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I Do Not Have Real Friends

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    so you found me... next chapter... it's 00.30 well i'm going to write my life story,, i was born premature with jaundice on the day of my parents wedding, a thursday , the day after valentines day. brown curly hair, big brown eyes and tiny nose. i walked at 9 months... and...
    mpacampbell mpacampbell 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2012

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    That I will always be without true friends. I guess I just wasn't meant to have real friends.
    SeaunAtchison SeaunAtchison 18-21, M Mar 29

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    i know how people say they don't have friends and their all alone and no one cares. but they're just saying that so their 10+ friends will give them attention. well its like that...
    stupendouscat stupendouscat 13-15, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I've always been asking myself if it is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all. As a very young child, I still remembered I had two great friends. Friends...
    EndSeeker EndSeeker 18-21, M Apr 7

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    I mainly have guy friends. We had a school dance on Friday and he slow danced with me. It was really sweet. He just kept pulling me closer. Then when I got home he texted me and...
    Kenzie5567 Kenzie5567 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I don't have any friends. I used to. I actually had quite a lot when I was in high school. But that was 5 years ago, and I'm in college, have a boyfriend and a busy job. They all...
    RunningFree32 RunningFree32 18-21, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    Ever since highschool I can Remeber sophomore and freshman year I had this little krew but they were losers not in sports or academically gifted we just smoked a lot of pot. (I...
    Danielle1995195 Danielle1995195 18-21, F Mar 25

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    Well not that I don't have any, i do have a number of friends I'm close to. It's just that it's really hard for me to get close to someone. I try to be sincerely nice all the time...
    littlederps littlederps 18-21, F Apr 7

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    I'm a high school freshman and I don't have any friends at all in school. I'm anti-social and I'm really shy. When I'm in school, I always skip lunch because I have no one to sit...
    SuperKitty99 SuperKitty99 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 12

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    Well... Here it goes! I have no friends. It has always been like that besides the ocational that i took on because he/ she was even sader then myself. Needles to say i got used...
    anchespa33 anchespa33 31-35, F Mar 22

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    I have people I talk to but no like real real friends. Anyone want to be my friend???
    dordor123 dordor123 13-15, F 6 Responses Mar 31

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    its not like i dont have any friends, well only if i use the world's criteria of friend. a lot of people claim to be my friend. but for me they are just acquiantances. and i dont...
    mstud17 mstud17 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    I have a few groups of people who knows my name and I know theirs; who while talking to them or referring to them, I would say they are a friend. Behind the veil of formality and a...
    EndSeeker EndSeeker 18-21, M Apr 6

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    I am a freshman at my dream school. Everything is going well. I have great grades, and I already got accepted into my program of studies. While that's all great and exciting, it's...
    Jenbean Jenbean 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I don't understand why I literally have zero friends. I'm chill, not a snitch, nice, funny, love music, and I'm really easy to get along with. Yet I am still friendless.
    klewis09 klewis09 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 9

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    I have no friends but I have a couple but we never hangout I'm always alone n **** n it sucks I stay in my room alone away from my parents I hardly leave the house bc I never get...
    sillygirl008 sillygirl008 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I am able to accept that I don't have any friends. I have acquaintances. Sometimes I do wish I had people to go out with on my off days but other than that I am content. I am not...
    PinkDolphins PinkDolphins 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    I have lost all my friends. I only have two friends and they are co workers. I only hang out with them once a month. I feel so alone I miss having a bestfriend :(
    sarahhunnix3 sarahhunnix3 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm almost 51 and have no friends. I'm not involved in any activities, don't go to the bar anymore and have chronic pain so I don't work. I do crafts and household things. This is...
    natjk natjk 46-50, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    Ive had friends at a point in my life and i thought i could always rely on them but these past few years have taught me a lesson. A lesson i learned the hard way, i now spend days...
    Loer Loer 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    I feel like I suck at socializing sometimes, like I'm a really cool and nice person, really easy to talk to and a good friend, but I can't seem to make friends or keep them around...
    Experiencezzzz Experiencezzzz 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    I didn't know I had so many friends until my senior year spring break of HS (this year)... Nobody ever really invited me to do things... but I have a bunch of different friends (or...
    BlueIce612 BlueIce612 16-17, F Apr 13

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    Well to start off my name is Monica I'm looking into making new friends that I can share my thoughts have support and actually be there for each other. Not someone that says they...
    monica06ss monica06ss 22-25 a week ago

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    I feel so pathetic always posting about having no friends. But it really does suck having no one just to mess around with. Don't get me wrong family is great but they aren't the...
    vampireforever vampireforever 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    When I first came to EP almost a year ago, I never expected anything besides a little moral support and an avenue to vent about my frustrations as it relates to my situation. What...
    lightblueeyes lightblueeyes 46-50, F 4 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    Phantom Manor - Some of the more common nightmares i've had involve a certain attraction known as Phantom Manor. Many of these take place at Disneyland Paris, basically it...
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13 22-25, M Mar 27

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    I'm completely over having friends. Why are my friends fake to me. I just wish they care for me as much as I care for them. Why am I so nice about things and why do they overlook...
    Electricsmile Electricsmile 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    I have no one I can really talk too .. No one who actually cares and it's always been that way.. I make friends easily but never really connect, people always put me on the outside...
    Hypnoticc Hypnoticc 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 6

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    It used to bother me. But just a little. Now, I really couldn't care less about not having any friends. People are all the same. Even if you get them to love you and care for you...
    liquescent liquescent 18-21 2 Responses Apr 9

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    I'm getting so frustrated I have gone through life with never really a solid group of friends I'm always kinda a drifter like I am well liked at school and pretty friendly but like...
    Girlinthefloweredskirt Girlinthefloweredskirt 16-17, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    My best friend all through elementary recently moved away. She wasn't the kind of friend you talk to, though, she was just fun to be around. We had the same sense of silly, non...
    Marvilles Marvilles 13-15, F Mar 24

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    Honestly I don't have any. All my friends have left me ..
    sammylynn333 sammylynn333 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    Got no friends no best friends no wants to be friends with me it's depressing I act like I'm okay with it in front of my family and at work but deep down I'm not
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M 4 Responses Mar 31

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    I really just have two people my age who have been good to me. I have, or HAD school "friends" who decide to forget me and ignore me after I leave my school. I have been a good...
    NeonPurple NeonPurple 18-21, F Apr 3

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    I'm getting so annoyed! I have friends, and they're very sweet respectful and loyal ... But they lack one thing I'm looking for.. And that's availability! Like wtf, I would LOVE...
    addictedtoashx3 addictedtoashx3 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    When I started getting depressed I distanced myself and stopped doing alot of things. I really wish I could have a good friend.
    princesszoe13 princesszoe13 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    I have sacroiliac join pain and back pain controled with a spinal cord stimulator. I had to quit work and can not walk very far without a cane or scooter. All my friends have...
    dede55 dede55 61-65, F Mar 23

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    I'm twenty and my friends are all pregnant or too occupied with there boyfriends to have a decent friendship, I get things change and people change and move on but my whole life I...
    brielladivine brielladivine 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I remember my first best friend in 4th grade. He introduced me to one of my favorite animes and at the end of the school year he moved away. I've met people growing up and at some...
    RadicalEd4 RadicalEd4 22-25, M Mar 23

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    I'll be someone's friends!!! I like talking to people and I don't care who you are I will listen to you and all your problems and be your friends! :)
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    It is official...I went to the men's Sunday school class as usual today. All college educated, successful, wealthy and retired. I explained new career isn't working out and needed...
    1490wayb 1490wayb 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 30

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    I have friends that treat me like crap because I am crazy and I help them with problems but they don't return the favor and if I unfriend them then their is no one else to be...
    nmhusker11 nmhusker11 18-21, M Mar 30

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    Everyday I sit alone at lunch, well I stopped going to lunch halfway through my freshmen year I just sit in the library and draw or go eat in the bathroom if my stomach can't take...
    FrozenBlueberries FrozenBlueberries 16-17, M 7 Responses Mar 31

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    Oh well. Life goes on! Friends come and go like the change in seasons. I say **** everyone unless their providing help or some kind of service to you, and or trying to get you to...
    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I used to have a gay friend and enjoyed confiding in him and would support him, then i found out he was telling people my business so the friendship ended Other times If Ive...
    Paulchanning Paulchanning 41-45, M Apr 5

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    I really don't. I usually connect with people pretty quickly, but than because I soon become quiet after introducing myself, they think I'm being an *******, when I'm not, I just...
    jayjayfilms jayjayfilms 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    not knowing how to express yourself is the biggest hurdle in making friends. unluckily for me, expressing myself has never been a skill of mine.
    maggieee5086 maggieee5086 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    Actually, I WANT more friends that are heteroflexible.
    333justme 333justme 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I have 5 that I can name Julia, jasmine Sahdia Sidorela Alvi
    Nchikkala Nchikkala 16-17, F Mar 29

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    I've come to the realization that I am antisocial.. My only true misery is being around other people. Would much rather spend time dreaming instead of living. I consider it to be...
    majesticmaddy majesticmaddy 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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