I Do Not Have a Best Friend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 322 People

    Not Having A "bestie" Sucks

    I wish I could be called someones BEST FRIEND. The person who I consider my best friend ( he doesnt know ) I am not his best friend ( he already has two). lol. To just have someone so close that knows me in and out. My husband is my bestfriend but sometimes he sucks lol
    bellarose84 bellarose84
    22-25
    1 Response Aug 12, 2010

    In High School I was friendly with everyone

    and people enjoyed my company. There is this girl whom i thought to be my best friend. I shared my secrets and stuff. And we were kinda in same group. In high School our school arranged an excursion. We had great fun. I was Like A loner in a crowd. No one cared if i was dead...
    cheerfulgirl7 cheerfulgirl7
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 24, 2014

    The Word "Best Friend" Is Over Used.

    I've only ever had one best friend in my entire life, and that drifted off 6 years ago. I've had really close friends, sure, that were probably my number one friend for me at various points in time, but were we best friends? I mean BEST friends? No we weren't. The nearest...
    Jiemusu Jiemusu
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Aug 29, 2010

    Almost Makes Me Cry

    I'll be 32 next year and Ive never had a best friend proper before. I've had people who I've called best friend but some how it never felt right or I thought I did but they just up and abandoned me, and since they did that they don't count to me. I just want someone to get my...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 2, 2012

    i used to. but she hurt me.

    now i have a wall built so high around me that i dont think i can even escape.
    lecksierae lecksierae
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 9, 2014

    "best Friend"..a Wish,a Dream...

    When i was a kid,jst started my school,i had a friend(guy)..he was my first friend,we were close but not best friends. After that,i changed my school. In my new school,i got 2 more friends,who were really close to me. I thot we were best friends but later on,i realised that they...
    Heeya Heeya
    18-21
    Jan 22, 2012

    My friends are all equal.

    From a kid down the street to my senior class friends
    pardax pardax
    16-17, M
    May 8, 2015

    I Couldn't Pick Just One

    there's too many wonderful people out there to just have only one best friend. I never have had just one best friend and I probably never will. :)
    wack1985 wack1985
    31-35, F
    Nov 20, 2011
    Mrshouhou Mrshouhou
    26-30, F
    Jan 29, 2015

    No Ones Best Friend

    I've never been considered a best friend to those I am closest with... They always have someone closer that means more to them. I just wish I had one friend that our friendship met the world to...one person that truly got me and I could be myself around 100% and they knew when...
    justagirl2000 justagirl2000
    31-35, F
    Oct 27, 2013

    I Really Need Your Help Guys...

    hey I'm a 23 years old girl I'm really depressed it's all started when i finished high school i was a really talented student always gets the highest marks i got scholarship in a private school and i graduated high school with a very good grades i always been the good nerd girl...
    d989 d989
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 28, 2012

    Maybe it is a generational thing,

    or maybe it is a male thing, but I do not have a best friend. I have a wife, kids, lots of work friends, friends from long ago who are my Facebook friends now. But no buddy, no "going out with my buds", my social life revolves around work and family. Just like my father. I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Sep 10, 2014

    Everytime I find a great thing

    or moment to text her, it brings tears to my eyes. Warning: this may be long. The end happened a few months ago, but the destruction of a 5 year friendship isn't something you "just get over". I need to get this out. Hopefully some of you will learn something from my experiences...
    AuroraPrism AuroraPrism
    18-21, F
    Dec 4, 2015

    I don't have a best friend

    and I'm in high school. I look like a loner and all my friends have their own best friends. I don't know what to do.😐
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 7, 2014

    I cant bear my soul to anyone anymore.

    I am there if someone needs me without a doubt n in a heartbeat but I dont n cant seem to trust anyone enough to be that vulnerable to. everyone's been burned by their secrets being shared n I'm no different. Apparently I have trust issues among sooooooo many other issues.
    sixtens sixtens
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jan 28, 2015

    I Want A Best Friend

    I am in high school and don't have a best friend. I wish I had someone to talk to about boys with. I wish I had a best friend. If you want to be my friend just message me or respond please :)
    bookworm36 bookworm36
    18-21, F
    Oct 25, 2013

    I used to have when I was in grade school

    because my classmates would label us as "best friends" just because we go together, eat together, and simply do things together. Now, I only have many close friends.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 10, 2015

    Not Anymore

    It's quite funny because I remember in kinder garden, and for every grade up unto high school and the first few years of college, I always had a best friend by my side to whom I would talk about anything. Seems like multiple experiences of falseness and betrayal have made me...
    BellaFairy BellaFairy
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 2, 2012

    The New Kid

    Recently this year a new kid came into our class she is nice and actually kinda like me but taller and longer hair and eyes that are yellow/green when shes happy and blue/gray when worried but over the year our friendship had enveloped and now we could be practically called "best...
    thepureone thepureone
    13-15, F
    Sep 18, 2012

    I have friends but it hurts me every day inside

    seeing people and their friendships. I've not connected with another human being on the level of other people. They usually think I'm weird, or annoying. So I started being reserved. That still hasn't helped. All I want is a best friend. Someone I can see everyday and not get...
    MysteriousBadWolf MysteriousBadWolf
    16-17, F
    1 Response Sep 22, 2014

    I have literally all I need in life except a

    girl best friend. I have a loving family, boyfriend, career, and even a dog (the best friend I have after my boyfriend). I dance and have a handful of friends who I would consider close but no best friend that would say the same. I need another girl to talk to and be friends...
    livethelifeyoul0ve livethelifeyoul0ve
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 28, 2014

    Anniversary Of Death

    Today is the anniversary of my best friends death. We met at twelve. She saw me through almost every facet of my life. The boyfriends and hook-ups, the apartment shopping and house-hunting, the pregnancy scare, the break-ups and make-ups, the wedding, the discontent, the joy...
    msdamgoode msdamgoode
    41-45, F
    1 Response May 24, 2012

    Not counting my fiancee,

    my last actual friend was in high school and a couple years after. I decided to stop being his friend due to how he treated me as a friend. I wish I had a best friend I could talk to amd hamg out with from time to time. I kinda miss those days. But I know im better off without...
    herknightandshiningarmor herknightandshiningarmor
    18-21, M
    Dec 8, 2014

    I had one because it was convenient not

    because we actually had anything in common. We're both at school and we knew our boundaries (e.g. Not gossiping about each other, not telling each other's secret if we had a fight) so I guess that's one thing we had in common but that was it. She got herself a boyfriend and he...
    11kuvirasha 11kuvirasha
    16-17, F
    Feb 18

    I Do Have A Sister ...Who Is

    I was wondering why I had joined this group. In fact, it is right in a way too if I were to exclude my sister. Sisters or brothers can be your closest and best friends too. I cannot recall a time (other than my first love) when I trusted someone totally. Members of our family are...
    HardingP119 HardingP119
    36-40, M
    Mar 26, 2013
    Brooke6813 Brooke6813
    16-17, F
    1 Response Aug 4, 2015

    Will You Stay?

    Over the past few years, I've had two different 'Best Friends'. My first was a girl I met when I was about two and a half. We did everything together, until she had to move to a different country. We kept in touch, with phone calls and she even came out to visit me sometimes. It...
    WhatsWrongWithMee WhatsWrongWithMee
    16-17, F
    May 24, 2013

    I did it. Me and my "best friend" mean nothing

    to each other anymore. She keeps trying to say she was sorry as she was screaming into my ears at the same time. Sometimes sorry isn't enough. Bye
    Brooke6813 Brooke6813
    16-17, F
    1 Response May 31, 2015
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