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I Dislike Overly Competitive People

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    Is Competition Linked To Personal Unresolved Issues?

    The reason why I am writing in here is that after almost two years of nightmare, I cannot figure out if I'm a competitive person myself or I've been a victim of unfair play created by a highly competitive person. Like all people I have been jealous about petty things, but...
    TinaLeMar TinaLeMar 26-30 Aug 16, 2011

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    Competitive

    I have a hard time with competitive people.  I personally believe being competitive is poor self-esteem.  When I say competitive, I mean when someone tries to beat you at everything thinking s/he is the best or better OR if you have something, they need buying the same thing...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Aug 17, 2011

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    Hippy Banters

    I think it is safe to say that confidence is widely considered an attractive attribute. There is something comforting and reassuring about someone who is confident but there is a point where they start toying with the Dark side. I have no problem with confident people, I even...
    Linxer Linxer 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 29, 2010

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    I am so fed up with people who don't respond to my messages. It happens quite alot. I drop them a message, or respond to one they sent, then I never hear from them again. I could...
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    craigslist504 craigslist504 36-40 Aug 21

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    Anon0520 Anon0520 26-30 Aug 14

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    well, strongly dislike. but, i'm gonna be added onto this experience anyway, so whatever
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 10

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    I also hate when people add you but don't freaking message you with a hi and it is aggravating!
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    Especially a girl. She can use you for her own needs, or reject you after you do whatever she wanted. It's why I try not to be overly nice to any girl. The same applies for guys...
    StudCanadian StudCanadian 16-17, M 4 Responses Aug 8

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    I think they are all drugs and baked out of their minds. .. they scare me!
    Halysa Halysa 31-35, F Aug 7

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    positive people are only people who refuse to see the world for what it is really like and they therefore refuse to see all those who are suffering
    nannalovet113 nannalovet113 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    People like this tend to think they're untouchable and unbreakable. one day your going to suffer and see your NOT better than anyone.
    YourSuffocatingMe YourSuffocatingMe 18-21, F Aug 7

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    I can't stand people like that. just leave me alone and quit trying to make me see the world through the eyes of someone who is so perky, i want to flush them down the toilet.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F Aug 7

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    Jay259 Jay259 18-21, M Aug 7

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    life is not all unicorns and smiles. okay? i get it, you wanna be positive to help someone who is going threw something terrible. but, chances are, you'll just end up making it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 6

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    So many of the posts in this group make so much sense. Look, I'm not down on all positive people or positive thinking in general. It's the ones who use simplistic language and...
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M Aug 6