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I Do Not Want to Ever Think About Him Again

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    I Wish He Would Just Disappear

    He is too close to the family to never see him again ... He drunk texts me randomly and calls me a *****. I love him so much-- I want to be with him but he said it will never be with me again yet he texts and texts.... I have to see him at every family holiday / birthdays...
    BurgundyGirl BurgundyGirl 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 22, 2007

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    Day 6&7 Of Getting Over A 5 Year Obsession.

    I am feeling a little better than how I have felt. I went out last night with a new work mate and when he told me the story of his arranged marriage, I guess I sort of felt better about my own situation. Here is a man, who has been married a year and seen his wife a total of 17...
    Repairingajester Repairingajester 22-25, F Apr 21, 2012

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    Fairytale Romance Gone Awry

        It was love at first site! We met at a resort by the beach. We spent a month together in an old-fashioned type courtship. Our families met. It all happened so fast.     In September he flew me out to England where he studied, for a 5 day...
    yoshoesareugly yoshoesareugly 19-21, F 2 Responses Nov 22, 2007

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    Day 5 Of Getting Over A 5 Year Obsession

    The past few days have seen me crack in some dark places. Today felt better. It truly felt like anything could be better than yesterday and with that in mind, everything seemed easier. I deleted my facebook etc and a few people called me to see if I was ok. It was nice to know...
    Repairingajester Repairingajester 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    I Want To Put The Sexual Abusers Out Of My Mind

    the hurt rick swzackoski did to me and joyce and ken who raped me... I want to put them and katy and just all those people to hell out of my head and move on into a better mind frame and thinking I am worthy and I am good enough for a real romance and love of my own and a career...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 12, 2011

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    First Love

    there was this guy in my class, never bothered about him until we became friends. we started talking alot and i feel in love with him even when he was still into his ex (which was his first). he never loved me but didnt let go of me either knowing how much i care for him. we...
    thatgirl8824 thatgirl8824 22-25 2 Responses Feb 9, 2012

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    Crap

    It's peculiar. I keep telling myself that I'm over what happened between us, and I am. I am OVER this guy. I can forgive, forget and move on like I should have 4 years ago. But I resent him. I feel an anger, a kind of nagging rage towards him that I can't really explain. Yes...
    TheRealJade TheRealJade 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8, 2012

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    I Feel Like That About 2 Guys

    obviously I won,t mention any names real names or not will refewr to them as "1" and "2". No "1 "I carn't forget b/c he comes to collect our children once in a blue moon and with No"2"  I wish I could have amnesia - I wish that one...
    blondiesindy blondiesindy 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 17, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    I've been sleeping with a guy friend. Can't stop thinking about him. He's not extremely attractive or fit, I don't get it. He said he'd go out with me, that he cares for me. But I...
    failure94 failure94 18-21, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    Can't stop thinking about him and how much he has hurt me. I wasn't in love with him until recently. We had a fling during Summer then he had to move to a different state then he...
    Vickyovox Vickyovox 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I can't stop thinking about him... Of how his lips felt against mine. So gentle and passionate. The sparkle in his eyes when he looks at me. Its like he's seeing me for the first...
    badgirlbee badgirlbee 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 22

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    I'm a recovering addict and I have two years clean from drugs and alcohol.. I lost my kids my house my career. I'm starting all over again I have my kids back in my life but from...
    Lotusgirlred Lotusgirlred 31-35, F Jul 13

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    We have been together for 2 years now and because of my trust issues i grabbed his phone what might have been innocent flirting i turned into a big deal, we were both intoxicated...
    steph102112 steph102112 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I recently was a bridesmaid in my cousin's wedding. There was a guy there, and I can't get him out of my mind. We had a small conversation, and kept stealing glances at each other...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 days ago

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    I try to imagine how him taking me into his arms would feel. Could I find myself safe with my head on his chest and his arms tangled around my body with his hands resting gently on...
    Jerseygirl72 Jerseygirl72 41-45, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I've dated other guys, and still talking to other guys but none of them are like him. I've liked him over 3 years now and still secretly love him. We've been through a lot, but we...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    I'm trying to get over an ex and I replay the last 24 hours over in my head and then I think about all of the things that would make me not want to be with him and then I think of...
    IntomeYousee IntomeYousee 36-40, F Jul 13

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    I cryed today because my crush / guy friend got a job a few days ago and when I ever talk to him I take advantage of every moment and I cryed because he works Mondays threw Sundays...
    thatonegirl156 thatonegirl156 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    I need to stop talking to you because when we aren't all I do is think about wanting to talk to you, When I finally say, "Okay, I need to stop talking to him." Here you are, not a...
    RayneZ RayneZ 13-15, F Jul 13

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    I think about my boyfriend all the time He just makes me feel so secure about myself
    lavabug01 lavabug01 13-15, F a week ago

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    Sometimes in our life we’ll feel broken inside as if it will never end. But as days pass we’ll meet some people who will make us feel worthy of having a second chance...
    LAithought LAithought 22-25, F Jul 16

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    So my and my boyfriend have been dating for about 4 months but have been good friends for about 2 years. We are also both about to be seniors in high school. Although his guy...
    laxlife laxlife 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    So my and my boyfriend have been dating for about 4 months but have been good friends for about 2 years. We are also both about to be seniors in high school. Although his guy...
    laxlife laxlife 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Getting up with you almost every morning and walking out the door together as we leave for work wanting so much to press my lips to yours and when I leave work knowing I get to lay...
    mouse2816 mouse2816 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    Ugh I always wanna message him but I'm scared cuz he always says we will talk when we have time but I need to talk to him
    megan1247 megan1247 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    I'm with someone at the minute who I've been with for 4 years, we're arguing on and off recently, we haven't spoken for 8 days and seen each other for 4 weeks, I seen him this...
    bethbabe321 bethbabe321 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    My feelings were mending. I was starting to heal. I had accepted the fact that he was gone. I was slowly recovering from the hurt I had inside. And then I get a message...
    UGonnaKissMeOrNot UGonnaKissMeOrNot 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    This is tearing me apart.. Why does someone have to get upset and break up over something stupid I know I shouldn't want him back but I can't help it
    crazyminds crazyminds 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    He's always on my mind I just can't see him I can only talk to him on the phone This sucks
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Nayarb<- not his real name, I just saw him a few days ago when I was starting to forget that he even existed now I can get him of my head.
    findyouonaisland findyouonaisland 13-15, M Jul 19

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    I feel like everything that happened was my fault I'm amazed you stayed with me for so many years but now that you ended it I feel so weak and lonely without you....please come...
    Cupcakeluv26 Cupcakeluv26 18-21, F Jul 22

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    My username says it all. He has made me miserable, he was and still is my everything.:)
    hebrokemyheart99 hebrokemyheart99 13-15, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    He carries a little part if my soul with him, always with you in mind body and spirt x
    inboots inboots 36-40, F 4 days ago

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    My boyfriend of two years and I are struggling because he broke a huge promise to me about always telling me when his friends had invited girls over and he was there. He failed to...
    misshaley7 misshaley7 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I love you, I know I hurt you by staying, but I did it for my kids and I now realize they will be fine no matter what I choose as long as I'm happy they will be too. I hope you...
    raedavis raedavis 31-35, F Jul 15

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    He's my best friend/crush I wish he'd ask me out he left his shift at my house and it smells like heaven <3
    thatonegirl156 thatonegirl156 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    10 things I hate 1. I hate the color purple 2. I hate the smell of skunk 3. I hate the sunflowers on my table 4. I hate looking at the moon 5. I hate crisp fall air and apples 6...
    smithgirl26 smithgirl26 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    Always anticipating the next letter and next phone call. He really gives me the butterflies in the stomach feeling. I love you GD.
    raedavis raedavis 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    Stop clouding my thoughts or take me with you forever.
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    Seems like time heals all things... even though i have those difficult days, where I think about him and how I don't have him around anymore. I just remember: that he left me.. and...
    elenanicole elenanicole 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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    Recently I've been thinking about what would happen if I ever needed another heart surgery. I have a strange feeling that I will need it at a fairly young age... and I also feel...
    dazedreamer dazedreamer 18-21, F 9 hrs ago

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    We are childhood friends, our families are really close and we used to see each other everyday. When I turned eight my family moved away. As I grew up I completely forgot about...
    EvelynElf EvelynElf 16-17, F Jul 21

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    37. When people just want to save and to save and save and don't want to spend anything. 38. When people don't use any capital letters or full stops or commas in their work. 39...
    Mahsa99 Mahsa99 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    I met my OH when I was 13 and he was 15.... we are pretty much together since than with some on/off phases inbetween. When I was 18 I had an affair with his younger cousin who was...
    anniecherry anniecherry 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I cant stop thinking about this fuking girl first in school we never talked i just made her laugh alot cuss she sat in front of my desk. I walked home wit her sat in lunch wit her...
    StaticMajor StaticMajor 13-15, M Jul 21

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    today i saw him again...i was determined i won't care,he will pass next to me and i won't even look at him...but it didn't happen that way it never does...not in the last 6 months...
    innermeee innermeee 18-21, F Jul 9

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    Today... Me and my bf were having sex and I kinda felt like I had to pee so JUST IN CASE I went to the potty and went potty and I went back to his room and sat there and said hang...
    FandJ15 FandJ15 16-17, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'd love to hear from anyone that has managed to get themselves 'unstuck'. I am a sensible, intelligent woman. My head knows for certain that I must move on, and that being in this...
    EttaS EttaS 36-40, F 7 Responses