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I Do Not Belong to Any Clique

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 313 People

    Is There Any Point to Cliques?

    I've never seen the point to belonging to cliques.  In Sixth Form (the last time that it ever mattered) I was the person who spoke to everyone, was friendly to all.  In my opinion, life's too short to be horrible to people and a lot of the problems that I've experienced...
    DeathwithTea DeathwithTea 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 30, 2008

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    Everyone Is Doing It!

    I think Myspace is one big giant clique. I like to against the grain, is everyone else is doing it, then count me out. Myspace is one of them. I am not gonna do what all of my friends, boyfriend or family is doing, and that is myspace. I cannot stand myspace that's why i come on...
    2Emotionz 2Emotionz 22-25, F May 25, 2008

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    In High School

    I was not part of any groups. I got along with everyone, but there wasn't one particular group of people that I hung out with. The downside of this is that I didn't really go out and do anything. at all. ever. I played a lot of Starcraft though. And read a lot. And met the...
    JonFurniss JonFurniss 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 3, 2008

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    NEVER!

    I can't stand cliques... it's too suffocating! And that's when I run away! XD I think that friendships are not cliques... just friendships. To me, a clique is a group of people who must think the same, act the same, and there is a ritual of who gets to join it or not. Erm...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 20, 2009

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    Me Neither

    Wait a minute, does joining this group make me part of a clique?
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 7 Responses May 18, 2009

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    So...

    I belong to the " I do not belong to any clique' Clique...:)
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 5, 2011

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    Don't Feel The Need

    I've never belonged to any clique, in or out of school. I never saw any point in it. All they are good for is to separate and divide people into classes based on income or other such trivial crap. I had a small group of friends that I was close with, and because I had a lot of...
    lacedup77 lacedup77 26-30, M Jun 14, 2012

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    How Things Have Changed

    i use to always be a part of a clique when i was younger. now as a young adult i am sooooo alone. i use to cry and wish i could make new friends. now ive gotten use to being alone. i enjoy my own company. i love doing what i want when i want and i love the feeling of freedom from...
    veronica4ever veronica4ever 26-30, F Jun 13, 2011

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    Fitting This Square Peg In The Round Hole

    Throughout my middle and high school years, I stood on the outskirts. I observed these cliques sometimes in solitude or with one of my friends. I didn't hate them. I've had good relations growing up with these people. Although, I could never fit with them. A few times, I wandered...
    outsidewitness outsidewitness 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 17, 2010

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    Was Never In One

    i honestly didn't fit into any clique in any school. in elementary school i always was alone. i ate lunch by myself in the back of the room everyday, every recess i would walk alone desperate to just be with anyone. i never belonged anywhere there even though it was a small...
    CaptainJackass CaptainJackass 22-25, M 7 Responses Feb 5, 2011

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    I'm Just An Onlooker.

    i used to always rebel and say i hated anything other girls in groups liked. oh sure i'd socialise with them, i'm actually great at talking and listening but i mostly look, watch how they act and react to certain things. they may all act the same like any clique but they sure do...
    SeriouslySerious SeriouslySerious 16-17, F Jun 13, 2011

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    A Floater

    When I was in high school, there was a lot of cliques too.  I was always the loner, trying to fit in, so I floated.  I eventually got to know a few of the kids from each crowd, and then somehow we joined forces and floated together.  It's kind of strange how it...
    WaitingFor WaitingFor 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 4, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    I've never felt as though I belonged and not for the lack of trying, Each day I feel even more so. Yesterday I was on an party event photography job and I found it harder than...
    PessimisticPenguin PessimisticPenguin 31-35, M 4 hrs ago

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    I am a two time felon and I just recently picked up another case. I love god, my mother and learning. I am a clean person who wants the best for people. I just keep letting myself...
    Ashly1989 Ashly1989 26-30, F Jan 4

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    Here's hoping that if we are happy with who we are, then we realize that wherever we are is fine.
    torontojames torontojames 31-35, M Jan 1

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    beautiful faces will soon have maggots crawling out of the eyes. great personalities will no longer be remembered. intelligence will only benefit people for so long. the world won...
    goodatnothing goodatnothing 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 12

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    I'm new to the group of friends I have right now and I can't help but feel left out sometimes. They're all great people, but sometimes I feel like I'm intruding, or like I'm not...
    brimc7 brimc7 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 7

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    I think it is good to not belong to a certain group that has a set of rules which you have to abide by - You have to defend these rules no matter what, just blame it on anything...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 10

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    im 29. i have been struggling with ao much in where doni belong?.why am i disgusted by humans? why i hide in my home? i never want to go out i literally have panic attacks at the...
    tiiedrope tiiedrope 26-30, F Jan 3

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    this is so true for myself. I have spent the last 7 years trying to find that one place that I feel like I belong. Im soooo sick of moving. I always feel bad that I can't be...
    Lookingupalways Lookingupalways 26-30, F Jan 5

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    I belong to the 80's haha. I love the songs and movies during that time. I would have liked to live in the 70's too. I'm sure times were cooler back then.
    hondurananonymous hondurananonymous 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    I know i don't belong on this planet.....
    CrownedWoman CrownedWoman 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 4

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    It's straing, I'm different from everyone and my HOLE life I felt like I'm not ment to be what I'm being, I don't belong im my family. My mother thinks I'm depressed cause...
    Lumapier951 Lumapier951 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    I've always wanted to live in a place where nobody knows who i am. I've tried searching for a place where i truly belong, where i could start a new life & a new beginning.
    absinthe79 absinthe79 22-25, M Jan 6

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    Distorted panes of glass i see, Twisted realms of fantasy. dreams of her, my nights do yield, Golden scenes of life surreal. loving arms, my soul in soothed awe, From tempest...
    ArnoldJRimmer ArnoldJRimmer 46-50, M Jan 22

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    Forced to live a life I didn't ask for. Idolizing everyone I ever cared for. But I'm empty. I feel nothing. It's so hard to explain to someone who doesn't live it. I look in the...
    AngelaNix AngelaNix 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 23

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    I tried to sign myself in 2 years ago. My ex boyfriend and his best friend were both assuming relationships with me. I'd have to talk to one guy, all through the day and hours at...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Jan 10

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    sometimes, I think to myself.. what is the point of even trying in the world any more if people just result in not liking me in the end. i'm a very nice person and i try to belong...
    tirwin6471 tirwin6471 16-17, F Jan 16

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    Hello everyone. Up until this point (for several years) I have decided to stay silent and observe posts similar to this one. Now, here on this website, on thos particular group it...
    Abufihamat Abufihamat 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    There are times in my life...not so often now (thank fully) That I sit at the beach and contemplate the entire universe. Not that this is a bad thing. However the negative thoughts...
    brokenpetal brokenpetal 26-30, F Jan 5

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    I am turning 41 years old in 2 weeks and when I look back at my life I keeping asking myself the same question over and over. I do not know why I was born or brought into this...
    ShyGuyInFL ShyGuyInFL 36-40, M 4 Responses Jan 9

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    Everyone admire when someone do things that no one has ever done before or something that the famous one is known for right? I am no exception as I belong to this category...
    psycruler psycruler 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 14

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    "Now go, attack the Amalekites and totally destroy all that belongs to them. Do not spare them; put to death men and women, children and infants, cattle and sheep, camels and...
    EarthlingWise EarthlingWise 41-45 5 Responses Jan 15

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    I accepted this truth years ago. Even amongst what used to be friends, it seemed my voice and opinions were never heard or accepted. Growing up, I was always shy and timid. This...
    manusundr manusundr 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 4

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    Bricksden482y3al Bricksden482y3al 31-35, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I know this has probably been posted many times before but honestly all i do during the day is sit in my room i have anxiety depression i think bipolar and my life doesnt make much...
    Pedroman75 Pedroman75 13-15, M 14 hrs ago

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    This gentleman Elder Sander from the Mormon church decided to talk to me. It was really nice though. Talking to him as a person. It felt nice. I hadn't had a good conversation in a...
    YukaPlant YukaPlant 18-21, F 22 hrs ago

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    Anyone here from norway? If so, is marijuana legal?
    urlaame urlaame 18-21, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    I'll answer anything at any time! Private message me or send me a message on kikk, SimplePlan56 :)
    SimplePlan1993 SimplePlan1993 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    I'm obsessed with you, is it your eyes. I don’t know. I can't stop thinking about you. Part of me want to tell you how I feel. To let it all out, without any regrets. The other...
    aiofa aiofa 31-35, F 45 mins ago

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    I sit here staring into this screen, looking down at my fingers. They want to move, they want to dance across this board, but they don't know what to say. They used to be skilled...
    SuicideLullaby SuicideLullaby 31-35, M 22 hrs ago

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    Anything you wanna ask...
    lookatmysecrets lookatmysecrets 18-21, F 10 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    Nathan3691sfs9 Nathan3691sfs9 31-35, M 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    Just thought I'd try it. Ask anything and I'll answer it to the best of my ability. Dirty welcomed
    Paperboyc Paperboyc 18-21, M 13 hrs ago

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    So I was talking to a friend who's a girl the other day, she likes me more than a friend but we always been just friends. She knows I have a girlfriend now, she text me on Facebook...
    jam34983 jam34983 31-35, M 12 hrs ago

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    who wants to chat?? anyone cool to share some experiences
    preciousoul preciousoul 26-30, F 4 Responses 12 hrs ago

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