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I Dont Believe In Cheating

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    If you are going to cheat then why

    even enter into a relationship of marriage. It would be better for you to have never gotten married. For those of you in a sexless marriage get a divorce but do not cheat and work out your problems together. It takes two people to tango in their marriage. It also takes two...
    pattywoods pattywoods 31-35, F 8 Responses Jan 19, 2014

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    if someone else is so enticing to you

    that it makes you want to or be unfaithful to the person you're with, then you might add elm just break up with them. what the point of all the secrets and hiding stuff and all that work when you obviously don't want to be with the person you are currently with. ..
    lyssal lyssal 18-21, F May 12

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    I just feel its wrong.

    You offer your heart to someone and then take it back when they are not looking. Cheaters should be taken out to the desert and maimed!! JK bout the maimed part
    MilaBilagrl MilaBilagrl 18-21, F 9 Responses Apr 23

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    I am reading the news seeing the story about

    Ashley Madison and the only thing I can think of is someone got cheated on through there and wants revenge
    Virgo1981 Virgo1981 31-35, F Jul 21

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    Just be honest with yourself

    and your partner. If you have the desire to cheat, you should probably end your relationship. On the other hand, Women, Men, if you refuse to give it up to your significant other, don't be surprised when they tell you they have the desire to sleep with someone else. We're...
    KaskadingKoquette KaskadingKoquette 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 18, 2014

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    I don't see any point in cheating.

    If you're not happy with the relationship you're in then just leave that relationship and find one you are committed to. Don't screw with another person's feelings because you're unsure of yours.
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 12

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    I haven't been cheated on,

    and for some reason cheating ****** me off more than it normally would. Probably because I've seen someone who's been affected by someone cheating on them and it really does down people. I don't understand the whole hype of dating more than 1 person or having an affair. You...
    jacithepanda jacithepanda 13-15, F 1 Response May 12

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    Married And Looking In Ep, Is Cheating To Me.

    I am really amazed how people tend to fool others but mostly themselves. I understand that being in a sexless marriage must be very painful, or being around a woman who you truly love and she is just not interested in having any kind of intimacy (any kind) with you. I talk about...
    MyNameIsCecilia MyNameIsCecilia 46-50, F 6 Responses Nov 23, 2011

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    A girl just wants that one guy to prove to her

    that they're not all the same.
    CandyCrushers CandyCrushers 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 16

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    jamme30 jamme30 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    Cheating is NOT a mistake.

    If you’re truly in love with someone, you will not be able to kiss someone else without tasting your loved ones tears stain your lips. You will not be able to take your clothes off for someone else without feeling like a field ripped bare to its soil. Cheating is a choice, its...
    glassbonespaperskin glassbonespaperskin 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 29, 2014

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    Seriously, people need to stop cheating.

    I find no logic in it at all, you just leave a trail of destruction and leave the other person feeling like they are not and never will be good enough for anyone. So here's a shout out to all the people that have ever been dragged down, torn apart and left feeling worthless...
    Friendship0nlyPlease Friendship0nlyPlease 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    My wife had emotional affairs on me twice with

    the same guy and then had her now-husband spending nights between the separation and divorce. I have never cheated, and will never cheat on a woman who trusts me with her feelings, just as I trust her with mine. I don't sleep around because I want emotional and mental intimacy...
    Writer1967 Writer1967 46-50, M 3 Responses Jul 13

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    When I'm in a relationship I get really

    obsessed. I have no time to be cheating when I'm busy stalking you. :3
    Irvyy Irvyy 18-21, M 5 Responses Jul 13

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    Cheating is something I can't

    even begin to understand why anybody would do. If you aren't happy in your relationship then you shouldn't be in one. If you'd rather mess around with other people, then don't be in a relationship. If you truly love somebody you would never even think of cheating on them with...
    mads225 mads225 16-17, F 5 Responses Oct 7, 2014

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    After I read the punishment

    for adulterers I'm horrified baffled and couldn't think about anything else but the crime news I read every day. I'd rather die than go through that so yeah I'm not going to have a one night stand or physical relationship before marriage. Just in case...never to break this code...
    Nual Nual 22-25, F 1 Response May 14

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    What Is With This Question--- (Is Oral Sex Cheating?)

    OF COURSE it is! Has society become so rotten that we really feel the need to ask whether oral sex is cheating? Seriously?...Holy crap, and some people actually choose that it's not cheating....you know I avoid profanity as much as possible for the simple fact that I don't...
    AbandonedArchangel AbandonedArchangel 26-30, M 7 Responses Jun 29, 2010

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    Something I need to see: I feel sorry

    for any of these women or men who get cheated on. I see people on here talking about how they had several affairs and they don't regret. Listen, you're a piece of crap. That's right, I judged you. Deal with it. I feel sorry for your significant other who has to deal with your...
    InvaderGashloog InvaderGashloog 70+, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2014

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    Seriously . I don't get it .

    I've never had feelings for two people and even so I can make a choice . If I'm looking at someone else then I'm not looking at you which is a problem . If you want someone else you don't want me . That's what breaks and break-ups are for .
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 1 Response May 13

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    I just heard a man say this: "I don't

    even see the point of monogamy anymore I mean if you're a guy and you're monogamous then you're p*ssy whipped little b*tch. If you cheat then you're a heartless *******. If you're a woman your a clingy b*tch. If you cheat then you're still a b*tch." no no... not at all. This...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94 18-21, F 8 Responses Feb 21

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    Result Of Cheating...

    I fell for a man, our relationship started in an unusual manner and perhaps that should have given it away. However, as time went on and he took me on trips, wanted me to stay over for days at a time, bought me gifts, brought me into his life....I slowly allowed myself to care...
    wickedties wickedties 41-45, F 55 Responses Jun 15, 2012

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    sarahccaa sarahccaa 26-30, F 1 Response May 18

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    I've been cheated on many times.

    makes me wonder if its me or the person can't stay with one person. cheating is a nasty thing to do. it has left me feeling abandoned, insecure and having trust issues. this deeply affects my relationship now. my partner hasn't cheated but because I lack trust it has pushed him...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 13

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    Never Have, Never Will

    I understand and know that there are many reasons that people will cheat or stray from their committed relationships. And by no means would I begin to judge those that do, its not my business. But in my own mind and sense of morale it is not something I am capable of doing. Not...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 4 Responses May 7, 2012

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    Call me old fashion, call me a prude.

    I just have this part of me that keeps me true. Whatever I promise, that's what I do. A bit of a romantic, Maybe old fashioned to. If I give you my word you can bet I will be true. I am a man with morals, I value you. I do not share, Just me and you. I don't play games with...
    michael1971 michael1971 41-45, M 4 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    SpideyAlyx SpideyAlyx 13-15, M 3 Responses Jul 12

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    Cheating Karma

    I originally posted this as a blog as a result of a question I read on the Q&A, frankly I was so blown away by the answers and the conversation that I needed to vent, please pardon any trucker words, lol! Anyway, it seemed appropiate to repost in this group... ONE of my best...
    wickedties wickedties 41-45, F 25 Responses Sep 13, 2010

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    I just hate it. In any type of relationship ,

    cheating is wrong period . Smh 😑
    dezi1124 dezi1124 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 24

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    even if my boyfriend cheat on me I'll never

    cheat on him to get pay back because I want him to know that I still care and I can have anyone I want if I want to but two wrongs don't make a right because I don't believe in cheating but I know that you are not supposed to waste your time on a person who don't love you
    pimpgame pimpgame 13-15, F May 13

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    Dottyz Dottyz 22-25, F 2 Responses May 12

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    I just don't get it. Why would one person

    betray the one he/she loves? If stuff is not cool at least be sincere and end the relationship instead of cheating and being a liar
    ChubbyFox ChubbyFox 18-21, M 4 Responses May 17

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    If you cheat, you instantly disgust me.

    There is literally no point in cheating. If you don't like the relationship, LEAVE! If you don't like the marriage, either wok it out or divorce! Yes to go through a divorce you may go through a lot but you're going through more trying to hide your cheating. I've been cheated on...
    ForeverLostPoet ForeverLostPoet 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 6, 2014

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    I don't understand why people think being

    cowardly is attractive. Because that's what a cheater is. They are people without the backbone and convection to confront whatever the scenario is that "caused" them to cheat. If your wife or hubby doesn't have sex often enough tell them and tell them you want to augment your...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 15, 2014

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    I was cheated on, and all I could think about

    was, why wasn't I enough for you? What was I not doing right? We are still together, but I still wonder sometimes
    Katiemaryxoxo Katiemaryxoxo 16-17 5 Responses May 12

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    It don't count as cheating

    if you wear a condom or you don't nut
    reeessa reeessa 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    If you're in a relationship never cheat.

    That destroys people's feelings. However if it's on a test, utilize your resources, even if you're not allowed.
    moose73630 moose73630 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    I don't believe in cheating

    but everyone cheat. That's life bottom line. Deal with it At one point of your life, your going to get cheated on. Cry about it, fight it out ,do whatever. Cheating is apart of LIFE!!!!!!!!!
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 Responses May 13

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    I Am Totally Against Cheating In Any Relationship !!!

    I see it happen all around me and its happened to me more than once,,, causes deep depression,, and no desire to do a damn thing with ones life!
    NightOwl321 NightOwl321 41-45 1 Response Jan 25, 2013

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    It's become an epidemic!

    Cheating is the new norm.
    skyflower627 skyflower627 41-45, M 5 Responses Jul 12

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    I can barely get one person to like me,

    how the heck am I supposed to get TWO people to like me. That's why I wouldn't be able to cheat. Plus, it's just a d*ck move.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 13

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    I don't believe in cheating

    as I have been cheated on. Sometimes the urges are there and fight them off. I love my husband. He is. Wonderful man and a great father but I wish he was more passionate and sexual. He's more of a once a week guy and I'm more of a two + times a week. Sometimes I just crave...
    Socal73 Socal73 41-45, M 7 Responses Jul 13

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    Justifying Being Horny and Weak

    Everyone in a longterm, monogamous relationship gets bored and is attracted to other people on ocassion. Sexual feelings and desires, fantasies....etc. are all completely natural. However, we all have a neocortex and are capable of thinking about the consequences of our actions...
    moejoe moejoe 36-40, M 14 Responses Jun 11, 2008

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    lvycc11 lvycc11 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    Hurts way, waaaay too much in relationships.

    If anyone can't help themselves, I suggest more tolerable alternatives such as diets and deaths.
    iCuriousBabe iCuriousBabe 41-45, F 6 Responses Jul 12

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    Nobody is perfect but cheating is on a whole

    different level. My friend asked me for advice about he boyfriend cheating on her.
    Rosebox Rosebox 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 18

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    My marriage is at its end right now.

    Wife is demanding her freedom after twenty plus years together. I was in an open marriage it's just that I didn't know or approve of it. I never once cheated in her even after finding out about her indiscretions. Now I find myself looking forward to the divorce to finalize in a...
    SamStartingOver SamStartingOver 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 3, 2014

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