I Don't Add Everyone

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 458 People

    I Try to Be Careful

    I have a lot more "fans" than I do "friends" because I won't add someone just because they want me to.  There has to be activity on their profile, experiences, friends, stories... I get requests from some who have nothing on their profile at all...how do...
    purpleriz purpleriz
    51-55, F
    May 27, 2009


    I don't add everyone. I want to add people that actually make contact and try to know me. If all you send is a friend request without trying to message then your not getting added. I am not here to have the most people or a popularity contest. I am here to share experiences and...
    Allwaysthink825 Allwaysthink825
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 8, 2013

    Usually people just inbox me

    for one chat and no more. This is a very fickle place. My longer term EP friends are getting more and more rare in their responses to my messages and gestures, while they add more and more new friends to have new conversations with. If we do talk, it's usually because they...
    GreenButtercup GreenButtercup
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Mar 4, 2015

    A Few, Albeit Strict, Exceptions

    My exceptions are very few, but they're serious: #1. No poop. Poop is, well, poop. I believe it belongs down the drains, a.s.a.p. Diapers, nappies, etc are just not my thing. #2. No men older than 60. I'm bi and I like people of all ages, but it's a bit intimidating for me, for...
    deleted deleted
    Apr 27, 2012

    No Cold Callers

    Please don't be offended if I don't add you straight away. Equally don't expect to PM me out of the blue when we've never had any contact before and get a warm welcome :)It just pays to be cautious. For all I know, you're someone I knew before with a new avatar coming back to...
    FallenAngelWOOT FallenAngelWOOT
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 18, 2012

    In fact, sometimes I

    even remove people from my circle. Some may take offense, but that isn't my intention. Recently my circle has been feeling too big, so I will be removing some people from it. This is a heads-up for those of you who care. I hope you are all having a wonderful holiday season.
    FindMeElsewhere FindMeElsewhere
    Dec 10, 2015

    When I try to be more inclusive,

    it always backfires. I end up with some really rude people who just want to suck off me like a leech, while pretending that they will be there for me at the same time. I don't have that kind of energy. There are some really decent people here too, but they are hard to find...
    GreenButtercup GreenButtercup
    36-40, F
    Feb 19, 2015

    I Dont Add Every To Be My Friend

    I dont add every one that trys to friend me if you have nasty pictures or you leave me nasty comentsyou will be blocked its not personal . but grow up!
    lunnas lunnas
    41-45, F
    Aug 21, 2011

    Too Sweet...

    I don't add people who give off too much of an "innocent" vibe... Wherever they go in certain groups... Pretending to be all sweet and ****; but really are not what they "appear" to be after their true colours are revealed later on... I like people who can say the "F-word"... I...
    indigowitch indigowitch
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Apr 25, 2012

    After reading the profiles

    and a brief talk!
    deleted deleted
    Sep 27, 2014

    Ep Friends

    Re -posting this*************************Just want to say I am not accepting any friends. It's nothing personal, I just find it's too time-consuming keeping up to date with friends' activities. I don't mind having fans.  Anyone who really wishes to get in contact is welcome to...
    vector8 vector8
    51-55, F
    Dec 10, 2012

    If I Don't Add You

    It's nothing personal (unless you are a pervert) I just don't add everyone who fans me. I like to have something in common with people in my circle, or to of been talking in the Q+A with them. I really won't add you if your a member of lots of sex groups because I'm not here for...
    Gemzaayy Gemzaayy
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Feb 22, 2012

    Used To, Not Anymore. (send A Message Before Adding Me)

    I had to shorten my circle because it was waaay too large. As a result, I ended up deleting a lot of people I liked but stopped talking to. If you are one of those and want to start talking to me again, please don't be afraid to message me ;) I don't bite. Also, I get adds by...
    righteouschica righteouschica
    22-25, F
    Oct 24, 2012

    I Just Dont

    i dont add everyone #1:your not worth my add #2: you will stay on my friends list forever and never talk to me #:3 i just dont want to
    iDry iDry
    22-25, F
    Nov 29, 2011

    Actually I don't add anyone anymore.

    I just find it easier that way. If someone wants to add me that's fine. If u don't speak to me and/or respond to my post OR ur profile is highly sexual I'm going to remove myself from ur circle. There's no point in adding someone u don't talk to or even comment on their post.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Nov 3, 2015

    I Am Looking For A Female Hat Doesn't Add Everyone For A Loving Anr Or Abf Relationship In Tampa Bay, Fl.

    I am a Single White Male Searching For Open Minded Female In Tampa Bay, Fl . I am a single white male age 58 searching for an open minded female in Tampa Bay, Florida. If you are out there give me a buzz so that we can chat?
    deleted deleted
    Nov 28, 2013

    I play by own rules here -

    as much as I have heard from the others, I decide to go towards adding people my own gender because I believe its better socializing with. The other reason why I seem to have only added females but some males in exception is because of how males approach females is what scares...
    iiTetraLoh iiTetraLoh
    18-21, F
    Nov 2, 2015

    Dark Personality

    I don't add everyone. I have been learning about the secrets of some profiles. Not only about those who profess they are all into sexual pleasures. Those who have sexual stories flooding their profiles. Also with the those who have hates and full of dark stories and threatening...
    ladyryan ladyryan
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Apr 25, 2012

    Never understood the point.

    I dont even talk to the 3 that I have on my friends list anyway. Not because I don't want to, it's just that new people to this place fill their list and then get bored and leave. Sad huh.
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum
    36-40, F
    Jan 15, 2015

    Disrespectful Replies

    I have only had one disrespectful reply, but it has made me careful and wary..thankfully I am in the older age group whom I think are more respectful.. well I hope so.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Nov 7, 2011

    Never Be Presumptious

    Right folks, to avoid any awkwardness I have something to say about friend or especially circle requests directed toward me I am NOT taking any requests from folk with all red dotted profiles or those who  to be blunt just want me as jerk off material and I WILL bar you...
    CarolineBelinda CarolineBelinda
    36-40, F
    3 Responses May 1, 2009


    I appreciate absolutely everyone that fans me, however I'm not just going to add everyone. I look at your profile, your circle, your stories and your experiences. All of those reflect the kind of person you are just as the people I bring into my circle reflect the kind of person...
    FordPrefect42 FordPrefect42
    41-45, M
    18 Responses Mar 10, 2011


    I dont add everyone who fans me. Especially if the first thing I see is, I want to **** you from behind. Sry, these dont fly. There are other times I might forget but I dont add everyone. Sry.
    deleted deleted
    May 22, 2011

    If people are actually respectful

    and take the time to interact with me, then I am likely to add them.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 10, 2015

    Most I Don't

    I have a new fan almost everytime time I log on. I used to add them. Sometimes I still add them back but mostly I don't. I just don't thik I'll be able to make friends on here like I did before.
    Achilles1989 Achilles1989
    22-25, M
    10 Responses Aug 28, 2010
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