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I Do Not Want a Perfect Relationship

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    Perfect Relationship

    Perfect relationship doesnt exist.  If you think this way, it'll only hurt you.  There will be the up's and down, this is reality.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Aug 4, 2011

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    I can't swear I will give you a perfect

    relationship, but I swear I will love you more than anyone else ever could <3 I love you Adrian <3
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 21

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    No Such Thing

    i just want to be with someone i connect with everything else is a bonus, just someone to share happiness with
    Donalh Donalh 22-25, M Apr 4, 2008

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    Stepford Wife

    What the heck do you get out of a perfect relationship? What exactly is it? I need a definition here because it's making me crazy... ok strike that... crazier! I believe that two ppl do not have to agree on everything in life. I have my opinion and you have yours. It makes life...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 22, 2008

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    Who You Kidding?

    There is NO such thing as a perfect relantionship, and if you think its perfect, you are really wrong!!!! I have a great relantionship but we are far from perfect
    bOObsMaGee bOObsMaGee 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 16, 2008

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    Okay Then

    perfect? as in not effort? hells no! if there is no effort learning and growth is not going to happen!adapting to each other wont either. perfect is for the bored and lazy ones. challenge makes better, i don't know it is just better when overcoming them with someone there...
    BurntCrispy BurntCrispy 36-40 Dec 8, 2011

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    Just One of My Own

    I know there is no perfect relationships. I'm looking for a committed, warm, loving, loyal, passionate anf fulfilling relationship with a partner for life. Will take a lot of work on both our parts and would be emotionally rewarding.
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 2 Responses Sep 28, 2008

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    Life isn't about relationships. It's about you. Manifest your goals and make something of yourself and you will be at peace with the world and yourself . Then you will find someone...
    jacqueline212 jacqueline212 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 4

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    I think other people are cute together and I'd be flattered if somebody liked me, but I just can't bring myself to commit to someone. I don't like the idea of a relationship for me...
    Celeste098 Celeste098 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 7

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    I believe that there is someone special for everyone. I know that someday I will meet a girl who accepts me for who I am and loves me. I don't want to be single forever. Sex and...
    Rippie Rippie 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    There is this girl in my class and I can't get the confidence to talk to her. I'm a little bigger than most guys and she's way out of my league. I know that even if I do talk to...
    Dman150 Dman150 18-21, M Nov 2

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    i dont care what part of asia, or how you look, that's how nice i am
    loveybugy loveybugy 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 8

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    So, I was a foolish kid who wanted to feel love and be loved. But the thing is, I had little self confidence. I had a bunch of surgeries and fractures and it left my body weak so I...
    shadow2233 shadow2233 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 9

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    Hi, I really need your advice because I'm a bit confused and rattled. I was with my boyfriend for about 6 months when we first met everything was great, we laughed so much and had...
    Rainrebel Rainrebel 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 28

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    Honesty and Trust are the glue that bonds any relationship. I want a relationship like this. I want to be able to share the real me with someone. I have been married for 27 years...
    Unsupervised777 Unsupervised777 51-55, F 2 Responses Nov 7

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    I began talking to a guy a month ago. I haven't had feelings for men in a long time so it came off as quite a shock to me when I saw myself feeling attracted to this young man. He...
    Zari93 Zari93 18-21 1 Response 5 days ago

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    and then that would be an awesome and a perfect relationship ♥
    iamjustbeingme iamjustbeingme 16-17, M Nov 6

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    I really want a relationship, but I'm not desperate for one. I think kids my age rush into a relationship way too fast. Like we're still figuring out who we are, and being with...
    brimc7 brimc7 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 9

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    So here's my story... My first year of high school was full of many new things. It was where I closed many doors and opened new ones. One of the doors I opened was a new...
    TyDy TyDy 16-17, F Nov 9

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    Recently I read an article about modern relationships. The article stated, basically, that whoever cares less wins. While crudely put I think to some extent at least it is true...
    laurisilva laurisilva 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 29

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    I need relationship advice badly. So my bf and i have been dating for a 2 months now and we have gotten very intamite. But the only thing is he wants to go further and i want this...
    lost12unit lost12unit 13-15, M 3 Responses Nov 16

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    I want perfect digestion. If I had perfect digestion, I would not have to poop or pee and I would not eat as much either. I would also have all of the food I eat become fat.
    FunnyLookingCorpse FunnyLookingCorpse 18-21 Nov 16

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    I had a boyfriend, were dating for 3 years. Then our relationship is no longer working. After a week of our 3rd anniversary, he just broke up with me in the chat. He didn't...
    isahruth isahruth 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 18

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    We used to be friends, we used to spend hours just talking even though he had a girlfriend I fell for him, I never told him so we remained friends through the years I left home got...
    nounou0728 nounou0728 26-30, F Nov 19

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    I broke up with my ex about 3 months ago, we still saw each other and did everything couples did. There was a lot of drama and we took time apart, told each other we were leaving...
    Experiencezzzz Experiencezzzz 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 4

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    i have never been in a real relationship with anyone. i have always been insecure, and i have trouble meeting new people. Probably becuase i have bpd. also introverted. ive never...
    TheWickedJester TheWickedJester 26-30, M Nov 17

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    Any females around Long Island NY., younger than 33 or so that want a relationship no head games, fun, outgoing, sweet romantic. I am into thin women, sorry just a preference.
    GuysFinishLast GuysFinishLast 41-45, M 1 Response Nov 2

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    I want a relationship that will last. I want to be with someone who is willing to love me for me!
    hashtagcxlejpg hashtagcxlejpg 13-15, M 3 Responses Nov 2

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    I just don't understand men. For example, in the beginning he will text you everyday. He will flirt with you, stare at you when he thinks you don't notice, blush when you point it...
    batjokes batjokes 22-25, F 6 Responses Nov 4

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    I'm 17 and I'm bi curious, I'm starting to find girls more attractive than guys and Id love to talk to someone about it. I'm at a point were I want the relationship i know a guy...
    mahler913 mahler913 16-17, F Nov 16

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    I am poor,disabled, pretty, and wise in alot of areas. I don't have the money to travel....but I feel my mate is far from these parts. I wish I could post this on a dating site...
    queenyann queenyann 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 16

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    Four and a half years ago, I met an amazing guy on a domestic flight (I was catching a connecting international flight). He swapped seats to come and talk to me, he took a while to...
    ColetteR ColetteR 22-25, F 49 mins ago

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    Long distance relationships are hard! I love my girlfriend but she's so far away. I get to see her on holidays, college breaks, and just random visitation but I just don't feel...
    josh221992 josh221992 22-25, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Strangely, and as my boyfriend knows already, I am have a strong yet taboo relationship with my brothers. Sleeping with a brother is an arousing thought to me, and I think my...
    Russian0Ice Russian0Ice 16-17, F 5 hrs ago

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    Ocean Tears wild beautifull blue and dangerous by nature… naturally eternal. I like the idea of dyeing young, But in a very romantic way like Ophelia’s death or Juliet...
    RoobieCatenis RoobieCatenis 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    I am no where near perfect ... I'm not beautiful .... I'm not even pretty .... I'm ugly ... And nobody will ever love me ...
    dyinginside4 dyinginside4 16-17, F 6 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Well I'm right back to square one AGAIN!! I was in a position very much the same as I am now before and I seem to b on a merry-go-round of the same relationships that last years...
    Squeekarose Squeekarose 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    So this is new... Something that a lot of people probably don't hear a lot and to be fair, I don't know why it is either... But here it goes... I have been in 4 relationships so...
    sancarn sancarn 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I met my husband in 2009 and he was everything I had asked for. I even wrote a letter back in 2006 describing my perfect soul mate. And to our shock, he was it. He even found...
    bettergood bettergood 36-40, F Nov 11

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    I am confused about my relationship. I split with my boyfriend of a year for 3 months and flitted between getting back togeather. I have stayed at his house every night for the...
    Jodiechristine88 Jodiechristine88 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 1

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    December 28th of this year will mark 3 years for me and my boyfriend/father of my daughter... It's been ALONG 3 years too. Our relationship as any started off perfect, we were in...
    trustgod0713 trustgod0713 22-25 Oct 29

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    Twice in less than a month I have met two wonderful women who I've felt affection towards and it's given me time to reconsider what I want the most out of life. Looking at the past...
    NightwolfBlackheart NightwolfBlackheart 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 29

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    Oh God, this is really hard but it is extremely worth it. I know long distance relationships can work but I never wanted it for myself because I didn't think I could do it. But...
    CharlieAff CharlieAff 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 5

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    Seriously! at my age my friends are always teasing me for being single, their words are "When are you going to sentenced yourself to life imprisonment" and i am just trying to joke...
    ShadesofWhite67 ShadesofWhite67 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    In my opinion a relationship is like a roller coaster, it has it's ups, it's downs, twists, turns, and loopy loops. I believe a good relationship is one where there is arguments...
    LuckyGuy001 LuckyGuy001 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    So my ex boyfriend wants to commit to me and move in together maybe by my house, but I currently have a bf who is 20 yrs old, I am 23, so it's a big difference because he's barely...
    txblank91 txblank91 22-25, F Nov 2

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