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    I was being super bitchy

    and cranky and disrespectful tonight. Daddy wasn't doing things in the right time frame and was just giving in to me. I went to work with him for a little while and did everything short of throwing a full blown temper tantrum. I don't know if my friend Aunt Flo is coming soon...
    SpoiledRottenBaby SpoiledRottenBaby
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 16, 2016

    just starting out in the lifestyle.

    .. hopefully the beginning of a long and fruitful journey... so lucky to have such a beautiful willing sub in my life... if she continues being a good little sub then she's gonna be allowed to experience everything her heart has ever desired... keep up the good work Kitty xx
    static499 static499
    41-45, M
    1 Response Jan 14, 2016

    BDSM is not about beating the **** out of the

    other person… it’s not about one having all the rights, and giving none to the other. BDSM is about love, is about protecting and caring about each other. BDSM is the ultimate love, where you surrender your whole self to one another.
    darkpassion darkpassion
    22-25, M
    1 Response Sep 29, 2014

    I'm supposed to be getting my maintenance soon

    but daddy fell asleep on me... if I wake him up how much trouble do you think I'll be in? I'm willing to find out, it's not like I have anything else to do until he goes to work
    SpoiledRottenBaby SpoiledRottenBaby
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 24, 2015

    Spanked ouchie So I got it tonight!

    Otk with the strop, bath brush, and his hand. It hurts really bad. It was so bad I have little blisters on my bottom. I keep getting them every time lately. I wonder why they happen. I made the mistake of not doing what he told me this morning and then mouthing off to him. I...
    RsBrat RsBrat
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Oct 12, 2015

    My email is happyhello39@gmail.

    com Let's keep in touch.
    RsBrat RsBrat
    41-45, F
    Apr 14, 2016

    These thoughts and beliefs are what D/s means

    to me. Many will disagree, argue, or simply clarify. But this is how I feel in my heart and in my mind. The Dominant submissive lifestyle is about evolution and change. Both the Dom and sub grow and evolve as they dance together in a sensual, erotic exhibition that weaves...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Jul 20, 2014

    Normally my daddy will allow me to have pop

    just to indulge me but since the New Year started it has been cut out my life completely. I LOVE Pepsi but I can only have juice now and I'm so mad about it. How would you feel if your HOH denied you something like this?
    SpoiledRottenBaby SpoiledRottenBaby
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 11, 2016

    I have a question for others in the lifestyle.

    ..since meeting Master and exploring different sexual flavors it discovered that depending on the session and the venue, Master slave gets sick to its stomach :( anyone else experience this? its not all the time and it feels its a reaction to pain. In the past it never dealt with...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 17, 2015

    I am a dominant. I found myself having a

    conversation the other day about the lifestyle, and got asked a question I get a quite often ( as a male 5'4" in height and 145lbs my lifestyle surprises many) " why are you a dominant, and what exactly is a dominant?" For as long as I can remember, I've always had a way of...
    MasterKush25 MasterKush25
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Jan 27, 2016

    Im not in a relationship like this

    but i crave it. I crave to be dominated and be put in my place Is that weird?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    11 Responses Aug 27, 2014

    an experienced dom looking

    for a willing female sub
    1bigbeardaddy 1bigbeardaddy
    51-55
    Aug 27, 2015

    I need a daddy who cares about me,

    who takes me out and calls me his good girl, who keeps me in bed half the day, tied up, waiting for him, who plays with me and uses me and shows me off. I need a daddy who can strap me down and screw me and take me to bed every night.
    catholicschoolgirl93 catholicschoolgirl93
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jul 4, 2014

    Sometimes be gentle. Sometimes be rough.

    ALWAYS be in control. This is what baby girl needs, wants, and must have.
    darkpassion darkpassion
    22-25, M
    1 Response Aug 3, 2014

    It Isn'T Always Easy

    Being a submissive isn't always easy. It's much easier for me to be submissive in the bedroom than in our day to day lives. It's easy for me to let him take control sexually but very hard for me to give him control when we aren't in the bedroom. But I've been trying very hard to...
    TheSubmissiveWife101 TheSubmissiveWife101
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Oct 15, 2013

    So I guess my daddy is mad at me,

    I haven't really talked to him since yesterday and he's been out almost all day without me. I feel bad because I know I did something. What should I do to make it up to him?
    SpoiledRottenBaby SpoiledRottenBaby
    22-25, F
    Dec 18, 2015
    Christuner666 Christuner666
    31-35, M
    Dec 2, 2015

    I was sound asleep, I awoke to the feeling of

    cool air all over my body and realized I didn't have on any covers, I reached to pull them back over my naked body...my efforts were thwarted as he put his hands on my hips and pulled me up into position, I arched my back slightly as he slipped inside me. With a rhythmic rocking...
    247slave4u 247slave4u
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Mar 4, 2014

    It's been awhile since I have been on here.

    A lot has happened since I last posted. New job, my masters business is starting to take off, kids, and family. Between it all we are super busy. He has instructed me that I need to post on here twice a week plus going forward every time after a punishment. Right now he is...
    RsBrat RsBrat
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Oct 7, 2015

    Trying to be good- it's not easy Well I have

    tried to be super good. It's really difficult and requires me to focus. Good news is besides some small spankings, I have been able to slide by with not much punishment. Here is the sucky part: I am still in trouble for the things I did before, just haven't been able to get the...
    RsBrat RsBrat
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Mar 11, 2016

    Some time I want a sub

    so I can snap my fingers an say lick until I stop them mmmmm sounds like fun
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    11 Responses Sep 18, 2014

    Dominants are not great

    because of their technique but because of their passion, honor and integrity. Submissives are not great because of their obedience but because of their love, trust and devotion.
    darkpassion darkpassion
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Aug 31, 2014
    Sweetbuns12 Sweetbuns12
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Aug 29, 2014

    I've been on here for months

    and nobody wants to be my daddy Dom, tie me up and use me, love to get me off in public, allow me to take pleasure in giving him pleasure. I am dropping at the thought of being someone's good obedient dirty baby girl.
    catholicschoolgirl93 catholicschoolgirl93
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Dec 8, 2014

    I'm probably the most spoiled baby EVER.

    I hate when my daddy is at work and I have to lay in bed by myself and try to go to sleep. I always need to next to him or getting my back rubbed or I get super cranky. If it's past my bedtime and I'm on my phone he'll take it and I just feel so submissive after that. We get to...
    SpoiledRottenBaby SpoiledRottenBaby
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 18, 2016

    what a great way to go to sleep,

    right after an argument. the energy in the room still tense. after a night of tossing and turning the alarm goes off.. hopefully you slept the fight off from the night before baby girl. as I am getting ready for work, I find myself watching you sleep so peacefully. I approach...
    MasterKush25 MasterKush25
    26-30, M
    1 Response Feb 1, 2016
    BeautifulSoul408 BeautifulSoul408
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Apr 29, 2014

    One day I would love a Dom/Master

    as a boyfriend. -- I like trouble. No, I love trouble and I want it so badly. I would love to meet a guy who makes me back up into a wall in fear-driven lust and I want him to be mine. I want him to be very dominant, a bit sadistic too. NOT sexxually (I mean, yes that too). But...
    SubmissiveSecrets SubmissiveSecrets
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Oct 6, 2014

    I have several male subs

    and a pretty sissy on kik and skype and i really love it
    MagentaLace MagentaLace
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Dec 18, 2013

    today's been rough on her,

    mentally and emotionally. Torn between dreams and reality. It hurts me to know MY baby girl is dealing with this and I am not physically able to be there to help and support her through this time. so I I'm sending my love through thoughts on paper. -baby girl The first time I...
    MasterKush25 MasterKush25
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jan 26, 2016

    To all wanna be dominants.

    .....submissives and slaves are very different people http://www.submissiveguide.com/2009/01/the-differences-between-bottom-masochist-submissive-and-slave/ this may help
    butterflywings00001 butterflywings00001
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Aug 5, 2014

    The only experience I'd ever had in the D/s

    lifestyle was with my most recent ex boyfriend, just before we broke up. I saw his computer filled with videos and bdsm stories and the day he found me in front of his computer while I was in the middle of "making myself happy," I had never felt more turned on than I did that...
    SubmissiveSecrets SubmissiveSecrets
    22-25, F
    12 Responses Jul 19, 2014

    I can't believe I'm doing this

    but I recently came to terms with the fact that the idea of submission is a complete turn on.. Have always liked a guy to take control but curious about the lifestyle...
    Makeme117 Makeme117
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Jul 26, 2014

    I have tried finding dominants online

    and recently it seems lots of people pretend to be one or say they know. I just want a Dom that will take the time to explain before getting into it. I'm new obviously, but I really am willing to learn and be punished if necessary. I'm also open-minded. I recently found this...
    Jeax Jeax
    26-30, F
    6 Responses May 1, 2014

    Just a quick question

    but how many male submissives are on here? U don't have to comment, please heart my response if poss please. I won't judge as I'm a female submissive and NO I'm not looking for a dominant thank you
    butterflywings00001 butterflywings00001
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jul 22, 2014

    Any dons in DC looking

    for a little girl to come home to? One who will wait at the door on her knees, mouth open, clothes off, who will cook you dinner as you use her, who wants you to tuck her in with a goodnight kiss
    catholicschoolgirl93 catholicschoolgirl93
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jan 21, 2016

    With my old submissive gone,

    I am now looking for new applicants who are in need of some domination in their life. If interested go ahead and add me to your circle and shoot me a message. Though I apologize to you males, but I am a straight man.
    Smexified Smexified
    22-25, M
    1 Response Feb 3, 2016

    Two days ago I had the entire world,

    everything I have ever wanted, desired, needed. The true feeling of completeness, no empty spaces, no feeling of hollowness. Baby girl spending the day with you and the little one. Just talking, enjoying the comfort of each others soul. I felt stronger than I have ever felt...
    MasterKush25 MasterKush25
    26-30, M
    Jan 30, 2016

    You subbs out there better cook,

    clean, and take care of your crazy Doms.. :O! Doms can be so demanding and ANNOYING, but I love it. Lol ! xoxoSS .
    SubmissiveSecrets SubmissiveSecrets
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Oct 6, 2014

    "If any man claiming to be a “Dom” makes

    any submissive feel nervous, fearful, pressured or on edge, I would advise that submissive to calmly excuse herself to use the washroom and then make a direct line to the nearest exit and never look back. The voice you are hearing inside your head is millions of years of...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response May 11, 2014

    I want my daddy, he's been all day

    and I want to cuddle. I'm super spoiled but it's totally his fault.. when he gets back home I'm going to jump in his arms and kiss his face 100 times.
    SpoiledRottenBaby SpoiledRottenBaby
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 5, 2016

    I'm a sub to my master.

    I do everything he ever asks. He wants me to have s*x with a stranger. Sure. Do the dishes. Sure. Not wear a ***** of clothing. Sure. Even his latest demand, where he's modifying me with tattoos, piercing and implants (pm for details) I'm running along with. I love it
    GeorgieLives GeorgieLives
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Jul 22, 2014

    Sunday - no fun day So Saturday was a big

    training day. And then even after I thought things running smoothly and he he still remained super strict. I got a really really big spanking Saturday evening. Wow was it a big one. Afterwards we had a great night and it was just great. Sunday is when it all went wrong. He...
    RsBrat RsBrat
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jul 27, 2015

    I give up!!! I can't tans anyone serious about

    this !! They all go straight for the sex and don't take romance or my feelings into consideration
    Sweetbuns12 Sweetbuns12
    26-30, F
    12 Responses Aug 29, 2014
    RsBrat RsBrat
    41-45, F
    Mar 27, 2016
    Sweetbuns12 Sweetbuns12
    26-30, F
    8 Responses Aug 20, 2014

    I am meeting with my first master tomorrow.

    .. Is there someone I can talk to about what's going to happen because I'm really nervous
    babygirl4u99 babygirl4u99
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 13, 2016

    I am home for a week of spring break

    so I really need to step up my submissive Suzy homemaker ways.... This morning I woke up to Him using my mouth, I helped him finish and then ran up to the kitchen to make his lunch before he went to work. I cleaned the house from top to bottom, did two loads of laundry, put...
    247slave4u 247slave4u
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Mar 24, 2014

    I don't know what it was yesterday.

    I was just off. I met my husband somewhere, he was picking up furniture. Truck is loaded and i mention i want to follow him to the drop off. He proceeds to tell me it's not a good idea as it's a waste of gas and I need to start dinner. I told him i just wanted to get out for a...
    silencedshy silencedshy
    26-30, F
    13 Responses Jun 5, 2015

    Handmade BDSM Toys & Collars!

     https://www.etsy.com/shop/KinkyCustomCollars
    SirsKnottyGirl SirsKnottyGirl
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 8, 2015

    Redefined our relationship without having a say.

    So I guess my sir decided to go all super Dom on me and added three new rules. He wants a total power exchange. Which I honestly don't see how we can do that with kids and very full time jobs. He says I don't get rights or decisions and he will train me to be the way he...
    RsBrat RsBrat
    41-45, F
    7 Responses Mar 7, 2016

    I just got the hardest

    and fastest maintenance of my life.. my daddy was headed to work and as we were texting I told him I was grumpy and needed hugs. He told me to come open the door and bent me over on the steps and table and smacked my little behind so hard but it served its purpose. Then he left...
    SpoiledRottenBaby SpoiledRottenBaby
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 2, 2015

    Trouble trouble trouble So I am in trouble

    again. But I don't think it's that big of a deal and he is acting like I am in for it big time. He is still at work and he said that I am in trouble because I went somewhere without permission today. I just went to lunch with my friend. It was fast and down the store from work...
    RsBrat RsBrat
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Oct 8, 2015

    My first awakenings into the adult were of

    submission. My fantasies always involved me in a situation where a man is in control of me. I really have never had any desire for normality. or a boyfriend.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    9 Responses Jul 12, 2014

    I need answers from the Doms

    and Heads of Household.. Where do you normally buy your implements from?Is there a specific store or website you like best?
    SpoiledRottenBaby SpoiledRottenBaby
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 22, 2015

    I live as a slave in my everyday life I love

    my master and he is very good to me . He punishes me when I need it. He ***** me like I like it as a treat . I have rules and this is how we fell in love:)
    crissy219 crissy219
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 14, 2014

    wow...I just read a post

    and replied...I find myself enraged and cant locate the post again. It was about a woman who had recently gotten married. put some negative comments of social media and then her husband slapped her around. She then proceeded to say "next time" can you hit my thighs etc to which...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 28, 2015

    I have been a super good girl.

    It's been a long weekend and now a long week begins. I am not feeling good. Grrrrr
    RsBrat RsBrat
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Nov 9, 2015

    My name is Natatlie. I am very submissive

    and I need someone dominant in my life. I need someone not afraid to smack me when I'm disrespectful, someone who will gladly turn me over their knee and beat my bare *** for misbehavior. Message me - lets have fun.
    NaughtyNatalie1 NaughtyNatalie1
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Oct 22, 2014

    Just thought i'd clarify - online IS real.

    They still get into our minds and our hearts, and while we may miss out on the physical aspects of D/s we also miss out on most of the (potentially very real) risks associated with dodgy real-time Doms and Masters. If you think it's a poor substitute for real-time that's up to...
    BSTisapain BSTisapain
    51-55, F
    Aug 14, 2014
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