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I Do Not Like Narcissists

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    Narcissists

    I was once in love with a narcissist. Before that I barely knew what it even meant. Now I do. Now I can identify the signs and stay well away from!
    Mediocre Mediocre 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 2, 2010

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    Once Upon A Time I Had A Narcissist Friend

    So it wasn't a big surprise that our friendship didn't end with"They stayed best friends, and lived happily ever after" though.... I learned a lot from that experience -"Narcissistic sure is a weird way to pronounce amazing." -“A sociopath is one who sees others as...
    WisePearls WisePearls 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    What Was I Thinking??

    About 9 years ago, I had just gone thru a divorce and wasn't really looking a relationship. A co worker who I had known for many years prior asked me out and gave me his phone number. I never called him because I was still not ready for any type of dating. About a month later he...
    FactoPlast98 FactoPlast98 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2010

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    How To Deal With Living Next To A Narcissist

    I won't go into all the horrible details of this issue as the complaints would literally take DAYS to write down. I'm not kidding. After days of searching for answers on this, I finally asked my counselor what I'm really dealing with and she told me that she believes our...
    PayMeNoMind89 PayMeNoMind89 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 1, 2013

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    When the center of the universe is discovered,

    a lot of people will be disappointed the are not it!!!!!!
    MyCrazyLife63 MyCrazyLife63 36-40, F 2 Responses May 4

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    I Kicked My Narc Out. Now What?

    He told me that he was leaving in 1 year. Then in 2 months. But I was suppose to have sex and enjoy the moment because he wouldn't be here long. I was so devistated because we've been together for 26 years give or take a few years. He left when I wanted to go to XXXXXXXX out of...
    NEEDHELPNOWFUTURE NEEDHELPNOWFUTURE 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 3, 2010

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    Female Narcissists Are female narcissists

    different than male narcissists? Most narcissists (75%) are males and, in general, there are only minor differences between male and female narcissists. In the manifestation of their narcissism, female and male narcissists do tend to differ. They emphasize different things...
    mrennie61 mrennie61 51-55, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    Ok so here is an experience

    for you. I'm so confussed as to what to think, believe or feel. Sorry it's such a book, but dang it feels great to say it out loud and lol would she be pissed to know ppl read about her, talk about a narcissistic injury. So 3 1/2 years ago my 14 yr old daughter met a boy who is...
    Intuitivebynature Intuitivebynature 46-50 Jan 3

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 4, 2010

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    Depends

    sometimes the lack of giving a **** what other people think enables us to just go out and have fun and not have to waste time "worrying about judgment" light narcissism can be a plus. Heavy? ugh...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M Feb 2, 2010

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    It's Pathetic ...

    If one knows one is good enough ... One doesn't have to show off that they are good enough ... By telling others how good or charming they are ... Because these all things will show out by themselves ...  
    DollyDiva DollyDiva 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 5, 2010

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    How Could I Have Been So Naive???

    I was blessed to come from a wonderful stable family with awesome parents. When I met my N, he told me of all the horrible things that had happened to him and how his parents wanted no part of him since their divorce. I totally fell for his sad stories and thought that I could...
    codile codile 41-45 3 Responses Aug 13, 2009

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    We All Are

    narcisstic to some extent.  But what I am talking about here is people with super inflated egos that don't care if they hurt someone else.  And they do. There is even a disorder called narcisstic personality disorder.  Is this just a label to give people an excuse...
    findinme findinme 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 29, 2008

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    Okay, so I've decided to delete

    and re-write my story on why I don't like narcissists due to the fact that some people misunderstood it and took it out of context. First, I want to point out that it wasn't at all contradictive, I worded it just fine. Second, calling me narcissistic when I'm not is beyond...
    UltraCerulean UltraCerulean 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 12

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    Childs Father

    I have a child by an man with NPD, he has and is trying to ruin my life and I can't find any solution as to what I can do about it that will free me except give up any rights to my daughter. Didn't at first want to join this group because I'm so tired of talking about it and I...
    D4Amore D4Amore 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 23, 2011

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    Free Ebook Gift

    My Dear Fellow Ladies, We've all spent too much of our time with men that didn't deserve it. I know our time is valuable so I'll be to the point. I need your advice! After years of all kinds of experiences, I'm putting the finishing touches on a new e-book that's all about...
    NarcissistTruth NarcissistTruth 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 5, 2012

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    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 4, 2010

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    I Don't Like My Mom

    I've written about my mom elsewhere on this site, took a break for a while, and now I'm back. I don't want to be the only person posting to "I have a narcissistic family member," so I found this group. I do not like my mom (to put it mildly). My son was born a month ago today...
    mtsv mtsv 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    Hidden Agenda

    I was deceived by a man whom I thought was true and kind. When my relationship with him was on the rocks he just simply said "i am selfish". I couldn't comprehend why he jumps to a relationship with a broken woman (me) with a purpose I couldn't think it is possible for a sane...
    fleurdeliz fleurdeliz 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 4, 2012

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    I love being watched showering, it all started when I was 14 and left the door slightly open of the shower and noticed my aunt watching me, this got me on a hard on so I started...
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    So i posted before about my crush coming out as Bi, I wasn't sure if I should tell her if I liked her, it turns out that my other friend took it into her own hands, she now knows...
    loobyloo19 loobyloo19 18-21, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    It's so annoying. I made all these new friends, so now it's even worse. I feel like nobody even cares about what I'm saying, and like they find me annoying. I hate feeling this way...
    angeliqueth angeliqueth 16-17, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    ppl always ask me if im a top or bottom. i say doesnt matters. i dont give a fukk. when i like a guy i like everything of him so yeah im gay okai? okai xD
    puppySmexyBoy puppySmexyBoy 16-17, M 11 hrs ago

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    I've got a mate who's 14 who would like some girls who have the same interests as him, if any girls like to poop and see other people's poop please message me or comment
    heyitsme64 heyitsme64 18-21, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Got in to the habit of if and now hate to have it closed ! I have Asthma though not severe and I suffer from Claustrophobia and the two together make me feel so closed in it's...
    chrissie58 chrissie58 46-50, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    My fat little step-sister is faking an eating disorder. She's been on a diet three days and now somehow believes she's anorexic. She's about 5'3 and 150lbs. She walked into the...
    genericidiot genericidiot 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I guess I'm sad because you're the only one who saw my potential. Did you settle? No, you had me on a pedestal But I needed something more dependable Because my feelings were so...
    IvyEstelle IvyEstelle 18-21, F 16 hrs ago

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    I am a stuntman and am pursuing a career in it it's like an inner obsession to be a thrill junkie and hurt myself (not on purpose)! Idk why I just do
    MTBlake33 MTBlake33 22-25, M 16 hrs ago

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    This is not a cooking post but I don't know where else to put it. I am putting it here since I am already in this group. Many wonder at the mystery of how to keep guacamole from...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F 3 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I like: Chocolate Evan Making people smile Books Pixie sticks I dislike: Trolls. Onions Bounty chocolate Coldness Floods.
    ImGayButDontTell ImGayButDontTell 18-21, M 15 hrs ago

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    I've always wished I'd been a girl so I could be myself isn't that wierd I can't feel like myself as a man. I envied my sisters and girls always and vagina only attracted me by...
    Czexican Czexican 22-25, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    Rumours are always being spread about me which are far from true and no one believes me even though I'm the one telling the truth! I'm called names because of the school bag I have...
    Melonfriends Melonfriends 13-15, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Literally. In the car, walking, relationships, my whole life is a race it seems. Like I'm going to get a freaking trophy when I die or some ****. Idk why I am this way, but it's...
    JustJoel JustJoel 31-35, M 7 hrs ago

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    But not both Its like one then other then maybe again. Why. Dunno.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 7 hrs ago

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    I lie.... I love it rough. I like f**king. Instead of "making love", I have to be in the mood for "making love" when I'm told what to do instead of asked. It's great!
    flosserette flosserette 18-21, F 5 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    But am too picky. Just like most. But better than most. In my eyes. Ok debate. Now. Lol.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 7 hrs ago

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    "You need to live, really live" is what she told me. I've lived in fear my whole life. Afraid of the hurt, afraid pain, afraid of the consequences, afraid of...everything. I've...
    SheAlwaysBelieved SheAlwaysBelieved 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    Can someone like waste some time and talk to me? I just want to talk to someone random, preferably if your close to my age :) I don't do any of the sexual thing so if it's for that...
    isabelle323 isabelle323 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I like to flirt, but at the same time I've never kissed anyone, so I'm not sure how to explain it. I guess you could say I'm a tease ;)
    zoenotzoey zoenotzoey 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    i guess if your willing to be flirty ill probably act the same haha, but i dont like pushy guys or girls who are just there to try and get me naked, but then get mad when i dont do...
    zoenotzoey zoenotzoey 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I like to herd about the kinky things your into with no judgement so don't be shy
    ZebraUnicorn ZebraUnicorn 13-15, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    When my lover and I kiss, love on each others... we rub our noses like the Eskimos do... between soft kisses and breathing each other in! ....so nice!
    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze 56-60, F 4 hrs ago

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    I am a girl who likes younger girls because they're adorable and naive and I just love everything about them
    sempiternalFlood sempiternalFlood 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I would be happy for more poeple to talk to. I;ll confess i may put a topless dp up, or a pic of my underwear occasionally and sometimes my epic booty, but other than that i don't...
    surfdas surfdas 22-25, M 2 hrs ago

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    This is me. I always feel different and unloved by those around me. I see an unattractive face and squinty eyes. I hate that I can only seem to see the bad in myself. I hope...
    ForeverSmiling ForeverSmiling 13-15, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Book quote: "I did not want passion, I did not want pleasure. Perhaps I didn’t even want proof. And I did not want words, small talk, big talk, bike talk, book talk, any of it...
    outsidewitness outsidewitness 31-35, M 1 hr ago

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    Today I drove from my city to the big city to do some shopping without my wife. Just a me day. Wore mascara, a skirt boots. I had so much fun rummaging thru the women's section...
    shadowplt shadowplt 46-50, M 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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