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I Don't Add People to My Circle Just Because They Add Me

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    Just because you add me,

    it doesn't mean I will add you. I have to get to know you first. There are lots of freaks and pedophiles on here and I don't want those kind of people talking to me. Much less being my friend.
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F May 30, 2014

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    If you add me, I'll message you

    and we can talk, but only when we actually get to know eachother will I add you back, that is, if I like you aha...or I might add you straight away if your profile is interesting and you have some good stories, but I'll still talk to you too☺️
    loveyourselfalwaysxx loveyourselfalwaysxx 13-15, F Jul 1, 2014

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    No offense guys. But I add someone I talked

    with him or her before so I know I can trust them that they don't send weird Sh*t to me.
    Julia1600 Julia1600 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    I Won't Do It

    If you add me to your circle I will check out your profile before I add you to my circle. If I lread your profile and see that we have nothing in common, no shared experience groups, or you are interested in groups that I am not interested in, then I will not add you. It's as...
    americanwitch americanwitch 36-40, F 8 Responses Oct 31, 2012

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    Ill only add people to my circle

    if it's someone I talk with often or enough and enjoy talking with them.
    ImAProudAries ImAProudAries 18-21, F Apr 24, 2014

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    It's funny that it tends to be the perverts

    who add me to their circle. Then they'll send a message: "Hi" "Hey" "Wassup" or some one-or-two-word variation of those. They have a raging sense of entitlement when it comes to the people on this site adding them back. With me, I feel that you really have to PROVE yourself...
    Boulier Boulier 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 31, 2014

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    If we become friends then i add them

    but only after we talk haha
    jesikahluv jesikahluv 18-21, F Aug 29, 2014

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    I see people adding me

    and some of them have profiles I cannot view due to filtering out adult profiles. Many I can see, I wonder why they added me because it seems like we are not into the same things and not even the same field of things, but if they wanna add me, oh well. I don't add people just...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 18, 2014

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    I still cant understand

    that why people add me their circle? What is the meaning of circle ? Should i thank u people because of circled me? :)))
    fauxlady fauxlady 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 29, 2014

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    I have many 'fans'. I've been added to

    so many peoples' circle, but I've never really heard from them. Except to randomly heart one of my stories. It's like big brother watching you times 100 and rising, lol. I've made the effort to extend a warm hello to these individuals, but a good number of them don't respond...
    AquariusLife AquariusLife 26-30, F 6 Responses Dec 2, 2014

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    iStalk

    I can't see why should I, and I'm not excepting everyone who I "fan" to add me as a friend. To me the thing about adding people is that it is easier to keep up with what they have written lately that way. People who seem to have interesting lives to share in their stories or...
    Fearofsilence Fearofsilence 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 8, 2010

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    gorgeoushobo gorgeoushobo 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 1, 2014

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    I don't add men... I'm married.

    I don't private message men. We can all talk in the public pages just fine without being buddy buddy. My Life is simpler with only female friends.
    MommysGotTats420 MommysGotTats420 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 4

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    I Won't

    I've had many people adding me.  I'm not obliged accepting.  If we never spoke before or interacted in stories, Q&A or white board, I won't accept.  If I accept someone and after a while, I see there's nothing between us, not even a word, I will delete.  I don't want to add...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 11, 2011

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    Its Not That I Don't Appreciate It

    I take my personal safety very seriously. And there are some characters around here that I will keep at arms length if i feel like it. I don't care if i offend you for not reciprocating the gesture. I am not here to please random strangers. I am here for me. If i feel that we...
    violet1698 violet1698 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 17, 2013

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    To Add Or Not To Add...that Is The Question

    By no means am I saying everyone is a troll. This is actually a positive message. Some think that just sending an add 'gets you in' to my small circle.  Nope.  That sounds too much like facebook behaviors. Please communicate in some fashion as to 'why' you think we belong in...
    gotsalsa gotsalsa 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 17, 2012

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    Please Don't Be Offended If I Don't Add You

    I agree, I will not add people to my Circle just because they added me, I myself will not be offended if they don't add me and I hope they will not be either.
    Behopefull Behopefull 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 1, 2011

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    Especially the fake ones,

    they are easy to spot and I just want to punch them. Also, why would you add me if we have never have a conversation and you haven't commented on my stuff?
    AlainaD2002 AlainaD2002 13-15, F Jan 2

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    Yeah. And quit asking me to add you

    as well if we've barely talked. It usually takes weeks.
    WintersSoldier WintersSoldier 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 13, 2014

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    Sorry but I don't add people

    until I know them. But if you post experience I find odd I won't add you
    LovelyDeadly LovelyDeadly 18-21, F Jul 19, 2014

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    Please do not add me

    if you have never chatted with me.
    forestgirl forestgirl 31-35, F Jun 17, 2014

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    I don't always add people back

    who add me I get random people added me to their circle every other day and nothing against the members but most people who add me I find their profiles are distasteful for my liking or I don't add back because I do not want to be friends with a person just to be in their big...
    PetiteChica PetiteChica 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 21

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    That was not the case till this morning.

    I looked at my friends list and noticed I talked to two people. I decided to clean out my circle and remove some people.
    GrimCreeper0150 GrimCreeper0150 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 28

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    I appreciate when someone finds something

    beneficial in my posts or comments and interacts with me. What I do not understand is why people add others to their circle but do not at the very least make a brief introduction of themselves. In my time on EP, I have added people simply because I found their stories...
    JustNyx JustNyx 36-40, F 5 Responses Sep 3, 2014

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    I Don't

    I get a fair amount of friend requests but I don't add people to my circle just because they add me.If we have nothing in common I won't add someone.  If they never comment on a story of mine, I will not add them.Also, if the person is a member of a bunch of sexually-oriented...
    WildSpectrumArts WildSpectrumArts 46-50, F 6 Responses Sep 23, 2011

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    If you have never uttered a word to me,

    I won't add you. If you have a whole harem of scantily clad women in your circle, I won't add you. If you have more than, say, 5 mature experiences (an arbitrary number I've chosen), I won't add you. If you ask nothing but sex-related questions, I won't add you. If anything...
    CountessDawn CountessDawn 26-30, F 7 Responses Jan 7, 2014

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    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Mar 22

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    If You Want Me to Add You...

    Why not comment my stories or something first?  Get to know someone before you just add them to your circle.  And like most of the other females in this group, I'm more selective with males.
    ChevyGirl ChevyGirl 18-21, F 14 Responses Jun 19, 2008

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    I am very selective better contact me

    after reading my exp and groups and yes m not a ***** if my groups give you some idea !
    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 11, 2014

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    Why? Well when someone adds me to their

    circle I take the time to check out their profile. If there is anything I see there which catches or ‘grabs’ my attention then they are definitely in. But all too often, all I find a very long list of chosen experiences… but no written actual experiences. A large number...
    Alexandra4u Alexandra4u 41-45, F 6 Responses Aug 30, 2014

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    I won't add someone that I've never spoken to

    before or never comments or even reads my stories. If they can't take the time to get to know me then why add them as a friend? Also, the profiles with no stories and little content and lots of mature content. Sorry, but I'm not adding you. I will make an exception sometimes if...
    455cargirl 455cargirl 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 11, 2014

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    My Circle

    sorry for anyone who is trying to add me to their circle, my previous account got hacked into so i am being careful from now on and only adding people i know and can trust. therefore i want to keep my circle small and will not be accepting many requests, i hope you will...
    georgeE16 georgeE16 22-25, M 6 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    I love talking to people

    who share my experiences, but the majority of people who add me never talk. I don't see the point.
    Chaosforthefly Chaosforthefly 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 3

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    I try to communicate with people

    before adding them to my circle. At least try to message me before adding me.
    whassupoldlady whassupoldlady 18-21, F Aug 24, 2014

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    Nope. I want to have a decent conversation with

    you. And by "decent," I mean, our definitions of "decent" are probably going to differ. If you want to talk about bumping nasties, then I don't find that "decent," and I might NEVER add you to my circle. But if you want to get to know me and I want to get to know you, then I'll...
    Boulier Boulier 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    I don't like having people in my circle

    who don't ever talk to me so I add people I relate to as well as talk to. I have a very limited circle right now but it would be cool to have it expand. Everyone in my personal circle I communicate with via message or frequent experience commenting.
    IllusionaryGentleman39 IllusionaryGentleman39 18-21, M Mar 26

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    Really. I don't. I also don't answer random

    messages from people if I'm not in the mood or add people just because the posted "add me" on my white board. You are doing well if I ask "why"?
    Thekidsmom Thekidsmom 36-40, F 8 Responses May 30, 2014

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    I do not understand why people randomly add's

    you to their circle without ever talking, saying a word to that person. And some who never writes anything, is it just to show off, "hey, i got alot of people in my circle, talk to me!" what is the point of adding someone that you never have or will talk to?
    EverythingAndAnything EverythingAndAnything 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 24

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    The amount of people

    that just randomly add others surprises me. I mean, what's the point of adding people you haven't even talked to, or will never talk to. And then when you go to their profile and see, they've added 20-ish people in a matter of 10 minutes. Wow. Aha this isn't Facebook/Instagram...
    lifetime201 lifetime201 16-17, M 6 Responses Jul 18, 2014

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    angelofsweetness angelofsweetness 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 25, 2014

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    I know there are several people

    who have added me to their circle, but haven't received my "acceptance". I hope they and anyone else who would think of adding me in the future takes time to read this. I am not the only one here saying that I don't want to get a huge circle of "friends". If you wish to be in my...
    Piscesrose Piscesrose 51-55, F 2 Responses Feb 27, 2014

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    Not Just Anyone

    Im going to have a limit to my friends list like a lot of girls on here do so yeah, just be yourself and i might just add you :)
    Nikole18 Nikole18 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 13, 2013

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    There are some horny boys

    and they only add girls and they start messaging me and they do a lot drugs and ********** a lot and I don't like that !! It's so gross and creepy
    bela5562 bela5562 13-15, F Jul 18, 2014

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    Before I Add You....

    Men- comment on a story or blog...let me know why you want me to add you. Just because i love sex doesn't mean Im going to add a lotion random guys..if tout show a real interest in me i will consider adding u...if u don't post any comments or send me a message...youwwill be...
    darkangel6977 darkangel6977 22-25, F 8 Responses May 15, 2013

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    My Circle

    I do not immediately add people to my circle. You need to earn that. So please don't be offended if I don't immediately add you. It's just I have enough fake people in real life that I am choosy as to who I converse with on here. I will block people who are disrespectful...
    imagoodgrl imagoodgrl 36-40, F Nov 11, 2013

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    If i've never spoken with you before.

    .. i'm not friending you, if you bash me because of a question I asked, and experience I have posted, or a comment I have made, and then try to get in my circle..... i'm not adding you. If the only thing you want is to get close to me , to ruin me... you can gtfo, and if you are...
    aviodthisnoid aviodthisnoid 13-15, F Aug 31, 2014

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