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I Do Forgive But Dont Forget Easily

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    I Do Forgive But Dont Forget Easily - When someone does me a wrong I do forgive but it's not easy to forget.
    aquarius3 aquarius3 61-65 Jan 29, 2012

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    Forgive Not Equal To Forget - I can't understand why people fail to realize the difference between forgiveness and forgetting. Most of them keep on insisting that these two things...
    zoiera zoiera 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 12, 2013

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    I forgive them for they know not what they do.
    TeKKeeVee TeKKeeVee 61-65, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    ...happens in the shower mostly and I've even tried on occasion to jump out and scrawl down what I can into a newly wetted piece of paper.... I'm thinking grease pencils in the...
    SShawnO SShawnO 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 25

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    I do believe in forgiveness. This doesn't mean forgetting though, let's make that clear. Forgiveness is a very complex concept to grasp; is it saying "it's fine" to something...
    cassidysc cassidysc 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    i am going to forgive all those who have done me wrong, i will not forget what they did, but i forgive them, its time people grow up in this world and take action, not no-one is...
    pudgyXadorable pudgyXadorable 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    I'll forgive but never forget, it's so hard to leave it all behind. *shrugs*
    lilay98 lilay98 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    Forgiveness I have done many things in the dark, things I'm not proud of, things that I need to ask forgiveness. But I haven't. I have not looked for forgiveness for my sins, and...
    OneHowlToTheMoon OneHowlToTheMoon 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    ~Everyone has wounds, some just cope with them better~ The pain is in everyone, some just find a way to replace it. I have become an expert in this. I am sensitive. Actually, I...
    insanitycuresboredom insanitycuresboredom 22-25, F Mar 21

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    I forgive easily, but I never forget. I can't hold grudges. I just push everything far away into the back of my mind. Some say it's unhealthy, but I'm happier that way.
    teejayy23 teejayy23 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    I feel like crying, screaming, swearing, punching, thrashing, sprinting to the other side of the world and back again, I feel hot, I feel desperate.... I feel like I don't know...
    jeweldoggy jeweldoggy 13-15, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I have had people question me about forgiveness when I say that one major aspect to healing from being hurt is to forgive those who have hurt you. So I hope this will clarify and...
    myjourneyismine myjourneyismine 51-55, M 2 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    Parallel blue lines, skipping the very top of course. White paper, red margin, college rule or wide rule? Doesn't seem too complex. Not too hard to picture or decide right? But...
    SylenaEverlasting SylenaEverlasting 13-15, F Mar 25

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    The choice to forgive is not only the right thing to do, but the strongest thing you can do for yourself. To forgive is to put your own pride aside and be the bigger person... To...
    autumnslove autumnslove 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    Have been listening to this song a lot lately…Have been short with people recently… I know I can be mean sometimes…Not everyone will understand or believe me...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 6 hrs ago

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    I don't think I can forgive my husband for the way that he acted when my father got sick and passed away from prostate cancer after a 10 year battle against it. My dad was pretty...
    idk8 idk8 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    Just forget me, being with me nothing good can come through. But one thing I promise is, I will never forget you. The memories we shared, that went by too fast. They're all a...
    nivanvc nivanvc 36-40, M Mar 30

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    Hey David. I'm just going to pretend that you're going to read this like I'm sending it to you... but maybe I'll be more open, because I know you never will. So first off... I...
    DancingWithFire DancingWithFire 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I was not always like this. I loved him, I can't ever see him upset and I could never be angry over him, but right now I am. I though he was my best friend and I had fallen for...
    Alveira04 Alveira04 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    I do but I don't...it takes a lot for me to really trust you, but that's not even the peak of my trust wall. You know I trust you if you're in my heart. If you're in my heart then...
    JEJ22 JEJ22 22-25, M a week ago

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    I don't want to live my whole life in self pity and torturing myself with your thoughts but why is it that your thoughts follow me wherever I go?Why is it that I have built a wall...
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    When I'm bored, I k1k! Forgive me if I don't reply to some of you.
    KateMiddleton87 KateMiddleton87 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    I've learned forgiveness is possible and makes way for growth and love. Before I go any further I am going to make a disclaimer: this story will be a short novel about my life...
    RedHotCrazyPerson RedHotCrazyPerson 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 6

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    "Since when is forgiveness a better quality than loyalty" I've always been a stubborn individual just like my father and one of the biggest vices I have is being too prideful...
    Cantbelieveit20 Cantbelieveit20 22-25, M Apr 7

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    I don't believe in forgiveness...at least I don't anymore. I used to be able to forgive people for small or big things, but now there's no such will inside me to forgive anyone...
    WithoutHope00 WithoutHope00 22-25, M 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    Don’t live your life with hate in your heart. You will end up hurting yourself more than the people you hate. Forgiveness is not saying, “What you did to me is okay.” It...
    serachii serachii 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 1

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    i always forgive people that hurt me,my mom has this same habit even she forgives people who hurt her i dont know why i have such a soft heart i dont like to take revenge,even if i...
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I realize that everyone doesn't deserve forgiveness because I am not looking for sympathy if a person can't admit to me that they messed up I cant forgive that person and why...
    cantfoolthewise cantfoolthewise 31-35 Mar 19

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    This is the first step to healing..whenever someone does me wrong, the first thing I do is say "I forgive you, it's in the past" because it honestly is!! Trust me when I say I've...
    YoursTrulyLina YoursTrulyLina 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    Yeah. I have those moments where I just ask myself, "Why did I do that," a few minutes after something happens. And it occupies my mind a lot until I forget about. I never really...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 22

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    I did that just yesterday. I finished a whole 400 pg. book in just a day and a half. I love reading, I get lost in this new little world that only exists on those pages. I...
    lifeisabeautifulstruggle19 lifeisabeautifulstruggle19 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    We were married almost nine years, I was pregnant with our third child and he cheated. Everything was a lie! Here we are two years later and the scars are still so very real and...
    undecided423 undecided423 31-35, F Mar 29

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    So so so so boring :}D Hector: O_O Then why are you smiling >_< Me: I'm just naturally huggable unlike a certain unruly OniiChan ;{P Hector: Stop talking nonsense brat >_<...
    SquirrellyChanLuvsAcorns83 SquirrellyChanLuvsAcorns83 18-21 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Who would bother to remember he quiet one? Oh she's not important, all she does is read and draw. That one, she's the only one who could almost fail a class for not speaking. Yeah...
    BleedingOrchids BleedingOrchids 13-15, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    I forgive you and I am sorry. I wish to set my soul free and in order to do that I need to let go of the pain I've endured and the pain I've caused. I am sorry and I forgive you.
    Roibeard Roibeard 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 18

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    if you don't forgive, there's more weight to your shoulders. why carry more trouble than u already have? grudges drain your energy, i don't bother. forgive and move on
    basedgodschild basedgodschild 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    You don't know what I have been through regardless of who the person was, It wasn't a bad experience, never that. Peroooo I learned from it. You can always have that one friend who...
    DDanaaax3 DDanaaax3 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    It is easy for me to forgive others, why is it so hard to forgive myself?
    memyselfandi27 memyselfandi27 22-25, F 3 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    Life is a long journey...we meet so many people when we are traveling that...we cannot stop in front of one person and hate him as we have to go far in our journey...you don't need...
    chethaki chethaki 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    How can I after the days months weeks he hasn't talked to me for or not cared about me... Since I was about 4 I used To see him some weekends he kept saying we are going to do...
    Daisyellenrose Daisyellenrose 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Never Will. I never forgive my mum for not believing me when I was raped and when she called me a ****. It still hurts thinking about it.
    slivereyes slivereyes 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    Change your life by forgiving those that hurt/harmed you. I love this vid on forgiveness > http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a4tl_AAxQao
    InnerCalm InnerCalm 31-35 3 Responses Mar 20

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    “Forgiveness is unlocking the door to set someone free and realising you were the prisoner." Max Lucado
    Simplified Simplified 46-50, M 5 Responses Mar 22

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    I forget that I'm human. Everyday that goes by, I keep calm and do whatever it is I need to do. I don't just lose my cool (unless I'm alone in my car driving and some idiot doesn't...
    lnguyen1116 lnguyen1116 18-21, F Mar 28

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    I really need to forgive myself.
    StellaNoir StellaNoir 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    My forgetfulness is pervasive enough that, given enough time and distraction, I can forget just about anything! Much of the time, it takes very little effort. I often forget what I...
    Kavka Kavka 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    All i have to say is if God and Jesus can forgive us all, why can't I when I'm made in their image?
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    In high school I had bad depression. I had no idea what to do with myself or how i really felt. There were 2 guys. Guy 1: i ended up dating for a couple weeks and i knew it...
    emmysauraus emmysauraus 16-17, F Apr 3

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    To people who read my posts they are probably used to the fact that I never send out any negative vibes, but there's a first time for all. I have learnt that trust is a very...
    BeatTheBest BeatTheBest 16-17, M a week ago

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    No. It does not work like that. You do not forgive because you want people to walk right over you...even though sometimes it could be interpreted that way and they call you a...
    Psychologica Psychologica 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'll admit there are some things in my life i wish that i could forget.... I want to forget all the painful memories, all the hurtful events and most importantly all the fake...
    Coolrocker Coolrocker 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    Or, more correctly, I forget words. I'm multilingual and sometimes my thoughts just come on the wrong language. I forget the simplest, everyday words and just stare into space...
    ErieNemisa ErieNemisa 22-25, F Mar 19