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I Dislike People That Lack Empathy For Others

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    It's A Given

    Ever since I was a child I had empathy for others. When I see someone that is narcissistic, judgmental or down right cruel my blood boils.  I grew up with a father that is all of the above.I am a sensitive person and can feel others emotions being an empathic.  I will come to...
    WarriorMom WarriorMom 51-55, F 1 Response Jan 17, 2013

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    Eating Everything There Ever Was

    It started with a local hot-dog eating contest. Lou Verbain took first place, and moved on to the provincials, where he placed second. But the first-place contestant bowed out when his stomach ruptured, and Lou was on to the nationals. At internationals he placed a distant third...
    O38OO2661677 O38OO2661677 36-40 Jan 17, 2013

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