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I Do Not Want a Perfect Relationship

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    Perfect Relationship

    Perfect relationship doesnt exist.  If you think this way, it'll only hurt you.  There will be the up's and down, this is reality.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Aug 4, 2011

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    Just One of My Own

    I know there is no perfect relationships. I'm looking for a committed, warm, loving, loyal, passionate anf fulfilling relationship with a partner for life. Will take a lot of work on both our parts and would be emotionally rewarding.
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 2 Responses Sep 28, 2008

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    Who You Kidding?

    There is NO such thing as a perfect relantionship, and if you think its perfect, you are really wrong!!!! I have a great relantionship but we are far from perfect
    bOObsMaGee bOObsMaGee 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 16, 2008

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    I can't swear I will give you a perfect

    relationship, but I swear I will love you more than anyone else ever could <3 I love you Adrian <3
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 21

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    Okay Then

    perfect? as in not effort? hells no! if there is no effort learning and growth is not going to happen!adapting to each other wont either. perfect is for the bored and lazy ones. challenge makes better, i don't know it is just better when overcoming them with someone there...
    BurntCrispy BurntCrispy 36-40 Dec 8, 2011

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    Stepford Wife

    What the heck do you get out of a perfect relationship? What exactly is it? I need a definition here because it's making me crazy... ok strike that... crazier! I believe that two ppl do not have to agree on everything in life. I have my opinion and you have yours. It makes life...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 22, 2008

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    No Such Thing

    i just want to be with someone i connect with everything else is a bonus, just someone to share happiness with
    Donalh Donalh 22-25, M Apr 4, 2008

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    Something I wrote to him, although I didn't send it. Thank you. I have a lot of things to thank you for. Thank you for showing me how to love and supposedly be "loved". Thank...
    weightingforhappiness weightingforhappiness 18-21, F Oct 2

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    Before I start a relationship with a girl I always warn them "some day you'll hate everything about me" and they deny it. But no matter how well the relationship goes they always...
    peacewalkerx peacewalkerx 18-21, M Oct 5

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    He used and took advantage. Didn't mean a damn thing he said. Took all he wanted until he got bored and then walked away without a care in the world. He was not the first. He...
    abrokenlittlegirl abrokenlittlegirl 46-50, F 5 Responses Oct 12

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    It's just not or me right now. I gotta build up my life and be happy with m first. A partner is just an extra, but life should already be awesome so I'm gonna make it that way...
    anenomies anenomies 22-25, F Sep 29

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    Tonight I was walking alone along the beach, as I do most nights. I was having a conversation with my heart. "Would I be any happier if someone was walking beside me?" YES - in...
    lostworlds lostworlds 46-50, F 3 Responses Oct 1

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    Made a tumblr posted about this go check it out and feel free to follow chanelconoco.tumblr.com
    someoneforyou12 someoneforyou12 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    "Lover never fails. People fail on love." Can't wait till that special man comes along :) it won't be easy all the time but definitely worth it 😊
    Cozy01 Cozy01 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I need some serious advice. Sorry this is long I just need a lot of help! Please help me out!! My ex and I were together for almost two years and we were madly in love. It was a...
    ArisDiCicco ArisDiCicco 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 6

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    It's supposed to rain most of the days this following week. It's fitting, because that is how I feel... I want to cry, all this following week. As I've mentioned here and there...
    Theworldisminenow Theworldisminenow 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 12

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    1. Im turning 17 in a few weeks 2. I have so many interests and they're all so so different from each other 3. I have a gorgeous girlfriend 4. I really love cats and water 5. I...
    weidenkaetzchen weidenkaetzchen 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I know you aren't supposed to look for the right guy and that he's just supposed to come along but I feel like nothing will happen if I don't look because it hasn't happened before...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 4

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    It seems like such a perfect relationship if this were to happen, this needs to happen in my life.
    purities purities 16-17, F 5 Responses Oct 14

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    I want to be the unique and beautiful goddess I once was. Right now, I am ugly and undesirable. I loved myself last week and the week before, but something happened this week that...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F Oct 3

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    So lets make a long story short. I met this guy through a friend when I was 17 years old. We started off as friends then it slowly became more. We started to hang out a lot, but...
    lex13 lex13 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I've never had a relationship that wasn't short-lived and only about sexual stuff. I was either too shy to go after the ones I really wanted or too oblivious to realize that there...
    TheEmberLeader TheEmberLeader 22-25, M 3 Responses Oct 12

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    I've never had a relationship that wasn't short-lived and only about sexual stuff. I was either too shy to go after the ones I really wanted or too oblivious to realize that there...
    TheEmberLeader TheEmberLeader 22-25, M Oct 12

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    I've never had a relationship that wasn't short-lived and only about sexual stuff. I was either too shy to go after the ones I really wanted or too oblivious to realize that there...
    TheEmberLeader TheEmberLeader 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 12

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    I just spoke on this matter on my tumblr and this is what I wrote. FWB/FB My first post is dedicated to FWB or in another terminology FB. Okay so I am sure everyone is...
    someoneforyou12 someoneforyou12 22-25, F Oct 14

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    I called my mom out on this one time. I said, "Mom, you want perfect kids." She looked at me, shrugged, and said, "Welllll..." Her expectations are too high.
    laurynnm43 laurynnm43 16-17, F Sep 28

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    Alright guys so I'm at breaking point...I thought I was a few months ago, but now this is it. I have no idea what to do, what to think, and what's real and what's not. I've been...
    brittersnicole brittersnicole 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 15

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    I want to find my father I dont have a lot of info about him sadly my mother doesnt remember a lot it was a short relationship but I do have her support to find him. I dont want a...
    FromTheHeartOfaWoman FromTheHeartOfaWoman 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    How do you forget someone that you love very much. Someone that stole my heart. But he left without telling me where to get it back. Someone I wish to meet someday but to find...
    xxxfakerhaterxxx xxxfakerhaterxxx 13-15, M Oct 1

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    i love someone so much...but she cheat me...after that i think dont want any relationship...but i m lonely.. alone..now i have move on...need intimacy...want to fall in love again...
    abinpash abinpash 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 7

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    I'm single and really want a boyfriend it has been a while. I do send pics btw but that is not want my relationship based off of.
    kylelowery1 kylelowery1 13-15, M Oct 12

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    I've been dating this guy for almost 3 years. And of course I'm madly in love. He has hurt me many time in the past. Other girls, lying, ect. He does this thing where he breaks up...
    blue1750 blue1750 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 15

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    I want a relationship just like Rose and Rosie. 👭❤️
    Margaretxo Margaretxo 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 15

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    If you live in the U.S. message me back. I am looking for anyone younger than 17. Message me back if you want to photo date. I want a relationship pretty soon. I have never dated a...
    Magic3794 Magic3794 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    8 years old guy start like me And that happen 2 years ago. And I still think about him Because we did have some connection . I am 35 years old and he is 27 And it's seems...
    olsen1004 olsen1004 31-35, F 4 hrs ago

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    Understanding the Anger Understanding what anger is. Do we really want to manage our anger...
    Create63 Create63 46-50, M 1 Response 47 mins ago

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    I use EP as a sort of diary where I write things down and get them out. So today I'm sitting thinking about my relationship with my ex. I feel very detached from it. I can say the...
    Kerry1304 Kerry1304 26-30, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    I've been meaning to record these words in some manner or another for some time. Not necessarily because I want feed back on it, but for my own reflection and say...self searching...
    CarlyOnline CarlyOnline 18-21, F 12 hrs ago

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    Sometimes I feel like there is so much pressure to be close to perfect...to look good...to reach the top...to please others...in the end feeling like it is not what I really want...
    genesis99 genesis99 22-25, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Geeeez.... Seeing all of these bad relationship stories makes me kind of afraid to be in a relationship now... I know there is going to be heartbreak obviously... I just would...
    Cozy01 Cozy01 18-21, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I want to be in a relationship with a guy who doesn't mind spoiling me with food
    CapnAlairaQuinn15 CapnAlairaQuinn15 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I have taken this Jung typology test now on at least 3 different sites in slightly different formats on different days just to double check. I thought maybe a mood change or...
    wraithorn wraithorn 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 1

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    I have split up with my boyfriend who I now think is narcissist. I did research after we broke up because so many things just didn't add up. And after reading many articles and...
    pd007 pd007 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 8

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    We are both female. I am 21 and she's 17. I was honest with her that I'm a bisexual. She insists that she is straight. We are friends. We kiss, we make out, we text each other all...
    sorrowandstrength sorrowandstrength 18-21, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    I have read some stories on here under this experience. I tend to find that 100% of them are pretty much the same, the only difference is it's two different people. I was once...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 13

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    I am sometimes so insecure in my relationship with the woman I love with all my heart and soul that I end up saying stupid things she gives me such a nice promise about our future...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 31-35, M 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    Society tells us that perfect doesn't exist but then tells us to strive towards it. As if that makes sense.
    josiemills43 josiemills43 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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