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I Do Not Want to Have An Affair

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 178 People

    I'm glad you're among the ones

    who do not want to have an affair! But if you are here because you are about to engage in one, I'm happy that you are looking for answers... I'll start saying that it is never worth it! It is actually a crime against your spouse, your family and yourself! It can feel right at...
    Letsrockit Letsrockit 36-40, M 2 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    I Follow What I Believe In

    I don't want to cheat because I believe in what is just. Because I don't feel in case that is a solution. Because I'm faithful, very, to my partner; and to myself.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 19, 2008

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    I've had a few emotional affairs

    and have contemplated a physical affair... Luckily I've had some foresight to see that an affair would be devastating on many levels as they seem to never end well. If you are considering an affair check out the experiences of "I am the other woman". So full of wanting and...
    lovenlearn lovenlearn 41-45, F 3 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    How Can I Show My Husband I Really Love Him?

    Every time I join sites like this, my husband worries I'm out looking for someone else.  I'm not.  I just find blogging and sharing experiences very therapeutic.  I do like to flirt.  And I do like to be found attractive and desirable by others.  But that...
    ladydewinter ladydewinter 36-40 3 Responses Nov 20, 2008

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    Forever

    I am only going to get married once. I am married now and it is till death do us part. Even if we fight we can always work things out. I have no reason to cheat nor could I betray my husband. THe guilt would eat me a live.
    firestarterfairy firestarterfairy 22-25, F Mar 21, 2008

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    I think it's overrated.

    Sex is amazing, why would you ever want to associate bad or regretful behavior to it? Just flirt people, no harm in that ha!
    JJ9880 JJ9880 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 12, 2015

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    No. Just no. That is not the kind of person I

    want to be. Marriage isn't perfect, but my husband and I are perfect for each other. I don't want to have the mess and heartache that comes with having an affair. Most of all, I don't want to face God after that.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 4, 2015

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    He's Perfect; For Me.

    He is my soul mate! his imperfections are a reminder to me of my own. I see my reflection when I look at him. I know that we both need each other, and are afraid of that, too. We both are Pisces, and I have looked it up, it is dead on about why we are the way we are with each...
    CarmenDWJ CarmenDWJ 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 29, 2008

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    My story is detailed in other posts

    but just summing up my last 20months of struggle... Unfortunately I couldn't handle my wife's affair and the fact she had sex with someone else... Special they way it happened! I swear I tried every day to let it go but it is way too much for me to handle and for our own good...
    Letsrockit Letsrockit 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 14, 2015

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    Redstar86 Redstar86 26-30, M 38 mins ago

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    I've become angry again. The past two days I've been battling with my resentment toward him and what he did to me. I'm mad that after everything is said and done, I'm the one that...
    wtfgirl001 wtfgirl001 22-25, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    It's been one year since I was a drug addict yet the thoughts, feelings of guilt, feelings of feeling ashamed, feelings of regret still linger. Although today I am 100% clean and...
    neurokitty99 neurokitty99 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    My heart speaks softly, through reminiscing of past times and the kiss of your seemingly honey-lips 💋in the future. Your essence rampages like a wild horse💗 galloping to...
    xxxMickeyMouse22xxx xxxMickeyMouse22xxx 22-25, M 2 hrs ago

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    Nine years ago, my husband passed away, the aftermath of which, I went through a period of deep self-discovery. I was confused about who I was, where my life was going. Through...
    Solegne Solegne 41-45, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Okay, so to post the whole story would be insanely long so I'm going to shorten it for you keeping all the important bits! My partner and I have been together now for almost two...
    sallyrhiannon sallyrhiannon 22-25, F 5 hrs ago

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    I don't care how many depressing experiences I post, or how disappointed I am with my life, or how much I have screwed up, or how hurt I have become, or no matter what people will...
    writingforlife6 writingforlife6 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    Somebody" Depeche Mode I want somebody to share Share the rest of my life Share my innermost thoughts Know my intimate details Someone who'll stand by my side And give me support...
    TulipBaby TulipBaby 41-45, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    My normal anyway. My normal is a bit unpredictable and I generally feel comfortable with it being that way. That said, I have created many accounts on different social sites that...
    JessicaMarie35 JessicaMarie35 36-40, T 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Ive been married for 15 years to a wonderful woman but for a couple of years ive been having an affair and now i want to be with my lover all the time.I love my wife but more like...
    hikk01 hikk01 41-45, M 16 hrs ago

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    I haven't had an affair. They require secrecy and that's against my value system and I think damaging to my relationship with my wife. I have had an ongoing regular sexual...
    rabb1trabb1t rabb1trabb1t 41-45, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    So when you all have plans with your affair partner ... Do you engage in mindless small talk or get right to business??? It's hard to " catch up" when so much has gone on in your...
    darkangel3200 darkangel3200 31-35, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm in a fling... I slept with him a few times... He constantly reminds me to keeps my emotions in tact.. Its really annoying me. Every time we're together he detaches himself...
    Differentforever Differentforever 46-50, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    Anyone from AZ? It seems all the men who I have talked with on here are all out of AZ. Would love to experience a tall muscular black or white male with a satisfying package...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am trying to get over my AP, however, seeing him daily on FB is not helping. He wants to be friends, but I am having a hard time with it. The affair was 1.5 years long. We...
    Dreamgirl75 Dreamgirl75 41-45, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am curious for those of you that are married and have ended your affair...how is your marriage doing? Have you been able to reconnect with your spouse after the affair? If so...
    StartingOver41 StartingOver41 41-45, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am preparing to leave my husband. Not because of the affair, but for me and to spare him pain in the future. I sign my lease this week. I'm excited and scared. Wish me luck!
    Runnergirl2015 Runnergirl2015 31-35, F 9 Responses 4 days ago

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    It's wasn't exactly an affair I'm single he has a girlfriend it's not gone past texting I felt like he was slow fading me out so I just stopped texting so did he has been 2 weeks...
    winterusa winterusa 36-40, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    hello...i don't know where to post this exactly, sorry if it ends up in the wrong category/group. i have a situation that i cannot discuss with anyone, but i need some feedback...
    mommajllc mommajllc 36-40, F 21 Responses 5 days ago

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    hello...i don't know where to post this exactly, sorry if it ends up in the wrong category/group. i have a situation that i cannot discuss with anyone, but i need some feedback...
    mommajllc mommajllc 36-40, F 5 days ago

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    How you make him think that you are a psycho and he ended it with you. The final tomahawk. It is pretty hard on your system to be constantly maintaining a level of detachment...
    Fmina Fmina 51-55, F 10 Responses 6 days ago

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    Finally it is over! I never had the guts to block him but he is blocked in EVERYTHING! I do not want to go back to this life ever again... and I hope for all of you suffering...
    Fmina Fmina 51-55, F 8 Responses 6 days ago

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    I became sick and was stuck at home. My wife, ever the care-giver, became more of a nanny than a wife because of my constant neediness. This caused a big rift in our relationship...
    SSKyleRedd SSKyleRedd 46-50, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Is it only me who finds the thought of having an affair with a married man so sexy?
    monstermunch22x monstermunch22x 18-21, F 23 Responses 6 days ago

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      I'm back for my advice. Under a different name as for some reason I can't access my old account (old name dolly2016) I have decided to do some counselling and my first...
    Dollygirl2016 Dollygirl2016 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Going away tomorrow with my husband. Looking forward to our time together. Hopefully time to do some reconnecting. I am hopeful but don't want to over pressurize the situation...
    pumpgirl pumpgirl 46-50, F 8 Responses Feb 2

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    I got married to my partner in September 2015 after 9 years together 2 months before the wedding i started an affair which lasted right up to the week before the wedding and i seen...
    dolly2016 dolly2016 26-30, F 13 Responses Feb 2

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    I changed my cell phone number today, this should be the one action that will finally put an end and close this chapter of my life. Sorry for the drama but this affair has been...
    darkangel3200 darkangel3200 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    I have an opportunity to have an affair and feel desired and wanted for a moment. I'm torn. On the one hand, I haven't felt needed, wanted or loved in any way from my wife in years...
    bgood79 bgood79 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 31

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    Only in an affair can you make mad passionate love to one another is if you are the only two people in the world and then, 10 minutes later swap marital advice. This relationship...
    justtired45 justtired45 46-50, F 3 Responses Jan 30

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    I'm getting over an affair... Tried multiple times to end it... I've never failed at anything like I've failed at ending this ridiculous affair. He is my only mistake , regret and...
    darkangel3200 darkangel3200 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 30

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    Hi are the any fun busty ladies reading this thread wanna chat? If so fancy messaging me back?
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