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I Don't Add People to My Circle Just Because They Add Me

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    Its Not That I Don't Appreciate It

    I take my personal safety very seriously. And there are some characters around here that I will keep at arms length if i feel like it. I don't care if i offend you for not reciprocating the gesture. I am not here to please random strangers. I am here for me. If i feel that we...
    violet1698 violet1698 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 17, 2013

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    I see people adding me

    and some of them have profiles I cannot view due to filtering out adult profiles. Many I can see, I wonder why they added me because it seems like we are not into the same things and not even the same field of things, but if they wanna add me, oh well. I don't add people just...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    Dear Epers

    If the following applies, **** off and don't add me:You don't know me. I don't know you. You never answered my questions. I have never answered your questions. You have a mature/flagged profile. You're adding me just to be able to send me a message or look through my photos. You...
    ObviousAnya ObviousAnya 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    It happens so often that ppl request to send me

    a message and or add me to their circle , say they want to chat/message and after a few messages ... SILENCE no response , no messages , NADA that is SO annoying I mean , if you want to chat , why just disappear ? if you find me boring just say so ......
    boxersoff4u boxersoff4u 51-55, M Apr 29

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    There are some horny boys

    and they only add girls and they start messaging me and they do a lot drugs and ********** a lot and I don't like that !! It's so gross and creepy
    bela5562 bela5562 13-15, F Jul 18

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    And if you are old and like in your 60

    and up looking for sex and stuff go be a pervet somewhere else plain and simple!!
    Lilmomma1617 Lilmomma1617 31-35, F May 3

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    Sorry but I don't add people

    until I know them. But if you post experience I find odd I won't add you
    LovelyDeadly LovelyDeadly 16-17, F Jul 19

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    I will not add ppl just looking

    for sex or sex in their profiles I'm not using this app for that and just bc you add me I will not add you back I will not answer sexual personal questions!! Like I said not here for that!! Look elsewhere thank very much!!
    Lilmomma1617 Lilmomma1617 31-35, F May 3

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    Ill only add people to my circle

    if it's someone I talk with often or enough and enjoy talking with them.
    ImAProudAries ImAProudAries 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 24

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    I Dont Add Everyone

    I dont add most freak prevs. If they really want to add me they ought to talk to me first, but I am curious as to why people add me and never even say hello or something..
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M 6 Responses Jul 19, 2010

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    If You Want Me to Add You...

    Why not comment my stories or something first?  Get to know someone before you just add them to your circle.  And like most of the other females in this group, I'm more selective with males.
    ChevyGirl ChevyGirl 18-21, F 14 Responses Jun 19, 2008

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    I won't add someone that I've never spoken to

    before or never comments or even reads my stories. If they can't take the time to get to know me then why add them as a friend? Also, the profiles with no stories and little content and lots of mature content. Sorry, but I'm not adding you. I will make an exception sometimes if...
    455cargirl 455cargirl 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 11

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    I am very selective better contact me

    after reading my exp and groups and yes m not a ***** if my groups give you some idea !
    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    If we haven't spoken once,

    or haven't held a lengthy conversation, I'm not going to add you. If you send me risqué messages with winky faces, I wont add you. If your profile is complied -only- of mature experiences, I wont add you. If you send me messages telling me you want to see my friends-only album...
    Raneth Raneth 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 27

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    Before I Add You....

    Men- comment on a story or blog...let me know why you want me to add you. Just because i love sex doesn't mean Im going to add a lotion random guys..if tout show a real interest in me i will consider adding u...if u don't post any comments or send me a message...youwwill be...
    darkangel6977 darkangel6977 18-21, F 9 Responses May 15, 2013

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    I Don't

    I get a fair amount of friend requests but I don't add people to my circle just because they add me.If we have nothing in common I won't add someone.  If they never comment on a story of mine, I will not add them.Also, if the person is a member of a bunch of sexually-oriented...
    WildSpectrumArts WildSpectrumArts 46-50, F 6 Responses Sep 23, 2011

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    Ya so even if u add me I won't add you

    unless I know and trust you. Enough said
    Thelittleandwanted Thelittleandwanted 18-21, F May 6

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    Family of Choice

    Please don't misunderstand-- I am not saying that I won't add you if you add me- but my circle means more to me than just a number. My circle is my family. My photo albums are not out there for just everyone to view. If I add you to my circle, I'm adding you to my heart. I've...
    angelwings626 angelwings626 41-45, F 9 Responses Jul 11, 2009

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    Nope

    Lately I haven't been adding anyone, but that's not really the point here is it? No. The point here is that I always try to look at other people's profiles before adding them. If everything you write is about sex or going to the bathroom, I am not going to add you. If your...
    DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08 26-30 6 Responses Mar 1, 2009

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    Not Just Anyone

    Im going to have a limit to my friends list like a lot of girls on here do so yeah, just be yourself and i might just add you :)
    Nikole18 Nikole18 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 13, 2013

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    If you have no profile,

    no stories, no friends , no experiences- you wont be added! if i have never talked with you or you are under 21 - you wont be added! i interact with fun people of all ages, i just dont add anyone under 21. I can usually spot a fake, so i will either play along or block you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 8

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    My Circle

    sorry for anyone who is trying to add me to their circle, my previous account got hacked into so i am being careful from now on and only adding people i know and can trust. therefore i want to keep my circle small and will not be accepting many requests, i hope you will...
    georgeE16 georgeE16 18-21, M 6 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    If you have never uttered a word to me,

    I won't add you. If you have a whole harem of scantily clad women in your circle, I won't add you. If you have more than, say, 5 mature experiences (an arbitrary number I've chosen), I won't add you. If you ask nothing but sex-related questions, I won't add you. If anything...
    CountessDawn CountessDawn 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 7

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    Yeah. And quit asking me to add you

    as well if we've barely talked. It usually takes weeks.
    WintersSoldier WintersSoldier 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I Like To Know About You

    this is how i feel iam only being honest ,I like to know you . dont you want to know a little something about me? i dont mind sharing how i feel about things . iam am only writting how i feel . have values and i wont add somepeople no pics , no storys , nothing about...
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F 5 Responses Mar 10, 2010

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    No Perverts, Please

    While I appreciate your interest in a possible friendship unless we have experiences in common or I like your comments and stories; I am not going to add you to my circle.  I am not interested in having a friendship with anyone who is on EP exclusively for sexual...
    NoGodsNoMasters NoGodsNoMasters 31-35, F 9 Responses Oct 14, 2009

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    I know there are several people

    who have added me to their circle, but haven't received my "acceptance". I hope they and anyone else who would think of adding me in the future takes time to read this. I am not the only one here saying that I don't want to get a huge circle of "friends". If you wish to be in my...
    Piscesrose Piscesrose 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 27

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    iStalk

    I can't see why should I, and I'm not excepting everyone who I "fan" to add me as a friend. To me the thing about adding people is that it is easier to keep up with what they have written lately that way. People who seem to have interesting lives to share in their stories or...
    Fearofsilence Fearofsilence 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 8, 2010

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    Hi. A kind gesture, if you intend to add me to

    your circle, please ask me first. I don't like random strangers adding me to there circle. I am very picky on experience project. I am a genuine individual, I expect likewise.
    AncientStar AncientStar 31-35, M 1 Response May 3

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    Like everyone else, I have some people on my

    profile that I haven't added. One of the most common reasons that most of them haven't been added to my circle of friends; not having enough things in common. The other is that after thoroughly checking out their profiles, I tend to find out something about them that totally...
    BLACKTIGER75 BLACKTIGER75 36-40, M Feb 27

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    To Add Or Not To Add...that Is The Question

    By no means am I saying everyone is a troll. This is actually a positive message. Some think that just sending an add 'gets you in' to my small circle.  Nope.  That sounds too much like facebook behaviors. Please communicate in some fashion as to 'why' you think we belong in...
    gotsalsa gotsalsa 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 17, 2012

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    My Circle

    I do not immediately add people to my circle. You need to earn that. So please don't be offended if I don't immediately add you. It's just I have enough fake people in real life that I am choosy as to who I converse with on here. I will block people who are disrespectful...
    imagoodgrl imagoodgrl 36-40, F Nov 11, 2013

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    The amount of people

    that just randomly add others surprises me. I mean, what's the point of adding people you haven't even talked to, or will never talk to. And then when you go to their profile and see, they've added 20-ish people in a matter of 10 minutes. Wow. Aha this isn't Facebook/Instagram...
    lifetime201 lifetime201 16-17, M 5 Responses Jul 18

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    Sorry but i don't do this.

    I like to read about you before i add you to my circle, nothing personal :) .
    johnny048 johnny048 46-50, M 3 Responses Aug 2

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    I Won't Do It

    If you add me to your circle I will check out your profile before I add you to my circle. If I lread your profile and see that we have nothing in common, no shared experience groups, or you are interested in groups that I am not interested in, then I will not add you. It's as...
    americanwitch americanwitch 36-40, F 8 Responses Oct 31, 2012

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    I Won't

    I've had many people adding me.  I'm not obliged accepting.  If we never spoke before or interacted in stories, Q&A or white board, I won't accept.  If I accept someone and after a while, I see there's nothing between us, not even a word, I will delete.  I don't want to add...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 11, 2011

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    If you add me, I'll message you

    and we can talk, but only when we actually get to know eachother will I add you back, that is, if I like you aha...or I might add you straight away if your profile is interesting and you have some good stories, but I'll still talk to you too☺️
    loveyourselfalwaysxx loveyourselfalwaysxx 13-15, F Jul 1

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    Well i add people related to anime

    or just i added them because they are sexy hot girls....and then delete them after i finish being horny with them...:)
    Zoce Zoce 18-21, M Feb 27

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    Orchid284 Orchid284 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    Just because you have added me does not mean I

    will add you to my circle of friends. I want to know others before adding them. Also, before I add others, I look at their profile and experiences. If I see experiences that are not what I enjoy I will not add you. Any sexual perversions by perverts here will be blocked by...
    summervacationswithfamily summervacationswithfamily 41-45, F May 25

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    underage, no stories,

    no experiences , no friends? no way will i add you. thinking about expanding my "no add" list to those with no real pics.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 27

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    Many times I see that people have befriended me

    and added me to their circle. I have no idea why they don't bother to introduce themselves or send a message. In this kind of situation I just block them. If you want to be friendly ... BE FRIENDLY !!!
    boxersoff4u boxersoff4u 51-55, M Mar 6

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    Lately...

    I've been getting some interesting friend requests. Instead of adding them, I've been blocking them, because I don't  want them looking at my profile or seeing what I'm doing on here anymore. My rule is: If more than two of your top experiences are sex related, I'm not...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 22, 2009

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    Please Don't Be Offended...

    ...but if you add me, and I've never heard of you,chances are I won't add you. At the very least, you'll have to buy me dinner first.
    Nyxie Nyxie 51-55, F 16 Responses Feb 20, 2009

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    Yup...... I don't add people over the age of 35

    nor do I add people with flagged profiles.
    Waffl3s Waffl3s 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    Really. I don't. I also don't answer random

    messages from people if I'm not in the mood or add people just because the posted "add me" on my white board. You are doing well if I ask "why"?
    Thekidsmom Thekidsmom 36-40, F 6 Responses May 30

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    Sometimes I have 1 or 2 good chats with people

    and we agree to add each other to our circles. It happens many times that after adding them a week or two can go by with no contact at all. If that happens I just remove them from my circle. No point in having an inflated list of friends if we have no contact.
    boxersoff4u boxersoff4u 51-55, M 1 Response Mar 6

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    Just because you add me,

    it doesn't mean I will add you. I have to get to know you first. There are lots of freaks and pedophiles on here and I don't want those kind of people talking to me. Much less being my friend.
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F May 30

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    I found out that we can post pictures

    that will be visible to friends only, so I'll probably do that sometime. I'll have to remember that I posted the pictures before adding people from then on.. I don't want strangers to know who I am. Some people are just creepy anyway.
    lillimu lillimu 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2013

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    Please do not add me

    if you have never chatted with me.
    forestgirl forestgirl 31-35, F Jun 17

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    Related Experiences

    I will block you if you are some sort of pervert messaging me and looking for a sexting or cybering buddy. Its an automatic ticket to the block list. i dont mind T-A-L-K-I-N-G with...
    violet1698 violet1698 31-35, F Aug 5

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    I don't add men who are ages 30-40. They are creeps to me. Doesn't matter how nice of a person you are. That's just me.
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    I add everyone who adds me most of the time. I'm sorry, but I'm only 15 and I don't really want to be adding men in their 40s and 50s to my circle. It's kind of awkward.
    Mahsa99 Mahsa99 13-15, F Aug 10

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