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I Dislike Overly Competitive People

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    I think it is safe to say that confidence is widely considered an attractive attribute. There is something comforting and reassuring about someone who is confident but there is a point where they start toying with the Dark side. I have no problem with confident people, I even...
    Linxer Linxer 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 29, 2010

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    Competitive

    I have a hard time with competitive people.  I personally believe being competitive is poor self-esteem.  When I say competitive, I mean when someone tries to beat you at everything thinking s/he is the best or better OR if you have something, they need buying the same thing...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Aug 17, 2011

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    Is Competition Linked To Personal Unresolved Issues?

    The reason why I am writing in here is that after almost two years of nightmare, I cannot figure out if I'm a competitive person myself or I've been a victim of unfair play created by a highly competitive person. Like all people I have been jealous about petty things, but...
    TinaLeMar TinaLeMar 26-30 Aug 16, 2011

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    I guess this is just me having a childish rant hoping to feel a bit better. I just don't feel happy with myself, people are always telling me to be like other people or complaining...
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    I write a poem and ask people not to steal and someone says "not worth stealing" rude much? Everyone thinks differently so if you don't like it then just not look at it...
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    I just hate how people judge a book by its cover. If you would see me now, you would think I look friendly, I guess. But my mom judges me based on how I act in punlic and says I do...
    Music4Us Music4Us 13-15, F 12 hrs ago

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    Work on your charisma. Charismatic people have a tendency to get what they want. How to do this: Smile constantly, have approachable body language. Make people feel special. Make...
    Lilyfire1 Lilyfire1 13-15, F 14 hrs ago

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    I can't stand people who appear perfect and, before you say it, yes, I admit it's jealousy. But how could it not be? I can't understand how some people are just born flawless...
    itsasummersong itsasummersong 16-17, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    Okay.. So the thing is about people, is we all have difference preferences, but the BAD thing about people is, we don't just leave it at that, we try to make other people like what...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 4 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    everyone wants attention even I do sometimes but some people seek it like a drug, I mean they really want ALOT of attention and will do what ever it takes to get it, which is...
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    I am very real... maybe a little TOO real at times. Sometimes I forget that moving my lips and hearing the words that escape is NOT thinking... it's actually speaking and others...
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    I've had few toxic people in my life who loved nothing more than to emotionally blackmail me.......:" if you don't do this for me , then I'll kill myself ." I am very happy that I...
    Ezmee Ezmee 36-40, F 1 day ago

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    Even a hint that you are a bully and you team up with bullies and you have been demoted from my life. Trust me there are a lot if creeps out there. They are always pompous jerks...
    QuestionMarks QuestionMarks 41-45, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    MarimbaJake MarimbaJake 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    I absolutely fake lying people fortunately for the rest off us most lying ****** trip them selfs up sooner or later
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    Another prime example of how destructive man is. When I say man, I am speaking of all mankind which does include women. A Minnesota dentist (Palmer) traveled all the way to...
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    As a black woman, admitting this to myself, realizing that this is something I truly feel and taking steps to attend to this matter is a hardship. I hate to admit to such a thing...
    Nevermorn8 Nevermorn8 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    I used to be so confused about how it is that I always seem to end up with really manipulative friends but it's not that big of a mystery anymore. I let it happen. At 21 years old...
    singsinshower singsinshower 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Ofcourse if you're using abusive behavior then I dislike you.
    KindredKings KindredKings 13-15, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I remember like six years ago, this little piece of **** I knew from high school. When we did the two plays in my final year of high school, she was very happy to see the other...
    BigGirlWithLove BigGirlWithLove 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Look, I'd love not to be, but I care. Sure, people I dislike not liking me back? fine, that doesn't fuss one bit. But I am insecure, I want to be liked and the slightest bit of...
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    People on here are weird. In a ten minute conversation what gives you the right to say I'm unappealing to other people like you're better then me? Nothing. That's what.
    katariffik katariffik 31-35, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Ah! Such refined words crafted beautifully, to the mass that is. A person who does not think for his/herself is a decadent waste to humankind! What can one do when the milieu he's...
    SelfUnaware SelfUnaware 18-21 5 days ago

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    I just lost the love of my life due to money His family puts money before everyone. I had a stroke, couldn't contribute towards the expenses and they decided I was a burden...
    moonstar312 moonstar312 36-40, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    AlphaSigmaFuror AlphaSigmaFuror 13-15, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    DanyEugen, I do not know what culture you grew up in, but you do not just ask for my name and where I am from without reading any of my posts. I chose to tell you my nickname and...
    iCuriousBabe iCuriousBabe 41-45, F 1 Response a week ago

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    People like this is why I don't read all messages .. I shud hav never ever read this.. Such a mistake
    Chiscuit Chiscuit 31-35, F a week ago

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    I can't deal with situations where people show jealousy towards me without a plausible reason. I just think they're being control freaks.
    Blackberries Blackberries 26-30, F Jul 22

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    It's sad that I don't like my husband's new favorite game, but I don't. I can't even stand listening to him talk about it. He explains to me how he now takes long lunches at work...
    Dookwook Dookwook 31-35, F Jul 21

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    BlueSkysGreyClouds BlueSkysGreyClouds 13-15, F Jul 21

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    I'm not sure 'hate' is the right word. I certainly have a dislike of people who rush to judgement and take no account of circumstances, extenuating, mitigating or otherwise.
    ClownNine ClownNine 56-60, M Jul 20

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    LanaKane LanaKane 70+, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    afterthedead afterthedead 56-60, M 1 Response Jul 18

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    I read this today.An Indian couple were in love.Their families wanted them to get married.But the guy was underage.So the priest refused to marry him till he attained the legal age...
    whitesunshine87 whitesunshine87 51-55, F 4 Responses Jul 18

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    My Facebook is proof. People never see my posts, or so they say... Fortunately, in some cases, the dislike is very mutual. Very mutual indeed.
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 16

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