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I Do Not Feel It Is My Place To Judge Others For Their Choices

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    Have you ever just right off the bat judged

    someone? Only to find out latter that person was not what you originally thought.. I have been there many times and this is something I struggle with. Not to a degree where it's obsessive and I cannot control it but I have a female friend that recently started dating another...
    Jerseygirl72 Jerseygirl72 41-45, F Apr 1

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    Forever Judged

    In the past 24 hours I have been in the worst down spot in my life in the past 7 months. In the past 24 hours I have had the guts to ask someone to consider the message they are sending out when they have a beer in one hand and a bible in the next.. Picture after picture of...
    brittanygrose brittanygrose 18-21, F Nov 7, 2013

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    Do Your Own Thing

    I do not judge others by the clothes that they choose to wear, or the ones they don’t choose to wear either. I don’t judge others by the job they do; a job status means nothing to me. I do not judge another person by the God or God’s they choose to worship or not worship...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 6 Responses Jul 12, 2012

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    Wtf my boyfriends mum being

    so out of order about me saying shes not going to be their for her grandson/ grand daughter now i understand where my boufriend is coming from since she said that about me - she could of atleast told me on messages but their was no reason i didnt do nothing wrong
    melnie melnie 16-17, F Aug 18

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    So what will it take? I know you don’t want to hear it, but it’s going to take one day at a time. You need to start making deliberate choices and stop sleepwalking through life...
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    The present is constantly passing, and with it’s departure are fleeing accomplishments and struggles. Although sanity suggests that it is healthier to hold the good times closer...
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    “I call this an amazing life we’re all living.”Possessed By Paul JamesIt’s sweet and bitter, constantly felt and occasionally understood. The foundation of...
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    Yes I said it. Growing up I was always afraid of judging people but realized that I was really good at understanding the motives of others. Whenever I exposed others on their...
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    Thats right. I never judge people cos we are all human and we are all people. We all also do mistakes in life too. I don't care about race, religion, sex, belief, age or anything...
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    I feel worried that being angry is bad. I feel bad that I get worried about feeling angry. I feel scared that i will be judged for being angry. I feel scared that being angry will...
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    Trust me!!!! I don't appreciate being judged!!! I am in no room to judge!!! If every one would swap shoes for a week or so... I bet we'd all be a little less quick to judge...
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