I Do Not Like The Bra Strap Showing Look

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    I Hate It

    It's so trashy-looking. I can't stand seeing that. To me.... it just shows little respect for yourself as a lady.
    staystrong11 staystrong11
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 1, 2010

    Trashy Looking

    It looks like you can't dress yourself well and don't care what people think about when they see you. I'm not saying that you have to "dress to impress" everytime you step out of your house, but at least look 'kemp.' Not very lady-like to be sporting a black bra under a white...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 15, 2010

    I Don't Think An Exposed Bra Strap Is Flattering.

    This is not a major pet peeve of mine.  If that's how people want to look, all the more power to them, I say.  Personally, however, I've never found this look glamorous or appealing.  My head never gets turned by an exposed bra-strap.  I guess I feel the...
    UnderEli UnderEli
    46-50, M
    6 Responses Apr 27, 2010

    Won't Allow It

    It's not sexy for me but unethical. I will wear strapless bra if I am wearing sleeveless tops or dresses. It confuses me why some men love to see it that way and how could some women find it sexier.
    1PrincessKai 1PrincessKai
    46-50, F
    1 Response Mar 27, 2011

    I Just DonĀ“t

      Call me old fashioned if you want ( psst... I really don´t care ) but I don´t consider fashionable to expose your underwear and I find this "look" quite unattractive and in poor taste.
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    6 Responses Mar 15, 2010


    You should never be seen in public showing your underwears , especially the bra strap. It's just the rules of proper dress. Grrr. Am I a grumpy old man ?
    skibi skibi
    46-50, M
    1 Response Aug 20, 2011

    Please, Some Dignity Here?

    It's just...what can I say, slutty? Why do you want to show off your bra, really? I'll admit, I've done it without knowing before like if it sticks out of my tank top or something, but on purpose? Not sexy. Some people also do that thing where they let it hang down onto their...
    Shopaholikk77 Shopaholikk77
    18-21, F
    Mar 16, 2010

    It's Cheap

    Any woman I see dressed with their bra strap showing must not have looked in the mirror when they were getting ready for the day or doesn't care about their appearance. Anyway, it's a cheap look.
    Morgause Morgause
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jul 8, 2010

    Conceal It!

    For Heaven's sake! This drives me NEARLY as crazy as women who let their thongs show. How TACKY! It might be fashionable, but then again, so were parachute pants, once.
    MrsKateBrown MrsKateBrown
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Mar 15, 2010


    To me, it shows sloppiness and carelessness.  It possibly looks like they just woke up and took a jog.  I believe it is perfectly acceptable if they ARE indeed taking a walk or a jog.  It is also great for around the house.  It is just not for me. ...
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 25, 2010
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