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I Dislike Overly Needy People

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    So we don't hear from each other

    for a month, and prior to that we just had a few exchanges over mundane things, and we are not even close. Don't message me out of the blue to say: 'Dam you don't even talk to me anymore.' Dafuq???
    iCuriousBabe iCuriousBabe 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 17, 2015

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    If You Want My Support...

     ...you have to make an effort to support yourself, too.
    BrownEyedMystery BrownEyedMystery 18-21 2 Responses Apr 27, 2009

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    Please do not add me

    if you are overly needy.I'm sorry if you message me 20 times a day ,and i don't respond to all your PM's .I try to respond to everyone but it gets hard sometimes.This is not to sound stuck up,or anything like that,just how i feel.
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 8 Responses Nov 21, 2014

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    I feel depressed or lonely most of my time.

    But i need my personal space even if i'm lonely. When i feel alone,sometimes i enjoy having good conversation with someone. and sometimes i enjoy spending time alone myself. and i don't feel being alone is wrong. Everything is balance. So if i don't response or even if i've...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 19, 2015

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    After a Few Too Many Raspberry Vodkas and Lemonade......

    ....I had a conversation with my mate Mike. Me and Mike nearly did the deed in the summer when I was going through a bad phase and I needed someone to just get me drunk. He liked that I was needy. The other week, before I became completly blinded with...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 14, 2008

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    If You Are Overly Dramatic Or Exceedingly Needy...

    Please don't add me; we just won't mesh. I find this type of personality a particular challenge with virtually no benefits. We all need to be held up or helped out in life somewhere along the way, and that is what friends and/or family are for. This is not what I am talking about...
    RedRubies RedRubies 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 11, 2012

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    Alpha8Wolf Alpha8Wolf 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 24, 2014

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    Let Me Breathe!

    I really dislike it when someone is overly-needy with me. Constantly calling, texting, asking where I am. touching me, hanging on me, competing with others for my attention, asking how I feel about them, asking why I don't call more, wanting to hang out with me every day for...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 27, 2012

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    But I can understand it in some cases.

    For example, constant rejection.
    theotherusernamesweretaken theotherusernamesweretaken 26-30, M Jul 16, 2015

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    I have depression and other issues to deal with.

    Sometimes I have a lot on my mind, but I do the best I can to be there for people. It seems like no matter what, I never do enough. I wish people would cut me a bit of slack.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic 26-30, F Oct 28, 2015

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    Ugh Needy People

    Now, there is nothing wrong with being a bit needy.  We all have needed or will need something from someone one day and that's OK.I have a problem with people that are too needy, especially if it's my attention that they always need. Unfortunately, I have a career and things...
    ImNotGood ImNotGood 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2011

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    And I Know That I Can Speak For Myself.

    Mum and Dad split up when I started secondary school,and I just went off the rails. I met this one guy who would later become the person who I slept with a month ago (he was my fourth). He totally mistreated me,bullying me in order to get me away from him,making the...
    orangeblossom89 orangeblossom89 18-21, F Dec 15, 2008

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    Well yes because i trust no one..its not coz of some personal bad experience..i just cant let people in..i am very vary of human ..i dont know why but i always am afraid that...
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    I love people who are sassy too. That snarkiness is a definite bonus as well. I'm pansexual so I just love people in general.
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    In special when I'm register my self on a new service, and at first login i received many messages from unknown people, and my profile remains incomplete..... that's amazing...
    shakt93 shakt93 31-35, M 4 hrs ago

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    Even though my status reads "I don't accept random adds...I block you so don't waste your time or mine" the most intelligent of people keep right on randomly adding me...block!
    Klynn86 Klynn86 70+, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    so I live in a city where you can walk down the street without being stopped by a homeless or poor person. if I have money I can spare I always do unless I find the person is lying...
    Kitty1997 Kitty1997 18-21, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    There are some very strange people on this site.
    Cutiepeachpie Cutiepeachpie 22-25, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I always help people, but it's finally starting to tire me out. I don't ask for help and I don't talk about my problems often. When someone ask me to share, I do and they are a...
    YnessHeart YnessHeart 18-21, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I sit on the bench and watch the people go byI love to people watch But don't judge them But...
    nivanvc nivanvc 36-40, M 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I don't understand people Why the world is round Why sin was created Why people are hateful But most of all I don't understand Why animals are abused Why abortion was created Why...
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    To The Girl Who Stole My HeartYou're the first person I think about.In the morning after I eat and go out.When I jump in the shower to wash my body and head.And the last, after...
    theophilusmartins theophilusmartins 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    It does not bother me as everybody has different standards for choosing their friends. I just wish they would not dislike me for who I am, and that they would not attack me for...
    Soossie Soossie 51-55, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    Well, that's me 😅😅 I guess I should just dislike myself then, aha. Idk, I add them because they seem interesting and like I'm shy asf and awkward as hell.. Plus I don't...
    LittleUnicorn LittleUnicorn 18-21 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I dislike anything fake.... always be real you are beautiful the way God made you... he doesn't make junk
    Aprildawnmarie Aprildawnmarie 41-45, F 6 days ago

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    There are a lot of people use fake photo to talk with me I don't like it I really don't care about ur looks just don't lie to me it's enough to be friends
    Wichada Wichada 18-21, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I remember when my husband and I were starting from scratch, just having moved across the country to start our lives. He was promised a job, but that fell through when we moved...
    VVmommy VVmommy 26-30, F a week ago

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    I dislike it being shown to anyone but me. That's what's important.
    savoy2 savoy2 46-50, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I dislike the fact that I am taken for granted, but I suppose I should be used to that by now.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 1

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    I just helped somebody. Uhm.. actually not people. They're cats. Stray cats in my dorm area. I just came back from the canteen bought a chicken dish and sardines for my lunch and...
    rainyrainsky rainyrainsky 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 30

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    I always check out a profile and if they mostly begin "I hate", then I move straight on and I do not want to talk with that person. I have no problem - within legal constraints...
    wetadam wetadam 70+, M Jan 30

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    I dislike it unless I'm the one getting it. Then I'm okay with it.
    savoy2 savoy2 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 30

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    During psychology class at college we were having a debate on how we perceive people. Baring in mind my college class ranges from people aged 19-40, ALL of the older people said...
    EverlyLeex EverlyLeex 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    I haven't been truly active on this site in quite awhile. I just bought my first laptop though!!! And it's really reminded me of a few years ago when I thought that it was amazing...
    DarkAngel24 DarkAngel24 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    I do dislike rude People and have fond a few here in my short time so being rude will not work for you..
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 27

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    I just had an interesting conversation with a "friend" that I'm not quite sure what to do with. He showed me a picture of the gun he was going to buy this week, which prompted me...
    MsJessicaRabbit MsJessicaRabbit 26-30, F 9 Responses Jan 27

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    I don't want to use the word hate 'cause I don't really feel that way about them, is just that, sometimes, I just don't like them very much and I have a hard time because I'm not...
    LandOfOzx LandOfOzx 26-30, M Jan 26

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