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I Don't Believe In Fixing Any One

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    Just Their Soul

    I can't fix a person because I am not a doctor and do not have any inclination to spend my time working on organic matter that will be dust one day anyways. I mean someone has to do it, but I fix souls or at least make a conscious effort to try.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 12, 2011

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    I Hate Them Too....

    The ones who think pretending to like you will be their ticket into "heaven". But I -will- attempt to help someone I actually care about. Usually these are people who I think make a better world... If you are in the circle, then it's a really decent bet that I actually really...
    ILoveMarie ILoveMarie 36-40 Aug 3, 2010

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    He Was Not My Responsibility

    When I was in my previous relationship, I was so convinced that I could "fix" my boyfriend. I really believed that I could change him and make him stop treating me so badly. When he became depressed, I believed it was up to me to make all of his problems go away. When he killed...
    paperalias paperalias 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 26, 2010

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    I find people who think it's their duty in life

    to "fix" other people extremely annoying and self righteous. I suppose some people never learn, or have to learn the hard way all their lives, that no one can be fixed. I don't think there's anyone out there (no sane person at least) that's looking for someone to "fix" them or...
    explainit2me explainit2me 22-25, F Apr 14

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    I Do Believe That Now.....

    However, I used to try to fix. I would see something inside them wanting to get out and I would try to fix that, only to lose myself and forget about fixing myself. All we can do is give them the encouragement and they have to do the rest either by not changing or changing...
    SirPhoenix SirPhoenix 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 16, 2010

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    Except For Fat Chicks...

    HAHAHAH just kidding. Not really....
    inexperienced inexperienced 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 22, 2010

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    Adeinwonderland Adeinwonderland 18-21, F Aug 7

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    I closed my heart off like, two months ago due to the shock, depression and anger of a five year unrequited yet confusing love. My eyes opened at my own carelessness and stupidity...
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    God is great, I totally believe in God and a heaven. But I don't believe in all these religions.
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    It's great that soldiers cared enough to fight for our country. But a hero is definitely NOT someone who goes to other countries and kills other people. It's stupid to kill people...
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    I don't believe in evolution. I don't have to, because it's fact.
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    ... I know some people don't believe in god, and neither do I.. But if he actually did exist.. What IS he? What kind of creature is he? Does he drink alcohol or smoke weed? Does he...
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    Perhaps God exists. And perhaps I will "burn in hell" when I stand before Him because I did not believe in Him when I was alive. But I guess that will be my problem, and no one...
    23db 23db 41-45, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    skybaby0 skybaby0 18-21 2 Responses Aug 8

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    Trainedheart Trainedheart 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 24

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    skybaby0 skybaby0 18-21 1 Response Aug 3

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    OliviaOcean OliviaOcean 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    Little girl, little girl don't you fret. There is a god in heaven who will take care of you and keep you safe. Little angel, my angel don't be scared. God will make all crooked...
    honestyreality honestyreality 22-25, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    Used to think i was going to meet a perfect girl, someone i wanted to spend the rest of my life with. Used to think i'd get married and everything will be just fine, but that...
    jafetgx jafetgx 22-25, M 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    Everyone tomorrow is Monday. Did you enjoy your weekend? :):) sometimes we find happiness in this life an sometimes we are in a constant battle with this world. Everyone if anyone...
    smilebigalways smilebigalways 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 10

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    What the hell are my friends doing? When they are alone, they always invite me to hang out. however, when I need help, they do not help me. I do not believe friendship anymore. It...
    fitwealth fitwealth 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    If any one actually thinks ADHD isn't real then you're an idiot. It's proven that the brain of someone with ADHD is wired much differently. For example caffeine acts as a...
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    It seems that another profound theory is wheedling to come to life on paper. I have done a lot of thinking about relationships lately, and have reached several conclusions that...
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    So I'm 14 and I've been a Christian all my life but I'm realizing that I don't really think that's he's logical and now I believe in the Big Bang theory but my parents don't know...
    Sgthunter99 Sgthunter99 26-30 Aug 8

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    Ever since i was about 12 so not to long after my first period I started getting terrible "headaches" but they're really located behind my eyes and they make me see weird squiggly...
    NjVgVrgo NjVgVrgo 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    I think karma is just probable or a coincidence, I don't think a person's every action will have an equal response. If this were the case then why do bad things happen to 'good...
    MissRanger MissRanger 13-15, F Aug 10

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    TheAverageIdiot TheAverageIdiot 16-17, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I won't believe till i see it with my eyes.
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    And you probably don't either. Who wants pie? :-)
    joshmasters joshmasters 26-30 Jul 26

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    I just don't. You never know who you're talking to and also it's like a long distance relationship. Long distance doesn't work.
    adrianacecilia14 adrianacecilia14 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    Love is for the mentally weak...i really don't think love is real it's just so many people want it to be that they actually think they feel it.
    J4ckie123 J4ckie123 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    After what I've been through with relationships, It's hard to trust anymore. When I try to start one I doubt them and I think anything they're saying is a lie. Not calling all gals...
    MacgyverSmith MacgyverSmith 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 21

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    I have a very hard time opening up to people for that exact reason. And if I do open up to tell someone, something personal, then I will not tell them the full details. I find...
    sammy0216 sammy0216 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 12

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    I learned the hard way in losing trust in my parents. Last week during an argument, my dad claimed:" I could care less about you, my mom died already, there's no worse feeling. I...
    confusedsoul88 confusedsoul88 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 22

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    I learned in life not to be so trusting and that nobody is perfect, there's good and bad in all of us so don't be so hard on people.
    kissssmykiki kissssmykiki 22-25, F Jul 30

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    I don't trust people very easily... But once I do, I tend to give too much and still get burned...
    pandora1357 pandora1357 36-40, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    aproudwoman aproudwoman 41-45, F Aug 7

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    Man of God There is a man who talks about God and a particular religion in India. This man’s name starts with P and has a surname which starts with D. Every morning he appears...
    aproudwoman aproudwoman 41-45, F Jul 30

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