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I Do Not Agree With Domestic Discipline

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 24 People

    Found This On The Takenhand Website....

    When rape is a gift I know, I know, it's a dangerous title, and I'll get hatemail. So let me say straight away that on no account do I advocate or in any way condone rape or abuse of any kind. Indeed, I urge all women (and men!) to use whatever force is necessary to defend...
    Vivagalore Vivagalore 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 14, 2012

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    Non Consensual Consent?...

    Another article from the same taken hand website.... Superficially non-consensual but deeply consensual People need to think of time-frames before they simplistically equate ”non-consent” in some form with “abuse”. My wife consents to DD in her long-term, wisest, mind...
    Vivagalore Vivagalore 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 14, 2012

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    A Good Wife Doesnt Need To Be Spanked.

    "In some wives DD seems to spawn a loss of responsible behaviour. These women will "misbehave" because they feel the act is worth the punishment they will get for doing it. It's as if being spanked, or losing driving privileges for a couple of days, eliminates the wrong. It's...
    Vivagalore Vivagalore 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 16, 2012

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    Lets Get Physical...

    What Well-Informed Researchers, Physicians, Theologians, and Scholars Say: “Any form of corporal punishment or ‘spanking’ is a violent attack upon another human being’s integrity. The effect remains with the victim forever and becomes an unforgiving part of his or her...
    Vivagalore Vivagalore 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 16, 2012

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    Spanked twice today I had a bad today as far as not being well behaved. I woke up in this mood where I just didn't give a pooh, my opinion would be heard and I will do as I want...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F 6 Responses May 12

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    How did you start your Domestic Discipline relationship? Do you have a contract? Did you have a ceremony or something like that?
    Chuckdog24 Chuckdog24 41-45, M 3 Responses Apr 27

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    Just because I don't share your interests, does not mean I will disrespect you or anything pertaining to your interests. I do expect the same. I don't care if you think "art is...
    dontyouunderstand dontyouunderstand 18-21 Apr 26

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    Did not complete my chores last night, got down during our workout, then after leaving the gym. I flew by him on the interstate because I was mad. It ended up with me not talking...
    kfflorida kfflorida 46-50, F 6 Responses May 4

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    anyone find a bible study on this? experiences with lines? how strict are yalls husband's about chores? I'm having on issue on getting my chores done, on phone instead. how is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 17

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    This weekend Sir took me out of town and I experienced my first preventative maintenance... Or as I called it a be good warning spank. It was very effective for me! I was able to...
    JoshsSubmissive JoshsSubmissive 26-30, F 5 Responses May 4

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    How often is everyone disciplined? Is it for the same wrong doing? My husband and I have been living the DD lifestyle for about 7 months. I seem to be very headstrong about a...
    stephjoe stephjoe 31-35, F 7 Responses May 7

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    Yesterday Sir gave me a chore to do and I totally forgot to do it. So today at lunch He bent me over His knee and disciplined me with our new wood hairbrush. So now I'm sitting in...
    JoshsSubmissive JoshsSubmissive 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 27

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    I was disciplined last night because I allowed my friend Laura to visit when the kids were here and also I let her smoke in the house because it was raining. My husband doesn't...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset 36-40, F 9 Responses May 1

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    I came home after a week away and was very wound up. We sat and had a talk about my obedience I had not obeyed the rule so I was spanked. being gone has given him a new...
    teachermama24 teachermama24 41-45, F 3 Responses May 10

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    I knew I was going to have trouble when I woke up yesterday. The stress levels are high for me right now. And sure enough I lose my temper in a situation and run my mouth. I was...
    teachermama24 teachermama24 41-45, F 1 Response May 12

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    I'm considering a blog... Thoughts on this? Would you read it? What would you want to read about? It would be about my relationship with my sweet sir. It would be about our...
    mollyhearts mollyhearts 36-40, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    I was spanked last night with his belt, then the large wooden paddle, then a 1 1/2 inch thick rubber strap paddle thingy. Ouch! First time with that. It hurts! Strangely, it hurt...
    Oneluckygal Oneluckygal 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 26

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    My husband and I have been in a DD relationship for a little over 2 years now and I couldn't imagine what things would be like if we had not introduced this change into our...
    daddysbabygirl27 daddysbabygirl27 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 29

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    We have been in a DD relationship for around a year now. He hasn't allowed me to cut my hair since I signed my contract, I have a dress code, including makeup, and He's purchased...
    brandspankinnew brandspankinnew 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 30

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    Well, we discussed starting this last night and decided today that I would get my first sort of establishment spanking to ground us Into our new lifestyle. He has yet to come home...
    juskeepswimming juskeepswimming 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 30

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    Ok, I got my first spanking ever tonight and I have a question: How in the world do you guys endure 10+ whacks? I got one, just ONE with the belt and it took my breath away and...
    juskeepswimming juskeepswimming 31-35, F 11 Responses Apr 30

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    My fiance is now the proud owner of a rattan cane. I don't think he'll be needing to use it anytime soon. :) It doesn't look scary, but I've heard tales of terror with respect to...
    Oneluckygal Oneluckygal 31-35, F 7 Responses May 5

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    Summer is coming.....rough time of year for me. As a teacher I look forward to summer and the break however after a few days I start going downhill. Too much time on my hands is...
    QuietTranquility QuietTranquility 36-40, F 8 Responses May 13

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    I discovered CDD almost by accident when I was dating my now Dear Wife. We had gone out for the evening and she was acting out a bit. As we were approaching the door of the...
    HippyJoe HippyJoe 56-60, M 1 Response May 16

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    anyone get spanked this weekend? I'm about to, for not getting our laundry put away for the umpteenth day. don't know yet but probably with our paddle our belt. anyone else have a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses May 17

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    Oh I am in horrible trouble this time! I left without permission, and had my fun. But now it's time to pay the piper. Oh my gosh I am so dead! No idea what's going to happen...
    christian0539 christian0539 31-35, M 5 Responses May 17

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    Last night was the worst punishment I've had so far. I felt really terrible. We were in bed cuddling because I was feeling sad and we were talking about ddlg stuff and All of a...
    MinaMari MinaMari 22-25, F a week ago

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    just out of curiosity any wives ever make the mistake of sticking their tongue out at their husbands when being fussed at? how'd that go over? I've done it a couple times within a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses a week ago

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    I injured my arm almost 2 months ago and it's not getting better... I've been to the doctor and we have a plan set to make it better... But I can't help but feel less submissive to...
    JoshsSubmissive JoshsSubmissive 26-30, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    Had a great weekend with my wife in a mini bootcamp. Tested her pain tolerance and willingness to obey. She did very well only wish we had more time.
    Chuckdog24 Chuckdog24 41-45, M 6 days ago

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    I found myself reaching for my phone today to "gossip" about something that happened at work. I stopped myself after remembering The Four Agreements!
    TheNewOldMe TheNewOldMe 36-40, F May 1

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    I "saw" a Real Housewives of Atlanta episode; Where Todd and the girl he wanted to marry GOT Stuck on this issue. Todd KEPT "trying to Enter the Issue from The BACK Door", telling...
    sissydreams sissydreams 61-65, M May 17

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    I call it cheating. On the contrary, what could I possibly gain from cheating? I feel if you do not want a meaningful relationship or worse to pay back someone who has hurt you or...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 2 Responses May 1

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    Part Two. Consider this.. It is not to try to make anyone comply to how I feel. It is merely to enlighten you on what (I feel) is a better way. As I said in part one. What...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F May 2

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    Train people to solve problems using violence and you end up with people who know how to solve problems with violence. The vets I've worked with almost never followed orders, every...
    UppityProletarian UppityProletarian 36-40, M 1 Response May 8

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    Ok ep friends, I need your help. Will post below.
    Oneluckygal Oneluckygal 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 28

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    I want so badly to start this! I think it would truly help my marriage in so many ways but I don't know how to go about it. My husband is not the dominant one and is irresponsible...
    juskeepswimming juskeepswimming 31-35, F 8 Responses Apr 28

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    Today has been a wonderful day. Found out today my husband and I our expecting our third child. Let's hope there is only one in the oven this time! Twins aren't easy and that was...
    JennStone JennStone 26-30, F 10 Responses Apr 30

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    Wife out of town for the night so thought I would work on plans for our boot camp. Spanking dress code cook serve clean completely obey ask permission for every thing.
    Chuckdog24 Chuckdog24 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 30

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    I AM SO IMPATIENT! I just want to hurry up already and fast forward until we're already set in this lifestyle and things are "peachy" UGHHHH how freaking long will it take and how...
    juskeepswimming juskeepswimming 31-35, F 3 Responses May 2

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    what implements are considered "quiet" minus my fussing & complaining?
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses May 5

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