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I Do Not Feel It Is My Place To Judge Others For Their Choices

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    Have you ever just right off the bat judged

    someone? Only to find out latter that person was not what you originally thought.. I have been there many times and this is something I struggle with. Not to a degree where it's obsessive and I cannot control it but I have a female friend that recently started dating another...
    Jerseygirl72 Jerseygirl72 41-45, F Apr 1, 2014

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    I am a human female, with all

    that it entails. I have my habits, likes and dislikes. I don't enjoy being judged and discriminated against. I treat others as I want them to treat me!
    Astrucbmt Astrucbmt 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 6, 2015

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    Do Your Own Thing

    I do not judge others by the clothes that they choose to wear, or the ones they don’t choose to wear either. I don’t judge others by the job they do; a job status means nothing to me. I do not judge another person by the God or God’s they choose to worship or not worship...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 6 Responses Jul 12, 2012

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    Forever Judged

    In the past 24 hours I have been in the worst down spot in my life in the past 7 months. In the past 24 hours I have had the guts to ask someone to consider the message they are sending out when they have a beer in one hand and a bible in the next.. Picture after picture of...
    brittanygrose brittanygrose 22-25, F Nov 7, 2013

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    Wtf my boyfriends mum being

    so out of order about me saying shes not going to be their for her grandson/ grand daughter now i understand where my boufriend is coming from since she said that about me - she could of atleast told me on messages but their was no reason i didnt do nothing wrong
    melnie melnie 16-17, F Aug 18, 2014

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    I have tried to post these thoughts before, but they mysteriously disappeared in a few hours, so let me try again. I get fed up with conservative politicians hi-jacking the Bible...
    carlton52 carlton52 61-65, M 6 hrs ago

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    My generation focuses too much into the temporary things, and leave out the ones which could have possibly brought about good changes. I don't blame others for doing that, though...
    eleaaaanor eleaaaanor 16-17, F 5 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    anger meant shutting up. pathetic how people in desperate need of control are so fearful of losing it that they feel the need to forbid others to express.
    sadcookiemonster sadcookiemonster 18-21, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    Its against the rules to send pics like that, no one wants to see it here, thats not what this site is for and as far as i am concerned it is unwelcome and unwanted. Dont come to...
    annamarie65 annamarie65 46-50, F 1 day ago

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    I don't know whether I am being irrational, emotional or... But I've met you and I can't believe this feeling I have for you when you are so distant from me physically How you...
    neurokitty99 neurokitty99 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Two people commit the same crime.... one gets community service... the other is jailed for 10 years. (And yes, it can be even more extreme than that). Why? Because they had...
    AliceMarie92 AliceMarie92 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    SHES THE LAZY SLOB HACKER AND CRIMINAL STUPID ***** THE LAST 3 YEARS WERE OPENING A SMALL BAKERY AND SHES STILL THE SAME DELUSIONAL POWERED LIAR SHE ALWAYS WAS
    ZIGGYDIDNOTHINGSENDIN ZIGGYDIDNOTHINGSENDIN 51-55, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    That **** spins both ways....no one has any right to judge anyone for being broke just as well as the rich dude getting **** on for having money! It depends on how he earned it or...
    Spitbak Spitbak 46-50, M 2 days ago

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    johnkmolloy johnkmolloy 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    johnkmolloy johnkmolloy 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    I don't believe ANYONE has the "right" to judge anyone else! And I don't. I may not feel another person's kinks or life style acts are things I'D ever do, but it is their right...
    craverandscarlett craverandscarlett 66-70, M 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    My best guy friend doesn't appreciate me. IE: I listen to his work drama, ups and downs, DAILY but if I have a problem he stares at his phone while listening, AKA: NOT listening...
    KeepYourHappy KeepYourHappy 31-35, F 12 Responses 4 days ago

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    Okay so today was along day on this site, I have met many people that were on edge quite frankly I don't know what they're going through in their lives that somehow make them...
    FierceFox FierceFox 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    People really like to judge even before they know that person for their true colors. They don't take the time to get to know that person and they just make assumptions about that...
    kimmerzwth kimmerzwth 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am an observer. I watch what people do and how they do it. I "collect" and catalog their body language and facial expression images that I try to synthesize into my own...
    MarkPaul MarkPaul 26-30 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Variety rules. I hate discrimination
    RagnarLothbrok RagnarLothbrok 31-35 Jan 28

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    I do not have a mentor now, but I have been mentored by a nice gentleman before. Here is my confession of what I have not done well when I receive my mentoring and hope this would...
    anthonyshorts anthonyshorts 36-40, M Jan 27

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    I'm putting this statement/rant here for a reason. If you're reading this, make sure you read all the way through before commenting, I will try to make it as short as possible. I...
    Dereth Dereth 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 27

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    Ever since I was little, I had this feeling that I don’t belong to this world. My parents would tell me what is right and wrong, but I’ve always acted how I felt it was right...
    electus electus 18-21, M Jan 26

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    Before you judge others make sure that you are perfect. But since you judge others, even though you can not know everything about their lives, you can not be perfect.
    ReflectivMind ReflectivMind 31-35 1 Response Jan 26

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    Something that really irritates me that I've been thinking about lately is how rude and judgmental so many people are. I've been in suicide/self-harm/depression/etc. support groups...
    haileeilenenanderson haileeilenenanderson 13-15, F 5 Responses Jan 25

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    I feel so good when I have helped someone inside my family or outside of my family. It does not matter what others need, I am always ready to help one another in meeting their...
    matureamericanmother matureamericanmother 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 24

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    It doesn't matter what people see in you, if you can not see the same, there is no meaning.
    ReflectivMind ReflectivMind 31-35 Jan 23

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    Why judge others when you're not perfect ? Everybody has flaws and no one is 100% perfect .
    MysticEmerald MysticEmerald 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 23

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    Coccidia in cats are smalled one-celled organisms called protozoans which might be very contagious. They cause disease within the digestive tract that ends in feline coccidiosis...
    bhyman2 bhyman2 41-45, M Jan 23

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    Things aren't always what they seem, its a big mistake to judge others before you really get to know what your dealing with.
    backagain64 backagain64 51-55, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    to know the depths of one's mind, the essence of their soul.. the root of their desires.. to know their voids and hatreds.. their likes and dislikes and why.. to know what turns...
    PastelLime PastelLime 31-35 1 Response Jan 22

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    The problem with these types of people is that they think their so just and true as to stretch the word opinion as a sorry excuse to bully someone. so ignorant of people. when you...
    SladeTheLegend SladeTheLegend 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 22

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    I would really appreciate one thing, that people should not judge others over herr, by just looking at their profile picture! How can you judge a book by its cover ?
    Ronni989 Ronni989 26-30, M Jan 22

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    I saw a good friend of mine today. The last time I saw her was on my birthday, I just went over to say hi for a couple minutes. She came in to where I work with her friend and I...
    persononinternet persononinternet 18-21, M Jan 21

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    I am grateful for those who think positive and help you to stay positive.I am grateful to those who don't misuse your trust.I am grateful to those who respect the opinion of others...
    whitesunshine87 whitesunshine87 51-55, F Jan 20

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    I have seen so many bratty boy's that make their moms and sisters lives a misery with their bad attitudes. A lot of these boy's seem to think that they are the men of the house and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 20

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    I am an extremely empathetic person, always have been. It is ludicrous to me that many people can not stop and put themselves in another's shoes. I believe if more people were able...
    mvskokehokte mvskokehokte 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 20

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    Well don't we all? It's human nature; human instinct to seek companionship and love. It doesn't necessarily mean romantic love, but love between friends or family especially. In a...
    Kosmoz Kosmoz 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 19

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    People come and go from our lives. Some stay for a lifetime, others for only a minute. Each with a purpose. Either to teach us, help us, or just to give us a smile. The ones that...
    amisfitlady amisfitlady 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 19

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