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I Don't Believe In Fixing Any One

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    Just Their Soul - I can't fix a person because I am not a doctor and do not have any inclination to spend my time working on organic matter that will be dust one day anyways. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 12, 2011

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    I Do Believe That Now..... - However, I used to try to fix. I would see something inside them wanting to get out and I would try to fix that, only to lose myself and forget...
    SirPhoenix SirPhoenix 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 16, 2010

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    He Was Not My Responsibility - When I was in my previous relationship, I was so convinced that I could "fix" my boyfriend. I really believed that I could change him and make him...
    paperalias paperalias 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 26, 2010

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    I find people who think it's their duty in life to "fix" other people extremely annoying and self righteous. I suppose some people never learn, or have to learn the hard way all...
    explainit2me explainit2me 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I Hate Them Too.... - The ones who think pretending to like you will be their ticket into "heaven". But I -will- attempt to help someone I actually care about. Usually these are...
    ILoveMarie ILoveMarie 36-40 Aug 3, 2010

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    This started a 2 months ago, people from the Book of Mormon started to show at my door and of course I let them in, cause I really love to know more about everything. They came...
    bosslim bosslim 18-21, M Mar 31

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    Don't believe an ANY gods. They have all been created by man to control people. I'm the only open Atheist in our family and am isolated as a result, which is not a bad thing. I don...
    lakeluver lakeluver 66-70, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I don't believe prayer works. If I want something I go for it. I don't ask something that isn't there to answer it for me. I hate when people pray for me. Because they're not doing...
    gaiamoon82 gaiamoon82 31-35, F Mar 24

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    I don't believe in evolution. The theory sounds intelligent when propounded by leading scientists, but in the end it all falls flat to a laughable extent. Well, where to start...
    darkanddesolate darkanddesolate 16-17, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I don't believe in coincidence nor do I believe "everything happens for reason." I am not admitting to having some tragic life altering experience thats happened to me. But in my...
    anjjelicaa anjjelicaa 22-25, F Apr 3

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    I have wanted for so long to tell our host mother that I don't but she is impossible. I hate living here and her enforcing religion on us. I don't agree with the teachings and I...
    DarkHappiness DarkHappiness 13-15, F 6 Responses Mar 31

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    I wasn't really sure this was real but apparently people exist who don't believe in dinosaurs. I guess they're the ones who think all that evidence was out here to "test" us.
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Mar 16

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    I don't believe people are good or bad, or rather I don't discriminate them on this basis. I believe that people are hollow and fake or deep and posses substance.
    justhuman1946 justhuman1946 22-25, M Mar 17

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    I just honestly don't believe anything lasts forever, it always ends. Bc there's someone else, there's a new moment in life, or simply because someone doesn't feel the same...
    nothingpersonalx nothingpersonalx 16-17, F Apr 1

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    After finding out Santa were my parents . I don't believe what people tell me . πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
    epicjesss epicjesss 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 4

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    I don't look upon anybody as a friend or lover or as anything involving emotional commitment and emotional gambling. I have no more friends. I have allies. They get me what I need...
    sorrowfulmind sorrowfulmind 18-21, M Mar 24

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    I have always loved the idea of someday finding the perfect guy for me and getting married in some fairy tale scenario. But as I got older and watched relationships around me fail...
    ariel2891 ariel2891 22-25, F 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    I like the IDEA of it, but marriage isn't a life goal of mine. If two people are happy and don't care about going through the process and other complicated aspects of it, then I...
    Professionalgriefer Professionalgriefer 18-21, F 15 hrs ago

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    I am not what you would consider a "religious person" I do have a faith in something larger then all of us, commonly known as god. I also believe that with out teaching some kind...
    MrsJoanieBNH MrsJoanieBNH 56-60, T Apr 2

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    Okay hear is another tidbit into what makes me who I am. At 18 I got married the first time and had the worst marriage ever it was ten years if me working, buying a house, a car...
    Rena4 Rena4 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 16

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    Maybe I'm just a cocky bastard, but I don't feel like I've ever been in love, and I don't want to be. I read all these experiences about people loving in a sexless relationship...
    mybonerandme mybonerandme 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 17

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    People keep telling me I am negative. They don't know what I have to go through or what I have been through and even if they knew they’d probably say my problems are not problems...
    lonewolff666 lonewolff666 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 27

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    I don't know.. I guess it don't really believe in love. As a child I did, but with each year I mature, I stray away from the thought. If it exists, it's more like extreme...
    TaylorNicoleee TaylorNicoleee 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 29

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    I hate to stereotype God as some deity who takes pleasure in our suffering or humilation. Or God who claims to love us but does not interfere in the affairs of humans and sits upon...
    FainofHearts FainofHearts 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 1

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    The whole religious thing and believing in God or life after death thing just totally baffles me. You may as well believe in Fairies or Aliens. That is just as bizarre. It just...
    Germanovna Germanovna 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 3

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    I'm not atheist....I've had way too many spiritual experiences to not believe in a higher power. I'm more of a deist with a sprinkle of theism. I find organized religion to be one...
    Igotsnikt Igotsnikt 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 19

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    Do you believe in unconditional love? Than how is it possible to enjoy eternal bliss while thousands of people are forced into a place of eternal suffering. God can do it, but he...
    LaurenJFisher LaurenJFisher 22-25 4 Responses Mar 29

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    Yeah so I never am able to find a "perfect" guy. I dunno.. Some of them want to date me, others just want to be **** buddies. Idk what I want, all I know is that they confuse the h...
    TaylorNicoleee TaylorNicoleee 18-21, F Apr 3

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    The worst thing about being cheated on and lied to by my husband for years, isn't the pain it caused. Don't get me wrong, it hurt more than anyone could possibly ever imagine! But...
    TypicalPisces TypicalPisces 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    I have a distaste for people who say things like "I was hit as a child and I turned out fine" or "Children need to be disciplined". There are so many ways to have discipline...
    baconrind baconrind 26-30, M a week ago

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    I am basically just an agnostic. I guess I don't necessarily not believe in heaven but I don't think it's very likely to exist
    Rebecca12K Rebecca12K 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I feel bad for saying this. I love that our soldiers are brave enough to die for us. I am immensely appreciative. however, I don't agree with killing. I don't understand war, and...
    maggieee5086 maggieee5086 13-15, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Unfortunately, I don't trust people. My trust spectrum slowly get smaller every day. Someone always has something to say that isn't true. I can tell when you're lying to me too; I...
    karmadarling77 karmadarling77 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 20

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    So, I never really felt girls had to shave, because my mom was a hippy. I shaved, because I wanted to try things out and now I kinda don't want to. I like to shave my armpits and...
    Vampireloveless Vampireloveless 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    Well I was going to post another experience but I've seen this tag and remembered those funny days. I don't really believe in eschatology, and really doubt the idea someone would...
    ErieNemisa ErieNemisa 22-25, F Apr 8

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    I used to be quiet a religious monk but over the past few years I have started to detest the reality of this world. I don't like people who go to extremes to do religious things. I...
    nidhiThite nidhiThite 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    I don't feel connected. I can speak and act and pretend, but I don't feel it. And I don't know what connected feels like. Not really. I can't keep a relationship. I've lost...
    RichardQ RichardQ 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    IF god existed this is what I would say to him: Sir with all due respect, it's not fair that you created beings with the capacity to get addicted to pleasure and feel pain because...
    superficialife superficialife 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 19

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    My entire family is Christian except for me, and honestly, they don't even stop to think about the things they say. Me and my mom were talking about the mudslide in DC. In the...
    KeithPrice94 KeithPrice94 18-21, M 11 Responses Mar 30

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    In regards to the latest shootings in Texas, my prayers are with the victims family and friends. Unfortunately, PTSD has become a huge issue with veterans and active duty soldiers...
    Vlo972 Vlo972 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    I'm fat so I don't deserve to be loved.
    niamandthings niamandthings 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    You don't know what I have been through regardless of who the person was, It wasn't a bad experience, never that. Peroooo I learned from it. You can always have that one friend who...
    DDanaaax3 DDanaaax3 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I trust no one sad but true i have had my fair share of people breaking my trust, and making a fool out of me, so now i call the shots, i protect myself by building up walls, i get...
    TrueBlueyes TrueBlueyes 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    In the past I was so easy with trust! Like if you were meant to catch me when I fall and you don't, I would fall again trusting and believing that you would catch me and I would...
    Jahhh Jahhh 16-17, F Mar 17

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    Not that I don't have dreams, I just rarely have dreams. I wonder if it has anything to do with the loss of interest I've had recently with a lot of things. My problems seem so...
    dramirezs23 dramirezs23 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 25

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    I go thru the motions of everyday living -- talk and smile with my neighbors, live with my mom, do daily chores when I feel like it, but I feel adrift and unattached..I just don't...
    linstro linstro 61-65, F Apr 2

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    You just had to start digging didn't you? Are you happy with what you found out? Why? WHY couldn't you just leave it in the past and focus on how nice it was for those couple of...
    dramirezs23 dramirezs23 31-35, M Apr 6

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    To people who read my posts they are probably used to the fact that I never send out any negative vibes, but there's a first time for all. I have learnt that trust is a very...
    BeatTheBest BeatTheBest 16-17, M 6 days ago

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    It's very difficult to trust people now bc of a prior situation. That being a girl pretending being a boy I really liked! Writing love cards while she laughed at the side. Another...
    Bananaboat12 Bananaboat12 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    So I dated this girl I was cool with back in school recently. Didn't really go well and lasted just 2 months. Only wanted to date because I had money while she just sat home. What...
    HottRoddTX HottRoddTX 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 23

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    Most women dream of marriage but it never appealed to me. I dont believe there is a man special enough for me to want it.
    tb2985 tb2985 26-30, F 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    i dont believe in a god. but im afraid 2 tell my religous type mother. im afraid that she may disown me and i cant tell my grandmother either cause that would absoultey kill her. i...
    MW3fan258 MW3fan258 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 5