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I Do Not Agree With Domestic Discipline

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    Non Consensual Consent?...

    Another article from the same taken hand website.... Superficially non-consensual but deeply consensual People need to think of time-frames before they simplistically equate ”non-consent” in some form with “abuse”. My wife consents to DD in her long-term, wisest, mind...
    Ambitieuxetvicieux Ambitieuxetvicieux 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 14, 2012

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    I Believe Domestic Discipline Can Be Abusive

    I do believe that domestic discipline can be healthy. I have corresponded with TIH wives who are also in DD relationships and I do believe that many of these women are happy and content within their marriages. They have entered into DD as consensual partners and many have loving...
    gumshoejane2 gumshoejane2 36-40, F 44 Responses Nov 23, 2011

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    A Good Wife Doesnt Need To Be Spanked.

    "In some wives DD seems to spawn a loss of responsible behaviour. These women will "misbehave" because they feel the act is worth the punishment they will get for doing it. It's as if being spanked, or losing driving privileges for a couple of days, eliminates the wrong. It's...
    Ambitieuxetvicieux Ambitieuxetvicieux 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 16, 2012

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    Lets Get Physical...

    What Well-Informed Researchers, Physicians, Theologians, and Scholars Say: “Any form of corporal punishment or ‘spanking’ is a violent attack upon another human being’s integrity. The effect remains with the victim forever and becomes an unforgiving part of his or her...
    Ambitieuxetvicieux Ambitieuxetvicieux 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 16, 2012

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    Found This On The Takenhand Website....

    When rape is a gift I know, I know, it's a dangerous title, and I'll get hatemail. So let me say straight away that on no account do I advocate or in any way condone rape or abuse of any kind. Indeed, I urge all women (and men!) to use whatever force is necessary to defend...
    Ambitieuxetvicieux Ambitieuxetvicieux 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 14, 2012

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    Agreeing with others is an ingredient or act in a conversation that builds mutual respect for whoever is involved in your conversation. Agreeing also builds respect for you from...
    seotelkniwt seotelkniwt 61-65, F 1 day ago

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    My experiences shape my beliefs. If you have been where I have, you understand. If you haven't, you can try, but if you don't agree with me, that's ok. I don't need anyone's...
    dasLicht dasLicht 56-60, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    To expect people to agree with u is Inhumane. And when u do that, it leads to violence and extremism :/
    Aly1607 Aly1607 16-17, M 4 days ago

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    I agree with the death penalty only if the perpetrator is caught redhanded, or confesses. Too many people on death row have been found to be innocent by DNA tests that were not...
    phillysteve phillysteve 36-40, M 1 day ago

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    We live a DD life and wondered who else here lives this? We started a website so people understand what it is http://domesticdisciplineuk.ning.com/home Princess x
    princess1950 princess1950 36-40, F 3 days ago

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    Can a submissive surrender to her dom without the threat of spanking or other discipline?
    MrsHarley MrsHarley 26-30, F 6 Responses Apr 1

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    So. I wanted to update on how fabulous my husband is getting at all of this. It all started with hand spanking... and let me tell you, we've come a far way! This month marks a...
    Tihtil Tihtil 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 24

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    I talked to my father in heaven about some of the problems I've been having many times recently. Chronic alcohol inebriation, lying, ***********, sneaking to bars at night...
    dave56901 dave56901 31-35, M 1 day ago

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    I Agree there are many weirdos on This but there are also many weirdos on every other website unfortunately it's inescapable
    princessSOS princessSOS 13-15, F Mar 24

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    I never expect people to agree cause when they see that potato = energy cause a bird can flap its wings and my gf is hot than they know that First Lady Michelle has problems with...
    epicmonk3ydude epicmonk3ydude 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    I shouldn't expect that but when they don't , I get mad...something is wrong with me!! It all depend of the subject though, and how many people is involved...
    Dayse10 Dayse10 36-40, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    www.domdisdatinguk.com For those seeking a DD relationship.
    princess1950 princess1950 36-40, F 5 hrs ago

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    Want to see our implements? 
    Tihtil Tihtil 31-35, F 10 Responses Mar 26

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    My husband spanks me when I deserve it. But I'm the one who asked to start this, and I really feel like it makes me a better person, and that it has made our marriage that much...
    Srkelly89 Srkelly89 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    My dad then later my step dad, I hope my kids never have to see the things I did.
    oversimplification oversimplification 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    My first job at 18 was at Foot Locker. I really wanted to work at Vans but Foot Locker called me for an interview and I got the job. I am a shoe enthusiest so I hardly minded at...
    TazmainianDevil TazmainianDevil 18-21, F Mar 29

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    I cannot believe people believe that stuff. I was 18 when I saw the lies and pulled away. It amazes me people are well into there seniority and still believe that mess. From...
    TazmainianDevil TazmainianDevil 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    ....So true!
    lilreddress lilreddress 36-40, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    ...Thankfully i have friends who help keep those small cracks from tearing me apart... Thank you for keeping me together when all i want to do is crumble and fall apart. xoxo
    lilreddress lilreddress 36-40, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I believe that no one has the right to kill anyone no matter what he/she had done. The government or the police has no right to kill a criminal just because they feel they had the...
    missinvisiblegirl missinvisiblegirl 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I cant believe how many disrespectful people there is in this world today and I hate to say it but mostly in the younger generation. Times have changed and i get that but what...
    wickedone72 wickedone72 41-45, F 7 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    my stepdad believes in humiliating and says I can learn a lot from this by keeping me in line and under his control. my stepdad does control me by making me wear nappies/diapers in...
    tony2014 tony2014 13-15, M Mar 23

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    As a guy myself, I agree with this too! Yes, previously mentioned, SOME men feel The need to grope women without any form of consent/this is ok for you to do that/I like this...
    daveislost daveislost 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 19

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    I usually don't argue period. When I talk to people, I usually don't say anything that could really cause an argument and I'm usually pretty quiet. But if someone says something...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    It's been awhile - Hi everyone I hope things are going well with you ^.* I haven't been on in awhile lots of school work I haven't had the time unfortunately . But just a quick...
    PerfectlyyUnperfectt PerfectlyyUnperfectt 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    I found a man But he is much older than I am We have a 16 year age gap 20 and 36 But it doesn’t matter What I care about is I think he can’t move on from his past love of 8...
    IShallGoMad IShallGoMad 18-21, F Apr 4

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    Im in love with my cousin.... Im in love with my cousin.... I always have been. This started nearly 20 years ago, we were 7. I had the biggest crush on him! He felt the same. We...
    20yearscoming 20yearscoming 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I am in a domestic violence relationship. When my bf gets angry he insults me & pushes me. He has slapped me once. It is mostly bruises I've had and him hitting my head or throwing...
    sarahhunnix3 sarahhunnix3 18-21, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    "I wasn't lucky enough to have ever found what I wanted to do. Don't get me wrong-- I did nicely. But I never found my passion." -Said an elderly woman in the Humans of New York...
    Lapoeta2nv Lapoeta2nv 22-25, F 36 mins ago

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    He was perfect from the beginning kind patient sweet. He moved in with me and I was totally in love he was my first true love. I ended up falling pregnant and it all started just...
    leeleelou leeleelou 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 28

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    Children needs to be disciplined, no matter the age or gender. That is how me and my sisters and my brother were raised - I was born in a underclass household in the early 70's...
    MaryKoviski MaryKoviski 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    I was born with a normal family,. A mother, father, older brother and older sister. However, once I turned the age of 3, my mother decided to undergo gender reassignment surgery...
    Mzamigo Mzamigo 18-21, F Mar 24

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    I think strict discipline is essential for girls/women. I believe in enforcing discipline with hard over the knee spankings !
    spanker30 spanker30 26-30, M 6 Responses a week ago

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    I think all girls should be disciplined daily! I crave a strong man to own me and set upon me his rules and if I stray from the guidelines he has set me I should be punished in...
    littlesubmissive littlesubmissive 18-21, F 30 Responses Mar 23

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    i am more disciplined physically than i am organised i control my body efficiently and never go half-hearted
    Hemanwar Hemanwar 18-21, M Mar 23

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    I am a married dad of three. My sons are 14 and 11, my daughter is 13. All are still disciplined by spanking though it is infrequent for the elder two.
    jayman83 jayman83 46-50, M 4 Responses Mar 24

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    I think there should be petticoat discipline. I think that because I love dressing like a girl. If I got punished I would love to have my punishment being a baby girl.
    Sarahismygirlname Sarahismygirlname 13-15, T Mar 30

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    I wish I could discipline other people
    StellaNoir StellaNoir 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    I am a survivor, after being in a relationship for 10 years with it turning violent after almost 3 years, I can say that I'm finally leaving. It's scary and I know its going to be...
    lavendershade lavendershade 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 20

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    When I was little, my parents physically fought. And one day my dad beat me with a red plastic chair. I've had black eyes and bruises bc of him
    raykay1998 raykay1998 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 20

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    My story I keep asking myself when it all started. If there was a specific day or a specific event to be able to pinpoint when I started to loose myself. There is no day or...
    NoDavid NoDavid 46-50 1 Response Mar 22

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    My older brother takes his anger out on me , he has been for years. Mostly verbal abuse he uses some seriously ugly words just to bring me down and make sure I'm as miserable as he...
    kim95164 kim95164 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 25

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    Just want to know plz help my bf Is from Afghanistan i been with him 10 months and he has stop me from uni he has stop me from wearing tight jeans he dont even allow me to the shop...
    ayesha290388 ayesha290388 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 25

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    What did I do to deserve this? I loved him and was always there for him, even when he would scream at me or hit me. I never did anything to deserve this, in my mind, but whenever I...
    LtngBug67 LtngBug67 46-50, F 5 Responses Mar 30

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    A few weeks ago I came to the realization that my ex-husband is on drugs and has been since the beginning of our marraige. Now that I have been out of my abusive relationship for...
    strongerwiser34 strongerwiser34 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    hi to everyone is reading this. I don't know what is wrong with me at the moment but feel like I just need to tell what is happening to me and how I feel and maybe someone can...