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I Do Forgive But Dont Forget Easily

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    ...Since I am sorta going through something right now. Last month was my birthday, and my friend was unable to make it because his cousin had a football game. If my friend was anyone else, I would have easily been okay with him not being able to show up. Anyway... When we were in...
    LawlessTranquility LawlessTranquility 26-30, M Nov 14, 2012

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    I Do Forgive But Dont Forget Easily

    When someone does me a wrong I do forgive but it's not easy to forget.
    aquarius3 aquarius3 61-65 Jan 29, 2012

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    Yes Absolutely !

    I can forgive you yes indeed! But I will never forget, and I doubt you will ever again in your or my life time ever get the chance to hurt me again and definitely not my trust!
    wjk1849 wjk1849 46-50, M Nov 17, 2013

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    This happens the most when I'm high.
    Sapphic33 Sapphic33 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 25

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    Daily. Or hourly. Distracted removes them. Sigh.
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    Ill never forget the day we met the day my hole life changed I remember what you were wearing I remember your smile I remember how we were goofing off in class I also will never...
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    Forgive and Forget?? I'm neither Jesus nor do I have Alzheimer's!
    texan75 texan75 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 28

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    I have had people question me about forgiveness when I say that one major aspect to healing from being hurt is to forgive those who have hurt you. So I hope this will clarify and...
    lookingformyminnion lookingformyminnion 51-55, M Nov 17

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    Too many people get stuck in their stubborn ways and habits that they've gotten use to over the course of their life. You have to step outside of your comfort zone or you will...
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    I forgive my mother although I'll never forget. I'm choosing my reactions from now on I have the final say. No more feeling worthless I wasn't worthless I'm beautiful, I'm smart...
    LastofmyKind LastofmyKind 26-30, F Oct 28

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    You could have simply been an acquaintance I knew for a short period of time, but if I felt there was something special about you, I won't be forgetting you anytime soon. Even when...
    Friability Friability 18-21 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I've been in a relationship for 10 years now. We broke up 2 years ago because I caught him talking to other girls. Much more than just friendly talk went on. We got back together...
    jenbast jenbast 31-35, F 4 hrs ago

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    To give up our ego and surrendering all of our expectation, I believe, forgiveness is the hardest things to do, which is why doing it is a strength to do. By forgiving we are one...
    DelonWulf DelonWulf 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 28

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    It is time to leave for the day. I have put in my time and it's time to head home but this evening I am going to do something I really don't want to do but I need to do, I am...
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    There is a girl I am deeply in love with and she is (or was) my best friend. I knew she had been seeing a guy but she told me they had broken up. Then she failed to mention that...
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    Forgiveness for a man I thought to be evil has been an amazing learning experience. Although its not complete, I have found it gives me control over the pain I once felt. I have...
    EverlyAnn EverlyAnn 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I just think of all the times I needed forgiveness... I just made bad decisions or at times was not thinking. I know at times it was hard to forgive me but I am greatful to those...
    lake1107 lake1107 31-35, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Its been 4 years now.. I hate him , but cant take him out of my head. i dont want to be like this .. He is ruining everything . he makes me feel ugly and sad, because i want him...
    ava6nti ava6nti 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 6

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    I have a very short attention span. And on the off chance I was paying attention I forget everything I was paying attention to when I walk outside and see the pretty trees and the...
    dambookworm14 dambookworm14 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 28

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    Just wanted somewhere to write this I guess. I got in a pretty serious relationship when I just turned 17 and it was great for the most part, we could spend whole days together...
    dch29 dch29 22-25, M Oct 28

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    Forgive those who you have not forgiven as you are forgiven... Woo hoo JESUS is LORD!!!
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    You did everything you could do to try to destroy me... and I forgive you. Without validating your behavior or condoning your bad choices, I acknowledge that I simply cannot spare...
    PhresnoPhoenix PhresnoPhoenix 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 31

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    Isn't it wonderful how people just forget you even exist? One day they're your best friend and then the next they just stop talking to you. I can't deal with this anymore. I will...
    LoveandLoss17 LoveandLoss17 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 1

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    I could be having a serious conversation and then I'll see a bird and I'll forget about what I was talking about and point out the bird, then I'll see it fly and wish that I could...
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 2

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    Mark 11:25 And whenever you stand praying, forgive, if you have anything against anyone, so that your Father also who is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses.”
    lilyrose234 lilyrose234 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 27

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    I have the strength to forgive people, but their are only some I would never ever forgive. Some people don't deserve it.
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 28

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    I believe this is true but I'm not strong enough to forgive right now. In time, I hope to get there.
    Hope1985 Hope1985 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 27

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    I need to learn to forgive myself...
    MrsWrong1 MrsWrong1 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 27

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    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 7 Responses Oct 28

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    Sometimes the hardest thing in the world is to forgive.It always makes you a bigger person through the pain.
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 31

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    u cnt pretend .. even if u pretend the guy who truely lvz u will see it in ur eyes itz very hard to pretnd n hide the pain off broken heart .... that guy will hurt ..will fyt wid u...
    heartbroken223 heartbroken223 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 9

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    She has always been difficult. Stressful. Judgmental. Negative. I can't be happy so I don't see why anyone else should be either. As a child, you blame yourself as you don't...
    niklb niklb 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 10

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    Message to China This is a cut an paste from another blog I hope you find this I have never met anyone that, I have felt this kind of connection with. I’m part of a bigger whole...
    4in1 4in1 36-40 Nov 13

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    Forgive me God for my self soothing sins; filling my heart with things that pollute my heart and take up space but that don't produce life. Saturate, fill, energize,awaken...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M Nov 15

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    I have a bf who when we broke up sent his ex girlfriend who I caught him texting while me and him were together to my work and she gave me a knife I bought him for his bday back...
    doglovverr56 doglovverr56 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 15

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    I am always willing to forgive if the person really seems to regret what they've done. I can think of only a few people in which this isn't the case.
    ShyGuy990 ShyGuy990 22-25, M Nov 15

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    It's difficult, but I realized I had to forgive for me to be at peace.
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    Those who hurt me. Forgive how. Why. So they can do more damage. No. Trust left me.
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    Nothing like someone who forgives always
    KA1977 KA1977 36-40, M 1 day ago

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    It takes courage and patience to forgive and be the bigger person.
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