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I Do Forgive But Dont Forget Easily

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    I Do Forgive But Dont Forget Easily

    When someone does me a wrong I do forgive but it's not easy to forget.
    aquarius3 aquarius3 61-65 Jan 29, 2012

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    Yes Absolutely !

    I can forgive you yes indeed! But I will never forget, and I doubt you will ever again in your or my life time ever get the chance to hurt me again and definitely not my trust!
    wjk1849 wjk1849 46-50, M Nov 17, 2013

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    Forgive Not Equal To Forget

    I can't understand why people fail to realize the difference between forgiveness and forgetting. Most of them keep on insisting that these two things comes hand in hand, that you cannot forgive unless you learn how to forget. In my point of view though, it is possible for one...
    zoiera zoiera 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 12, 2013

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    Thought I'd Share This Since...

    ...Since I am sorta going through something right now. Last month was my birthday, and my friend was unable to make it because his cousin had a football game. If my friend was anyone else, I would have easily been okay with him not being able to show up. Anyway... When we were in...
    LawlessTranquility LawlessTranquility 26-30, M Nov 14, 2012

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    I finally did today. I forgave my ex for all the hurt. I feel so content and after meditating and praying on it I feel like I'm ready and it's time to move forward with my life...
    lalalapolkadotsmmbop lalalapolkadotsmmbop 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Maybe it's just because I love the people I forgive but I feel like I need to stay mad at them for a little while and let them say sorry to me. I can't do that though, once I share...
    samcozz22 samcozz22 18-21, F Jun 30

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    My best friend ganged up with the meanest girl in my school and made a YouTube video calling me a Lesbian with my other best friend I have forgiven her but I am no longer her...
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F Jun 29

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    Forgiving. It's the word a hero would use, but no, I'm that badass villain. Forgiving is a fake word, an escape plan for those who are guilty; it is the mental mercy. I will never...
    TheSmartestManOnEarth TheSmartestManOnEarth 16-17, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Which makes forgive an eternal job.
    converted converted 46-50, M Jul 14

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    I'm not an elephant but I never forget! Where am I? What are we doing here? What is the meaning of life?
    Paca24 Paca24 18-21, F Jul 14

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    I wish I didn't but its kinda hard not to when they just know the right words to say and make me soooooo happy.
    XFallingAngelX XFallingAngelX 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I am a musician and constantly find these great, magical musical ideas pop into my head, only to be gone before I can write it down :(
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M 4 days ago

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    What I Believe And Learned About Forgiveness At first the theory, the thoughts, the things I believe. Then one real example from life. --- I believe that there is no fulfilling...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 46-50, M Jul 3

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    Forgiveness is good, but forgetfulness is bad. I disagree with those who say "forgive and forget" because that's a pretty dangerous way of living. You put yourself right in the way...
    JJ125880 JJ125880 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    To forgive and forget is a much nobler deed than but be filled with rage and hatred for the rest of your life. It is not a weakness. To forgive someone is to have the strength to...
    Liv4Life Liv4Life 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 28

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    Forgiving isn't a easy thing to do as I'm sure everybody knows! Therefore can't be a weakness because it takes a lot of understanding and willpower to forgive after their...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    In this world there is so much hate for one another and I believe it has to do with not forgiving. When you think of forgiveness what do you think? just wiping away the past or...
    faithmonyai faithmonyai 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Let's be real. This states the obvious. Of course if an incident between you and someone occurred that requires forgiveness on your part, you're not gonna forget about the incident...
    mandyg14 mandyg14 22-25, F Jul 6

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    I don't know what to do!! :( I don't know!! Did I forgive him or did I simply hide him in my memories? When I was 11, my parents were invited to spend some time with friends...
    EarlPhantomhive EarlPhantomhive 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Sometimes I think I can be easily intimidating. It might have been worse when I was younger. It's hard to not blame yourself for the pre judgements that are made on you. Observing...
    cricketfly cricketfly 18-21, M 9 hrs ago

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    I forgive people because I believe in second chances but just because i forgive dosent mean i forget.
    HopeForReson HopeForReson 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    We often go about life forgetting some simple truths that lets us know that our life is important and we need to value it to make it worthwhile. So here is a reminder.. There is...
    valerian777 valerian777 41-45, M Jul 7

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    I did not get upset when someone wronged me. I just feel nothing about it. Im calm. I dont think about it. Im not mad at the person. I forgive him. I underestand him. I wish him...
    gerlisu gerlisu 31-35, F Jul 4

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    I'm beginning to think that I put my relationships in a box. I also put men in a box. Just like men think women are gold diggers who only care if a man has a job or could provide...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    Today is our 2nd anniversary and my hubby is at his brother's house. I reminded him last sunday of this date, but he still forgot! Doghouse or forgive?
    alexdupare alexdupare 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I BELEIVE in Forgiveness I don't have much patients but I try an forgive I hope one day I can forgive myself!!!! I can forgive others with time sometimes I feel as if I stretch...
    JacodyProphecy JacodyProphecy 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    sometimes we think all negatives, so that we feel the pain. Is't right? but you know guys, the pain in our heart is so easy and fast to throw if we think the positives, and forgive...
    narajanelle narajanelle 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    ForgivenessSo, what could you forgive in your life? How far could someone push you, how deeply could they scar you and you can still let it go. I mean, honestly just let it go...
    MissinMySon MissinMySon 36-40, M 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    Forgiveness is possible when the one seeking it takes the bold steps to be forgiven. Acknowledgement, true apology, atonement, change of behavior, rebuilding of trust. Otherwise...
    livingasme livingasme 46-50, F 4 Responses Jul 3

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    I liked him for a very long time now. I think I'm starting to love him... But to him, I'm just "the friend." I'm one of the few girls he can have a decent conversation with. We...
    HarmonyEvers HarmonyEvers 16-17, F Jul 9

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    I grew up believing I had a good family.But when we are young our world is very limited and we see as far the eye can see. But when we grow up we start understanding and...
    rukesh3 rukesh3 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    God. I grew up in God, and I was a big believer. My foundation was really good because I had a whole family of believers. Among my sisters and my cousins, I was the "closest" to...
    Celal Celal 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    I love to read any time of the day or night. I can get lost in a book and forget about anything. Sometimes when I was a little girl I'd read to escape sadness. Now I read to be...
    Jodybird Jodybird 56-60, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    “The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.” ― Mahatma Gandhi, All Men are Brothers: Autobiographical Reflections
    lovingRIZA lovingRIZA 51-55, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    All the people talk to forgive others who hurt you. Why i never was able to forgive? I was hurt all my life by different women. It started with my mother abusing me, then girls at...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 11

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    I'm trying to forgive an ex whom is not sorry and could care less that he treated me like **** or that he turned my world upside and stomped all over my heart. I'm trying to...
    lovelylady20 lovelylady20 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I won't forgive you my ******* ***** of a ex.You used me.Lied to me.Ill never forgive you.Never.
    ItsAllMyFaultxx ItsAllMyFaultxx 13-15, M Jul 14

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    You gotta be strong to be able to forgive.Forgiveness means letting go,release pain.I think we dont have time to waste with ire,anger and revenge. Those are silly inmature things...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 15

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    Any one that hurts me I forgive very quickly people tell me it's bad but I just can't stand the pain on heart of not forgiving someone for hurting me even if they did the worse...
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    It's not easy to forgive if you will use your feelings... Forgiveness is not only a feeling it's a decision...
    onionheart16 onionheart16 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Life gets rocky and people do some stupid things. ..hurtful things. We do as well intentionally or not that's how life goes some times. If you love someone and they hurt you...
    topboy1968 topboy1968 41-45 3 Responses Jul 14

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    She bet money on me that I would come home I ran away and she freaking just say there did nothing while I was running down to the trolley tracks hoping I would die it's been about...
    lonelinessneverfades lonelinessneverfades 13-15, F Jul 1

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    "It takes a strong person to say sorry and an even stronger person to forgive." ~Unknown
    intrigued4life intrigued4life 36-40, F Jul 10

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    I just can't :'( I can't forgive myself for losing my love :'(
    ywilliam31 ywilliam31 16-17, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    My past was full of dramas and still is but I try and forget about what happens. Even though I get beaten up by words everyday I try and forget about the hurt that I am receiving...
    MalachaiP MalachaiP 16-17, F Jul 2

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    Here's one of many sick and demented quotes from god. 6) David's Punishment - Polygamy, Rape, Baby Killing, and God's "Forgiveness" (2 Samuel 12:11-14 NAB) Thus says the...
    Flangas Flangas 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 17

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    This is my feeling sharing first time ever. I had my one best friend. We enjoyed a lot with one another 1 year. We used to love one another companies. I used to search for a chance...
    SweetMemories25 SweetMemories25 22-25, F Jun 26