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I Do Not Fit Into Stereotypes

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    Sporty, Scene-prep.

    Sporty scene-prep. Thats me ;). I love sports and being active, i wear scene and prep clothes and the hair and make-up fit intot hat also.
    LoveLindseyMusic420 LoveLindseyMusic420 18-21, F Aug 25, 2009

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    Wow! Me Too

    i don t fit in i like to wear makeup but not look femmine i do it to look good have long hair like to curl it ringlets i color it dark albrun red i braided  all kinds of ways i do this because i like the way i look
    notech64 notech64 41-45, M Sep 29, 2009

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    I'm Me So Clear Off!

    I don't fit into stereotypes according to most around me. According to some I'm supposed to into twin sets and pearls but all I wanna do is cosplay and watch anime all day long although work does kind of get in the way! Equally some think I should be into middle of the road...
    CarolineBelinda CarolineBelinda 36-40, F Nov 2, 2009

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    Men With Long Hair

    Why is this such a stigma?  In 2009 we still get up in arms about this.
    testarosa5137 testarosa5137 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 14, 2009

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    I Am the Definition of This Group: Lesbian, Athlete, Dj, Computer Nerd, College Kid, Philosopher....list Goes On

    Time to rannnnnt! Why do I seem to be the only one that has to constantly prove myself to everyone that the assumptions people make about me are not true.  What am I doing wrong.  I'd rather not care what other people think about me, but I want friends who just accept...
    barachch barachch 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 7, 2009

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    A Gay Man Who Doesn't Like 'Gay' Music

    I can appreciate the vocal talents of Barbra Streisand.  I can appreciate a whole host of female singers ... Judy Garland, Gloria Gaynor, Cyndi Lauper, Whitney Houston, Celine Dion etc etc however female vocals and pop/cabaret music tends to leave me cold.  I do not...
    chasingrainbows chasingrainbows 31-35, M 6 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    Put a sexy avatar and you will have 20 make my

    age in boxing you.... But that is not what is about. Is about how we connect from a deeper level, without the superficial of your looks. Sex is very important to me. But just like in real life, only with people that has emotional meaning to me. I have been told that I have a...
    breathingeasy breathingeasy 41-45, M 3 Responses Nov 30

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    Netabell Netabell 26-30, F Feb 12

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    Positive Stereotypes?

    Now, we all know of the negative ones.... but there are also the "positive" ones, that many tend to forget and ignore. I woke up this morning, remembering a seminar I had in school, at age 15, about this! I thought to mull about this, as I'm a three-times minority... I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Nov 2, 2009

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    One day I'll have options other than story for EP as not everything is one but anyway I firmly believe a persons physical build as a male or female does not of itself have anything...
    Joanne0chan Joanne0chan 31-35 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I cant even walk into school without people thinking im going to shoot them....
    johnnykman johnnykman 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 18

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    There are many programs and pills that you can get that promise to boost your fitness, but many don't work and some are even dangerous. The following article will tell you the...
    neinsteinassociates neinsteinassociates 26-30, M Nov 26

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    THIS IS IMPOSSIBLE. A 'Contradiction' Is NONSENSE; making No Sense. HOW can "one" say They Fit In By NOT Fitting In ? Can a person be ALL Black and ALL White "at the same time...
    desireindisguise desireindisguise 56-60 Nov 23

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    "Unsurprisingly, most Libra individuals are balancers – of varying degrees. Also, since a pair of Scales always has two aspects, two sides – Libra-born too has two sides to his...
    ChthonicMassacre ChthonicMassacre 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 26

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    I dont do it to 'not' fit or to 'fit' I just do what makes me happy. sometimes I fit, sometimes I stand out like a sore thumb. Either way Im not held to be anything other than what...
    nicki91367 nicki91367 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 1

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    The reason is because I'm at a point in life where I'm focused on being fit and athletic too, and I'm attracted to women that seem to share that pursuit. They have a similar energy...
    streetcsi streetcsi 41-45, M Dec 1

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    I tried to "fit" in for a long time, too long of time. Not worth it. I will be my quirky self and let others worry themselves about "fitting in".
    Myfairlady1 Myfairlady1 46-50, F 4 Responses Dec 4

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    Don't think that you are not fit enough for something just think positively that the thing in which you want to fit is not capable to you.
    pskqwer8 pskqwer8 26-30, M Dec 7

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    I don't fit in with society and even though I'm young I've realized that I've spent to much time trying to fit In than be myself and I'm happy to have realized this because I'm not...
    TayCon321 TayCon321 16-17, M 15 hrs ago

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    yup... emphasis on the WAS It used to be so easy... my lifestyle, my metabolism, just plain "vigor of youth" took care of staying fit... no gyms, no workout regimen, no daily...
    elKraken elKraken 70+ 1 Response Nov 19

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    "Fitting in" is overrated I'm happy being a nerd :)
    Rebelscorpio Rebelscorpio 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 29

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    It was harder in the beginning, when I was first developing a fitness lifestyle. That was when the most "will power" was necessary. But for the past year I've really enjoyed how I...
    streetcsi streetcsi 41-45, M Dec 1

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    I might be in a wheelchair but I love to keep fit. I push around town for cardio as well as doing a lot of weights training 6 days a week. I love the feeling of being fit
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M Dec 2

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    I break things down into smaller pieces or steps. It find that I am often overwhelmed by all that I have to do, taking one piece at a time, makes it easier for me.
    tryingagainII tryingagainII 56-60, M 3 hrs ago

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    Wow, Just timing it tooooo well, doing errands and bang (MY DREAM GUY) is in front of me. ....... well he drives faster and pulls into a coffee shop.....uhhhhh should i? NOPE...
    Frenchgal11 Frenchgal11 26-30, F 1 hr ago

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    Fit fellow Interested in a male Skype buddy .
    40fitguy 40fitguy 41-45, M Nov 19

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    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Py_-3di1yx0 Lana del rey - Ride I was always an unusual girl. My mother told me I had a chameleon soul, no moral compass pointing due north, no...
    MsUnfathomable MsUnfathomable 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    When good things happen to my brothers and sisters, my parents are proud. But whenever good things happen to me, I don't get the same reaction from them. I spent most of my life...
    CreoleItalianwoman CreoleItalianwoman 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 20

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    Skinny girls look good in clothes, Fit girls look good naked.
    rainbowmuffins rainbowmuffins 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 23

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    I love to keep fit. I always feel so much better after a workout. I sometimes have trouble getting the motivation but I true as much as I can to do it most days
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M Nov 27

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    I stay fit doing 100 pushups, 20-25 pull-ups and brisk walking for an hour 5 days a week. At 40, I'm in good shape and look and feel better than I did in my 20's and 30's.
    713j 713j 41-45, M Dec 1

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    I never fit in, from elementry, Jr high, high school, college and even career. But I finally realized...lots of people feel like that. And no one talks about it. And I realized...
    WtfAmIHearing WtfAmIHearing 41-45, M Dec 1

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    The day after I buy them, they don't even fit me! I'm not even fat!
    BIaziken BIaziken 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I love being fit and exercising. I usually train 6 days a week. It's such an amazing thing for the mid, body and soul. On the physical side it's awesome when you start seeing...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I've just never been the same as my family we all have different tastes I feel like an outcast where the live country I love rock there very preppy and in style and I love...
    TayCon321 TayCon321 16-17, M 16 hrs ago

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    Well it's too long living in the same old lives (yeah) I feel too cold to live, too young to die (yeah) Will you walk the line, like it's there to choose? (oh) (oh lord) Just...
    SweetEmotions SweetEmotions 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 17

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    I ran into a ex today -.- it was kinda awkward and saddening. Awkward because she cheated and quickly realized she messed up because i actually am a good guy and begged me back...
    Time4kush Time4kush 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 18

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    So, I belong to a family of 8, five sisters, me the oldest and my parents. My mother is a hardworking individual while my dad is a drunk who quit his job a few months back. His...
    jonlehawk jonlehawk 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 25

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    Ok so first off I met this guy like 7 years ago let's call him Eric. He wasn't that hot, when I met him. I hadn't seen him in over 4 years, but the other night I went to this...
    samisol1 samisol1 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 17

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    I just feel really awkward when it happens. I've ran into a few people & it's been an alright experience I've said hi or hey, throw a smile...if it's an old high school friend...
    Isayis23 Isayis23 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 19

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    I hear this rhythmic melody of loss in my mind in each breath I take... a sweet sound, a daunting rhythm writhing in my gut... I had let go of too many things, whether I wanted to...
    SimonFlarerington SimonFlarerington 22-25, M Dec 3

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    You cannot imagine how happy I am to find out there are other people with similar unexplainable experiences! Ever since I moved into the house I currently live in I have (for lack...
    Xaviaral Xaviaral 61-65, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    I just hate being pushed into things so much that I have been compared to and called a wild dog by some of my friends and family, only for the reason that the harder they push me...
    REY98 REY98 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    It is hard to find someone in the south that is into something I don't talk about much is that I would like to meet and date a woman that like to dress and makeover guys to act and...
    sammyracerxray sammyracerxray 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 4

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    In the last few months I have had a special person come into my life...........this person just wanted to show friendship and be there if I needed them. I still believe the title...
    honeysuckle23 honeysuckle23 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 5

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    Whether it is a new friend or the right doctor you may have to see.Your positive energy to come into contact with a person that you truly want to meet does happen.Hopefully the...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 7

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