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I Do Not Trust Too Easily

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    and I feel so stupid because no one ever feels the same way. Every time I realize this with someone, or every time someone, I guess I would say, abandons me, it hurts. Every time...
    adorea adorea 70+, F 2 Responses Apr 14

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    Don't trust too much Don't love too much Don't hope too much Because that"too much" Can hurt you so much!!!
    Sandyshaw13 Sandyshaw13 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    Do I fall in love to easily? I don't know.....I'm a very compassionate guy with no outlet for my love and compassion. Sure I'm married but she has taken my trust and destroyed it...
    Lone1y Lone1y 41-45, M 3 Responses Mar 30

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    People mistake how open I am about myself for trusting them. Just because I'm willing to tell you about myself and my past doesn't mean I trust you.
    AnInfamousDerka AnInfamousDerka 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    I am a loser for love. I easily fall in love and people take advantage of that when they see it happening. It sucks though. Because I just want to be in a relationship where there...
    rosaserick rosaserick 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 12

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    And yet here I am slowly building up a list of experiences I want to tell a bunch of strangers. I've found the veil of anonymity can help clear your soul a bit when online. In...
    CaptainCalculus CaptainCalculus 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    They say that 'keep your friends close and your enemies closer' and that is my main reason for not being able to trust. Feelings fade and people change, trust doesn't last forever...
    thisisanick thisisanick 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    Trust is a big thing to have in your life with people you love or care for,I always test my friendship with people I meet,especially when they want to continue the friendship,and...
    dimples62 dimples62 51-55 3 Responses Apr 8

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    I wouldn't call it love, but I get crushes so easily it's terrible. I can only imagine it's due to my insecurities or I'm a much more loving person than I want to believe.
    Naxxaras Naxxaras 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    My mum said this is one of my weakness; getting attached to people SO EASILY. That's why some people takes me for granted and hurts me.
    Thatssoawesome Thatssoawesome 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 14

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 3

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    Had to learn it the hard way but I yet to find that worthy person to share my deep secretes or trust completely, and honestly I doubt such a person exist in this world.....
    Joungar Joungar 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    Silly me I always trust to easy an pour everything I have into someone!!! I am the type of person who would give my last dollar to someone!!! So I did and now look where I am!!!
    browneyedgirl0409 browneyedgirl0409 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I don't get how people just want to find love. Some people are like 12 and want to find their soulmate. It's really sad to be honest... Lol idk just though I would share my opinion...
    margaret707 margaret707 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    I'm a really caring person and a huge romantic and I guess that's my problem. I care to much and it turns into love, or maybe it's not really love, I don't know. Either way it...
    JChristinaH JChristinaH 16-17, F Mar 30

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    With me I have plenty of people as friends, and it's a shallow relationship with most. These are the friends I wouldn't tell a secret to but still chat and hangout with. It's...
    Ananananan12 Ananananan12 22-25 1 Response Apr 5

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    ;/ I can't help it but I wanna
    huhsorryiwasoverthinking huhsorryiwasoverthinking 18-21, F Apr 11

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    I'm someone who finds themselves in isolation - I've become accustomed to it, and I don't know how to change it. Whenever I feel a connection to someone, someone who I can talk...
    borderlinesymmetry borderlinesymmetry 13-15, F a week ago

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    Ugh I do and I should really stop. It hurts when a friend has a gf or has a crush. It hurts when they don't text me back or when they want to stop talking. I don't know why I do...
    innocentflower innocentflower 13-15, F 8 Responses 3 days ago

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    I get attached WAY to fast, & then push people away..
    ashleygrierrr ashleygrierrr 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I get way to attached way to quickly. For example I'm currently talking to this guy Sam. We've been talking for about 2 weeks. We are going to prom on Saturday. I love talking to...
    jasonpw jasonpw 16-17, M 3 days ago

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    It's kind of ****** up isn't it? How all the sudden, someone just wakes up & decides not to talk to you again. No reason, no explanation. No words said. They just leave you hanging...
    ashleygrierrr ashleygrierrr 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I get attached click because I tend to fall for people when I think they are good for me and it's like u end up sleeping with this person not because u just out her fcking but...
    port524 port524 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    But is that really a bad thing? He makes me feel like I'm crazy. Like I shouldn't be so dependent on him. But if he felt that way about me, it would make me so happy. He never felt...
    acidxxxfire acidxxxfire 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Hate it when this happens and it's happening. If I could control my feelings and emotions, that would be great but noo I'm just sitting here staring at my iPod
    ThatWeirdBoy ThatWeirdBoy 13-15, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I can't help being attached
    RaspberryTommyCat RaspberryTommyCat 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm not G.I. Jane, I'm attachment Barbie.
    TalesOfAKlondyke TalesOfAKlondyke 22-25, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Therefore I'm here where no one will know who i am, sharing my experiences and speaking to others about theirs.
    RandomExistence RandomExistence 13-15, M Mar 25

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    THIS DEFINITELY. It's either I trust too easily/super super wary of you. I know there's no in between for me. I always end up trusting the wrong people & doubting the people who I...
    ELSAhugsyou ELSAhugsyou 18-21, F Apr 5

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    You don't know what I have been through regardless of who the person was, It wasn't a bad experience, never that. Peroooo I learned from it. You can always have that one friend who...
    DDanaaax3 DDanaaax3 13-15, F Apr 14

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    I like and fall for people way too easily. I'm to trusting. I see everyone at face value. I think they all want they same thing that I do...especially the ones who say they do...
    Findingteesh Findingteesh 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I can't trust people too easily...
    sometimesquiet sometimesquiet 13-15, F Mar 31

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    Since becoming a parent heart string puller movies that involve kids make me cry far too easily lol. Movies that show people reaching their ultimate life long goal hits me hard too...
    Bullbuddy Bullbuddy 31-35, M 4 days ago

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    I have had the problem of trusting too quickly. Giving my all in a situation where the person didn't give half of their all. I have been dumb at times believing that someone...
    LoveHard2014 LoveHard2014 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I do but I don't...it takes a lot for me to really trust you, but that's not even the peak of my trust wall. You know I trust you if you're in my heart. If you're in my heart then...
    JEJ22 JEJ22 22-25, M Apr 10

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    To people who read my posts they are probably used to the fact that I never send out any negative vibes, but there's a first time for all. I have learnt that trust is a very...
    BeatTheBest BeatTheBest 16-17, M Apr 10

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    I trust no one sad but true i have had my fair share of people breaking my trust, and making a fool out of me, so now i call the shots, i protect myself by building up walls, i get...
    TrueBlueyes TrueBlueyes 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    So I dated this girl I was cool with back in school recently. Didn't really go well and lasted just 2 months. Only wanted to date because I had money while she just sat home. What...
    HottRoddTX HottRoddTX 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 23

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    Today, I turned down a new client that would have made me money but driven me bananas. Later today, someone I was trying to help decided not to work with my firm because he didn't...
    lostworlds lostworlds 46-50, F 1 day ago

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    As much as I want to trust the good in people, I never trust anyone completely anymore, but again I try not to depend on anyone to begin with, I guess it just makes things easier...
    Joungar Joungar 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    I do NOT trust easily, so when I tell you " I trust you" you better not make me regret it.
    TheLadyYves TheLadyYves 16-17, F 8 Responses 3 days ago

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    I trust myself, all others...please pay cash..
    SweetNancy SweetNancy 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 14

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    I can't trust easily. But, when you break it, don't expect to get it back, ever.
    Thatbrokengirl1 Thatbrokengirl1 16-17, F 10 Responses 3 days ago

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    All my life I've placed trust in people. My mother....father....aunts....uncles....siblings.....and since marriage. My wife...my in-laws and to a honestly eye opening avail. All...
    MrKnowledgeable MrKnowledgeable 31-35 Mar 23

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    When I say I get bored easily, I don't mean with people, unless they're too 'traditional' in some way. I mean that I get bored with life, like we all do at some point. Some...
    MulattoAngel MulattoAngel 36-40, F Apr 7

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    Why is it that whenever people praise me, I really can't accept it? It''s always been this way. I really find it hard to find something good about me but can easily find one on...
    PrincezzSn0w PrincezzSn0w 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    The Rabbit Once there was a rabbit. She was curious to meet new friends. She was surrounded by many other animals but she didn't know how to connect with them. She met a few and...
    Inlovewithtecher Inlovewithtecher 16-17, F Apr 12

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    So so so so boring :}D Hector: O_O Then why are you smiling >_< Me: I'm just naturally huggable unlike a certain unruly OniiChan ;{P Hector: Stop talking nonsense brat >_<...
    SquirrellyChanLuvsAcorns83 SquirrellyChanLuvsAcorns83 18-21 1 Response a week ago

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    I assume it's because of the crowded, noisy environments I have to be in often, full of expectation. Yeah, school. It wouldn't have been too bad if some classes weren't just...
    Katami Katami 16-17, F Mar 23

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    being cheated on wasn't the part that pissed me off the most though. it's more of my attitude towards people & finding it hard to trust anyone afterwards. after being cheated on...
    corona135 corona135 22-25 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    trust and care too much with a person, even love them too much.. make myself hurt so much when that person don't even trust, care and love me..
    UtsukushiFantasy UtsukushiFantasy 18-21, T