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I Dislike Overly Needy People

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 172 People

    And I Know That I Can Speak For Myself.

    Mum and Dad split up when I started secondary school,and I just went off the rails. I met this one guy who would later become the person who I slept with a month ago (he was my fourth). He totally mistreated me,bullying me in order to get me away from him,making the...
    orangeblossom89 orangeblossom89 18-21, F Dec 15, 2008

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    I feel depressed or lonely most of my time.

    But i need my personal space even if i'm lonely. When i feel alone,sometimes i enjoy having good conversation with someone. and sometimes i enjoy spending time alone myself. and i don't feel being alone is wrong. Everything is balance. So if i don't response or even if i've...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 19

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    After a Few Too Many Raspberry Vodkas and Lemonade......

    ....I had a conversation with my mate Mike. Me and Mike nearly did the deed in the summer when I was going through a bad phase and I needed someone to just get me drunk. He liked that I was needy. The other week, before I became completly blinded with...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 14, 2008

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    Please do not add me

    if you are overly needy.I'm sorry if you message me 20 times a day ,and i don't respond to all your PM's .I try to respond to everyone but it gets hard sometimes.This is not to sound stuck up,or anything like that,just how i feel.
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 8 Responses Nov 21, 2014

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    Let Me Breathe!

    I really dislike it when someone is overly-needy with me. Constantly calling, texting, asking where I am. touching me, hanging on me, competing with others for my attention, asking how I feel about them, asking why I don't call more, wanting to hang out with me every day for...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 27, 2012

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    If You Are Overly Dramatic Or Exceedingly Needy...

    Please don't add me; we just won't mesh. I find this type of personality a particular challenge with virtually no benefits. We all need to be held up or helped out in life somewhere along the way, and that is what friends and/or family are for. This is not what I am talking about...
    RedRubies RedRubies 36-40, F 6 Responses Mar 11, 2012

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    Alpha8Wolf Alpha8Wolf 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 24, 2014

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    Ugh Needy People

    Now, there is nothing wrong with being a bit needy.  We all have needed or will need something from someone one day and that's OK.I have a problem with people that are too needy, especially if it's my attention that they always need. Unfortunately, I have a career and things...
    ImNotGood ImNotGood 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2011

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    But I can understand it in some cases.

    For example, constant rejection.
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M Jul 16

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    If You Want My Support...

     ...you have to make an effort to support yourself, too.
    BrownEyedMystery BrownEyedMystery 18-21 2 Responses Apr 27, 2009

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    I am so fed up with people who don't respond to my messages. It happens quite alot. I drop them a message, or respond to one they sent, then I never hear from them again. I could...
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    Yeah I get it. We all like sex and sexual pleasure, yadda yadda yadda. But can peeps think out side of the box and expand their minds. Talk about something else. Is it really the...
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    I'm very reluctant to talk to those people who seem as they have a cucumber in their hole ***. Not for being nice to others you are going to be less honest.
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    I just got back from a family vacation. My husband, children, mother in law, father in law and sister in law were all there. It was nice overall, but after spending that much time...
    kcyata kcyata 41-45, F 2 days ago

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    About four years ago, I said something really hurtful to this one girl I knew from high school Angel (then freshman). She's so talented, smart, had a lot of friends, kindhearted...
    tallblackgirl tallblackgirl 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Do you know this feeling when you watch someone so important to you grow older and older and older. And the older this person gets the scarier it is. The fear of losing that...
    aliveness aliveness 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    yah! I dislike it sooo much, that after I have my surgery, I won't have a period no more! awesome! bragging rights! cuz I totally dislike having my period!
    craigslist504 craigslist504 36-40 4 days ago

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    I hate it when people are around someone they aren't familiar with and they are mean or try to be dominate instead of just being receptive to a new experience
    wingedjaguar wingedjaguar 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    my spouse is one that shout and yell as much as she wasn't to. but as soon I start standing up to her she starts crying and acting the victim. we have three kids and I don't what...
    Dean6736 Dean6736 46-50, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    everyone, listen everyone, its you yourself who is keeping your self held captive in your times of trouble. you yourself are getting in your own way. you say and believe that...
    idkwhatiam idkwhatiam 13-15, M 1 Response a week ago

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    u don't have to b rude to get what u want. in fact, it it is a sure mine way to not get what you want. im not rude. i was raised better than that. good ole southern hospitality. so...
    craigslist504 craigslist504 36-40 a week ago

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    I think some people shouldn't have kids. I'm not trying to be mean or rude, but I think in many casses, it's simply irresponsible. It's irresponsible as a inhabitor or this planet...
    FallenButterflies FallenButterflies 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    I wish people knew manner's in the way that they won't stare at you all the time. It get's so annoying. I would be there in the park minding my own business and people keep looking...
    Delphi111 Delphi111 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    Don't give cruel people the time of day. Anyone who has the time to spew negativity or do cruel things to you is unhappy and unblessed. If you have blessings, being cruel to...
    ThePrettyOnee ThePrettyOnee 16-17, F Aug 16

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    I wish I was normal like everybody else. I hate my social anxiety! It has destroyed my life. I had to give up on my dream to be an actor. I loved to be on stage and front of the...
    Erivalentino Erivalentino 22-25, M Aug 16

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    i just read a post someone wrote about how shes so pretty but not arrogant and just shy and quiet and hard done by cant find a boyfriend. no one notices her quiet beauty. as...
    katariffik katariffik 31-35, F Aug 16

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    I hate when people say they hate other people and what them to die just for being different from them we are different with different experiences and different opinions and views...
    CandiceAllcoxx CandiceAllcoxx 26-30, T 2 Responses Aug 15

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    I wouldn't say needy and clingy. But im there and committed And desire honesty
    Averageguy41011 Averageguy41011 41-45, M Aug 14

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    Let me first say that I'm not a misanthrope, hating all of humanity - that is not the case. I simply don't relate to almost everyone. And the older I get, the more it makes me feel...
    Anon0520 Anon0520 26-30 Aug 14

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    I can't stand people who intentionally live on benefits, never want to work and have no ambition to improve their lives or themselves. I just watched a programme where a woman...
    JohnnyMcCrea JohnnyMcCrea 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 11

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    well, strongly dislike. but, i'm gonna be added onto this experience anyway, so whatever
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 10

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    I Sometimes Dislike The Hollywood Lifestyle Some of these Stars are married for over 20 years and they separate and re-marry like crash, bang, boom, and transitions... I dislike...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F Aug 9

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    I also hate when people add you but don't freaking message you with a hi and it is aggravating!
    Keebelle Keebelle 18-21, F Aug 9

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    Especially a girl. She can use you for her own needs, or reject you after you do whatever she wanted. It's why I try not to be overly nice to any girl. The same applies for guys...
    StudCanadian StudCanadian 16-17, M 4 Responses Aug 8

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    I think they are all drugs and baked out of their minds. .. they scare me!
    Halysa Halysa 31-35, F Aug 7

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    positive people are only people who refuse to see the world for what it is really like and they therefore refuse to see all those who are suffering
    nannalovet113 nannalovet113 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    People like this tend to think they're untouchable and unbreakable. one day your going to suffer and see your NOT better than anyone.
    YourSuffocatingMe YourSuffocatingMe 18-21, F Aug 7

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    I can't stand people like that. just leave me alone and quit trying to make me see the world through the eyes of someone who is so perky, i want to flush them down the toilet.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F Aug 7

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