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I Do Not Want to Have An Affair

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 132 People

    How Can I Show My Husband I Really Love Him?

    Every time I join sites like this, my husband worries I'm out looking for someone else.  I'm not.  I just find blogging and sharing experiences very therapeutic.  I do like to flirt.  And I do like to be found attractive and desirable by others.  But that...
    ladydewinter ladydewinter 36-40 2 Responses Nov 20, 2008

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    I'm happy with my man

    and I don't believe in cheating. I think cheating is pointless.
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 29

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    I'm glad you're among the ones

    who do not want to have an affair! But if you are here because you are about to engage in one, I'm happy that you are looking for answers... I'll start saying that it is never worth it! It is actually a crime against your spouse, your family and yourself! It can feel right at...
    willgetbetter willgetbetter 36-40, M 2 Responses Oct 29

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    I Follow What I Believe In

    I don't want to cheat because I believe in what is just. Because I don't feel in case that is a solution. Because I'm faithful, very, to my partner; and to myself.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 19, 2008

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    I've had a few emotional affairs

    and have contemplated a physical affair... Luckily I've had some foresight to see that an affair would be devastating on many levels as they seem to never end well. If you are considering an affair check out the experiences of "I am the other woman". So full of wanting and...
    lovenlearn lovenlearn 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 29

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    He's Perfect; For Me.

    He is my soul mate! his imperfections are a reminder to me of my own. I see my reflection when I look at him. I know that we both need each other, and are afraid of that, too. We both are Pisces, and I have looked it up, it is dead on about why we are the way we are with each...
    CarmenDWJ CarmenDWJ 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 29, 2008

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    I Want to Be Someone That Does Not Hurt Others

     I really want to be loving and thoughtful and kind. I do not want to destroy my husband or make him feel pain. I am all he has and all he lives for, so I want to be there for him...someone he can count on and depend on. I do not want him to have to ever worry bout losing me...
    Gelfwings Gelfwings 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 23, 2008

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    Forever

    I am only going to get married once. I am married now and it is till death do us part. Even if we fight we can always work things out. I have no reason to cheat nor could I betray my husband. THe guilt would eat me a live.
    firestarterfairy firestarterfairy 22-25, F Mar 21, 2008

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    I really want an affair with my doctor crush! we exchange looks and giggles, he's even slabbed my *** once, I can't concentrate at work when he's there, I get so wet when I see him...
    dachgirl dachgirl 22-25, F Dec 12

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    I know, that's not supposed to be possible. People say it's not possible, that I'm deluding myself. I'm looking for a way out, I secretly hate her, we must have a sexless...
    roykirk roykirk 41-45, M 2 Responses Nov 23

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    Married but lonely looking for that naughty feeling again.. ;(
    kikthegoodguy11 kikthegoodguy11 31-35, M Nov 24

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    I'm not sure if this is the right place since I am not the girl but rather have a story about one. Sophomore year of 2008 I made a dear friend. She would flow with joy and we'd...
    icingh icingh 22-25, M Nov 25

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    how to convince him to impregnate me? My husband doesn't want haveki ds. He doesn't even love kids in general. I am crazy over kids and just the idea of motherhood makes me cry...
    Lilithov Lilithov 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 29

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    I got caught. Here is my story. I have been married just 3 years (7yr relationship), no kids. i decided to study 1 year away from where my husband and I live. at school is where...
    findingpeace6 findingpeace6 26-30, F 1 hr ago

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    I haven't posted in a while and I hope you are all doing well. Today makes a year since my life was turned upside down. Not by my affair, as it hadn't started yet. But turned...
    Suzanne1976 Suzanne1976 36-40, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Lies have been told, anxiety is kicking in, the risk is massive, and yet the flight is booked and I'm about to hop on a flight in Jan to the other side of the world to see my AP...
    ATH2000 ATH2000 36-40, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I don't want to remember Bill. I don't want to remember my dad calling me a skit. I don't want to remember my husband had an affair. I don't want to remember I did the same thing...
    lehcar1977 lehcar1977 36-40 13 hrs ago

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    Feeling sad and slightly remorseful­čś×. As most of you know my lover and friend has been struggling since his gf found a pic on his phone. Since that day he has been distant...
    nitrolove nitrolove 46-50, F 10 hrs ago

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    Text from MM this morning " I can't explain it, I just can't do this anymore! I tried to tell you that I needed this in the past and I didn't stick to my decision. I am asking you...
    Differentforever Differentforever 46-50, F 9 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I signed up for a cheating site because i was curious. There i met up with a girl that is married, has a kid and lives 2 hours away. We just wanted a adventure but now it's much...
    flip33 flip33 31-35, M 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    So today is a hard day for me. I sent my goodbye message. It's been almost 2 weeks since we last spoke. No reason at all. No disagreement or anything like that. But I have known...
    lovinglife11 lovinglife11 31-35, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I have been married for almost 17 years with 2 children and love my wife and family dearly. 4 years ago I got involved with another woman and the affair carried on until the end of...
    SBMSydney SBMSydney 46-50, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Many people who have been in an affair say that the AP always comes back... He ended the physical affair in early September out of depression and extreme guilt. For about 5 weeks...
    Koalaclover Koalaclover 36-40, F 5 Responses Dec 11

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    I'm an affair success story. In a short period of time, my life took a direction that I never thought possible. I never saw it coming, did things I never thought I was ever capable...
    happyasever happyasever 31-35, F 8 Responses Nov 23

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    I'm married, 2 gorgeous and very little children. Last year I had an affair which ended 2 months ago after 14 months. We got very close and started to plan a life together, but...
    michaelsotherwoman michaelsotherwoman 36-40, F 8 Responses Nov 25

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    After almost 5 months of the most intense ride ever, my affair is over. We were (are) insanely in love with eachother. We were together on Friday the 5th and it was incredible...
    tauriangirl tauriangirl 36-40, F 29 Responses Dec 11

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    Finally, a place to find some comfort. Thank you so much for your story... of course, I draw such similarity to my experience. I have had an affair for almost 4 years and she...
    hearbrokenandlonely hearbrokenandlonely 46-50 5 days ago

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    I'm on the path to healing after breakup from AP. I still miss him and want to be with him sometimes, but most of the time now, I'm glad that he's no longer a part of my life. We...
    Koalaclover Koalaclover 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 9

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    So I'm having or had or having I don't even no anymore, an affair with who I assume is a serial cheater A serial cheater that supposedly loves and and wants to be with me (with an...
    zoey3000 zoey3000 31-35, F 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    My husband is currently having an emotional affair but in denial about it (shocker). I caught him, by emails, having a physical affair with a coworker about 6 months ago...
    welelm welelm 36-40, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Love, You will never read these words I write or know the true depth of grief I feel or how achingly I miss you. I sit out here with the fall weather upon us, the setting sun...
    2ndBruin 2ndBruin 41-45, M 13 Responses Nov 26

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    My heart is aching. I love my affair partner so much. The end is so close I can taste it. My mind was filled of thoughts of him today. He is my true love, the one that got away...
    nitrolove nitrolove 46-50, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    I used to get angry and judge people when I found out they were having an affair. How could they do that to someone they love and who loves them? On top of that I had a...
    LifeinWoodinville LifeinWoodinville 41-45, M 8 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am about to start an affair with a beautiful, sexy, intelligent women I met on EP. I have been with my wife for about 13 years & she has turned into a real *****. I fed up & want...
    LondonKiwi LondonKiwi 46-50, M 9 Responses Nov 23

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    I was partying a lot for a couple months after him and I were over. My body was reaching for that high the affair gave me. But of course with everything, that high eventually...
    ventingagain ventingagain 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 10

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    I had an affair with a woman and we fell in deep love. we were found out, now I'm going through a divorce and the woman I had an affair with has gone silent. my life is a wreck...
    jwl112233 jwl112233 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 28

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    Men in affairs: Do you celebrate your wedding anniversary? If so how? Do you try harder out of guilt if you are having an undisclosed affair or do you try to just get through the...
    just2night just2night 41-45, F 9 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'd like to hear from husbands whose wives are having an emotional affair. What's your experience? I'm also interested in hearing from anyone who has successfully ended an...
    Mike405 Mike405 46-50, M 4 days ago

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    hi.... im not sure if this is the right way to think or not.... help me :) im thinking of trying to have a short term sexual affair to boost my sex drive to save my marriage. Is...
    sexytime2010 sexytime2010 31-35, M 2 Responses Nov 25

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    To all my EP friends, Happy Thanksgiving. If you are in an affair, ending an affair, hurting, depressed, happy, not happy....let's all find something to be thankful for. I am...
    sallyanne44 sallyanne44 41-45, F 7 Responses Nov 27

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    So it's been 4 weeks since we have spoken. I have more good moments than bad these days. I miss him but for those of you trying to get off the crazy train of an affair.....I now...
    sallyanne44 sallyanne44 41-45, F 7 Responses Nov 30

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    I got a call from an old girlfriend of mine, she lives in Tenn so I dont get to see her much. She was in hysterical on the phone, crying so hard I hardly recognized her voice. She...
    Linley242 Linley242 51-55, F 2 Responses Dec 1

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    I have been married for nearly 3 years No├ę. We have two wonderful kids and I love them more than anything. My relationship with my husband is boring I don't know how else to...
    loveopal loveopal 22-25, F 10 Responses Dec 3

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    I've been surrounded by affairs my whole life. Both my mom and dad cheated on each other and my older sister has cheated on her husband. And I think that maybe that is the reason...
    KathyJ304 KathyJ304 26-30, F 18 Responses Dec 10

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    "You men live your lives while it is we who have to wait," says Nelly Ternan (from The Invisible Woman) I guess this is true to all affairs, the infinite waiting. I'm finding...
    stephlee99 stephlee99 26-30, F 18 Responses Dec 12

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    I'd like to hear from a married woman who finally realized that her emotional affair was wrong after years of thinking he was her soulmate. This is my life - for five years my...
    Mike405 Mike405 46-50, M 1 Response a week ago

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