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I Don't Believe Everyone Has a Soul Mate

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    Mediocrity Principle

    Mediocrity principle is a scientific philosophy that no one place in the universe is more special than another. That is, if every single place in the universe is unique then nothing is unique or special. This same idea can be extended to places on earth and to people. If all...
    ModLulu ModLulu 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 31, 2011

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    That Dream Died Long Ago.

    When I was a naive teenager I believed that everyone out there had a perfect match. That everyone out there had a twin soul whom could understand their inner most thoughts, love them unconditionally and be the yin to their yang. Then I experienced more of the world and grew up...
    ForgottenMuse ForgottenMuse 31-35, F Jan 5, 2012

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    Not Me! Especially..

    Well i strngly blv in dis fact..i dnt knw bout da rest..some ppl i knw hav em,some dnt,..but 4 me..i certainly dnt and never would find my soulmate netime in future..and u knw y? Cus i strngly fl dat m nt the kinda person whom nebdy cn call a soulmate material..and vice versa...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 20, 2010

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    It's Rapport And Attraction

    The idea of a soulmate never really resonated with me. People are attracted to people like them, or people that they look up to. It's human nature. Nothing more celestial or magical than that.
    SongsofExperience SongsofExperience 31-35 1 Response May 27, 2013

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    Impossible

    I hear so many people saying everyone should have a "soul mate." This cannot be true. For one thing, there isn't a 1:1 ratio of men to women in the world. Another thing is that my stepdad was a widower. He loved his first wife to death, and he now loves my mom to death...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 34 Responses Oct 26, 2007

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    I Don't Believe In Soulmates

    and i don't think there is just one person for every person out there in the world. some people are just not relationship material or choose to never pursue romantic relationships. i am with everyone in this group who feels this way and i don't think people should be knocking...
    Areyan Areyan 31-35 1 Response Aug 5, 2010

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    .. .. ..

     Not everyone is meant to be with someone else. ("Meant" ...) Not everyone wants to be with someone else, wants to have a relationship, or even believes in soul mates. So. Yeah..
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F 14 Responses Sep 14, 2008

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    Not "a"

    I think we can have more than one. Not necessarily polyamory, but truly deep connections to more than one individual.
    S74rxed S74rxed 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2010

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    Not Me...

    Not at all. I'm not like "everyone else." I never had a real job or a car, I didn't fit-in in college, school, or the outside world, I have no siblings, no place of my own, no real friends who will be there no matter what. And I don't have a soulmate and have never been with...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 3 Responses Mar 20, 2011

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    On the Contrary

    i think we have many. except i wouldnt call them soul mates [i dont believe we have souls]. but i think many people can be your match. the hard part is picking one and being in a committed relationship. not to mention, you have polygamist and polyamarist who are content and happy...
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 11, 2008

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    I Don't Believe Anyone Has A Soulmate

    I'm sure true love exists somewhere in the world, though hardly ever in the happy-clappy, idealised Hollywood sense. I'm sure you can meet somebody, fall in love and go on to live a reasonably content life with them (though I reckon many many people will never even manage this...
    PhonyMcRingRing PhonyMcRingRing 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 24, 2012

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    Problem Is

    to many people are to closed minds and may miss there soul mates when they appear for a short time then are gone
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Nov 10, 2011

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    It's a Nice Thought

     I think we create the reality we live. It's not like there's a treasure map that's going to lead us to the promised land. It's hard work, compromise, and respect as well as an incredible stroke of luck to be "soul mates".  First of all, it presupposes...
    UncleDevilShow UncleDevilShow 41-45, M 8 Responses Mar 2, 2008

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    You do, or you don't. I happen to not even though my mother is catholic, and I went to Sunday school I think it is a croc. My mother told me when she went to the Catholic Church...
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    And I don't even know why. I don't feel like I belong, surrounded by people who've known each other almost all their lives. And who at least have enough in common to draw closer...
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    SurpriseMeToday SurpriseMeToday 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 12

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    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 30

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    Oh you don't say?? Why was this thread made?
    AlwaysAnonnymous AlwaysAnonnymous 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 2

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    PuckDrop PuckDrop 18-21, M Nov 3

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    I was lucky I had a scan ran on me by a lady I was seeing from a dating site it mostly hurt my pride what I had left they only got 100 so it was not to bad the other money is...
    daddylove4u daddylove4u 51-55, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Everybody always throws trust on it! I'm here to tell you, it is not always directly about trust! Sometimes it's about logic and logically speaking long distance and relationship...
    newbeginnings15 newbeginnings15 18-21, F 16 hrs ago

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    Music feeds the soul enriches the brain .Rock and early metal is my choice of music and fuels my fire. This type of music i grew up on and to me came out with a lot of Multi...
    hughgohef hughgohef 41-45, M 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    Just because my elephant can play darts,ride a bicycle and play the tuba! Why won't you believe me??
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Oct 27

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    Why are people so obsessed with punishing people who made a mistake? Regardless of what the mistake was, whether it's breaking a vase by accident or committing murder, I only...
    Uncertain153 Uncertain153 26-30, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Well I'd be a fool to believe "everything" wouldn't I? I've been lied to so much in my life and I'm still lied to to this day. So what would make me believe everything? I have a...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Karma doesn't exist. I've never believed in it. It's not of The Lord. Punishment comes after death.
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response Oct 30

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    This is still going then? You'd best get working on the time travel machine if you do believe it! Maybe you'll be right then! ;)
    Reallifeperson Reallifeperson 22-25, M Nov 2

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    findmeholdmeloveme findmeholdmeloveme 18-21 7 Responses Nov 12

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    Time difference sucks! You have to stay all night waiting for notifications to show up with his name in it either with skype or viber. Unnecessary stress especially when you aren...
    Elleshore81 Elleshore81 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Why is sex such a big issue? There's so many things we can't explain, why is sex shaming so important. People are closed minded and foolish. It's no Popes business what people are...
    kiddishguy kiddishguy 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 4

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    Because obviously it didn't... O.o
    SlGH SlGH 31-35, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    Only The Black Half Matters-I didn't even realize I was taking advantage of it until recently. The graduation counselor at my high school mostly filled out Juniors and Seniors...
    FutureMaxiSurgeon FutureMaxiSurgeon 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I desire too much for most guys my age. They are still getting their ideas together. I'm too demanding for them, I think.
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 3 Responses 17 hrs ago