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I Don't Believe Everyone Has a Soul Mate

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    I Don't Believe Anyone Has A Soulmate

    I'm sure true love exists somewhere in the world, though hardly ever in the happy-clappy, idealised Hollywood sense. I'm sure you can meet somebody, fall in love and go on to live a reasonably content life with them (though I reckon many many people will never even manage this...
    PhonyMcRingRing PhonyMcRingRing 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 24, 2012

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    Not Me! Especially..

    Well i strngly blv in dis fact..i dnt knw bout da rest..some ppl i knw hav em,some dnt,..but 4 me..i certainly dnt and never would find my soulmate netime in future..and u knw y? Cus i strngly fl dat m nt the kinda person whom nebdy cn call a soulmate material..and vice versa...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 20, 2010

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    Not Me...

    Not at all. I'm not like "everyone else." I never had a real job or a car, I didn't fit-in in college, school, or the outside world, I have no siblings, no place of my own, no real friends who will be there no matter what. And I don't have a soulmate and have never been with...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 3 Responses Mar 20, 2011

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    It's Rapport And Attraction

    The idea of a soulmate never really resonated with me. People are attracted to people like them, or people that they look up to. It's human nature. Nothing more celestial or magical than that.
    SongsofExperience SongsofExperience 31-35 1 Response May 27, 2013

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    .. .. ..

     Not everyone is meant to be with someone else. ("Meant" ...) Not everyone wants to be with someone else, wants to have a relationship, or even believes in soul mates. So. Yeah..
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F 14 Responses Sep 14, 2008

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    Not "a"

    I think we can have more than one. Not necessarily polyamory, but truly deep connections to more than one individual.
    S74rxed S74rxed 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2010

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    Mediocrity Principle

    Mediocrity principle is a scientific philosophy that no one place in the universe is more special than another. That is, if every single place in the universe is unique then nothing is unique or special. This same idea can be extended to places on earth and to people. If all...
    ModLulu ModLulu 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 31, 2011

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    That Dream Died Long Ago.

    When I was a naive teenager I believed that everyone out there had a perfect match. That everyone out there had a twin soul whom could understand their inner most thoughts, love them unconditionally and be the yin to their yang. Then I experienced more of the world and grew up...
    ForgottenMuse ForgottenMuse 31-35, F Jan 5, 2012

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    It's a Nice Thought

     I think we create the reality we live. It's not like there's a treasure map that's going to lead us to the promised land. It's hard work, compromise, and respect as well as an incredible stroke of luck to be "soul mates".  First of all, it presupposes...
    UncleDevilShow UncleDevilShow 41-45, M 8 Responses Mar 2, 2008

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    I Don't Believe In Soulmates

    and i don't think there is just one person for every person out there in the world. some people are just not relationship material or choose to never pursue romantic relationships. i am with everyone in this group who feels this way and i don't think people should be knocking...
    Areyan Areyan 31-35 1 Response Aug 5, 2010

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    Problem Is

    to many people are to closed minds and may miss there soul mates when they appear for a short time then are gone
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Nov 10, 2011

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    On the Contrary

    i think we have many. except i wouldnt call them soul mates [i dont believe we have souls]. but i think many people can be your match. the hard part is picking one and being in a committed relationship. not to mention, you have polygamist and polyamarist who are content and happy...
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 11, 2008

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    Impossible

    I hear so many people saying everyone should have a "soul mate." This cannot be true. For one thing, there isn't a 1:1 ratio of men to women in the world. Another thing is that my stepdad was a widower. He loved his first wife to death, and he now loves my mom to death...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 34 Responses Oct 26, 2007

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    My feelings are hurt, and I am telling it how I feel, but I really don't believe someone Like you, can love someone like me, hell, i don't think anyone can love someone like me...
    BroknGirl89 BroknGirl89 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    Not Anymore.... I am not going to wear myself thin, and go out of my way to be there for my friends in their time of need, when, it comes that I need them for one reason or...
    BroknGirl89 BroknGirl89 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    That's what I've been told.
    Thalassophobic Thalassophobic 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    My Uncle got Dementia and went into a home! I phoned up the UK Post Office to pay his bill and cancel his phone as his house had been empty for months and they were still charging...
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    I believe in forever, but I don't believe marriage should be a necessity for it.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    I believe in being a good person.
    Justsilence00 Justsilence00 26-30, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Never have. I just don't understand why you would need a piece of paper to prove your love to someone, and why should you limit yourself so harshly. If you love someone, decide to...
    girlinwhite girlinwhite 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Now I am going to vent! Yesterday on the current affair was a programme about a "church" whose adherents are meeting in Sydney, the followers come from all over the world to the...
    berangere berangere 66-70, F 15 Responses 3 days ago

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    i believe only persons who need to be apart of something concrete
    miimii0069 miimii0069 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Whenever I express something on fb, or here about problem I'm having or just a bad day, I'm always dreading that one person who is going to say something like "I'll pray for you...
    MammaWolfie MammaWolfie 22-25, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    To others also blocked by 'Misreedy', It seems as though Missreedy has had her cage rattled. A deep insecurity, especially if she has blocked vociferous non-believers like me...
    TrevorThomson TrevorThomson 26-30, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Had an experience with this girl who I talked to for about one year and six months, we talked everyday for hours, we wanted to meet in real life. I found a hidden facebook account...
    SpanishCristian SpanishCristian 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    moose73630 moose73630 16-17, M 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I was on my smoke break at work and was chatting the solar system, space travel, ect. I chimed in "I feel that believing in aliens is fun, more fun than believing in ghost...
    Uxirusu Uxirusu 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    NY Times: ********** not a Crime; Pedos "Deserve Rights"
    PMWhite PMWhite 31-35, M 5 days ago

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    But I want him gone. I don't believe he deserves any happiness, or even calm contentment, after the way he treated me.... I'm STILL waiting with extreme impatience for Karma to...
    AloneInUniverse AloneInUniverse 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    But I want him gone. I don't believe he deserves any happiness, or even calm contentment, after the way he treated me.... I'm STILL waiting with extreme impatience for Karma to...
    AloneInUniverse AloneInUniverse 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    Don´t trust too much...don´t believe too much...because all that "too much" can hurt you "so much"...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    The weekend was going good until I found out that my M-I-L practised reiki on my son. Something that we don't believe in and don't want her messing with. We were so close to...
    aquiver aquiver 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    i don't believe I will make it life. why? nothing means much to me...i know there are days when I have 'bliss' because of distractions, but in the end I can't find meaning in much...
    RedChaplin RedChaplin 18-21, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    I mean come on their bones are in Museiums and the ground. It has to be Hilarious because their bones are right there.
    Maybeincubus Maybeincubus 22-25, M a week ago

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    Where do I start…? I suppose the beginning is as good a place as any. I had my first boyfriend when I was 14, and I was certain he was the one. We were soul mates, and I was...
    Midnax149 Midnax149 18-21, F a week ago

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    I have been married for a little over 10 years and have been miserable for about 9 of it. I have 2 beautiful girls both under the age of 10 whom I love to the moon and back. After...
    laiken20 laiken20 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 25

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    There's no such thing as fate. It's simply a combination of one circumstance with another. And who's it, that creates those circumstances?...
    Pain24 Pain24 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    Soooooo,Hmm(clearing throat) I met a woman in college in 2009 after a breakup with another woman that just up and left me with these words ''Later on in life you'll see that it...