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I Do Not Judge You, But I Don't Have to Be Your Friend

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    Not One Amongst Your Thousand

    I generally try to look up stories that have been written by those who want to add me as a friend. Occasionally one or two will slip through as I may have liked a few of their stories etc. I later realise my folly. How can you be in touch when you have over a thousand friends. It...
    HardingP119 HardingP119 36-40, M Jan 29, 2013

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    I Am Not Like Everyone Else...

    I am a misanthrope. I do not like humans. All of those who I consider my friends are intelligent, beautiful and kind, non-damaging and respectful "higher" beings. If I do not friend you, talk to me and show me you are of beauty.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 27, 2009

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    My Outlook On Friends

    Just because I don't add you to my circle does not mean I don't like you. I do not judge people based on their differences from me, because that is not my job, but rather that of God's. I used to add just about anyone, but, over time, I realized, I had no idea who half those...
    snowlady snowlady 36-40, F Nov 17, 2009

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    My Circle Policy Changes

    I have never been one to judge others for the choices that than make in their lives. I used to add every person that requested to be my friend and I ended up with a circle full of persons that may not have nothing in common with. However when a new person wants to add me to their...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 28, 2009

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    I Won't Judge You

    I won't judge you,That's not me,Also,I don't have to be your friend,If I'm not,It's no reflection.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Feb 28, 2012

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    Amen

    Some people do things I don't approve of, and that's none of my business. I am not them- I have not walked in their shoes and I don't know what events lead them to be where they are now. I don't judge them. That's not my place.But I certainly don't have to be friends with...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Aug 29, 2013

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    OK, so I've been friends with this guy for 30 years now, and he's a little bit slow, but he's been there through a lot of stuff for me and he's been an awesome friend. However for...
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    No, I don't. They just don't do anything for me. Everybody has them now. A few decades ago, people were unique because they had a tattoo. Now I am unique because I don't. I...
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    This is what I want to say. This is what I want to mean. Yet, the truth is that I am just that lonely, little kid in the corner of the sandbox alone wishing for someone to come up...
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    I don't want any friends at all, at least from a conscious theoretical perspective. From an evolutionary perspective, I see friendship as a way to ensure survival by combining...
    Zaxel Zaxel 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 20

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    "Oh when you get older, you'll change your mind." I'm not saying youre wrong. But I'm not saying youre correct either. When I get older, I don't see children in my life. I want a...
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    I'm sitting here on the couch next to my husband. He's watching Netflix and I am trying to watch with him. Somehow, I have gotten myself embroiled in a text-based war of some kind...
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    I just wanted to say : I don't judge you, but I don't accept your actions and sayings. It is the similar when I can see how sick a psychopath killer is and I can understand his...
    StrongWoman9 StrongWoman9 26-30, F 7 Responses Aug 16

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    I was talking to a friend of mine the other day. She’s a wonderful mother, and about 75% of her time and energy is all about her kids. So quite naturally she regaled me with a...
    Sarahbellas Sarahbellas 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 16

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    allisonhashope allisonhashope 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 15

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    I'm just really picky when it comes to having friends. I had a few not so good experiences in middle and highschool but then as I got older, my ex "best friends" started changing...
    Angelwithbrokenwingsxo Angelwithbrokenwingsxo 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    I'm turning 16 tomorrow, my parents can't afford much, and I don't even know if they will get me any gifts. We will probably be doing something that's not special at all, just...
    Briunet1 Briunet1 13-15, F Aug 11

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    I don't like my little sister and we will never be friends. I don't hate her, but we are very different people at different stages in our lives. I'm 20 going on 21 and she is 11...
    ElloMotto ElloMotto 18-21, F Aug 10

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