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I Do Not Belong to Any Clique

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 326 People

    I'm Just An Onlooker.

    i used to always rebel and say i hated anything other girls in groups liked. oh sure i'd socialise with them, i'm actually great at talking and listening but i mostly look, watch how they act and react to certain things. they may all act the same like any clique but they sure do...
    SeriouslySerious SeriouslySerious 16-17, F Jun 13, 2011

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    Everyone Is Doing It!

    I think Myspace is one big giant clique. I like to against the grain, is everyone else is doing it, then count me out. Myspace is one of them. I am not gonna do what all of my friends, boyfriend or family is doing, and that is myspace. I cannot stand myspace that's why i come on...
    2Emotionz 2Emotionz 22-25, F May 25, 2008

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    Is There Any Point to Cliques?

    I've never seen the point to belonging to cliques.  In Sixth Form (the last time that it ever mattered) I was the person who spoke to everyone, was friendly to all.  In my opinion, life's too short to be horrible to people and a lot of the problems that I've experienced...
    DeathwithTea DeathwithTea 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 30, 2008

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    In High School

    I was not part of any groups. I got along with everyone, but there wasn't one particular group of people that I hung out with. The downside of this is that I didn't really go out and do anything. at all. ever. I played a lot of Starcraft though. And read a lot. And met the...
    JonFurniss JonFurniss 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 3, 2008

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    So...

    I belong to the " I do not belong to any clique' Clique...:)
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 5, 2011

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    Me Neither

    Wait a minute, does joining this group make me part of a clique?
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 7 Responses May 18, 2009

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    Fitting This Square Peg In The Round Hole

    Throughout my middle and high school years, I stood on the outskirts. I observed these cliques sometimes in solitude or with one of my friends. I didn't hate them. I've had good relations growing up with these people. Although, I could never fit with them. A few times, I wandered...
    outsidewitness outsidewitness 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 17, 2010

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    How Things Have Changed

    i use to always be a part of a clique when i was younger. now as a young adult i am sooooo alone. i use to cry and wish i could make new friends. now ive gotten use to being alone. i enjoy my own company. i love doing what i want when i want and i love the feeling of freedom from...
    veronica4ever veronica4ever 26-30, F Jun 13, 2011

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    Don't Feel The Need

    I've never belonged to any clique, in or out of school. I never saw any point in it. All they are good for is to separate and divide people into classes based on income or other such trivial crap. I had a small group of friends that I was close with, and because I had a lot of...
    lacedup77 lacedup77 26-30, M Jun 14, 2012

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    A Floater

    When I was in high school, there was a lot of cliques too.  I was always the loner, trying to fit in, so I floated.  I eventually got to know a few of the kids from each crowd, and then somehow we joined forces and floated together.  It's kind of strange how it...
    WaitingFor WaitingFor 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 4, 2008

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    I've just started school

    and there is already a 'Popular' clique formed at the orientation. I never joined the clique since my friends and I don't really need to be in one or don't care as we already get along pretty well in Day One. This 'Popular' clique is like a wolf pack. 1 leader and many...
    IAmYourFather IAmYourFather 16-17 Apr 30

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    Was Never In One

    i honestly didn't fit into any clique in any school. in elementary school i always was alone. i ate lunch by myself in the back of the room everyday, every recess i would walk alone desperate to just be with anyone. i never belonged anywhere there even though it was a small...
    CaptainJackass CaptainJackass 22-25, M 7 Responses Feb 5, 2011

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    NEVER!

    I can't stand cliques... it's too suffocating! And that's when I run away! XD I think that friendships are not cliques... just friendships. To me, a clique is a group of people who must think the same, act the same, and there is a ritual of who gets to join it or not. Erm...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 20, 2009

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    Should I try to fit in with people I don't really like or just be my own person? Where I volunteer, the people are nice and quite funny at times but some act really childish at...
    LFCno1 LFCno1 22-25, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    i just got back from school I had to leave early because I'm suicidal. The school thinks I should go to the hospital and I agree... But my stupid *** parents think otherwise.
    Zellaplayzcreepypasta Zellaplayzcreepypasta 18-21, T 1 Response Apr 27

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    I still learning it even i hate it. I hate making programs, i hate syntax.
    newwolfy newwolfy 18-21, F May 4

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    I can't wait. I just want to forget this world. Live in a cute cottage, own some animals, dress comfortably, spend my days with someone I enjoy and love, make smaller people I...
    themeice themeice 18-21, F 3 Responses May 17

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    I hate it here. I want my home back. I hate everything about this ****** state. I need to go home or I'm going to ******* die.
    Alphie01 Alphie01 46-50 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My spirit has grown weary... I really don't know where I fit in, if anywhere... I'd love it if someone could just say, "you belong here!" I would just go and belong there... Or...
    iamFrightened iamFrightened 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    I don't belong here, I don't belong any where. I am tired of feeling like I am on the outside looking in. I want to find a light in the dark.
    Infiniteblue Infiniteblue 36-40, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I avoid people and situations just because I don't feel accepted, its nerve racking to feel like you never belong any where with any one.
    youngkinyteenmom youngkinyteenmom 18-21, F 3 Responses May 4

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    During the 4-hour drive to Atlanta earlier this week, I experienced one of those perfect moments... The windows were rolled halfway down, straight ahead there was barely any...
    FryyM FryyM 22-25, M 1 hr ago

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    In my school, our friend group is probably the most accepting of all the cliques. People that are new to our school usually find a comfy spot in our squad for a while, but they...
    dysfnkshnal dysfnkshnal 13-15, F 2 Responses May 4

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    i look out the window and i just know i dont belong here surrounded by humans and it pains me deeply i want out i want to be free to be with the ones who love me and know exactly...
    crazedwolf1717 crazedwolf1717 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 30

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    I have always been weird as long as I can remember. At least weird to everyone else around me. I guess the word eccentric would be appropriate. I have always been able to get...
    hisdudeness3 hisdudeness3 31-35, M 1 Response May 5

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    When I was younger, I knew I was different than all the other kids. I always believed in more than just this life. I felt more and understood more than the kids my age. Most adults...
    twentyout24 twentyout24 16-17 1 Response May 14

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    For years now I've been having this intense feeling like I don't belong here. like on this planet. Human beings confuse the **** out of me. The way they do things and handle...
    milo1890 milo1890 22-25, F 1 Response May 6

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    everywhere I go, I am different from everyone. I can fit into multiple places and groups of people easily, but I know that I don't belong. no where feels like home or a place that...
    marieflorence109 marieflorence109 22-25, F 1 Response May 10

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    Why would I be. It is your own choice whether to belong to them or not. I may not have had any experiences with them, but would certainly not mind trying them
    wanker1953 wanker1953 61-65, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Do I even belong in this world? I don't feel wanted or welcome anywhere I go
    Mrmanaphy Mrmanaphy 18-21 3 days ago

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    I am the round peg trying to fit in a square hole.... I just don't really fit in... I have been like this alk my life... I am different this I know... I think I belong to a...
    Sinzi Sinzi 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 27

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    When I was a little girl I cried a lot. And my mother would ask me, what's wrong? Most of the times I'd say I don't want to be here. I always had a strong feeling this wasn't my...
    XLoriX XLoriX 22-25, F May 9

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    sometimes I stared at my hands or look into my reflection.. and wonder what is inside of me.. I know who I am but then this body feels does not belong to me. I do take care of it...
    angeleyes2820 angeleyes2820 36-40 3 Responses May 9

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    I feel like I don't belong here but that I am here for a reason. I'm still figuring out what that is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 9

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    okay then where do we belong?
    aliwashere aliwashere 13-15, F 1 Response May 10

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    l only feel like l sort of belong when l'm passing by fields or mountains on the train or car, heading somewhere. When l listen to folk metal music, about folklore and mythology...
    darkforests darkforests 22-25, F May 13

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    Feeling like you don't belong in society is the worst feeling.
    Yafavnextdoor Yafavnextdoor 16-17, F May 18

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    I think I belong on Mars! :)
    XxCuTiE14xX XxCuTiE14xX 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    Yeah yeah humans are social animals yada yada. I need a relationship, just like everybody else. I just can't "perform" it right. I occasionally feel stifled by "virtual...
    FryyM FryyM 22-25, M 2 Responses May 19

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    What do you think this chapter is saying, Is Jesus god ? or considered god because God is his father, and he is the son so they share the same nature ? :ACCORDING TO JOHN 1 In the...
    Thelaughingman34983 Thelaughingman34983 31-35, M 1 Response May 19

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    Depressed.. I don't belong here anymore..
    Storys123 Storys123 18-21, F May 2

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    I still think of my first boyfriend. I moved on. We both did but I still miss him. He's the first person I ever loved. My only love so far. We dating for 2 years since middle...
    Barbiebased1 Barbiebased1 13-15, F May 3

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