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I Do Not Agree With Domestic Discipline

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    I Believe Domestic Discipline Can Be Abusive

    I do believe that domestic discipline can be healthy. I have corresponded with TIH wives who are also in DD relationships and I do believe that many of these women are happy and content within their marriages. They have entered into DD as consensual partners and many have loving...
    gumshoejane2 gumshoejane2 36-40, F 46 Responses Nov 23, 2011

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    Non Consensual Consent?...

    Another article from the same taken hand website.... Superficially non-consensual but deeply consensual People need to think of time-frames before they simplistically equate ”non-consent” in some form with “abuse”. My wife consents to DD in her long-term, wisest, mind...
    Vivagalore Vivagalore 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 14, 2012

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    A Good Wife Doesnt Need To Be Spanked.

    "In some wives DD seems to spawn a loss of responsible behaviour. These women will "misbehave" because they feel the act is worth the punishment they will get for doing it. It's as if being spanked, or losing driving privileges for a couple of days, eliminates the wrong. It's...
    Vivagalore Vivagalore 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 16, 2012

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    Found This On The Takenhand Website....

    When rape is a gift I know, I know, it's a dangerous title, and I'll get hatemail. So let me say straight away that on no account do I advocate or in any way condone rape or abuse of any kind. Indeed, I urge all women (and men!) to use whatever force is necessary to defend...
    Vivagalore Vivagalore 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 14, 2012

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    Domestic Discpline..

    some woman feel that getting a good spanking is a release.... knowing they have to do nothing but keep there butt up and their head down.. it is all in your perspective.
    localareadom12206 localareadom12206 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 30, 2012

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    Lets Get Physical...

    What Well-Informed Researchers, Physicians, Theologians, and Scholars Say: “Any form of corporal punishment or ‘spanking’ is a violent attack upon another human being’s integrity. The effect remains with the victim forever and becomes an unforgiving part of his or her...
    Vivagalore Vivagalore 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 16, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I don't agree with this group. It's stupid.
    Bonban Bonban 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 30

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    There has been a lot going on the last couple of weeks. We are moving! Yay! But both of us have been slipping in our roles. We were supposed to do a disciple session about a week...
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 11

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    Finding the time for our discussions and discipline have been so hard since we started this a few weeks ago. We love our kids. Don't get me wrong. But they love spending all their...
    TonysDoll TonysDoll 31-35, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I made it almost a week with no trouble.... But this morning I woke up and had an attitude with him. I have such a hard time keeping my attitude under control in the mornings. If I...
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 30

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    I've been quiet here for a few weeks.......we've just moved back in to our home after a house fire and are just about settled. I've been on a roller coaster of emotions when it...
    QuietTranquility QuietTranquility 36-40, F 6 Responses Aug 4

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    My hubby and I are just starting our DD lifestyle "reset" as I like to call it. I'm overwhelmed with how many awesome people are on here and always willing to share advice. It's...
    TonysDoll TonysDoll 31-35, F 10 Responses 5 days ago

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    This week is sooooo hard. Still packing a house of five to get ready for our move. At the beginning of July, HoH had me pick a date to quit smoking. The date was chosen as August...
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    From what I'm reading here... The consensus is that quitting smoking sucks! There is nothing even mildly amusing right now and more poor kids are lucky the they are getting dressed...
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    I don't think internet trolling or whatever you'd prefer to call it, is ever necessary. Why try to step in and create drama etc? A bit of constructive criticism the proper way...
    OceanicXs OceanicXs 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 28

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    No matter how strongly I disagree with people, I don't see the point in invading their groups and starting an argument. In my opinion that would only make them less amenable to my...
    Darkanddesolate Darkanddesolate 16-17, F Aug 6

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    im planning on getting a neodynium magnet implanted into my finger to start off with... does anyone have any experience with these?
    notgonnabeok notgonnabeok 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I am struggling today. I am being good and am not in any trouble. But I am craving the closeness and intimacy that a spanking brings. I don't know that I want the spanking though...
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 2

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    My husband used to spank me often at least 3 times a week. We stopped while I was pregnant but now I want to start again. I've told him I want him to spank me again but he won't...
    Allme4 Allme4 26-30 4 Responses Aug 6

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    The look in his eye I am beautiful The touch of his hand I am loved The strength of his arms I am safe The curl of his fingers I am undone The scent of his skin I am home The...
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    Tonight was a punishment night for me. Did I deserve it? Yes I did. I broke lots of rules in the past two days. As most know, we are moving. I have been stressed out! I have been...
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    I am getting ready to start my period, and my regular premenstrual syndrome symptoms are in full swing - irritability and impatience as the main ones. It is so hard to control my...
    perfectlypunished2014 perfectlypunished2014 41-45, F 8 Responses 2 days ago

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    There is one particular group I absolutely despise but harassing them about their choices would make me far worse than they are. Yes, it is wrong but it is their lives. They are...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F Jul 30

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    http://thoughtcatalog.com/samantha-pugsley/2014/08/i-waited-until-my-wedding-night-to-lose-my-virginity-and-i-wish-i-hadnt/ I saw this yesterday and it almost broke my heart. One...
    PurpleFlyingKites PurpleFlyingKites 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Um i guess i just thought that this would be a good way to express how i feel and maybe if i posted on the internet i could convince myself that people might listen. Before i...
    JustMui JustMui 18-21, F Jul 22

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    Ok to make this brief, my husbands stepsister is the person who introduced us. When I actually started going out with him she did a complete U-turn and became quiet nasty. By the...
    hopingformiracles hopingformiracles 22-25 3 days ago

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    I hate when you are actually agreeing with with someone and only adding to their point but they are to stupid to realize it and are so caught up in trying to be right they are...
    TroyPaladin TroyPaladin 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 21

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    The first person I ever had a crush on was a teacher at school when I was about 12/13 ish. In the summer she would wear knee length skirts and sleeveless blouses, which showed...
    jasblyth jasblyth 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 28

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    My situation is one I'm still coming to grip with. I met my boyfriend two years ago on a casual online dating site. My intention of joining and communicating was purely for...
    Baughb Baughb 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Preach. I agree with y'all thanks
    ActuallyGrace ActuallyGrace 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    My mother isn't even 60 years old and has early onset altzheimers. I can only work 30 hours a week while I go to trade school, so I can't move out. I would have more sympathy for...
    dolceharajuku dolceharajuku 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    Over the past 7 years I have tried to be a good mother in law. For the sake of my son I treated my daughter in law as a daughter. I only offered advice if asked and kept my mouth...
    unme1 unme1 56-60, F Aug 6

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    Before you rant about me being whiny or kids ill-prepared for workforce, let me explain. I disagree with dress codes because too often it's taken too far to the point where girls...
    Emm9 Emm9 18-21 4 days ago

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    I was a sophomore in college and he was a senior. Something about him being older made it feel so right…he was charming, mature, and the life of the party type of guy. Not to...
    EmmaCollins EmmaCollins 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    Someone said that discipline is the best gift you can give a child. I read that somewhere, and I believe it's true. Discipline matters as it's the foundation of everything.
    Paca24 Paca24 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 22

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    In my mind there is a strong connection between discipline and humiliation. This is because my mom would always humiliate me when she disciplined me. She was strict in general but...
    Cleancut Cleancut 41-45 2 Responses Aug 2

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    Then I would not find myself in situations like I do . I really need to think things through before I do anything as then I any not find myself in as much trouble . I normally act...
    Nutcase38 Nutcase38 36-40, F 2 days ago

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    My husband who is 22 year older than me, is the master of the household, and that inclused the right for him to discipline me when he finds it necessary. If he finds that I am...
    Susanna3 Susanna3 31-35, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I recently learned that domestic abuse isn't limited to couples , I would never guessed it was also roommates as well. I did a lot of research into this before I figured out that I...
    Lunnaku Lunnaku 26-30 2 Responses Aug 3

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    A poem I wrote after experiencing domestic abuse...if you are being abused get away and get help sadly many don't have the chance to... " CENTER ISLE" Today is...
    lilacbeauty lilacbeauty 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    i hate any type of domestic violence against women, be it physical, sexual, or psychological, my heart goes out to women in these terrible situations, women's shelters are...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 7

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    Its never love when he calls you a ***** or a *****. Because no respectable man would ever call his woman names, especially ***** or *****. Is he truly sorry for leaving scars on...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 17 hrs ago

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