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I Do Not Belong to Any Clique

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    Fitting This Square Peg In The Round Hole

    Throughout my middle and high school years, I stood on the outskirts. I observed these cliques sometimes in solitude or with one of my friends. I didn't hate them. I've had good relations growing up with these people. Although, I could never fit with them. A few times, I wandered...
    outsidewitness outsidewitness 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 17, 2010

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    Everyone Is Doing It!

    I think Myspace is one big giant clique. I like to against the grain, is everyone else is doing it, then count me out. Myspace is one of them. I am not gonna do what all of my friends, boyfriend or family is doing, and that is myspace. I cannot stand myspace that's why i come on...
    2Emotionz 2Emotionz 22-25, F May 25, 2008

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    Don't Feel The Need

    I've never belonged to any clique, in or out of school. I never saw any point in it. All they are good for is to separate and divide people into classes based on income or other such trivial crap. I had a small group of friends that I was close with, and because I had a lot of...
    lacedup77 lacedup77 26-30, M Jun 14, 2012

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    Is There Any Point to Cliques?

    I've never seen the point to belonging to cliques.  In Sixth Form (the last time that it ever mattered) I was the person who spoke to everyone, was friendly to all.  In my opinion, life's too short to be horrible to people and a lot of the problems that I've experienced...
    DeathwithTea DeathwithTea 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 30, 2008

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    How Things Have Changed

    i use to always be a part of a clique when i was younger. now as a young adult i am sooooo alone. i use to cry and wish i could make new friends. now ive gotten use to being alone. i enjoy my own company. i love doing what i want when i want and i love the feeling of freedom from...
    veronica4ever veronica4ever 26-30, F Jun 13, 2011

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    I've just started school

    and there is already a 'Popular' clique formed at the orientation. I never joined the clique since my friends and I don't really need to be in one or don't care as we already get along pretty well in Day One. This 'Popular' clique is like a wolf pack. 1 leader and many...
    IAmYourFather IAmYourFather 16-17 Apr 30

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    In High School

    I was not part of any groups. I got along with everyone, but there wasn't one particular group of people that I hung out with. The downside of this is that I didn't really go out and do anything. at all. ever. I played a lot of Starcraft though. And read a lot. And met the...
    JonFurniss JonFurniss 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 3, 2008

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    NEVER!

    I can't stand cliques... it's too suffocating! And that's when I run away! XD I think that friendships are not cliques... just friendships. To me, a clique is a group of people who must think the same, act the same, and there is a ritual of who gets to join it or not. Erm...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 20, 2009

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    A Floater

    When I was in high school, there was a lot of cliques too.  I was always the loner, trying to fit in, so I floated.  I eventually got to know a few of the kids from each crowd, and then somehow we joined forces and floated together.  It's kind of strange how it...
    WaitingFor WaitingFor 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 4, 2008

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    I'm Just An Onlooker.

    i used to always rebel and say i hated anything other girls in groups liked. oh sure i'd socialise with them, i'm actually great at talking and listening but i mostly look, watch how they act and react to certain things. they may all act the same like any clique but they sure do...
    SeriouslySerious SeriouslySerious 16-17, F Jun 13, 2011

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    Me Neither

    Wait a minute, does joining this group make me part of a clique?
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 7 Responses May 18, 2009

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    Was Never In One

    i honestly didn't fit into any clique in any school. in elementary school i always was alone. i ate lunch by myself in the back of the room everyday, every recess i would walk alone desperate to just be with anyone. i never belonged anywhere there even though it was a small...
    CaptainJackass CaptainJackass 22-25, M 7 Responses Feb 5, 2011

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    So...

    I belong to the " I do not belong to any clique' Clique...:)
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 5, 2011

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    I just started college this week, 4 days have passed and I already feel like i don't belong. I'm considered a foreigner in my country due to dual citizenship. Not only in that...
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    I've been bullied in Jr high school and high school I tell you what I got into fights and wine I protectected my other friends we were in special ed classes I be came the bullets...
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    I spent high school being bullied relentlessly for being weird. College was better in that I could be as weird as I want and no one cared, unless my weirdness interfered with their...
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    Do you ever close your eyes and it all feel upside down? when I'm at my house I could look at a compass I feel as if it should be turned upside down. And no mater what I do I...
    Ayaime7 Ayaime7 26-30, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I can't find it anywhere, the answer to my problem. I simply cannot understand what normal people do anymore, and i feel like i am done trying because nothing's getting any better...
    Bradly123 Bradly123 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 26

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    Like I'm living someone else's life. Just day by day...feeling lost.
    Oso41412 Oso41412 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    I I feel like an outcast most time people don't or don't want to understand me they don't give me a chance to show how wonderful I am created to be or can be do anyone know where I...
    riderz4christ riderz4christ 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 24

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    I may be gay but I am a guy, I am not like a guy though, I don't know anything about sports,I don't play sports, I'm fragile, and don't fit in with the guys and that's why I hang...
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    From the time i was young i never got along with anyone. I couldn't make friends, couldn't really have a healthy relationship with my parents, and just never seemed to fit. My...
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    I'm a 13 year old Orthodox Jew girl. I have 4 other sibling and I don't like my religion. My parents (who are orthodox) don't let me wear pants. I'm fine with certain things, but I...
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