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I Do Not Agree With Domestic Discipline

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    A Good Wife Doesnt Need To Be Spanked.

    "In some wives DD seems to spawn a loss of responsible behaviour. These women will "misbehave" because they feel the act is worth the punishment they will get for doing it. It's as if being spanked, or losing driving privileges for a couple of days, eliminates the wrong. It's...
    Vivagalore Vivagalore 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 16, 2012

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    Found This On The Takenhand Website....

    When rape is a gift I know, I know, it's a dangerous title, and I'll get hatemail. So let me say straight away that on no account do I advocate or in any way condone rape or abuse of any kind. Indeed, I urge all women (and men!) to use whatever force is necessary to defend...
    Vivagalore Vivagalore 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 14, 2012

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    Lets Get Physical...

    What Well-Informed Researchers, Physicians, Theologians, and Scholars Say: “Any form of corporal punishment or ‘spanking’ is a violent attack upon another human being’s integrity. The effect remains with the victim forever and becomes an unforgiving part of his or her...
    Vivagalore Vivagalore 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 16, 2012

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    Domestic Discpline..

    some woman feel that getting a good spanking is a release.... knowing they have to do nothing but keep there butt up and their head down.. it is all in your perspective.
    localareadom12206 localareadom12206 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 30, 2012

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    I Believe Domestic Discipline Can Be Abusive

    I do believe that domestic discipline can be healthy. I have corresponded with TIH wives who are also in DD relationships and I do believe that many of these women are happy and content within their marriages. They have entered into DD as consensual partners and many have loving...
    gumshoejane2 gumshoejane2 36-40, F 46 Responses Nov 23, 2011

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    Non Consensual Consent?...

    Another article from the same taken hand website.... Superficially non-consensual but deeply consensual People need to think of time-frames before they simplistically equate ”non-consent” in some form with “abuse”. My wife consents to DD in her long-term, wisest, mind...
    Vivagalore Vivagalore 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 14, 2012

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    I have made it 3 days without any trouble. Yesterday HoH and I got in a little disagreement and I was able to get through it. I didn't become disrespectful. I did not get mean or...
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 8 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I'm confused. What is a domestic discipline marriage??
    wheelsxoxo wheelsxoxo 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 2

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    princess1950 princess1950 36-40, F Jul 14

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    princess1950 princess1950 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    Was Blocked By Someone Who Didn't Agree With My Opinion
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I DONT BUT I WANT TOO ugh how I want tooooo But we are black and in our culture it's "domestic violence" My husband will NOT EVEN CONSIDER IT but after a lonnnnggggg thinking...
    karlakashes karlakashes 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 17

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    Using handcuffs during discipline is no problem. Not remembering where the key is can be a problem... Sir, may I suggest we go back to more basic forms of restraints? :-)
    Amandine1982 Amandine1982 31-35, F 6 Responses Jun 30

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    This brat's life. Part 1 of 2 I will begin this blog by saying up front that I have never been in love like this in my entire life. I found my soul mate and I am crazy head over...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    Been awhile since I have been in here. We moved into our own place and started a business all in the last few weeks. My job has also changed to include three times the duties...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    Im not one that typically gets b*&chy during "this time of the month"....I just cry. A lot. Im sensitive and I can get a bit grouchy. I don't want to follow the rules and expect...
    QuietTranquility QuietTranquility 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 30

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    Punished to the fullest-I took liberties Well I haven't been in here much. So much has happened. Moved, he started a business, kids, just crazy busy. During this time he was so...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    Is there anyone (female or couple) in Texas or Oklahoma that share this lifestyle that would like to chat and be that "one person in real life that knows"? I love chatting with...
    lover70 lover70 41-45, F 10 Responses Jul 10

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    Trouble big time - then a nice break Well I got in huge trouble over the weekend. He took me to one of his empty rental houses- made a make shift spanking bench and gave me 700...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 16

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    Life is getting complicated. So last night by the time I got home from work, I pretty much didn't care if or how much trouble I was in. I know I am in so much trouble anyways...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    At the breaking point I am at the breaking point. I can't do this anymore. I need to fix me. My everything is off. My thoughts are going to bad places. I can't help it. I think...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    princess1950 princess1950 36-40, F Jul 6

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    I don't see how this is going to work! I feel really bad. I am home sick from work. I have had bad dreams and my master is never around. He is working so hard to make a better...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 8

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    Cussing rule He added a new rule- no cussing. If any of you knew me you would know how ridiculous that is. It feels like something that would be setting me up to fail. Grrrrrrrr...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F 8 Responses Jul 16

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    Don't try to understand women, women understand women and they hate each other.
    Differentisgood Differentisgood 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mwh4ShZA5Tg&list=TLBSkN5Nh5Qm0Ugp0T5gy6Z-3q3PDFxyOZ
    Spitbak Spitbak 41-45, M Jul 1

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    Someone said to me recently: Why are you even a vegetarian? Killing plants is just like killing animals. Now I don't want this to be a huge argument..but.. What? Animals have the...
    mournwiththemoonandthestars mournwiththemoonandthestars 13-15, F Jul 19

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    The first person I ever had a crush on was a teacher at school when I was about 12/13 ish. In the summer she would wear knee length skirts and sleeveless blouses, which showed...
    jasblyth jasblyth 31-35, M 13 hrs ago

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    I went for counselling at a domestic violence centre after separating from my abusive ex who incidentally was a counsellor! The service was free and part of a programme to help...
    juleswillo1 juleswillo1 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 10

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    Um i guess i just thought that this would be a good way to express how i feel and maybe if i posted on the internet i could convince myself that people might listen. Before i...
    JustMui JustMui 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    1st January, I've met lots of new year babies! But interested to know who shares it too. It's absolutely freezing here in the uk on my bday, I used to like the fact I could always...
    Iriseagain Iriseagain 26-30, F Jun 30

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    I met this girl when I was 12..I was too young to understand what is love.she was 17..I remember clearly how beautiful her back was and the way she walks. I never seen anthing...
    9thguy 9thguy 26-30, M 7 Responses Jul 4

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    It gets tiring to talk when you see someone is putting all his might to contradict and prove you are wrong.Also when your words are missunderstood or understood the worst way...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F Jul 6

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    I have my own opinions and I don't give a **** if you agree with me or not
    alyssabay alyssabay 13-15, F Jul 7

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    I started reading every ones story and I was shocked at how much in common are stories are. I used to be so ashamed of my mother's illness and kept it a secret. As mom got older...
    pamq pamq 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I'm not the only person in my family who hasn't gotten along with her. She doesn't speak to my grandmother, who practically raised me, because she doesn't agree with my mother's...
    E991010 E991010 13-15, F Jul 10

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    Homestly indoctrinating childre with religion is the same, indoctrination period is wrong. I am not against religion by any meens but i do believe we should teach our children to...
    rehn65 rehn65 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 13

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    Just to inform some of u guys so I dont hear any bullshit as qtrocks heard .. My age is 17 okay and I am not lying .. what I post here is 100% of what happens to me ... there is...
    InLove000 InLove000 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    What a cliche this sounds like, yet another 20 something year old not knowing what to do with life. The thing is, I think this type of struggle I am facing is much more rare in...
    roxykelly roxykelly 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    I hate when you are actually agreeing with with someone and only adding to their point but they are to stupid to realize it and are so caught up in trying to be right they are...
    TroyPaladin TroyPaladin 36-40, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm facing domestic violence since 5 yrs. My Mom was housewife and after sad demise of her it was my duty to do all domestic chores (being only lady in house) and study at the same...
    sad1hana sad1hana 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    There was a report by the Human Rights people regarding the disciplining of school children when misbehaving in class. In particular the practice of using a "naughty corner" which...
    aussieman01 aussieman01 51-55, M 1 Response Jul 10

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    In my young days people were far more disciplined than they are now. They knew the rules and either kept them, or knew what to expect if they broke them. Today I think that there...
    AbbeyNewland AbbeyNewland 56-60, F 13 Responses Jul 15

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    Someone said that discipline is the best gift you can give a child. I read that somewhere, and I believe it's true. Discipline matters as it's the foundation of everything.
    Paca24 Paca24 18-21, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    As far back as I remember I always recall wanting to get away from the house as far as I could go. My favorite toy was one that involved transportation. Either a Big Wheel, a...
    Badtimanonymous Badtimanonymous 31-35, M Jul 6

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    Never in my life would I have imagined myself being a victim of domestic violence. My boyfriend & I were perfect once upon a time, & things went so wrong so fast. I loved him, & a...
    HeartbrokenHeroine HeartbrokenHeroine 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I love being disciplined by my master no matter if I deserve it or not he knows what is best for me even when I don't
    Masterslittlepet Masterslittlepet 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 28

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