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I Do Not Judge You, But I Don't Have to Be Your Friend

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    I Won't Judge You

    I won't judge you,That's not me,Also,I don't have to be your friend,If I'm not,It's no reflection.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Feb 28, 2012

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    My Outlook On Friends

    Just because I don't add you to my circle does not mean I don't like you. I do not judge people based on their differences from me, because that is not my job, but rather that of God's. I used to add just about anyone, but, over time, I realized, I had no idea who half those...
    snowlady snowlady 36-40, F Nov 17, 2009

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    Not One Amongst Your Thousand

    I generally try to look up stories that have been written by those who want to add me as a friend. Occasionally one or two will slip through as I may have liked a few of their stories etc. I later realise my folly. How can you be in touch when you have over a thousand friends. It...
    HardingP119 HardingP119 36-40, M Jan 29, 2013

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    My Circle Policy Changes

    I have never been one to judge others for the choices that than make in their lives. I used to add every person that requested to be my friend and I ended up with a circle full of persons that may not have nothing in common with. However when a new person wants to add me to their...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 28, 2009

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    I Am Not Like Everyone Else...

    I am a misanthrope. I do not like humans. All of those who I consider my friends are intelligent, beautiful and kind, non-damaging and respectful "higher" beings. If I do not friend you, talk to me and show me you are of beauty.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 27, 2009

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    Amen

    Some people do things I don't approve of, and that's none of my business. I am not them- I have not walked in their shoes and I don't know what events lead them to be where they are now. I don't judge them. That's not my place.But I certainly don't have to be friends with...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Aug 29, 2013

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    I actually prefer it this way. Sure, it's nice to have a friend, but why trust someone who can stab you in the back at anytime? I prefer to be alone. No one can stab you in the...
    BENDrowned BENDrowned 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    I'm going to make this short and sweet. I don't have to explain myself to anybody. Nobody is perfect and nobody has the right to judge me. If you're going to be my friend, then be...
    ChristiBoo2014 ChristiBoo2014 22-25, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    It seems that another profound theory is wheedling to come to life on paper. I have done a lot of thinking about relationships lately, and have reached several conclusions that...
    bbcfolyfe1771 bbcfolyfe1771 18-21, M Aug 2

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    Now I'm starting to worry. I just turned 15, and I still have no signs of puberty. No growth, no hair, no nothing. I've always been one of the smallest boys in my class, but it...
    zakkattakk zakkattakk 13-15, M 3 Responses Jul 22

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    I know they mean well but it just seems like my friends don't trust my judgement. Everytime I talk about this boy, they shut me down. They want me to stop talking about him and...
    defi4nce defi4nce 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    I'm not completely sure why I even signed up on this site, yet alone posting a story. At the end of the day, I know that this will not improve nor will it change anything about my...
    LilMsUnknown LilMsUnknown 36-40, F Aug 13

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    Hey, dudes. Call me Jason. I live to skate. I notice a lot of boys with late puberty get all embarrassed about it. It doesn't bother me a bit. I'm 16 and I started late. I was the...
    16cuteboy 16cuteboy 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 12

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    Hi, I'm Corey. I'm 15. I think most everyone here knows me. I'm the bottom half of "The Jay and Corey Show." I have late puberty. I never joined this group before, because I think...
    moltencorey moltencorey 13-15, M Aug 13

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    After reading all the posts I was extremely relieved that I wasn't alone. It did however make me face the mirror of fear staring back at me to motivate me to stay on this path...
    earleone93 earleone93 36-40, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    It really sucks. It's been a year that things ended with my ex-boyfriend, and I really miss having a guy that I can go to whenever there was girl drama. I'm in college, and in a...
    newgirl52 newgirl52 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    Sometimes guys just cant get what others women can, like little nuances that only occur between a woman and her friend. I mean, its not like you can eyeball a hot guy and then tell...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum 31-35, F Jul 30

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    Mainly because I'm worried people will judge. I wouldn't mind people seeing me naked if they wanted too (though it is a little presumptuous to post naked pics without people asking...
    experience1388 experience1388 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 12

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    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rK6wppya5cs. It's a romanian song for the most beautifull girl on EP and in this world!You know who you are.You mean the world for me and I will...
    DanyB25 DanyB25 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 31

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    I won't let you close enough to hurt me.
    FindMeHereUnmoved FindMeHereUnmoved 22-25, F Jul 25

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    If you're awesome . That's it I'm yours .
    oakstone oakstone 18-21, M 23 hrs ago

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    I often say it, but when I do it feels my heart's going to explode and I'm going to die. Arghhh..
    ladyshin ladyshin 26-30, F Jul 31

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    Hey add me there if you'd like to talk :D viv3kdp
    ThatGuyMTL ThatGuyMTL 16-17, M Jul 23

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    I am sure they believe there is a 'relationship' and are merely giving me 'space to live my life'. Huh, really? Were you also doing this for the rest of the 21 years? I have no...
    Lucienn Lucienn 18-21, T Jul 23

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    I do not use Kik, I do not want to Kik, and I will not Kik. If I know you, we can sms. Otherwise, stick to less personal means of communication, email, EP whiteboard, comment, etc...
    findmeholdmeloveme findmeholdmeloveme 18-21 2 Responses Jul 31

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    My life is hell and horrible : read if you dare I'm in my forties lonely depressed and don't have many friends I relocated to try and better my life most of the friends that I had...
    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 1

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    I love my boyfriend, he's been there for me and he means a lot to me. Being shy and just not trusting of others, I don't have many friends... And we were arguing and he said "i...
    nusunshine nusunshine 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    This is just one of my observations. Some women I've seen use their emotions to manipulate a man into doing what she wants him to do. I find this behavior to be repulsive...
    AquariusLife AquariusLife 26-30, F 9 hrs ago

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    Undecided when This is able to occur but He's running out of your time. and he loves her and wants to aid her, but presume will have to go away her. finally when she commences the...
    Arnoldgeb84 Arnoldgeb84 31-35, M 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Although, I would prefer that you didn't judge me at all. Everyone is similar in that we all have gone through our own good times and struggles. We don't have to agree with each...
    curiousgirl1214 curiousgirl1214 26-30, F Jul 31

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    LIE to my husband. I love and care about him deeply and I know he truly loves me too, but I feel like I can't be honest with him about certain things in my life (especially about...
    cjfkdg518 cjfkdg518 41-45, F 3 days ago

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    The reasons I don't have friends is because I like everything old. And I don't like anything that's new. Old tv shows, old cars, ect. I don't fit in with my younger generation...
    Justadarkhole Justadarkhole 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    Like a diseased tree, I've cut off the final toxic branches of friendship, which has left me feeling a bit desolate and depleted. I am not talking about online friendships. I'm...
    PlasticRobot PlasticRobot 36-40, F Jul 28

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    Song-time! Nothing cheers up like a spontaneous musical act! (Well, I can think of quite a few things actually, but that's besides the point!) When the day is long and the...
    Faust76 Faust76 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I am prompted to write this today after reading a message sent to me from someone who was in my circle and meant a lot to me. I was accused of being an F****** fraud and accused of...
    Lavender007 Lavender007 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    I'm Leaving You, But When? You showed up all I planned was to talk you, the last time I seen you we were arguing; I was ready to leave you. I often told myself that we can be...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    I don't have shoes. I wear sandals...
    TheStillmanator TheStillmanator 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 6

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    Funny conversation at work the other day... Child: Are you a mom? Me: Nope. Child: Whaaaat? Then what are you? Me: I'm just me. I'm a Speech Therapist. Child:...but you don't have...
    QuietChristi QuietChristi 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Dirkhxm2260 Dirkhxm2260 31-35, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    It's either you make yourself clear or don't even bother to demand! Who the hell you think people are? One who own a heart scanner? That understand you without you saying a...
    9thguy 9thguy 26-30, M Jul 27

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    Don't be mad if I don't get back to you right away:) it seems that everytime I log on I'm flooded with messages and don't have the time to answer everybody at once. Thank you all...
    Randi97 Randi97 18-21, F Aug 1

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    I really don't know exactly what I am doing wrong. For years I have been fumbling with the issue of personal relationships. What happened recently is a pretty classic example. A...
    jmills2 jmills2 46-50, M Aug 2

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    I want to believe in you so badly. I want something to instill my hopes in. I wish I could feel your unconditional love. I yearn for your eternal forgiveness. Life is really hard...
    skybaby0 skybaby0 18-21 2 Responses Aug 8

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    This page uses cookies to improve your expertise. By continuing to make use of This great site you take their use.iPage's most effective feature is their customer service. I have...
    Miguelnf82 Miguelnf82 31-35, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    You think you don't have friends but in reality, the time you're alone is the time you're supposed to build and learn about yourself.
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M Jul 29

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    I find no use in meeting people as very few turn out to be helpful, they just pretend to be friends but apparently they are not.I do know that I am in secured in terms of trust but...
    darkheart93 darkheart93 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 30

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    At some point I would like more real, genuine relationships with other women. But I have some problems that prevent me from understanding what other women do with their lives. I'm...
    britannagis britannagis 31-35, F Jul 31

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