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I Dislike Overly Needy People

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    Let Me Breathe!

    I really dislike it when someone is overly-needy with me. Constantly calling, texting, asking where I am. touching me, hanging on me, competing with others for my attention, asking how I feel about them, asking why I don't call more, wanting to hang out with me every day for...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 27, 2012

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    After a Few Too Many Raspberry Vodkas and Lemonade......

    ....I had a conversation with my mate Mike. Me and Mike nearly did the deed in the summer when I was going through a bad phase and I needed someone to just get me drunk. He liked that I was needy. The other week, before I became completly blinded with...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 14, 2008

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    If You Are Overly Dramatic Or Exceedingly Needy...

    Please don't add me; we just won't mesh. I find this type of personality a particular challenge with virtually no benefits. We all need to be held up or helped out in life somewhere along the way, and that is what friends and/or family are for. This is not what I am talking about...
    RedRubies RedRubies 36-40, F 6 Responses Mar 11, 2012

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    If You Want My Support...

     ...you have to make an effort to support yourself, too.
    BrownEyedMystery BrownEyedMystery 18-21 2 Responses Apr 27, 2009

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    Ugh Needy People

    Now, there is nothing wrong with being a bit needy.  We all have needed or will need something from someone one day and that's OK.I have a problem with people that are too needy, especially if it's my attention that they always need. Unfortunately, I have a career and things...
    ImNotGood ImNotGood 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2011

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    And I Know That I Can Speak For Myself.

    Mum and Dad split up when I started secondary school,and I just went off the rails. I met this one guy who would later become the person who I slept with a month ago (he was my fourth). He totally mistreated me,bullying me in order to get me away from him,making the...
    orangeblossom89 orangeblossom89 18-21, F Dec 15, 2008

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    faithtrustandpixiedust faithtrustandpixiedust 22-25, F Aug 27

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    I feel like this is my worst character trait and it makes me feel like a real freak. I'm not sure if it was because of my rape at 14.. Or if it's because years later after the rape...
    SubmissiveSecrets SubmissiveSecrets 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 26

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    I really dislike people who are sooo negative. Im battling through somethings and i start everyday as if its a new day, i put on a smile and keep doing good things, but then you...
    staystrongsu staystrongsu 18-21, F Aug 28

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    I guess I'm "judging" people because I dislike the way they judge others but I don't understand. I mean, you have people that make it obvious and known that they won't accept...
    BallinBae BallinBae 16-17, F Aug 22

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    WhatTheFrenchToast WhatTheFrenchToast 18-21, M Sep 8

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    NameIsMailbox NameIsMailbox 13-15, M Aug 26

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    yup... that is what I am... bored... and I dislike it a lot... I wish I was able to have a nice selection of people to spend some time with... bummer!
    WendyBlabs WendyBlabs 36-40, F 4 days ago

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    LoveinthisLife LoveinthisLife 51-55, F 4 Responses Sep 1

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    milanmilan milanmilan 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    He proves that not every gift is tangible. He gives to the needy. He takes care of his neighbors. He fixes problems nobody else will, and you'd think it was all for nothing. Until...
    JAD01 JAD01 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    I don't know what to say. I push people away so this doesn't happen :(
    Ashamedpooperim21yrsold Ashamedpooperim21yrsold 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    It seems that 90%+ of the world (if EP's anything to go by!) is suffering from some condition that has to be specifically named and render people 'labelled'. I know people are bi...
    Moonpenny Moonpenny 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 9

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    I've dealt with more mean people than the average person, in my opinion. Then again, it seems 'mean people' are on the rise. I know that I'm still pretty young, but I remember a...
    HillyHana HillyHana 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 19

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    Ethan614c4ap9 Ethan614c4ap9 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    I don't hate anyone. I happen to love who I am. There are many people that I know I never want in my life or even remotely near me. I know that trust has been severed completely...
    deepscar deepscar 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    I admit I'm a jealous hater. I rather be with someone who's happy but I can't relate to them and I don't like faking how I feel. Depressing people are annoying but happy people are...
    WhatTheFrenchToast WhatTheFrenchToast 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 8

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    vampirish vampirish 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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    Tilou420 Tilou420 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    I have many muslim friends so I'm not Islamophobia. However many have told me to read with in the context of their verses? When I bring out the verses that show their "Allah...
    marilynnrox marilynnrox 18-21, F 11 Responses Aug 21

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    I honestly don't believe all religious teaching are brainwashing and i actually agree with some. Yet i dislike teachings that are harmful or silly like believing in Noah's ark. Or...
    Autumnflowers Autumnflowers 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 22

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    It's really sad how I download this app to get to know people, hear them out and then there's people messaging me dirty messages or pictures. Go send that **** somewhere else.
    emilytello emilytello 16-17, F Aug 26

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    My cousin gets on my nerves! She's so negative and always judging people. We used to be so close, until I realized that I can do without all this negativity in my life
    onedayatatime01 onedayatatime01 18-21, F Aug 27

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    It's just another one to add to the others I've been through, even having been raised mostly in San Francisco, there are just no words to explain the sound and feel of your whole...
    Xlandria61 Xlandria61 61-65, F Aug 28

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    I will never understand people that seemingly go out of their way simply to hurt someone's feelings. There's enough bullshit in this life without us tearing each other down.
    Runningagainstthewind Runningagainstthewind 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    People like to assume I use the Lotus Flower as my profile because my face is unappealing. Did those people ever think that I don't show my face simply because I don't want...
    Tilou420 Tilou420 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 29

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    I dont hate loud people. I just find most of them really annoying!!!!!!!!
    paradox14 paradox14 31-35, M Aug 30

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    Why? I think it's weird that you start a group expressing dislike for someone you don't know, who never did anything to you.
    chumiloons chumiloons 41-45, F Aug 30

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    A person can be right, but they cant always be right! I really dont like people who assume they are always right! You not always friggn right!! Get over urself! Sorry i just had to...
    staystrongsu staystrongsu 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    pinkylo7 pinkylo7 16-17, F Aug 31

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    Nice guys finish last. Come on people grow a back bone
    JNye8798 JNye8798 16-17, M 2 Responses Sep 4

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