I Do Not Like Narcissists

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    Once Upon A Time I Had A Narcissist Friend

    So it wasn't a big surprise that our friendship didn't end with"They stayed best friends, and lived happily ever after" though.... I learned a lot from that experience -"Narcissistic sure is a weird way to pronounce amazing." -“A sociopath is one who sees others as...
    WisePearls WisePearls
    41-45, F
    1 Response Oct 17, 2013

    It's Pathetic ...

    If one knows one is good enough ... One doesn't have to show off that they are good enough ... By telling others how good or charming they are ... Because these all things will show out by themselves ...  
    DollyDiva DollyDiva
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Nov 5, 2010

    I know a narcissist. I one time heard him say

    on the phone that he is right 99% of the time. If that isn't narcissism, I don't know what is.
    FTDFTL79 FTDFTL79
    36-40, M
    Dec 8, 2015

    Female Narcissists Are female narcissists

    different than male narcissists? Most narcissists (75%) are males and, in general, there are only minor differences between male and female narcissists. In the manifestation of their narcissism, female and male narcissists do tend to differ. They emphasize different things...
    mrennie61 mrennie61
    51-55, M
    5 Responses Aug 18, 2014

    We All Are

    narcisstic to some extent.  But what I am talking about here is people with super inflated egos that don't care if they hurt someone else.  And they do. There is even a disorder called narcisstic personality disorder.  Is this just a label to give people an excuse...
    findinme findinme
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Feb 29, 2008

    Oh, look at me. I'm so talented,

    beautiful and I'm the best person in the world. Look at me, I'm walking. Look, I'm breathing. Here's my breakfast, look at it. I spend half of my days in front of a mirror because I'm so vain. Or on contrast, terribly insecure that I feel the need to show everyone how perfect I...
    EnigmaticExistence21 EnigmaticExistence21
    16-17, F
    1 Response Oct 30, 2015

    How To Deal With Living Next To A Narcissist

    I won't go into all the horrible details of this issue as the complaints would literally take DAYS to write down. I'm not kidding. After days of searching for answers on this, I finally asked my counselor what I'm really dealing with and she told me that she believes our...
    PayMeNoMind89 PayMeNoMind89
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 1, 2013

    When the center of the universe is discovered,

    a lot of people will be disappointed the are not it!!!!!!
    MyCrazyLife63 MyCrazyLife63
    36-40, F
    2 Responses May 4, 2014

    Something I noticed when dealing with a

    narcissist is their tendency to forget where they put things. It's always somebody else's fault or responsibility. Projection is the name of the game. If they cannot find it, then you must have hid it somewhere. Or if they don't remember where they put it, then you have to time...
    WishfulOptimistic WishfulOptimistic
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jun 15, 2015

    I see a lot of people using the term narcissist

    without truly understanding the meaning behind it. It is not someone with high self esteem or just someone who is in love with themselves. It is someone who has fallen in love with an image that is not theirs and expects others to love that false image of themselves. When...
    WishfulOptimistic WishfulOptimistic
    36-40, F
    3 Responses May 27, 2015

    "Do Narcissists Feel Love

    or Empathy for Others?" http://www.psychforums.com/narcissistic-personality/topic130033.html
    zeeva70 zeeva70
    41-45, F
    2 Responses May 10, 2015

    it blows my mind how can they keep friends.

    I've met some friends of my ex and they seemed to be nice people. way too nice, like me. little boundaries. one or another sound like ******** tbh, way too arrogant and short fused in a way I couldn't understand their motives. most of them seem nice. how do they handle his...
    blackberries blackberries
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jun 30, 2015

    How Could I Have Been So Naive???

    I was blessed to come from a wonderful stable family with awesome parents. When I met my N, he told me of all the horrible things that had happened to him and how his parents wanted no part of him since their divorce. I totally fell for his sad stories and thought that I could...
    codile codile
    41-45
    3 Responses Aug 13, 2009

    Okay, so I've decided to delete

    and re-write my story on why I don't like narcissists due to the fact that some people misunderstood it and took it out of context. First, I want to point out that it wasn't at all contradictive, I worded it just fine. Second, calling me narcissistic when I'm not is beyond...
    UltraCerulean UltraCerulean
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 12, 2014

    I Don't Like My Mom

    I've written about my mom elsewhere on this site, took a break for a while, and now I'm back. I don't want to be the only person posting to "I have a narcissistic family member," so I found this group. I do not like my mom (to put it mildly). My son was born a month ago today...
    mtsv mtsv
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Oct 9, 2009

    What is so special about you

    and any other person is like garbage because they are not like you?
    Dandere Dandere
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Oct 2, 2015

    No one does, why hang out with someone

    that only brags about how great they are?
    carazami carazami
    16-17
    1 Response Oct 2, 2015

    Is he a narcissist? One year

    after I published the ebook Naked Narcissist, many women wrote me about the effect it had on their thinking and how it gave them the needed push to make a positive change. Dear Experience Project ladies, just wanted to say thank you once again as that kind of ebook wouldn't be...
    NarcissistTruth NarcissistTruth
    41-45, F
    Aug 13, 2015

    "Being An Adult Child Of A

    Narcissist" http://www.huffingtonpost.com/michelle-combs/child-of-a-narcissist_b_7617964.html?ncid=txtlnkusaolp00000592
    zeeva70 zeeva70
    41-45, F
    Jun 25, 2015

    I can feel the sociopathic abuse building up

    in a coworker again. We've had major problems in the past so I know what's going on. All of a sudden he's talking to everyone he's calling everyone that passes him at work over to his desk to talk about himself. I've noticed he does this a lot more when he rides his motorcycle...
    Wbyogimaso Wbyogimaso
    26-30, M
    1 Response Mar 27, 2015

    Ok so here is an experience

    for you. I'm so confussed as to what to think, believe or feel. Sorry it's such a book, but dang it feels great to say it out loud and lol would she be pissed to know ppl read about her, talk about a narcissistic injury. So 3 1/2 years ago my 14 yr old daughter met a boy who is...
    Intuitivebynature Intuitivebynature
    46-50
    Jan 3, 2014

    Countless but now I'll say thank god this was a

    character defect I don't have I will take all of mine ,over this one, if you were given choices
    guerdon12 guerdon12
    61-65, M
    Jun 16, 2015

    Narcissists don't see

    that they are narcissists. Can people who are so oblivious & deeply rooted in narcissism really change? I'm in a relationship with one, whose mother is one and so on. So how do you get them to realise or start self helping? I know it has to do with setting boundaries and making...
    Reba29 Reba29
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Mar 12

    Childs Father

    I have a child by an man with NPD, he has and is trying to ruin my life and I can't find any solution as to what I can do about it that will free me except give up any rights to my daughter. Didn't at first want to join this group because I'm so tired of talking about it and I...
    D4Amore D4Amore
    26-30, F
    Oct 23, 2011

    This is my story about my friendship with a

    narcissist. In my first semester in college, I had the pleasure of meeting what I initially thought was a cool girl and we quickly bonded. She introduced herself to me as Emma (fictitious name), a girly-girl type of person, hardcore feminist, 20 years old like me, with an...
    TarikP TarikP
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Jul 3, 2015

    By the time you are done with a narcissistic

    person you will find that all along while you were unaware of their true nature they were destroying you as much as possible from behind the scenes. I realize my mother for the last 31 years of my life was a narcissist. I ran off from her and into a four year living situation...
    butterflyskye butterflyskye
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 17
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Oct 30, 2015

    Especially covert narcissists.

    I mean it's such a mindfuck when someone asks you to be their everything and support and yet he/she lacks empathy, has no real feelings, connections, or care for other people. It's such a mindfuck that a person can claim to leave everything for you, and stay stuck in their...
    marciade marciade
    26-30, F
    Jan 26

    i want to like and be friends with some people

    but they're so self important that they run me right over / don't acknowledge or hear me
    kpl2014 kpl2014
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 1, 2015

    Currently in the discard phase Yes it hurts Id

    be lying if I said it didn't What amazes me is they set the rules however when we no longer react or accept them and choose to ignore they raise the bar for reactions No reaction here however still gets to be in the receiving end
    fivefoottall fivefoottall
    51-55, F
    1 Response Oct 5, 2015

    I don't even understand how you can be a

    narcissist. I could give a rats *** about myself, I live to help others. If I couldn't help others my life wouldn't be worth it.
    classAteam classAteam
    18-21, F
    Jan 17, 2015

    Depends

    sometimes the lack of giving a **** what other people think enables us to just go out and have fun and not have to waste time "worrying about judgment" light narcissism can be a plus. Heavy? ugh...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix
    26-30, M
    Feb 2, 2010

    And this site is full of them!

    OMG! "I'm this, I'm that, I like this, I hate that bla bla bla" Sorry. I've had a bad day.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 17, 2015

    Can anyone ever teach a Narcissists empathy?

    Or are they secretly hiding it? By leaving them, will they ever figure out the importance of learning and growing together. Could they ever appreciate what you have to offer as well? We all are subjects to learning lessons.
    AlisynWonderland AlisynWonderland
    41-45, F
    7 Responses Oct 18, 2015

    Good read and strategy!

    https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/stop-walking-eggshells/201005/dont-diss-the-narcissists
    zeeva70 zeeva70
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jul 13, 2015

    They think the world revolves around them.

    Even if something has absolutely nothing to do with them, they'll put themselves at the center. And there can never, ever be a bigger victim than a nar. They can out-victim anyone.
    zeeva70 zeeva70
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jul 10, 2015

    Free Ebook Gift

    My Dear Fellow Ladies, We've all spent too much of our time with men that didn't deserve it. I know our time is valuable so I'll be to the point. I need your advice! After years of all kinds of experiences, I'm putting the finishing touches on a new e-book that's all about...
    NarcissistTruth NarcissistTruth
    41-45, F
    1 Response Feb 5, 2012
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