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I Do Not Want to Have An Affair

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    How Can I Show My Husband I Really Love Him?

    Every time I join sites like this, my husband worries I'm out looking for someone else.  I'm not.  I just find blogging and sharing experiences very therapeutic.  I do like to flirt.  And I do like to be found attractive and desirable by others.  But that...
    ladydewinter ladydewinter 36-40 2 Responses Nov 20, 2008

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    I Follow What I Believe In

    I don't want to cheat because I believe in what is just. Because I don't feel in case that is a solution. Because I'm faithful, very, to my partner; and to myself.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 19, 2008

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    Forever

    I am only going to get married once. I am married now and it is till death do us part. Even if we fight we can always work things out. I have no reason to cheat nor could I betray my husband. THe guilt would eat me a live.
    firestarterfairy firestarterfairy 22-25, F Mar 21, 2008

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    He's Perfect; For Me.

    He is my soul mate! his imperfections are a reminder to me of my own. I see my reflection when I look at him. I know that we both need each other, and are afraid of that, too. We both are Pisces, and I have looked it up, it is dead on about why we are the way we are with each...
    CarmenDWJ CarmenDWJ 36-40, F Mar 29, 2008

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    I Want to Be Someone That Does Not Hurt Others

     I really want to be loving and thoughtful and kind. I do not want to destroy my husband or make him feel pain. I am all he has and all he lives for, so I want to be there for him...someone he can count on and depend on. I do not want him to have to ever worry bout losing me...
    Gelfwings Gelfwings 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 23, 2008

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    was cheated on and want to have an affair male with big **** and experienced
    8InchesToStretchYou 8InchesToStretchYou 26-30, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I want to have an affair with an older woman. She must be curvy and up for no strings adult fun - I am married but seek excitement and adventure. South Dorset UK.
    Daniel1978 Daniel1978 31-35, M Jul 10

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    tractorman2427 tractorman2427 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    Wow...I mean I like fun but this group is just...humiliating to humanity. Woooow. No doubt we women aren't as great as we claim to be, huh.
    WintersSoldier WintersSoldier 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    I wish id someday find a guy who id like to have affair with. I think i deserved that after what i was going thruh. One day i will be desired. I feel that. I didnt seareched well...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 33 Responses Jul 10

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    My husband of many years who I have 7 beautiful children with has been have affairS yes capital S with other women...i am completely broken he doesn't want a divorce but wants to...
    sweetmelissa77 sweetmelissa77 36-40, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    I honestly didn't have expectations. Not because I don't care about myself and would settle for just anyone, but cause I wasn't looking. Dating seemed like a drag and the single...
    BrohovahsWitness BrohovahsWitness 18-21, F Jun 27

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    I really want have a genuine friend on here. 👥 Please be around my age group... No pervs 😠
    cuteshaybay cuteshaybay 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    My boyfriend and I of 6 years have been seeing this wonderful girl for the past couple of months. We are swingers and it started out as that but ended up being more. He has...
    peace61292 peace61292 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    1.) My name is Olivia 2.) I have two middle names. Catherine & Esther. 3.) I have an obsession with tea (I just LOVE my tea <3) 4.) I am a bookworm. 5.) I wished my birthday was...
    Liv4Life Liv4Life 18-21, F Jun 30

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    For the last while I have been thinking of having an affair. I know I should not think like that but there are times when I just want to be held in someone's arms and make love...
    Bettyjb Bettyjb 41-45, F 2 Responses 25 mins ago

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    I'm sharing this with you because I want to know how I can move forward from this. I do love my husband but I feel so betrayed by his actions. And not just him his family and...
    2011dolly40 2011dolly40 41-45, F 7 hrs ago

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    Omg this has nothing to with my affair but I have my nieces today and one is 1 and she has already spilt my coffee all over the carpet and than pooed on my carpet .. Shes potty...
    ventingagain ventingagain 31-35, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    An Affair Of Sadness I just recently finished reading an English translated book titled "Koula," by Menis Koumandareas. Menis is a highly regarded author in Greece. I'm not...
    MindScrap MindScrap 51-55, M 4 days ago

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    Was it wrong to have an affair, to most people yes! I knew what I was doing from get go it didn't just happen. I made a profile on Ashley Madison, met a few people nothing...
    Gaffa1234 Gaffa1234 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 28

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    Emotional Affair: Was she Narcissistic or Borderline Waif? I am a married man with two beautiful children and a wonderful wife. I have never “physically” cheated on my wife...
    DriveRiggins DriveRiggins 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 9

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      I was watching this German documentary on polyamory. The mutual consent of partners seeing other people on a regular basis and one of the topics was jealousy. Both...
    Fmina Fmina 51-55, F 8 Responses Jun 27

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    Before I begin, let me first say there's no confusion here about whether or not to cheat. Can't handle the truth.... Having an affair is on my bucket list. Yeah, I said it! I...
    thatdresstho thatdresstho 41-45, F 10 Responses Jul 6

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    Ok here goes probably going to condemned here, and I've never shared this info. I met my guy 12 yrs ago I was his PA. We hit off straight away, the chemistry was just there and...
    Mandy65 Mandy65 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    Betrayed wives, I have been posting stories and resources under "I am trying to save my marriage" and a few other places. An EP pal, Uht2014, has some really good info on her...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    I ended my affair 4 months ago. I'm continuing to work on my marriage, however, I am having difficulty enjoying sex with my husband. His sex drive is pretty much dead due to his...
    Musicalangel13 Musicalangel13 31-35, F 10 Responses 4 days ago

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    I found out my husband had been having an affair and I left him. I had no desire to pursue anything with anyone else, because I knew I was vulnerable, & that I was still...
    RayMizae RayMizae 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 8

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    Cheater amaze me you have a affair then when crap gets bad you want to blame the affair partner. Well guess what it's affair it never was meant to be right. Something so wrong as...
    Trueman1944 Trueman1944 66-70, M 4 Responses Jul 11

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    How do you have an affair without getting your emotions involved? I think about an affair because I'm so lonely but I tend to get easily attached because I am longing for...
    tammie74 tammie74 36-40, F 15 Responses Jul 13

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    I am an affair success story. Due to my x-h's controlling behaviour toward me (coupled with alcohol abuse) for years, I checked out of my marriage a few years ago. I allowed fear...
    dayflight dayflight 31-35 9 Responses Jul 15

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    Happily ever after is only in the fairy tales ladies. I was a "success" story. I thought that I got my HEA when I married my mm. That is what we all think. We think how perfect...
    blumomma blumomma 31-35, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    I don't know why, but i think about cheating on my husband all the time. I am 21, we have been married for about 2 and a half years now, together for 4 and my husband is the only...
    70f0rmul4 70f0rmul4 18-21, F 13 Responses Jun 26

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    I was in a perfect place. Everything was amazing on Thursday ... You know I get a little emotional right after were together... Only for a day or so.. When I need you the most...
    Differentforever Differentforever 46-50, F 3 Responses Jun 29

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    Did anyone have success re-establishing sex and not only sex, but passion back in their marriage after they had an affair? If you have re-established sex with wife/husband...
    Fmina Fmina 51-55, F 7 Responses Jul 2

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    So... my ex mm still wants me. I got divorced, he never did. It's been 23 months of a rough road, filled with enormous love, laughter, anxiety, guilt, excitement, doubt, fun and...
    lilsecret1 lilsecret1 36-40, F 12 Responses Jul 3

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    I had an affair with someone that I normally would never have even dated, let alone considered sleeping with because things were so bad at home. Why did I do it? I think that...
    Islndgirl Islndgirl 36-40, F 8 Responses Jun 28

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    This is probably a more common problem than I think.. I want to have an affair, I'm newly married but we have had problems for awhile, my husband is an alcoholic .. I feel...
    danitykane13 danitykane13 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 30

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    My mom is currently having an affair with this other man who just so happens to be married as well. She's quite open about it and even tries to make me get along with him despite...
    dontknowacoolname dontknowacoolname 13-15, F Jul 3

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    Denial.... I haven't accepted his decision to end things. How could he? Where the heck did he find the strength? Why would he end it when the sex was so damn amazing? I...
    Differentforever Differentforever 46-50, F 6 Responses Jul 4

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    I'm well past the stage of feeling any kind of guilt for having an affair. I've had affairs in the past and I'll continue to have them in the future. They have improved my...
    Neglectedlover Neglectedlover 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 24

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    It's funny you know, In the early days of this affair I thought to myself 'of course I can handle this' and I felt sure of it too. But with each passing day, week, month that...
    reccos234 reccos234 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    So after 19 months, I ended my affair this evening. I sent him an email telling him that I can no longer sustain the affair. We're both married and neither of our spouses found...
    lynn49 lynn49 46-50, F 3 Responses Jul 5

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    See Dreamgirl75,,,you had the affair,,with your co-worker,,now you ask a question ,,Can to married people (MM and MW) Who having affair with one another 1, Stop the sex ,, yes you...
    pullupgirl103 pullupgirl103 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I'm curious about something? I am only using a MM example bc I'm a woman. How many if you married men had a physical and emotional relationship with a woman who was half your age...
    tc57 tc57 31-35, F 10 Responses Jul 3

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    Kinda of an answer for those who post "how can you say I love you to your significant other when you are having an affair?" Sometimes having an affair is the equivalent to...
    blovedsmle blovedsmle 31-35, F 12 Responses Jul 6

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    Last year, I started an affair with a married man at my work. At the time, I was his boss. It was his first time cheating on his wife of 20+ years and my third time with a...
    GumboGirl GumboGirl 36-40, F 15 Responses Jul 8

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    I had online affair some years ago. The man was married like me. It ended bad. I was scared to meet him in person and i quit with him. A year later he contact me and say that he...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 12 Responses Jul 10

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