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I Do Not Judge You, But I Don't Have to Be Your Friend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 92 People

    My Outlook On Friends

    Just because I don't add you to my circle does not mean I don't like you. I do not judge people based on their differences from me, because that is not my job, but rather that of God's. I used to add just about anyone, but, over time, I realized, I had no idea who half those...
    snowlady snowlady 36-40, F Nov 17, 2009

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    Not One Amongst Your Thousand

    I generally try to look up stories that have been written by those who want to add me as a friend. Occasionally one or two will slip through as I may have liked a few of their stories etc. I later realise my folly. How can you be in touch when you have over a thousand friends. It...
    HardingP119 HardingP119 36-40, M Jan 29, 2013

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    My Circle Policy Changes

    I have never been one to judge others for the choices that than make in their lives. I used to add every person that requested to be my friend and I ended up with a circle full of persons that may not have nothing in common with. However when a new person wants to add me to their...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 28, 2009

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    I Am Not Like Everyone Else...

    I am a misanthrope. I do not like humans. All of those who I consider my friends are intelligent, beautiful and kind, non-damaging and respectful "higher" beings. If I do not friend you, talk to me and show me you are of beauty.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 27, 2009

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    Amen

    Some people do things I don't approve of, and that's none of my business. I am not them- I have not walked in their shoes and I don't know what events lead them to be where they are now. I don't judge them. That's not my place.But I certainly don't have to be friends with...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Aug 29, 2013

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    I Won't Judge You

    I won't judge you,That's not me,Also,I don't have to be your friend,If I'm not,It's no reflection.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Feb 28, 2012

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