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I Dont Believe In Cheating

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    I was cheated on by my first boyfriend.

    At the time, I knew it would never be forever with him. So, I luckily was not as crushed as I could have been had I been older and more in love. That being said, the public humiliation involved in it was much worse. I had people telling me that his cheating was my fault for not...
    MyUnspokenWord MyUnspokenWord 18-21, F 1 Response May 12

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    Cheating is something I can't

    even begin to understand why anybody would do. If you aren't happy in your relationship then you shouldn't be in one. If you'd rather mess around with other people, then don't be in a relationship. If you truly love somebody you would never even think of cheating on them with...
    mads225 mads225 16-17, F 5 Responses Oct 7, 2014

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    I've been cheated on many times.

    makes me wonder if its me or the person can't stay with one person. cheating is a nasty thing to do. it has left me feeling abandoned, insecure and having trust issues. this deeply affects my relationship now. my partner hasn't cheated but because I lack trust it has pushed him...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 13

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    I don't believe in cheating

    but everyone cheat. That's life bottom line. Deal with it At one point of your life, your going to get cheated on. Cry about it, fight it out ,do whatever. Cheating is apart of LIFE!!!!!!!!!
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 Responses May 13

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    It don't count as cheating

    if you wear a condom or you don't nut
    reeessa reeessa 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    Seriously . I don't get it .

    I've never had feelings for two people and even so I can make a choice . If I'm looking at someone else then I'm not looking at you which is a problem . If you want someone else you don't want me . That's what breaks and break-ups are for .
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 1 Response May 13

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    I Would Never

    I would never cheat on my husband. He makes me happy in every way possible. Now it's one thing to look and flirt but it would never go beyond that. He is the best person in my life and I love to keep it that way. I'm happily his now and forever. I couldn't ever hurt him like that...
    Tara277 Tara277 26-30, F 7 Responses Nov 10, 2012

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    I don't see any point in cheating.

    If you're not happy with the relationship you're in then just leave that relationship and find one you are committed to. Don't screw with another person's feelings because you're unsure of yours.
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 12

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    If you are going to cheat then why

    even enter into a relationship of marriage. It would be better for you to have never gotten married. For those of you in a sexless marriage get a divorce but do not cheat and work out your problems together. It takes two people to tango in their marriage. It also takes two...
    pattywoods pattywoods 31-35, F 8 Responses Jan 19, 2014

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    chamicus chamicus 26-30, M 3 Responses May 12

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    What Is With This Question--- (Is Oral Sex Cheating?)

    OF COURSE it is! Has society become so rotten that we really feel the need to ask whether oral sex is cheating? Seriously?...Holy crap, and some people actually choose that it's not cheating....you know I avoid profanity as much as possible for the simple fact that I don't...
    AbandonedArchangel AbandonedArchangel 26-30, M 7 Responses Jun 29, 2010

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    Every time I go on this app

    and see the "popular" experiences, it's usually about someone cheating, having some sort of affair, or being the other man/woman. -_- So many people share this experience and I think it's making me a bit wary of relationships. ( ._.) I don't want to be cheated on. -.-
    Knixveus5 Knixveus5 18-21, M Feb 1

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    I just heard a man say this: "I don't

    even see the point of monogamy anymore I mean if you're a guy and you're monogamous then you're p*ssy whipped little b*tch. If you cheat then you're a heartless *******. If you're a woman your a clingy b*tch. If you cheat then you're still a b*tch." no no... not at all. This...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94 18-21, F 8 Responses Feb 21

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    My boyfriend of 4 months has been in a previous

    relationship where he was cheated on, they were together for a year and a half and it's really left him feeling broken... Last night I found out he had been drunk (doesn't make it any better) and messaging a girl and asking her for cuddles and things (this was a month ago) and I...
    tayliajane tayliajane 18-21, F 6 Responses May 6

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    even if my boyfriend cheat on me I'll never

    cheat on him to get pay back because I want him to know that I still care and I can have anyone I want if I want to but two wrongs don't make a right because I don't believe in cheating but I know that you are not supposed to waste your time on a person who don't love you
    pimpgame pimpgame 13-15, F May 13

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    Dottyz Dottyz 22-25, F 1 Response May 12

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    Either you live up to the relationship

    that you are in or accept the fact that if you're looking somewhere else, you're not happy with what you have right now. Man up and end the relationship if you don't want to work it out anymore. Don't waste anyone's time. Time's precious. Don't hurt. Be more picky if you're...
    TabbyGirl18 TabbyGirl18 26-30, F 5 Responses Dec 9, 2013

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    Call me old fashion, call me a prude.

    I just have this part of me that keeps me true. Whatever I promise, that's what I do. A bit of a romantic, Maybe old fashioned to. If I give you my word you can bet I will be true. I am a man with morals, I value you. I do not share, Just me and you. I don't play games with...
    michael1971 michael1971 41-45, M 4 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    If you cheat, you instantly disgust me.

    There is literally no point in cheating. If you don't like the relationship, LEAVE! If you don't like the marriage, either wok it out or divorce! Yes to go through a divorce you may go through a lot but you're going through more trying to hide your cheating. I've been cheated on...
    ForeverLostPoet ForeverLostPoet 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 6, 2014

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    Nobody is perfect but cheating is on a whole

    different level. My friend asked me for advice about he boyfriend cheating on her.
    Rosebox Rosebox 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 18

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    why be with someone if you don't love them ,

    if you did once and your not happy anymore then leave but put everything clear maybe that way the person won't get as hurt as they would if you cheated on them
    angie314 angie314 13-15, F May 13

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    Never Have, Never Will

    I understand and know that there are many reasons that people will cheat or stray from their committed relationships. And by no means would I begin to judge those that do, its not my business. But in my own mind and sense of morale it is not something I am capable of doing. Not...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 4 Responses May 7, 2012

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    What's worse than just a cheating husband/wife,

    is probably when a homewrecker is involved. I have no respect for them what so ever.
    MadNocturnes MadNocturnes 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 11

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    I don't understand why people think being

    cowardly is attractive. Because that's what a cheater is. They are people without the backbone and convection to confront whatever the scenario is that "caused" them to cheat. If your wife or hubby doesn't have sex often enough tell them and tell them you want to augment your...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 15, 2014

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    I honestly do not understand

    why people cheat. If you are unhappy in a relationship, just leave.. do not drag someone down by stringing them along, strangling their emotions and freedom and taking away their chance at happiness. People always jump to the assumption that the grass is greener with somebody...
    Friendship0nlyPlease Friendship0nlyPlease 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    When I was young and dating a male friend I

    never cheated. When I was married I never cheated ever on my husbands. There is no need to cheat if you are truly in love and not lust. If you are going to cheat, then why even get married. Get a divorce and stop the cheating.
    olderblondemom olderblondemom 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 22, 2013

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    Justifying Being Horny and Weak

    Everyone in a longterm, monogamous relationship gets bored and is attracted to other people on ocassion. Sexual feelings and desires, fantasies....etc. are all completely natural. However, we all have a neocortex and are capable of thinking about the consequences of our actions...
    moejoe moejoe 36-40, M 14 Responses Jun 11, 2008

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    I Am Totally Against Cheating In Any Relationship !!!

    I see it happen all around me and its happened to me more than once,,, causes deep depression,, and no desire to do a damn thing with ones life!
    NightOwl321 NightOwl321 41-45 1 Response Jan 25, 2013

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    Just be honest with yourself

    and your partner. If you have the desire to cheat, you should probably end your relationship. On the other hand, Women, Men, if you refuse to give it up to your significant other, don't be surprised when they tell you they have the desire to sleep with someone else. We're...
    KaskadingKoquette KaskadingKoquette 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 18, 2014

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    I haven't been cheated on,

    and for some reason cheating ****** me off more than it normally would. Probably because I've seen someone who's been affected by someone cheating on them and it really does down people. I don't understand the whole hype of dating more than 1 person or having an affair. You...
    jacithepanda jacithepanda 13-15, F 1 Response May 12

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    I am not a cheater because i dont believe in

    cheating,i have always followed the path of truth no matter what the situation is and from a young age i knew that honest is the best policy so from my side its a big no for cheating,and i hope that one day each and everyone of us will be honest.
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M May 13

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    What In The Hell?

    As a thrown away byproduct of more than one affair I am actually becoming sickened by the "experiences" (mostly women, hypocrites of their gender) post on here about an affair they've had. Worst yet, trying to justify it as "we only went so far" or "it's what we did, not who we...
    Dantescircle Dantescircle 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 18, 2013

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    I just feel its wrong.

    You offer your heart to someone and then take it back when they are not looking. Cheaters should be taken out to the desert and maimed!! JK bout the maimed part
    MilaBilagrl MilaBilagrl 18-21, F 9 Responses Apr 23

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    I don't understand why it's

    so hard to be considerate. If you're not feeling it or you find your mind and eyes wandering, be fair to you and your partner and just end it!
    BleuGardenia BleuGardenia 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 2, 2014

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    I don't understand why people cheat.

    If you love the person you're with, you'd find a way to make things work. If you're with someone but were in love with someone else, leave the person you're with. Going behind their back to be with someone else hurts more than being honest and leaving them in the first place.
    GreenEyess GreenEyess 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I was cheated on, and all I could think about

    was, why wasn't I enough for you? What was I not doing right? We are still together, but I still wonder sometimes
    Katiemaryxoxo Katiemaryxoxo 16-17 5 Responses May 12

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    My marriage is at its end right now.

    Wife is demanding her freedom after twenty plus years together. I was in an open marriage it's just that I didn't know or approve of it. I never once cheated in her even after finding out about her indiscretions. Now I find myself looking forward to the divorce to finalize in a...
    SamStartingOver SamStartingOver 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 3, 2014

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    Result Of Cheating...

    I fell for a man, our relationship started in an unusual manner and perhaps that should have given it away. However, as time went on and he took me on trips, wanted me to stay over for days at a time, bought me gifts, brought me into his life....I slowly allowed myself to care...
    wickedties wickedties 41-45, F 55 Responses Jun 15, 2012

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    i cant uderstand why anyone would cheat on

    someone they surposed to love .i would never cheat cause i know how hurt they woukd be ,its not nice feeling i have had it done to myself and it made me so sad .hope i meet someone else who make me happy again.
    bran49 bran49 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    Something I need to see: I feel sorry

    for any of these women or men who get cheated on. I see people on here talking about how they had several affairs and they don't regret. Listen, you're a piece of crap. That's right, I judged you. Deal with it. I feel sorry for your significant other who has to deal with your...
    InvaderGashloog InvaderGashloog 70+, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2014

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    I just hate it. In any type of relationship ,

    cheating is wrong period . Smh 😑
    dezi1124 dezi1124 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 24

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    Dance96 Dance96 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 13

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    How is cheating alright?

    Even if you are in a loveless marriage , cheating will never be okay. Do the honourable thing and break it off if you are unhappy. I was called "naive" on one of these pages for thinking cheating is wrong. In fact, I think they are the ones who need to realize that their selfish...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 20, 2014

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    CloseButNoGuitar CloseButNoGuitar 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 23

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    After I read the punishment

    for adulterers I'm horrified baffled and couldn't think about anything else but the crime news I read every day. I'd rather die than go through that so yeah I'm not going to have a one night stand or physical relationship before marriage. Just in case...never to break this code...
    Nual Nual 22-25, F 1 Response May 14

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    Being cheated on broke my heart.

    Im not sure I will ever recover. It has made me feel dirty ugly and unwanted. I have lost my belief in relationships!
    cjim730 cjim730 51-55, F 7 Responses Mar 22

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