Post

I Do Not Want a Perfect Relationship

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 70 People

    Just One of My Own

    I know there is no perfect relationships. I'm looking for a committed, warm, loving, loyal, passionate anf fulfilling relationship with a partner for life. Will take a lot of work on both our parts and would be emotionally rewarding.
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 2 Responses Sep 28, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Who You Kidding?

    There is NO such thing as a perfect relantionship, and if you think its perfect, you are really wrong!!!! I have a great relantionship but we are far from perfect
    bOObsMaGee bOObsMaGee 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 16, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Okay Then

    perfect? as in not effort? hells no! if there is no effort learning and growth is not going to happen!adapting to each other wont either. perfect is for the bored and lazy ones. challenge makes better, i don't know it is just better when overcoming them with someone there...
    BurntCrispy BurntCrispy 36-40 Dec 8, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Perfect Relationship

    Perfect relationship doesnt exist.  If you think this way, it'll only hurt you.  There will be the up's and down, this is reality.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Aug 4, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Stepford Wife

    What the heck do you get out of a perfect relationship? What exactly is it? I need a definition here because it's making me crazy... ok strike that... crazier! I believe that two ppl do not have to agree on everything in life. I have my opinion and you have yours. It makes life...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 22, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    No Such Thing

    i just want to be with someone i connect with everything else is a bonus, just someone to share happiness with
    Donalh Donalh 22-25, M Apr 4, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    I give 100% to relationships, and I am honest and extremely loyal. My emotions are...a bit extreme. I'm not violent or anything, I just mean that my heart controls me. I do have a...
    Xer0theDark Xer0theDark 22-25, M Aug 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My longest relationship was 8 yrs !! High school sweethearts ... I was 16 such a young one ...It was good while it lasted . I just don't believe we where right for each other...
    ev23 ev23 31-35, F Aug 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Seeking advice: My ex picked me up for coffee this past weekend. He changed his plans so we could meet up. We filled each other in on what we have been up to for the past 3 months...
    wanderingheart237 wanderingheart237 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Then you should invest in buying a tortoise, they'll be by your side longer than anyone else bc those little T. Rex's are immortal
    panthrax00 panthrax00 16-17, M Aug 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My boyfriend of four years just left for boot camp two days ago. We have the perfect relationship and I couldn't be happier. I don't really know anything about the navy so I'm lost...
    taylorsmith4012 taylorsmith4012 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I read this in the elite daily's post. Somehow I really believe that long distance relationship is a chance to be on your own without ever having to feel alone. As in long...
    EasyOrange EasyOrange 18-21, F Aug 21

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've been single for the past few years. At first, I told myself I was choosing to be single--to learn more about myself. However, after trying to date and failing to get even...
    unfilteredme unfilteredme 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Perfection is a goal we all strive for but will never make. I admit I have always been the person afraid to fail and wanting perfection but it never works! Oh well learn to fall...
    Klcataldo Klcataldo 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Well, I met my boyfriend yesterday at a convention...a friend of mine was with me...the majority of the time, my boyfriend and I had to practically hide behind the charade of just...
    sunatdawn214 sunatdawn214 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I love the guy i'm with but as time goes on I start to realize if I continue with him my life won't be what I want it to be. I want someone to travel with for life, work abroad and...
    nhsu77 nhsu77 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 23

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I want my relationship to be like my parents. My parents hardly ever fight. I kid you not. They argued before but never really raised voices. My mom is quiet and very lenient. My...
    thelastprincess thelastprincess 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I just want a relationship. I don't care if it's long distance as long as you girls don't care. ;)
    Darkwolf523 Darkwolf523 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's hard to just walk away from a person you've spent five almost six years of your life with. There's been so many firsts with that person.. So many memories. But what if things...
    tayf tayf 18-21, F Aug 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've dated guys and girls but I've never felt a powerful love for them. I want a relationship that is spontaneous!!:/ a lover who understands me and is my friend.
    stormyiscool stormyiscool 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm Akeem. I want a relationship but I'm not rushing. I'll be 18 in September. Get to know me not want to get in my pants. Inbox me. Don't be scared :)
    PrinceAkeem PrinceAkeem 18-21, M 5 Responses Aug 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I believe about purety of love. I want to have virgin partner. I am personally still virgin even i never kissed anyone. People said i am attractive,nice,polite. Its so hard know i...
    myselfhere myselfhere 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Im 14. Ive just always had the dream of becoming a mom. I don't even want a relationship or anything. I don't want to wait!! Its crushing me.
    teenfemale2000 teenfemale2000 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    so im in this long distance relationship that has been going on for a couple of months . its my first one btw .. but anyways.. i really love this girl by the way we connect and how...
    antoneli antoneli 18-21, M 1 hr ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I can do a lot of things in my life, I can drive, draw, run, sort of Dance, walk, eat, play sports, all the main things plus more that anyone else can do however I may be not as...
    Mary4you Mary4you 18-21, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Resort Puerta Del Mar is found in town extremely near to the Balcon de Europa. The resort features 24 rooms which incorporate single, double and triple rooms at incredibly...
    Hiltonhn53 Hiltonhn53 31-35, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I realized your opinion doesn't matter , God made me perfectly , look in the mirror and tell yourself your pretty good looking and accept it.
    angelicahcah angelicahcah 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have such a hard time communicating with my mother. This makes my relationship with her continually strained. I want to know if I can do anything differently or try something...
    missykaiyay missykaiyay 22-25, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I was in one, well at least I think I was. I feel embarrassed thinking back about it but at the same time it was what I wanted and still wish for. I was 12 years old, being the...
    flowerchildx flowerchildx 13-15, F Aug 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    When has it ever been wrong to love? There is no rule to who you are allowed to love, if you love, then you love. I met him when I was 16 and he was 28. He had come here from...
    Evelyn2184 Evelyn2184 18-21 1 Response Aug 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't know what to do about loving and really hating my boyfriend at the same time. We are both very impulsive people who often rush into things but don't do anything half...
    UsuallyHappii UsuallyHappii 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Just a Rant... I feel like nobody thinks that they're perfect and were fine with that, we acknowledge our faults and are fine with it. We tell people that they need to accept us...
    ThatIsMahoganyy ThatIsMahoganyy 18-21, F 16 Responses Aug 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Everyday we go through life and most people think about theirselves and not others. People don't see what this world is turning into, HATE... What happened to Love? All we think...
    drs0307 drs0307 16-17, F Aug 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I may not be perfect I know, my girlfriend and i had been dating for a while now and I love her. I don't want to loose her. Recently she just went of to college, a really close...
    pierre1926 pierre1926 16-17, M 1 Response 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    This is a message for those who feel that life is not good, there is no hope, and they want to end it all. Let me start by sharing two stories to help me to get my message across...
    tcennoC tcennoC 51-55, M 2 Responses Aug 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm ready... I am ready to be in an adult relationship. I have been single for entirely too long. I want a woman in my life. I want to share my life with someone. I'm not perfect...
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My ex and I broke up a few weeks ago. We dated for 4 months. The first month and a half was great and we were "in love" and I had no problem letting him in surprisingly. I'm one of...
    xprncemore xprncemore 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I can never seem to find a relationship that works. Whether they're a friend or an enemy, whether they're close or distant, whether they're kind or hateful it just never works. It...
    HappensForAReason HappensForAReason 13-15, M 1 Response 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I want to meet that one person who comes into my life and explains everything I've given up on understanding. Someone who will show me how to see the world differently. Someone who...
    KaylaNicole9311 KaylaNicole9311 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Long distance relationships are so much better then short distance relationships. I mean, you have to have such faith and trust in a person to know they wont cheat or lie. And...
    LucyColemanxo LucyColemanxo 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    This is the dumbest situation ever! I met this guy on a website and at first we didn't really click. I actually didn't like him much at all. But we talked and slowly we started to...
    secretlyfelix secretlyfelix 18-21 4 Responses Aug 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Really man, I've been through the wringer with relationships, I just want to be on my own for awhile, but it seems as if the more experiences I write about ANYTHING the more adds I...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum 31-35, F 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    And that is why I am not the best woman I could be.There is someone always younger,more attractive,more intelligent,more stable than you. Does love even exist?Love is selfless...
    UrANUS101 UrANUS101 18-21, F 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I can't leave my house without getting upset. Everytime I hear music it reminds me of my ex. Everytime I smell perfume it reminds me of her. I need help because its tearing my life...
    BradleyAustin97 BradleyAustin97 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Two years ago, I was in a relationship with a guy who was three years older than me. He was sweet and always gave me nice compliments... anyway he moved to the Gold Coast, which is...
    Dreamprojector Dreamprojector 18-21, F Aug 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm in a long distance relationship. We see each other once in a month or two for a few days. He always comes to my place because I'm in collegue and don't have the time or money...
    Naginii Naginii 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I can't quite figure out what it is yet. I'm a really good catch, smart, pretty, self-sufficient, great in the home, not a prude, not clingy, but gives unconditionally. Yet...
    ethereal101 ethereal101 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 15

    Your Response

    Cancel