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I Don't And Won't Pay For Sex

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 17 People

    Ain't Into It And Don't Need To

    I'm sorry, I'm just telling it like it is. I've never gone to a hooker and I ain't plannin' on ever doing it either. It's not about the crime itself or even necessarily about diseases, it's just about the principle of it and the look. When I want to get laid, I get it without a...
    AllStarcrushNate AllStarcrushNate 26-30, M Dec 3, 2012

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