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I Do Not Feel It Is My Place To Judge Others For Their Choices

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    Forever Judged

    In the past 24 hours I have been in the worst down spot in my life in the past 7 months. In the past 24 hours I have had the guts to ask someone to consider the message they are sending out when they have a beer in one hand and a bible in the next.. Picture after picture of...
    brittanygrose brittanygrose 22-25, F Nov 7, 2013

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    Wtf my boyfriends mum being

    so out of order about me saying shes not going to be their for her grandson/ grand daughter now i understand where my boufriend is coming from since she said that about me - she could of atleast told me on messages but their was no reason i didnt do nothing wrong
    melnie melnie 16-17, F Aug 18, 2014

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    Have you ever just right off the bat judged

    someone? Only to find out latter that person was not what you originally thought.. I have been there many times and this is something I struggle with. Not to a degree where it's obsessive and I cannot control it but I have a female friend that recently started dating another...
    Jerseygirl72 Jerseygirl72 41-45, F Apr 1, 2014

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    Do Your Own Thing

    I do not judge others by the clothes that they choose to wear, or the ones they don’t choose to wear either. I don’t judge others by the job they do; a job status means nothing to me. I do not judge another person by the God or God’s they choose to worship or not worship...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 6 Responses Jul 12, 2012

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    NewBeginnings77 NewBeginnings77 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 9

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    cindyz5 cindyz5 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    why do ppl pretend to b something they are not? why they can't show and be who they really are? is it that difficult? I mean on one side their profile says "I hate judging others...
    dreamylife dreamylife 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 11

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