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I Do Not Know How To Date Anymore

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    Trying To Get Past The Abusive And Get Out There Again.

    I've been out of the dating game for about 3 years now. After a very emotional and physically abusive relationship, I decided to take a break. I want the break to be over! I'm tired of being alone, but I refuse to settle for anything less than I think I deserve. I'm 35, female...
    jaded523 jaded523 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 14, 2011

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    I ended my 10 year relationship with my husband

    a while back, I think I'm ready to get back in the dating scene What do I do?? I've recently been away and danced with this gorgeous guy, friends saying I've definately caught the right guy here but then I ended up getting so freaked out I kind of ran away. I'm not sure...
    Lavender1145 Lavender1145 26-30, F 1 Response May 29

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