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I Do Not Like Narcissists

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    When the center of the universe is discovered,

    a lot of people will be disappointed the are not it!!!!!!
    MyCrazyLife63 MyCrazyLife63 36-40, F 2 Responses May 4, 2014

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    Childs Father

    I have a child by an man with NPD, he has and is trying to ruin my life and I can't find any solution as to what I can do about it that will free me except give up any rights to my daughter. Didn't at first want to join this group because I'm so tired of talking about it and I...
    D4Amore D4Amore 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 23, 2011

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    Hidden Agenda

    I was deceived by a man whom I thought was true and kind. When my relationship with him was on the rocks he just simply said "i am selfish". I couldn't comprehend why he jumps to a relationship with a broken woman (me) with a purpose I couldn't think it is possible for a sane...
    fleurdeliz fleurdeliz 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 4, 2012

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    Once Upon A Time I Had A Narcissist Friend

    So it wasn't a big surprise that our friendship didn't end with"They stayed best friends, and lived happily ever after" though.... I learned a lot from that experience -"Narcissistic sure is a weird way to pronounce amazing." -“A sociopath is one who sees others as...
    WisePearls WisePearls 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    I can feel the sociopathic abuse building up

    in a coworker again. We've had major problems in the past so I know what's going on. All of a sudden he's talking to everyone he's calling everyone that passes him at work over to his desk to talk about himself. I've noticed he does this a lot more when he rides his motorcycle...
    Wbyogimaso Wbyogimaso 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 4, 2010

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 4, 2010

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    I don't even understand how you can be a

    narcissist. I could give a rats *** about myself, I live to help others. If I couldn't help others my life wouldn't be worth it.
    classAteam classAteam 16-17, F Jan 17

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    It's Pathetic ...

    If one knows one is good enough ... One doesn't have to show off that they are good enough ... By telling others how good or charming they are ... Because these all things will show out by themselves ...  
    DollyDiva DollyDiva 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 5, 2010

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    I Kicked My Narc Out. Now What?

    He told me that he was leaving in 1 year. Then in 2 months. But I was suppose to have sex and enjoy the moment because he wouldn't be here long. I was so devistated because we've been together for 26 years give or take a few years. He left when I wanted to go to XXXXXXXX out of...
    NEEDHELPNOWFUTURE NEEDHELPNOWFUTURE 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 3, 2010

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    How Could I Have Been So Naive???

    I was blessed to come from a wonderful stable family with awesome parents. When I met my N, he told me of all the horrible things that had happened to him and how his parents wanted no part of him since their divorce. I totally fell for his sad stories and thought that I could...
    codile codile 41-45 3 Responses Aug 13, 2009

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    Narcissists

    I was once in love with a narcissist. Before that I barely knew what it even meant. Now I do. Now I can identify the signs and stay well away from!
    Mediocre Mediocre 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 2, 2010

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    Ok so here is an experience

    for you. I'm so confussed as to what to think, believe or feel. Sorry it's such a book, but dang it feels great to say it out loud and lol would she be pissed to know ppl read about her, talk about a narcissistic injury. So 3 1/2 years ago my 14 yr old daughter met a boy who is...
    Intuitivebynature Intuitivebynature 46-50 Jan 3, 2014

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    Depends

    sometimes the lack of giving a **** what other people think enables us to just go out and have fun and not have to waste time "worrying about judgment" light narcissism can be a plus. Heavy? ugh...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M Feb 2, 2010

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    I Don't Like My Mom

    I've written about my mom elsewhere on this site, took a break for a while, and now I'm back. I don't want to be the only person posting to "I have a narcissistic family member," so I found this group. I do not like my mom (to put it mildly). My son was born a month ago today...
    mtsv mtsv 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    And this site is full of them!

    OMG! "I'm this, I'm that, I like this, I hate that bla bla bla" Sorry. I've had a bad day.
    michaeln41 michaeln41 41-45, M Jan 17

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    What Was I Thinking??

    About 9 years ago, I had just gone thru a divorce and wasn't really looking a relationship. A co worker who I had known for many years prior asked me out and gave me his phone number. I never called him because I was still not ready for any type of dating. About a month later he...
    FactoPlast98 FactoPlast98 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2010

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    Okay, so I've decided to delete

    and re-write my story on why I don't like narcissists due to the fact that some people misunderstood it and took it out of context. First, I want to point out that it wasn't at all contradictive, I worded it just fine. Second, calling me narcissistic when I'm not is beyond...
    UltraCerulean UltraCerulean 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    Free Ebook Gift

    My Dear Fellow Ladies, We've all spent too much of our time with men that didn't deserve it. I know our time is valuable so I'll be to the point. I need your advice! After years of all kinds of experiences, I'm putting the finishing touches on a new e-book that's all about...
    NarcissistTruth NarcissistTruth 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 5, 2012

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    Female Narcissists Are female narcissists

    different than male narcissists? Most narcissists (75%) are males and, in general, there are only minor differences between male and female narcissists. In the manifestation of their narcissism, female and male narcissists do tend to differ. They emphasize different things...
    mrennie61 mrennie61 51-55, M 4 Responses Aug 18, 2014

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    I'd say nearly everyone in a position of power

    is one. Especially police or jobs where they have one over you......
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 Jan 15

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    How To Deal With Living Next To A Narcissist

    I won't go into all the horrible details of this issue as the complaints would literally take DAYS to write down. I'm not kidding. After days of searching for answers on this, I finally asked my counselor what I'm really dealing with and she told me that she believes our...
    PayMeNoMind89 PayMeNoMind89 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 1, 2013

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    We All Are

    narcisstic to some extent.  But what I am talking about here is people with super inflated egos that don't care if they hurt someone else.  And they do. There is even a disorder called narcisstic personality disorder.  Is this just a label to give people an excuse...
    findinme findinme 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 29, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    "The most macro expression of tribal narcissism is the one that gathers us all in—the narcissism of the human species itself, something that has made us the unquestioned lords of...
    ambivalentFriability ambivalentFriability 18-21 2 Responses Apr 6

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    YEP... cowards covering other cowards people hiding agendas and possibly crime/fraud narcissists who are all about themselves..woe is me..endlessly using my identity...
    cheuvreuil cheuvreuil 46-50, F Apr 10

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    I can't stop thinking about him. About how this is destinied to end. After all these three years, and nothing has happened. We hav'nt even hung out! It's pointless. I've crushed...
    heardherwhispering heardherwhispering 16-17, F 4 hrs ago

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    Sometimes I feel like I was born to pick people up, to make them happy, and show them how to appreciate life. To only be ****** over in the end when they don't need me and honestly...
    xXDesireXx xXDesireXx 16-17, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Ever tried going through your old journals and being astounded by yourself? Almost like you can't believe that was you. I read an article on writing about how you feel and aside...
    Dayannara Dayannara 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    Every now and then a little rain will fall, gently upon the window panes. It lands on the grass, creates little pools where children like to play and splash. Flowers lift their...
    sensualbeauty1 sensualbeauty1 46-50, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    All the people that I come across have one thing in common.They all give me weird looks which makes me feel like a foreigner in my own country .So I dont go out much.Right now I am...
    karmicsouls karmicsouls 31-35, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I lost my old account and wanted to repost... I had a surreal experience the other day and would like to share it. I am not usually a headphones in public guy, but I was wrapped...
    deepceenu deepceenu 46-50, M 5 hrs ago

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    I have put people on a pedestal in the past, it was not good for my self esteem and not fair for them. I may admire you, but not like a god or goddess, like a human being with good...
    Danceofhours Danceofhours 41-45, M 1 hr ago

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    Sorry but I don't like oral sex at all
    femina femina 26-30, F 9 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Ever since I was little I would have sexual dreams about children my own age. Now I still have sexual dreams about children, and I'm near 25. Anyone feel like explaining this one?
    DML2451 DML2451 22-25, M 12 hrs ago

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    Well recently a reporter from popular sports news station just gave an example of how most women act these days .Shallow ,ugly ,way to much makeup ,bitchy ,rude ,self indulged...
    jjmjams jjmjams 41-45, M 4 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I liked my ex not because he is white, but because he was sweet, understanding, and patient. He just happened to be white. Anyone with the kind personality I look for would be...
    Alyyeska Alyyeska 26-30, F 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Being forced to choose between the guy you love and who loves you, and someone that can physically hold you and temporarily make you feel loved... Even though I'm so unsure if i...
    Catho Catho 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    I like my teacher..🙈 I don't know why
    moonwalker123 moonwalker123 13-15, F 7 hrs ago

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    So my boyfriend wanted to go see a scary movie. I told him I don't like them, and begged him not to go. But he called me a brat and said I was being selfish. So I went ...bad idea...
    madenew22 madenew22 22-25, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Made my first meal No recipe at all today. Vegie and mince pie. it had sweet potato for a base, zucchini strips, a tomato based sauce mince (like bolognase), more zucchini, mashed...
    jra2015 jra2015 22-25 6 hrs ago

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    I wish I knew more people like me in real life, I would love to host a teaparty where we all dressed up, drank tea and discussed our lives and show off our clothes! I bet it would...
    KitchenGun KitchenGun 18-21, T 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I don't mind having friends at all. It's just a lot of work to maintain our friendship, ya know? I keep my distance a lot. A lot of my friendships have been formed online and...
    UnbalancedHero UnbalancedHero 16-17, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I love friends with a great sense of humor so they can make me laugh when I need it the most. I love doing the same to them as they need a laugh too. I love comedy clubs and...
    juliewardatbeach juliewardatbeach 36-40, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    My Perfect Party. My ideal party will take place on the lawn of my ideal home – a traditional provençal farmworker’s cottage (thick walls, thatched roof, timber beams...
    bethturner bethturner 26-30, F 7 Responses