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I Do Not Belong to Any Clique

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    Don't Feel The Need

    I've never belonged to any clique, in or out of school. I never saw any point in it. All they are good for is to separate and divide people into classes based on income or other such trivial crap. I had a small group of friends that I was close with, and because I had a lot of...
    lacedup77 lacedup77 26-30, M Jun 14, 2012

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    Fitting This Square Peg In The Round Hole

    Throughout my middle and high school years, I stood on the outskirts. I observed these cliques sometimes in solitude or with one of my friends. I didn't hate them. I've had good relations growing up with these people. Although, I could never fit with them. A few times, I wandered...
    outsidewitness outsidewitness 31-35, M Aug 17, 2010

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    A Floater

    When I was in high school, there was a lot of cliques too.  I was always the loner, trying to fit in, so I floated.  I eventually got to know a few of the kids from each crowd, and then somehow we joined forces and floated together.  It's kind of strange how it...
    WaitingFor WaitingFor 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 4, 2008

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    How Things Have Changed

    i use to always be a part of a clique when i was younger. now as a young adult i am sooooo alone. i use to cry and wish i could make new friends. now ive gotten use to being alone. i enjoy my own company. i love doing what i want when i want and i love the feeling of freedom from...
    veronica4ever veronica4ever 22-25, F Jun 13, 2011

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    Me Neither

    Wait a minute, does joining this group make me part of a clique?
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 7 Responses May 18, 2009

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    NEVER!

    I can't stand cliques... it's too suffocating! And that's when I run away! XD I think that friendships are not cliques... just friendships. To me, a clique is a group of people who must think the same, act the same, and there is a ritual of who gets to join it or not. Erm...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 20, 2009

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    Is There Any Point to Cliques?

    I've never seen the point to belonging to cliques.  In Sixth Form (the last time that it ever mattered) I was the person who spoke to everyone, was friendly to all.  In my opinion, life's too short to be horrible to people and a lot of the problems that I've experienced...
    DeathwithTea DeathwithTea 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 30, 2008

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    I'm Just An Onlooker.

    i used to always rebel and say i hated anything other girls in groups liked. oh sure i'd socialise with them, i'm actually great at talking and listening but i mostly look, watch how they act and react to certain things. they may all act the same like any clique but they sure do...
    SeriouslySerious SeriouslySerious 16-17, F Jun 13, 2011

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    Everyone Is Doing It!

    I think Myspace is one big giant clique. I like to against the grain, is everyone else is doing it, then count me out. Myspace is one of them. I am not gonna do what all of my friends, boyfriend or family is doing, and that is myspace. I cannot stand myspace that's why i come on...
    2Emotionz 2Emotionz 22-25, F May 25, 2008

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    So...

    I belong to the " I do not belong to any clique' Clique...:)
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 5, 2011

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    Was Never In One

    i honestly didn't fit into any clique in any school. in elementary school i always was alone. i ate lunch by myself in the back of the room everyday, every recess i would walk alone desperate to just be with anyone. i never belonged anywhere there even though it was a small...
    CaptainJackass CaptainJackass 22-25, M 7 Responses Feb 5, 2011

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    In High School

    I was not part of any groups. I got along with everyone, but there wasn't one particular group of people that I hung out with. The downside of this is that I didn't really go out and do anything. at all. ever. I played a lot of Starcraft though. And read a lot. And met the...
    JonFurniss JonFurniss 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 3, 2008

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    I don't want to sound whiny, but I probably will. In fact, if you hate listening to people whine (I don't blame you if you do) than you shouldn't read this post. I'm in high...
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    Anyone else know what its like to just not belong, no matter how hard you try to find a place? I've worked so hard to make a place for myself wen I couldnt find one. But some how...
    DottaLynn21 DottaLynn21 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    I feel like I was meant for something greater than just living. I don't know how to put it, I guess I just feel like I don't belong.
    michael9666 michael9666 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 3

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    I feel like that, like I don't belong here. There's no one I relate to, or understands me or have the same interest in things as me. But I suck it up. And push on, and Pray I'll...
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    I just started in a new school today. The kids there are really nice. I just started in 8th grade, but I don't feel like I belong. I haven't grown as much as a lot of the other...
    BlaringBlackout BlaringBlackout 13-15, M Sep 4

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    I feel good on my knees while I'm pleasing a man. It's where I should be, and I love it. If only I had a man in my life who insisted I belong on my knees
    Justdreamingxox Justdreamingxox 18-21, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    divich01 divich01 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I belong in the era of the French Revolution or the Italian Renaissance.
    AlyseJay AlyseJay 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I am so happy to belong to aphroditespriestess because she knows me and will make me into the submissive I am meant to be. I am so happy she has allowed me to be her sub and adore...
    jg232723 jg232723 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    Victorian era.. I think I belong there ;0
    WouldyeKindly WouldyeKindly 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I don't know what to believe anymore. People tell me not to give up, but others tell me I am naive and a stupid little kid. Maybe they are right, maybe I am a stupid little kid...
    BadassNerd BadassNerd 13-15, F Aug 23

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    I used to be to tolerant of everyone and I feel I'm just so intolerant of anyone I sometimes forget how good people can feel. It's like I need constant attention or I feel rejected...
    dancerinadaydream dancerinadaydream 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    Ice bucket challenge, beer nominations, whatever the f someone comes up with next,... I SIMPLY DON'T CARE !!! Although writing about kind of contradicts that but I'm not the only...
    PersonOfUninterest PersonOfUninterest 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 2

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    I have no friends and no I feel like I have no family. They always do what my sister wants to do and nothing I want to do. I feel like I just live here but I don't belong here.
    Justadarkhole Justadarkhole 18-21, M Sep 6

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    I feel like a don't fit in any where like I'm always ending up alone
    Gian422 Gian422 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    Ask me anything! And if you absolutely have to make it sexual, at least make it interesting.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 5 Responses 40 mins ago

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    Pretty bored tonight. Anybody wanna talk?
    Pawes Pawes 22-25, F 1 Response 28 mins ago

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    I don't know what else to do other than this My name is Sophie and i love my boyfriend so much he is everything to me he is my whole world and meeting him was a dream come true i...
    SophieMarkezzie SophieMarkezzie 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    Anyone knowing my own personal experiences won't be supprised that I'm against it, but what is "it" exactly? Child abuse. It's not always sexual, not even physical... it's taking...
    ValR ValR 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    I just recently found out that my husband is talking to several women online....in a very sexual way. He apologized and regrets it.... We talked it out and want to grow from that...
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    I feel so hurt when someone tells me that I'm just using "I don't trust anyone" as an excuse. It's like that person just dismisses all the past grievances and pains I had to go...
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