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I Do Not Judge You, But I Don't Have to Be Your Friend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 94 People

    I Won't Judge You

    I won't judge you,That's not me,Also,I don't have to be your friend,If I'm not,It's no reflection.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Feb 28, 2012

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    I Am Not Like Everyone Else...

    I am a misanthrope. I do not like humans. All of those who I consider my friends are intelligent, beautiful and kind, non-damaging and respectful "higher" beings. If I do not friend you, talk to me and show me you are of beauty.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 27, 2009

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    My Outlook On Friends

    Just because I don't add you to my circle does not mean I don't like you. I do not judge people based on their differences from me, because that is not my job, but rather that of God's. I used to add just about anyone, but, over time, I realized, I had no idea who half those...
    snowlady snowlady 36-40, F Nov 17, 2009

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    Not One Amongst Your Thousand

    I generally try to look up stories that have been written by those who want to add me as a friend. Occasionally one or two will slip through as I may have liked a few of their stories etc. I later realise my folly. How can you be in touch when you have over a thousand friends. It...
    HardingP119 HardingP119 36-40, M Jan 29, 2013

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    Amen

    Some people do things I don't approve of, and that's none of my business. I am not them- I have not walked in their shoes and I don't know what events lead them to be where they are now. I don't judge them. That's not my place.But I certainly don't have to be friends with...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Aug 29, 2013

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    My Circle Policy Changes

    I have never been one to judge others for the choices that than make in their lives. I used to add every person that requested to be my friend and I ended up with a circle full of persons that may not have nothing in common with. However when a new person wants to add me to their...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 28, 2009

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    just like every year. not one phone call or text saying happy new year. it is nice to know that you matter.
    maddie1980 maddie1980 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 1

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    What you do, always comes with a consequence. Good or bad. ------------------------------- So here's a 100% true story, that is currently going on in my life. I won't say names...
    HannahMarieX HannahMarieX 18-21 Jan 13

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    So there's a girl I know with whom I have been on & off friends on Facebook. We were never close in high school so whenever I go through my friends list to delete the randos...
    KryptoniteAllergy KryptoniteAllergy 22-25, F Dec 29, 2014

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    There's this girl who I'm sure will grow up to be a perfect little B*tch. She strives too hard to be at the top of everything, even to the point of being annoying. She never...
    malipatient malipatient 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    Years ago I met this beautiful girl, who became a close friend of mine. We spent time together on a regular basis, I'd even watch as she would get flirtatious with other men and I...
    steampunkBeverage steampunkBeverage 18-21, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Society has put a pressure on us, the youth and the young adults, to "have your life together." We've been asked countless times when we were kids, "What do you want to be when you...
    elliechickenface elliechickenface 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    every single ''friend'' i had turned out to be fake and every single girl turned out to be a mistake i'm content and happy just being on my own i pleasure myself real good i don't...
    antoneli antoneli 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 11

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    I am not saying that I am a great mom or the best in the world but am trying to be. Being a single parent is really hard.My daughter's birthday was last week. She had 2...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 6 Responses Jan 11

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    This is not literal to me. Im not homeless. I live in a house under my parents roof. However, its a weird sensation when you feel more at home at your work than you fo your house...
    Xychorite Xychorite 16-17, M Jan 14

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    I hate how people always try to rationalize stuff for me when I mess up and have to pay the price. I honestly feel like all of the pain I'm currently dealing with, I brought on...
    Emmahfknlee Emmahfknlee 22-25, F Jan 10

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    You never know when where it will happen.  Thank you for you. You energized me.  You awakened a hurt sore heart. Your patience , care and wind soft touch caused me to stop and...
    gowithmyheart gowithmyheart 56-60, M Jan 12

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    Don't get me wrong, I love my family to bits and most of them are wonderful and supportive! But... we've just never had that sense of closeness that so many families have. I'm...
    Saiyanprincess Saiyanprincess 18-21, F Jan 2

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    I've been trying to start a book for a while now, and i don't know where to start. It's like everytime i open a document on my computer i just sit here and stare at a blank page, i...
    haileybee111 haileybee111 13-15 1 Response Dec 27, 2014

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    My cousins' story: They lived with their mother and father for a while. The kids slept late. Didn't do homework. Their parents couldn't care less. "Do your homework" is not enough...
    DoorMattress DoorMattress 13-15, M Jan 16

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    My mum isn't like other mums... Things I should have done with my mum, my dad had to come with and do because she's too busy being selfish. he even said to me 'isn't this...
    Misscoconut Misscoconut 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 16

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    As a rule, bearing the hard-won wisdom of a disastrous college life that ultimately culminated in a mental breakdown; I never allow myself to get truly, utterly drunk anymore. And...
    morea morea 22-25, F a week ago

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    You know that feeling? I want to be noticed but still fly under the radar. If that's at all possible
    keeplookingatit keeplookingatit 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 7

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    I am 21 and turning 22 this year.. i am also a member of NBSB. When i turne to this page and find out that there is a community like this, and find out i am not alone. ??i love...
    xxbiRitch xxbiRitch 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    if you have to pass a test to drive a car i feel you should have to pass a test before you can have a kid...mandatory birth control for those who fail! just sayin!
    mamaberry27 mamaberry27 31-35, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    yeah and you're on it!!!!!!!
    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    God damn it I've snorted coke up my nose before, I mean it was an accident when I was drinking a glass and someone made me laugh. The bubbles hurt man! The worst thing ever...
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F 12 hrs ago

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    OMFG! Please help find this guy!
    AlicesWonderlandx AlicesWonderlandx 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 17

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    I'm a 16 year old girl and I have quite a long experience to tell. See, I have a whole world of imaginary friends-even best friends- and yes, some imaginary enemies, too. (Hey...
    ImaginaryBFF ImaginaryBFF 16-17, F Dec 28, 2014

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    I just can't. While I am naturally a loner, there are times when I feel very lonely and needing someone to talk to. But I just can't. Maybe because I don't know if they will keep...
    milkflood milkflood 18-21 Jan 15

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    I wrote this as some advice to girl in the " I hate my life" experience. Since I use this site as a dairy... I wanted to keep it some how...
    jellyrolls34 jellyrolls34 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I hope you guys would take time to read my story, and I'd really appreciate if you could maybe leave some comments below. So my ex-boyfriend and I were together for more than a...
    Pauline0497 Pauline0497 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    If there's one thing in life that hurts the most....it is goodbye.It's been three weeks since you told me that you don't wanna talk to me anymore. I said "okay" and "good luck...
    cooper015 cooper015 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    I don't like Christmas because of what I've learned as a child. The whole Santa Claus, elves and reindeer tales are great and fit the winter just fine, but don't tell children that...
    RailansDad RailansDad 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 26, 2014

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    I don't trust anyone because it is more easier to just be to yourself instead of getting hurt by people that are suppose to be part of your life. I know things are slightly...
    jellyrolls34 jellyrolls34 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 27, 2014

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    So after years of marriage, kids, friends, cars, boats, houses you decide you want out. Ok good to be an adult and say so. But you should not EVER forget that you still have...
    avgjoe71 avgjoe71 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 1

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    I have a horrible friend who I call Will, I've known him for 10 years. We met when it was the first week of our college freshman year. We hung out and played sports together a lot...
    LifeSuxorz LifeSuxorz 26-30 Jan 8

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    One of my biggest regrets in Uni was not trying new things and meeting new people, it is supposed to be the time where you meet your friends for life yet I hardly made any new...
    DavoFace DavoFace 26-30, M Dec 27, 2014

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    Excuse me, you don't have to respond and I'm aware my posting this experience could drive you further up the wall, but I'm curious. Why did you block me, then unblock me and delete...
    Unalike Unalike 18-21, M Jan 9

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    waypuma73 waypuma73 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 10

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    You can only roll your eyes so many times before you just go you know what? I don't believe you. You had me waiting for two years to be official you chose her then you come back...
    Kitten2514 Kitten2514 22-25, F Dec 29, 2014

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    All the new year new you bullshit, we don't need a new year to be a better person. Also most people don't stick to their resolutions. This year New Years has only got me thinking...
    vault101 vault101 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 2

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    4/1/15 pm I feel in some aspects we've lost the romance we used to have . Many expect to have sex on the first date . It doesn't matter if there is no tomorrow . How many...
    JohnCrighton JohnCrighton 51-55, M 1 Response Jan 4

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    I meant it.. I gave every cell in my body to you. Every second of my day. Every breath I took into my body was to keep me alive to love you longer. Everything I saw with my...
    Missjayne1 Missjayne1 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    I have more than one. two. but only because I developed friendships with people before I couldn't actually put things about myself that some wouldn't consider appropriate. like my...
    TheFortunate0 TheFortunate0 22-25, F Jan 11

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    "Don't say you love me. You don't even know me. if you really want me then give me some time. Don't go there baby. not before I'm ready. don't say your heart's in a hurry. it's...
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