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I Do Not Agree With Domestic Discipline

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 24 People

    Lets Get Physical...

    What Well-Informed Researchers, Physicians, Theologians, and Scholars Say: “Any form of corporal punishment or ‘spanking’ is a violent attack upon another human being’s integrity. The effect remains with the victim forever and becomes an unforgiving part of his or her...
    Vivagalore Vivagalore 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 16, 2012

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    Found This On The Takenhand Website....

    When rape is a gift I know, I know, it's a dangerous title, and I'll get hatemail. So let me say straight away that on no account do I advocate or in any way condone rape or abuse of any kind. Indeed, I urge all women (and men!) to use whatever force is necessary to defend...
    Vivagalore Vivagalore 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 14, 2012

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    Non Consensual Consent?...

    Another article from the same taken hand website.... Superficially non-consensual but deeply consensual People need to think of time-frames before they simplistically equate ”non-consent” in some form with “abuse”. My wife consents to DD in her long-term, wisest, mind...
    Vivagalore Vivagalore 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 14, 2012

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    A Good Wife Doesnt Need To Be Spanked.

    "In some wives DD seems to spawn a loss of responsible behaviour. These women will "misbehave" because they feel the act is worth the punishment they will get for doing it. It's as if being spanked, or losing driving privileges for a couple of days, eliminates the wrong. It's...
    Vivagalore Vivagalore 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 16, 2012

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    When I tell people I practice domestic discipline half of them have no idea what that is and the other half think I'm crazy. After having our 6th child my marriage started failing...
    Jillianlwt Jillianlwt 36-40 5 days ago

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    I have been into Domestic Discipline and Spanking over 20 years. Anyone else live DD?
    spankeedduk spankeedduk 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 30

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    I have lived Domestic Discipline for over 20 years and my husband spanks me when i break a rule. I love the DD lifestyle!
    spankeedduk spankeedduk 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 1

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    Before my husband were married, I had shared with my parents the fact that I wanted DD to be a part of our marriage. Although I was a little nervous to discuss this openly at first...
    TractorGirl93 TractorGirl93 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 23

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    how would you begin this type of relationship. my fiance is deffinatly dominent in our house and to me. but I want the full dd relationship with rules and punishments and I'm not...
    Caleah Caleah 31-35, F 7 Responses Nov 28

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    I love music! I did a few years of Taiko drumming when I lived in Japan. At every practice i got so energized! The energy vibrating off the drums was intense. It felt like it...
    Etheros Etheros 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 24

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    A NEW STUDY SHOWS POSITIVE DISCPLINE WORKS BETTER THAN FEAR OF PUNISHMENT IN PREVENTING CHILDREN FROM TELLING LIES. http://www.world-science.net/othernews/141208_honesty.htm If...
    Badseed1956 Badseed1956 56-60, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Growing up I always wondered if my dad spanked my mom and if so was it similar to mine. A couple years ago when I was 12 I found our for sure. I came home from a friends house...
    doodlebug224 doodlebug224 18-21, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    How did you find your husband? I been looking but men I age don't understand this they thinks it all about sex and don't get it
    Myalatrice Myalatrice 22-25, F 6 Responses Nov 20

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    Myself and husband run a DD website www.myddlife.com
    spankeedduk spankeedduk 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 1

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    I have questions. Are you ladies really in a dd relationship? Are you really happy? Can you stop the punishments? I'm only asking because I would like to have this type of...
    tom45000 tom45000 41-45, M 7 Responses Dec 3

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    is fun and is justified by itself , all teachers in schools should accept and defend the bullies , any comments are welcome
    screaminggoat screaminggoat 18-21, M Nov 22

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    Can everybody stop saying that "it's what's on the inside that counts" because we all know that's a steaming pile of horse ****. If that were true then why is everything based on...
    ThereIsNoName ThereIsNoName 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 27

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    It always better when someone else does it for you ^_^
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I have several friends with BPD. My one friend I'm getting pretty close to she has distance herself somewhat from me however I talk to her in a language she understands. I do my...
    cutie7710 cutie7710 36-40, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    Disagreement is a good thing. It makes the world versatile and interesting. I love to learn from others. If I don't agree entirely with someone's opinion, the parts I do agree with...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 23

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    While I've been studying this, I have came across some very unpleasant things. I am looking forward to not working in mental health facilities my whole career. I do not agree with...
    Izy96 Izy96 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 19

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    Apparently today has been my most controversial day on EP yet. I have opinions and so do other people. it's ok if you don't agree with me. thank you for making this place more...
    greeneyz83 greeneyz83 31-35, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    So basically, when I got pregnant for my boyfriend, yes I was young. We were stupid, but we were in love. When we told his mother, she flipped out and started asking for a DNA test...
    SincerelyRae SincerelyRae 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 23

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    I'm not really sure what to post this under but it has to do with discipline so I chose here...... I can't stand to see kids act up and take control of their parents instead of...
    s123456789s s123456789s 16-17, F 5 Responses Dec 6

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    If you were to see me walking down the street, or in the grocery store, you would never realize that I am a survivor. The physical scars have healed, yet the mental and emotional...
    nuwbnprincess nuwbnprincess 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    He’s a git, to be honest. Never really did get on with him if you discount being five and always managing to wheedle him into buying you that sweet when the mother proved too...
    morea morea 22-25, F Dec 5

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    Last year I met this guy, who I fell in love with two months into "talking." We worked together. He would talk to me during work hours but after I wouldn't receive a cal or text...
    TVel94 TVel94 18-21, F Dec 8

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    I was your average macho know it all jerk, like most husbands. Then I lost my job and lashed out at my wife. She had a job but I still expected her to do all the cooking, laundry...
    BobbiGurlBoy BobbiGurlBoy 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 20

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    I agree and that they should be strictly enforced once again. The actions of youngsters today, both in and out of school leaves a lot to be desired
    willylover1 willylover1 61-65, M 3 days ago

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    I really do believe in discipline I also believe in getting my butt wore out when lines are crossed and rules are broken... But the problem with me is that I'm to old for my mom to...
    Myalatrice Myalatrice 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 24

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    im new at discipline i hear other people say they do this and that ect.. so im still learn new ways to discipline
    ROWELLLISA421 ROWELLLISA421 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 28

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    I have no desire to be a housewife. granted, I can clean, do laundry, and know how to iron somewhat. I still have to learn how to cook because when I finish school and live on my...
    ajrestless ajrestless 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    So im gonna finally get this off my chest. Its been a dark cloud over my head for months. I want to change something that i cannot change. I am a victim of domestic violence. Its...
    Heyababe Heyababe 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    my daugther need discipline so she can learn her mistakes
    ROWELLLISA421 ROWELLLISA421 22-25, F 8 Responses Nov 23

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    I am a mother of 6 children, 4 girls and 2 boys ages 18 to 6. So in my house their is a need for discipline. I give them a good talking to, which includes baring their bottoms and...
    Sternmom111 Sternmom111 36-40, F 23 Responses Nov 23

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    i am a 62 yr old man in surrey uk,looking for those of you who need discipline mentoring spanking therapy,get in touch if you would like me to visit you and discuss your needs
    Strictgent Strictgent 56-60 1 Response Nov 24

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    The hand in my profile pic is my hand. I believe that an open hand can be a symbol for different aspects. However got me it is the symbol of discipline abc correcting disobedience...
    blackinc blackinc 36-40, M Nov 27

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    my daugthers need discipline every day
    ROWELLLISA421 ROWELLLISA421 22-25, F 7 Responses Dec 5

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    my children get lot of discipline in this house lots of rules
    ROWELLLISA421 ROWELLLISA421 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 5

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    I haven disciplined in along time. I get in so much trouble and get away with I almost forgotten how it feels to get spanked
    Jbt619 Jbt619 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 9

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    I think that the need for discipline is not in any way age related. It is sad that we do hold kids accountable for their actions and then often as adults... we get away with the...
    javlin4 javlin4 46-50, M 6 Responses Dec 9

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    i have two daugthers that need discipline bad allways in to something drives me crazy
    ROWELLLISA421 ROWELLLISA421 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 10

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    I need some discipline. I'm flaking on school assignments and responsibilities. Please message me a punishment that will get me focused immediately so I can get through my exams...
    splidel splidel 22-25, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    There is a general lack of discipline throughout society these days and I dont think it has been for the best
    willylover1 willylover1 61-65, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Being the recipient of a fair amount of discipline I like to meet people who indulge in this
    willylover1 willylover1 61-65, M 3 days ago

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    I have been told, on more than one occasion that I am a glamorous women; I do my hair and make-up every day and choose my outfit carefully. I like to accessorise with jewellery and...
    Oldbird66 Oldbird66 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 18