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I Do Not Want a Perfect Relationship

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    Just One of My Own

    I know there is no perfect relationships. I'm looking for a committed, warm, loving, loyal, passionate anf fulfilling relationship with a partner for life. Will take a lot of work on both our parts and would be emotionally rewarding.
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 2 Responses Sep 28, 2008

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    No Such Thing

    i just want to be with someone i connect with everything else is a bonus, just someone to share happiness with
    Donalh Donalh 22-25, M Apr 4, 2008

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    Okay Then

    perfect? as in not effort? hells no! if there is no effort learning and growth is not going to happen!adapting to each other wont either. perfect is for the bored and lazy ones. challenge makes better, i don't know it is just better when overcoming them with someone there...
    BurntCrispy BurntCrispy 36-40 Dec 8, 2011

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    Perfect Relationship

    Perfect relationship doesnt exist.  If you think this way, it'll only hurt you.  There will be the up's and down, this is reality.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Aug 4, 2011

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    Stepford Wife

    What the heck do you get out of a perfect relationship? What exactly is it? I need a definition here because it's making me crazy... ok strike that... crazier! I believe that two ppl do not have to agree on everything in life. I have my opinion and you have yours. It makes life...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 22, 2008

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    Who You Kidding?

    There is NO such thing as a perfect relantionship, and if you think its perfect, you are really wrong!!!! I have a great relantionship but we are far from perfect
    bOObsMaGee bOObsMaGee 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 16, 2008

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    nailwire nailwire 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    All I want and need is to find somebody like you... In a perfect world. Where is my Mr. Right? :)
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    Xer0theDark Xer0theDark 22-25, M Aug 4

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    The longest relationship I've ever had is almost two years. I just called it off and I feel terrible... All that time spent with someone, all the planning and talking about...
    Tayway22 Tayway22 13-15, F Jul 28

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    My longest relationship was 8 yrs !! High school sweethearts ... I was 16 such a young one ...It was good while it lasted . I just don't believe we where right for each other...
    ev23 ev23 31-35, F Aug 7

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    I'm really ready to be in a relationship right now.
    feelinghelpless4 feelinghelpless4 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    There is this boy. We really like eachother but we know that if we date then that will ruin our friendship. We are really close and hang out alot. Just dont want to deal cause we...
    Natha165 Natha165 13-15, F Jul 29

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    Seeking advice: My ex picked me up for coffee this past weekend. He changed his plans so we could meet up. We filled each other in on what we have been up to for the past 3 months...
    wanderingheart237 wanderingheart237 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    Then you should invest in buying a tortoise, they'll be by your side longer than anyone else bc those little T. Rex's are immortal
    panthrax00 panthrax00 16-17, M Aug 4

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    I read this in the elite daily's post. Somehow I really believe that long distance relationship is a chance to be on your own without ever having to feel alone. As in long...
    EasyOrange EasyOrange 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    How can I get my lesbian ex back? We were best friends for about a year before we decided to date. We fell hard and fast for each other. We dated for about four years and have...
    helpplease12 helpplease12 22-25, F Jul 31

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    I've been single for the past few years. At first, I told myself I was choosing to be single--to learn more about myself. However, after trying to date and failing to get even...
    unfilteredme unfilteredme 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Perfection is a goal we all strive for but will never make. I admit I have always been the person afraid to fail and wanting perfection but it never works! Oh well learn to fall...
    Klcataldo Klcataldo 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I don't want a relationship based solely on sex. I want a relationship where we truly care for one another, where we share sorrows and joys, where we want to spend time together...
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M Jul 27

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    lorrai lorrai 31-35, F Jul 26

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    The man I have given the last year and a half of my life with has now decided we are not meant to work out. Granted, a year and a half isn't that long I know, but it felt like life...
    CassyMay CassyMay 22-25, F Aug 1

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    In all honesty I'm a really nice guy, I'm 16 years old and my name is Luis. I love biking, reading, running, and swimming. But my past haunts me everyday, when I go to school...
    luischimbo luischimbo 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 2

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    Well, I met my boyfriend yesterday at a convention...a friend of mine was with me...the majority of the time, my boyfriend and I had to practically hide behind the charade of just...
    sunatdawn214 sunatdawn214 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 10

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    I was in a real dark place last year. I was always in that place but last year I really thought of just disappearing from everything or welcoming death. Then something amazing...
    craiglovesyou craiglovesyou 31-35, M Jul 31

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    I just want a relationship. I don't care if it's long distance as long as you girls don't care. ;)
    Darkwolf523 Darkwolf523 16-17, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    how can you say you torture me? you're already thinking about someone else. when he comes home, you'll be in his arms and I'll be gone but I know my day will come I know...
    mierdamundo mierdamundo 31-35 Jul 28

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    It's hard to just walk away from a person you've spent five almost six years of your life with. There's been so many firsts with that person.. So many memories. But what if things...
    tayf tayf 18-21, F Aug 11

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    I want a relationship that is true and not full of lies. Im done with the fake people, i want someone real <3 ready to figure myself out and i think im gay /.
    Haylzz1996 Haylzz1996 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    I've dated guys and girls but I've never felt a powerful love for them. I want a relationship that is spontaneous!!:/ a lover who understands me and is my friend.
    stormyiscool stormyiscool 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    I'm Akeem. I want a relationship but I'm not rushing. I'll be 18 in September. Get to know me not want to get in my pants. Inbox me. Don't be scared :)
    PrinceAkeem PrinceAkeem 16-17, M 5 Responses Aug 9

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    Culinaryman23 Culinaryman23 22-25, M 4 hrs ago

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    [Story from A Lesbi Couple] My partner has been experiencing relationship ocd ever since we have been together 2 and a half months back. it has been a pretty rough journey for the...
    eileenlingyl eileenlingyl 22-25, F 3 hrs ago

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    Ive been in a relationship with a guy for 3 months. We met online a year ago, but didn't start properly talking until about 5 months ago. I always scoffed at people who said that...
    jessiejp jessiejp 18-21, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Be strong. Get though hardships even if it's horrible. Once you hit rock bottom the only way is up. I have love for all of you and I'm sorry for your situations. Xoxoxoxo Don't end...
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    I realize that I try so hard to do all these good things for myself. I try so hard to be better, understand more, learn new things, you know... just do anything and everything that...
    genuinelywise genuinelywise 18-21, F Jul 22

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    When has it ever been wrong to love? There is no rule to who you are allowed to love, if you love, then you love. I met him when I was 16 and he was 28. He had come here from...
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    Just a Rant... I feel like nobody thinks that they're perfect and were fine with that, we acknowledge our faults and are fine with it. We tell people that they need to accept us...
    ThatIsMahoganyy ThatIsMahoganyy 18-21, F 16 Responses Aug 10

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    I would really like to get a better understanding on this. I can only read so much before I want to talk to those that have experience on the subject. I've been in a relationship...
    matt0030 matt0030 22-25, M Jul 25

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