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I Do Not Want to Have An Affair

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    No. Just no. That is not the kind of person I

    want to be. Marriage isn't perfect, but my husband and I are perfect for each other. I don't want to have the mess and heartache that comes with having an affair. Most of all, I don't want to face God after that.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 4

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    How Can I Show My Husband I Really Love Him?

    Every time I join sites like this, my husband worries I'm out looking for someone else.  I'm not.  I just find blogging and sharing experiences very therapeutic.  I do like to flirt.  And I do like to be found attractive and desirable by others.  But that...
    ladydewinter ladydewinter 36-40 2 Responses Nov 20, 2008

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    He's Perfect; For Me.

    He is my soul mate! his imperfections are a reminder to me of my own. I see my reflection when I look at him. I know that we both need each other, and are afraid of that, too. We both are Pisces, and I have looked it up, it is dead on about why we are the way we are with each...
    CarmenDWJ CarmenDWJ 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 29, 2008

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    I Follow What I Believe In

    I don't want to cheat because I believe in what is just. Because I don't feel in case that is a solution. Because I'm faithful, very, to my partner; and to myself.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 19, 2008

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    I Want to Be Someone That Does Not Hurt Others

     I really want to be loving and thoughtful and kind. I do not want to destroy my husband or make him feel pain. I am all he has and all he lives for, so I want to be there for him...someone he can count on and depend on. I do not want him to have to ever worry bout losing me...
    Gelfwings Gelfwings 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 23, 2008

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    I do not want to have one

    and I won't have one, for me its simple I am with the man I chose to be with I love him every moment we have the odd argument or two but not often. He is a very very nice kind hearted man and come to think of it I am a nice woman as well, so I won't be having an affair because...
    louisetiger1 louisetiger1 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 5

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    My story is detailed in other posts

    but just summing up my last 20months of struggle... Unfortunately I couldn't handle my wife's affair and the fact she had sex with someone else... Special they way it happened! I swear I tried every day to let it go but it is way too much for me to handle and for our own good...
    Letsrockit Letsrockit 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 14

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    I've had a few emotional affairs

    and have contemplated a physical affair... Luckily I've had some foresight to see that an affair would be devastating on many levels as they seem to never end well. If you are considering an affair check out the experiences of "I am the other woman". So full of wanting and...
    lovenlearn lovenlearn 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    Forever

    I am only going to get married once. I am married now and it is till death do us part. Even if we fight we can always work things out. I have no reason to cheat nor could I betray my husband. THe guilt would eat me a live.
    firestarterfairy firestarterfairy 22-25, F Mar 21, 2008

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    I'm glad you're among the ones

    who do not want to have an affair! But if you are here because you are about to engage in one, I'm happy that you are looking for answers... I'll start saying that it is never worth it! It is actually a crime against your spouse, your family and yourself! It can feel right at...
    Letsrockit Letsrockit 36-40, M 2 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    Im 19 years old in london and looking for a women where we can talk ang get intimate but nothing too serious so perfect if you want an affair.
    vidzzz vidzzz 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    i am a married man having an affair with another married man. met through an ad on craigslist. we meet through the week in the daytime in public places. we usually use a condom...
    stlguy45 stlguy45 41-45, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I would like to have an affair with a married woman in Dublin. I think a married woman that is neglected has a lot to give and to experience.
    spikeymikey spikeymikey 51-55, M May 3

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    I have a friend like that now. It's been working well so far.
    Asereht Asereht 26-30, F 9 Responses 3 days ago

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    I need more from marriage I'm pretty I'm sexy if the chemisty is right who knows
    naughtyprincess15 naughtyprincess15 26-30, F May 4

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    Any woman here from sarasota or close?
    rickdavissrq rickdavissrq 36-40, M May 18

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    i slept with two married men before i don't feel guilty for it either I'm knot one who cheated they are
    candysissyfag candysissyfag 26-30, T 1 Response May 25

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    Well I have got my on place finally. Still no contact with kids they want have anything to do with me. It hurts so much living without them in my life sometime i just want to end...
    tobad8 tobad8 41-45, M 7 Responses May 20

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    What exactly is stopping you from accomplishing what you want to accomplish in life? What are you doing with your life right now? Is this what you want? Have you tasted failure in...
    LeahLoveeU LeahLoveeU 13-15, F 1 Response May 14

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    1. I am divorced 2. Because of this, I am afraid to be in a new relationship 3. I am 23 years old. 4. I still consider my ex step daughter to be my child and I miss her every...
    lil0miss0sunshine lil0miss0sunshine 22-25, F May 16

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    First of all, please don't judge..I am a good person that did a not-so-good-thing. I fell deeply in love with someone I shouldn't have. He feels the same. We are both with other...
    Catontheroof Catontheroof 31-35, F 2 mins ago

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    Why do I Always become EXTREMELY sexually attracted to the friends of my husband?? My husband has forbidden this one to me for 10 years ( I have had.a few of his friends, like in...
    curiouslylooking4me curiouslylooking4me 31-35, F 2 hrs ago

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    Hi everyone. First, I want to say that i'm not 100% fluent in English so i'm sorry if there's any mistakes. I'm an 18-year-old Saudi girl. I guess you already know what the...
    Hanzix Hanzix 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    Dear Him, Iuse to live my life to the fullest and funniest! But all a sudden since my boyfriend cheated and left me for my best friend in 2012. My world collapsed and heart...
    XxCuTiE14xX XxCuTiE14xX 16-17, F 1 hr ago

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    Dear Him, I use to live my life to the fullest and funniest! But all a sudden since my boyfriend cheated and left me for my best friend in 2012. My world collapsed and heart...
    XxCuTiE14xX XxCuTiE14xX 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I would have married a woman after only knowing her 3 months. I knew I wanted to marry her within 2 weeks. Gladly, I would have loved her forever and laid down in traffic for her...
    Ajushi Ajushi 41-45, M 1 hr ago

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    Okay here we go.. I am gonna do this so I can be a bit clear about who I am. Since sometimes I kinda end up being confused for something else. So let's start: 01. First of all! I...
    AnnaIsMe6 AnnaIsMe6 18-21, T 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    This was about a life altering heartbreak. Someone I care & love very deeply for, which in turn helped me discover what I am about. Please, leave your thoughts. ÔŁĄTrue love is...
    Stickwithmebaby Stickwithmebaby 36-40, F 1 hr ago

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    I'm a married, educated black female and I've been having an affair with a divorced 47 y/o white male. We met online started out as friends just someone to help with my loneliness...
    shessopeachy shessopeachy 36-40, F 57 Responses May 22

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    I had an affair for 11 months. We are both married. He chased after me and told me that he had feelings for me since the first time he saw my picture in our friends room. The...
    tinyturtles20 tinyturtles20 26-30, F 1 Response May 25

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    I had my affair 7 years ago. It lasted about three amazing years! We didn't "hide" it either. I can say that I never felt alive like I did while I was with him. I felt driven...
    StressedOut2 StressedOut2 36-40 1 Response May 11

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    I'm Dying, Husband Affair: I am 32 and have been married to my husband, the love of my life and best friend, for the past five years. A little over a year ago I was diagnosed with...
    Thelaughingman34983 Thelaughingman34983 31-35, M 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    So just need to vent. I have been connecting with this man on ashmad.com and almost had an affair. But I think I'm over it. Whenever I do things I want it done right away or not at...
    brileytallis brileytallis 26-30 May 10

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    Something so simple about online affairs - they can be anything you want / any way you want - without pressure of ruining "reality"
    trinewguy67 trinewguy67 46-50, M May 18

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    Today is hard. The finality of Wednesday is really hitting me now. I don't want my marriage to be over. I know he had an affair, but I'm not ready to be a divorced, single mom...
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3 36-40, F May 25

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    I met a nice girl that wanted me to show on webcam. After I started my cam I liked to see her take off the clothes and let her watch me ***** too. Till then I have showed my self...
    Ruefe87 Ruefe87 26-30, M 1 hr ago

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    Another day starts for me and you you all who read this post. What we search in life? Every day we do some or many things but what we don't realize that life is flowing behind us...
    opennminded13 opennminded13 31-35, M 54 mins ago

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    My affair ended a few months ago. She was found out by her husband and he rang to tell me it was over. Since then......NC. Has been so hard trying to move on with no closure, no...
    welder00 welder00 36-40, M 1 Response May 6

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    Ok, so I posted about a month ago about moving out from my husband. Although we are not 'seperated', I, at the moment, have no intention of going back. So for the last month I have...
    BONBEACHER BONBEACHER 26-30, F 1 Response May 10

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    what would consist of an online affair?
    dgvb2448 dgvb2448 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    I am a married woman with young children who recently ended a long term affair with a single man. The story can be written into a novel. I just want to connect and relate with...
    DannysSong DannysSong 36-40, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Im here because Im so torn. Im having an emotional affair with a friend I've known for over ten years. He is also married. I love my husband and we have a young child. I dont plan...
    salvi56 salvi56 36-40, F 4 Responses May 8

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