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I Dislike Overly Needy People

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 137 People

    Let Me Breathe!

    I really dislike it when someone is overly-needy with me. Constantly calling, texting, asking where I am. touching me, hanging on me, competing with others for my attention, asking how I feel about them, asking why I don't call more, wanting to hang out with me every day for...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 27, 2012

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    Alpha8Wolf Alpha8Wolf 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    And I Know That I Can Speak For Myself.

    Mum and Dad split up when I started secondary school,and I just went off the rails. I met this one guy who would later become the person who I slept with a month ago (he was my fourth). He totally mistreated me,bullying me in order to get me away from him,making the...
    orangeblossom89 orangeblossom89 18-21, F Dec 15, 2008

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    If You Want My Support...

     ...you have to make an effort to support yourself, too.
    BrownEyedMystery BrownEyedMystery 18-21 2 Responses Apr 27, 2009

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    If You Are Overly Dramatic Or Exceedingly Needy...

    Please don't add me; we just won't mesh. I find this type of personality a particular challenge with virtually no benefits. We all need to be held up or helped out in life somewhere along the way, and that is what friends and/or family are for. This is not what I am talking about...
    RedRubies RedRubies 36-40, F 6 Responses Mar 11, 2012

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    After a Few Too Many Raspberry Vodkas and Lemonade......

    ....I had a conversation with my mate Mike. Me and Mike nearly did the deed in the summer when I was going through a bad phase and I needed someone to just get me drunk. He liked that I was needy. The other week, before I became completly blinded with...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 14, 2008

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    Please do not add me

    if you are overly needy.I'm sorry if you message me 20 times a day ,and i don't respond to all your PM's .I try to respond to everyone but it gets hard sometimes.This is not to sound stuck up,or anything like that,just how i feel.
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 9 Responses Nov 21, 2014

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    Ugh Needy People

    Now, there is nothing wrong with being a bit needy.  We all have needed or will need something from someone one day and that's OK.I have a problem with people that are too needy, especially if it's my attention that they always need. Unfortunately, I have a career and things...
    ImNotGood ImNotGood 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2011

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    Selflesswarrior Selflesswarrior 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    In my case, it's not really a 'new' person. I've known this girl since primary school and for some reason I've never been able to establish, she's always disliked me. I've a very...
    AliasTaylor AliasTaylor 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    xCrowSong xCrowSong 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    I almost forgot about this site. I feel highly confused and empty and apathetic. I'm confused about life choices. I need some peoples attention but I feel ignored. I hate it...
    luvsoylatte luvsoylatte 26-30, F Jan 19

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    Sadfate Sadfate 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    majkel87 majkel87 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    Even though I dislike Most people I can't help but to watch people and wonder about their lives.
    Holmesdown Holmesdown 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    People try to hang out with me because they pity me. They always ditch me last minute though, making up lame excuses. It happens too often for it to be a coincidence. In school...
    Destroya182 Destroya182 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    That's my life summarized into one sentence lol. But what I dislike the most is when people try to get under my skin by trying to find out more about me. It's just a turnoff. Like...
    ShakenButNotBroken ShakenButNotBroken 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    I'd like to say that I am a nice person. I don't like mean people because they bring you down and they only act mean to seem cool. Being mean is not cool.
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    I hate it when people ask for attention and ask for people to message them but once you message them they ignore you like, dafuq?!
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    Cooper802 Cooper802 18-21, M Jan 4

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    I don't know why, but I've always disliked fat people, not because they've done anything to me, but because they're just fat. Again I don't know why.
    DakotaMuffin DakotaMuffin 16-17, M 3 Responses Jan 9

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    We all come across them. They exist in every social grouping. Across every age range. But yeah! I dislike them!!!
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 10

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    There is a lot of mean people on here I came on here to be myself and post things but when I do I get rude comments calling me fake ,naive and telling me I should be more...
    KatdaLes KatdaLes 13-15, T 2 Responses Jan 18

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    Well, hate is a strong word so I would say that I strongly dislike when people judge me based on the way I look. I do have social anxiety so I get anxious in crowds. I usually find...
    thunderkisses thunderkisses 13-15, F Jan 19

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    a lot of people complains with just simple things; can't imagine how do they deal with the bigger ones.
    gwenllian gwenllian 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I dislike 3/4 of my neighbors.
    lobbs921 lobbs921 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    "Hi". "Where are you from?" "What are you doing?" What this style of conversation does is get on my nerves and it's boring. Please stop wasting my time and get to the point. Say...
    LadyIndiscretion LadyIndiscretion 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    LTBS64 LTBS64 46-50, M 4 hrs ago

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    BobbieB106 BobbieB106 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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