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I Do Not Judge You, But I Don't Have to Be Your Friend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 93 People

    My Outlook On Friends

    Just because I don't add you to my circle does not mean I don't like you. I do not judge people based on their differences from me, because that is not my job, but rather that of God's. I used to add just about anyone, but, over time, I realized, I had no idea who half those...
    snowlady snowlady 36-40, F Nov 17, 2009

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    I Won't Judge You

    I won't judge you,That's not me,Also,I don't have to be your friend,If I'm not,It's no reflection.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Feb 28, 2012

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    I Am Not Like Everyone Else...

    I am a misanthrope. I do not like humans. All of those who I consider my friends are intelligent, beautiful and kind, non-damaging and respectful "higher" beings. If I do not friend you, talk to me and show me you are of beauty.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 27, 2009

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    My Circle Policy Changes

    I have never been one to judge others for the choices that than make in their lives. I used to add every person that requested to be my friend and I ended up with a circle full of persons that may not have nothing in common with. However when a new person wants to add me to their...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 28, 2009

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    Not One Amongst Your Thousand

    I generally try to look up stories that have been written by those who want to add me as a friend. Occasionally one or two will slip through as I may have liked a few of their stories etc. I later realise my folly. How can you be in touch when you have over a thousand friends. It...
    HardingP119 HardingP119 36-40, M Jan 29, 2013

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    Amen

    Some people do things I don't approve of, and that's none of my business. I am not them- I have not walked in their shoes and I don't know what events lead them to be where they are now. I don't judge them. That's not my place.But I certainly don't have to be friends with...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Aug 29, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    Well.. Offline I don't have any friends unless you count my baby Beau, he's the best. Online I have lots of friends! Lol a lot. And they're all from here :P
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 18

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    2,941 people & counting who feel friendless. Here's my story. I've had childhood friends, we'd go to & from each other's homes, at times sleep over. Some I went to school with. I...
    Isayis23 Isayis23 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 19

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    ... told my husband I plan to stop pumping(breastmilk) for our baby- and instead of support, he voiced out his discontent. I really wish he'd be more supportive... so I can tell...
    ambut ambut 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 18

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    i think there comes a time in our lives, past our twenties at least when we feel we can be a lone island and not need to make new friends... and then a **** storm comes along and...
    ambut ambut 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 18

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    What I tell my friends is that you guys aren't my best friends your really good friends but one is not better than another so technically I don't have a BEST friend
    cchristinaa cchristinaa 13-15, F Dec 1

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    I don't understand why I just can't have a "friend". Not a friend with benefits. Just a ******' friend! Most of my "friends" are males and 85% of the time they end up liking me...
    Aquarius05 Aquarius05 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    Like, I really want a baby. And there is so many people my age who have babies, like I personally wouldn't have one now cause like I'm 17. But like all the 13,14,15,16,17 year olds...
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My parents are both wonderful people. It isn't that they don't have time for me (which it kinda is actually) but my sister has lupus, shes 32 and I'm 22....she's been sick since...
    FeelAgain FeelAgain 22-25, F Dec 2

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    I'm twenty years old and living at home with my parents and younger sister (18). I'm in community college and heading out of state next year. Now, here's a simple statement: I don...
    Shygal3029876 Shygal3029876 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 9

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    Ugh... It's called birth control... you can get on health plans that will pay for it for you! This makes me incredibly mad... I went to school with two girls. One was just dumb...
    Harlequingal93 Harlequingal93 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I will never tell you I love you if I really don't mean it. I realise how much that could hurt someone, saying I love you but not really meaning it.
    Ashlynthepanda Ashlynthepanda 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 14

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    its hard to have a person best friend... a best is someone you fully trust and you know that whatever problem you have, he will be there for you, cause he knows that you will be...
    Potchii Potchii 22-25, M Dec 1

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    It's horrible when you repress your southern accent because your mom told you you'd get bullied for it and try to be yourself almost 12 years later only to get **** and get told it...
    tentaclebro tentaclebro 18-21 Dec 17

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    not sure this is gonna even make sense but here goes. all my life, my family has moved around a LOT. i am currently living in my 11th house. most of the moves have been around...
    fairybby fairybby 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 19

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    So, growing up I never had a permanent house or childhood home... As I grow older I'm learning to find stability in instabilities. I realized that home can be found in the people...
    IndecisiveLateBloomer IndecisiveLateBloomer 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    So far these are the names but I'll be looking at all of yours for inspiration :-P Girl: Olivia - Nickname: Livvy Boy: Michael - Nickname: Mickey What do you think?
    xPAG xPAG 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    The main question is why you want a license? If you have a own car then it's fine. The reason you are very much able to get license. Conclusion: LICENSE IS CHEAPER THEN CAR
    pskqwer8 pskqwer8 26-30, M Nov 29

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    I've recently moved to a country with minimal public transport. This being very different to where I lived in for the last few years. This being a big issue. In the Netherlands...
    BounceAround BounceAround 22-25, F Dec 8

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    Follow my favorite band's fan page that I run on Facebook and let me know what you think of them! http://bit.ly/1zgJQ6t
    LoveMusicDreams LoveMusicDreams 26-30, F Dec 15

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    So, b*tches, you can't break something which doesn't exist
    BeingMe98 BeingMe98 16-17, M Dec 18

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    i don't have true friends in real life. i used to hang out with same friend. driving,shopping,many chats,we have done stupid and fun things... but she always made fun of me,looked...
    juryandrews juryandrews 31-35, F Dec 15

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    One of my biggest regrets in Uni was not trying new things and meeting new people, it is supposed to be the time where you meet your friends for life yet I hardly made any new...
    DavoFace DavoFace 26-30, M 1 hr ago

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    This story is for she who bore false witness on me, and in doing so, cut me off from remarkable members here. (An excerpt from the play "Doubt") A woman was gossiping with a...
    Contentio Contentio 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 15

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    I don't judge anyone... I also don't want people to judge me or the choices I make till they walk a mile in my shoes.
    princessalicia princessalicia 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 11

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    I am not perfect and I don't claim to be and I don't have all the answers. But this whole thing going on with race and color and it's like what century are we living in 2014 or...
    mlcockrell mlcockrell 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 11

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    so my ex-BFF just totally destroyed me, just riipped me out of her life(besides the fact i see her every day at school) now i will refrain from cursing so i can post this but hes...
    DaveEatsToast DaveEatsToast 13-15, M 1 Response Dec 1

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    there is some people when i lie to them thaey think im good man but when i be honest with them they think im bad boy by the way im honest with everyone because i don't have what i...
    Viali Viali 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 18

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    I have this friend of mine. sometimes I really don't know how to describe her. I did so much but come to this point of time. I feel that she don't appreciate it? everytime when I...
    AnnxJoy AnnxJoy 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 30

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    I'm only 16.. 3 years ago I cut myself and I have been doing it on and off since then. I don't understand what's wrong with me. I'd be out with my friends, enjoying my time. Then...
    Aly262 Aly262 16-17 1 Response Dec 1

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    Or all of my friend requests. As far as friend requests are concerned, if you haven't messaged me, or attempted to, I'm not going to add you automatically. I will check out your...
    paulie138 paulie138 66-70, M 3 Responses Dec 9

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    Dear future Sophie. Don’t become another causality of society. Don’t get married, have kids and be another typical housewife. Be different. Live life to the fullest. Get out...
    EnjoyTheSilenceX EnjoyTheSilenceX 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 15

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    Or 'won't' be ..One of the defining features and no doubt attraction in being online is the anonymity, and this is fine.There is no real reason why anyone should feel their privacy...
    HolmesGirl HolmesGirl 51-55, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Everyone thinks they have everything figured out and that they have the entire picture. No one does and no one in this family really understands me and really listens. They just...
    nomadventurist nomadventurist 18-21, F Nov 29

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    They hug and kiss you....almost as if they care....only to betray you first chance they get....just for the sake of good gossip....never caring about your feelings and your pain...
    Sjenka Sjenka 36-40, F Nov 29

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    I'm currently fourteen and going on fifteen in less than two months and I can honestly say I do not look nor act my age. Yes, I do understand that in adolescents our brains are not...
    losingNemo losingNemo 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 3

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    I'm stuck in a place I don't want to be. I have no job, money, or transportation. I am looking for a job that comes with a company truck. I've made 100's of calls and sent emails...
    hopefullz1 hopefullz1 51-55, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I don't like Christmas because of what I've learned as a child. The whole Santa Claus, elves and reindeer tales are great and fit the winter just fine, but don't tell children that...
    RailansDad RailansDad 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    In the blink of an Eye In the blink of an eye, life's over. There are no second chances given to anyone in that final calling. No one asks if were ready to go or not. We don't...
    secretme1970 secretme1970 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 15

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    I don't understand why you did what you did and blame me for you smashing my heart into a thousand pieces. You think I was bluffing when I said that I loved you? I don't...
    SgtRecker97 SgtRecker97 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 18

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    I'm fourteen years old, going on fifteen in approximately two months. I do not know what religion I classify myself as being apart of. I grew up with my family being Christian, but...
    losingNemo losingNemo 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 28