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I Do Not Like Narcissists

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 188 People

    How Could I Have Been So Naive???

    I was blessed to come from a wonderful stable family with awesome parents. When I met my N, he told me of all the horrible things that had happened to him and how his parents wanted no part of him since their divorce. I totally fell for his sad stories and thought that I could...
    codile codile 41-45 3 Responses Aug 13, 2009

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    Childs Father

    I have a child by an man with NPD, he has and is trying to ruin my life and I can't find any solution as to what I can do about it that will free me except give up any rights to my daughter. Didn't at first want to join this group because I'm so tired of talking about it and I...
    D4Amore D4Amore 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 23, 2011

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    And this site is full of them!

    OMG! "I'm this, I'm that, I like this, I hate that bla bla bla" Sorry. I've had a bad day.
    michaeln41 michaeln41 41-45, M Jan 17

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    Hidden Agenda

    I was deceived by a man whom I thought was true and kind. When my relationship with him was on the rocks he just simply said "i am selfish". I couldn't comprehend why he jumps to a relationship with a broken woman (me) with a purpose I couldn't think it is possible for a sane...
    fleurdeliz fleurdeliz 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 4, 2012

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    I'd say nearly everyone in a position of power

    is one. Especially police or jobs where they have one over you......
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 Jan 15

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    Ok so here is an experience

    for you. I'm so confussed as to what to think, believe or feel. Sorry it's such a book, but dang it feels great to say it out loud and lol would she be pissed to know ppl read about her, talk about a narcissistic injury. So 3 1/2 years ago my 14 yr old daughter met a boy who is...
    Intuitivebynature Intuitivebynature 46-50 Jan 3, 2014

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    Okay, so I've decided to delete

    and re-write my story on why I don't like narcissists due to the fact that some people misunderstood it and took it out of context. First, I want to point out that it wasn't at all contradictive, I worded it just fine. Second, calling me narcissistic when I'm not is beyond...
    UltraCerulean UltraCerulean 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    Free Ebook Gift

    My Dear Fellow Ladies, We've all spent too much of our time with men that didn't deserve it. I know our time is valuable so I'll be to the point. I need your advice! After years of all kinds of experiences, I'm putting the finishing touches on a new e-book that's all about...
    NarcissistTruth NarcissistTruth 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 5, 2012

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    Female Narcissists Are female narcissists

    different than male narcissists? Most narcissists (75%) are males and, in general, there are only minor differences between male and female narcissists. In the manifestation of their narcissism, female and male narcissists do tend to differ. They emphasize different things...
    mrennie61 mrennie61 51-55, M 4 Responses Aug 18, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 4, 2010

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    It's Pathetic ...

    If one knows one is good enough ... One doesn't have to show off that they are good enough ... By telling others how good or charming they are ... Because these all things will show out by themselves ...  
    DollyDiva DollyDiva 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 5, 2010

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    What Was I Thinking??

    About 9 years ago, I had just gone thru a divorce and wasn't really looking a relationship. A co worker who I had known for many years prior asked me out and gave me his phone number. I never called him because I was still not ready for any type of dating. About a month later he...
    FactoPlast98 FactoPlast98 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2010

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    Narcissists

    I was once in love with a narcissist. Before that I barely knew what it even meant. Now I do. Now I can identify the signs and stay well away from!
    Mediocre Mediocre 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 2, 2010

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 4, 2010

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    I don't even understand how you can be a

    narcissist. I could give a rats *** about myself, I live to help others. If I couldn't help others my life wouldn't be worth it.
    classAteam classAteam 16-17, F Jan 17

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    How To Deal With Living Next To A Narcissist

    I won't go into all the horrible details of this issue as the complaints would literally take DAYS to write down. I'm not kidding. After days of searching for answers on this, I finally asked my counselor what I'm really dealing with and she told me that she believes our...
    PayMeNoMind89 PayMeNoMind89 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 1, 2013

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    When the center of the universe is discovered,

    a lot of people will be disappointed the are not it!!!!!!
    MyCrazyLife63 MyCrazyLife63 36-40, F 2 Responses May 4, 2014

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    I can feel the sociopathic abuse building up

    in a coworker again. We've had major problems in the past so I know what's going on. All of a sudden he's talking to everyone he's calling everyone that passes him at work over to his desk to talk about himself. I've noticed he does this a lot more when he rides his motorcycle...
    Wbyogimaso Wbyogimaso 26-30, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I Kicked My Narc Out. Now What?

    He told me that he was leaving in 1 year. Then in 2 months. But I was suppose to have sex and enjoy the moment because he wouldn't be here long. I was so devistated because we've been together for 26 years give or take a few years. He left when I wanted to go to XXXXXXXX out of...
    NEEDHELPNOWFUTURE NEEDHELPNOWFUTURE 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 3, 2010

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    Once Upon A Time I Had A Narcissist Friend

    So it wasn't a big surprise that our friendship didn't end with"They stayed best friends, and lived happily ever after" though.... I learned a lot from that experience -"Narcissistic sure is a weird way to pronounce amazing." -“A sociopath is one who sees others as...
    WisePearls WisePearls 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    Depends

    sometimes the lack of giving a **** what other people think enables us to just go out and have fun and not have to waste time "worrying about judgment" light narcissism can be a plus. Heavy? ugh...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M Feb 2, 2010

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    We All Are

    narcisstic to some extent.  But what I am talking about here is people with super inflated egos that don't care if they hurt someone else.  And they do. There is even a disorder called narcisstic personality disorder.  Is this just a label to give people an excuse...
    findinme findinme 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 29, 2008

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    I Don't Like My Mom

    I've written about my mom elsewhere on this site, took a break for a while, and now I'm back. I don't want to be the only person posting to "I have a narcissistic family member," so I found this group. I do not like my mom (to put it mildly). My son was born a month ago today...
    mtsv mtsv 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    Totally knew the boss while in a supermarket the other day. It was obvious without even looking at his uniform. He was extremely tall and his HEAD ffs...he has such a high opinion...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 Mar 1

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    The Band-aid: Narcissists are professional Band-aids. They will seek out your weaknesses (abandonment issues, self-image issues, etc.) and will morph themselves into your savior...
    rescueme99 rescueme99 41-45 3 Responses Mar 4

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    THEY ARE EMPTY SHELLS. LIKE A HERMIT CRAB, THEY ABANDON THEIR SHELL AND TAKE YOURS.
    rescueme99 rescueme99 41-45 3 Responses Mar 4

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    I want to say this: I Like People Who Can Handle Different Opinions What Being Open Minded Is Really About I want to post my thoughts in this group here hoping that there is...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 51-55, M 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    I've only met 2 people like that. we all used to be best friends. Like sisters, actually. we were all so similar, that we could've passed as triplets.. But without actually looking...
    Scoodaloop Scoodaloop 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    I feel very relaxed around animals, and always have. I think that some people have a certain touch with them, can just connect to them in certain ways. I love them because they don...
    ViperaStellaris ViperaStellaris 13-15, F 4 hrs ago

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    WEATHER REPORT midnight is closing in; it's peaceful here and quiet. I have the windows cracked a bit; there's no traffic noise, no noise from the tenants around me. just three...
    paulie138 paulie138 66-70, M 13 hrs ago

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    I'd like to go back in time and redo high school. It makes me sad knowing that in the past 6 months or so I have started to improve on things like being more sociable and more...
    TheEnduringSunrise TheEnduringSunrise 18-21, F 4 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    mine is like a rhyming five and dime; sometimes a bargain, sometimes a crime. sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't, just like Larry, your second cousin. don't take me seriously...
    paulie138 paulie138 66-70, M 9 hrs ago

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    I wonder if there is someone like me ._. I'm like a fluffy ball of joy that loves to play video games, draw, read, play piano and make music, be awesome, play sports and so on. So...
    ajmomo828 ajmomo828 18-21, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    'Starvation' Last night I went to bed hungry Hungry for your touch Starving for your smile Gut rumbling emptiness Emptiness that won’t be replaced Like knowing that you won...
    tommiatkins tommiatkins 56-60, M 3 hrs ago

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    My favorite role.play to do is boss/employee. My idea is I am the least productive employee at the company you own. You start to think this job is too complicated for me and want...
    StupidOlivia StupidOlivia 18-21, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Where Is My Mind? -Performed by The Pixies With your feet in the air And your head on the ground Try this trick and spin it, yeah Your head'll collapse And there's nothing in it...
    andrewphysics andrewphysics 18-21, M 18 hrs ago

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    I like to take long walks.. A lone soul at heart both by disposition and distance of situation. Someone affectionately, though aptly named them my 'Lonely walks' and I have since...
    PessimisticPenguin PessimisticPenguin 31-35, M 18 hrs ago

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    anybody like Indian foods?
    philip32 philip32 31-35, M 4 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    I have become so disillusioned, I vowed to myself not to watch television nor read the tabloids, lest become tainted by this world. The daily news are so morbid. My reaction always...
    stiltcourt stiltcourt 41-45, F 3 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    My gentle folds r so wet...., I like exploring and feeling... Using my fingers or a playful toy to tease the sensitivity...., maybe a caress here or a gentle rub there...,, or...
    warmwetdeep warmwetdeep 18-21, F 3 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    why are you always so frantic, when you know my love's gigantic? okay, very large, like your sister Marge. that`s why I`m called Mr. Romantic. (Mar.27, 2015)
    paulie138 paulie138 66-70, M 14 hrs ago

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    I'm planning to prepare a meal with tender fresh asparagus, cooked potatoes accompanied by a warm butter sauce and Italian cured ham. Mmmm. After discovering a perfect way of...
    Injoy1767 Injoy1767 46-50, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Ever since I was bullied at primary, I've lost myself. I wrote a list about myself and they were actually nice but deep down I still dislike myself for some reason. I've tried to...
    Myalee Myalee 41-45, F 13 hrs ago

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    It was just so out of place...like a dog barking in a room full of people...people...and nothing but people.
    Clothed Clothed 36-40, M 11 hrs ago

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