I Do Not Drop You From My Circle Just Because You Don't Talk

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    I Don't Drop Anyone

    You have to personally attack me and there be no resolution before I will consider dropping you. I have done it in the past and wound up being friends again, so unless it's severe, you won't get dropped by me. You just never know when we might strike up a convo and never stop!
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 24, 2011

    Like Everyone Says

    ...we have other things in our lives to keep us busy. There are personal needs, appointments, things we NEED to do - not necessarily WANT to do.
    MaryJanine MaryJanine
    61-65, F
    Apr 12, 2013


    I'll get a note someone added me to their circle. I look at their profile and see some common interests. I'll add them based on that and there's a chance I may never directly communicate with that person but they must have had a reason for adding me in the first place. Was it...
    Morgause Morgause
    41-45, F
    May 8, 2011


    I know that my circle have lives outside EP and I don't expect to talk to them every day.  I don't drop people just because we haven't talked in a while. That just isn't my style. I embrace everyone.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    9 Responses Mar 11, 2010

    Fragile...handle With Care

    I've recently read several stories by those who say if someone in their circle doesn't comment on their posts, write often, and send and return their gestures, they will be dropped .  If you choose to drop me because I do not interact or respond to gestures in a...
    giggles4488 giggles4488
    56-60, F
    19 Responses Mar 12, 2010

    That Is Annoying.

    I get tired of people's threats to remove others from their circles if they don't comment on their stuff.  That is ridiculous to me.  I pop in and out all day, I miss a lot of people's recent activity because I have so many friends, then, what I do catch, I don't have...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin
    22-25, F
    12 Responses Mar 12, 2010

    Lets Face It...

    If everyone in my circle needed my attention everyday.  I would not be able to sustain it.  End result would be me leaving EP.  When you need me or want to talk to me, feel free.  Certainly dont ever feel obliged to.  My circle isnt as large as many folks and I shudder to...
    badbinary badbinary
    41-45, M
    5 Responses Apr 16, 2011

    I don't always interact with each member of my

    circle. I don't expect you to mail me all the time. I look at it as support to build a better me. if you don't see something from me then mail me. I don't want any pictures please. I love you for your words not what you look like. please respect me on creating you as your words...
    bigheartsmallworld bigheartsmallworld
    36-40, M
    Sep 22, 2015

    No, Not I

    No, not I,You never know,When we might talk.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket
    46-50, M
    Nov 9, 2011


    I do the same, sometimes but during these times that I don't feel like talking.
    Cupcake2 Cupcake2
    22-25, M
    Jun 4, 2011

    I Won't Drop You From My Circle Just Because You Don't Talk

    I won't drop you form my circle if you don't talk.  You could be busy doing stories.  Or busy gesturing people.   You're only in my circle if you have enough things interests similar to mine.  I see no reason to drop you if you don't talk.
    aquarius3 aquarius3
    1 Response Feb 21, 2012

    Of Course Not!

    It's just completely sill to do so in my opinion. Just because we don't talk, doesn't mean anything. I'll converse with you if I have a question or have seen you around. If you message me, I'll answer. No biggie. =]
    RationalCutie RationalCutie
    26-30, F
    Apr 4, 2013

    Your Stories Say It All

    This is perhaps the definitive group among the groups I've joined(and it's the latest one,too). And the story I am posting is a good example. Even if you're in my circle and don't talk,I have no plans of dropping you from my circle in the near future.The wonderful stories you...
    ultrasensitive ultrasensitive
    51-55, M
    Apr 29, 2013

    Chocolate Box.

    I can appreciate not everyone in my circle wants to comment, talk or wave their opinion at me. I only drop people from my circle if they are abusive or seem to be extinct. It takes all sorts to be in a box of chocolates (i'd rather avoid the coffee cremes though, they taste vile...
    AtomicWater AtomicWater
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Nov 15, 2010

    I Understand

    because i don't talk that much too! =)) i completely understand if you're not the "hi and hello" type. i respect everybody here especially my friends. i'm pretty much content just by reading your stories and learning from your good and not so good experiences. :)
    SweetAppleBlossom SweetAppleBlossom
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 2, 2012

    Not Sure I Agree

    You should, the whole point of "friendship" is talking to each other what type of friend is in your circle but says nothing to you. I don't mean everyday ut there has to be some connection. Some show of friendship, I have removed people who just do nothing. Each to there own...
    Iain321 Iain321
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Apr 3, 2013
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