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I Do Not Trust People Easily

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    I Guess

     its kind of a nasty part of me. i dont trust anyone. im always thinking of what to do when someone betrays me on EP or IRL. im always plotting.i always remind myself,that people can lie that people i consider friends the people i laugh with now,could actually hate me. i...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 24, 2009

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    I found myself always prefer being alone

    or just with my boyfriend these days. I am very cautious and aware people's intentions. As long as I found out they have a purpose being with me, I lost interest in pursuing the friendship any further. I would like the freedom of being not attached to anyone or being anybody's...
    additionalism additionalism 31-35 Aug 30, 2014

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    I Need Trust To Be Built

    When I first came to EP I was overly trusting and I took everyone at face value. I made a lot of friends that way but I also attracted some people that i would never consider true friends, and I even attracted a stalker and his friends. I don't trust people any longer and it...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 1 Response May 13, 2011

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    I Am Too Trusting

    Being too trusting has led me to begin mistrusting people. I think its a shame as having someone trust you is a good feeling but sadly there are people who abuse that trust and thats what happened to me. You meet people on here who are incredibly nice. People you inherently...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 17, 2013

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    In The Past...

    There’s a reason, I don’t trust people. I find it hard to trust them because every person I’ve ever opened up to ran away as quickly as they could. Sometimes, if a person gets too close, I push them away before they run. Do you know how much that hurts? To never get close...
    elpatitofeo elpatitofeo 18-21, F Feb 16, 2011

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    But Eventually I Do

    It just takes a guy like me who has been burned so many times a little more time to make sure people are trustworthy these days, that's all.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 4, 2011

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    People Are Difficult To Trust

    In the world we live in, its very difficult to trust people, because they will always let you down. people have desire and when they want something they do any thing to get it that what scares me. As I cannot trust my self when I have desire. people cannot be trusted that why...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 24, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I think I need to mend my habit of trusting people so easily. I feel like dumb when people take advantage of it. I have had certain bad experiences because of this. I think its...
    lovemylife2210 lovemylife2210 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 16

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    Idk why but I find it hard to trust people, I can't even tell my friends about my problems or if I'm ever sad I bottle it up and tell no one idk lol
    zareenatoor zareenatoor 13-15, F 4 Responses Apr 9

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    I recently started becoming friends with a girl, only for the sole reason that she knows about me. You see, she messaged my boyfriend on facebook over a year ago with her number if...
    talieroman talieroman 22-25, F Apr 23

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    I like to get to know people first before I call them my friend especially on the internet because I'm not stupid. I'm suspicious of people :)
    RianaAshante RianaAshante 13-15, F Apr 16

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    I always doubt what people tell me even if I know they are telling the truth
    gavyboi6 gavyboi6 18-21, M Apr 10

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    I try to carry everyone who has made any kind of positive impression on me, with me. They all matter. Though I may have some bad memories, it's the lessons I learned through them...
    ambivalentFriability ambivalentFriability 18-21 Apr 20

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    Or not. But spurts of it. Get hurt Get phobic. Hurt. Phobic. Hurt. Holy fok rude and bossy and mean. Then sad.
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Apr 8

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    Hi I go by Fruitypunch15 on here.I thought I would share one of my personal experience.See I have talk about my parents that I can not trust.But I dont think I got to explain why I...
    Fruitypunch15 Fruitypunch15 31-35 5 days ago

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    People are always telling me I need to learn to trust people more blah blah blah... Yeah, maybe in some cases they're right... MAYBE.... Or in some cases they could just be telling...
    TrippingKitty TrippingKitty 26-30 1 Response Apr 23

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    how can i learn to trust people? i can't trust anyone with anything even the simplest things just stress me out... I don't trust my boyfriend with anyone. even if he wanted to go...
    whiskey1993 whiskey1993 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 18

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    So, 2 years ago my boss was federally indicted - but wait! I was my employer's confidant - at least I thought I was - I knew the most intimate details of my boss's life...
    omaLostinatl omaLostinatl 46-50, F Apr 24

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    i dont trust people and i dont think i ever will... i fully believe people will always let you down in the end so i stopped believing in them long ago..
    Pondering59 Pondering59 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 21

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    My problem is that i trust people too much. And when i do that i just end up getting hurt. Im not doing that anymore... im done. I hate being lied to.
    bljxo bljxo 13-15 2 Responses Apr 27

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    still get paranoid about trusting people ive known for a while with some things
    Sbabyface Sbabyface 22-25, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I hate people who are just generally happy. I can't have a partner in life. I can't have a family. I can't have a good job. I can't live comfortably. I can't have close friends. I...
    BrokeBandit BrokeBandit 36-40, F Apr 10

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    I keep my mask on around people. I don't trust people anymore, they have betrayed me many times but I never betrayed them.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 6

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    so I finally tell my best friend how I feel in an effort to let her in and what does she do... not give a single ****. she can tweet her new friends all day but not respond to a...
    AutumnCarielle AutumnCarielle 22-25, F Apr 6

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    I have a few close friends. i don't trust people, I've been hurt badly.
    Ang012685 Ang012685 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    There are very few people that have earned my trust it's not an easy thing to do
    dtrain34 dtrain34 16-17, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I don't want to blame anyone for my choices and behaviour overall I simply want to find the cause of what's happening to me or how I can help myself. People are constantly...
    kimberlee1876 kimberlee1876 22-25, F Apr 9

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    Doubts I find that after opening up to multiple people in my life in the past and being left alone or let down has altered my feelings on trust to an all new low. I have doubt in...
    MissRejected MissRejected 22-25, F Apr 14

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    i have fear for man dud to sexual abuse..bad trouma..so i usually really need time to trust them. But they just don't give me time..even if i explain what i've been through. And...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 24

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    Mike Huckabee says Christians should WAIT until Obama is OUT of office to join the military .  . Published on Apr 18, 2015 . Mike Huckabee cited Obama’s hostility to...
    Heavenbound5511 Heavenbound5511 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 24

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    As a kid, I cried a lot because I got my feelings hurt very easily. I still cry easily as an adult but I have a lot of insight into my problem. Some things that help ME are 1...
    Sweetiel3elle Sweetiel3elle 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 10

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    Hi I go by Fruitypunch15 on here.I would like to share my personal experience.I have had a lot of ex friends and family members betray me over the years.But by far the worst is...
    Fruitypunch15 Fruitypunch15 31-35 3 Responses a week ago

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    A level of trust had been broken. ....There won't be another peep outta me. :(
    GeekyGangstaGirl GeekyGangstaGirl 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 23

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    bettycc11 bettycc11 26-30, F Apr 24

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    It sucks when u think u finally found someone you can trust but everything turns out to be a lie.
    xSweetnessx xSweetnessx 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 25

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    I used to be very naive with people who I thought that were my friends. I'm mostly all by myself now and its painfull, im bitter... can't help it! The only thing that comforts me...
    Blackberries Blackberries 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 27

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    I have been lied to and manipulated by lots of men, I just cant seem to trust what anyone says. There are so many liars and users out there, and me being submissive doesn't help...
    Kmek3232 Kmek3232 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    I hope I never cry in front of another human being again. However, I know this will be a challenge for me. I have low self-esteem, and I am easily hurt by harsh, unkind words. I...
    atpeacewithme atpeacewithme 31-35 2 Responses Apr 21

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    Yeah, people tend to question my sanity when I reject hanging out with them, so I can spend more time with people who dont exist!
    SAffRONisGODxSATAN SAffRONisGODxSATAN 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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    I work at a taco bell in Texas, and its the most stressful job I've had, I make horrible money and am constantly getting called into work. I am 17, and work harder than most people...
    dizzyneat dizzyneat 16-17, F 2 hrs ago

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    it makes me sad. i easily thibk someone doesnt like me. i have fear of getting dumped. i was as a child
    energymustmove energymustmove 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 21

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    I keep tightly their secrets, to protect their pride and dignity.. even on the day where they chose to be bltches/jerks betraying the trust I hve given them.. how could you ask...
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i 70+, M 2 Responses