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I Do Not Appreciate Subtle Rudeness

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    It Sparks My Anger

    I have worked with people in the past that were like this.  They made discreet comments, not specifically to my face but very much rude and made in regards to something that made it evident it was about me.  I prefer people that fully express what...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 15, 2009

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    Annoying.

    i'm not an idiot. i do understand that you're being rude. i'm still not sure why... kill you with kindness. besides. we share the same friends. why not keep the peace? drama? no thanks.
    gypsysoul gypsysoul 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 16, 2009

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    Achoo!

    Feeble stink plumes of cowardice...I blow them off with a sneeze
    JeremiahJohnson JeremiahJohnson 31-35, M 3 Responses Jan 12, 2011

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    Rudeness

    Rudeness,In fact,Any kind of rudeness,Unappreciated by me,Enough!
    stormcape3 stormcape3 46-50 Sep 4, 2012

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    What the Heck Was That About?

    It's bad enough you're being rude to me, you have to try and be subtle about it... as if there's a chance I might not realize it. Man. I don't much remember people doing this to me because I made a point of steering away from these people. It has somehow become...
    june1999 june1999 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 24, 2009

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    Or Not So Subtle

    I've had some recent encounters in my work that have left some people, should I say "disenchanted" (that's putting it lightly) with me.  These people for the most part have gone through their lives doing what they want, thinking the rules of society don't apply to them.  They...
    ChevyVan ChevyVan 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 2, 2012

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    Crappy Former Boss

    I worked for this moron who couldn't stand it if someone paid me a compliment of any kind. If someone would say something nice about me, he would have to come right back with the exact opposite and a lot worse. I think it was all because of the insecurities he had in his own life...
    karlmartink karlmartink 36-40, M Sep 4, 2012

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    Its Irritating

    i have more respect for someone who just comes right out and tells me how it is or how they feel. to me, when you express subtle rudeness, its as if you are saying youre better than me, i'm not worth your time to just be straight forward with. no, you'd rather have fun...
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 13 Responses Mar 17, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    Who wouldnt appreciate it? :)
    amjss amjss 18-21, F 4 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I appreciated the way he looked at me. I appreciated the way he loved to give me soft kisses, and the way he would hold me when I was upset. I appreciated the way he would remind...
    hugsfeelgood hugsfeelgood 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I really need to do this more often! I do appreciate a lot of things but I'm not good at expressing my feelings and telling people that I appreciate things!
    tsg96 tsg96 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    It seems I continue to update lessons in life that I have learned along the way, including but not limited to the following:....You cannot nor should you try to sway anyone to do...
    SmartSweet1 SmartSweet1 51-55, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I know that in order to know that I'm part of something greater than myself I need that feeling of belonging and a pat on the head once in a while. While this is a pretty general...
    lifeisforfree lifeisforfree 61-65, M Aug 12

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    Sometimes I really wonder if people don't confuse being happy with having fun. I don't know that I'd say I have a fun life, but a lot of the time I'm pretty content, happy even...
    sometimeslonelytoo sometimeslonelytoo 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 14

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    I have no family that appreciates what I do I clean I cook, but not ever a thank u and I ******* hate everyone in my family beside my mom, and I'm sad almost every day, I want to...
    dominick6 dominick6 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 16

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    Especially, appreciated. I thinks that is the feeling i have been looking more. So many years being ignored..... And i just want to meet someone that appreciate what i like and...
    Mynameistooweird Mynameistooweird 16-17, F Aug 16

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    I want to know what people think about me and how they see me. I want people to be 100% honest with me. I want them to always speak their mind. One of the best ways to show you...
    howlingtiger howlingtiger 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 28

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    I appreciate the quality of the cool morning air at 6 am on a summer day that will reach 100 degrees.
    racingSnail racingSnail 31-35, F Jul 28

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    People say they like honesty but when it slaps them in the face its not so appreciated is it? The 300 lb gf puts on the bikini asking "do I look good in this?" Well you be honest...
    gr8pretender gr8pretender 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 28

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    I like honesty no matter how brutal it is. Whether it be bad or good. I definitely appreciate it.
    BitchYouGaveMeTheFuckingClap BitchYouGaveMeTheFuckingClap 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    I really value and appreciate all my friends whether it's here on EP or in real life... I have always valued my friends and all the good times and bad times that we've had... I...
    purplefreespirit purplefreespirit 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 28

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    I dońt know how to describe my feelings but all i want is to disappear from this life , i never succeed in anything ...i couldnt succeed to find love, having a good job, being...
    nadyan nadyan 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 29

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    I appreciate honestly because I am honest to others :) I'll never let my friends/family down. But some people take that for granted........
    Maisiee Maisiee 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 1

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    They only time i felt loved , i wasn't appreciated at all and i got dumped :(
    Frenandowilson Frenandowilson 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 2

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    There was one person, idk if she was going through a rough time in her life, but she found me, and we began to talk and grow acquainted with eachother until it was where we...
    Jshangle64 Jshangle64 18-21, M 5 Responses Aug 3

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    Maybe appreciate, and appreciation, aren't the right words. I hope for honesty, and will use intuition to gather what I must from strangers..
    Lecuyer90 Lecuyer90 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    My boyfriend no longer appreciates me. Neither does he give me praises. :(
    Spencer024 Spencer024 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 5

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    Lesbians and bi girls. I'm bi and I'm "new at this"-just realized and accepted it and now am experiencing my first crush with another girl. It's very confusing and scary so I...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Aug 5

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    My love for US sitcoms began with watching M*A*S*H, at night, alone in the early 90s. It was a simple story told so beautifully, every episode had a message and the human touch, it...
    rajblr1970 rajblr1970 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    It's more evident when the family comes to visit... (I also appreciate them, of course.)
    LEMONkinks LEMONkinks 18-21, F Aug 9

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    Including religious and anti-religious arrogance. Including do-gooders who get their whole identity out of running around 'helping' people (sometimes real help, and other times...
    GreenButtercup GreenButtercup 36-40, F Aug 9

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    This movie you can watch once and truly appreciate it. Lol, anyways anyone looking for a good movie. You have to watch this korean movie on dramafever( they have english subtitles...
    heartdeflowerboys1 heartdeflowerboys1 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 12

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    Oh how I appreciate honesty in the simplest form. Just say what you have to say. This world is too small because of social media, probably makes it that much tinier, to be wasting...
    heyyo1234 heyyo1234 22-25, M Aug 13

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    We go thur life always doing for other and they just don't Appreciate the loving and caring person they have right in front of them, it's sad
    skyromantic skyromantic 51-55, F 5 Responses Aug 14

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    I've been lied to so many times I can't trust anyone but myself I feel it's a wise thing to do but it's always good to let someone know how you feel. That's why I cherish honest...
    Swagmuch123 Swagmuch123 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    YES I DO. I appreciate the differences in people. But let me just vent. I suppose, if you date, you have a purpose of marrying and spending a lifetime if things work well with you...
    iamnotshy iamnotshy 22-25 Aug 15

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    Fake people have an image to maintain. Real people just don't care. Fellow EPs, we may have avatars for privacy, but let us be true with our age and gender, and with what we post...
    samemay54 samemay54 51-55, F 15 Responses Aug 16

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    Just broke up with my abusive ex. I've gotten spit on, food thrown at me, elbowed in the throat, thrown into a counter by my throat , lied to about him selling drugs behind my back...
    leaom22 leaom22 22-25, F 10 Responses Aug 16

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    I think feeling loved and appreciated is what everyone wants. Including me
    Winbu Winbu 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 16

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    Yeah. Those feels. I just want to be loved and appreciated for who I am. Not a particular characteristic of mine. I'm incredibly socially awkward. But I love deeply. Very deeply...
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    In my life, appreciate the simple things i life start to be most important thing in my life because I don't really have the ability to do all of things because of my situation! So...
    aleph77 aleph77 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    It's important to be able to trust people you surround and associate yourself with. As long as you're honest and truthful with me, we will never have issues. Sometimes, the truth...
    JaidIsAWildflower JaidIsAWildflower 18-21, F Aug 20

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    I wish i was loved and appreciated by people around me.
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Everything is beautiful when it's related to mother nature. Let us take a restaurant place for instance. No matter how modern or classy its interior, it will never beat a place...
    nighttrekker nighttrekker 26-30, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I appreciate you more if you curse me out than if you smile and fake it.
    davidcrazyj davidcrazyj 36-40, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I think because I've been in love more than once I've taken it for granted. Most of my adult life I've had someone there ready to give up their life for mine, to protect me and...
    Ladybuddha1 Ladybuddha1 26-30, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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