I Dont Believe In Cheating

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    Never Have, Never Will

    I understand and know that there are many reasons that people will cheat or stray from their committed relationships. And by no means would I begin to judge those that do, its not my business. But in my own mind and sense of morale it is not something I am capable of doing. Not...
    snowberry75 snowberry75
    36-40, F
    4 Responses May 7, 2012

    I was cheated on by my first boyfriend.

    At the time, I knew it would never be forever with him. So, I luckily was not as crushed as I could have been had I been older and more in love. That being said, the public humiliation involved in it was much worse. I had people telling me that his cheating was my fault for not...
    MyUnspokenWord MyUnspokenWord
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 12, 2015

    How To Turn Six Dollars Into Six Thousand

    Dollars: I found this on a bulletin board and decided to try it. A little while back I was browsing 
through newsgroups just like you are now and came across an article similar to this that 
said you could make thousands of dollars within weeks with only an initial...
    Wtfwhyiseverythingtaken Wtfwhyiseverythingtaken
    26-30, F
    Jan 10

    What Is With This Question--- (Is Oral Sex Cheating?)

    OF COURSE it is! Has society become so rotten that we really feel the need to ask whether oral sex is cheating? Seriously?...Holy crap, and some people actually choose that it's not cheating....you know I avoid profanity as much as possible for the simple fact that I don't...
    AbandonedArchangel AbandonedArchangel
    26-30, M
    7 Responses Jun 29, 2010

    I am reading the news seeing the story about

    Ashley Madison and the only thing I can think of is someone got cheated on through there and wants revenge
    Virgo1981 Virgo1981
    31-35, F
    Jul 21, 2015

    for her 21st birthday I travelled to her home

    country with her so she could celebrate with family, we had been together for 4 years (she was 5 years younger than me) whilst helping her setup her brand new phone over a coffee in town, a message flashed up. she proceeded to delete and spin me a story. I spent the next 2 days...
    adamkendal adamkendal
    31-35, M
    9 Responses Nov 24, 2015

    When I'm in a relationship I get really

    obsessed. I have no time to be cheating when I'm busy stalking you. :3
    Irvyy Irvyy
    18-21, M
    6 Responses Jul 13, 2015

    Cheating is just another phrase to say

    for Disrespecting your partner, even if you were cheated on first. I just don't think it seems right to cheat.
    RandomExistence RandomExistence
    16-17, M
    2 Responses Nov 2, 2015

    Cheating is something I can't

    even begin to understand why anybody would do. If you aren't happy in your relationship then you shouldn't be in one. If you'd rather mess around with other people, then don't be in a relationship. If you truly love somebody you would never even think of cheating on them with...
    mads225 mads225
    16-17, F
    5 Responses Oct 7, 2014

    how do u fix a relationship

    after being cheated on?
    ChangingLife2015 ChangingLife2015
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Oct 23, 2015

    My wife had emotional affairs on me twice with

    the same guy and then had her now-husband spending nights between the separation and divorce. I have never cheated, and will never cheat on a woman who trusts me with her feelings, just as I trust her with mine. I don't sleep around because I want emotional and mental intimacy...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jul 13, 2015

    If you don't want to be in a commited

    relationship, stay out of a relationship. I hate it when people make it seem more complicated than that.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Nov 10, 2015

    In a relationship I don't,

    I actually put in all of me which I can't afford to throw away like I don't care and it takes time for me to actually admit that am in love so when I do, I am very sure of what am doing. In a competition, winning means a lot to me so if there's an opportunity to cheat, the hell...
    dollarsigns dollarsigns
    16-17, M
    1 Response Feb 28

    If you are going to cheat then why

    even enter into a relationship of marriage. It would be better for you to have never gotten married. For those of you in a sexless marriage get a divorce but do not cheat and work out your problems together. It takes two people to tango in their marriage. It also takes two...
    pattywoods pattywoods
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Jan 19, 2014

    Result Of Cheating...

    I fell for a man, our relationship started in an unusual manner and perhaps that should have given it away. However, as time went on and he took me on trips, wanted me to stay over for days at a time, bought me gifts, brought me into his life....I slowly allowed myself to care...
    wickedties wickedties
    41-45, F
    50 Responses Jun 15, 2012

    I just feel its wrong.

    You offer your heart to someone and then take it back when they are not looking. Cheaters should be taken out to the desert and maimed!! JK bout the maimed part
    MilaBilagrl MilaBilagrl
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Apr 23, 2015

    I can barely get one person to like me,

    how the heck am I supposed to get TWO people to like me. That's why I wouldn't be able to cheat. Plus, it's just a d*ck move.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jul 13, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    lvycc11 lvycc11
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 13, 2015

    The man I loved and was planning on spending

    the rest of my life with, after 18 years, cheated with another woman that we both worked with...ruined my life, my job, lost everything, including my home. Cheating makes you feel ugly, unwanted, and not worthy.
    cjim730 cjim730
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Sep 20, 2015

    it all depends on how one defines cheating.

    is it stepping out of a monogamous relationship or a polygamous relationship. what if one party agrees with the other seeing other people as long as they know about it. cheating in my book is having sexual relations with someone outside the agreement persons within the...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 5

    This is just how I feel,

    no preaching to others about it. I feel like if my man can't get all of me - body, heart, spirit and mind - then I should let him go so he can find someone who wants to be completely his. I feel like emotionally cheating is worse than physically cheating because of the heart. I...
    loveismyfriend loveismyfriend
    36-40, F
    Feb 1

    It don't count as cheating

    if you wear a condom or you don't nut
    reeessa reeessa
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Oct 10, 2014

    I don't see any point in cheating.

    If you're not happy with the relationship you're in then just leave that relationship and find one you are committed to. Don't screw with another person's feelings because you're unsure of yours.
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Apr 12, 2015

    Married And Looking In Ep, Is Cheating To Me.

    I am really amazed how people tend to fool others but mostly themselves. I understand that being in a sexless marriage must be very painful, or being around a woman who you truly love and she is just not interested in having any kind of intimacy (any kind) with you. I talk about...
    MyNameIsCecilia MyNameIsCecilia
    46-50, F
    6 Responses Nov 23, 2011

    Just wondering if there are any attractive

    females who feel the same way
    dharvey72 dharvey72
    41-45, M
    1 Response Dec 10, 2015

    My dad just found out

    that my mom has been cheating on him.. I don't condone infidelity. But I'm going to stay with my mom. When my parents get divorced because she is the better parent. My dad doesn't have a stable job.
    alliebabyy alliebabyy
    18-21, F
    Nov 4, 2015

    I don't believe in cheating

    as I have been cheated on. Sometimes the urges are there and fight them off. I love my husband. He is. Wonderful man and a great father but I wish he was more passionate and sexual. He's more of a once a week guy and I'm more of a two + times a week. Sometimes I just crave...
    Socal73 Socal73
    41-45, M
    7 Responses Jul 13, 2015

    If you're in a relationship never cheat.

    That destroys people's feelings. However if it's on a test, utilize your resources, even if you're not allowed.
    moose73630 moose73630
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jul 13, 2015

    Just be honest with yourself

    and your partner. If you have the desire to cheat, you should probably end your relationship. On the other hand, Women, Men, if you refuse to give it up to your significant other, don't be surprised when they tell you they have the desire to sleep with someone else. We're...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Feb 18, 2014

    If you cheat, you instantly disgust me.

    There is literally no point in cheating. If you don't like the relationship, LEAVE! If you don't like the marriage, either wok it out or divorce! Yes to go through a divorce you may go through a lot but you're going through more trying to hide your cheating. I've been cheated on...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 6, 2014

    It's become an epidemic!

    Cheating is the new norm.
    skyflower627 skyflower627
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Jul 12, 2015

    I don't understand why people think being

    cowardly is attractive. Because that's what a cheater is. They are people without the backbone and convection to confront whatever the scenario is that "caused" them to cheat. If your wife or hubby doesn't have sex often enough tell them and tell them you want to augment your...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 15, 2014
    jamme30 jamme30
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jul 12, 2015

    Cheating is NOT a mistake.

    If you’re truly in love with someone, you will not be able to kiss someone else without tasting your loved ones tears stain your lips. You will not be able to take your clothes off for someone else without feeling like a field ripped bare to its soil. Cheating is a choice, its...
    glassbonespaperskin glassbonespaperskin
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 29, 2014

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    julieccaa11 julieccaa11
    26-30, F
    Dec 10, 2015

    Justifying Being Horny and Weak

    Everyone in a longterm, monogamous relationship gets bored and is attracted to other people on ocassion. Sexual feelings and desires, fantasies....etc. are all completely natural. However, we all have a neocortex and are capable of thinking about the consequences of our actions...
    moejoe moejoe
    36-40, M
    14 Responses Jun 11, 2008

    I don't believe in cheating

    and yet I let it happen
    ScarM3 ScarM3
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Mar 26

    My marriage is at its end right now.

    Wife is demanding her freedom after twenty plus years together. I was in an open marriage it's just that I didn't know or approve of it. I never once cheated in her even after finding out about her indiscretions. Now I find myself looking forward to the divorce to finalize in a...
    SamStartingOver SamStartingOver
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Apr 3, 2014

    Loyalty and honesty are

    both very important to me. If you're going to be with someone, at least be committed. And if you fall in love with someone else, be honest. Because it hurts a lot more to be lied to in the end.
    kellmh kellmh
    13-15, F
    1 Response Feb 15

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    emilyccaa emilyccaa
    26-30, F
    Dec 8, 2015
    cassandrabrienne cassandrabrienne
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jul 13, 2015

    Cheating is cowardly

    and lazy. It simply is an action by one party in a relationship where there has been a common understanding of trust made to ignore awkward conversations and fears and crying and a potentially life altering moment because cheating is always a symptom of a larger issue in the...
    sambular1313 sambular1313
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 2

    Hurts way, waaaay too much in relationships.

    If anyone can't help themselves, I suggest more tolerable alternatives such as diets and deaths.
    iCuriousBabe iCuriousBabe
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Jul 12, 2015

    Cheating Karma

    I originally posted this as a blog as a result of a question I read on the Q&A, frankly I was so blown away by the answers and the conversation that I needed to vent, please pardon any trucker words, lol! Anyway, it seemed appropiate to repost in this group... ONE of my best...
    wickedties wickedties
    41-45, F
    25 Responses Sep 13, 2010

    Nobody is perfect but cheating is on a whole

    different level. My friend asked me for advice about he boyfriend cheating on her.
    Rosebox Rosebox
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 18, 2015

    I just heard a man say this: "I don't

    even see the point of monogamy anymore I mean if you're a guy and you're monogamous then you're p*ssy whipped little b*tch. If you cheat then you're a heartless *******. If you're a woman your a clingy b*tch. If you cheat then you're still a b*tch." no no... not at all. This...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Feb 21, 2015

    I honestly do not understand

    why people cheat. If you are unhappy in a relationship, just leave.. do not drag someone down by stringing them along, strangling their emotions and freedom and taking away their chance at happiness. People always jump to the assumption that the grass is greener with somebody...
    Friendship0nlyPlease Friendship0nlyPlease
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 28, 2015

    But I've been having thoughts of it.

    I'm currently six months pregnant with our child and I never see him. He is constantly away. I see him every six weeks. My hormones are through the roof and I crave something from someone. It's not me to cheat and I feel awful for even having these thoughts.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Dec 7, 2015

    How is cheating alright?

    Even if you are in a loveless marriage , cheating will never be okay. Do the honourable thing and break it off if you are unhappy. I was called "naive" on one of these pages for thinking cheating is wrong. In fact, I think they are the ones who need to realize that their selfish...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 20, 2014

    all so I hate people

    when talk **** over people
    footmen footmen
    26-30, M
    Sep 17, 2015

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