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I Don't Believe Everyone Has a Soul Mate

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    Problem Is

    to many people are to closed minds and may miss there soul mates when they appear for a short time then are gone
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Nov 10, 2011

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    Mediocrity Principle

    Mediocrity principle is a scientific philosophy that no one place in the universe is more special than another. That is, if every single place in the universe is unique then nothing is unique or special. This same idea can be extended to places on earth and to people. If all...
    ModLulu ModLulu 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 31, 2011

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    Impossible

    I hear so many people saying everyone should have a "soul mate." This cannot be true. For one thing, there isn't a 1:1 ratio of men to women in the world. Another thing is that my stepdad was a widower. He loved his first wife to death, and he now loves my mom to death...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 34 Responses Oct 26, 2007

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    On the Contrary

    i think we have many. except i wouldnt call them soul mates [i dont believe we have souls]. but i think many people can be your match. the hard part is picking one and being in a committed relationship. not to mention, you have polygamist and polyamarist who are content and happy...
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 11, 2008

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    That Dream Died Long Ago.

    When I was a naive teenager I believed that everyone out there had a perfect match. That everyone out there had a twin soul whom could understand their inner most thoughts, love them unconditionally and be the yin to their yang. Then I experienced more of the world and grew up...
    ForgottenMuse ForgottenMuse 31-35, F Jan 5, 2012

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    I Don't Believe In Soulmates

    and i don't think there is just one person for every person out there in the world. some people are just not relationship material or choose to never pursue romantic relationships. i am with everyone in this group who feels this way and i don't think people should be knocking...
    Areyan Areyan 31-35 1 Response Aug 5, 2010

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    Not "a"

    I think we can have more than one. Not necessarily polyamory, but truly deep connections to more than one individual.
    S74rxed S74rxed 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2010

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    Not Me! Especially..

    Well i strngly blv in dis fact..i dnt knw bout da rest..some ppl i knw hav em,some dnt,..but 4 me..i certainly dnt and never would find my soulmate netime in future..and u knw y? Cus i strngly fl dat m nt the kinda person whom nebdy cn call a soulmate material..and vice versa...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 20, 2010

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    I Don't Believe Anyone Has A Soulmate

    I'm sure true love exists somewhere in the world, though hardly ever in the happy-clappy, idealised Hollywood sense. I'm sure you can meet somebody, fall in love and go on to live a reasonably content life with them (though I reckon many many people will never even manage this...
    PhonyMcRingRing PhonyMcRingRing 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 24, 2012

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    This year I turn 41. I have only ever had one

    real relationship and that lasted 5 years. Throughout the relationship he told me I love you but I am not in love with you. That was over 16 years ago. In all that time I have never caught the eye of someone else? No one has ever showed an interest in me? My belief now is...
    hine2go hine2go 36-40, F Jan 31

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    It's a Nice Thought

     I think we create the reality we live. It's not like there's a treasure map that's going to lead us to the promised land. It's hard work, compromise, and respect as well as an incredible stroke of luck to be "soul mates".  First of all, it presupposes...
    UncleDevilShow UncleDevilShow 41-45, M 8 Responses Mar 2, 2008

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    I have a different definition of a Soul Mate.

    For me, I think a Soul Mate is your complete opposite. They are the person keeping you from reaching your potential or holding you back. Because if you find someone like that, you work harder to be better.
    AKent0107 AKent0107 36-40, M Jan 31

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    It's Rapport And Attraction

    The idea of a soulmate never really resonated with me. People are attracted to people like them, or people that they look up to. It's human nature. Nothing more celestial or magical than that.
    SongsofExperience SongsofExperience 31-35 1 Response May 27, 2013

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    .. .. ..

     Not everyone is meant to be with someone else. ("Meant" ...) Not everyone wants to be with someone else, wants to have a relationship, or even believes in soul mates. So. Yeah..
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F 14 Responses Sep 14, 2008

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    Not Me...

    Not at all. I'm not like "everyone else." I never had a real job or a car, I didn't fit-in in college, school, or the outside world, I have no siblings, no place of my own, no real friends who will be there no matter what. And I don't have a soulmate and have never been with...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 3 Responses Mar 20, 2011

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    AlexanderMi AlexanderMi 13-15, M 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    I like to think of myself as agnostic cause it makes me feel better... Lol
    MildImplosion MildImplosion 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    I don't want to believe in a God who does nothing for a four year old getting raped and everything that happens in the world cause if there is a god he doesn't care about me or...
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    DesiredUserNameandStuff DesiredUserNameandStuff 31-35, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I used to attend church and be a believer but after having none of my prayers answered, I gave up on that. Its not like I was praying for a Mercedes. Its more like I'd pray for...
    Mossonarock Mossonarock 41-45, M 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am an atheist and I do not believe in the existence of God or any devine creatures. I do not need a book to tell me how I should live my life. I also do not need an imaginary...
    sievert sievert 13-15, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    PendulEmPlum PendulEmPlum 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Bible and Quran are so merciless, actually. in quran women are not equal to men. men can hit their wifes, as long as there is not bleeding.
    darklotus01 darklotus01 13-15, T 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I hate that the fact that all soo called god are all the same if you really think about it but nobody but me in my family understand that.
    JerichoM JerichoM 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I really hate the stupid sh*t the Quran makes people do. Same with the Bible. They're both contradictory pieces of garbage written by who knows. Both tell you to help the poor, but...
    BenBrown25663 BenBrown25663 18-21, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    ... because there is no God. If you enjoy baiting Christians, don't tell them there's no heaven, tell them there's no hell! Drives 'em mad!
    egbertnosh egbertnosh 51-55, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm the only one in my family who doesn't believe in God. I respect everyone's religion though, as long as they aren't drived to do nasty stuff cause of it.
    Addy123x Addy123x 13-15, M 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Religion is for those who are scared of going to hell. Spirituality is for those who've already been there.
    selina1986 selina1986 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    Theres no reason Better divoced than scummy
    OddButResilient OddButResilient 46-50, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    please don't judge or hate me... but I simply can't believe in what makes absolutely no sense to me.... I was raised to believe in god and being a Christian but with time and...
    passionat3kiss3s passionat3kiss3s 22-25, F 8 Responses 3 days ago

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    I think the bible is a load of fairytales but I don't know if I believe in God or not. It says that God loves you... but then he damns you to hell if you're not a good person
    lilyonthefarm lilyonthefarm 13-15, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    Marriage is a religious institution. The government shouldn't be in the business of giving out marriage licenses. The government should only be giving out Civil Unions. If you want...
    Mossonarock Mossonarock 41-45, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I lost my soul-mate husband 4 years back after he joined M.A.UM Meditation. This is a cult. He became an emotionally and Narcissistic abusive stranger. This has caused me...
    dvirmani dvirmani 41-45, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I've never been very fond of marriage. No, my parents never got married. No, I didn't really want them to get married nor did I not want them to. I think I just realized after...
    lunarrose123 lunarrose123 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Everything is changing continuously in a pace hardly imaginable. I'm almost nothing like the person I was two years ago, finances changed drastically (and thereby my lifestyle and...
    Gentle153 Gentle153 26-30, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Not sure if it really exist. But even if it does for some people, sure it won't for me! But, hey.. I may not believe in love. But I do believe everyone deserves somebody that makes...
    cjg1289 cjg1289 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    Most off my artwork that I did at school was panoramic photography curving straight lines.
    sroonaka616 sroonaka616 18-21 5 days ago

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    I always hear people saying: 'Digital art isn't real art. It's cheating! all you have to do is push a magic button and the computer does the rest...' Yeah, you know what? If you...
    TrippingKitty TrippingKitty 26-30 5 days ago

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    You told me how I mattered right to my face, and how there was no way I'd ever be replaced. Well your words have etched out disgrace. BS. And I wonder how it tastes? Repeating it...
    Taynkbot Taynkbot 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    You attract confusion when you put yourself in a complicated situation.. You wont feel the effect at first but once you indulge yourself with others peoples dilemma you find your...
    nalbyan nalbyan 31-35, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Immortality of the soul is a false teaching that many religions teach to their adherents. The Bible does NOT teach this false doctrine at all. What do you believe?
    seotelkniwt seotelkniwt 61-65, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I only believe it as a parent to a child. But romantic love? nope. If you say you love someone unconditionally, doesn't that mean they can treat you 'any' way they want, good...
    ElephantSH0ES ElephantSH0ES 46-50, F 1 Response