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I Do Not Want to Have An Affair

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    I Want to Be Someone That Does Not Hurt Others

     I really want to be loving and thoughtful and kind. I do not want to destroy my husband or make him feel pain. I am all he has and all he lives for, so I want to be there for him...someone he can count on and depend on. I do not want him to have to ever worry bout losing me...
    Gelfwings Gelfwings 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 23, 2008

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    I Follow What I Believe In

    I don't want to cheat because I believe in what is just. Because I don't feel in case that is a solution. Because I'm faithful, very, to my partner; and to myself.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 19, 2008

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    He's Perfect; For Me.

    He is my soul mate! his imperfections are a reminder to me of my own. I see my reflection when I look at him. I know that we both need each other, and are afraid of that, too. We both are Pisces, and I have looked it up, it is dead on about why we are the way we are with each...
    CarmenDWJ CarmenDWJ 36-40, F Mar 29, 2008

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    How Can I Show My Husband I Really Love Him?

    Every time I join sites like this, my husband worries I'm out looking for someone else.  I'm not.  I just find blogging and sharing experiences very therapeutic.  I do like to flirt.  And I do like to be found attractive and desirable by others.  But that...
    ladydewinter ladydewinter 36-40 2 Responses Nov 20, 2008

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    Forever

    I am only going to get married once. I am married now and it is till death do us part. Even if we fight we can always work things out. I have no reason to cheat nor could I betray my husband. THe guilt would eat me a live.
    firestarterfairy firestarterfairy 22-25, F Mar 21, 2008

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    I kinda want to **** a married man. It turns me on.
    CuriousGurl13 CuriousGurl13 13-15, F 12 Responses Sep 13

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    I lived with my girl roommate for 4 years, she is single, not very pretty but nice body. I really want to have a close touch around her body with her knowing nothing.
    surfaceasion surfaceasion 26-30, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I am hoping to find one nice mature woman for a mutually agreeable and satisfying relationship in the Philadelphia metropolitan area.
    donaldsterling donaldsterling 51-55, M Sep 18

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    Out looking, msg me :) <3.
    mcgsupreme mcgsupreme 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    I am a married man hoping to find a nice mature woman for a mutually agreeable and satisfying relationship in the metropolitan Philadelphia area.
    donaldsterling donaldsterling 51-55, M 1 Response Sep 18

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    Yeah, it's definitely something that turns me on... Something about a married man seeking pleasure in a young girl like me gets me all hot and bothered! There's obviously something...
    TrishaLovely TrishaLovely 18-21, F 15 Responses Sep 24

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    Stay away from married people. Is it hard to understand that a wrong door leads to misery, you can foretell everything from the beggining. You commiting a major Sin.. You are...
    shinney shinney 66-70, F 3 days ago

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    Is it bad that I want an affair!?
    honeybee86 honeybee86 22-25, F 13 Responses Sep 2

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    i would do anything to be able to go back to school and get a nursing diploma and export myself out of here, somewhere colder, somewhere more prosperous ; out of the third world...
    Chulazon Chulazon 31-35, F 4 hrs ago

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    MY GLORIOUS 3-DAY BIRTHDAY ROAD TRIPWhen Wind was a little girl, she fell in love the day she first saw Baptism River.Theirs is a love affair that has lasted a lifetime and today...
    WindSylph WindSylph 51-55, F 2 hrs ago

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    If I smother my MM with texts... Get all girly girly on him ... Maybe it will drive him to end this... Then it doesn't have to be me. Have any of you ladies tried to...
    Differentforever Differentforever 46-50, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I Had An Affair Tainted I am new this web page, read some of the interesting stories and have seen how much I can relate to some of them. I am not much of a reader or writer in...
    maidinthebox maidinthebox 41-45, M 3 Responses Sep 18

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    It has been three years…still think of him all day every day. We haven't had contact for 9 months. I still feel like he is my soulmate. I love my husband to pieces…but it...
    twintower18 twintower18 31-35, F Sep 7

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    Last night was our monthly Retrouvaille support group (called CORE) for marriage meeting. Summary, for anyone new to this part of EP, we are over a year since I discovered his...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    Ok so this question isn't strictly about my affair, more to do with the aftermath. I kinda don't know where else to post it. My affair ended 7 months ago. It has shattered my...
    Fififififi Fififififi 41-45, F 29 Responses Sep 5

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    So many marriages lose their way after a while. Having an affair is not always the answer, the end run is devastating. When the marriage begins to turn that way, why not look...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 1 day ago

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    My wife wants a urgent divorce I can't cope? I was caught in a spa with her very good friend and I did not say I was going there with her ( don't look good at all ) When my wife...
    uncleginge uncleginge 26-30, M Sep 16

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    Went to my therapist yesterday.. She said it's time for me to end things with my MM.. She believes my MM is getting sloppy...and self conscientiously wants to use this affair as...
    Differentforever Differentforever 46-50, F 11 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    I am currently six months pregnant as a product of my affair with my best friend. I am currently married for ten years and have three beautiful daughters. My husband is unaware of...
    HisCharmedOne HisCharmedOne 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 5

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    If you asked me a few years ago, I would tell you how horrible an affair is and I looked down on people who had affairs. Now I am the person on the other side, and it's true what...
    Yalaboo Yalaboo 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 7

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    For those of you that know some of my journey, here is an update: As the poster child for the boy who cried wolf, I finally ended my affair. I knew for the first time in 3.5 years...
    pencruz pencruz 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 10

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    How many of you had more than one affair? If yes, do you think you are a serial cheater? I'm having an affair right now, don't ever want to do or experience it again. But I...
    zoey3000 zoey3000 31-35, F 24 Responses Sep 14

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    My last post I wrote about being in a long term affair and how it's affected sex with my H... Lost of desire.. For all of you MM in long term affairs do you feel the same towards...
    Differentforever Differentforever 46-50, F 6 Responses Sep 21

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    I fell off the wagon and emailed him about an hour ago. It's been 3 days of no contact and also since I told him that we can't be friends anymore as keeping a friendship with each...
    Koalaclover Koalaclover 36-40, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am a 30 yo male married for 7 years with my wife (28yo) for 12 years. we have 2 small children (6&4) together. I have been having an affair for approx. 4 months now with a woman...
    DIWK14 DIWK14 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 10

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    Maybe I should get rid of this experience and change to I've had an affair. A very short one that didn't even last a month and we didn't even have sex. Is there an experience...
    lovedaria lovedaria 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    Today she tryed kissing me when she told me that kissing someone with red lipstick would b hot and sexy she pulled me towards her and i laughed and said ikr and pretended as if i...
    Tooweak Tooweak 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    I had an affair with a mw for two years. She told me she just wanted me, and the sex for both was incredible. It replaced both of our sexless marriages. - and you wouldn't...
    TheOtherGuy35 TheOtherGuy35 46-50, M 2 Responses Sep 9

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    When is the right time to finally say good bye???? To end it all?? Is it when you are too emotionally attached? Is it when you feel ignored? Is it when everything your affair...
    zoey3000 zoey3000 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 9

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    Affair is one thing.. having affair before is also another thing.. and sometimes I wonder.. am I trying hard to hurt myself. If only you could simply 'erase' it from your memory...
    SwanLake78 SwanLake78 36-40, F 13 Responses Sep 15

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    I had an affair. He had an affair. He's been talking with someone inappropriately online. I've met someone online who has rocked my world... I need to tell my husband it's over...
    secretsnvrtobetold secretsnvrtobetold 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 15

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    I recently was the "other man" in a woman's life as she had an affair. She was my coworker (and still is). I used a lot of charm to pull her in and she used a lot of body language...
    alextricution alextricution 18-21 Sep 16

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    Question how can you cheaters not regret the pain you cost others. How can you say you don't regret the affair. If you don't regret the affair then your putting yourself before...
    pleasestoplying pleasestoplying 51-55, M 3 Responses Sep 20

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    my story is a long one. i keep it secret, but am haunted by it each day. i still feel scared, and nervous. i went to brazil for a special overseas college for international...
    rainydaytoday rainydaytoday 22-25 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I would appreciate support and advice, no judgements please. Background: I am married almost 10 years, 2 kids. Years of issues with husband, he is a bit better, but I am no longer...
    Sexymamma16 Sexymamma16 31-35, F 9 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm not sure why I keep coming back to EP any more. I met my OW here, and for months after the affair ended I couldn't bring myself to login to EP because there were too many...
    junkfan junkfan 56-60, M 3 Responses Sep 3

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    This weekend will be interesting....well maybe interesting isn't the word I should use. H and kids will be away for the weekend, which leaves me home alone. Home alone for the...
    Suzanne1976 Suzanne1976 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 4

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    Does anyone else find themselves totally confused by their affair? Many of you know that we are both married with no intentions of leaving our spouses. I just find it odd that we...
    surfandturf surfandturf 36-40, F 13 Responses Sep 6

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    Women are beautiful and I am wanting to start an affair but this wife thing is in my way
    rustr8 rustr8 51-55, M 1 Response Sep 6

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    Facebook and affairs am I the only person that can't seem to stay away from his faceBook. It's been well over a year since he ended it although it doesn't hurt like it used to why...
    kittykat150580 kittykat150580 31-35, F 8 Responses Sep 8

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    Hi. This is my first post here. I’m mostly writing this for myself, to help me make sense of my life and my experiences. I realize that this sounds like incredible navel-gazing...
    wh00ami wh00ami 36-40 4 Responses Sep 10

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    Novembermountain, a member of this forum, is in deep dire straits. Her affair broke her spirit. She wants to end her life. PLEASE help her regain her footing!! This life can be...
    marmelade marmelade 51-55, F 3 Responses Sep 12

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