I Dislike Shallow People

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    Are Women As Shallow As Men

    I think they are. You would think that women, with all of our insecurities, especially gay women, would be different. They're not. Yes, gay women have our cliques...there are the femmes, the butch, the lipsticks, the dykes. Yet, there is a subset, shunned by all of them...
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    1 Response Apr 29, 2012

    I Even Hate To Write About Them

    Shallow people shouldn't be talked about.  It's no topic.  They're just there.  Alas, nothing to do about that.  We coexist with them.  That's all. It has nothing to do with a level of education but all with some fundamental values.  Those...
    moreandless moreandless
    56-60, M
    7 Responses Feb 3, 2010

    I don't. People are people

    and they do things differently than us. I don't care that some people may only speak of certain things or date certain people based off of a single criteria. That's them...so why am I worried about another person? Lol. I'm also considered shallow by many people which I find...
    RationalCutie RationalCutie
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Apr 17, 2015


    If people want looks when dating,they are so fooled. Why get into a relationship and find out that person that has zero chemistry with you and all they are is someone for you to look @ ? I know.. I am going for personality instead of looks for now on because hot guys can be...
    TgirlTammie TgirlTammie
    41-45, T
    4 Responses Nov 4, 2012

    Kings and Queens

    Anyone who doesn't contribute to my interest belong to this category "shallow". Primarily those who talk nothing but sex. Or someone who's only cares are to drag his implacable rants, taking issues about his dilapidated egos. Women who talks nothing but their egocentric life...
    ladyryan ladyryan
    46-50, F
    Dec 21, 2011


    They do not know what to value in life.
    StephanieManoso StephanieManoso
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 5, 2011

    Ever met someone who has dismissed you at a

    moments notice upon looking at your appearance. Doesn't personality mean anything nowadays. Ok, I don't have blue eyes and blond hair, but that doesn't make me ugly or something. I don't have washboard abs, only the ones I have to flex to show. My parents aren't big shots or...
    1ANGRYtitan 1ANGRYtitan
    18-21, M
    1 Response Apr 8, 2015

    I can be really frustrated

    and even depressed when I notice how many shallow people are around me. To be clear: I define shallow as people who have trouble expressing their own personality and instead follow the groups preferences. Shallow people often don't know what they are talking about and they never...
    rzuman rzuman
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jul 17, 2014

    Like My Colleague.....

    Who thought it would be a great idea to get me to bond with her two children (and she also befriended me) for 2 years. Only to rip it away when it suited. She has shown so little regard for my feelings as well as a complete lack of sensitivity and understanding. I can't help...
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    Jan 7, 2012

    Vanity Made Our Society Sick

    The profiteering from pandering to the vanity of the shallow has been the biggest contributor in the spread of the poisonous (and unattainable) beauty ideals that effortlessly infiltrated our culture so acutely that it's even felt amongst kindergarteners. If it weren't for the...
    ForgottenMuse ForgottenMuse
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 5, 2011

    LOL. Sounds Like A Group For Those Who Are Unattractive...

    ...and it completely depends on what your definition of "shallow" is. I would hope that any sensible person would realize that a "shallow person" would be someone who picks a person to date based off of purely physical attributes. But someone that does this WHILE looking at the...
    RationalCutie RationalCutie
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 17, 2013
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