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I Do Not Want to Have An Affair

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    I Follow What I Believe In

    I don't want to cheat because I believe in what is just. Because I don't feel in case that is a solution. Because I'm faithful, very, to my partner; and to myself.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 19, 2008

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    He's Perfect; For Me.

    He is my soul mate! his imperfections are a reminder to me of my own. I see my reflection when I look at him. I know that we both need each other, and are afraid of that, too. We both are Pisces, and I have looked it up, it is dead on about why we are the way we are with each...
    CarmenDWJ CarmenDWJ 36-40, F Mar 29, 2008

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    How Can I Show My Husband I Really Love Him?

    Every time I join sites like this, my husband worries I'm out looking for someone else.  I'm not.  I just find blogging and sharing experiences very therapeutic.  I do like to flirt.  And I do like to be found attractive and desirable by others.  But that...
    ladydewinter ladydewinter 36-40 2 Responses Nov 20, 2008

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    I Want to Be Someone That Does Not Hurt Others

     I really want to be loving and thoughtful and kind. I do not want to destroy my husband or make him feel pain. I am all he has and all he lives for, so I want to be there for him...someone he can count on and depend on. I do not want him to have to ever worry bout losing me...
    Gelfwings Gelfwings 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 23, 2008

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    Forever

    I am only going to get married once. I am married now and it is till death do us part. Even if we fight we can always work things out. I have no reason to cheat nor could I betray my husband. THe guilt would eat me a live.
    firestarterfairy firestarterfairy 22-25, F Mar 21, 2008

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    I dont know why, but even though I love my boyfriend, I want an affair so badly. He treats me right and he's good in bed, I have nothing to complain about, but every time a boy...
    tellmeimnormal tellmeimnormal 18-21, M Oct 4

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    I lived with my girl roommate for 4 years, she is single, not very pretty but nice body. I really want to have a close touch around her body with her knowing nothing.
    surfaceasion surfaceasion 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 28

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    Out looking, msg me :) <3.
    mcgsupreme mcgsupreme 18-21, M Sep 30

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    Omg yes,knowing that he would cheat on his wife with you, it's amazing!!!
    Randomchick3 Randomchick3 18-21, F 10 Responses Oct 8

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    3 years back and was too shy then....
    jimmy664 jimmy664 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    I notice that I have a lot of haters because I had an affair with a married man. I can understand your point of view, in fact, if it had not happened to me, I would have thought...
    Linley242 Linley242 51-55, F 11 Responses Oct 8

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    Ladies, please do not have affairs with married men. They are painful experiences and absolutely no good comes out of it. If anything, you lose a lot more. This affair has turned...
    Linley242 Linley242 51-55, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    This selfish act has ruined my reputation, mentality, eating habits, spiked up my anxiety, turned many people in my town away from me. Exposure is karma. You think you're in love...
    LDR8 LDR8 26-30, F Oct 6

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    I'm hoping I can get some honest male input to help me understand my current situation. A little history: About 3 months ago, I started a very passionate affair with a man who I...
    crazycontrolled crazycontrolled 36-40, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    It didn't feel like an affair. It still doesn't. It's over, but not really, and the loss has left me grief stricken. I lost my perspective and my walls and now I'm battle weary...
    CountrySlicker CountrySlicker 51-55, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I KNOW my (soon to be ex) wife of 10+ years is a "serial cheater" who didn't give a rat's a** about the swaths of devastation she was creating or enabling with her multiple...
    TheExWifeorcist TheExWifeorcist 56-60, M 9 hrs ago

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    and my blog! I am honest to a fault in my stories and blog, and I never delete them. I just spent part of my morning rereading my EP stories. I laughed at some, I rolled my eyes...
    SpilledSecrets SpilledSecrets 22-25, F 10 hrs ago

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    Sometimes I really wonder... When MM starts feeling all guilty and Overwhelmed.. Is he? Is that what's really happening? Whenever we're getting to close.. When he feels...
    Differentforever Differentforever 46-50, F 14 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    and he texted me, I ran into him earlier in the day and later he texted "it was nice to see you, sorry if you don't want to hear from me" you know? I won't let him pull me back in
    mntmama mntmama 36-40, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    3 days ago I hit the 3 month mark.....YAY!!! And today, guess who I get a text message from...... About a month ago I decided I was strong enough to unblock him, so I did. And...
    platnum2011 platnum2011 26-30, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    When I was a sophomore in highschool I had a neighbor who I was pretty close with. He was about 45 and married to a complete b itch. I would go over there about 3 times a week and...
    NataleF NataleF 18-21, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I can't stop thinking about him. It was just physical at first. That's all I thought it would ever be. Lately he is all I think about. I am starting to have feelings.
    shitbyrd shitbyrd 36-40, F 1 hr ago

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    Do I still want him? Love him? Unfortunately... Yes... Do I want to get over him? Of course I do... I need to end our friendship... What is falling in love, but an addiction...
    Koalaclover Koalaclover 36-40, F 5 Responses Oct 8

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    No I didn't have an affair, but I can't stand the fact that people are actually proud of having one. Having an affair these days is apparently quite common so it makes "okay." I...
    SiriusJT SiriusJT 18-21, M 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    What a storm in a teacup affairs really ARE... All contained within the walls of our hearts and minds, never to see the light of day. Haunting in their hidden beauty and their...
    marmelade marmelade 51-55, F 17 Responses Oct 13

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    It was an unmitigated disaster. I was so angry at him, justifiably so. For about three months after his betrayal I attempted to have an affair. I decided to have an affair with...
    ObiOneyouremyonlyhope ObiOneyouremyonlyhope 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 4

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    Affairs I've had two affairs that lasted over a year. The second one just ended.. I've never thought to really sit and compare them both till yesterday. My first affair I...
    Differentforever Differentforever 46-50, F 4 Responses Oct 11

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    So many marriages lose their way after a while. Having an affair is not always the answer, the end run is devastating. When the marriage begins to turn that way, why not look...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F Sep 30

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    This is to all the women having affairs with married men right now. I want to share my story of my experience with having a relationship with a married man, in hopes that you...
    Linley242 Linley242 51-55, F 5 Responses Oct 5

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    I never thought I would have an affair, I always told myself I would divorce first, but something inside me took over, it's almost as if I was watching from a distance, I...
    Dixiechic66 Dixiechic66 46-50, F 8 Responses Oct 7

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    It's been 2 weeks since it ended - not by my choice. I keep asking myself, do miss her or do I miss the way she made me feel (the addiction of being told how great I am, how much...
    itsmrwhiteyo itsmrwhiteyo 41-45, M 5 Responses Oct 17

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    Where to begin... I myself am married and I am currently at the beginning of an affair with a married man. This affair began primarily so that I could get over a man whom I have...
    SoSocioYaKnow SoSocioYaKnow 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    One day I found out that my wife was flirting with someone online. When I confronted her about it, she told me that it was just innocent flirting. The person she was flirting with...
    kjc101614 kjc101614 41-45, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Went to my therapist yesterday.. She said it's time for me to end things with my MM.. She believes my MM is getting sloppy...and self conscientiously wants to use this affair as...
    Differentforever Differentforever 46-50, F 14 Responses Oct 1

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    I've only been having an affair with a mm for a month now. I'm in a horrible marriage but feel trapped at the moment. He however is happy with his marriage he just likes the thrill...
    goawaymia goawaymia 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 3

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    Lately I've been reading soooo many posts about people "trying" to end their affairs. I also get a lot of messages from people who are usually in their first week of no contact and...
    platnum2011 platnum2011 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 4

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    My father's side of grandparents are... quite a character. They are farmers, but far from 'nice country folks'. They can be really greedy and ignorant, and I was shunned when I was...
    Eugene214 Eugene214 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    letting go.. He ended things... Walked away.. We both knew that hearts could change.. No strings.. Then why the "friendship"? Why? at first I needed it.. But What...
    Differentforever Differentforever 46-50, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    This is a private message I wrote to a fellow EP member, but I wanted to share my thoughts publicly: Thanks again for your insight. I'm not very wordy today, but wanted to...
    Koalaclover Koalaclover 36-40, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    I fell off the wagon and emailed him about an hour ago. It's been 3 days of no contact and also since I told him that we can't be friends anymore as keeping a friendship with each...
    Koalaclover Koalaclover 36-40, F 5 Responses Sep 25

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    Haven't yet, but jw.. are revenge affairs ever worth it? And maybe not even revenge, but just an affair because you want somebody to make you feel good and fill in everything that...
    NotFirstNotLast NotFirstNotLast 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 13

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    Another month has passed, the pain and ache do go away, slowly, I find myself waking up in the middle of the night, and just thinking, remembering the beginning, how I felt, the...
    mntmama mntmama 36-40, F 13 Responses Oct 15

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    Dreams can trigger instant anxiety. I haven't dream of him in ages until last night. He came to this big event at work, bringing his 2 young kids in a stroller. At one point his...
    lostsoul0311 lostsoul0311 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 3

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    "paint by number lovers" her paint by number love affair was planned down to his kisses was everything she expected it to be wasn't long before truth showed it was a love like a...
    mudmen mudmen 46-50 Oct 8

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    I would appreciate support and advice, no judgements please. Background: I am married almost 10 years, 2 kids. Years of issues with husband, he is a bit better, but I am no longer...
    Sexymamma16 Sexymamma16 31-35, F 8 Responses Sep 26

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    I went to the doctor and asked to get postaffairquickrecoverygram prescribed but was told there is no such a medicine:) Jokes aside,day 3 after breaking up still feeling the same...
    kimlife kimlife 26-30, F 6 Responses Oct 10

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    i have a dark secret. my story is a long one. i dont expect anyone to read all of it. ive never told anybody. its driven me crazy and ive seen a counselor about it. i wish i had...
    rainydaytoday rainydaytoday 22-25 1 Response Sep 26

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