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I Do Not Appreciate Subtle Rudeness

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    Its Irritating

    i have more respect for someone who just comes right out and tells me how it is or how they feel. to me, when you express subtle rudeness, its as if you are saying youre better than me, i'm not worth your time to just be straight forward with. no, you'd rather have fun...
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 13 Responses Mar 17, 2008

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    Crappy Former Boss

    I worked for this moron who couldn't stand it if someone paid me a compliment of any kind. If someone would say something nice about me, he would have to come right back with the exact opposite and a lot worse. I think it was all because of the insecurities he had in his own life...
    karlmartink karlmartink 36-40, M Sep 4, 2012

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    Or Not So Subtle

    I've had some recent encounters in my work that have left some people, should I say "disenchanted" (that's putting it lightly) with me.  These people for the most part have gone through their lives doing what they want, thinking the rules of society don't apply to them.  They...
    ChevyVan ChevyVan 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 2, 2012

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    It Sparks My Anger

    I have worked with people in the past that were like this.  They made discreet comments, not specifically to my face but very much rude and made in regards to something that made it evident it was about me.  I prefer people that fully express what...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 15, 2009

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    Annoying.

    i'm not an idiot. i do understand that you're being rude. i'm still not sure why... kill you with kindness. besides. we share the same friends. why not keep the peace? drama? no thanks.
    gypsysoul gypsysoul 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 16, 2009

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    Achoo!

    Feeble stink plumes of cowardice...I blow them off with a sneeze
    JeremiahJohnson JeremiahJohnson 31-35, M 3 Responses Jan 12, 2011

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    What the Heck Was That About?

    It's bad enough you're being rude to me, you have to try and be subtle about it... as if there's a chance I might not realize it. Man. I don't much remember people doing this to me because I made a point of steering away from these people. It has somehow become...
    june1999 june1999 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 24, 2009

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    Rudeness

    Rudeness,In fact,Any kind of rudeness,Unappreciated by me,Enough!
    stormcape3 stormcape3 46-50 Sep 4, 2012

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    Its so rude to be rude & to call anyone out to be rude cuz then ur rude!! Ugh!! Best thing is to do is ignore the rudeness & move on!!. I dnt mean to be rude i really dont but...
    missyluvsmissy4me missyluvsmissy4me 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 2

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    I seriously don't appreciate people who take everything for granted because they know they can so they will but of course this is a generation where giving a single appreciation...
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    Sometimes it takes sadness to know happiness, noise to appreciate silence, and absence, to value presence. maby once whatever it is is gone then you'll appreciate it better.
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    I love it when you people appreciate me for my thoughts, way of living and sincerity... Comments under pictures aren´t the measure of real feelings, there...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 29

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    More than appreciate, I demand it. I cannot bear the thought of being lied to or misled. I don't get angry. I simply am hurt. Dishonesty is a lack of faithfulness , a betrayal. It...
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    I do.. cause people keep us idling...waiting..it needs compassion n understanding to wait.. I appreciate a proper goodbye where we can start to continue something new.. It helps...
    9thguy 9thguy 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 12

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    For me hot means awesome personality and style...that's a hot looking chick I appreciate.
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    It takes rain to appreciate dry weather ,extreme heat to long for winter or parting from friends to value them.I still regret losing touch with my college friends.I blame myself...
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    i'm really sick of being alone , unwanted most of the time , i hate this feeling ... i feel rejected , unloved , forsaken by everyone , no one ever appreciated me or loved me...
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    I appreciate honestly whether it hurts or not.
    Littlewallflowerx Littlewallflowerx 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Thinking about all my friends/family that has left me to be with the Lord. Thinking about all my current friends that is upright, honest, sincere and knows a little about true...
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    I'm not over it yet. It's kind if pathetic at this point. I used to be on experience project and then I left but now I'm back. I'm intensely depressed over a guy again. My ex is...
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    My life isn't perfect. I don't have many things other people take for granted. Some may say I deserve better, but I'm actually happy and comfortable with my life. I don't think...
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    How do I honestly come out and tell my boyfriend I don't feel appreciated in this relationship.? We've been through a lot and I had a miscarriage in 2012 and that really brought us...
    jloves21 jloves21 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I always focus on the small things and appreciate them because I believe that those small thing are the ones that makes big differences..
    freedom16 freedom16 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I want to know what people think about me and how they see me. I want people to be 100% honest with me. I want them to always speak their mind. One of the best ways to show you...
    howlingtiger howlingtiger 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I appreciate the quality of the cool morning air at 6 am on a summer day that will reach 100 degrees.
    racingSnail racingSnail 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    People say they like honesty but when it slaps them in the face its not so appreciated is it? The 300 lb gf puts on the bikini asking "do I look good in this?" Well you be honest...
    gr8pretender gr8pretender 46-50, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I like honesty no matter how brutal it is. Whether it be bad or good. I definitely appreciate it.
    BitchYouGaveMeTheFuckingClap BitchYouGaveMeTheFuckingClap 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I really value and appreciate all my friends whether it's here on EP or in real life... I have always valued my friends and all the good times and bad times that we've had... I...
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    Several years ago, I went to a friends bday party! And a cute girl in our clique of friends surprised me that day when her mom came to drop her off and she said "oh you must be...
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    Honesty is the best policy, but hey if you honest I got time for you, or I can just feel it in your vocal tones of words you speak of if you're telling the truth.
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    What do you expect capricorns keep it simple but always stand out.
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M 8 hrs ago

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    I don't mean to be told by words but by you being in my presence is enough.
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M 8 hrs ago

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    I like when someone thanks me hundreds of times for something I've done.
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    I love music👌🎧🎶 :-D
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    Stop thinking on your own ego and paying with others your problems,frustrations and bad mood.Ok,we all can have a bad day...or do unwanted things but c'mon,doing it on purpose...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F Jul 19

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