens too often for it to be a coincidence. In school...
    Destroya182 Destroya182 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    She holds these damn grudges. She's been hurt lots of times by people, so why is she telling those experiences to me? She tells me things that happened years ago. I don't want to...
    nondiscrim nondiscrim 18-21, F Jan 7

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    I really do care how they feel because I sometimes want people to know how I feel. The thing is without sounding really mean here it's kind of annoying where you will meet someone...
    Girlinpink0075 Girlinpink0075 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 15

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    That's my life summarized into one sentence lol. But what I dislike the most is when people try to get under my skin by trying to find out more about me. It's just a turnoff. Like...
    ShakenButNotBroken ShakenButNotBroken 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I think we spend too much time worrying about how we're perceived by others. We worry about our physical appearance. We focus on trying to change what we dislike about ourselves...
    chilldude82 chilldude82 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 25, 2014

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    one of the questions here on ep talked about how we should shame "fat people"...I'm sorry if you've never struggled with weight loss then you don't have the right to judge. stop...
    greeneyz83 greeneyz83 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    I'd like to say that I am a nice person. I don't like mean people because they bring you down and they only act mean to seem cool. Being mean is not cool.
    TimidGrl01 TimidGrl01 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    I hate it when people ask for attention and ask for people to message them but once you message them they ignore you like, dafuq?!
    brownzugar brownzugar 16-17, M 2 Responses Jan 3

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    The noise of peoples chatter, its dank of pure idiocy, a place one feels left astray without such joy, unfitted with such crowds, you feel it hard to breath... A blade of swift...
    Cooper802 Cooper802 18-21, M Jan 4

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    Sorry to make such a hateful post; I understand that this may upset some people. I felt the need to write this when I found out about Leelah Alcorn, a transgender girl who killed...
    reversi reversi 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    I don't know why, but I've always disliked fat people, not because they've done anything to me, but because they're just fat. Again I don't know why.
    DakotaMuffin DakotaMuffin 16-17, M 3 Responses Jan 9

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    We all come across them. They exist in every social grouping. Across every age range. But yeah! I dislike them!!!
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 10

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    I know we all do it, but to be so stubborn, narrow minded, & judgemental you can't see the pot calling the kettle black is stunning. Excuse me, but I need to vent. I know of...
    Stickwithmebabe Stickwithmebabe 36-40, F Jan 11

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    There is a lot of mean people on here I came on here to be myself and post things but when I do I get rude comments calling me fake ,naive and telling me I should be more...
    KatdaLes KatdaLes 13-15, T 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Well, hate is a strong word so I would say that I strongly dislike when people judge me based on the way I look. I do have social anxiety so I get anxious in crowds. I usually find...
    thunderkisses thunderkisses 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    Helping people pertained to bullying me in many occasions Thanks
    2hookers224 2hookers224 51-55, F 1 Response Dec 24, 2014

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    I went for F1 race and I saw two people making out in front of me. Eck, so awkward...
    XxFirepawsxX XxFirepawsxX 13-15, F Dec 25, 2014

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    I am the second of five sisters. We are all adults with husbands and children. Our parents, now in their seventies, are still working, blue collar, paycheck-to-paycheck kind of...
    BobbieB106 BobbieB106 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    They have so many rules and regulations and the people who have got their loved ones admitted there are expected to blindly follow them.No bending of rules allowed.I went today...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 3 Responses Jan 5

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    I hate being spoken to like a child by someone who acts like a child themselves. in my opinion a person doesnt just get to get up and make rude-like comments because they can but...
    squeaks79 squeaks79 22-25, F Jan 5

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    I am a black woman and I am just tired of negativity that goes on with black women. Growing up, I was not liked by black people. Black women have issues too. I used to be for black...
    BrownBeeCa BrownBeeCa 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 7

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    Sad how some people believe their own lies and the stories they make up in their heads... slw
    submissivelittlewoman submissivelittlewoman 41-45, F Jan 7

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    After our first meet at the mall that day Madeline and i at first did not meet up for that cup of coffee like we had panned. Her art kept her busy and my life kept me from mine...
    YohKomori YohKomori 22-25, M Jan 9

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    Some people around me would like nothing more than every one around them taking the responsabilities to save them from themselves, while being unnerved to be asked the same by...