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I Do Not Judge You, But I Don't Have to Be Your Friend

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    I Won't Judge You

    I won't judge you,That's not me,Also,I don't have to be your friend,If I'm not,It's no reflection.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Feb 28, 2012

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    My Outlook On Friends

    Just because I don't add you to my circle does not mean I don't like you. I do not judge people based on their differences from me, because that is not my job, but rather that of God's. I used to add just about anyone, but, over time, I realized, I had no idea who half those...
    snowlady snowlady 36-40, F Nov 17, 2009

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    My Circle Policy Changes

    I have never been one to judge others for the choices that than make in their lives. I used to add every person that requested to be my friend and I ended up with a circle full of persons that may not have nothing in common with. However when a new person wants to add me to their...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 28, 2009

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    I Am Not Like Everyone Else...

    I am a misanthrope. I do not like humans. All of those who I consider my friends are intelligent, beautiful and kind, non-damaging and respectful "higher" beings. If I do not friend you, talk to me and show me you are of beauty.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 27, 2009

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    Not One Amongst Your Thousand

    I generally try to look up stories that have been written by those who want to add me as a friend. Occasionally one or two will slip through as I may have liked a few of their stories etc. I later realise my folly. How can you be in touch when you have over a thousand friends. It...
    HardingP119 HardingP119 36-40, M Jan 29, 2013

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    Amen

    Some people do things I don't approve of, and that's none of my business. I am not them- I have not walked in their shoes and I don't know what events lead them to be where they are now. I don't judge them. That's not my place.But I certainly don't have to be friends with...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Aug 29, 2013

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    Yes it's true, just can't subscribe to the invisible person in the sky who watches everything you do and then judges you on the things that you've done when you die and picks a...
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    i do that's why i hurt. but i do not want to care anymore.. i feel numb this is not good sign but all i have to do is protect myself from moron. my self defence
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    To be honest I'm not gonna cry or beg for you to like me. If you don't like me I don't care haha. There's about only 6 people I really care about in this damn world.
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    I'll admit that I don't and think it's silly to just celebrate your love for someone for one day, when it should be celebrated everyday. And I know it's not all about being loved...
    CaliTexan37 CaliTexan37 36-40, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I thought I had one, but I was wrong. My supposed best friend literally threw me in the trash bin when I told him that his new girlfriend didn't convince me, being too obsessive...
    Viserys91 Viserys91 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    I so agree with this title of this group. God bless you, one who made this group (no offense if you are an atheist). I years ago on this site was enjoying the library of reads and...
    loveismyfriend loveismyfriend 36-40, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I used to. I had very strong feelings for you. As a friend. Maybe more. But I definitely felt your absence when you decided you didn't want to be in my life anymore. But I was...
    dissolution dissolution 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I really do but really don't at the same time.bassicly if the person is looking at me when talking but I don't want to look into there eyes but don't know where to look, I just...
    dathglas dathglas 13-15, M 3 days ago

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    My parents raised me to take care of them. They rarely worked so, money growing up was always tight. They used to collect welfare and disability benefits for us. They would take me...
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    BenBrown25663 BenBrown25663 18-21, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Seriously...I wouldn't do that if I were you.
    GraesSparrow GraesSparrow 51-55, F 3 days ago

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    oh certainly. I do t think I'm better than anyone else here on this earth but I know I'm very very unique when it comes to my Intelectual abilities, and the way I think a out...
    dathglas dathglas 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    Well, technically I do. Many people would think I have quite a lot, but in reality I can't think of ONE person that's genuinely there for me. My friends don't know any of my...
    EverlyLeex EverlyLeex 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    It can be very annoying. Even here on EP, you get people who want to leave pointlesss or rude comments on your stories and don't have anything positive or valuable to contribute to...
    CaliTexan37 CaliTexan37 36-40, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I use to check them my first few months on here, but now I don't care enough to check. I should do it again because some përverts and @sshólês ended up in my circle but I'm...
    Rockandrollfan Rockandrollfan 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Courtney I now we have not known each other for that long but since we started talking about a week ago we become really close and we understood each other. You had some stressful...
    xxxMickeyMouse22xxx xxxMickeyMouse22xxx 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 6

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    You told me how I mattered right to my face, and how there was no way I'd ever be replaced. Well your words have etched out disgrace. BS. And I wonder how it tastes? Repeating it...
    Taynkbot Taynkbot 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 6

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    There are so many things that I could change about my life but actually pointing out where the change needs to begin is beyond me. I think at times that I am only 23 and I don't...
    who317 who317 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 5

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    Sometimes it feels like everyone judges me. I can't run, or swim as fast as the rest of the girls, I get behind in school, way behind,I am always sleeping and have a really hard...
    Youngandsarcastic Youngandsarcastic 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    The "friend zone" is just a stupid *** excuse for guys who can't get a girl they like. If you're nice to a girl, don't expect her to just like you. Being nice to people, is what...
    DiamondAuthority DiamondAuthority 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 4

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    that is an understatement on my part. i have no relationship with him...sure ive tried over the years. and i guess he has too a point. i am the oldest of 4 kids plus the only...
    moongoddess35 moongoddess35 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    yes life is life not everyone. is going to like everyone and I don't have anything to worry about I'm proud of myself and everyone else should be too people are going to hate and...
    cieloissky cieloissky 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 2

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    Do you not even see? A month ago you said you loved me. You said I was special and made me believe, that I wasn't replaceable with someone you'd seen. Well that's apparently not...
    Taynkbot Taynkbot 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 2

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    I really don't 😊😊😊😊 why should I??? They are always haters and man haters gonna hate.....but whatever they are doing they can take a hike!!! I love myself and that is...
    arshiazare arshiazare 13-15, M Feb 2

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    I really won't because I am interested in two things. One being, to hear and know your story of who you are. I don't mind hearing your life story. I can listen for hours, until I...
    Hexatiler Hexatiler 18-21, M 3 Responses Feb 1

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    It's so easy to judge someone, and assume things about them that we have no facts on. I try to keep an open mind and place myself in someone's shoes, I try not to judge them...
    FierceFox FierceFox 22-25, F Feb 1

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    Hello, What I'm about to say I have never told anyone for fear of rejection or criticism. I feel lost, I feel like no matter what I do it's always a step back. 3 years ago I moved...
    Thranix Thranix 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 31

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    There is no point in regretting what you can't change, move on learn and don't repeat your mistakes.
    polylove0210 polylove0210 18-21, F Jan 31

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    I am completely socially isolated. Its scary to think if anything went seriously wrong I literally have not one person I could call short of the police. I have zero friends, I don...
    pre125 pre125 31-35, M 6 Responses Jan 31

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    Have you ever been so frustrated to the point where you want to scream until you cry, and punch someone in the face? That's exactly how I feel tonight. I absolutely hate this...
    Hipstercatlover Hipstercatlover 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 30

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    I used to till now..."until you behave normal I don't have a daughter" ....but what is normal? How does someone with autism act normal?