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I Do Not Feel It Is My Place To Judge Others For Their Choices

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    Have you ever just right off the bat judged

    someone? Only to find out latter that person was not what you originally thought.. I have been there many times and this is something I struggle with. Not to a degree where it's obsessive and I cannot control it but I have a female friend that recently started dating another...
    Jerseygirl72 Jerseygirl72 41-45 Apr 1

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    Forever Judged

    In the past 24 hours I have been in the worst down spot in my life in the past 7 months. In the past 24 hours I have had the guts to ask someone to consider the message they are sending out when they have a beer in one hand and a bible in the next.. Picture after picture of...
    brittanygrose brittanygrose 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 7, 2013

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    Do Your Own Thing

    I do not judge others by the clothes that they choose to wear, or the ones they don’t choose to wear either. I don’t judge others by the job they do; a job status means nothing to me. I do not judge another person by the God or God’s they choose to worship or not worship...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 6 Responses Jul 12, 2012

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