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I Do Not Like Narcissists

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    narcisstic to some extent.  But what I am talking about here is people with super inflated egos that don't care if they hurt someone else.  And they do. There is even a disorder called narcisstic personality disorder.  Is this just a label to give people an excuse...
    findinme findinme 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 29, 2008

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    My Dear Fellow Ladies, We've all spent too much of our time with men that didn't deserve it. I know our time is valuable so I'll be to the point. I need your advice! After years of all kinds of experiences, I'm putting the finishing touches on a new e-book that's all about...
    NarcissistTruth NarcissistTruth 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 5, 2012

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 4, 2010

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    Childs Father

    I have a child by an man with NPD, he has and is trying to ruin my life and I can't find any solution as to what I can do about it that will free me except give up any rights to my daughter. Didn't at first want to join this group because I'm so tired of talking about it and I...
    D4Amore D4Amore 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 23, 2011

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    Depends

    sometimes the lack of giving a **** what other people think enables us to just go out and have fun and not have to waste time "worrying about judgment" light narcissism can be a plus. Heavy? ugh...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M Feb 2, 2010

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    How To Deal With Living Next To A Narcissist

    I won't go into all the horrible details of this issue as the complaints would literally take DAYS to write down. I'm not kidding. After days of searching for answers on this, I finally asked my counselor what I'm really dealing with and she told me that she believes our...
    PayMeNoMind89 PayMeNoMind89 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 1, 2013

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    Narcissists

    I was once in love with a narcissist. Before that I barely knew what it even meant. Now I do. Now I can identify the signs and stay well away from!
    Mediocre Mediocre 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 2, 2010

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    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 4, 2010

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    I Kicked My Narc Out. Now What?

    He told me that he was leaving in 1 year. Then in 2 months. But I was suppose to have sex and enjoy the moment because he wouldn't be here long. I was so devistated because we've been together for 26 years give or take a few years. He left when I wanted to go to XXXXXXXX out of...
    NEEDHELPNOWFUTURE NEEDHELPNOWFUTURE 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 3, 2010

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    How Could I Have Been So Naive???

    I was blessed to come from a wonderful stable family with awesome parents. When I met my N, he told me of all the horrible things that had happened to him and how his parents wanted no part of him since their divorce. I totally fell for his sad stories and thought that I could...
    codile codile 41-45 3 Responses Aug 13, 2009

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    And this site is full of them!

    OMG! "I'm this, I'm that, I like this, I hate that bla bla bla" Sorry. I've had a bad day.
    michaeln41 michaeln41 41-45, M Jan 17

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    It's Pathetic ...

    If one knows one is good enough ... One doesn't have to show off that they are good enough ... By telling others how good or charming they are ... Because these all things will show out by themselves ...  
    DollyDiva DollyDiva 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 5, 2010

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    I don't even understand how you can be a

    narcissist. I could give a rats *** about myself, I live to help others. If I couldn't help others my life wouldn't be worth it.
    classAteam classAteam 16-17, F Jan 17

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    I Don't Like My Mom

    I've written about my mom elsewhere on this site, took a break for a while, and now I'm back. I don't want to be the only person posting to "I have a narcissistic family member," so I found this group. I do not like my mom (to put it mildly). My son was born a month ago today...
    mtsv mtsv 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    Female Narcissists Are female narcissists

    different than male narcissists? Most narcissists (75%) are males and, in general, there are only minor differences between male and female narcissists. In the manifestation of their narcissism, female and male narcissists do tend to differ. They emphasize different things...
    mrennie61 mrennie61 51-55, M 4 Responses Aug 18, 2014

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    Ok so here is an experience

    for you. I'm so confussed as to what to think, believe or feel. Sorry it's such a book, but dang it feels great to say it out loud and lol would she be pissed to know ppl read about her, talk about a narcissistic injury. So 3 1/2 years ago my 14 yr old daughter met a boy who is...
    Intuitivebynature Intuitivebynature 46-50 Jan 3, 2014

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    I'd say nearly everyone in a position of power

    is one. Especially police or jobs where they have one over you......
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 Jan 15

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    Hidden Agenda

    I was deceived by a man whom I thought was true and kind. When my relationship with him was on the rocks he just simply said "i am selfish". I couldn't comprehend why he jumps to a relationship with a broken woman (me) with a purpose I couldn't think it is possible for a sane...
    fleurdeliz fleurdeliz 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 4, 2012

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    When the center of the universe is discovered,

    a lot of people will be disappointed the are not it!!!!!!
    MyCrazyLife63 MyCrazyLife63 36-40, F 2 Responses May 4, 2014

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    Once Upon A Time I Had A Narcissist Friend

    So it wasn't a big surprise that our friendship didn't end with"They stayed best friends, and lived happily ever after" though.... I learned a lot from that experience -"Narcissistic sure is a weird way to pronounce amazing." -“A sociopath is one who sees others as...
    WisePearls WisePearls 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    What Was I Thinking??

    About 9 years ago, I had just gone thru a divorce and wasn't really looking a relationship. A co worker who I had known for many years prior asked me out and gave me his phone number. I never called him because I was still not ready for any type of dating. About a month later he...
    FactoPlast98 FactoPlast98 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2010

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    Okay, so I've decided to delete

    and re-write my story on why I don't like narcissists due to the fact that some people misunderstood it and took it out of context. First, I want to point out that it wasn't at all contradictive, I worded it just fine. Second, calling me narcissistic when I'm not is beyond...
    UltraCerulean UltraCerulean 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    I suppose all the non narcissists are de facto members of this group. I wonder which is the majority when. It comes to the users of this site?
    Jackjjacksonjr Jackjjacksonjr 56-60, M 3 Responses Feb 9

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    Totally knew the boss while in a supermarket the other day. It was obvious without even looking at his uniform. He was extremely tall and his HEAD ffs...he has such a high opinion...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 2 days ago

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    i would love to wear a tutu (like the one in the photo) as they are so girly looking :)
    girlyboy1987 girlyboy1987 26-30, M 1 hr ago

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    How do you know you dont like it if you have not at least tried it.
    Brian1953 Brian1953 61-65, M 56 mins ago

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    I like designing stuff that I could hopefully make provided I have the supplies! It is oh so much fun! It was challenging making the Grad dress, however, it is something unique and...
    4NeonFun 4NeonFun 18-21, F 2 Responses 31 mins ago

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    Am I hot? Remember I DO NOT LIKE judgmental people!!! But level with me. Be honest! Just don't judge! Seriously though, am I? I HAVE TO KNOW WHERE I STAND IN THIS WORLD. But don't...
    NoMasPivo NoMasPivo 26-30, M 25 mins ago

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    I feel like out of the 780 people in this group, 770 are horny guys depressingly talking to themselves. The other 10 are confused horny young girls who ate in the wrong group. look...
    Joeyschnepel Joeyschnepel 22-25, M 18 mins ago

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    Hi, I'm Angelina. I wanted to tell you about myself before I get into the post so you have a better understanding of my situation. I'm 13 years old, in 7th grade, and I'm an honors...
    AngelinaBlog AngelinaBlog 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    I really don't like being around my mother, she is the most hurtful person I have ever met. the things she says are just unbelievable at times... I really don't know what happened...
    veezus veezus 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 5

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    I am scared because I'm starting to think I like my internet friends more than my real life friends. How would you feel about a gf who told you you looks 'skinny' when you know you...
    Misscoconut Misscoconut 18-21, F Feb 5

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    Last night at the gym, there was this big tall dude in like futuristic space workout gear. I ask him how many more he has left. He's a total d|ck about it, but whatevesss. He...
    Gwapa111 Gwapa111 26-30, F 10 Responses Feb 5

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    I am a 20 year old male and have always been single and a virgin and have been rejected by every single female I have ever approached. I feel like there is no hope of me getting a...
    malik91694 malik91694 18-21, M Feb 6

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    A family is at the dinner table. The son asks the father, “Dad, how many kinds of boobs are there?” The father, surprised, answers, “Well, son, a woman goes through three...
    timothyc31 timothyc31 41-45, M 3 Responses Feb 6

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    I'm so sorry, but this is really long. I am currently in that stage where I have literally no idea what the hell is going on in my mind and heart. I'll try and make this pretty...
    themuffintitan themuffintitan 13-15, F Feb 6

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    Ok right, so you see them adverts where it's like a 3D map of skin and skull and airflow through the sinuses... N you think, 'ah, look at that, must be like having a cold' ok, let...
    gingerstone gingerstone 31-35, M Feb 8

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    "'Cause all the cool kids, they seem to fit in I wish that I could be like the cool kids Like the cool kids I wish that I could be like the cool kids 'Cause all the cool kids...
    ThatOneSomaliGirl ThatOneSomaliGirl 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 8

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    My best friend was talking to me last week and randomly says she doesnt like cuddling? This had nothing to do with our convo Before I elaborate more I'm a lesbian, she's straight...
    ceeee ceeee 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    In typical teenage girl fashion I have a massive crush on this guy. He's super tall, slim, big blue eyes, adorable ears (slightly big, but very cute), manly, and has an amazing...
    BNRdnq67 BNRdnq67 16-17, F Feb 10

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    Hi boys and girls and those who are neither. :) I've been reading through some of the posts on here, which I haven't done in awhile. I see so many of you pouring your hearts and...
    Jennifer337 Jennifer337 31-35, T Feb 11

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    THE BIG DEAL okay God, if you're there, that must be some very thin air, but now that I've got you, I just want to tell you, beware of rockets and rays, dead space junk that stays...
    paulie138 paulie138 66-70, M Feb 12

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    I have like a huge crush on my teach and it's no secret but i'm totes sure i like older guys cause he's like 26 u guys! I'm pretty sure he doesn't like me the same way but we...
    BoredClara BoredClara 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 12

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    Its been a long since i had to write in here..! I like writing, writing for me is a way of expressing my feelings, sometimes is hard to speak for how u feel, u know? and sometimes...
    insomniadreamer insomniadreamer 26-30, F Feb 12

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