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I Do Not Belong to Any Clique

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    NEVER!

    I can't stand cliques... it's too suffocating! And that's when I run away! XD I think that friendships are not cliques... just friendships. To me, a clique is a group of people who must think the same, act the same, and there is a ritual of who gets to join it or not. Erm...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 20, 2009

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    I've just started school

    and there is already a 'Popular' clique formed at the orientation. I never joined the clique since my friends and I don't really need to be in one or don't care as we already get along pretty well in Day One. This 'Popular' clique is like a wolf pack. 1 leader and many...
    IAmYourFather IAmYourFather 18-21 Apr 30

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    Don't Feel The Need

    I've never belonged to any clique, in or out of school. I never saw any point in it. All they are good for is to separate and divide people into classes based on income or other such trivial crap. I had a small group of friends that I was close with, and because I had a lot of...
    lacedup77 lacedup77 26-30, M Jun 14, 2012

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    A Floater

    When I was in high school, there was a lot of cliques too.  I was always the loner, trying to fit in, so I floated.  I eventually got to know a few of the kids from each crowd, and then somehow we joined forces and floated together.  It's kind of strange how it...
    WaitingFor WaitingFor 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 4, 2008

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    Fitting This Square Peg In The Round Hole

    Throughout my middle and high school years, I stood on the outskirts. I observed these cliques sometimes in solitude or with one of my friends. I didn't hate them. I've had good relations growing up with these people. Although, I could never fit with them. A few times, I wandered...
    outsidewitness outsidewitness 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 17, 2010

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    I'm Just An Onlooker.

    i used to always rebel and say i hated anything other girls in groups liked. oh sure i'd socialise with them, i'm actually great at talking and listening but i mostly look, watch how they act and react to certain things. they may all act the same like any clique but they sure do...
    SeriouslySerious SeriouslySerious 16-17, F Jun 13, 2011

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    Everyone Is Doing It!

    I think Myspace is one big giant clique. I like to against the grain, is everyone else is doing it, then count me out. Myspace is one of them. I am not gonna do what all of my friends, boyfriend or family is doing, and that is myspace. I cannot stand myspace that's why i come on...
    2Emotionz 2Emotionz 22-25, F May 25, 2008

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    In High School

    I was not part of any groups. I got along with everyone, but there wasn't one particular group of people that I hung out with. The downside of this is that I didn't really go out and do anything. at all. ever. I played a lot of Starcraft though. And read a lot. And met the...
    JonFurniss JonFurniss 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 3, 2008

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    Was Never In One

    i honestly didn't fit into any clique in any school. in elementary school i always was alone. i ate lunch by myself in the back of the room everyday, every recess i would walk alone desperate to just be with anyone. i never belonged anywhere there even though it was a small...
    CaptainJackass CaptainJackass 22-25, M 7 Responses Feb 5, 2011

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    Is There Any Point to Cliques?

    I've never seen the point to belonging to cliques.  In Sixth Form (the last time that it ever mattered) I was the person who spoke to everyone, was friendly to all.  In my opinion, life's too short to be horrible to people and a lot of the problems that I've experienced...
    DeathwithTea DeathwithTea 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 30, 2008

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    How Things Have Changed

    i use to always be a part of a clique when i was younger. now as a young adult i am sooooo alone. i use to cry and wish i could make new friends. now ive gotten use to being alone. i enjoy my own company. i love doing what i want when i want and i love the feeling of freedom from...
    veronica4ever veronica4ever 26-30, F Jun 13, 2011

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    Me Neither

    Wait a minute, does joining this group make me part of a clique?
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 7 Responses May 18, 2009

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    So...

    I belong to the " I do not belong to any clique' Clique...:)
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 5, 2011

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    It's funny really...people say that I belong on Saturn or Neptune because of the way I act. I just don't fit in with humanity, which is the dominant species on earth.
    Beerus Beerus 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 23

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    EwItsMe EwItsMe 13-15, F Aug 22

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    Or maybe just just whole human society, I feel like I am a spectator, I feel like I'm studying the human race without belonging to it, not implying that I am above it, just...
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    As far as I remember I felt like I didn't belong in my family. Not because I didn't feel loved by them, I don't really know why. When I was young like 4,5,6 I remember my nickname...
    iamnottheonlyone iamnottheonlyone 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    when I joined "I will answer, anything".....forgive me for being mistaken that I would be asked valuable intelligent questions to satisfy "healthy" curiousity in order to offer...
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 Aug 18

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    Who knows what we first expect when we meet someone new. I'm young, 18, and look a bit like a scene girl. I have tattoos and piercings, so for a lot of people that is an instant...
    OakleysWorld OakleysWorld 18-21, F 9 Responses Aug 17

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    I wish I could travel more but I don't have any friends that want to. It doesn't have to be anywhere big, we could just travel to a park or town we've never been to. But they'd...
    TotallyMe34 TotallyMe34 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    My boyfriend is a 48 year old married man. He's 25 years my senior and was my former boss. I now work in the same industry in the same vicinity so I'm still able to see him. He is...
    catsmp catsmp 22-25, F 15 Responses Aug 16

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    Now I have to say something about what I've noticed here on EP that I have not said before. I feel stranded. I've been here for four years, and have witnessed a steady decline in...
    angsty angsty 61-65, F 2 Responses Aug 15

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    Granted I have all sorts of groups on my page, But they all represent me in some shape or form. Im not embarrassed about anything. If you don't like or cant relate. Im sorry its...
    Averageguy41011 Averageguy41011 41-45, M Aug 15

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    please do not add me to your circle or message me anything sexual. I am on here to meet other and make friends who have the same experiences as I do. I'm fine with friends, but...
    yeahrr yeahrr 16-17, F Aug 15

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    I noticed that lately, I've been feeling this way with my friends. It's as if I've forgotten what to say, like I've forgotten how to socialize. Then I just start to wonder how did...
    justsomerandomgirl03 justsomerandomgirl03 13-15, F Aug 15

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    I don't really know what I'd say about now accept I feel no motivation whatsoever. I feel that my life has become something I can't relate to anymore. It's like it's a life, but I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 14

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    ask me anything! il answer anything!
    GabrielBois95 GabrielBois95 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 14

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