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I Do Not Like Narcissists

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 153 People

    What Was I Thinking??

    About 9 years ago, I had just gone thru a divorce and wasn't really looking a relationship. A co worker who I had known for many years prior asked me out and gave me his phone number. I never called him because I was still not ready for any type of dating. About a month later he...
    FactoPlast98 FactoPlast98 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2010

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    I Kicked My Narc Out. Now What?

    He told me that he was leaving in 1 year. Then in 2 months. But I was suppose to have sex and enjoy the moment because he wouldn't be here long. I was so devistated because we've been together for 26 years give or take a few years. He left when I wanted to go to XXXXXXXX out of...
    NEEDHELPNOWFUTURE NEEDHELPNOWFUTURE 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 3, 2010

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    I Don't Like My Mom

    I've written about my mom elsewhere on this site, took a break for a while, and now I'm back. I don't want to be the only person posting to "I have a narcissistic family member," so I found this group. I do not like my mom (to put it mildly). My son was born a month ago today...
    mtsv mtsv 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    Female Narcissists Are female narcissists

    different than male narcissists? Most narcissists (75%) are males and, in general, there are only minor differences between male and female narcissists. In the manifestation of their narcissism, female and male narcissists do tend to differ. They emphasize different things...
    mrennie61 mrennie61 51-55, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    We All Are

    narcisstic to some extent.  But what I am talking about here is people with super inflated egos that don't care if they hurt someone else.  And they do. There is even a disorder called narcisstic personality disorder.  Is this just a label to give people an excuse...
    findinme findinme 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 29, 2008

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    Childs Father

    I have a child by an man with NPD, he has and is trying to ruin my life and I can't find any solution as to what I can do about it that will free me except give up any rights to my daughter. Didn't at first want to join this group because I'm so tired of talking about it and I...
    D4Amore D4Amore 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 23, 2011

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    Hidden Agenda

    I was deceived by a man whom I thought was true and kind. When my relationship with him was on the rocks he just simply said "i am selfish". I couldn't comprehend why he jumps to a relationship with a broken woman (me) with a purpose I couldn't think it is possible for a sane...
    fleurdeliz fleurdeliz 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 4, 2012

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    When the center of the universe is discovered,

    a lot of people will be disappointed the are not it!!!!!!
    MyCrazyLife63 MyCrazyLife63 36-40, F 2 Responses May 4

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    How To Deal With Living Next To A Narcissist

    I won't go into all the horrible details of this issue as the complaints would literally take DAYS to write down. I'm not kidding. After days of searching for answers on this, I finally asked my counselor what I'm really dealing with and she told me that she believes our...
    PayMeNoMind89 PayMeNoMind89 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 1, 2013

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    How Could I Have Been So Naive???

    I was blessed to come from a wonderful stable family with awesome parents. When I met my N, he told me of all the horrible things that had happened to him and how his parents wanted no part of him since their divorce. I totally fell for his sad stories and thought that I could...
    codile codile 41-45 3 Responses Aug 13, 2009

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    Depends

    sometimes the lack of giving a **** what other people think enables us to just go out and have fun and not have to waste time "worrying about judgment" light narcissism can be a plus. Heavy? ugh...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M Feb 2, 2010

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    Once Upon A Time I Had A Narcissist Friend

    So it wasn't a big surprise that our friendship didn't end with"They stayed best friends, and lived happily ever after" though.... I learned a lot from that experience -"Narcissistic sure is a weird way to pronounce amazing." -“A sociopath is one who sees others as...
    WisePearls WisePearls 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    Ok so here is an experience

    for you. I'm so confussed as to what to think, believe or feel. Sorry it's such a book, but dang it feels great to say it out loud and lol would she be pissed to know ppl read about her, talk about a narcissistic injury. So 3 1/2 years ago my 14 yr old daughter met a boy who is...
    Intuitivebynature Intuitivebynature 46-50 Jan 3

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    Narcissists

    I was once in love with a narcissist. Before that I barely knew what it even meant. Now I do. Now I can identify the signs and stay well away from!
    Mediocre Mediocre 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 2, 2010

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    Okay, so I've decided to delete

    and re-write my story on why I don't like narcissists due to the fact that some people misunderstood it and took it out of context. First, I want to point out that it wasn't at all contradictive, I worded it just fine. Second, calling me narcissistic when I'm not is beyond...
    UltraCerulean UltraCerulean 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 12

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    It's Pathetic ...

    If one knows one is good enough ... One doesn't have to show off that they are good enough ... By telling others how good or charming they are ... Because these all things will show out by themselves ...  
    DollyDiva DollyDiva 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 5, 2010

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    Free Ebook Gift

    My Dear Fellow Ladies, We've all spent too much of our time with men that didn't deserve it. I know our time is valuable so I'll be to the point. I need your advice! After years of all kinds of experiences, I'm putting the finishing touches on a new e-book that's all about...
    NarcissistTruth NarcissistTruth 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 5, 2012

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    Starting a new chapter in life can make your head spin I like this quote I feel like it reminds you to calm down:)
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    Or at least I like Roger and his outfits that always seem so curiously fitting. And he is a naughty moose, which I like.
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    I always feel like I have to 'deal' with people. And when I'm alone, I don't have to worry about anyone around me, like if I'm going to offend someone by accident. And I never do...
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    Don't ask me for naked pics .. I believe my body is a temple and I don't just show it to any bomb of the street. It's a temple and should be treated like one # come again
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    I know that not everyone will like me, but that's ok. I am me, take me or leave me. It's entirely your choice.
    unluckE unluckE 31-35, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    Because I just can't help it! I've eaten like such a cow today it's the most rewarding feeling! Watching my belly get bigger and bigger as my clothes get tighter and tighter is...
    ktchubbybelly ktchubbybelly 16-17, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I'm so glad my football team "c.palace", has started this season from where they left off from the last, maybe the likes of the bigger clubs will give us more respect, never...
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    Two quotes from Richard Bachman's short story 'Rage' which I love. "They give me custard and I hate it, but I eat it just the same. They think I like it. So I have a secret again...
    DaughterGone DaughterGone 26-30, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    More like an inspirational theorem/conundrum. In essence, no matter how good mew are, there will always be someone better. By that same token, no matter how bad mew are, there will...
    JamaltheMedic JamaltheMedic 16-17, M 4 hrs ago

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    " Worry is like a rocking chair. It gives you something to do but gets you nowhere. "
    RafaReu RafaReu 22-25, M 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I'm watching the real action scooby doo movie, I've been watching it three nights in a row lol. Who else likes scooby doo this much?
    TsukiWolf56 TsukiWolf56 16-17, F 1 hr ago

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    I like to cheat on my wife and I am not ashamed of it. I don't tell her that I cheat, to save her feelings , so it is marital bliss what we have.
    signofthetimez signofthetimez 46-50, M 1 hr ago

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    Well I know whoever I have a crush on ain't gonna like me back so I just play
    Youngnerd Youngnerd 16-17, M 33 mins ago

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    Of course there are times that I do, though I don't like being lonely.
    sometimeslonelytoo sometimeslonelytoo 41-45, M 10 mins ago

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    No matter who it is I can never make a significant connection with them. My father, and mother both care for me I can tell, and I respect them but to be perfectly honest I feel as...
    aimlessglitch aimlessglitch 18-21, M Sep 2

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    I've always been the third wheel. No matter how likeable I try to be all my friends have other people they like more than me. I feel so alone, I've tried venting to a friend and...
    nadaSmiley nadaSmiley 13-15, F Sep 2

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    Kinder, Kirche, Kuche (Children, Church, Kitchen) Part Three - Chapter One Hundred Seventy-Nine Mary Jane's graduation day - May, 1964. The heat, according to the weather...
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    Hi, i'm a bisexual male, 15 years old and sorta confused. I wanna know if this girl likes me. Here's the details: i knew this girl for 8 years, but recently since highschool...
    ajgamer ajgamer 13-15, M 1 Response Sep 2

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    Experiences this 7 days present webmasters are beginning to see notifications from Google when defective redirects are detected.To stop unwanted material in the look for indexes...
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    Now my life is sweet like cinnamon, like a ******* dream I'm living in. Baby love me cause I'm playing on the radio (how do you like me now?) Pick me up and take me like a vitamin...
    XxBadXVibesxX XxBadXVibesxX 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    I am currently knitting a long jumper, that rather looks like a dress. I like baking and cake decorating, I did a few cakes with fondant icing and they were quite good - not...
    urbanbedouinne urbanbedouinne 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    My mother and I use to be best friends. And by that I mean when I was 14-17. That was the time when I dropped out of school and helped her with her weed habit. She allowed me to...
    cirrus19xx cirrus19xx 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 4

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    Hi! I really need some help, I have a lesbian friend and I feel attracted to her. But I also like this guy, and feels the same way. I'm confused with my feelings, I want to be with...
    haileythetiger haileythetiger 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 5

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    The things that once brought me pleasure and comfort, feel like the obstacles keeping me from catalyzing my life into something worth living. I used to have laughs and good times...
    K3TTLE K3TTLE 31-35, M 3 Responses Sep 5

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