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I Do Not Appreciate Subtle Rudeness

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    Annoying.

    i'm not an idiot. i do understand that you're being rude. i'm still not sure why... kill you with kindness. besides. we share the same friends. why not keep the peace? drama? no thanks.
    gypsysoul gypsysoul 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 16, 2009

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    Achoo!

    Feeble stink plumes of cowardice...I blow them off with a sneeze
    JeremiahJohnson JeremiahJohnson 31-35, M 3 Responses Jan 12, 2011

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    Crappy Former Boss

    I worked for this moron who couldn't stand it if someone paid me a compliment of any kind. If someone would say something nice about me, he would have to come right back with the exact opposite and a lot worse. I think it was all because of the insecurities he had in his own life...
    karlmartink karlmartink 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 4, 2012

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    Rudeness

    Rudeness,In fact,Any kind of rudeness,Unappreciated by me,Enough!
    stormcape3 stormcape3 46-50 Sep 4, 2012

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    It Sparks My Anger

    I have worked with people in the past that were like this.  They made discreet comments, not specifically to my face but very much rude and made in regards to something that made it evident it was about me.  I prefer people that fully express what...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 15, 2009

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    Or Not So Subtle

    I've had some recent encounters in my work that have left some people, should I say "disenchanted" (that's putting it lightly) with me.  These people for the most part have gone through their lives doing what they want, thinking the rules of society don't apply to them.  They...
    ChevyVan ChevyVan 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 2, 2012

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    What the Heck Was That About?

    It's bad enough you're being rude to me, you have to try and be subtle about it... as if there's a chance I might not realize it. Man. I don't much remember people doing this to me because I made a point of steering away from these people. It has somehow become...
    june1999 june1999 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 24, 2009

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    Its Irritating

    i have more respect for someone who just comes right out and tells me how it is or how they feel. to me, when you express subtle rudeness, its as if you are saying youre better than me, i'm not worth your time to just be straight forward with. no, you'd rather have fun...
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 13 Responses Mar 17, 2008

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