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I Dont Believe In Cheating

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    What Is With This Question--- (Is Oral Sex Cheating?)

    OF COURSE it is! Has society become so rotten that we really feel the need to ask whether oral sex is cheating? Seriously?...Holy crap, and some people actually choose that it's not cheating....you know I avoid profanity as much as possible for the simple fact that I don't...
    AbandonedArchangel AbandonedArchangel 26-30, M 8 Responses Jun 29, 2010

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    Result Of Cheating...

    I fell for a man, our relationship started in an unusual manner and perhaps that should have given it away. However, as time went on and he took me on trips, wanted me to stay over for days at a time, bought me gifts, brought me into his life....I slowly allowed myself to care...
    wickedties wickedties 41-45, F 57 Responses Jun 15, 2012

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    My finances best friend has cheated on her

    boyfriend and it scared the **** out of me ๐Ÿšฌ๐Ÿ˜ต
    jfisthebest jfisthebest 22-25, M 1 Response May 27

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    This is never going to happen.

    I don't care if I'm unhappy in my marriage. I will work through it. I am NOT that kind of woman.
    HushedThoughts HushedThoughts 22-25 4 Responses Aug 15

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    I Am Totally Against Cheating In Any Relationship !!!

    I see it happen all around me and its happened to me more than once,,, causes deep depression,, and no desire to do a damn thing with ones life!
    NightOwl321 NightOwl321 41-45 1 Response Jan 25, 2013

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    Most times you hear about the guy being the

    cheater but this time my 5 month girlfriend was the cheater. Well I am not so sure about the severity of what she did but I have not yet forgiven her or broken up with her. She didn't even tell me yet, she doesn't even know I know about it. Her best friend told me about it and...
    LastTime1 LastTime1 13-15, M Sep 1

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    Being cheated on is the worst feeling in the

    world and I don't think I'll ever be good enough for anyone that scares me ๐Ÿ™ˆ #hurt #lesbian #
    Daniellestiller Daniellestiller 18-21 May 21

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    I have been loyal and totally in love with the

    one girl since high school never even crossed my mind to look at another woman in my eyes she is all i ever wanted we have a son together and the two of them my entire world but she did not have that same loyalty in the time we have been together she has broken my heart a couple...
    bigfoot1976 bigfoot1976 36-40, M 3 Responses Jan 6

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    Cheating is something I can't

    even begin to understand why anybody would do. If you aren't happy in your relationship then you shouldn't be in one. If you'd rather mess around with other people, then don't be in a relationship. If you truly love somebody you would never even think of cheating on them with...
    mads225 mads225 13-15, F 7 Responses Oct 7

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    Cheating is NOT a mistake.

    If youโ€™re truly in love with someone, you will not be able to kiss someone else without tasting your loved ones tears stain your lips. You will not be able to take your clothes off for someone else without feeling like a field ripped bare to its soil. Cheating is a choice, its...
    smeckledorfed smeckledorfed 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    If you cheat it means you aren't in love with

    your partner and that is my feelings because I have seen it destroy people because they could have broken up but choose to cheat instead an brought friends into it.
    Eyeofthebeholder23 Eyeofthebeholder23 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 8

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    I have been cheated on by ever guy I have ever

    dated. I will never understand how you can be with two people at the same time. How can you be happy with yourself? How can you pretend to be happy with your boyfriend/girlfriend and then go around with another person? Honestly makes no sense to me. When you're in a relationship...
    abbyhh25 abbyhh25 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 1

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    Married And Looking In Ep, Is Cheating To Me.

    I am really amazed how people tend to fool others but mostly themselves. I understand that being in a sexless marriage must be very painful, or being around a woman who you truly love and she is just not interested in having any kind of intimacy (any kind) with you. I talk about...
    MyNameIsCecilia MyNameIsCecilia 46-50, F 6 Responses Nov 23, 2011

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    Just be honest with yourself

    and your partner. If you have the desire to cheat, you should probably end your relationship. On the other hand, Women, Men, if you refuse to give it up to your significant other, don't be surprised when they tell you they have the desire to sleep with someone else. We're...
    CascadingCoquette CascadingCoquette 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 18

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    Either you live up to the relationship

    that you are in or accept the fact that if you're looking somewhere else, you're not happy with what you have right now. Man up and end the relationship if you don't want to work it out anymore. Don't waste anyone's time. Time's precious. Don't hurt. Be more picky if you're...
    TabbyGirl18 TabbyGirl18 26-30, F 5 Responses Dec 9, 2013

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    The worst kind of cheating is

    when you're married. Why would anyone do that?
    Fortiplex Fortiplex 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 4

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    Something I need to see: I feel sorry

    for any of these women or men who get cheated on. I see people on here talking about how they had several affairs and they don't regret. Listen, you're a piece of crap. That's right, I judged you. Deal with it. I feel sorry for your significant other who has to deal with your...
    InvaderGashloog InvaderGashloog 70+, F 1 Response Oct 17

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    I have been cheated on in every relationship I

    have had bar one! I would never cheat on anyone ever. The experiences made me lose faith in men for a while until I snapped out of it and realised that it was me in the wrong for choosing 'those types' not intentionally... I think men are amazing and are capable of not cheating...
    Rainbowcatcher Rainbowcatcher 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 23

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    My best friends friend is dating my ex.

    Me and him ended on good terms and remained friends but faded apart because she doesn't trust me around him and whatever and I saw his happiness and told him that I cared enough to be able to let go so he can move forward. Today I found out she cheated on him, I know he trusts...
    Jaimedee Jaimedee 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 23

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    I've never cheated on someone

    and never will But I need advice. - My bestfriend goes out with a guy called Warrick. They're really cute together and they both mean a lot to me. I promised them I'd look out for them and everything and well.. My best friend (Melissa) is cheating on Warrick but she doesn't...
    WeCouldBeDead WeCouldBeDead 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 18

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    It don't count as cheating

    if you wear a condom or you don't nut
    reeessa reeessa 13-15, F 6 Responses Oct 10

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    Being a female, I'd like to know

    when men cheat, do they do it because they've found someone more appealing to them? Or do they do it because they can't commit to just one woman? Or could it be the girl friend who's the problem? .. Because I have close friends who've been cheated on and I know they've been...
    Ms1993 Ms1993 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 15

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    Justifying Being Horny and Weak

    Everyone in a longterm, monogamous relationship gets bored and is attracted to other people on ocassion. Sexual feelings and desires, fantasies....etc. are all completely natural. However, we all have a neocortex and are capable of thinking about the consequences of our actions...
    moejoe moejoe 36-40, M 14 Responses Jun 11, 2008

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    Not My Thing...

    Hey if you want to do it that's your deal. As long as I'm with someone I'm committed to them. It's only fair and I'd only expect the same. I've also learned that although you may fall for a married person you shouldn't take it seriously. If they are willing to cheat on their...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 25, 2007

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    I don't understand why it's

    so hard to be considerate. If you're not feeling it or you find your mind and eyes wandering, be fair to you and your partner and just end it!
    BleuGardenia BleuGardenia 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    Well people can love you

    and still cheat on you , but that's just a long demons talk its just about something most of you won't understand completely so I'll just say its his demon who leads them to do it and they are forced to it .. Like sneezing in silence place , you can't control it or hide it , it...
    nonorawi nonorawi 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 27

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    How is cheating alright?

    Even if you are in a loveless marriage , cheating will never be okay. Do the honourable thing and break it off if you are unhappy. I was called "naive" on one of these pages for thinking cheating is wrong. In fact, I think they are the ones who need to realize that their selfish...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 20

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    My marriage is at its end right now.

    Wife is demanding her freedom after twenty plus years together. I was in an open marriage it's just that I didn't know or approve of it. I never once cheated in her even after finding out about her indiscretions. Now I find myself looking forward to the divorce to finalize in a...
    SamStartingOver SamStartingOver 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I never have believed in cheating

    and now that I have been cheated on I'm a much strong advocate for it.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 31

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    What In The Hell?

    As a thrown away byproduct of more than one affair I am actually becoming sickened by the "experiences" (mostly women, hypocrites of their gender) post on here about an affair they've had. Worst yet, trying to justify it as "we only went so far" or "it's what we did, not who we...
    Dantescircle Dantescircle 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 18, 2013

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    Never Have, Never Will

    I understand and know that there are many reasons that people will cheat or stray from their committed relationships. And by no means would I begin to judge those that do, its not my business. But in my own mind and sense of morale it is not something I am capable of doing. Not...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 4 Responses May 7, 2012

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    I don't believe in it.

    .. Yet I've done it. I hate myself every day for it. I probably ruined my life because of it. If he finds out, it'll completely break his heart, even though we aren't together anymore. I almost cheated on him with his best friend. The day before I broke up with him, I was at...
    PraiseGod101 PraiseGod101 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 16

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    Ok I put on the play station to watch a video

    of you tube on it and I find my husband had researched escorts. I confronted him...I turned the tv off said calmly I seen your research and I don't care I want you out off my life. He starts laughing at me! Refused it all said he done nothing. Then after he says he just...
    Warriorbutterfly Warriorbutterfly 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 14

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    Call me old fashion, call me a prude.

    I just have this part of me that keeps me true. Whatever I promise, that's what I do. A bit of a romantic, Maybe old fashioned to. If I give you my word you can bet I will be true. I am a man with morals, I value you. I do not share, Just me and you. I don't play games with...
    michael1971 michael1971 41-45, M 4 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    disappointment is just God,

    s way to say you that i have some thing better for you just be patient live life and have faith on me...........
    isabelarao isabelarao 18-21, F Feb 14

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    Cheating Karma

    I originally posted this as a blog as a result of a question I read on the Q&A, frankly I was so blown away by the answers and the conversation that I needed to vent, please pardon any trucker words, lol! Anyway, it seemed appropiate to repost in this group... ONE of my best...
    wickedties wickedties 41-45, F 25 Responses Sep 13, 2010

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    If you cheat, you instantly disgust me.

    There is literally no point in cheating. If you don't like the relationship, LEAVE! If you don't like the marriage, either wok it out or divorce! Yes to go through a divorce you may go through a lot but you're going through more trying to hide your cheating. I've been cheated on...
    ForeverLostPoet ForeverLostPoet 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    When I was young and dating a male friend I

    never cheated. When I was married I never cheated ever on my husbands. There is no need to cheat if you are truly in love and not lust. If you are going to cheat, then why even get married. Get a divorce and stop the cheating.
    olderblondemom olderblondemom 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 22, 2013

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    I don't understand why people think being

    cowardly is attractive. Because that's what a cheater is. They are people without the backbone and convection to confront whatever the scenario is that "caused" them to cheat. If your wife or hubby doesn't have sex often enough tell them and tell them you want to augment your...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 15

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    Break up with the *****

    before you go **** someone! Shady Lyin bastards
    kpweant1 kpweant1 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 25

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    I heard someone say that cheating isn't bad

    or selfish. If it's not bad, why do you need to hide it from your spouse or whatever? If it's really okay, then you have nothing to hide or lie about. And yes, I'm judging you. So don't whine about it. Everyone judges, so don't act like you're all high and mighty when you're...
    InvaderGashloog InvaderGashloog 70+, F 2 Responses Nov 14

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    I don't believe in it.

    .. Yet I've done it. I hate myself every day for it. I probably ruined my life because of it. If he finds out, it'll completely break his heart, even though we aren't together anymore. I almost cheated on him with his best friend. The day before I broke up with him, I was at...
    PraiseGod101 PraiseGod101 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 16

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    When some of you guys share stories of how hard

    it is to be the "other woman" it really makes me wonder why you chose to be with a person that's already involved with somebody else. Why do you feel like the victim?
    Ennah Ennah 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    If you are going to cheat then why

    even enter into a relationship of marriage. It would be better for you to have never gotten married. For those of you in a sexless marriage get a divorce but do not cheat and work out your problems together. It takes two people to tango in their marriage. It also takes two...
    pattywoods pattywoods 31-35, F 8 Responses Jan 19

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    I Would Never

    I would never cheat on my husband. He makes me happy in every way possible. Now it's one thing to look and flirt but it would never go beyond that. He is the best person in my life and I love to keep it that way. I'm happily his now and forever. I couldn't ever hurt him like that...
    Tara277 Tara277 26-30, F 7 Responses Nov 10, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Hello everybody, and thank you for taking the time to read my experience and give me a piece of mind. To start, I'll talk about a little of my background. 5 years ago, I found...
    misschillax misschillax 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 10

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    I'm not really emotional but I think cheating is wrong period. In my relationships, I make it very clear that if I find that the other person is cheating, he's a fool and will...
    VicAshley01 VicAshley01 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 16

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    Hey there, I figured it was the only place to talk about it since I'm too ashamed to tell anyone, even my closest friends. I'm a 20-year-old male living with my parents and right...
    Ciccone Ciccone 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    I was in one once... He would tell me I'm a piece of **** and worthless and I was not allowed to meet his parents. When we first met he spent the whole time checking out other...
    DepressingKayla DepressingKayla 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 1

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    I truly believe that cheating on someone is wrong I could never do it myself no will I my mother brought me a better then to cheat on life to my girlfriend I could never do
    peemybed peemybed 41-45, M 6 Responses Dec 12

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    Help!! Im not too sure of this website, but i do know that I am depressed and nearest to hell I've ever been in my Life. Im so upset..that I've been accused of cheating on my...
    weeblewobblebutIwontfalldown weeblewobblebutIwontfalldown 41-45, M Dec 19