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I Do Not Agree With Domestic Discipline

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 25 People

    Found This On The Takenhand Website....

    When rape is a gift I know, I know, it's a dangerous title, and I'll get hatemail. So let me say straight away that on no account do I advocate or in any way condone rape or abuse of any kind. Indeed, I urge all women (and men!) to use whatever force is necessary to defend...
    Vivagalore Vivagalore 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 14, 2012

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    Non Consensual Consent?...

    Another article from the same taken hand website.... Superficially non-consensual but deeply consensual People need to think of time-frames before they simplistically equate ”non-consent” in some form with “abuse”. My wife consents to DD in her long-term, wisest, mind...
    Vivagalore Vivagalore 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 14, 2012

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    Lets Get Physical...

    What Well-Informed Researchers, Physicians, Theologians, and Scholars Say: “Any form of corporal punishment or ‘spanking’ is a violent attack upon another human being’s integrity. The effect remains with the victim forever and becomes an unforgiving part of his or her...
    Vivagalore Vivagalore 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 16, 2012

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    A Good Wife Doesnt Need To Be Spanked.

    "In some wives DD seems to spawn a loss of responsible behaviour. These women will "misbehave" because they feel the act is worth the punishment they will get for doing it. It's as if being spanked, or losing driving privileges for a couple of days, eliminates the wrong. It's...
    Vivagalore Vivagalore 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 16, 2012

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    Well, here we go! I....I guess we....will be starting our new life style this Friday. I discovered DD about 8 years into a horrible marriage. I didn't agree with a lot of what I...
    TownsendsGirl TownsendsGirl 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    I had lunch with my girlfriends yesterday and had two beers. When I arrived home I fell asleep for a couple of hours and did not get to any chores. My husband was livid when he...
    Rosebud123987 Rosebud123987 36-40 2 Responses Jan 18

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    I live in the Denver area and have a couple of CDD relationships. However, it is very hard to find women that are committed to the followings of CDD. I am in my late 40s. Does...
    fredmadison44 fredmadison44 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 18

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    Well he ****** my *** after spanking me with different implements and positions an I still didn't cry 😞 whyyyyy
    drubear drubear 22-25, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Being awaken by screams and cries, loud voices...things crashing, thumping.......as a curious child...sneak to the stairs to see what is a miss...as I got closer to the stairs...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    My parents explained it to me and I think it is a good way. I am proud of my mum and dad
    bethany2402 bethany2402 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 4

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    Oops... I left my keys in the house and had to bend the flywire screen to get back in, and I spent the rest of the money... I told him straight away as I don't want to get into...
    drubear drubear 22-25, F Jan 21

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    Feels good to admit to him when I have done something wrong, and for him to thank me for telling him, letting me know he will punish and then absolve me, such a relief! I can't lie...
    drubear drubear 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    If you leave someone alone to figure things out for themselves, you can't get angry at what they end up believing.
    rtm42 rtm42 46-50, M Jan 18

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    FavoriteGardenia FavoriteGardenia 51-55, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    When I grew up in the UK, traditional values and manners were expected, appreciated and reinforced with firm discipline. Is it so unreasonable to wish for the good old days back?
    StrictUK2015 StrictUK2015 46-50, M Jan 8

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    My daughter is nearly 23 and generally stays at home, when she does go out it is always with me. I dress modestly and keep her dressed identically to me, when we are out and about...
    SarahSugdon SarahSugdon 41-45, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    "I do not agree with what you have to say, but I'll defend to the death your right to say it." ~Voltaire #jesuischarlie
    mostdaysaregood mostdaysaregood 46-50, F Jan 10

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    I actually married a sociopath. I was too young to know what the term was but smart enough to realize something was not quite right. I found this article on DailyStrength.org...
    akindheart akindheart 56-60, F 9 Responses Jan 16

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    I've always wanted a simple life. I am a companion by nature. I've always taken care of others. I've put others above myself. I feel very tired. I envy housewives in a way...
    SKDel SKDel 26-30, F Jan 2

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    Well hello dear readers.. I wanted to share my stories and experience because I think that every experience is worth sharing.. It all started in August when I was hooking up with...
    singingthestoryofmylife singingthestoryofmylife 16-17, F Jan 11

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    This might be completely the wrong group for this. See, the one I love isn't technically "fictional", though I imagine some stories and perceptions of him are. Everyone has their...
    OnBlackWings OnBlackWings 18-21 2 Responses Jan 17

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    This is becoming a huge barrier in communication, education, and culture. People lead their debates with their emotions. No one is given the benefit of the doubt anymore. We (as a...
    dreamingoptimist dreamingoptimist 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 21

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    Each to their own. You can't expect everyone to agree with you about any specific point of view.
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Jan 21

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    These teenage years are showing to be challenging. My daughter turned 13, on the 13th. Up until recently, These past few days, she's been a fairly respectful, obedient young...
    babeluvs6n2 babeluvs6n2 46-50, F 1 hr ago

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    Ok I'm a girl, she's a girl. We've been friends for quite 3 years but the vibe has changed, I would say on both parts because even though we are very close its becoming to the...
    ceemayne ceemayne 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    I've found a lady to discipline me! But she wants to train me as a sissy maid! Does anyone know what that would entail? Should I agree to it?
    sman9394 sman9394 56-60, M 1 Response Jan 8

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    The following are my thoughts and opinions, on discipline, and how I have come to value it. I never used to give discipline much thought, nor assigned to it much value. But now I...
    RoyalCrystalPalace RoyalCrystalPalace 26-30, M 4 Responses Jan 4

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    Need motivation in school? Do you procrastinate? Are you having trouble focusing on studying or at work? Are you good at what you do but you lack drive? Do you need to relieve...
    mentorthem mentorthem 26-30 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I have been thinking about domestic abuse. I believe that schools should educate pupils to prevent and spot domestic abuse and how to handle it when it happens. An abuser may well...
    iou1soul iou1soul 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Why is it that so many parents these days wish to regard themselves as friends to their children? In my opinion this is wrong. I'm a mum of three, I'm not their friend I'm their...
    Hkx3 Hkx3 36-40, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Why is it that so many parents these days wish to regard themselves as friends to their children? In my opinion this is wrong. I'm a mum of three, I'm not their friend I'm their...
    Hkx3 Hkx3 36-40, F 1 day ago

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    I am writing this incase anyone else finds themselves in a similar situation . . . Please do not worry about me, I have been free of this relationship for 7 years now. I am a lot...
    elimarie7 elimarie7 31-35, F Dec 31, 2014

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    What is it about DV that just sticks with us for so long? I think it affects every relationship that I experience...maybe this is not a bad thing. I am wiser and just more aware-I...
    AramatLynn AramatLynn 46-50, F 5 days ago

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    What is it about DV that just sticks with us for so long? I think it affects every relationship that I experience...maybe this is not a bad thing. I am wiser and just more aware-I...
    AramatLynn AramatLynn 46-50, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Finally, I'm still investigating a software called, Mortgage Cycling. I do know that this one requires taking a home equity loan and adding this money to your principal mortgage...
    Georgebankssi1 Georgebankssi1 31-35, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I am looking to mentor and discipline young men in the Tampa area. If you are struggling to keep on track and need a strict mentor contact me.
    mjc012074 mjc012074 41-45, M Jan 4

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    My mom didn’t hesitate to use her hairbrush on our bare bottoms when we were kids. I really miss that guidance now that I’m in college. I’m jealous that my little sister...
    bigbuttgirl bigbuttgirl 18-21, F 14 Responses Jan 9

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    To keep discipline from being non sexual I think its ok to keep your clothes on! Do you all think is possible to give a whopping with out baring your butt?
    Myalatrice Myalatrice 22-25, F 13 Responses Jan 12

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    Hi I need advice on discipline My husband philosophy is to be a friend to a child. Please message me. Thank You, Catarina.
    catarina35 catarina35 31-35, F 10 Responses Jan 18

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    im 15 and live in kansas. i was never disciplined by my parents but i wish i was. i am a lazy teen with no motivation or work ethic. i have been working on it but have had no luck...
    that0one0guy7199 that0one0guy7199 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 19

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    I was always chastised is my momma's room laying over the bed but I have heard and seen people getting disciplined other ways like bending over chair an such. Is there other way...
    Myalatrice Myalatrice 22-25, F 10 Responses Jan 19

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    I was not abused as a child. I was not left with bruises. I never hated my parents for punishing me. I learned respect. I was taught that if you do a bad thing, you get the...
    ComplicatedGirl18 ComplicatedGirl18 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 20

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    Many spanking moms have complex feelings of love, discipline, and sexual arousal associated with spanking. I explore these ideas with them.
    MissAbiFirm MissAbiFirm 18-21, F Jan 21

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    I love the thought of tickling as discipline. It can be a very effective method without causing any harm to little ones.
    FootTicklingPrincess FootTicklingPrincess 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 22

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    It is still a very effective and important part of good discipline.
    mother27 mother27 26-30, F 23 Responses 6 days ago

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    Over the years I have disciplined my children in many different ways. When they were younger I talked to them and tried to ration with them their faults. As they got older, I...
    mominlingerie mominlingerie 36-40, F 3 Responses 5 days ago