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I Do Not Want a Perfect Relationship

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    No Such Thing

    i just want to be with someone i connect with everything else is a bonus, just someone to share happiness with
    Donalh Donalh 22-25, M Apr 4, 2008

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    I can't swear I will give you a perfect

    relationship, but I swear I will love you more than anyone else ever could <3 I love you Adrian <3
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 21, 2014

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    Okay Then

    perfect? as in not effort? hells no! if there is no effort learning and growth is not going to happen!adapting to each other wont either. perfect is for the bored and lazy ones. challenge makes better, i don't know it is just better when overcoming them with someone there...
    BurntCrispy BurntCrispy 36-40 Dec 8, 2011

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    Just One of My Own

    I know there is no perfect relationships. I'm looking for a committed, warm, loving, loyal, passionate anf fulfilling relationship with a partner for life. Will take a lot of work on both our parts and would be emotionally rewarding.
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 2 Responses Sep 28, 2008

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    Perfect Relationship

    Perfect relationship doesnt exist.  If you think this way, it'll only hurt you.  There will be the up's and down, this is reality.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Aug 4, 2011

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    Stepford Wife

    What the heck do you get out of a perfect relationship? What exactly is it? I need a definition here because it's making me crazy... ok strike that... crazier! I believe that two ppl do not have to agree on everything in life. I have my opinion and you have yours. It makes life...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 22, 2008

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    Who You Kidding?

    There is NO such thing as a perfect relantionship, and if you think its perfect, you are really wrong!!!! I have a great relantionship but we are far from perfect
    bOObsMaGee bOObsMaGee 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 16, 2008

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    Is that too much to ask??? Apparently. Maybe I'm just too difficult to deal with on a long term basis? I DO want a relationship that will last forever...but I'm not sure I'm...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 9

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    I have never been in a relationship before bcs the time i truly love someone they don't love me back and when they love i have moved on and this is seriously the worst thing ever i...
    Boraboo Boraboo 13-15, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    So it's been quite some time since I last dated. After thinking about that, I now believe that I've forgotten how to date. The other day, a friend of a friend told me I had a nice...
    TheQuietOne92 TheQuietOne92 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    Don't we all want that very thing?
    sugarfooties sugarfooties 66-70 7 Responses Jan 12

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    "I'm not the only one", and it sucks because i really had my hopes up. The icing on this whole cake is that he doesn't want me to stop talking to him.
    lolawolf lolawolf 16-17, F Jan 21

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    I'm friends with people who are 2-3 years older than me and a lot of them are starting to get engaged or married or having kids. It freaks me out because I know that's not going to...
    Madison18 Madison18 18-21, F 8 Responses 2 days ago

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    How do I get this "great relationship?"lol I have kids...so that makes it hard in the first place. I don't seem to be able to divide my time between my kids & a guy. Though my...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    I am so glad that my boyfriend and I have the great relationship that we have. I never have to worry about him straying to other girls especially sneaking around or lying. I never...
    yanene yanene 36-40, F 2 days ago

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    i want a relationship i want to love someone i want to be with them when ever they need me i want a real relationship i want to fall in love. but i really dont think it will ever...
    tylerstevens031397 tylerstevens031397 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    Just realized that I do tend to have an attitude. I've always known I had it but I wasn't mature enough to understand how it affects my relationships. I'm beyond stubborn. If it's...
    SheIsHealing SheIsHealing 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    I've only been in one serious relationship in my life, and I think I am ready for another one. I am 23 years old and from Michigan. I am having a hard time finding men who are...
    kandieekainee kandieekainee 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    i always used to think to myself "whats wrong with me?" but these days i dont ask myself that any more,i just became more accepting of who i am, and tell myself that the world...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 3 Responses Jan 13

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    I want a boyfriend but tired of getting hurt. I just want a relationship in which the guy loves respects and adores me. Ride or die with me. Im always the one riding or dying...
    legzydawly legzydawly 18-21 a week ago

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    seems like every time I start to let someone in they hurt me. like recently was seeing this one girl that I had dated in high school. We were talking and hanging out. She even...
    theFitzgibbon theFitzgibbon 22-25, M Jan 5

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    I really don't know if I want a relationship I am looking because I haven't had one. I think that if I find someone who makes me feel good about myself that I will feel better...
    STSFK STSFK 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 20

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    All I want is a guy who is sweet, loving, honest, loyal, plays video games, likes to smoke, drink and **** on the regular lol. Oh and wants a relationship. Why is that so hard to...
    kitakat00 kitakat00 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I would love to have an interracial with someone right now. I like men from different races. I want a relationship with a man different from my race.
    winnie19 winnie19 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    i want a relationship thats just like super cool friendship with like kissing
    uhkenz uhkenz 13-15, F 5 Responses Jan 13

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    Hey, I needs help and don't know what to do next. I am a very attractive, intelligent, nice young guy. I've been talking to a 36yo man who is out for a whole year.. Nothing has...
    josepherus josepherus 18-21, M Dec 31, 2014

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    Whenever I'm on tumblr or youtube looking at happy couples, it makes me sad because I really want a relationship like that.
    hellomoto27 hellomoto27 16-17, M 4 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    Hey girls come talk to me and get to no me!! Really want a relationship at the moment!! Looking for someone around 13-16 years old and preferably from the uk!!! Mail me
    chloeXruth chloeXruth 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have been feeling like I don't get enough attention from my boyfriend. We have been through a lot. Long story short, he cheated on me, I found out from the other girl who was...
    Kristaaaaaaaaaaaa Kristaaaaaaaaaaaa 22-25, F 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    The most perfect woman I have met yet in my life wants to have nothing to do with me. She is kind of tall 5'8" long dark brown hair, sometimes dyed black. Nerdy sexy librarian...
    ninerzoon ninerzoon 36-40, M 7 hrs ago

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    Me and my fiance have had an unresolved problem for about 5 months now and it's about the fact he cheated on me I love him deeply but everytime I want him to talk about it he won't...
    posh687 posh687 18-21, F 3 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    Nobody is perfect. Nobody. The word itself is essentially meaningless anyway because with 7 billion people in the world, no two will have the same image of perfection in their mind...
    stretch25 stretch25 16-17, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I read so often of members attempting to meet with other members only to be put off with tons of excuses. Are people really so fearful here? Isn't this supposed to be a melting pot...
    manusundr manusundr 46-50, M 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    My relationship with my mom is... problematic, I'd say. We are in touch, however the best thing that ever happened to our relationship was distance. We love each other, but our...
    whatsername whatsername 22-25, F Jan 18

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    Hi, this is my very first post. I just would like to share what i have been going through for the last month or so. First, backstory: I met this girl 4 years ago. She was 15, i...
    roobs108 roobs108 22-25, M Jan 3

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    normally I keep my relationships a secret. it isn't something I share. but I need to write. I need to get these thoughts, these emotions out of my head.so I'm writing to him. this...
    loveandlight29 loveandlight29 26-30, F 7 Responses Jan 8

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    I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 8 months now, and we've been talking about marriage but now I'm ambivalent. When we first started dating I was over the moon happy, as he...
    ccapron ccapron 22-25, F Jan 20

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    I want to text each other everyday and ooVoo I have been I'm 2 and they did not work if your serious text me
    Davionne Davionne 13-15, F 5 hrs ago

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    Dated so many girls the past couple of years. Came to realisation last night, quietly thinking to myself. What is the point in it? Is it impossible just to find that perfect person...
    JoshBMTH JoshBMTH 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 2

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    If I commit to someone again, I want a healthy relationship that meets both of our needs. My second marriage will not compromise my needs. I won't settle this time. There are...
    JJjenniejones JJjenniejones 41-45, F 6 Responses Jan 9

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    The day will come where I'm in love The day will come when the world and God will allow me to see you and meet you. I will wait for that perfect time, and I know that you will too...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F a week ago

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    I've known my boyfriend for a year and been dating him for five months. It has been a very bumpy road for both of us. We have overcome many obstacles and are closer than ever...
    moonskull moonskull 16-17, F 13 hrs ago

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    All my relationships have been online. I'm a gay teen trapped in a homophobic place. Over two years, and with my ability to never give up, I've become the most perfect at online...
    ShaneJake ShaneJake 16-17, M Jan 19

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    AllStarcrushNate AllStarcrushNate 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 30, 2014

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    Is it considered love when you empathize and care and want to help someone so much even though we dont really connect very deeply ?
    daretofail daretofail 16-17, M 2 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    I need some SEX, Long distance relationship sucks in that aspect but I will survive lol
    jam34983 jam34983 31-35, M 13 hrs ago

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