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I Do Not Agree With Domestic Discipline

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 24 People

    A Good Wife Doesnt Need To Be Spanked.

    "In some wives DD seems to spawn a loss of responsible behaviour. These women will "misbehave" because they feel the act is worth the punishment they will get for doing it. It's as if being spanked, or losing driving privileges for a couple of days, eliminates the wrong. It's...
    Vivagalore Vivagalore 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 16, 2012

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    Lets Get Physical...

    What Well-Informed Researchers, Physicians, Theologians, and Scholars Say: “Any form of corporal punishment or ‘spanking’ is a violent attack upon another human being’s integrity. The effect remains with the victim forever and becomes an unforgiving part of his or her...
    Vivagalore Vivagalore 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 16, 2012

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    Non Consensual Consent?...

    Another article from the same taken hand website.... Superficially non-consensual but deeply consensual People need to think of time-frames before they simplistically equate ”non-consent” in some form with “abuse”. My wife consents to DD in her long-term, wisest, mind...
    Vivagalore Vivagalore 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 14, 2012

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    Found This On The Takenhand Website....

    When rape is a gift I know, I know, it's a dangerous title, and I'll get hatemail. So let me say straight away that on no account do I advocate or in any way condone rape or abuse of any kind. Indeed, I urge all women (and men!) to use whatever force is necessary to defend...
    Vivagalore Vivagalore 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 14, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    When I tell people I practice domestic discipline half of them have no idea what that is and the other half think I'm crazy. After having our 6th child my marriage started failing...
    Jillianlwt Jillianlwt 36-40 Dec 13

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    I have been into Domestic Discipline and Spanking over 20 years. Anyone else live DD?
    spankeedduk spankeedduk 36-40, F 5 Responses Nov 30

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    I have lived Domestic Discipline for over 20 years and my husband spanks me when i break a rule. I love the DD lifestyle!
    spankeedduk spankeedduk 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 1

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    I am intrigued by the domestic discipline I have been reading about. I have talked to hubby about it and he is on the fence. I really feel like it would help me respect and...
    bobbieshae bobbieshae 41-45, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    how would you begin this type of relationship. my fiance is deffinatly dominent in our house and to me. but I want the full dd relationship with rules and punishments and I'm not...
    Caleah Caleah 31-35, F 7 Responses Nov 28

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    Although we have not ventured into this, I do want to. I understand it is not intended to be sensual, but is it? I mean, wives, don't you just want to be with your husband after...
    bobbieshae bobbieshae 41-45, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    A NEW STUDY SHOWS POSITIVE DISCPLINE WORKS BETTER THAN FEAR OF PUNISHMENT IN PREVENTING CHILDREN FROM TELLING LIES. http://www.world-science.net/othernews/141208_honesty.htm If...
    Badseed1956 Badseed1956 56-60, M 1 Response Dec 16

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    Myself and husband run a DD website www.myddlife.com
    spankeedduk spankeedduk 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 1

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    I have questions. Are you ladies really in a dd relationship? Are you really happy? Can you stop the punishments? I'm only asking because I would like to have this type of...
    tom45000 tom45000 41-45, M 7 Responses Dec 3

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    Growing up I always wondered if my dad spanked my mom and if so was it similar to mine. A couple years ago when I was 12 I found our for sure. I came home from a friends house...
    doodlebug224 doodlebug224 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 18

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    Hope everyone had a Merry Christmas!
    bobbieshae bobbieshae 41-45, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Can everybody stop saying that "it's what's on the inside that counts" because we all know that's a steaming pile of horse ****. If that were true then why is everything based on...
    ThereIsNoName ThereIsNoName 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 27

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    It always better when someone else does it for you ^_^
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 11

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    Apparently today has been my most controversial day on EP yet. I have opinions and so do other people. it's ok if you don't agree with me. thank you for making this place more...
    greeneyz83 greeneyz83 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 15

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    I have several friends with BPD. My one friend I'm getting pretty close to she has distance herself somewhat from me however I talk to her in a language she understands. I do my...
    cutie7710 cutie7710 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 18

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    So something big happened on Friday! First of all, I should say that he is my former teacher and I'm an adult. I'm 19 and he's 26... So here it goes, I came back to my old high...
    thatkid1195 thatkid1195 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Every time I visit my mom, she gets mad at some point. Somewhere along the way, a phone conversation turns into an argument. Every little thing irritates her. And what simply makes...
    vrintige vrintige 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I love them really, it's just that they're religious and well, they expect me to be aswel and that doesbt really work because I like to go out, try out New things, have fun...
    Mariyah22 Mariyah22 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I'm not really sure what to post this under but it has to do with discipline so I chose here...... I can't stand to see kids act up and take control of their parents instead of...
    s123456789s s123456789s 16-17, F 5 Responses Dec 6

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    If you were to see me walking down the street, or in the grocery store, you would never realize that I am a survivor. The physical scars have healed, yet the mental and emotional...
    nuwbnprincess nuwbnprincess 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 16

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    He’s a git, to be honest. Never really did get on with him if you discount being five and always managing to wheedle him into buying you that sweet when the mother proved too...
    morea morea 22-25, F Dec 5

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    Last year I met this guy, who I fell in love with two months into "talking." We worked together. He would talk to me during work hours but after I wouldn't receive a cal or text...
    TVel94 TVel94 18-21, F Dec 8

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    I agree and that they should be strictly enforced once again. The actions of youngsters today, both in and out of school leaves a lot to be desired
    willylover1 willylover1 61-65, M Dec 15

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    im new at discipline i hear other people say they do this and that ect.. so im still learn new ways to discipline
    ROWELLLISA421 ROWELLLISA421 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 28

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    I have no desire to be a housewife. granted, I can clean, do laundry, and know how to iron somewhat. I still have to learn how to cook because when I finish school and live on my...
    ajrestless ajrestless 22-25, F Dec 15

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    So im gonna finally get this off my chest. Its been a dark cloud over my head for months. I want to change something that i cannot change. I am a victim of domestic violence. Its...
    Heyababe Heyababe 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 17

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    The hand in my profile pic is my hand. I believe that an open hand can be a symbol for different aspects. However got me it is the symbol of discipline abc correcting disobedience...
    blackinc blackinc 36-40, M Nov 27

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    my daugthers need discipline every day
    ROWELLLISA421 ROWELLLISA421 22-25, F 7 Responses Dec 5

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    my children get lot of discipline in this house lots of rules
    ROWELLLISA421 ROWELLLISA421 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 5

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    I haven disciplined in along time. I get in so much trouble and get away with I almost forgotten how it feels to get spanked
    Jbt619 Jbt619 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 9

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    I think that the need for discipline is not in any way age related. It is sad that we do hold kids accountable for their actions and then often as adults... we get away with the...
    javlin4 javlin4 46-50, M 6 Responses Dec 9

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    i have two daugthers that need discipline bad allways in to something drives me crazy
    ROWELLLISA421 ROWELLLISA421 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 10

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    I need some discipline. I'm flaking on school assignments and responsibilities. Please message me a punishment that will get me focused immediately so I can get through my exams...
    splidel splidel 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 14

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    There is a general lack of discipline throughout society these days and I dont think it has been for the best
    willylover1 willylover1 61-65, M 2 Responses Dec 15

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    Being the recipient of a fair amount of discipline I like to meet people who indulge in this
    willylover1 willylover1 61-65, M Dec 15

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    If you don't have discipline in the house then you'll let your children get away with murder one day
    JonnyBurrows10 JonnyBurrows10 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 19

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    I need regular discipline to keep me focused on things better. Even if I still need spankings to accomplish that.
    HorseAngel33 HorseAngel33 36-40, F 4 days ago

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    Which is why I still have to be spanked. It hurts but I know one of these days its going to help me gain some self discipline, I hope
    HorseAngel33 HorseAngel33 36-40, F 3 days ago

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    I discipline my 9 children,me and their dad give spankings if needed,we only use hand and wooden spoon.
    prospanking prospanking 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I'm going to tell a story, so prepare for a lengthy read. Read it if you like, or not, I just need to write it down. I'm going to start at a very important part of my experience...
    soulrebel78 soulrebel78 36-40, F Nov 30

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    I wake up to my boyfriend whispering in my ear your stupid, fat, ugly and no one will ever love you. I look around our apartment were going to lose soon and there's a hole in every...
    phantom44a phantom44a 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 3

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    I'm making my own candles, preparing orange pomanders while the caramel is boiling with a chirpy smile on my face. Next year...
    Mandy0111 Mandy0111 22-25, F Dec 9