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I Don't Add People to My Circle Just Because They Add Me

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    I don't add men... I'm married.

    I don't private message men. We can all talk in the public pages just fine without being buddy buddy. My Life is simpler with only female friends.
    MommysGotTats420 MommysGotTats420 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 4

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    I am a super picky girl.

    You have to be an interesting person (or at least cute guy) for me to add you back.
    AnonymousJSS AnonymousJSS 13-15, F Apr 28

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    Especially the fake ones,

    they are easy to spot and I just want to punch them. Also, why would you add me if we have never have a conversation and you haven't commented on my stuff?
    AlainaD2002 AlainaD2002 13-15, F Jan 2

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    gorgeoushobo gorgeoushobo 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    EurydiceKallos EurydiceKallos 18-21, F 2 Responses May 8

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    Before I Add You....

    Men- comment on a story or blog...let me know why you want me to add you. Just because i love sex doesn't mean Im going to add a lotion random guys..if tout show a real interest in me i will consider adding u...if u don't post any comments or send me a message...youwwill be...
    darkangel6977 darkangel6977 22-25, F 8 Responses May 15, 2013

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    iStalk

    I can't see why should I, and I'm not excepting everyone who I "fan" to add me as a friend. To me the thing about adding people is that it is easier to keep up with what they have written lately that way. People who seem to have interesting lives to share in their stories or...
    Fearofsilence Fearofsilence 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 8, 2010

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    If You Want Me to Add You...

    Why not comment my stories or something first?  Get to know someone before you just add them to your circle.  And like most of the other females in this group, I'm more selective with males.
    ChevyGirl ChevyGirl 18-21, F 14 Responses Jun 19, 2008

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    I won't add someone that I've never spoken to

    before or never comments or even reads my stories. If they can't take the time to get to know me then why add them as a friend? Also, the profiles with no stories and little content and lots of mature content. Sorry, but I'm not adding you. I will make an exception sometimes if...
    455cargirl 455cargirl 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 11, 2014

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    I actually need to feel like our conversations

    can go beyond small talk if not then you'll never get into my circle unless you're there to listen or read my story's. Its not i dislike people who can't go beyond small talk but i need more then just a hello to want to have you on my list and talk.
    Autumnflowers Autumnflowers 18-21, F 5 Responses May 13

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    I have many 'fans'. I've been added to

    so many peoples' circle, but I've never really heard from them. Except to randomly heart one of my stories. It's like big brother watching you times 100 and rising, lol. I've made the effort to extend a warm hello to these individuals, but a good number of them don't respond...
    AquariusLife AquariusLife 26-30, F 6 Responses Dec 2, 2014

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    I check them out first.

    And when it comes to guys I always check their profile first. I don't add the ones that constantly only add females to their circle
    Fierrrrce Fierrrrce 18-21, F 2 Responses May 28

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    I think last time I checked I had,

    in EP Terms 2000 "Fans" (people who have added me to their circle) BUT I've always kept my circle small - never over 10 people. I have to take an interest in your or consider you a friend - and as most people know, I'm picky as ****
    akaShaun akaShaun 16-17, M 5 Responses Apr 28

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    I have 0 people in my circle.

    I'm going to add 10 people tonight. Like this if you want to be in my circle. The first 10 will be added
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses May 25

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    I Won't Do It

    If you add me to your circle I will check out your profile before I add you to my circle. If I lread your profile and see that we have nothing in common, no shared experience groups, or you are interested in groups that I am not interested in, then I will not add you. It's as...
    americanwitch americanwitch 36-40, F 8 Responses Oct 31, 2012

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    If you have never uttered a word to me,

    I won't add you. If you have a whole harem of scantily clad women in your circle, I won't add you. If you have more than, say, 5 mature experiences (an arbitrary number I've chosen), I won't add you. If you ask nothing but sex-related questions, I won't add you. If anything...
    CountessDawn CountessDawn 26-30, F 6 Responses Jan 7, 2014

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    If i've never spoken with you before.

    .. i'm not friending you, if you bash me because of a question I asked, and experience I have posted, or a comment I have made, and then try to get in my circle..... i'm not adding you. If the only thing you want is to get close to me , to ruin me... you can gtfo, and if you are...
    aviodthisnoid aviodthisnoid 13-15, F Aug 31, 2014

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    Really. I don't. I also don't answer random

    messages from people if I'm not in the mood or add people just because the posted "add me" on my white board. You are doing well if I ask "why"?
    Thekidsmom Thekidsmom 36-40, F 8 Responses May 30, 2014

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    I don't always add people back

    who add me I get random people added me to their circle every other day and nothing against the members but most people who add me I find their profiles are distasteful for my liking or I don't add back because I do not want to be friends with a person just to be in their big...
    PetiteChica PetiteChica 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 21

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    I'm always put off when I get added to

    someone's circle who hasn't had a single conversation or contact with me. If you cannot bother to extend a greeting and a sentiment of why we should consider to be friends, how can you possibly expect me to be comfortable with you lurking about? That's just creepy (and one step...
    storyteller4u2 storyteller4u2 51-55, M 9 Responses Jun 11

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    There are some horny boys

    and they only add girls and they start messaging me and they do a lot drugs and ********** a lot and I don't like that !! It's so gross and creepy
    bela5562 bela5562 13-15, F Jul 18, 2014

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    My Circle

    sorry for anyone who is trying to add me to their circle, my previous account got hacked into so i am being careful from now on and only adding people i know and can trust. therefore i want to keep my circle small and will not be accepting many requests, i hope you will...
    georgeE16 georgeE16 22-25, M 6 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    It's funny that it tends to be the perverts

    who add me to their circle. Then they'll send a message: "Hi" "Hey" "Wassup" or some one-or-two-word variation of those. They have a raging sense of entitlement when it comes to the people on this site adding them back. With me, I feel that you really have to PROVE yourself...
    Boulier Boulier 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 31, 2014

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    No offense guys. But I add someone I talked

    with him or her before so I know I can trust them that they don't send weird Sh*t to me.
    Julia1600 Julia1600 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    I know there are several people

    who have added me to their circle, but haven't received my "acceptance". I hope they and anyone else who would think of adding me in the future takes time to read this. I am not the only one here saying that I don't want to get a huge circle of "friends". If you wish to be in my...
    Piscesrose Piscesrose 51-55, F 2 Responses Feb 27, 2014

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    My Circle

    I do not immediately add people to my circle. You need to earn that. So please don't be offended if I don't immediately add you. It's just I have enough fake people in real life that I am choosy as to who I converse with on here. I will block people who are disrespectful...
    imagoodgrl imagoodgrl 36-40, F Nov 11, 2013

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    What's the point of adding someone to your

    circle when you don't have any stories to share? That's the point of this site o_0.
    imasweetheart imasweetheart 13-15, F 2 Responses May 16

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    Nope. I want to have a decent conversation with

    you. And by "decent," I mean, our definitions of "decent" are probably going to differ. If you want to talk about bumping nasties, then I don't find that "decent," and I might NEVER add you to my circle. But if you want to get to know me and I want to get to know you, then I'll...
    Boulier Boulier 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    To be honest. i have to really like you to add

    you to my circle. once i add you we're like family and you better keep in touch -.-....I've added ppl just because they asked me to add them. im not doing that anymore lol
    Muffin19 Muffin19 18-21, F 4 Responses May 2

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    Converted Converted 46-50, M Mar 22

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    The amount of people

    that just randomly add others surprises me. I mean, what's the point of adding people you haven't even talked to, or will never talk to. And then when you go to their profile and see, they've added 20-ish people in a matter of 10 minutes. Wow. Aha this isn't Facebook/Instagram...
    lifetime201 lifetime201 16-17, M 6 Responses Jul 18, 2014

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    If your 40-50 year old i don't add you in my

    circle. Sometimes I don't even add 30-39 year old because they talk about s-E-x all the time. Go find a lady in real life Stop using internet girls. Just because you added me doesn't mean I'm going to add you.
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 4 Responses May 2

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    If we become friends then i add them

    but only after we talk haha
    jesikahluv jesikahluv 18-21, F Aug 29, 2014

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    I still cant understand

    that why people add me their circle? What is the meaning of circle ? Should i thank u people because of circled me? :)))
    fauxlady fauxlady 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 29, 2014

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    Ill only add people to my circle

    if it's someone I talk with often or enough and enjoy talking with them.
    ImAProudAries ImAProudAries 18-21, F Apr 24, 2014

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    I do not understand why people randomly add's

    you to their circle without ever talking, saying a word to that person. And some who never writes anything, is it just to show off, "hey, i got alot of people in my circle, talk to me!" what is the point of adding someone that you never have or will talk to?
    EverythingAndAnything EverythingAndAnything 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 24

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    I always look at the profile first.

    Just to be safe. And dude, talk to me man. I aint gonna eat ya.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Apr 30

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    Why? Well when someone adds me to their

    circle I take the time to check out their profile. If there is anything I see there which catches or ‘grabs’ my attention then they are definitely in. But all too often, all I find a very long list of chosen experiences… but no written actual experiences. A large number...
    Alexandra4u Alexandra4u 41-45, F 10 Responses Aug 30, 2014

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    That was not the case till this morning.

    I looked at my friends list and noticed I talked to two people. I decided to clean out my circle and remove some people.
    GrimCreeper0150 GrimCreeper0150 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 28

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    I Don't

    I get a fair amount of friend requests but I don't add people to my circle just because they add me.If we have nothing in common I won't add someone.  If they never comment on a story of mine, I will not add them.Also, if the person is a member of a bunch of sexually-oriented...
    WildSpectrumArts WildSpectrumArts 46-50, F 6 Responses Sep 23, 2011

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    I don't get why people add me without ever

    saying a thing first.i dont know you and you have never interacted with me on E.P. could you at least say something? otherwise- bye bye
    KMB5 KMB5 51-55 18 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    I believe in getting to know someone

    before blindly adding to my circle. It tends to stay small because people come and go so often. I will not add someone just because they add me in first 10 min. Those tend to never work out for the best.
    Jamestone73 Jamestone73 41-45, M 3 Responses May 6

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    I don't like having people in my circle

    who don't ever talk to me so I add people I relate to as well as talk to. I have a very limited circle right now but it would be cool to have it expand. Everyone in my personal circle I communicate with via message or frequent experience commenting.
    IllusionaryGentleman39 IllusionaryGentleman39 18-21, M Mar 26

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    I love talking to people

    who share my experiences, but the majority of people who add me never talk. I don't see the point.
    Chaosforthefly Chaosforthefly 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 3

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    I met this guy a yr ago.. Internet messaging turned into texting phone call and face time. We met once and spent time together. We live in different states. He'd call me his girl...
    CJ0181 CJ0181 31-35, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Okay so if you're in my circle and reading this, I am probably not going to really be on ep much anymore. I may disappear from here from a long while. If you don't have contact...
    JadedDivinity JadedDivinity 18-21 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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