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I Dislike Overly Needy People

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    After a Few Too Many Raspberry Vodkas and Lemonade......

    ....I had a conversation with my mate Mike. Me and Mike nearly did the deed in the summer when I was going through a bad phase and I needed someone to just get me drunk. He liked that I was needy. The other week, before I became completly blinded with...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 14, 2008

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    Alpha8Wolf Alpha8Wolf 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 24, 2014

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    But I can understand it in some cases.

    For example, constant rejection.
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M Jul 16

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    If You Want My Support...

     ...you have to make an effort to support yourself, too.
    BrownEyedMystery BrownEyedMystery 18-21 2 Responses Apr 27, 2009

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    Please do not add me

    if you are overly needy.I'm sorry if you message me 20 times a day ,and i don't respond to all your PM's .I try to respond to everyone but it gets hard sometimes.This is not to sound stuck up,or anything like that,just how i feel.
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 8 Responses Nov 21, 2014

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    Ugh Needy People

    Now, there is nothing wrong with being a bit needy.  We all have needed or will need something from someone one day and that's OK.I have a problem with people that are too needy, especially if it's my attention that they always need. Unfortunately, I have a career and things...
    ImNotGood ImNotGood 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2011

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    I feel depressed or lonely most of my time.

    But i need my personal space even if i'm lonely. When i feel alone,sometimes i enjoy having good conversation with someone. and sometimes i enjoy spending time alone myself. and i don't feel being alone is wrong. Everything is balance. So if i don't response or even if i've...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 19

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    Let Me Breathe!

    I really dislike it when someone is overly-needy with me. Constantly calling, texting, asking where I am. touching me, hanging on me, competing with others for my attention, asking how I feel about them, asking why I don't call more, wanting to hang out with me every day for...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 27, 2012

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    If You Are Overly Dramatic Or Exceedingly Needy...

    Please don't add me; we just won't mesh. I find this type of personality a particular challenge with virtually no benefits. We all need to be held up or helped out in life somewhere along the way, and that is what friends and/or family are for. This is not what I am talking about...
    RedRubies RedRubies 36-40, F 6 Responses Mar 11, 2012

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    And I Know That I Can Speak For Myself.

    Mum and Dad split up when I started secondary school,and I just went off the rails. I met this one guy who would later become the person who I slept with a month ago (he was my fourth). He totally mistreated me,bullying me in order to get me away from him,making the...
    orangeblossom89 orangeblossom89 18-21, F Dec 15, 2008

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    Another prime example of how destructive man is. When I say man, I am speaking of all mankind which does include women. A Minnesota dentist (Palmer) traveled all the way to...
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    My other two siblings are much older than me, so I've never had this sort of relationship with them. My younger brother is different. He's 18 and he is, literally, my life. I...
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    Unfortunately, some of us can't easily 'Change the way we think' or 'Cut the emotional bullshit out'. If you're trying to help, why thank you, I just found another reason why I'm...
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    A lot of people don't understand mental illness and a lot of people don't u sweats d those who don't understand mental illness. Naturally if you see something or someone who is...
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 22-25, M 20 hrs ago

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    As a black woman, admitting this to myself, realizing that this is something I truly feel and taking steps to attend to this matter is a hardship. I hate to admit to such a thing...
    Nevermorn8 Nevermorn8 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I used to be so confused about how it is that I always seem to end up with really manipulative friends but it's not that big of a mystery anymore. I let it happen. At 21 years old...
    singsinshower singsinshower 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Ofcourse if you're using abusive behavior then I dislike you.
    KindredKings KindredKings 13-15, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I remember like six years ago, this little piece of **** I knew from high school. When we did the two plays in my final year of high school, she was very happy to see the other...
    BigGirlWithLove BigGirlWithLove 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Look, I'd love not to be, but I care. Sure, people I dislike not liking me back? fine, that doesn't fuss one bit. But I am insecure, I want to be liked and the slightest bit of...
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    People on here are weird. In a ten minute conversation what gives you the right to say I'm unappealing to other people like you're better then me? Nothing. That's what.
    katariffik katariffik 31-35, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Ah! Such refined words crafted beautifully, to the mass that is. A person who does not think for his/herself is a decadent waste to humankind! What can one do when the milieu he's...
    SelfUnaware SelfUnaware 18-21 3 days ago

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    I just lost the love of my life due to money His family puts money before everyone. I had a stroke, couldn't contribute towards the expenses and they decided I was a burden...
    moonstar312 moonstar312 36-40, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'm not really sure who thought up this experience but they obviously did it with me in mind. 'Grammer!" Grrr It's Grammar, just in case anyone didn't know. But the misuse of there...
    ClownNine ClownNine 56-60, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I don't get why some ignorant people abandon everything when they move to a different country like for example the U.S. The U.S. has no culture well it does but so much negative...
    AlphaSigmaFuror AlphaSigmaFuror 13-15, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    DanyEugen, I do not know what culture you grew up in, but you do not just ask for my name and where I am from without reading any of my posts. I chose to tell you my nickname and...
    iCuriousBabe iCuriousBabe 41-45, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    People like this is why I don't read all messages .. I shud hav never ever read this.. Such a mistake
    Chiscuit Chiscuit 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    I can't deal with situations where people show jealousy towards me without a plausible reason. I just think they're being control freaks.
    Blackberries Blackberries 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    I've learn to accept no matter how hard I try to get to know someone it will never amount to any happiness. I'm so tired of everyone thinking I'm needy because I am sad, depressed...
    YourSecretAdmire22 YourSecretAdmire22 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    It's sad that I don't like my husband's new favorite game, but I don't. I can't even stand listening to him talk about it. He explains to me how he now takes long lunches at work...
    Dookwook Dookwook 31-35, F a week ago

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    I am, I'm too needy and I think everyone hates it
    cottencandykitten cottencandykitten 18-21, F a week ago

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    I would be lying if I said I dislike all meat because I do like bacon and lunch meats. But I absolutely hate chicken, steak and pork. I makes me feel sick to my stomach to just...
    BlueSkysGreyClouds BlueSkysGreyClouds 13-15, F a week ago

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    I'm not sure 'hate' is the right word. I certainly have a dislike of people who rush to judgement and take no account of circumstances, extenuating, mitigating or otherwise.
    ClownNine ClownNine 56-60, M Jul 20

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    I'm great at making friends but not great at keeping friends. I'm great at dating but I suck at relationships. I feel loved but I don't know how to give it. I lose interest in...
    LanaKane LanaKane 70+, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    I don't dis like Islam. in fact Islam is wonderful way of life just as any other religious group in it's purest from every religion has. its heretics especially Christianity so...
    afterthedead afterthedead 56-60, M 1 Response Jul 18

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    I read this today.An Indian couple were in love.Their families wanted them to get married.But the guy was underage.So the priest refused to marry him till he attained the legal age...
    whitesunshine87 whitesunshine87 51-55, F 4 Responses Jul 18

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    My Facebook is proof. People never see my posts, or so they say... Fortunately, in some cases, the dislike is very mutual. Very mutual indeed.
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 16

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    I love seeing people having a good time! The other day I was taking my 13 year old son and his friend to Hibachi for his friend's birthday. His friend has two sisters who are...
    starligh98 starligh98 31-35, F Jul 16

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    I keep contemplating if i should talk to my ex but i remind myself that he didnt really like me. How can someone say they love you but show no signs of attraction to you but...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F Jul 15

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    I feel so empty and isolated. I don't belong here and I don't feel like I have a purpose in life. My confidence level has dropped instantly because when something goes right it...
    YourSecretAdmire22 YourSecretAdmire22 22-25, M Jul 15

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    When you stay in an unfulfilling, unhapppy or abusive marriage,children come to belive that relationships are experiences that entail suffering, pain and even a slow death. You are...
    Zelaleme Zelaleme 51-55, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    An interesting thing happened to me yesterday. One of my good friends broke up with his then-girlfriend, after FINALLY realising that she wasn't good enough for him. She had always...
    ShruthiK ShruthiK 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14