I Don'T Judge Others Since I Am Not At All Perfect

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    It doesn't matter what people see in you,

    if you can not see the same, there is no meaning.
    ReflectivMind ReflectivMind
    Jan 23, 2016

    Why judge others when you're not perfect ?

    Everybody has flaws and no one is 100% perfect .
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    1 Response Jan 23, 2016

    It is not how I was raised.

    I know there are a lot of people out there hiding the pain and suffering that they are feeling. They put on a smile and go about there day, and when no one is looking they cry for hours. I used to do that with my first marriage. My ex was never home, always at the bar, or...
    Goober71 Goober71
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Oct 8, 2015

    I only judge the actions directed at me

    personally. .who can judge a persons thought or intent ?
    dlharris dlharris
    41-45, M
    1 Response Jul 19, 2015

    It's truly not fare to judge coz people should

    do whatever they want :) I wear girls stuff and still need diapers/nappies at night so can't judge anyone anyway
    littlelucy100 littlelucy100
    31-35, M
    Nov 7, 2015

    To be honest I only judge people

    if they offend me or harm me personally. I try not to judge anyone straight away. But I'm not one of those people who judge someone for how they look and I don't judge religion, sexuality or race! 😘 👬👭🙏
    pikachuux pikachuux
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 18, 2014

    If you've read my recent post entitled " I

    still love life despite all the Bullshit it sends my way" you will know the reason I don't judge others. It's so easy to make fun at someone , because there different from you. We seem as a society to pick on those we see are not the same as us. I know I've copped my share for...
    deleted deleted
    Jan 27, 2014

    You can tell me anything

    and I promise I will not judge you. Liars knows I have made many mistakes and will continue to make more I am sure.
    Crystal39 Crystal39
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Nov 21, 2015

    Actually I do judge people.

    Its a basict naturalistic survival instinct. Every simple thing we do is based on judgement, down to what day you want to clip your Damn toe nails! People say they don't judge out loud, but in their heads they're judging. Whilst reading this you're judging me.
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    1 Response Oct 20, 2015

    Have you had tramatic relationships?

    I want to hear your stories.
    Slinkyfun Slinkyfun
    51-55, F
    1 Response Mar 1, 2016
    fattenedforthanksgivingdiner fattenedforthanksgivingdiner
    61-65, M
    Nov 20, 2015

    well I may have made a dumb mistake.

    my new man of 6 months has a Std and I let his body part touch mine with no protection. now I'm freaking out and the more I read the more i may be making it worse. It's only been a week and I know it's to early to test and I don't have any symptoms. damn how could I have...
    mynewlife2016 mynewlife2016
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Apr 11, 2016

    If I were perfect, where would I find the

    challenge? If I applied judgment, a finger most assuredly would point right back at myself. There was only one perfect person who walked this earth and he is on an extended vacation.
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    2 Responses Jul 1, 2015

    You're part of the lgbtq community?

    Okay. You only have one arm? Okay. You don't have much money? Okay. You watch anime? That's cool. You used to cut, or still do? Okay. You've attempted suicide? Okay. You don't like Grilled cheese? Okay. You dip your french fries in mayo? That's cool, but kinda weird Lol. I'm not...
    ExploreroftheUnknown ExploreroftheUnknown
    18-21, M
    1 Response Mar 1, 2016

    I see these groups and the posts

    and look at them like Seriously??? There are very few people in this world that do not judge others and they usually end up hurt or dead. . I judge the hell out of people - are you safe to be around my kids? Will you lie to me and use me? Are you an a$$hole with narcissistic...
    evienneOwnedByMasterBlaise evienneOwnedByMasterBlaise
    41-45, F
    1 Response Nov 7, 2015

    I love my kids. live is hard with

    but without them is unimaginable.
    athena1991 athena1991
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Apr 10, 2015

    I try my best not to become judgemental on

    others, no matter religious or atheist, nor is my intention to condemn. I do however try to show what I understand through my experiences and understanding , and say my view of things. I believe in god , have love for god. There are those who have rid me as in blocking or...
    Stephenrko Stephenrko
    36-40, M
    1 Response Jan 16, 2015

    I always hate when people judge others without

    knowing them. It just ****** me tf off, now I'm not religious but I feel that this is expressed with a quote from the bible: "He who has no sin, casts the first stone". It's just not fair to judge people without giving them a fair chance.
    briiiiidgeeeeeet briiiiidgeeeeeet
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 19, 2015

    Who am i to judge on anyone.

    Seriously as most people judge on me although i never did that towards them. I'm not a drama person ever. It is just being a 36 years old guy who lived his life with both bad&good issues at. I can keep talking with both gender in all age without have any issue from whatever they...
    joemane36 joemane36
    36-40, M
    1 Response Dec 11, 2015

    Why judge others' imperfections,

    when I have plenty of my own imperfections? And I certainly don't like being judged, so why be hypocritical, and judge others?
    Wolflover1999 Wolflover1999
    18-21, M
    1 Response Nov 13, 2015

    My rule is as long as you are not harming others

    or yourself....it is not my place to pass judgement.
    meri1090 meri1090
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Mar 21, 2016

    it is impossible to judge others

    because I don't know what that person is going through or went through.
    bgirl1978 bgirl1978
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Feb 27, 2015

    Fat? Bad grades? Drop out?

    It's better to have flaws than be perfect; it makes us all more interesting. Even if you're working to resolve the problem, people will go after you for it. All you have to do is remember one thing: "Just keep swimming, just keep swimming" - Dory, Finding Nemo.
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    Sep 13, 2014

    hey when you pointing a finger @ someone

    Remember your other fingers are pointing back @ you....who am I to judge
    ojeezy ojeezy
    26-30, M
    2 Responses May 2, 2015
    nath2281 nath2281
    16-17, F
    1 Response Mar 18, 2016
    HappyUnicorns239 HappyUnicorns239
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Mar 19, 2016

    Well maybe that's not quite the reason I dont

    judge others, though I am definitely not perfect. I don't judge because rarely do we ever know what it is like to walk in another's shoes. We try. We empathise. But we are doing that with our own set of personal and social constructs and life experiences. I am truly intrigued...
    Friendlygirl84 Friendlygirl84
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 22, 2015

    I don't believe ANYONE has the "right" to judge

    anyone else! And I don't. I may not feel another person's kinks or life style acts are things I'D ever do, but it is their right to do them. And if whatever they're doing makes them happy, and doesn't hurt others, then who am I, or anyone else, to judge them!
    craverandscarlett craverandscarlett
    70+, M
    7 Responses Feb 1, 2016

    I judge everyone and everything.

    Judgment is a method of prediction and can be used for good or bad. You can easily see a person and think that they are a total jerk or they must be a pretty chill person.
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jul 2, 2015

    Why do we judge people based on their

    appearances? So what if that person's nose is big? They can't help the way they were born. Or if their teeth are crooked. Some people have to worry about their next meal instead of paying for braces. It doesn't matter if they're skinny and tall or thick and short. Your features...
    ImAlivingParadox ImAlivingParadox
    22-25, F
    4 Responses May 12, 2015

    I may have my flaws,

    but I would never bully someone for how they choose to live their life
    annonymous56 annonymous56
    16-17, F
    1 Response Sep 6, 2015

    Life is so much more peaceful

    when you mind your own business and don't complain about other people. XD
    ifearsnowmen ifearsnowmen
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jul 19, 2015

    I don't judge anyone

    because i have this special sense with which i can feel how it feels to be in someone's shoes & looking at life from that person's perspective .I love this special talent of mine
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    Jan 2, 2016

    This one kind of speaks

    for itself. I'm not perfect. I've never claimed to be perfect, so there's not reason to judge those that are also not perfect. If, however, I ever come across you and you truly are perfect....you won't be for long....(insert evil laugh here).
    luketepid luketepid
    56-60, M
    1 Response Mar 10, 2016

    People should always be careful of their words

    because the tongue is a deadly sword. #if you're not for me you must be against me. Talking about friends is judgment, unless you can walk on water please don't judge me. If rather be alone then surrounded by fake friends.
    TooUnbearable TooUnbearable
    41-45, F
    1 Response Apr 21, 2014

    I don't know if I got this from a movie

    or a book or whatever but I remember the saying, "Don't judge others before you judge yourself." and it always stuck with me
    blackheartlover blackheartlover
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 30, 2015

    my messages what I put on here I do not tell

    lies and fibs I totally tell the truth
    kittybaby1968age3 kittybaby1968age3
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Feb 27, 2016

    I don't judge people I am No

    where near perfect I believe that everybody is Beautiful.... but what I don't like is people judging me, looking all into my life like it's for them I am completely who I am and I'm proud nobody voices matter anymore but mine
    michaelaelise12 michaelaelise12
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 4, 2014
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    Jul 16, 2015
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    Feb 25, 2016

    I am a very sensitive & emotional person with

    mental health issues hi got judge by the person who I was trying to build a the relationship with . the person on EP he judge my messages and my phone chat with the person who I was building the relationship with i meet on EP
    kittybaby1968age3 kittybaby1968age3
    46-50, M
    Feb 27, 2016

    Someone unfollowed me on Instagram.

    There ig post had the caption "short thick girls win at life" I replied something like "all sizes are equal, no size is better than the other" then they unfollowed me... All sizes win at life tbfh. It's harder to control height than weight but some people can't control weight...
    xcheyennexsmithx xcheyennexsmithx
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 8, 2016

    "No one is perfect, rather a perfect marriage

    is about two imperfect people who never give up on each other."
    hiddentears hiddentears
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Nov 7, 2015
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