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I Do Not Want a Perfect Relationship

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    Who You Kidding?

    There is NO such thing as a perfect relantionship, and if you think its perfect, you are really wrong!!!! I have a great relantionship but we are far from perfect
    bOObsMaGee bOObsMaGee 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 16, 2008

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    Perfect Relationship

    Perfect relationship doesnt exist.  If you think this way, it'll only hurt you.  There will be the up's and down, this is reality.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Aug 4, 2011

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    Stepford Wife

    What the heck do you get out of a perfect relationship? What exactly is it? I need a definition here because it's making me crazy... ok strike that... crazier! I believe that two ppl do not have to agree on everything in life. I have my opinion and you have yours. It makes life...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 22, 2008

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    No Such Thing

    i just want to be with someone i connect with everything else is a bonus, just someone to share happiness with
    Donalh Donalh 22-25, M Apr 4, 2008

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    Just One of My Own

    I know there is no perfect relationships. I'm looking for a committed, warm, loving, loyal, passionate anf fulfilling relationship with a partner for life. Will take a lot of work on both our parts and would be emotionally rewarding.
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 2 Responses Sep 28, 2008

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    I can't swear I will give you a perfect

    relationship, but I swear I will love you more than anyone else ever could <3 I love you Adrian <3
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 21

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    Okay Then

    perfect? as in not effort? hells no! if there is no effort learning and growth is not going to happen!adapting to each other wont either. perfect is for the bored and lazy ones. challenge makes better, i don't know it is just better when overcoming them with someone there...
    BurntCrispy BurntCrispy 36-40 Dec 8, 2011

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    Why is it sWhy cant I find a soulmate who would love to have a relationship like this. I am looking for a soulmate that we can spend the rest of our lives with. A relationship...
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    I'm so tired of girls that just lead me on. I want someone that is going to want to be by my side and will support me and love me for who I am. I hate my generation all it seams...
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    I want us to have a devoted, loving, healthy relationship forever.
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Sep 6

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    It's just not or me right now. I gotta build up my life and be happy with m first. A partner is just an extra, but life should already be awesome so I'm gonna make it that way...
    anenomies anenomies 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    Tonight I was walking alone along the beach, as I do most nights. I was having a conversation with my heart. "Would I be any happier if someone was walking beside me?" YES - in...
    lostworlds lostworlds 46-50, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I've been married for over 20 yrs. I basically got married because I was young, dumb and full of you know what! That's about 90/95% of young men in the world! Lol But I assumed...
    LaidbackKat444 LaidbackKat444 41-45 1 Response Sep 7

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    I recently left for college. I have been here for a little over 3 weeks now and I hate every second of it. I have made no friends and I have gone days on end without saying a...
    adidasbagnexttome adidasbagnexttome 18-21, M Sep 10

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    I finally ended my online relationship after months of debating over who will visit who first. He was a nice, caring guy but extremely sensitive. i cannot handle this type of...
    dreamer3214 dreamer3214 22-25, F Sep 9

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    I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a year and a half now. I love her to death. I always had a thing for girls and I knew that from an early age. The thing is, where...
    NouraRN NouraRN 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 23

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    Not that i want a relationship with the piece of Sh1t ...but i really wish i could have a father...Any kind of figure that is like a father to me...I have always been without a...
    EmoNekoNiki EmoNekoNiki 18-21, F Sep 23

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    I met my ex boyfriend four months ago. We met online and talked everyday for a month before actually meeting. We had very deep conversations and I felt like I already knew him even...
    confusedgirl01 confusedgirl01 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    I called my mom out on this one time. I said, "Mom, you want perfect kids." She looked at me, shrugged, and said, "Welllll..." Her expectations are too high.
    laurynnm43 laurynnm43 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    I'm thinking about telling the guy that I like and he likes me that someone is interested in me and wants to spend time w/me something he doesn't do but I really want it to be him...
    kellycookies kellycookies 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    1.) I'm 15 and I'll be 16 on Christmas 2.) I am a very kind person and I've never been in a relationship with a guy but I want to 3.) Im 5'10 4.) I'm closeted bi/gay I'm kinda...
    BeingChris BeingChris 13-15, M 1 Response Sep 14

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    My sweet heart!! Maybe you don't like me calling you sweet heart. But I wish I should. I don't know the real reason why you don't want my relationship. You may love someone else as...
    Anbarasi Anbarasi 18-21, F Sep 13

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    Today she tryed kissing me when she told me that kissing someone with red lipstick would b hot and sexy she pulled me towards her and i laughed and said ikr and pretended as if i...
    Tooweak Tooweak 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    How do you forget someone that you love very much. Someone that stole my heart. But he left without telling me where to get it back. Someone I wish to meet someday but to find...
    unforgivablyuseless unforgivablyuseless 13-15, M 10 hrs ago

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    Any guys near San Diego area that wanna hook up or want a relationship message me ;)
    danybooi96 danybooi96 16-17, M Sep 3

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    I have been single for just over 2 years. I want a relationship but I am SO incredibly picky with guys. My friends say I shouldn't have such high standards but I can't imagine...
    L4UR3N L4UR3N 18-21, F 14 Responses Sep 4

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    I mean i like having friends and all but i don't want a relationship my hearts not meant for love
    steeleo steeleo 16-17, M Sep 6

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    People looking in from the outside see me and wonder, 'why is your life so perfect? why are you so perfect?' They say I always do the right thing, say the right thing. I tolerate...
    smits15 smits15 18-21, F 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    MY GLORIOUS 3-DAY BIRTHDAY ROAD TRIPWhen Wind was a little girl, she fell in love the day she first saw Baptism River.Theirs is a love affair that has lasted a lifetime and today...
    WindSylph WindSylph 51-55, F 1 hr ago

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    When I first started dating after nine years I was terrified. I didn't know what i was getting into. The first thing I learned is what it's like to date a sociopath. It broke me. I...
    justbelieve justbelieve 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Hi. This post is more to do with me just writing down my feelings about a recent break-up with a BPD ex girlfriend, as I'm having a really bad day today. We had been dating (and...
    GoodThingsToCome GoodThingsToCome 26-30, M 9 hrs ago

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    I'm narrating a story which happened 9 months ago.I've just entered junior college but my high school memories are still fresh.I had been on the last school trip.High school was a...
    cubes1998 cubes1998 16-17, F 5 hrs ago

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    I need advice big time. So we only first met a few weeks ago and he's amazing. I feel comfortable around him but tomorrow I'm going round his for the whole day. We're going to make...
    Unkn0wnym0us Unkn0wnym0us 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I hate the word "perfect". Who decides who/what is perfect? People are always trying to reach standards set by other people and it's sad. Nobody's ever going to be happy with...
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    wraithorn wraithorn 41-45, M 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    As part of my core belief of continuous improvement and growth, I want to improve my marriage and relationship with my wife. Like most marriages I assume, we have our ups and...
    spiritnow spiritnow 41-45, M Sep 16

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    I recently entered into a long distance relationship with someone I met here. Her name is Lauren, and she is the most beautiful girl I've ever seen! She accepts me for who I am...
    Duncan98 Duncan98 16-17, M 2 Responses Sep 17

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    I'm in a long distance relationship...AGAIN! In may I broke up with my boyfriend of over two years, mainly because it wasn't working out for us. Well for me at least. But also...
    Pennyhearts Pennyhearts 22-25, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    There's a joy inside I can't contain but even perfect days can end in rain. And though it's pouring down, I can see You through the clouds shining on my face. Like sunlight burning...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F 7 hrs ago

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