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I Dislike Overly Needy People

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    Ugh Needy People

    Now, there is nothing wrong with being a bit needy.  We all have needed or will need something from someone one day and that's OK.I have a problem with people that are too needy, especially if it's my attention that they always need. Unfortunately, I have a career and things...
    ImNotGood ImNotGood 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2011

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    Alpha8Wolf Alpha8Wolf 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    And I Know That I Can Speak For Myself.

    Mum and Dad split up when I started secondary school,and I just went off the rails. I met this one guy who would later become the person who I slept with a month ago (he was my fourth). He totally mistreated me,bullying me in order to get me away from him,making the...
    orangeblossom89 orangeblossom89 18-21, F Dec 15, 2008

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    Let Me Breathe!

    I really dislike it when someone is overly-needy with me. Constantly calling, texting, asking where I am. touching me, hanging on me, competing with others for my attention, asking how I feel about them, asking why I don't call more, wanting to hang out with me every day for...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 27, 2012

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    After a Few Too Many Raspberry Vodkas and Lemonade......

    ....I had a conversation with my mate Mike. Me and Mike nearly did the deed in the summer when I was going through a bad phase and I needed someone to just get me drunk. He liked that I was needy. The other week, before I became completly blinded with...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 14, 2008

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    Please do not add me

    if you are overly needy.I'm sorry if you message me 20 times a day ,and i don't respond to all your PM's .I try to respond to everyone but it gets hard sometimes.This is not to sound stuck up,or anything like that,just how i feel.
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 9 Responses 5 days ago

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    If You Want My Support...

     ...you have to make an effort to support yourself, too.
    BrownEyedMystery BrownEyedMystery 18-21 2 Responses Apr 27, 2009

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    If You Are Overly Dramatic Or Exceedingly Needy...

    Please don't add me; we just won't mesh. I find this type of personality a particular challenge with virtually no benefits. We all need to be held up or helped out in life somewhere along the way, and that is what friends and/or family are for. This is not what I am talking about...
    RedRubies RedRubies 36-40, F 6 Responses Mar 11, 2012

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    Maybe hate is too strong; how about intense dislike. I try hard to not judge others. I make it a point to state what I think without labeling or calling names. I expect the same...
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    I'm feeling needy. Insecure. Wanting to be reassured (by this special someone) again and again that he's into me. I feel like banging my head against the wall because I hate...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 27

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    meandmythought meandmythought 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 13

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    WarmGoldenHeart WarmGoldenHeart 31-35, F Nov 14

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    treya15 treya15 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 2

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    MisaNicole MisaNicole 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 5

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    So recently i have been improving myself in each in every way, mentally emotionally, everything starting with positive thinking and everything in that direction. I have been doing...
    dejah726 dejah726 18-21, F Oct 26

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    it seems that in western society in general we dislike somebody who is intelligent+allegedly lives in an ivory tower.This is the case especially when they are in universities...
    geekoftheweek geekoftheweek 26-30, F Oct 30

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    So my uncles girlfriend stayed over at my house this weekend, whom my grandmother hates. Now, I have nothing against my uncles girlfriend but my grandmother does because she used...
    InvaderGashloog InvaderGashloog 70+, F 2 Responses Nov 2

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    tuckersobczak tuckersobczak 16-17, M 3 Responses Nov 2

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    bijouxbroussard bijouxbroussard 46-50, F 6 Responses Nov 6

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    Aireagoir94 Aireagoir94 18-21, M Nov 6

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    VitaniTheLioness VitaniTheLioness 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 14

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    bombchu bombchu 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    BounceAround BounceAround 22-25, F 2 days ago

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