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I Do Not Want to Ever Think About Him Again

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    First Love

    there was this guy in my class, never bothered about him until we became friends. we started talking alot and i feel in love with him even when he was still into his ex (which was his first). he never loved me but didnt let go of me either knowing how much i care for him. we...
    thatgirl8824 thatgirl8824 22-25 2 Responses Feb 9, 2012

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    Day 6&7 Of Getting Over A 5 Year Obsession.

    I am feeling a little better than how I have felt. I went out last night with a new work mate and when he told me the story of his arranged marriage, I guess I sort of felt better about my own situation. Here is a man, who has been married a year and seen his wife a total of 17...
    Repairingajester Repairingajester 22-25, F Apr 21, 2012

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    Day 5 Of Getting Over A 5 Year Obsession

    The past few days have seen me crack in some dark places. Today felt better. It truly felt like anything could be better than yesterday and with that in mind, everything seemed easier. I deleted my facebook etc and a few people called me to see if I was ok. It was nice to know...
    Repairingajester Repairingajester 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    Fairytale Romance Gone Awry

        It was love at first site! We met at a resort by the beach. We spent a month together in an old-fashioned type courtship. Our families met. It all happened so fast.     In September he flew me out to England where he studied, for a 5 day...
    yoshoesareugly yoshoesareugly 19-21, F 2 Responses Nov 22, 2007

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    Crap

    It's peculiar. I keep telling myself that I'm over what happened between us, and I am. I am OVER this guy. I can forgive, forget and move on like I should have 4 years ago. But I resent him. I feel an anger, a kind of nagging rage towards him that I can't really explain. Yes...
    TheRealJade TheRealJade 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8, 2012

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    I Feel Like That About 2 Guys

    obviously I won,t mention any names real names or not will refewr to them as "1" and "2". No "1 "I carn't forget b/c he comes to collect our children once in a blue moon and with No"2"  I wish I could have amnesia - I wish that one...
    blondiesindy blondiesindy 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 17, 2008

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    I Want To Put The Sexual Abusers Out Of My Mind

    the hurt rick swzackoski did to me and joyce and ken who raped me... I want to put them and katy and just all those people to hell out of my head and move on into a better mind frame and thinking I am worthy and I am good enough for a real romance and love of my own and a career...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 12, 2011

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    I Wish He Would Just Disappear

    He is too close to the family to never see him again ... He drunk texts me randomly and calls me a *****. I love him so much-- I want to be with him but he said it will never be with me again yet he texts and texts.... I have to see him at every family holiday / birthdays...
    BurgundyGirl BurgundyGirl 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 22, 2007

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    Related Experiences

    I'm a recovering addict and I have two years clean from drugs and alcohol.. I lost my kids my house my career. I'm starting all over again I have my kids back in my life but from...
    Lotusgirlred Lotusgirlred 31-35, F Jul 13

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    He's an old one of my brothers friends and he's 1 year older than me. We just got reunited yesterday. He is really cute and I can't stop thinking about him! Why do I do?
    gabs23 gabs23 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    We have been together for 2 years now and because of my trust issues i grabbed his phone what might have been innocent flirting i turned into a big deal, we were both intoxicated...
    steph102112 steph102112 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I am laying here in bed watching movies and all I can think about is him he's my everything if I lost this man I wouldn't know what I would do he's picked me up from being...
    MissSkye MissSkye 16-17, F Jun 27

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    I've dated other guys, and still talking to other guys but none of them are like him. I've liked him over 3 years now and still secretly love him. We've been through a lot, but we...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    I'm trying to get over an ex and I replay the last 24 hours over in my head and then I think about all of the things that would make me not want to be with him and then I think of...
    IntomeYousee IntomeYousee 36-40, F Jul 13

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    I decided your not worth it anymore :) I don't need to waste time even thinking about you when I still don't know what I want to do with my life. I have high standards and meeting...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    I need to stop talking to you because when we aren't all I do is think about wanting to talk to you, When I finally say, "Okay, I need to stop talking to him." Here you are, not a...
    RayneZ RayneZ 13-15, F Jul 13

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    Sometimes in our life we’ll feel broken inside as if it will never end. But as days pass we’ll meet some people who will make us feel worthy of having a second chance...
    LAithought LAithought 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    "Love is a battlefield" sings Pat Benatar. "I will love you till the end of time" sings Beyonce. "I will wait for you" sing Mumford & sons. "No one compares to you" sings Lana Del...
    lwelo lwelo 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    i like this guy but i know i cant have him. hes so sweet sometimes but then other times hes such a jerk. idk what i want anymore.
    theydontunderstandmee theydontunderstandmee 13-15, F Jun 25

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    Ugh I always wanna message him but I'm scared cuz he always says we will talk when we have time but I need to talk to him
    megan1247 megan1247 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I'm with someone at the minute who I've been with for 4 years, we're arguing on and off recently, we haven't spoken for 8 days and seen each other for 4 weeks, I seen him this...
    bethbabe321 bethbabe321 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Nayarb<- not his real name, I just saw him a few days ago when I was starting to forget that he even existed now I can get him of my head.
    findyouonaisland findyouonaisland 13-15, M 2 days ago

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    Well it seems like you are doing great and I am glad, and sad at the same time.... I wish I could have helped mold this happy person I see before me. But no worries you are forever...
    strawberry99 strawberry99 22-25, F Jun 27

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    I love you, I know I hurt you by staying, but I did it for my kids and I now realize they will be fine no matter what I choose as long as I'm happy they will be too. I hope you...
    raedavis raedavis 31-35, F a week ago

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    Seems like time heals all things... even though i have those difficult days, where I think about him and how I don't have him around anymore. I just remember: that he left me.. and...
    elenanicole elenanicole 16-17, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I thought she was a good woman....... Well that was her statement to me and claim to fame , but then again my last ex's claim to fame was that she was a faithful "never was a bad...
    nevets61 nevets61 51-55 13 hrs ago

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    I went on a girls long weekend and ended up sleeping with a guy i met there. i can barely even type these words as that would mean that i actually allowed this to happen. But not...
    idk8 idk8 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 2

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    We are childhood friends, our families are really close and we used to see each other everyday. When I turned eight my family moved away. As I grew up I completely forgot about...
    EvelynElf EvelynElf 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    37. When people just want to save and to save and save and don't want to spend anything. 38. When people don't use any capital letters or full stops or commas in their work. 39...
    Mahsa99 Mahsa99 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    I cant stop thinking about this fuking girl first in school we never talked i just made her laugh alot cuss she sat in front of my desk. I walked home wit her sat in lunch wit her...
    StaticMajor StaticMajor 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    today i saw him again...i was determined i won't care,he will pass next to me and i won't even look at him...but it didn't happen that way it never does...not in the last 6 months...
    innermeee innermeee 18-21, F Jul 9

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    I'm tired of having my heart broken, creating expectations for nothing, walking miles for people that wouldn't cross the street for me, etc. Don't get me wrong, I'm usually a very...
    slonim slonim 18-21 Jun 28

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    Sometimes as a passing thought. Other days it's all I can think of. There will always be times I'll think about you more often, and right now is one of those times. Your date draws...
    alexwolfe alexwolfe 26-30, F Jun 30

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    My ex boyfriend I dated for about 1 1/2 years, and I've known him for 4 years. I loved him so much, and now it's so difficult because time is changing everything and I want to move...
    elenanicole elenanicole 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I want to fall in love Again, I want to have butterflies in my stomach. I want to feel his heart beat against my ear. I want to tell him how much I love him and appreciate him...
    cocoastrawberry cocoastrawberry 18-21, F Jul 11

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    I'd love to hear from anyone that has managed to get themselves 'unstuck'. I am a sensible, intelligent woman. My head knows for certain that I must move on, and that being in this...
    EttaS EttaS 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 9

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    I know I am loved by my best friend and a couple close friends, but I can't help but want to fall in love, but the thing is, if you fall in love, it's extremely hard to get out. I...
    maddielovee maddielovee 13-15, F Jul 6

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    I can't stop thinking about my boyfriend. He means everythjng to me. My family hates me and treats me like crap every day. There's nonstop screaming and yelling and name calling...
    saxophonegal22 saxophonegal22 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    And it's driving me crazy. Why won't he get out of my head?! I was at my wonderful friends birthday last night. She lives on a farm and it's such a beautiful place. We had a fire...
    TearsAlwaysWin TearsAlwaysWin 26-30, F Jul 13

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    I wish you would talk to me instead of demeaning me. I hate I am a bad guy in your eyes because of what you mean to me. I know you are hurt and I have caused it but stop and take a...
    scooterp23 scooterp23 36-40, M 5 days ago

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    I can't stop thinking about you. Not even something as cliché as your smile... I just can't stop thinking about you, as a person, how you acted, how you laughed, how you'd tell me...
    avabellaforb avabellaforb 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I don't know why, but i think about cheating on my husband all the time. I am 21, we have been married for about 2 and a half years now, together for 4 and my husband is the only...
    70f0rmul4 70f0rmul4 18-21, F 13 Responses Jun 26

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    I really do. Since he doesn't want a girlfriend and doesn't like me in that way then I told myself not to like him and just to be friends and it kinda worked for a while although I...
    musicislife00 musicislife00 13-15, F Jul 13

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    Thinking about past love well first love just fancy a chat not sure what to do I have a girlfriend right now and it's not working I wouldn't dream of cheating just had a few...
    JDHarrison93 JDHarrison93 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 23

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    I don't know if I can ever fall in love again. I was married for 15 years, mostly happy. After the marriage ended, I was too naive for my age, and got into a relationship with...
    glitterdahlia glitterdahlia 41-45 Jun 29

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    I love this man with all my heart but he just played me. I feel like getting back at him. I know it wrong but he is just an extremely ****** up individual. I hate that he played...
    apgargirl09 apgargirl09 22-25, F Jun 25

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    I haven't heard from her in over a year. It seemed like I had forgotten her over that long period of time. But then out of the blue I get this message from her saying that she...
    YouDaOne23 YouDaOne23 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    I know i would never kill myself but i do think about it at times. My mom makes me feel worthless everyday, and im allways the third wheel. Only one girl has ever liked me but she...
    tribetown tribetown 16-17, M