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I Do Not Belong to Any Clique

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 305 People

    In High School

    I was not part of any groups. I got along with everyone, but there wasn't one particular group of people that I hung out with. The downside of this is that I didn't really go out and do anything. at all. ever. I played a lot of Starcraft though. And read a lot. And met the...
    JonFurniss JonFurniss 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 3, 2008

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    How Things Have Changed

    i use to always be a part of a clique when i was younger. now as a young adult i am sooooo alone. i use to cry and wish i could make new friends. now ive gotten use to being alone. i enjoy my own company. i love doing what i want when i want and i love the feeling of freedom from...
    veronica4ever veronica4ever 22-25, F Jun 13, 2011

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    Fitting This Square Peg In The Round Hole

    Throughout my middle and high school years, I stood on the outskirts. I observed these cliques sometimes in solitude or with one of my friends. I didn't hate them. I've had good relations growing up with these people. Although, I could never fit with them. A few times, I wandered...
    outsidewitness outsidewitness 31-35, M Aug 17, 2010

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    Me Neither

    Wait a minute, does joining this group make me part of a clique?
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 7 Responses May 18, 2009

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    I'm Just An Onlooker.

    i used to always rebel and say i hated anything other girls in groups liked. oh sure i'd socialise with them, i'm actually great at talking and listening but i mostly look, watch how they act and react to certain things. they may all act the same like any clique but they sure do...
    SeriouslySerious SeriouslySerious 16-17, F Jun 13, 2011

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    Is There Any Point to Cliques?

    I've never seen the point to belonging to cliques.  In Sixth Form (the last time that it ever mattered) I was the person who spoke to everyone, was friendly to all.  In my opinion, life's too short to be horrible to people and a lot of the problems that I've experienced...
    DeathwithTea DeathwithTea 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 30, 2008

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    Everyone Is Doing It!

    I think Myspace is one big giant clique. I like to against the grain, is everyone else is doing it, then count me out. Myspace is one of them. I am not gonna do what all of my friends, boyfriend or family is doing, and that is myspace. I cannot stand myspace that's why i come on...
    2Emotionz 2Emotionz 22-25, F May 25, 2008

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    A Floater

    When I was in high school, there was a lot of cliques too.  I was always the loner, trying to fit in, so I floated.  I eventually got to know a few of the kids from each crowd, and then somehow we joined forces and floated together.  It's kind of strange how it...
    WaitingFor WaitingFor 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 4, 2008

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    So...

    I belong to the " I do not belong to any clique' Clique...:)
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 5, 2011

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    NEVER!

    I can't stand cliques... it's too suffocating! And that's when I run away! XD I think that friendships are not cliques... just friendships. To me, a clique is a group of people who must think the same, act the same, and there is a ritual of who gets to join it or not. Erm...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 20, 2009

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    Don't Feel The Need

    I've never belonged to any clique, in or out of school. I never saw any point in it. All they are good for is to separate and divide people into classes based on income or other such trivial crap. I had a small group of friends that I was close with, and because I had a lot of...
    lacedup77 lacedup77 26-30, M Jun 14, 2012

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    Was Never In One

    i honestly didn't fit into any clique in any school. in elementary school i always was alone. i ate lunch by myself in the back of the room everyday, every recess i would walk alone desperate to just be with anyone. i never belonged anywhere there even though it was a small...
    CaptainJackass CaptainJackass 22-25, M 7 Responses Feb 5, 2011

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