Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Do Not Judge You, But I Don't Have to Be Your Friend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 95 People

    Amen

    Some people do things I don't approve of, and that's none of my business. I am not them- I have not walked in their shoes and I don't know what events lead them to be where they are now. I don't judge them. That's not my place.But I certainly don't have to be friends with...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Aug 29, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Not One Amongst Your Thousand

    I generally try to look up stories that have been written by those who want to add me as a friend. Occasionally one or two will slip through as I may have liked a few of their stories etc. I later realise my folly. How can you be in touch when you have over a thousand friends. It...
    HardingP119 HardingP119 36-40, M Jan 29, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Won't Judge You

    I won't judge you,That's not me,Also,I don't have to be your friend,If I'm not,It's no reflection.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Feb 28, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Outlook On Friends

    Just because I don't add you to my circle does not mean I don't like you. I do not judge people based on their differences from me, because that is not my job, but rather that of God's. I used to add just about anyone, but, over time, I realized, I had no idea who half those...
    snowlady snowlady 36-40, F Nov 17, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Am Not Like Everyone Else...

    I am a misanthrope. I do not like humans. All of those who I consider my friends are intelligent, beautiful and kind, non-damaging and respectful "higher" beings. If I do not friend you, talk to me and show me you are of beauty.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 27, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Circle Policy Changes

    I have never been one to judge others for the choices that than make in their lives. I used to add every person that requested to be my friend and I ended up with a circle full of persons that may not have nothing in common with. However when a new person wants to add me to their...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 28, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    Growing up I suffered a lot of abuse from people a child should naturally be able to trust. I'm not comfortable discussing what I went through but I'm just going to say it was bad...
    13Selene13 13Selene13 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I do not go looking for friends on here. I add people who request it but I hardly ever request. Just a heads up. I will interact on occasion but lately I like keeping to myself...
    TheShadowedGirl TheShadowedGirl 31-35 Sep 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Okay so very touchy subject generally, so just thought i'd say prior i don't mean to offend anyone just expressing some of my opinion's. I'm not particularly religious was born...
    curranjm curranjm 18-21, M 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Glad I'm not alone. My grandmother has said I'm not Puerto Rican, I'm American because of this. My mom says I speak Spanish like aMexican, yet I'm the only one from my family...
    EVazquez EVazquez 22-25, M Oct 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Over the past couple of years, I have been writing several experiences I have had throughout my life. One story was about a girl I dated in high school, Martha Alvarez. Five months...
    RiverBedView RiverBedView 56-60, M 21 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    The things you've heard about me could be true but then again it could be as fake as the ***** who told you
    SexyNightmare SexyNightmare 16-17, F Sep 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    If you want to know more about me, then you can speak to me in person. My profile gives a genral idea of who I am. If anyone wants to know more, then they'll have to ask me...
    anotherpasserby anotherpasserby 16-17, F Oct 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    No kids. No Husband. No Significant other. And I am quite happy (and a little proud). Not that anything wrong with the above. Its just not for me right now. And I'm so glad I didn...
    pinkypie5 pinkypie5 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    good afternoon everyone ,,how was everyone's night ? well anyone needs to talk you can always message me
    DreaSmurph DreaSmurph 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    ❤️ Good morning beautifuls ,,I hope everyone had a good night and is having a nice start to there day no matter what it is.If you need to talk I'll always be here ❤️
    DreaSmurph DreaSmurph 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    To be bored, uninterested, non-commited; to always "play it safe". To lead a boring life is simply existing until you no longer exist. Waiting to die. To be a walking corpse...
    MollyPetal MollyPetal 41-45, T 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    If you do drugs don't have a kid. If you are having sex with various people don't have a kid. Therefor if you are mentally or physically unstable Don't Have A Kid.
    burnedmemories burnedmemories 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I know many people out there wonder how a person can be non judgmental. The trick is simple in theory (not always in practice I admit). First recognize your own faults and...
    Snowhat Snowhat 31-35, M Oct 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I want to be your friend, the way I used to be. I want to be able to talk to you, without feeling like I'm annoying you or burdening you with my very existence in your life...
    pleadingsorry pleadingsorry 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's how I've always been since I could remember, even as a little girl I never really had that instant trust and close cuddly nature. But when I do trust someone I really do trust...
    13Selene13 13Selene13 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't want kids. I never have. Ever since I was a little girl I never played with dolls and I had no interest in being a mother. As I got older, other people and family members...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Sep 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    To begin with, to all the women out there who tell men like me it's all about confidence just be happy with who you are and people will like you. I call BS because for someone who...
    LifesFight LifesFight 18-21, M 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    You know… sometimes I wish I had the courage to just come to her and tell her how I really feel about her, just to get this out of my chest... It's sad that I'm basically venting...
    theonesbeforeme theonesbeforeme 26-30 3 Responses Sep 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My Anxiety: You can sense him all around you. He is careful not to show himself, but you feel the predator's presence. He stalks you like a shadow and follows you wherever you go...
    GetYourFreakOn GetYourFreakOn 16-17, F Sep 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    i love you three dangerous words abused by pop culture, teenagers and American society as a whole. often used by males to get into a woman's pants BUT- when a guy says these words...
    SKiesterly SKiesterly 36-40, F 6 Responses Sep 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Oh please! If I were to act my age. I'd feel like some parody of a fifties tv show! Cardigan. Pipe. Slippers. Complaining about every story in the paper. Arguing with people I...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Oct 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate living with married people, especially when they're both friends of mine. When they fight, I know neither is hitting the other so I don't get involved. It's awkward and...
    TheBadgeringWitness TheBadgeringWitness 26-30 1 Response Oct 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    First- a little bit about me: I am in high school and I strive to do well with everything I do, including my work, my appearance, my character, etc. I am in all honors classes and...
    reneef84 reneef84 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Some reasons why I don't reply your private message: 1. I forgot (often happened) since sometimes i open EP when i'm at work or about to fall asleep lol 2. I'm not interested in...
    Rinkika Rinkika 22-25, F Sep 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    just sent my mother to the mental illness ward after 14 years of abuse and neglect, finally I am released from that grasp that was held on for so long. No I do not worry about her...
    vividmemorieslost vividmemorieslost 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's just so funny to me. Really, it is. I currently have 93 unread messages in my inbox. I'm sorry it's taking me a minute to write back to you. If I can see in the message...
    KaylaNicole93 KaylaNicole93 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    You know...I used to think that I could never live without you. That no matter what, I needed you. But you know what? I got a reality check. I CAN live without you. I DON'T need...
    Snow1353 Snow1353 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    As a potential friend...Ladies I'm sorry....you have done your best to make hate him..I adore him I cannot live a hatred I don't have for this man...I can't despise him.
    imhotthatisnot789 imhotthatisnot789 46-50, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    You can hate me and insult me but you may never compel me to worry about your opinion of me.I find it very tedious,this "You know what I think of you?" attitude everyone seems to...
    KurMujun KurMujun 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Why most of the things people say I do or believe is a phase or I'm doing it to be edgy/different. Example one: I don't want to have kids. I always hear the crap "You will change...
    ChanelLove12 ChanelLove12 70+, F Oct 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate it when people act like I care, then I have to say "i don't care" and they take it all offensively, Im just telling the truth! don't waste your breath on me when I couldn't...
    JezebelWhitman JezebelWhitman 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    When I first joined this group, I wasn't sure what I was going write here as I have had in the past problems here but then when I thought about it actually the groups name...
    Joanne0chan Joanne0chan 31-35 1 Response 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    As long as you don't force your beliefs on me
    EmoGirl286 EmoGirl286 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    When I talking with my friend I say I don't have a crush and that in my heart say I only love u.
    pnen1997 pnen1997 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have tried all manner of drugs in my time. I started young and continued. I also used to have a major drinking problem when I was young. But now I have been cleen for the last...
    ultimatehacker ultimatehacker 26-30, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I believe that you can like whatever you like. BUT what I do not support is females going gay because they've had a bad experience with guys. If you're a girl that likes girls, go...
    akaShaun akaShaun 16-17, M 7 Responses 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm very lost and don't know what to do next. I feel so bored of life that a lot of times I wonder if death would be better you know. I don't know what to do in order to keep my...
    Zoned1 Zoned1 22-25, M 3 Responses Oct 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm in a constant state of unrest. At any given moment I feel as though I am either about to explode violently or will break down and begin hyperventilating. This is my life and...
    Tantalustay Tantalustay 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 16

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm the youngest in my family, I've got 1 brother he is the oldest and 2 sisters my brother and 1 of my sisters have a different father to me and my other sister so it make for...
    FabulousYetiMan FabulousYetiMan 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I always thought I wanted at least one child. I even almost had one. Gave birth & everything.. Then had a funeral. Then years went by, and then a few more. It doesn't really seem...
    SirenaVonLee SirenaVonLee 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Tonight I was walking alone along the beach, as I do most nights. I was having a conversation with my heart. "Would I be any happier if someone was walking beside me?" YES - in...
    lostworlds lostworlds 46-50, F 3 Responses Oct 1

    Your Response

    Cancel