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I Dont Believe In Forcing People To Love Someone

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    I Have Never Demanded Someone Love Me

    I have loved a lot of different people for different reasons... and in different ways... but I never expect or demand that people love me.I might have crushes or desires and at the same time I respect if people feel they can not love me.I loved rick and he did not love me ... so...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Apr 19, 2012

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