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I Do Not Belong to Any Clique

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    Fitting This Square Peg In The Round Hole

    Throughout my middle and high school years, I stood on the outskirts. I observed these cliques sometimes in solitude or with one of my friends. I didn't hate them. I've had good relations growing up with these people. Although, I could never fit with them. A few times, I wandered...
    outsidewitness outsidewitness 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 17, 2010

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    I'm Just An Onlooker.

    i used to always rebel and say i hated anything other girls in groups liked. oh sure i'd socialise with them, i'm actually great at talking and listening but i mostly look, watch how they act and react to certain things. they may all act the same like any clique but they sure do...
    SeriouslySerious SeriouslySerious 16-17, F Jun 13, 2011

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    miimii0069 miimii0069 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 16, 2015

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    NEVER!

    I can't stand cliques... it's too suffocating! And that's when I run away! XD I think that friendships are not cliques... just friendships. To me, a clique is a group of people who must think the same, act the same, and there is a ritual of who gets to join it or not. Erm...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 20, 2009

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    Don't Feel The Need

    I've never belonged to any clique, in or out of school. I never saw any point in it. All they are good for is to separate and divide people into classes based on income or other such trivial crap. I had a small group of friends that I was close with, and because I had a lot of...
    lacedup77 lacedup77 26-30, M Jun 14, 2012

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    In High School

    I was not part of any groups. I got along with everyone, but there wasn't one particular group of people that I hung out with. The downside of this is that I didn't really go out and do anything. at all. ever. I played a lot of Starcraft though. And read a lot. And met the...
    JonFurniss JonFurniss 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 3, 2008

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    How Things Have Changed

    i use to always be a part of a clique when i was younger. now as a young adult i am sooooo alone. i use to cry and wish i could make new friends. now ive gotten use to being alone. i enjoy my own company. i love doing what i want when i want and i love the feeling of freedom from...
    veronica4ever veronica4ever 26-30, F Jun 13, 2011

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    Is There Any Point to Cliques?

    I've never seen the point to belonging to cliques.  In Sixth Form (the last time that it ever mattered) I was the person who spoke to everyone, was friendly to all.  In my opinion, life's too short to be horrible to people and a lot of the problems that I've experienced...
    DeathwithTea DeathwithTea 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 30, 2008

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    So...

    I belong to the " I do not belong to any clique' Clique...:)
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 5, 2011

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    Was Never In One

    i honestly didn't fit into any clique in any school. in elementary school i always was alone. i ate lunch by myself in the back of the room everyday, every recess i would walk alone desperate to just be with anyone. i never belonged anywhere there even though it was a small...
    CaptainJackass CaptainJackass 22-25, M 7 Responses Feb 5, 2011

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    Everyone Is Doing It!

    I think Myspace is one big giant clique. I like to against the grain, is everyone else is doing it, then count me out. Myspace is one of them. I am not gonna do what all of my friends, boyfriend or family is doing, and that is myspace. I cannot stand myspace that's why i come on...
    2Emotionz 2Emotionz 22-25, F May 25, 2008

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    A Floater

    When I was in high school, there was a lot of cliques too.  I was always the loner, trying to fit in, so I floated.  I eventually got to know a few of the kids from each crowd, and then somehow we joined forces and floated together.  It's kind of strange how it...
    WaitingFor WaitingFor 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 4, 2008

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    Me Neither

    Wait a minute, does joining this group make me part of a clique?
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 7 Responses May 18, 2009

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    I've just started school

    and there is already a 'Popular' clique formed at the orientation. I never joined the clique since my friends and I don't really need to be in one or don't care as we already get along pretty well in Day One. This 'Popular' clique is like a wolf pack. 1 leader and many...
    IAmYourFather IAmYourFather 18-21 Apr 30, 2015

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    I sat and looked him in the eyes and asked if he loves me and his reply "yes babes I love you with all my heart" now why did I smell Bullsh"t because two weeks down the line and...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    So very, sadly, true. I realize I am a part of society, like we all are, unless we are secluded in a cabin in the woods (maybe in the deep northern woods of Canada?). I am just a...
    PixieParty PixieParty 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'll answer anything, anywhere, anytime. I'm bored right now, so ask away! :)
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    i feel like i don't belong in this world. i feel like i don't belong in the family I'm in. i struggle with alot of different things...i have ever since i was a teenager..and i...
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    I am hopeless, I may never lose any weight. I just want to die already. My stranger for a Mother and both her first and second boyfriend, along with her second boyfriend's entire...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F Jan 29

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    I don't feel like I belong anywhere on this planet.... This is not my home, it just cannot be!
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    UPDATED I was taking a shower, when I swung around on my left hand side. I felt pain on the side of my tummy, and something moving around. I felt something pulling and pushing. I...
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    So.. I bought the flight tickets this morning on my way to work! Couldn't wait any longer because they always tend to get pricier the minute you doubt on whether or not to wait for...
    bellabong bellabong 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 26

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    I don't belong here. I don't know where I do, but I don't think it's here. I'm not happy. I'm not sad. Im just here.
    Missiontohappy Missiontohappy 16-17, F Jan 23

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    God i hate being outside my comfortable room. I hate going to college and feeling judged by people. I am so scared of what people think of me. Yesterday i felt like it was such a...
    Shyvioletoceaneyes Shyvioletoceaneyes 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 23

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    "I Miss People From My Past, But Know They Belong There." I need that in a 20-foot flashing sign. The future is forward, and going back is just that ... going back.
    suggestionman suggestionman 51-55, M Jan 23

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