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I Do Forgive But Dont Forget Easily

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 122 People

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    ...Since I am sorta going through something right now. Last month was my birthday, and my friend was unable to make it because his cousin had a football game. If my friend was anyone else, I would have easily been okay with him not being able to show up. Anyway... When we were in...
    LawlessTranquility LawlessTranquility 26-30, M Nov 14, 2012

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    Yes Absolutely !

    I can forgive you yes indeed! But I will never forget, and I doubt you will ever again in your or my life time ever get the chance to hurt me again and definitely not my trust!
    wjk1849 wjk1849 46-50, M Nov 17, 2013

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    I Do Forgive But Dont Forget Easily

    When someone does me a wrong I do forgive but it's not easy to forget.
    aquarius3 aquarius3 61-65 Jan 29, 2012

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    Really ? The cats and the dogs have forgiven each other , what is wrong with you ? Their feud lasted for centuries but even they have called a truce , ok someone hurt you once...
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    sure, in a perfect world, I'm very forgiving. it's just that my heart and my head have a hard time with the forgetting part. sure i forgive but the chances that you'll ever be...
    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    People say "forgive, but never forget". I actually would rather forget that lesson than having to forgive... I know it's bad! I know forgiving is a sign of maturity, but that's how...
    BMTH99 BMTH99 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    I forgive but never forget. Because i never want to be hurt the same way twice.
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    My wife and I split up for about 8 months afew years ago. I gave her my heart for years but she got very disrespectful with in front of our kids and I left because of it. But over...
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    Wether it's physical, mental, or emotional....I never fail to forgive those who have wronged me. There is no point in holding grudges or wanting karma against that person. That...
    atay98 atay98 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I want to forgive my Dad. We haven't spoken in months, by my choice. I've been very angry and resentful for some things he did growing up and I've just cut him out of my life all...
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    So I'm dating some guy who I think I love the way he loves me and treats me but let's face it without that I don't like him like i would never be friends with him if it wasn't in a...
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    MaddyBale MaddyBale 18-21, F Feb 4

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    I never forget. Really, I don't. But I keep the past in the past, and I move on, whether I forgive them or not.
    LostandFading LostandFading 18-21, F Feb 6

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    The friends that betray me and the girls that cheated on my have never been forgiven. Everyone makes mistakes, and everyone can choose to atone.
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    I'll have to forgive myself first.For not listening to my mind and going with my heart.The signs were there but I choose to ignore them. I was fighting for something that was fake...
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    I get mad easily and it makes me want to hurt other people.
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