I Do Not Understand Homophobics

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    Homophobic people criticize people

    who have DIFFERENT orientation, but they like people of a DIFFERENT gender Are you seeing the point? They criticize difference but they love difference at the same time. There is no coherence.
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Jan 31

    This has always been a big deal breaker

    for me in past relationships and friendships. My best friend is gay and we have known each other and been best friends for over a decade..if you can't accept him you don't accept me! I really don't see what the big problem is to be honest...who someone is attracted to is none...
    Cassabelle81 Cassabelle81
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jul 21, 2015

    I seriously do not understand yeah I get

    that its not traditional but if your want to ban the LGBTQ... Team then you basically want to ban love.
    ilovemybffsheslikeasister ilovemybffsheslikeasister
    13-15, F
    1 Response Jan 2

    The world needs to get over

    who loves who. We have WAY bigger issues to address. Everyone needs to chill out and look at the big picture.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Feb 22

    Being gay isn't a choice.

    Being a homophobic is.
    BeautifulDayDream BeautifulDayDream
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 19, 2015
    MglMndt MglMndt
    18-21, M
    5 Responses Oct 23, 2015

    Hello I ********** I lot

    while I thinking in my best friend, sometimes she pass the night in my house The day after the shower I always ask to shower together and she always say yes I Need help with this girls I dont know what to do.
    Sophimalik Sophimalik
    16-17, F
    1 Response Oct 25, 2015

    to be honest, sometimes I don't understand

    why people think it's wrong that two girls or two guys would be together in a relationship.
    16-17, F
    5 Responses Feb 19, 2015

    I just learned that Homosexuality is found in a

    lot more species than we thought - over 1500, and that it's important for the actual survival of the species. If a youngsters parents die, homosexual animals tend to adopt them as their own, compared to their heterosexual peers who's busy producing their own kids. Just thought I...
    Atmosfaerie Atmosfaerie
    10 Responses Aug 13, 2015

    My girlfriend's mom loved the movie 'Audacity'.

    It's the most homophobic piece of crap I've ever watched. It made be furious.
    lkattil lkattil
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 8

    I had a girl tell a group of friends

    and I "Bisexual people don't exist. They're just confused" and I wanted to yell "We're not f*cking unicorns!" but I'm not out...
    FallOutBoy2001 FallOutBoy2001
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Nov 29, 2015

    Who cares what another person loves?

    Just focus on yourself and stop hating others choices. They choose to do what they want to do, and if their sexual preference bothers you, (which it shouldn't), you're obviously a very ignorant person.
    ghostofthesun ghostofthesun
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 23, 2015

    I don't like the way the expression confuses

    being afraid of someone and disliking someone. Those are two very different emotions. Homosexuals wouldn't have an issue if it were a phobia - a fear of gays. If there were someone truly and literally homophobic, that would be a curiosity - not a big problem. By homophobic...
    mrsb1122 mrsb1122
    56-60, F
    7 Responses Jul 19, 2015

    I'm straight as an arrow,

    but I just cannot see any sound-minded, logical reason to hate anyone from the LGBT community for their sexuality. I have plenty of gay friends who are nice people who live normal lives like any other human beings, and I've dated bisexual women. Sexuality in general isn't a...
    MegaManX97 MegaManX97
    18-21, M
    6 Responses Feb 10

    what's the concern anyway over what people do

    in the privacy of their houses, bedrooms, cars... name it. it's not your business just move on. heart if you agree.
    prettykatey prettykatey
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 27

    I will punch a person

    if they say being gay is gross. I'm tired of hearing that stupid sentence.
    RainbowCrayon666 RainbowCrayon666
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 22, 2015

    I am a strong ally of the LGBTQIA+ community.

    I LOVE gay people. I honestly love them more than straight people and I'm straight. I see nothing wrong with them or what they do. (Yes I watch lesbian and gay **** a lot) but I am straight lol. I also believe in God! But I know God loves everyone including gay people. So if...
    UnfriendlyBlackGirl UnfriendlyBlackGirl
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 24, 2015

    hello i'm boy a 15 years old

    and i'm gay i want to do friendship and sexual , boy in 13 and up add me please , i like to getting **** and i s*ck and all you need if you want to know me more add me and i well tall you about me thank you >> Waiting for a reply
    dodyaderu dodyaderu
    16-17, T
    2 Responses Oct 24, 2015

    Homophobic's are generally insecure about their

    own sexuality. It's something they have not come to terms with. The good news is it's their problem, not yours.
    Shannongirlyboy Shannongirlyboy
    46-50, T
    1 Response May 29, 2014

    My dad is homophobic.

    He absolutely hates gays, or anyone who talks about it, my cousin is a lesbian and he just doesn't talk to her at family outings or anything, and the whole time he talks about her being disgusting, how being gay is stupid and they should be killed, I myself am bi, which makes it...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Dec 20, 2014
    BOJ1988 BOJ1988
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Feb 27

    One of my best buddies was

    so straight it hurt to look at him lol. All that great manhood and hopelessly off limits to other men, what a waste of prime man meat. But we'd been friends since we were kids and we lived in the same city as young studs. He wanted to go see some band he read was playing at one...
    blueballsbull blueballsbull
    51-55, M
    Jan 9

    why would u hate someone just

    because of his sexuality? he's still the same person tho even if he had feelings for the trees its really none of your business, this person didn't steal ur money this person didn't kill ur family so why would u care if this person is gay or straight? being gay is not a mistake...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 8

    When I ask homophobes exactly what their

    problem is, they give this vibe like they think it's contagious. It's not contagious, if being around a gay man makes you want to suck ****, then you ARE gay.
    greatgost greatgost
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Jan 8

    I been gay for 4 years now

    and I hate when people react badly to it I mean it's not your life it's mine it breaks me inside because people don't understand that I'm not fine in the first place
    jojoboy09 jojoboy09
    13-15, M
    2 Responses Jan 15

    So weird... Why are people afraid of this?

    Because some guy might hit on you? Take it as a compliment that u look good, kindly say ur not into guys and live on
    BoyOBoy21 BoyOBoy21
    13-15, M
    2 Responses Jun 17, 2015

    Why are people so intolerant?

    I could go off into a rant but I'm not currently in the mood for one. The things that happen in some certain countries, to be stoned to death for being gay, it's like the 18th century, they seem stuck in there. I feel sad for those hate filled people. I wouldn't fancy a life of...
    MeanOrNice13 MeanOrNice13
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Oct 20, 2015

    I honestly don't it is just another person in

    my opinion. It shouldnt matter but ig some people are too selfcenterd or a want to be cool to understand that they are total asswipes
    merx720 merx720
    13-15, M
    1 Response Nov 25, 2015

    I will never understand homophobia.

    My mother told me that i am too "Liberal" with how i am because i told her if my children ever told me they were gay, transitioning, lesbian i would be happy for them and love my child that was becoming a woman or my daughter that felt he was male. Just because Elizabeth is...
    Perseph0ne Perseph0ne
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Feb 25

    Homophobes judge too much.

    Why would we choose a life where we are targeted in the worst way?
    trayceetrace trayceetrace
    2 Responses Jan 2

    We are all humans! Colour of skin,

    religious beliefes or sexual preferences don't matter! When will we understand?
    DaGermanator DaGermanator
    16-17, M
    1 Response Sep 25, 2015

    The reasoning makes no sense.

    "It's a sin" A lot of things are sins. Women wearing pants, make up and dying her hair are sins. Eating shrimp is a sin. Playing with pig skin is a sin. And a lot of horrible things are not sins. "How do I explain two men kissing to my kids?" Easy. They love each other. "They...
    BOJ1988 BOJ1988
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Feb 15

    Society: People just love other people: Time

    to judge them the worst way. People are mean and harm other people: Let's call it "normal"
    IRootI IRootI
    16-17, F
    Jan 2

    can't people understand

    that it doesn't matter what gender it is that you love, all that matters is that both you and the person you love love each other
    francisco19 francisco19
    13-15, M
    3 Responses Feb 25

    You can't help who you fall for.

    At the minute I like a guy who has a gf and is an absolute **** boy. Do you honestly think I want to be wasting my time on somebody that is such a nobhead. I tell myself that he is bad for me every single day but I can't seem to get over him. The same for homosexuals. They can...
    Heyyitzmoi Heyyitzmoi
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Feb 25

    "Please be straight" I have never really

    imagined this coming to my inbox. This is just so insulting. And why is there a need for people to always use GOD against the LGBTQ? God created us to love one another. Nothing more, nothing less.
    bluejeansfemme bluejeansfemme
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 3

    Being homophobic is ignorant.

    I don't want to hear crap about "I'm a Christian so I hate gays." Im a christian and I accept every single person the way they are, because it's just the right thing to do. I don't try to beat the bible into people and tell them they're going to hell for a preference. I despise...
    euphorian euphorian
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Oct 19, 2014

    I don't understand it.

    Why are they homophobic anyways? "Oh, because you're gay/lesbian, you're gonna try to get in my pants or get with me". No. We're just people, and trust me, if you think that, then we probably don't want you anyways, so seriously, if you're so fed up with the idea that were...
    SvthNesbitt SvthNesbitt
    13-15, M
    5 Responses Oct 21, 2015

    Being gay isn't a choice.

    Being a homophobic is.
    MglMndt MglMndt
    18-21, M
    1 Response Aug 4, 2015

    It really annoys me when a person comes out

    and someone asks them "When did you decide that?" Homosexuality is not a 'decision' it's a way of life! It's scientifically proven that people are born with their sexuality and only discover it later in life. Someone doesn't wake up in the morning and think "Hmm I think I might...
    EnchantedHopes EnchantedHopes
    13-15, F
    4 Responses Jan 3

    I just don't understand it.

    We are all people. Does it really matter who we love.
    OnTheEquinox OnTheEquinox
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 1, 2015

    I don't get homophobes.

    Ok first of all those who say being gay is a sin, the bible says a lot of things like don't lie, don't cheat.. etc and 99% of the religious people have done that, so thats not an excuse to hate gays. IF being gay is a sin then they are bigger sinners. If I do go to hell for...
    nikkysg nikkysg
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Dec 7, 2014

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