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I Do Not Trust People Easily

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    I Guess

     its kind of a nasty part of me. i dont trust anyone. im always thinking of what to do when someone betrays me on EP or IRL. im always plotting.i always remind myself,that people can lie that people i consider friends the people i laugh with now,could actually hate me. i...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 24, 2009

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    In The Past...

    There’s a reason, I don’t trust people. I find it hard to trust them because every person I’ve ever opened up to ran away as quickly as they could. Sometimes, if a person gets too close, I push them away before they run. Do you know how much that hurts? To never get close...
    elpatitofeo elpatitofeo 18-21, F Feb 16, 2011

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    But Eventually I Do

    It just takes a guy like me who has been burned so many times a little more time to make sure people are trustworthy these days, that's all.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 4, 2011

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    I Need Trust To Be Built

    When I first came to EP I was overly trusting and I took everyone at face value. I made a lot of friends that way but I also attracted some people that i would never consider true friends, and I even attracted a stalker and his friends. I don't trust people any longer and it...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 1 Response May 13, 2011

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    People Are Difficult To Trust

    In the world we live in, its very difficult to trust people, because they will always let you down. people have desire and when they want something they do any thing to get it that what scares me. As I cannot trust my self when I have desire. people cannot be trusted that why...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 24, 2009

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    I Am Too Trusting

    Being too trusting has led me to begin mistrusting people. I think its a shame as having someone trust you is a good feeling but sadly there are people who abuse that trust and thats what happened to me. You meet people on here who are incredibly nice. People you inherently...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 17, 2013

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    I found myself always prefer being alone

    or just with my boyfriend these days. I am very cautious and aware people's intentions. As long as I found out they have a purpose being with me, I lost interest in pursuing the friendship any further. I would like the freedom of being not attached to anyone or being anybody's...
    additionalism additionalism 31-35 Aug 30

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    Related Experiences

    I feel really bad im this way now, it makes me feel like a crappy person, but ive had so many bad experiences with people that its really genuinely hard to change that way of...
    shinjorai shinjorai 36-40, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    You tell a person so many things about yourself the good,the bad and the ugly and out of the blue you never talk to them again. This is why I don't trust!!
    sexylicious29 sexylicious29 26-30, F Sep 26

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    As soon as I try to trust you, you push me off a cliff. No thank you. Give them a inch and they take a mile
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 26

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    If I trust a person and they betray my trust they just might as well be dead to me. With that being said there are few people in this world that I actually trust and if you have my...
    SuckMyAwesome SuckMyAwesome 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    As days go on , year after year , I lose my hope with people . I find it harder to trust close one anymore. I use to trust a lot but no it seems like I have nothing but distrust...
    Santi425 Santi425 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    Well... I only have one person in my circle. That's my friend cloudycarnage he's helped me out in sooo many ways. I actually trust him with personal information. He's the only...
    lexrae lexrae 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 29

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    None of you. Nope. Not even any of my friends. Got a problem? Block me. I don't care. I will say what I want. I do not, and never will trust you.
    Levi1 Levi1 13-15, M 2 Responses Oct 3

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    Characterize people by their actions. Then you'll no longer be fooled by their words .
    DaddysCupcake DaddysCupcake 26-30, F Sep 26

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    After being hurt. Duh. Lol
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 12 hrs ago

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    So I took a huge leap of faith today and let my school guidance counselor read what I wrote about how I'm really feeling. She said that what I wrote warrants hospitalization. I...
    blahlahblah599 blahlahblah599 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 29

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    When I make a friend, I am a friend for life.
    luv2fish luv2fish 56-60, M 2 Responses Sep 28

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    My sister buried my mother behind my back 2 years ago. Never held a grudge. God is good.
    dcal88 dcal88 51-55, F Oct 4

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    i aam a gay female and almost all of my ex's cheated on me with a guy. except one...my current gf. What is up with that. Anybody else have this experience?
    GallyG GallyG 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 23

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    Told someone I liked my darkest secret in high school and it ended up becoming everyone's favorite topic.
    Thisgurlman Thisgurlman 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 8

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    Then you will know the truth. The truth will set you free.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 days ago

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    Then you will know the truth. The truth will set you free.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 4 days ago

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    The word trust has haunted my mind every now and then. The word trust has a meaning, but now I'm unsure what to feel. I use to trust people too easily, but now I become careless...
    msunique1989 msunique1989 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have trust issues.....I trust to easily and always get hurt....
    Indeciciveme Indeciciveme 16-17, F 6 Responses Oct 7

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    This might be my downfall, but I admit. I always see the good in people. I trust people. As naive as it may sound, I do. I used to think I'm a good judge of character, I can...
    anhourglass anhourglass 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 24

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    I'll struggle my entire life to trust people with blue eyes. People with Blue eyes still scare me to this day. Well not scare, but I'd never trust or be comfortable around someone...
    SunshineH316 SunshineH316 22-25, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    I'v never had my heart broken or been in some type of betrayed situation, or cheated on. Never really been lied to. I'v had bad things happen to me, but.... I don't know. I just...
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 22

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    I always have problems trusting people and now I don't trust my boyfriend.. I don't know what's wrong but I've been like this since I was young. Someone give so e advice pls?
    nerdylizz nerdylizz 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 5

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    I never had a real boyfriend because I never trust people completely. What's up with that?
    melissapien melissapien 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 11

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    SO LONG AS THEY DO NOT HURT PEOPLE, are Better than people WITHOUT convictions. People without convictions "will go Any direction the wind blows"; so HOW CAN They be TRUSTED...
    desireindisguise desireindisguise 56-60 Oct 7

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    People I hate: My parents, my friends, my enemies, my peers, my teachers, my neighbors, my BEST friends, and worst of all myself. I can never do anything "right". There is always...
    Angekinz Angekinz 22-25, F Sep 28

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    Everytime I trust people I feel they let me down, it's always me running around telephoning my friends they never invite me out when they go down the pub - so I stopped running...
    DexterUk DexterUk 41-45, M Sep 24

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    I found out how much I've isolated myself from others due to my recent issues where my partner of 6 years moved out im not sure if we can work things out he tells me we can but it...
    heather81 heather81 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 30

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    I'm a very sensitive person and at times get hurt easily. I've been hurt so many times before that I've noticed that I have created barriers that people need to tear down before...
    Morenita79 Morenita79 31-35, F 6 hrs ago

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    Sometimes when people bring me down I can't help but wish that I was stronger and didn't let their words and actions impact me so much. I'm a sensitive person, and if you say...
    xCherryCola xCherryCola 13-15, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I'm learning to trust again. It's hard but one of the first steps is not listening to or following every thought and urge inside your mind. There is something at the root of always...
    seesaw69 seesaw69 26-30 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    ...for as long as I can remember. I guess I was always this way to an extent, but the depression and anxiety became much more manifest during college and are showing no signs of...
    Scribbler17 Scribbler17 16-17, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    It's how I've always been since I could remember, even as a little girl I never really had that instant trust and close cuddly nature. But when I do trust someone I really do trust...
    13Selene13 13Selene13 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 25

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    A relationship is definitely built on trust and respect. My last two relationships were not that great. In my first relationship the guy I was with was never really there for me. I...
    Morenita79 Morenita79 31-35, F 5 hrs ago

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    Yepp easily I love reading I wouldn't have the slightest problem if all I had was a book and an entire day to spend with it :)
    hopelesslycurious hopelesslycurious 18-21, F 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    Sarcasm is a defense mechanism its a way for me to exist without revealing real emotions. Its part of the reason I try not to interact outside of face to face because I can't read...
    CassieWithAnO CassieWithAnO 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 25

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    I would like to make a public apology to another person who has Asperger's syndrome . I'm sorry that he got the wrong idea . His accusations are very serous and I wish him to...
    Drwho1963 Drwho1963 51-55, M 15 hrs ago

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    Gee. Or jee. Is this true. Fok yes. Forgive who why. I trust. They damage it. Re fokyn peatedly. Done with them.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 10 hrs ago

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    When I was 10 I was raped by my neighbour. I stayed at his house when my parents went out of town he was a really nice man people say he was about 59-63ish when it happened. After...
    Leti9 Leti9 13-15, F 3 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    find myself physically attracted to a good friends daughter. Lets just say she is too young for me to be paying that type of attention to. Not perv young, but legally young. She...
    tiredgoodguy tiredgoodguy 26-30, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    My experience is that you cannot trust anyone, their is no such thing as good friends
    Jwxpert Jwxpert 16-17, M 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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