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I Don't Believe Everyone Has a Soul Mate

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    .. .. .. -  Not everyone is meant to be with someone else. ("Meant" ...) Not everyone wants to be with someone else, wants to have a relationship, or even believes...
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F 14 Responses Sep 14, 2008

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    Mediocrity Principle - Mediocrity principle is a scientific philosophy that no one place in the universe is more special than another. That is, if every single place in the...
    ModLulu ModLulu 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 31, 2011

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    Impossible - I hear so many people saying everyone should have a "soul mate." This cannot be true. For one thing, there isn't a 1:1 ratio of men to women in the world. Another...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 34 Responses Oct 26, 2007

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    I Don't Believe In Soulmates - and i don't think there is just one person for every person out there in the world. some people are just not relationship material or choose to never...
    Areyan Areyan 31-35 1 Response Aug 5, 2010

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    That Dream Died Long Ago. - When I was a naive teenager I believed that everyone out there had a perfect match. That everyone out there had a twin soul whom could understand their...
    ForgottenMuse ForgottenMuse 31-35, F Jan 5, 2012

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    I Don't Believe Anyone Has A Soulmate - I'm sure true love exists somewhere in the world, though hardly ever in the happy-clappy, idealised Hollywood sense. I'm sure you can meet...
    PhonyMcRingRing PhonyMcRingRing 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 24, 2012

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    On the Contrary - i think we have many. except i wouldnt call them soul mates [i dont believe we have souls]. but i think many people can be your match. the hard part is picking...
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 11, 2008

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    Not Me! Especially.. - Well i strngly blv in dis fact..i dnt knw bout da rest..some ppl i knw hav em,some dnt,..but 4 me..i certainly dnt and never would find my soulmate netime in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 20, 2010

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    It's a Nice Thought -  I think we create the reality we live. It's not like there's a treasure map that's going to lead us to the promised land. It's hard work, compromise...
    UncleDevilShow UncleDevilShow 41-45, M 8 Responses Mar 2, 2008

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    Not "a" - I think we can have more than one. Not necessarily polyamory, but truly deep connections to more than one individual.
    S74rxed S74rxed 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2010

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    Not Me... - Not at all. I'm not like "everyone else." I never had a real job or a car, I didn't fit-in in college, school, or the outside world, I have no siblings, no place of my...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 3 Responses Mar 20, 2011

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    It's Rapport And Attraction - The idea of a soulmate never really resonated with me. People are attracted to people like them, or people that they look up to. It's human nature...
    SongsofExperience SongsofExperience 31-35 1 Response May 27, 2013

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    lonewolff666 lonewolff666 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 27

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    Yeah so I never am able to find a "perfect" guy. I dunno.. Some of them want to date me, others just want to be **** buddies. Idk what I want, all I know is that they confuse the h...
    TaylorNicoleee TaylorNicoleee 18-21, F Apr 3

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    TaylorNicoleee TaylorNicoleee 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 29

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    The whole religious thing and believing in God or life after death thing just totally baffles me. You may as well believe in Fairies or Aliens. That is just as bizarre. It just...
    Germanovna Germanovna 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 3

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    I have a distaste for people who say things like "I was hit as a child and I turned out fine" or "Children need to be disciplined". There are so many ways to have discipline...
    baconrind baconrind 26-30, M Apr 9

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    I am basically just an agnostic. I guess I don't necessarily not believe in heaven but I don't think it's very likely to exist
    Rebecca12K Rebecca12K 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    ErieNemisa ErieNemisa 22-25, F Apr 8

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    superficialife superficialife 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 19

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    My entire family is Christian except for me, and honestly, they don't even stop to think about the things they say. Me and my mom were talking about the mudslide in DC. In the...
    KeithPrice94 KeithPrice94 18-21, M 11 Responses Mar 30

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    explainit2me explainit2me 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    I like the IDEA of it, but marriage isn't a life goal of mine. If two people are happy and don't care about going through the process and other complicated aspects of it, then I...
    Professionalgriefer Professionalgriefer 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    they make stories about them....movies about them i wonder if it is true i wonder if it is just for hope i have never seen soulmates. i have heard of poeple killing for love but...
    anonymousanomaly anonymousanomaly 22-25, M Apr 1

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    chrisisyourfriend chrisisyourfriend 16-17, M 2 days ago

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    MW3fan258 MW3fan258 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 5

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    It everyone were atheist the world would be a much better place. This is what everyone should live by.
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    ToughEddie ToughEddie 31-35, M Apr 8

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    KeithPrice94 KeithPrice94 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 22

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