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I Don't Believe Everyone Has a Soul Mate

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    That Dream Died Long Ago.

    When I was a naive teenager I believed that everyone out there had a perfect match. That everyone out there had a twin soul whom could understand their inner most thoughts, love them unconditionally and be the yin to their yang. Then I experienced more of the world and grew up...
    ForgottenMuse ForgottenMuse 31-35, F Jan 5, 2012

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    Not Me! Especially..

    Well i strngly blv in dis fact..i dnt knw bout da rest..some ppl i knw hav em,some dnt,..but 4 me..i certainly dnt and never would find my soulmate netime in future..and u knw y? Cus i strngly fl dat m nt the kinda person whom nebdy cn call a soulmate material..and vice versa...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 20, 2010

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    Problem Is

    to many people are to closed minds and may miss there soul mates when they appear for a short time then are gone
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Nov 10, 2011

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    I Don't Believe Anyone Has A Soulmate

    I'm sure true love exists somewhere in the world, though hardly ever in the happy-clappy, idealised Hollywood sense. I'm sure you can meet somebody, fall in love and go on to live a reasonably content life with them (though I reckon many many people will never even manage this...
    PhonyMcRingRing PhonyMcRingRing 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 24, 2012

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    On the Contrary

    i think we have many. except i wouldnt call them soul mates [i dont believe we have souls]. but i think many people can be your match. the hard part is picking one and being in a committed relationship. not to mention, you have polygamist and polyamarist who are content and happy...
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 11, 2008

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    Mediocrity Principle

    Mediocrity principle is a scientific philosophy that no one place in the universe is more special than another. That is, if every single place in the universe is unique then nothing is unique or special. This same idea can be extended to places on earth and to people. If all...
    ModLulu ModLulu 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 31, 2011

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    Not "a"

    I think we can have more than one. Not necessarily polyamory, but truly deep connections to more than one individual.
    S74rxed S74rxed 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2010

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    It's a Nice Thought

     I think we create the reality we live. It's not like there's a treasure map that's going to lead us to the promised land. It's hard work, compromise, and respect as well as an incredible stroke of luck to be "soul mates".  First of all, it presupposes...
    UncleDevilShow UncleDevilShow 41-45, M 8 Responses Mar 2, 2008

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    Not Me...

    Not at all. I'm not like "everyone else." I never had a real job or a car, I didn't fit-in in college, school, or the outside world, I have no siblings, no place of my own, no real friends who will be there no matter what. And I don't have a soulmate and have never been with...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 3 Responses Mar 20, 2011

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    Impossible

    I hear so many people saying everyone should have a "soul mate." This cannot be true. For one thing, there isn't a 1:1 ratio of men to women in the world. Another thing is that my stepdad was a widower. He loved his first wife to death, and he now loves my mom to death...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 34 Responses Oct 26, 2007

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    It's Rapport And Attraction

    The idea of a soulmate never really resonated with me. People are attracted to people like them, or people that they look up to. It's human nature. Nothing more celestial or magical than that.
    SongsofExperience SongsofExperience 31-35 1 Response May 27, 2013

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    I Don't Believe In Soulmates

    and i don't think there is just one person for every person out there in the world. some people are just not relationship material or choose to never pursue romantic relationships. i am with everyone in this group who feels this way and i don't think people should be knocking...
    Areyan Areyan 31-35 1 Response Aug 5, 2010

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    .. .. ..

     Not everyone is meant to be with someone else. ("Meant" ...) Not everyone wants to be with someone else, wants to have a relationship, or even believes in soul mates. So. Yeah..
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F 14 Responses Sep 14, 2008

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    I do know one or two couples who met through dating agencies of one sort or another (internet or not), but generally I regard them as cynical and parasitical. If you are unable to...
    Perspicares Perspicares 61-65, M 2 Responses Mar 28

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    TheEnduringSunrise TheEnduringSunrise 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 3

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    family love I just don't feel. I do things for my mom n brothers but I feel obligated to...is that love? as far as the rest my family I don't feel a a thing....
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    Natural Selection has selected God
    PMWhite PMWhite 31-35, M Apr 9

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    if anything i wanted to believe that such a thing as an obscure existence was completely possible i was wrong to believe that humanity would have my back in any possible certainty...
    adamlevinemine9 adamlevinemine9 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    It's one of those theories that sound wonderful and ideal. But it's that all it is, a theory, a theory without proof at that. If somebody who is generally a terrible person gets...
    everyotherusernamewastaken everyotherusernamewastaken 26-30, M Apr 3

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    Nope. After spending my life wishing for nothing more, thinking of love constantly, seeking it, a marriage, many relationships, i feel as if i am waking from a dream. it was all a...
    nighthouse66 nighthouse66 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I never have. I believe in affection, but romantic love, being in love, no. I think it is just a state of mind.
    MidnightMasquerade MidnightMasquerade 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    My mom believes in mediums. Ugh. Why are people so stupid?
    ftmFreddy ftmFreddy 18-21, T 1 Response 3 days ago

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    1LikeMind 1LikeMind 51-55, M 1 Response Mar 21

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    Normalcy? Normalcy isn't something to aspire to, but to run from.
    NudistJohnR NudistJohnR 51-55, M Mar 24

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    You will either be together forever or split up... Marriage doesn't change that outcome.
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