Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Don't Believe In Fixing Any One

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 47 People

    I Hate Them Too....

    The ones who think pretending to like you will be their ticket into "heaven". But I -will- attempt to help someone I actually care about. Usually these are people who I think make a better world... If you are in the circle, then it's a really decent bet that I actually really...
    ILoveMarie ILoveMarie 36-40 Aug 3, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Except For Fat Chicks...

    HAHAHAH just kidding. Not really....
    inexperienced inexperienced 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 22, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Do Believe That Now.....

    However, I used to try to fix. I would see something inside them wanting to get out and I would try to fix that, only to lose myself and forget about fixing myself. All we can do is give them the encouragement and they have to do the rest either by not changing or changing...
    SirPhoenix SirPhoenix 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 16, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    He Was Not My Responsibility

    When I was in my previous relationship, I was so convinced that I could "fix" my boyfriend. I really believed that I could change him and make him stop treating me so badly. When he became depressed, I believed it was up to me to make all of his problems go away. When he killed...
    paperalias paperalias 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 26, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I find people who think it's their duty in life

    to "fix" other people extremely annoying and self righteous. I suppose some people never learn, or have to learn the hard way all their lives, that no one can be fixed. I don't think there's anyone out there (no sane person at least) that's looking for someone to "fix" them or...
    explainit2me explainit2me 22-25, F Apr 14

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Just Their Soul

    I can't fix a person because I am not a doctor and do not have any inclination to spend my time working on organic matter that will be dust one day anyways. I mean someone has to do it, but I fix souls or at least make a conscious effort to try.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 12, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    Let me clarify that it FEELS like I don't fit in anywhere, esp. right now in my life, but I know I fit in somewhere and have fit-in society in the past. I live in America, the most...
    relating2u79 relating2u79 31-35, M 3 Responses Oct 31

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't believe everything happens for a reason. There is so much in each of our perceived little realities that simply cannot be predicted. Horrible things happen where fault...
    Unalike Unalike 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    UNCONDITIONAL? I don't believe in loving someone totally 'unconditionally'. How can there be absolutely no conditions? How?? The closest kind of love I could see fitting...
    Babydoll42 Babydoll42 41-45, F 27 Responses Oct 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't know what the difference is? It's clear there is but I don't know what it is? Lust I feel is the more powerful of the two but love is the deeper more meaningful emotion...
    PaganumCultumLuna PaganumCultumLuna 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Superstitions are the work of the devil. Charles Stanley has talked about it. Don't believe in them. They exist to make you upset, stressed, worried and keep you from God!
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response Oct 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't believe in divorce. So, my first marriage is most likely going to be my only marriage. But I am not going to get married until I am 46 or 49. Lmao
    SunshineH316 SunshineH316 22-25, F 10 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    This is what I DO believe: nothing matters. Not a single thing we do will ever matter. Why? Because we will all be forgotten in time. Sure celebrities, famous history figures will...
    PimpledCorpse PimpledCorpse 16-17, F 11 Responses Nov 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    And I don't even know why. I don't feel like I belong, surrounded by people who've known each other almost all their lives. And who at least have enough in common to draw closer...
    spotofhope spotofhope 13-15, F Nov 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am an atheist. Atheism is not a religion. I have no faith - it does not take more faith to be an atheist. Not all atheists are the same. I do not believe in anything fraught with...
    findmeholdmeloveme findmeholdmeloveme 18-21 7 Responses Nov 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    A world ended in 2012, we just don't know where. That whole thing was funny though. Makes me wonder how those stupid predictions become so popular, but then again, it seems like...
    PuckDrop PuckDrop 18-21, M Nov 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I was lucky I had a scan ran on me by a lady I was seeing from a dating site it mostly hurt my pride what I had left they only got 100 so it was not to bad the other money is...
    daddylove4u daddylove4u 51-55, M 1 Response 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Everybody always throws trust on it! I'm here to tell you, it is not always directly about trust! Sometimes it's about logic and logically speaking long distance and relationship...
    newbeginnings15 newbeginnings15 18-21, F 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Those of you who support this page need to grow up and get your heads out of your a$$es. The world is an ugly place right now and yes there are people that want to destroy America...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    What is the point of Halloween? Everyone makes themselves look as hideous as possible. Children are encouraged to threaten strangers in return for gifts. Who thought this was a...
    Wyesman Wyesman 70+, M Oct 31

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Holy **** yes, I don't even care what kind of music it is. Music is my life and always has been since I was 6. First it was Linkin Park, then it was Simple Plan, then it was pop...
    nickwrocks1 nickwrocks1 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 31

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Oh you don't say?? Why was this thread made?
    TheAnonymousTroll TheAnonymousTroll 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Why do I need to get married? I'm happy with my partner and we are not married. I don't need a ring to show my commitment. Plus it saves money. Who says we won't move on later in...
    SurpriseMeToday SurpriseMeToday 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't trust people very easily. Unless they're very serious about things . I trusted someone recently and could've gotten myself into so much trouble if I had gone through with...
    SubmissiveSecrets SubmissiveSecrets 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'd love to be less guarded around people in an ideal world. Maybe it'll open more doors to me. But I've been letdown by people far too much, and not too many people have proven...
    Reallifeperson Reallifeperson 22-25, M Nov 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's been like this for a while and I don't know why I feel like this maybe it's the depression and I never really thought it was a problem until my twin sister fainted today and I...
    LostCause LostCause 18-21, F Oct 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    When I was young, I used to go places with my church group. I was an outcast and nobody wanted to talk to me, they wouldn't let me join in, and when it was time to leave, they...
    sometimestef sometimestef 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I always know how you'll react when I say something, you don't change, you don't surprise, you don't risk, reading this I could bet you'd be presumptuous and discourteous towards...
    quike23 quike23 16-17, M 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I always know how you'll react when I say something, you don't change, you don't surprise, you don't risk, reading this I could bet you'd be presumptuous and discourteous towards...
    quike23 quike23 16-17, M 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    People brag about having trust issues but that's how I can tell who does or does not have them because those of us who really have trust issues are at war with it. We don't like it...
    SheIsBroken SheIsBroken 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Well I'd be a fool to believe "everything" wouldn't I? I've been lied to so much in my life and I'm still lied to to this day. So what would make me believe everything? I have a...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Why are people so obsessed with punishing people who made a mistake? Regardless of what the mistake was, whether it's breaking a vase by accident or committing murder, I only...
    Uncertain153 Uncertain153 26-30, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Music feeds the soul enriches the brain .Rock and early metal is my choice of music and fuels my fire. This type of music i grew up on and to me came out with a lot of Multi...
    hughgohef hughgohef 41-45, M 1 Response 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Karma doesn't exist. I've never believed in it. It's not of The Lord. Punishment comes after death.
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response Oct 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    This is still going then? You'd best get working on the time travel machine if you do believe it! Maybe you'll be right then! ;)
    Reallifeperson Reallifeperson 22-25, M Nov 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I think it is so awesome that a woman can be secure enough in her sexuality and appearance that she can be herself and let her body hair grow; wherever it is. A woman with hairy...
    CinimonGypsy CinimonGypsy 41-45 Nov 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Marriage isn't for everyone, simple as that. I would love to be married one day but at the same time, people my age do not take marriage seriously. There are going to be days where...
    jlhhlj123 jlhhlj123 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Only The Black Half Matters-I didn't even realize I was taking advantage of it until recently. The graduation counselor at my high school mostly filled out Juniors and Seniors...
    FutureMaxiSurgeon FutureMaxiSurgeon 18-21, F a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Time difference sucks! You have to stay all night waiting for notifications to show up with his name in it either with skype or viber. Unnecessary stress especially when you aren...
    Elleshore81 Elleshore81 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    How uncivilized we are in this age. People are going to be sent to Mars which is costing billions, yet look to Africa and you will see famine and controllable disease destroy a...
    AmnesiaPlease AmnesiaPlease 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It seems so wrong to shave my body hair. I would do anything to have a nice hairy chest when so many just throw it away.
    coolsean1 coolsean1 18-21, M 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Why is sex such a big issue? There's so many things we can't explain, why is sex shaming so important. People are closed minded and foolish. It's no Popes business what people are...
    kiddishguy kiddishguy 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Because obviously it didn't... O.o
    V4Vin V4Vin 31-35, F 5 Responses Nov 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I still think there are dinosaurs on this earth. I have an open mind & with the government keep a lot of things a secret I wouldn't be surprise if unbeknownst to us that there are...
    DaCreativeChild DaCreativeChild 22-25, F 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I truly hope that one day I can easily trust again. I will always keep my guard up and I truly hate feeling that way. Having 100% complete trust in someone is very important and I...
    Sensuouslady Sensuouslady 36-40, F Nov 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Sorry for all the negative posts today, I just am so fed up of not being able to trust anybody or having it proven to me exactly why I should NOT trust in people. Everybody...
    manateecupatea manateecupatea 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 3