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I Dont Believe In Forcing People To Love Someone

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    I Have Never Demanded Someone Love Me

    I have loved a lot of different people for different reasons... and in different ways... but I never expect or demand that people love me.I might have crushes or desires and at the same time I respect if people feel they can not love me.I loved rick and he did not love me ... so...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Apr 19, 2012

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    in truth, I've loved a lot of people who didn't love me back. I've also found myself unable to love someone that for all intents and purposes i should have...just didnt. I imagine...
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    this is totally not true. bc i love him, and he "loved" me. but i guess it wasnt real love because love never goes away and it wouldn't be "loved". it'd just be, i love him and he...
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    I was with the same girl for three years and I love her so much. we broke up two months ago and she is with another girl. while we were dating I wasn't out yet so I kind of hid her...
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