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I Do Not Appreciate Assumptions About Me

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    Don'T Make That Mistake.......

    Just because I've shared things from my past and present, don't assume you know me .  If I write something here ......and you are a stranger, don't comment like you know me.    Once bitten  twice shy........and I will bite back.   So, if you call  yourself my friend...
    justmarji justmarji 51-55, F 3 Responses Jan 31, 2013

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    Assumption # 35

    im in high and one of the things high school students love to do is to assume things about others. i have gained weight..... a lot of weight and there was this girl who decided it would be funny to tell people i was pregnant because she assumed i was the whole school soon...
    courtneymonkey courtneymonkey 16-17, F Dec 1, 2013

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    Thinking about all my friends/family that has left me to be with the Lord. Thinking about all my current friends that is upright, honest, sincere and knows a little about true...
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    Sometimes it takes sadness to know happiness, noise to appreciate silence, and absence, to value presence. maby once whatever it is is gone then you'll appreciate it better.
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    I really need to do this more often! I do appreciate a lot of things but I'm not good at expressing my feelings and telling people that I appreciate things!
    tsg96 tsg96 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Everything needs its own time. Everything needs a beautiful path to be taken. I believe that sometimes we need to suffer, we need to experience the pain, because the sorrows allow...
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    Winbu Winbu 16-17, M 21 hrs ago

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    Unabashedlysplendid Unabashedlysplendid 56-60, F 5 Responses Jul 7

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    i'm really sick of being alone , unwanted most of the time , i hate this feeling ... i feel rejected , unloved , forsaken by everyone , no one ever appreciated me or loved me...
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    I appreciate honestly whether it hurts or not.
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