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I Do Not Appreciate Assumptions About Me

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    Don'T Make That Mistake.......

    Just because I've shared things from my past and present, don't assume you know me .  If I write something here ......and you are a stranger, don't comment like you know me.    Once bitten  twice shy........and I will bite back.   So, if you call  yourself my friend...
    justmarji justmarji 51-55, F 3 Responses Jan 31, 2013

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    Assumption # 35

    im in high and one of the things high school students love to do is to assume things about others. i have gained weight..... a lot of weight and there was this girl who decided it would be funny to tell people i was pregnant because she assumed i was the whole school soon...
    courtneymonkey courtneymonkey 16-17, F Dec 1, 2013

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    Just because I look at you funny after you say something doesn't mean I'm 'stupid' or 'don't understand'. It actually means i'm thinking on a level that your condescending azz can...
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    Unhappily married, too broke to do anything about it
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    I would rather have honesty than unanswered questions. For example, if you think I'm annoying, tell me. Don't gossip about it to your friends. How am I supposed to improve myself...
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    People, whether they're my family or friends, always perceive who I am differently. Am I actually that complex? I do try to keep things simple. Reputation is another thing. The...
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    I seriously don't appreciate people who take everything for granted because they know they can so they will but of course this is a generation where giving a single appreciation...
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    Sometimes in our life we’ll feel broken inside as if it will never end. But as days pass we’ll meet some people who will make us feel worthy of having a second chance...
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    Getting compliments is about the only thing that makes me feel really good about myself. It doesn't happen that often, but when someone is talking to me and they genuinely come out...
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    Thinking about all my friends/family that has left me to be with the Lord. Thinking about all my current friends that is upright, honest, sincere and knows a little about true...
    toufie1 toufie1 22-25 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I appreciate the smile someone gives you who you don't know you as they walk by. Or seeing two little old people holding hands. The way kids laugh and have no worries. The smell of...
    carebear1019 carebear1019 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    Sometimes it takes sadness to know happiness, noise to appreciate silence, and absence, to value presence. maby once whatever it is is gone then you'll appreciate it better.
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    It hurts too much when people just do not appreciate what you do, when you try to do the impossible to do it and only sees the final outcome. I keep trying and trying to do the...
    MarielDa MarielDa 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    Everything needs its own time. Everything needs a beautiful path to be taken. I believe that sometimes we need to suffer, we need to experience the pain, because the sorrows allow...
    lemongrass09 lemongrass09 46-50, F 4 Responses Jul 12

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    i look back and remember when i left home, moved out at the age of fourteen. a fourteen year old moving to another country all by her own.. i was so young then, so inexperienced...
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    Seeing honesty more and more in my new friend. I have appreciated that quite a bit.
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    More than appreciate, I demand it. I cannot bear the thought of being lied to or misled. I don't get angry. I simply am hurt. Dishonesty is a lack of faithfulness , a betrayal. It...
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    I do.. cause people keep us idling...waiting..it needs compassion n understanding to wait.. I appreciate a proper goodbye where we can start to continue something new.. It helps...
    9thguy 9thguy 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 12

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    For me hot means awesome personality and style...that's a hot looking chick I appreciate.
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F Jul 16

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