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I Don't Believe Everyone Has a Soul Mate

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 151 People

    Not "a"

    I think we can have more than one. Not necessarily polyamory, but truly deep connections to more than one individual.
    S74rxed S74rxed 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2010

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    I Don't Believe Anyone Has A Soulmate

    I'm sure true love exists somewhere in the world, though hardly ever in the happy-clappy, idealised Hollywood sense. I'm sure you can meet somebody, fall in love and go on to live a reasonably content life with them (though I reckon many many people will never even manage this...
    PhonyMcRingRing PhonyMcRingRing 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 24, 2012

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    Problem Is

    to many people are to closed minds and may miss there soul mates when they appear for a short time then are gone
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Nov 10, 2011

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    Impossible

    I hear so many people saying everyone should have a "soul mate." This cannot be true. For one thing, there isn't a 1:1 ratio of men to women in the world. Another thing is that my stepdad was a widower. He loved his first wife to death, and he now loves my mom to death...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 34 Responses Oct 26, 2007

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    It's Rapport And Attraction

    The idea of a soulmate never really resonated with me. People are attracted to people like them, or people that they look up to. It's human nature. Nothing more celestial or magical than that.
    SongsofExperience SongsofExperience 31-35 1 Response May 27, 2013

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    .. .. ..

     Not everyone is meant to be with someone else. ("Meant" ...) Not everyone wants to be with someone else, wants to have a relationship, or even believes in soul mates. So. Yeah..
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F 14 Responses Sep 14, 2008

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    On the Contrary

    i think we have many. except i wouldnt call them soul mates [i dont believe we have souls]. but i think many people can be your match. the hard part is picking one and being in a committed relationship. not to mention, you have polygamist and polyamarist who are content and happy...
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 11, 2008

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    Mediocrity Principle

    Mediocrity principle is a scientific philosophy that no one place in the universe is more special than another. That is, if every single place in the universe is unique then nothing is unique or special. This same idea can be extended to places on earth and to people. If all...
    ModLulu ModLulu 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 31, 2011

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    I Don't Believe In Soulmates

    and i don't think there is just one person for every person out there in the world. some people are just not relationship material or choose to never pursue romantic relationships. i am with everyone in this group who feels this way and i don't think people should be knocking...
    Areyan Areyan 31-35 1 Response Aug 5, 2010

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    It's a Nice Thought

     I think we create the reality we live. It's not like there's a treasure map that's going to lead us to the promised land. It's hard work, compromise, and respect as well as an incredible stroke of luck to be "soul mates".  First of all, it presupposes...
    UncleDevilShow UncleDevilShow 41-45, M 8 Responses Mar 2, 2008

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    Not Me! Especially..

    Well i strngly blv in dis fact..i dnt knw bout da rest..some ppl i knw hav em,some dnt,..but 4 me..i certainly dnt and never would find my soulmate netime in future..and u knw y? Cus i strngly fl dat m nt the kinda person whom nebdy cn call a soulmate material..and vice versa...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 20, 2010

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    That Dream Died Long Ago.

    When I was a naive teenager I believed that everyone out there had a perfect match. That everyone out there had a twin soul whom could understand their inner most thoughts, love them unconditionally and be the yin to their yang. Then I experienced more of the world and grew up...
    ForgottenMuse ForgottenMuse 31-35, F Jan 5, 2012

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    Not Me...

    Not at all. I'm not like "everyone else." I never had a real job or a car, I didn't fit-in in college, school, or the outside world, I have no siblings, no place of my own, no real friends who will be there no matter what. And I don't have a soulmate and have never been with...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 3 Responses Mar 20, 2011

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    JaxyBaine JaxyBaine 26-30, F 4 Responses May 7

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    Why [...] do some highly educated people believe religious claims? First, smart persons are good at defending ideas that they originally believed for non-smart reasons. They want...
    FryyM FryyM 22-25, M 3 Responses May 2

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    I still can feel the pain in my heart from this afternoon's conversation with my hubby. No matter how reasoned out with me, no matter how rational they might sound I still can't...
    Outofnowheregurl Outofnowheregurl 36-40, F 1 Response May 25

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    It is not that I don't believe in love. love doesn't believe in me
    isa1196 isa1196 18-21, F May 13

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    Okay, call me crazy but I have reach to the point in life where I don't believe in God no more every single damn day my life keeps getting worst and worst I have attempted suicide...
    Katt007 Katt007 18-21, F 6 Responses May 13

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    There is no proof god exist. So I don't believe in it .
    Biactwowwowoowwcatwit Biactwowwowoowwcatwit 18-21, T 2 Responses May 24

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    I actually think you meet or connect with several soul mates in your lifetime. Not just one.
    sweetnspicy2 sweetnspicy2 41-45, F 2 Responses May 12

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    Sometimes I just get so irritated by things religious people say. I just cannot figure out how anybody believes in any of this stuff, and I still can't fully believe that they...
    KatieTreat KatieTreat 51-55, T 6 Responses May 2

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    It doesn't matter who owns the land, you pay taxes anyways. I don't want to sound offensive, but why would anyone be OK with giving up their life just so the world can keep...
    steviehunt steviehunt 18-21, M May 8

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    Documentary: Atheists Don't Exist
    PMWhite PMWhite 31-35, M 2 Responses May 6

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    I feel so dirty and gross after what happened. I feel like I don't deserve to want or desire anything and that all good things that happen to me I shouldn't expect. I hope I can...
    reyrey022 reyrey022 26-30, F 1 Response May 8

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    I'm not sure if ill ever get married. I don't feel love.
    Ang012685 Ang012685 26-30, F 1 Response May 23

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    I'm not some militant Atheist but I'm not particularly fond of the idea of religion in general. I can respect it and acknowledge the many benefits it has contributed in arts and...
    JustUhhhThought JustUhhhThought 22-25, M 7 Responses May 3

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    my parents make me visit church youth... which is ok. we do lots of cool stuff like singing, camping and art stuff. however i dont believe in god at all... its sometimes shocking...
    Clarissa01 Clarissa01 13-15, F 3 Responses May 16

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    Yup :) it would be hilarious if someone said that Dinosaur bones were merely Gods sense of humour. Created just as bones . We know that the evolutionary process has changed our...
    Homejames Homejames 51-55, M 1 Response May 17

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    I am proud to be Scottish, but Scottish is wholly my identity. My identity is comprised of many different aspects, such as my personality, morals and beliefs. I feel that in...
    CaitlinBuchan97 CaitlinBuchan97 16-17, F 2 Responses May 4

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    I have total a new concept of marriage ! Usually male think he needs to offer life to girls ,sure ! It is not wrong ! But it does not mean girls only gain it free ! I mean ,make...
    Noneever Noneever 22-25, F 1 Response May 10

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    I find it a silly idea to believe in saints,as far as i can notice people do that for most time to get "Heavenly Blessings". I think believing in saints will distract a believer...
    wasseem wasseem 26-30, M May 22

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    he has all other options and stay... i understand that his current job is suffocating him, but he is so qualified and can find other job that doesn't require him to leave and be...
    micz521 micz521 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    Long ago I met people I thought would be lifelong friends here,turns out that some of them were liars and fakes and others were just passing through my life. I should be more...
    shelle48 shelle48 61-65, F 4 Responses May 5

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    Hi there men and women of morals, some people do believe in cheating. We've all seen the "I am the other woman" group. They have a great enabling network. Betrayed people, men and...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 1 Response May 6

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    i think it's just total bullshit , Reincarnation is just a man made concept to make excuses for all the wrong and unfair things that go on in this world... According to the...
    mistywillow mistywillow 22-25, M 3 Responses May 11

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    I dont believe in realign though i want to i cant ....u frankly even if there i s a Gid dont agree with the idea of it
    superpuff superpuff 13-15, F 2 Responses May 18

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    People are individuals. No doubt there are broad trends, but isn't it sometimes a poor excuse for other things?
    blueran blueran 41-45 May 11

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    Faith is absurd. I wish I wasn't indoctrinated with the Catholic faith. What a load of crap. My efforts to adhere to the Church was a huge waste of my youth. Damn it, Mom and Dad...
    YourBFF YourBFF 26-30, M 2 Responses May 11

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    I've had alot of great feedback about making the "I am not the other woman" group a centralised forum for cheated on people in private messages. All that it needs now is for people...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F May 6

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    Merrily we fall Out of line, out of line I’d fall anywhere with you I’m by your side
    BeautifulxDelusions BeautifulxDelusions 18-21, F May 6

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    I need a soundtrack in order to survive.
    Congruent Congruent 18-21, M May 6

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    in my opinion, I think music is the top 5 things you need to survive water food music sleep human interaction
    omss omss 18-21, M May 6

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    this is gonna cause contreversey but each to their own. Rubbish What is one of the stupidest sayings when there is a disaster or death etc .It comes from church leaders and god...
    nakednudist nakednudist 46-50, M 7 Responses