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I Don't Answer the Phone When He Calls

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    More Fun Not to

    It's more fun not to answer the phone and to see his pathetic manipulative attempts to call and call......thinking he can lure me.......nothing, he has nothing anymore.......
    Tumblindice Tumblindice 36-40, F Aug 13, 2007

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    How Stupid of Me

    To have that affair with him.  he is such an addict, loser, user, and abuser.  He still calls.  When he wants something.  I don't answer the phone.  he will destroy me until there is nothing left.  I know that now.
    Tumblindice Tumblindice 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 9, 2007

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    Friend???

    I have been trying to heal and writing it down helps. I wrote another story in this group explaining a little more.I had recently told my friend again ,i don't want anything to do with this guy ....it's bad enough he still calls,i don't answer! I asked her if they constantly and...
    redheadsrule redheadsrule 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 22, 2007

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