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I Do Not Appreciate Subtle Rudeness

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    Achoo!

    Feeble stink plumes of cowardice...I blow them off with a sneeze
    JeremiahJohnson JeremiahJohnson 31-35, M 3 Responses Jan 12, 2011

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    It Sparks My Anger

    I have worked with people in the past that were like this.  They made discreet comments, not specifically to my face but very much rude and made in regards to something that made it evident it was about me.  I prefer people that fully express what...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 15, 2009

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    Its Irritating

    i have more respect for someone who just comes right out and tells me how it is or how they feel. to me, when you express subtle rudeness, its as if you are saying youre better than me, i'm not worth your time to just be straight forward with. no, you'd rather have fun...
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 13 Responses Mar 17, 2008

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    Or Not So Subtle

    I've had some recent encounters in my work that have left some people, should I say "disenchanted" (that's putting it lightly) with me.  These people for the most part have gone through their lives doing what they want, thinking the rules of society don't apply to them.  They...
    ChevyVan ChevyVan 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 2, 2012

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    Annoying.

    i'm not an idiot. i do understand that you're being rude. i'm still not sure why... kill you with kindness. besides. we share the same friends. why not keep the peace? drama? no thanks.
    gypsysoul gypsysoul 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 16, 2009

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    What the Heck Was That About?

    It's bad enough you're being rude to me, you have to try and be subtle about it... as if there's a chance I might not realize it. Man. I don't much remember people doing this to me because I made a point of steering away from these people. It has somehow become...
    june1999 june1999 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 24, 2009

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    Rudeness

    Rudeness,In fact,Any kind of rudeness,Unappreciated by me,Enough!
    stormcape3 stormcape3 46-50 Sep 4, 2012

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    Crappy Former Boss

    I worked for this moron who couldn't stand it if someone paid me a compliment of any kind. If someone would say something nice about me, he would have to come right back with the exact opposite and a lot worse. I think it was all because of the insecurities he had in his own life...
    karlmartink karlmartink 36-40, M Sep 4, 2012

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    LipsOfAnAngel89 LipsOfAnAngel89 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 25

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    I have had the pleasure of meeting some very kind and good hearted individuals here. As we get to know each other relationships become supportive and family oriented in fair give...
    BeautifulAbigail BeautifulAbigail 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 25

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    TheKidInTheCorner TheKidInTheCorner 13-15, M Nov 29

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    Moonembracingthesun Moonembracingthesun 18-21, F Dec 1

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    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 3

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    Youareallbeautiful Youareallbeautiful 18-21, F 9 Responses Dec 4

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    It's very important. I give my all. I love with a passion so strong. To not feel loved and appreciated would hurt.
    SpanishRose10 SpanishRose10 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 6

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    We all didnt like rude people. Atleast me. But i think that people are secretly attracted to rude people and abusers. That doesnt speak for me, but for others. Ive been nice and...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35 6 Responses Nov 27

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    I just turned off my Facebook because all I can see there are every type of negative and bad news coming from around the world. People there are fighting in comments with each...
    DAKtheligislator DAKtheligislator 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 1

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    Last week i had another stupid story with a rude person. I will not tell what it was but he hurt my feelings. I cant imagine what can be a person thruh if they hurt others? If they...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35 2 Responses Dec 8

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    Yup... And if any of this goes back to that person! ill put a price on your head. Kidding. Or am i? My uncle is a hit man... You could be kneecapped. Watch your words Hun.
    XXburnttoastXX XXburnttoastXX 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    Tell it straight. No any other ways just straight to the point. 'Coz i trust you.
    isahruth isahruth 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 19

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    So I lost my student ID card yesterday, and some kind soul found it and went to the trouble of emailing and hand-delivering it back to me!!! Have faith in humanity! :))) I am so...
    thatvegangirl thatvegangirl 18-21, F 9 Responses Nov 19

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    I have an unexpected day off today and started watching one of my favorite movies of all time, Fried Green Tomatoes. I was about 1/3 of the way through the movie when my oldest son...
    Indigolesbian70 Indigolesbian70 41-45, F 5 Responses Nov 19

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    Domini7 Domini7 36-40, M Nov 19

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    Love the simple things in life .
    Estrella3 Estrella3 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 19

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    I just found out my boyfriend's friends have been pressuring him into breaking up with me because I'm a "normie." When they are all hipster weirdos. And my boyfriend told them he...
    TheBellaBubbles TheBellaBubbles 16-17, F 39 Responses Nov 19

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
    dianacc11 dianacc11 26-30, F Nov 19

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    I just wish my girlfriend would touch me like I touch her.
    Deuz Deuz 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 20

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    I was made to fill this world with kindness, love and appreciation. I will fulfil my purpose ... let there be a serene and beautiful world to be in :) that's all I ask for...
    Summerandroses Summerandroses 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 20

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    You don't know what you have until it is gone. Do not wait until it's gone in order for you to realize you had something/someone wonderful, rather show your appreciation in as many...
    etuh etuh 16-17, F Nov 20

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    There's nothing better then someone who can be straight with you. It's the most beautiful way to interact.
    katariffik katariffik 31-35, F 7 Responses Nov 20

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    deleted deleted 26-30 17 Responses Nov 21

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