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I Do Not Agree With Domestic Discipline

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    Domestic Discpline..

    some woman feel that getting a good spanking is a release.... knowing they have to do nothing but keep there butt up and their head down.. it is all in your perspective.
    localareadom12206 localareadom12206 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 30, 2012

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    A Good Wife Doesnt Need To Be Spanked.

    "In some wives DD seems to spawn a loss of responsible behaviour. These women will "misbehave" because they feel the act is worth the punishment they will get for doing it. It's as if being spanked, or losing driving privileges for a couple of days, eliminates the wrong. It's...
    Vivagalore Vivagalore 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 16, 2012

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    Lets Get Physical...

    What Well-Informed Researchers, Physicians, Theologians, and Scholars Say: “Any form of corporal punishment or ‘spanking’ is a violent attack upon another human being’s integrity. The effect remains with the victim forever and becomes an unforgiving part of his or her...
    Vivagalore Vivagalore 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 16, 2012

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    I Believe Domestic Discipline Can Be Abusive

    I do believe that domestic discipline can be healthy. I have corresponded with TIH wives who are also in DD relationships and I do believe that many of these women are happy and content within their marriages. They have entered into DD as consensual partners and many have loving...
    gumshoejane2 gumshoejane2 36-40, F 46 Responses Nov 23, 2011

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    Non Consensual Consent?...

    Another article from the same taken hand website.... Superficially non-consensual but deeply consensual People need to think of time-frames before they simplistically equate ”non-consent” in some form with “abuse”. My wife consents to DD in her long-term, wisest, mind...
    Vivagalore Vivagalore 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 14, 2012

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    Found This On The Takenhand Website....

    When rape is a gift I know, I know, it's a dangerous title, and I'll get hatemail. So let me say straight away that on no account do I advocate or in any way condone rape or abuse of any kind. Indeed, I urge all women (and men!) to use whatever force is necessary to defend...
    Vivagalore Vivagalore 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 14, 2012

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    I'm confused. What is a domestic discipline marriage??
    wheelsxoxo wheelsxoxo 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 2

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    princess1950 princess1950 36-40, F Jul 14

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    princess1950 princess1950 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    I love my husbands guidance but sometimes feel that I do not get enough discipline. We are newer to the lifestyle and I think he is afraid of punishing to often. We had a long talk...
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 7 Responses Jun 26

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    Every time someone hears that i am in a DD marriage all they focus on is i am spanked . Well that is just one part of it .Yes i am spanked but thats not the only punishment i am...
    isubmittohim79 isubmittohim79 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 26

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    I DONT BUT I WANT TOO ugh how I want tooooo But we are black and in our culture it's "domestic violence" My husband will NOT EVEN CONSIDER IT but after a lonnnnggggg thinking...
    karlakashes karlakashes 26-30, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Using handcuffs during discipline is no problem. Not remembering where the key is can be a problem... Sir, may I suggest we go back to more basic forms of restraints? :-)
    Amandine1982 Amandine1982 31-35, F 6 Responses Jun 30

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    This brat's life. Part 1 of 2 I will begin this blog by saying up front that I have never been in love like this in my entire life. I found my soul mate and I am crazy head over...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    Anyone have any experience with maintenance spankings?
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 27

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    I had ended up getting all three punishments yesterday. Two combined in the morning and one at night. In the morning I felt so submissive. I cried on the last spank and continued...
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 30

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    Been awhile since I have been in here. We moved into our own place and started a business all in the last few weeks. My job has also changed to include three times the duties...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    Im not one that typically gets b*&chy during "this time of the month"....I just cry. A lot. Im sensitive and I can get a bit grouchy. I don't want to follow the rules and expect...
    QuietTranquility QuietTranquility 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 30

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    This was written on 7-3. Didn't have time to post until now! Last night, was my "reminder" to call him by name when addressing him or being asked a direct question. We discussed...
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    Does any one have experience with a leather strap? Something close to a belt but with a handle?
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 12 Responses Jul 7

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    Punished to the fullest-I took liberties Well I haven't been in here much. So much has happened. Moved, he started a business, kids, just crazy busy. During this time he was so...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    Is there anyone (female or couple) in Texas or Oklahoma that share this lifestyle that would like to chat and be that "one person in real life that knows"? I love chatting with...
    lover70 lover70 41-45, F 10 Responses Jul 10

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    Trouble big time - then a nice break Well I got in huge trouble over the weekend. He took me to one of his empty rental houses- made a make shift spanking bench and gave me 700...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    At the breaking point I am at the breaking point. I can't do this anymore. I need to fix me. My everything is off. My thoughts are going to bad places. I can't help it. I think...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    My husband and I prefer that I wear skirts and dresses. I was at the park with the kids today and some lady asked me if I just got off of work. I said no I just prefer to wear...
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    Life is getting complicated. So last night by the time I got home from work, I pretty much didn't care if or how much trouble I was in. I know I am in so much trouble anyways...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I changed my user name! Used to be needapet.
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    And I do not know why I can't keep my mouth shut! Ive got three punishments waiting for me when I get home after work. I broke three rules today. I was really crabby and...
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    I talked to my husband yesterday after some soul searching and let him know that I did not believe that I gave 100% of myself to my last punishment on Sunday. He thanked me for...
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    I am still trying watch what I say and how I say things. I am expected to call my HoH by name when addressing him or when asked a direct question. I am trying to remember but it...
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    Hello :) I used to be on EP last year and forgot my old user name. There were a few people I enjoyed talking to :) if anyone wouldn't mind talking, I'd appreciate it! Thanx
    loveparrots loveparrots 26-30, F 8 Responses Jul 3

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    Hi We run a website and membership is free http://www.dddating.wildapricot.org
    princess1950 princess1950 36-40, F Jul 6

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    Yesterday was a pretty hard day. I tried to focus on the one rule that bothers HoH the most. He likes to be called by name when asking a direct question to me or when I address him...
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 6

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    I don't see how this is going to work! I feel really bad. I am home sick from work. I have had bad dreams and my master is never around. He is working so hard to make a better...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 8

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    It has been a few days since I posted. My husband and I have had a lot of discussions lately. We decided that maintenance is going to be added to our lives. It will not be...
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 11

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    I am still so afraid... I'm scared to let it go... I want to give the full control. It is a burden, A stumbling block... Why such a stubborn soul... I do not make these steel rules...
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 15

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    Cussing rule He added a new rule- no cussing. If any of you knew me you would know how ridiculous that is. It feels like something that would be setting me up to fail. Grrrrrrrr...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F 8 Responses Jul 16

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    I have realized that I have been a selfish girl. I have not been thinking about the benefits this lifestyle will have for my HoH. I constantly have been focusing my energy on rules...
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Don't try to understand women, women understand women and they hate each other.
    Differentisgood Differentisgood 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mwh4ShZA5Tg&list=TLBSkN5Nh5Qm0Ugp0T5gy6Z-3q3PDFxyOZ
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    Someone said to me recently: Why are you even a vegetarian? Killing plants is just like killing animals. Now I don't want this to be a huge argument..but.. What? Animals have the...
    mournwiththemoonandthestars mournwiththemoonandthestars 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    I went for counselling at a domestic violence centre after separating from my abusive ex who incidentally was a counsellor! The service was free and part of a programme to help...
    juleswillo1 juleswillo1 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 10

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    Um i guess i just thought that this would be a good way to express how i feel and maybe if i posted on the internet i could convince myself that people might listen. Before i...
    JustMui JustMui 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    My uncle. He is toutched by this damned illness since 2007. It started as a lung cancer. Everybody can say it is fatal desease. Medical services thought he would life only one...
    michalmos michalmos 31-35, M Jun 24

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    I'm lost and I just don't know anymore. I'm 18 and I do not know what direction I'm heading towards in life. I've always been the top student, with strings of As. Two years ago...
    jane2109 jane2109 18-21, F Jun 24

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    I would really appreciate some input here, i know this is kind of long but I would be glad to hear from anyone who has any advice for me. I'm 18 years old, I just graduated from...
    sidkyd99 sidkyd99 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 25

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    1st January, I've met lots of new year babies! But interested to know who shares it too. It's absolutely freezing here in the uk on my bday, I used to like the fact I could always...
    Iriseagain Iriseagain 26-30, F Jun 30

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