This experience may contain mature content, as flagged by the community.
Please click away if you do not want to see this content.
To report inappropriate content, please email us.

I Do Not Understand Sexless Marriages

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 99 People

    I Don't Get It

    Personally I don't live within a sexless marriage. I am not married, and I don't have a boyfriend. I know of 3 men, who are living in sexless relationship - 2 are married and have children, and 1 is in a long term relationship with no children - and for all of these men I am...
    Kiie Kiie
    26-30, F
    Feb 25, 2009

    What Is Up With Sexless Marriages?

    One of the largest groups on EP is "I live in a sexless marriage" I do not understand how people can be "married" and one of them is not meeting the sexual needs of the other person. I am not a mathamatician. But I think I understand a litle bit about...
    steve824 steve824
    61-65, M
    14 Responses Jan 8, 2009

    Nope, I Just Don't Understand It.

      Seems to me that being in a sexless marriage is kind of like keeping fake wax fruit in your fridge. It's hard to swallow, unsatisfying,  and is entirely missing the point.  
    zillaron zillaron
    51-55, M
    3 Responses Jun 28, 2009

    my husband stopped having sex with me

    when I moved in. we had a six year marriage and he never consumated it. then he divorced me because an old GF friended him on FB, so he decided she was the love of his life. I am very attractive. I never understood and he would never talk about it. we went to urologist and...
    suedejmac suedejmac
    51-55, F
    May 16, 2014

    Needs Not Being Met

    Last night I was having a conversation on my BB with a married man, who is my good friend. I was never really sure if he lived in a sexless marriage, but last night he told me his needs were not being met because his wife was ill. Him and I have talked several times about...
    Kiie Kiie
    26-30, F
    Jul 9, 2009

    I Don't

        i do not understand sexless marriages .  a marriage is a legal and spiritual way of saying i love this person and i want them forever .  then why would you not have sex . sex is a bond that is so special and needs to be shared in a marriage .
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Oct 30, 2009

    I'm so agitated...I can't remember the last

    time I had sex and I have been married for 15 years..I'm fed up!!
    realife123 realife123
    36-40, F
    1 Response Apr 24, 2015

    Adult attachment disorder sexless

    marriage- Does anyone have any suggestions as to where I can find more information? This describes my husband exactly.
    suedejmac suedejmac
    51-55, F
    May 17, 2014
More Stories