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I Dislike Overly Needy People

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    Alpha8Wolf Alpha8Wolf 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 24, 2014

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    Ugh Needy People

    Now, there is nothing wrong with being a bit needy.  We all have needed or will need something from someone one day and that's OK.I have a problem with people that are too needy, especially if it's my attention that they always need. Unfortunately, I have a career and things...
    ImNotGood ImNotGood 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2011

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    Let Me Breathe!

    I really dislike it when someone is overly-needy with me. Constantly calling, texting, asking where I am. touching me, hanging on me, competing with others for my attention, asking how I feel about them, asking why I don't call more, wanting to hang out with me every day for...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 27, 2012

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    Please do not add me

    if you are overly needy.I'm sorry if you message me 20 times a day ,and i don't respond to all your PM's .I try to respond to everyone but it gets hard sometimes.This is not to sound stuck up,or anything like that,just how i feel.
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 9 Responses Nov 21, 2014

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    After a Few Too Many Raspberry Vodkas and Lemonade......

    ....I had a conversation with my mate Mike. Me and Mike nearly did the deed in the summer when I was going through a bad phase and I needed someone to just get me drunk. He liked that I was needy. The other week, before I became completly blinded with...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 14, 2008

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    If You Want My Support...

     ...you have to make an effort to support yourself, too.
    BrownEyedMystery BrownEyedMystery 18-21 2 Responses Apr 27, 2009

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    If You Are Overly Dramatic Or Exceedingly Needy...

    Please don't add me; we just won't mesh. I find this type of personality a particular challenge with virtually no benefits. We all need to be held up or helped out in life somewhere along the way, and that is what friends and/or family are for. This is not what I am talking about...
    RedRubies RedRubies 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 11, 2012

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    I feel depressed or lonely most of my time.

    But i need my personal space even if i'm lonely. When i feel alone,sometimes i enjoy having good conversation with someone. and sometimes i enjoy spending time alone myself. and i don't feel being alone is wrong. Everything is balance. So if i don't response or even if i've...
    Theykillme Theykillme 31-35, F Mar 19

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    And I Know That I Can Speak For Myself.

    Mum and Dad split up when I started secondary school,and I just went off the rails. I met this one guy who would later become the person who I slept with a month ago (he was my fourth). He totally mistreated me,bullying me in order to get me away from him,making the...
    orangeblossom89 orangeblossom89 18-21, F Dec 15, 2008

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    So fake. People who are positive all the time are just saying in a nice way ' I don't really care about your problems'.
    Danceofhours Danceofhours 41-45, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    Ive avoided watching twilight until now.. Ok watching watching .. Im trying to like it but .. I dont understand why this bella girl is obsessing with a guy? I also dislike...
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    When I am upset and someone tells me to calm down ( or cheer up ), it is like throwing gasoline on a fire. It's not helpful, and it actually fuels my anger or frustration. To me...
    atpeacewithme atpeacewithme 31-35 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I just dislike the word "normal" altogether. If being "normal" is so great, why do I feel so miserable when I attempt to display such behavior? The characteristics of normality...
    MisAnalogy MisAnalogy 16-17, F Apr 14

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    The reason for that is that I have been exposed to very negative people, who manipulated and made me feel guilt. They exploited my kindness. I wanted to make things right and...
    Somexyz Somexyz 26-30, M 6 Responses Apr 20

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    Likes: 1. Dragons! They're so cool and cute and are fantastic creatures! 2. Animals in general! Whether real or non-real, they're so cool and unique! And cute as heckle. 3. Magic...
    fireraven23 fireraven23 18-21, M Apr 5

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    I honestly cannot say I dislike many things in life, but this... especially having been on ep the past four years… is something I despise. The chatter of gossip and rumors set...
    WithGracefulness WithGracefulness 46-50, F 10 Responses Apr 12

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    All. The. Time... when ever I text my "friends" I always text them first.. they never text me first... they always seem like they don't want to talk to me.. I feel like I am...
    Louder4life Louder4life 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    Only if I really really like you. There are some people that I feel the need to talk to constantly and I will legitimately get upset if they're gone for too long. I'm not good at...
    gummball gummball 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    I hate small town life! I have been living out of the city since 2012. I started hating it there. I have been back to the city to visit but I am not sure if I would ever want to...
    AnnonymousNum3 AnnonymousNum3 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    And that is something that many people lack in the world. Acceptance. (I may say "you" or "your" but don't take it too personally, I was just speaking in general throughout this...
    WrongPage WrongPage 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    This is something that is terrible when a person is falsely accused of something they did not do. They cant find evidence to exonerate them and they are blamed. So many of these...
    valha11a valha11a 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    Ever met someone who has dismissed you at a moments notice upon looking at your appearance. Doesn't personality mean anything nowadays. Ok, I don't have blue eyes and blond hair...
    1ANGRYtitan 1ANGRYtitan 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 8

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    Here we go. Hi everyone, its nice to meet you. I have some news that I need to tell people, but its very hard for me so i'll start with strangers first... Sorry if you don't care...
    Rowsie Rowsie 18-21, T 2 Responses Apr 15

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    I don't. People are people and they do things differently than us. I don't care that some people may only speak of certain things or date certain people based off of a single...
    RationalCutie RationalCutie 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 17

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    This is people in general. There seems to be a real lapse in how people behave towards each other. Almost as if we don't know how to act towards each other anyway. No manners...
    smileymostly smileymostly 36-40, F 10 hrs ago

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    I knew it was bound to come across insults on here someday. What shocked me the most was it was by someone close to my fathers age. I dislike people who can't control what they say...
    TheEnduringSunrise TheEnduringSunrise 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I have, several times, suggested to others here to investigate a site called http://secreterotica.com and now deeply regret such action. For some reason I apparently have been...
    wtchswife wtchswife 61-65, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    One day, I had a brief conversation with a classmate regarding taking off the frilly edges of notebook paper. I admit, I do not like these, for they look unprofessional and they...
    MisAnalogy MisAnalogy 16-17, F Apr 8

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    I am androgynous. I dislike when people ask me if I am a male or female. Also when people ask what pronouns to use.
    PoisonousAntidote PoisonousAntidote 18-21, T 4 Responses Apr 9

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    Unfortunately I must. I dislike this! I'm doing it for me. I used to be way too nice. Sometimes you need to hurt people in order to help yourself.
    Jennerrous Jennerrous 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 1

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    so... I was bullied past few days. Sigh. Why do people b so mean????? so angry and cold.
    amtired amtired 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 2

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    You are who you are, why would you want to change it? I wish we could all accept ourselves for who we are. I am not one who judges people for what they think, or do (as long as...
    avgjoe71 avgjoe71 41-45, M 3 Responses Apr 6

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    My sister is one of very few people that beings up hatred in me. And I really hate that she can do that to me. I don't believe in hate, yet when she infiltrates any part of my life...
    Searchingformyshalom Searchingformyshalom 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    I have always disliked rules and authority as I feel no one has the right to tell others how to live and I have a very good saying for anyone who tries ."Who the hell died and made...
    nakednudist nakednudist 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    LIkES: Mornings without alarm clocks, Rolling thunder, Seeing desire in a lover's eye, Dancing like no ones watching and The sound of waterfalls. DISLIKES: Abandonment, Disloyalty...
    BethKristin BethKristin 36-40, F 7 Responses Apr 6

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    I don't consider myself to be that old, but I find younger people extremely ageist in their attitudes towards older people, all I can say is I hope they experience the same...
    alan19662015 alan19662015 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    A few days ago, having a strong dislike for telemarketers, I answered the call of one. Upon him asking to speak to me, I switched the phone to speaker and pretended to be having...
    stilltalksalot stilltalksalot 46-50, M 3 days ago

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    I don't like that the fact that the world is sooooo afraid of homosexuality. They say it's a sin but how is that sin no greater to the sin of rape or abusing a child or murder. The...
    Hispan Hispan 13-15, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    People like this I would prefer to avoid. They can suck all of the joy out of winning the lottery. I once worked for a Vietnamese Buddhist woman, she was usually so positive and...
    SandyDandy1968 SandyDandy1968 46-50, F 2 days ago

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    I live in a small rural community. I have a disability and made the BIG mistake of trusting someone with this knowledge. I shouldn't have done that. But it's too late. I don't know...
    hartinar hartinar 36-40, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I can't believe what I learned last night. I'm still to upset!!! 4 in the morning and I cannot sleep! It's a free country. but stupid, lazy *** people do not need to breed!! Very...
    Stickwithmebaby Stickwithmebaby 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 31

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