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I Do Not Judge You, But I Don't Have to Be Your Friend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 94 People

    My Circle Policy Changes

    I have never been one to judge others for the choices that than make in their lives. I used to add every person that requested to be my friend and I ended up with a circle full of persons that may not have nothing in common with. However when a new person wants to add me to their...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 28, 2009

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    Not One Amongst Your Thousand

    I generally try to look up stories that have been written by those who want to add me as a friend. Occasionally one or two will slip through as I may have liked a few of their stories etc. I later realise my folly. How can you be in touch when you have over a thousand friends. It...
    HardingP119 HardingP119 36-40, M Jan 29, 2013

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    I Am Not Like Everyone Else...

    I am a misanthrope. I do not like humans. All of those who I consider my friends are intelligent, beautiful and kind, non-damaging and respectful "higher" beings. If I do not friend you, talk to me and show me you are of beauty.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 27, 2009

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    My Outlook On Friends

    Just because I don't add you to my circle does not mean I don't like you. I do not judge people based on their differences from me, because that is not my job, but rather that of God's. I used to add just about anyone, but, over time, I realized, I had no idea who half those...
    snowlady snowlady 36-40, F Nov 17, 2009

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    I Won't Judge You

    I won't judge you,That's not me,Also,I don't have to be your friend,If I'm not,It's no reflection.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Feb 28, 2012

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    Amen

    Some people do things I don't approve of, and that's none of my business. I am not them- I have not walked in their shoes and I don't know what events lead them to be where they are now. I don't judge them. That's not my place.But I certainly don't have to be friends with...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Aug 29, 2013

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    I don't have any real friends (besides my boyfriend). I feel bad because people are always trying to hang out with me, but I just don't want to put forth the effort of maintaining...
    lilymegami lilymegami 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I don't have any friends In my area. I wish I had that way I can hang out and stay close. I hate riding the bus and train. I don't mind traveling but I can't stand the bus and...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 22

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    I don't have a boyfriend. Am I sad? No. Am I jealous of people who do? No. I don't need a boyfriend. I don't need someone telling me I'm pretty, because I know I am. I don't need...
    BrokenCorpse BrokenCorpse 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 3

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    Lonely,hungry for your affection Sitting by the phone wishing for your attention I know you. Inside and out You make 10 calls a night to blow it all out Did my face cross your mind...
    OsageBetty OsageBetty 31-35, F Feb 9

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    I guess you could argue that I brought it on myself, that it's a choice. Then again, I still don't think there's anything wrong with being an idealist. Back in the day when I was...
    SpaceTurtle SpaceTurtle 31-35, M 1 Response Feb 23

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    Not that I'm going to do anything drastic because of it. But I don't believe anyone has a reason to live, there isn't one unless you make one. And even if you make one it isn't...
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    So please don't blurt out an 'I love you' on our third night together.
    dearalexe dearalexe 22-25, F Feb 17

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    Well this has been going on for a while, but my dad basically feels that I pushed him away, while he feels this way, he is a introvert, very bold about how he feels, and he has no...
    linkin15 linkin15 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    I think that we forget the dark underside of V-Day - expectations. How many of us harbor unrealistic expectations of what this day should be? How many spend the evening in a fog...
    ToughEddie ToughEddie 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 14

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    I often see these vulnerable young kids wondering around and smoking at the weekend nights in the city where I live. Quite young and probably in their early or mid teens. I wonder...
    Rightherenow Rightherenow 26-30, M Feb 8

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    Me and Dakota are now officially no longer together. And if you are reading this, you will never meet someone who cared about you as much as I did Dakota. And when you broke up...
    bisexuwhale bisexuwhale 13-15, M 2 Responses Feb 19

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    It's all good fun being single, no-one to answer to and doing what you wanted any time without compromise. But there's so much about being with a special someone that I miss. The...
    gazzapocotron gazzapocotron 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 9

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    my father has depression but he doesn't want to accept it my mom says that. he spend all his time on surfing the net he is absolutely addicted to it . i think he even hasnt been...
    h4ppyf4ce h4ppyf4ce 18-21, F Feb 9

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    I Believe That "Love" is a strong word. Love Is Just A Characterized Feeling Of Butterflies And Skipped Heart Beats.
    Arly0212 Arly0212 13-15, F Feb 18

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    My whole life I read books. All kinds of books, lots of books.. I would get lost in them. I love books! I've always wanted to write one that would help people but I never had a...
    sartur sartur 36-40, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I just kept seeing these "I will not judge you and I don't judge groups" abounding. P-ULEASE! I would like to think that we all exercise some judgement in our lives and for those...
    Kathrax Kathrax 26-30, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    I'm 21 and he's 17. We are both short tempered but I try to keep myself calm as far as I can. He isn't much compromising. We always have heated arguments. Today is no different. I...
    Seneya Seneya 18-21, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I get absolutely NO enjoyment out of being a part of a family, especially. "Oh, it's Christmas? So that means I have to see my cousin? Why?" No thanks to obligatory family...
    FrauTeller FrauTeller 26-30, F Feb 22

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    It's okay to block me. You don't have to like me. I'll block you back and leave it at that. But don't create another account just so that you can constantly harass me. Don't use...
    1alwaysdreaming 1alwaysdreaming 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    iv never liked kids...even when I was a child other kids were playing with baby dolls and i couldn't stand them...I would rather play with barbies and video games. from the time i...
    phinixmak phinixmak 26-30 Feb 19

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    I do love being on this site a lot, I been on here since early 2011, so yea it has been a long time for me, it just doesn't seem like it has been this long but it is true, I am all...
    jennymomof3 jennymomof3 22-25, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    it is impossible to judge others because I don't know what that person is going through or went through.
    bgirl1978 bgirl1978 36-40, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    When I was little, my twin sister and I were BEST friends, (Her name is Nevaeh) even though we did have our "small" issues now and then. Before Nevaeh and I started kindergarten...
    HeavenElizabeth6262 HeavenElizabeth6262 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 16

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    When I was younger I like the idea of becoming a mother until my nephew became a Father for the first time and his drama mama ex girlfriend keeps calling my mother to babysit so...
    FrostyElsie FrostyElsie 22-25, F Feb 8

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    Let's just say you don't have a clue. Unless in my circle.
    Averageguy41074 Averageguy41074 36-40, M 2 Responses Feb 17

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    I can't stand being with my boyfriend any longer, but I don't know if I can leave him...I'm too afraid to let go. So this is our story: We're at a long distance relationship...
    Bitterlove Bitterlove 16-17, F Feb 10

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    Yeah, like the group says I don't like being tall. It's just it makes me feel insecure. I've had people say that they wished they were as tall as me, or that my height was pretty...
    Lilwolf12 Lilwolf12 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 12

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    I'm not sure if it's sincere, or if I'm about to be hustled. Family hustled their narcissistic drama onto me down to the way I feel about myself. Worthless for who I am inside, so...
    housewife420 housewife420 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 18

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    I am so lonely. I've always been lonely, but I don't think I've ever been as much as I am now. I love being alone, but it's because I can't be left alone that it makes me feel...
    BlueRio BlueRio 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    But I don't have problem with those who do. As long as you don't violate human autonomy or deny people in your care the medical treatment they need over it, then you should be free...
    hazelwoodd hazelwoodd 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 18

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    My mom is so mean and unfair. I'm not just saying this because and fifteen and moody. I'm saying this because she's so mean to me. Yesterday I was fighting with my older brother...
    Linsey14 Linsey14 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 21

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    I don't know when this feeling began, exactly, but I do know that it hasn't let up once ever since. Not even a little. We've spoken every single day for the past six months. Every...
    paranoidbird paranoidbird 26-30, F Feb 14

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    I'm sitting in my room right now listening to my kat. I have been talking gathering up info and stored it where it would be save, so that could get to it and organize it. my...
    awsome2 awsome2 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 18

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    Don't turn your face from me to hide your tears, look at me. Let me view your pain through the glaze of salt pooling and cascading down your cheeks. Let me see your joy behind the...
    Missjayne1 Missjayne1 31-35, F Feb 20

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    I know I have friends, people to talk to in school and hang out with, but I don't have any close ones. None who text me randomly or remember me over everyone else. At night I...
    Lover2cheese Lover2cheese 16-17, F 5 Responses Feb 8

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    Here I am, 6 in the morning, joining this site for no apparent reason other than the fact I want to vent, I suppose. Or is it I want to find comfort in typing all this out? I haven...
    LoZtMe LoZtMe 18-21, F Feb 9

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