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I Do Not Belong to Any Clique

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    I belong to the " I do not belong to any clique' Clique...:)
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 5, 2011

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    I'm Just An Onlooker.

    i used to always rebel and say i hated anything other girls in groups liked. oh sure i'd socialise with them, i'm actually great at talking and listening but i mostly look, watch how they act and react to certain things. they may all act the same like any clique but they sure do...
    SeriouslySerious SeriouslySerious 16-17, F Jun 13, 2011

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    Is There Any Point to Cliques?

    I've never seen the point to belonging to cliques.  In Sixth Form (the last time that it ever mattered) I was the person who spoke to everyone, was friendly to all.  In my opinion, life's too short to be horrible to people and a lot of the problems that I've experienced...
    DeathwithTea DeathwithTea 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 30, 2008

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    A Floater

    When I was in high school, there was a lot of cliques too.  I was always the loner, trying to fit in, so I floated.  I eventually got to know a few of the kids from each crowd, and then somehow we joined forces and floated together.  It's kind of strange how it...
    WaitingFor WaitingFor 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 4, 2008

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    Fitting This Square Peg In The Round Hole

    Throughout my middle and high school years, I stood on the outskirts. I observed these cliques sometimes in solitude or with one of my friends. I didn't hate them. I've had good relations growing up with these people. Although, I could never fit with them. A few times, I wandered...
    outsidewitness outsidewitness 31-35, M Aug 17, 2010

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    NEVER!

    I can't stand cliques... it's too suffocating! And that's when I run away! XD I think that friendships are not cliques... just friendships. To me, a clique is a group of people who must think the same, act the same, and there is a ritual of who gets to join it or not. Erm...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 20, 2009

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    Me Neither

    Wait a minute, does joining this group make me part of a clique?
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 7 Responses May 18, 2009

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    In High School

    I was not part of any groups. I got along with everyone, but there wasn't one particular group of people that I hung out with. The downside of this is that I didn't really go out and do anything. at all. ever. I played a lot of Starcraft though. And read a lot. And met the...
    JonFurniss JonFurniss 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 3, 2008

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    Don't Feel The Need

    I've never belonged to any clique, in or out of school. I never saw any point in it. All they are good for is to separate and divide people into classes based on income or other such trivial crap. I had a small group of friends that I was close with, and because I had a lot of...
    lacedup77 lacedup77 26-30, M Jun 14, 2012

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    How Things Have Changed

    i use to always be a part of a clique when i was younger. now as a young adult i am sooooo alone. i use to cry and wish i could make new friends. now ive gotten use to being alone. i enjoy my own company. i love doing what i want when i want and i love the feeling of freedom from...
    veronica4ever veronica4ever 22-25, F Jun 13, 2011

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    Everyone Is Doing It!

    I think Myspace is one big giant clique. I like to against the grain, is everyone else is doing it, then count me out. Myspace is one of them. I am not gonna do what all of my friends, boyfriend or family is doing, and that is myspace. I cannot stand myspace that's why i come on...
    2Emotionz 2Emotionz 22-25, F May 25, 2008

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    Was Never In One

    i honestly didn't fit into any clique in any school. in elementary school i always was alone. i ate lunch by myself in the back of the room everyday, every recess i would walk alone desperate to just be with anyone. i never belonged anywhere there even though it was a small...
    CaptainJackass CaptainJackass 22-25, M 7 Responses Feb 5, 2011

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    Everyday I feel so lost and confused. Some days are better than others. The last few weeks I've felt so invisible. I don't belong anywhere and it hurts me.
    DevilDoll13 DevilDoll13 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    They may hate me, or leave me to be in a 'real' relationship, but they keep coming back to me. No matter what their status is with someone else, they know deep, deep down they...
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    I don't fit in this society nor the world.I am not out going or intelligent like the smart drama class kids.I do not play sports,I don't have lot's of shoes,I'm not attractive,I'm...
    wassup305 wassup305 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    No particular reason. I just feel I can be friends, without the add. This way, I'm not forming a clique. I could add everyone, but that doesn't suit me either. So this is what I am...
    jeresey jeresey 56-60, F 5 Responses Aug 1

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    Hey guys, my life has been pretty good so far but lately I feel like I don't belong in my country. It started like a few months ago when I went to Thailand for a month with someone...
    msawsome44 msawsome44 22-25, M Aug 20

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    The past few days I have been going to a cheer camp but I don't belong. I'm not loud enough I'm not good at the moves I'm bad at tumbling I don't know anyone I don't talk...
    emotionalyana emotionalyana 13-15, F Jul 29

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    After reading a variety of the experiences people share here I can't help but feel a familiar feeling, like I'm an outlier, like I don't belong. I see experiences of people who...
    darksaber9999 darksaber9999 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 14

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    Things change, places change, best friends change. My needs wants, priorities change. I m not sure who I am any more. I feel guilt, I want to be accepted. I like to feel the...
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F Aug 18

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    I belong in the edwardian and Victorian era. And in the 1900s not the 21st century...
    countrygirlISTaylor countrygirlISTaylor 13-15, F Jul 31

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    I don't think I belong here in this world I've been depressed I've been telling myself Tht I will be gone tomorrow and I'll never come back and then Tht I will start smoking again...
    AlexMafia15 AlexMafia15 13-15, M 4 Responses Aug 1

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    I NEED somewhere I belong Just somewhere
    killerinstinke killerinstinke 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    If life challenges you to fit in a group of people or fit in a place, I say challenge it back. Adapt to everything it throws at you. You should belong to every place you go to.
    szchwakovpf szchwakovpf 18-21, M Aug 9

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    I don't long here. I'm stuck in a town of idiots and retards. literally. I need to find where I truly belong. no one understands me . I'm lost and dying
    MrFoe MrFoe 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 12

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    I know I belong in one, but man **** THAT!!!
    theShamanDon theShamanDon 26-30, M Aug 20

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    I've given up a few times.. Still have the scars on my wrist to prove it and the papers from the hospital from the one time I tried to od on pain medicine, I've battled with...
    FoxyRose FoxyRose 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 17

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    I'm always like the odd one out.. I'm the ugly, fat one in my group of friends.. I'm the talentless one in my family, I'm nothing special. I'm never the one that stands out (for...
    DepressingKayla DepressingKayla 16-17, F Aug 19

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    I don't know what to believe anymore. People tell me not to give up, but others tell me I am naive and a stupid little kid. Maybe they are right, maybe I am a stupid little kid...
    BadassNerd BadassNerd 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    Mixed feelings on this. I mean, zoos are prisons, and animals should not be exploited for human pleasure. I think any sane person can agree on that. However, in some cases zoos...
    Aikin2 Aikin2 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I don't have the patience to see or speak to anyone
    sunkern sunkern 18-21, M Aug 18

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    I used to be to tolerant of everyone and I feel I'm just so intolerant of anyone I sometimes forget how good people can feel. It's like I need constant attention or I feel rejected...
    dancerinadaydream dancerinadaydream 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    I made a pact with the only friend I have that listens to me, that we would not discuss our relationships anymore. Main reason is because it makes it awkward for us when we share...
    Krissy1029 Krissy1029 31-35, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I just got fired. They had budget cuts and got rid of my position. There's other stuff going on in my life making it so I don't have a lot of self esteem or confidence. The only...
    SilentRider SilentRider 18-21, F 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Dad came home. Hes supposed to be working. I told himbi was gonna take a shower I take a shower and dads already gone. I check outside and hes still in the driveway. So i ran...
    KovusShame KovusShame 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    anyone 18 or older and willing to change a teen babies diapers
    00panda 00panda 13-15, M 16 hrs ago

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    I used to have one. Then she went away. Now i'm alone with and can't trust anyone, but myself.
    LeonardFinch LeonardFinch 16-17, M 13 hrs ago

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    Super bored, Do ask me about anything and everything! I'd ask random questions too.
    hooncaramello hooncaramello 18-21, F 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Doing a bit of searching , I found quite a few Relatives that proudly served in the Southern Grey The 33rd Va , and the Georgia 54th Infantry as well as a Cavalry Unit...
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    Whenever I'm horny, I'm always up for anything. I'm straight but I get the urge to do many things that I wouldn't usually think of doing
    deany311 deany311 18-21, M 9 hrs ago

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    I will answer any question
    dime123456789 dime123456789 18-21, M 8 hrs ago

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    I'm kind of really lonely ,and really just different ,the people who are do get me are all far away now , and really i won't be meeting them for quite some time. Really I'm...
    DrackenP DrackenP 18-21, M 4 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I'm so bored, ask me anything. Pedophiles won't be answered.
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    I am pretty open of a person. However, my former high school teacher told me I can be a little too open or too quick because my autism. But whatever and I'll answer just about...
    KAMCx KAMCx 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    💖Your Heart is your Love, Your love is your Family,Your family is your Future , Your future is your Destiny , Your destiny is your Ambition, Your ambition is your Aspiration...
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