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I Do Not Want a Perfect Relationship

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    Stepford Wife

    What the heck do you get out of a perfect relationship? What exactly is it? I need a definition here because it's making me crazy... ok strike that... crazier! I believe that two ppl do not have to agree on everything in life. I have my opinion and you have yours. It makes life...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 22, 2008

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    Perfect Relationship

    Perfect relationship doesnt exist.  If you think this way, it'll only hurt you.  There will be the up's and down, this is reality.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Aug 4, 2011

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    Who You Kidding?

    There is NO such thing as a perfect relantionship, and if you think its perfect, you are really wrong!!!! I have a great relantionship but we are far from perfect
    bOObsMaGee bOObsMaGee 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 16, 2008

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    Okay Then

    perfect? as in not effort? hells no! if there is no effort learning and growth is not going to happen!adapting to each other wont either. perfect is for the bored and lazy ones. challenge makes better, i don't know it is just better when overcoming them with someone there...
    BurntCrispy BurntCrispy 36-40 Dec 8, 2011

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    Just One of My Own

    I know there is no perfect relationships. I'm looking for a committed, warm, loving, loyal, passionate anf fulfilling relationship with a partner for life. Will take a lot of work on both our parts and would be emotionally rewarding.
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 2 Responses Sep 28, 2008

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    No Such Thing

    i just want to be with someone i connect with everything else is a bonus, just someone to share happiness with
    Donalh Donalh 22-25, M Apr 4, 2008

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    ArielleLove ArielleLove 18-21, F a week ago

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    willwill1234 willwill1234 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 4

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    I don't want short relationships .
    Jaqiem Jaqiem 16-17 1 Response 3 days ago

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