Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Dont Believe In Forcing People To Love Someone

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 11 People

    I Have Never Demanded Someone Love Me

    I have loved a lot of different people for different reasons... and in different ways... but I never expect or demand that people love me.I might have crushes or desires and at the same time I respect if people feel they can not love me.I loved rick and he did not love me ... so...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Apr 19, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    www.gofundme.com/BecomingChayneI don't commonly do this as I know there are countless people in this same position, but after watching my friend struggle with being who he truly is...
    onebrokegirl onebrokegirl 18-21, F 9 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I moved to a new town after my parents divorced, and he was one of the first people I met. Even then, there was something about this boy that drew people in, made them want to be...
    lindsayannee lindsayannee 13-15, F 3 Responses 16 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    or maybe he did but as soon as i pulled myself out for a while (for some reasons) i could see him start dating other people already.
    manaremad manaremad 16-17, F 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    i have feelings for someone i have no chance with. its difficult. but she does deserve someone way better than me anyways.
    ForgetableMe ForgetableMe 31-35, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I love someone more than I possibly could. It's not an addiction, though, right?
    marie18867 marie18867 13-15, F 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    After four years away from home, I came back and started working. This was when I first met him. He was the type of guy I go for, and I felt that little tug of attraction. I...
    Enjeru Enjeru 22-25, F 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've been in an on and off relationship. She claimed she loved me but cheated on me three time through out our two years. You can't love someone if they know how much that silk...
    lisatrainer lisatrainer 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Puzzled in my life!!! I love someone and messaged him once in Facebook. He just saw my message and didn't reply. I never told him I love or like him. But it expressed my admiration...
    Mou7 Mou7 26-30, F Jun 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Today I proved it to myself ... I put another's needs and best interest before my own , is it easy ? .... No way I hurt like hell ..... Is it for the best ? idk but it's what...
    auburngirl52 auburngirl52 51-55, F 1 Response Jun 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've met this guy at online dating. Text for a week and finally get to meet up. We had a few drks at the bar and all went well. I can't believe that I fall for someone so fast...
    KittySayHi KittySayHi 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I usually like to think I have good judgment when talking to people but no one can ever be too sure on the internet. Someone in my circle who seemed like a very nice, likable...
    Allforaview Allforaview 18-21, F Jun 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    for those who gave there all with nothing in return, I've been there. I loved someone who beat Me night and day, for 2 years, that's not love, but I've never known real love either...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 21

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am married to someone who I believe to be a sadist and has a narrcasist personality ... It has been a very very hard very hurtful relationship to say the very least... Just...
    cappyg cappyg 51-55, F 1 Response Jun 21

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Long story short: I helped him a lot while He was in Brazil. I gave a free stay to him, I was totally in love. When I was in Germany, he just gave me excuses, showed no interest to...
    Meedchen Meedchen 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I love you. You may not be the prettiest girl in school, but you are in my world. When ever I dream, I dream of you. I've laid my heart on the table, now you're with me. I've...
    ChelseaFootballFan ChelseaFootballFan 16-17, M 1 Response Jun 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    you can't possibly love someone who you randomly stop talking to. he broke my heart. I can't believe that I actually fell for his lies.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have been single for 3.5 years. In those years I have dated three men. I loved 2 out of 3 of those men. One of them grew up with my ex- husband and myself (we divorced 12 years...
    solost17 solost17 41-45, F 4 Responses Jun 18

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I may not always believe in others, the world and at times even myself, but one thing I know is that true love believes in me. It believed in me first before I ever knew what it...
    zehero zehero 22-25, M Jun 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Well it didn't start out that way. We were in love for a while and everything was great. But then I made a positive change in my life and everything became different. Because of my...
    thenyunderdog thenyunderdog 26-30, M 3 Responses Jun 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am nearly 21 and I have been falling for a man who is in his early fifties. I met him about 5 years ago, as he was one of my high school teachers. Obviously, I am now graduated...
    WolvessQueen WolvessQueen 18-21, F Jun 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I was in love with a guy who was like me and shared the same interests, experience, past who thought like I did who wanted the same thing I wanted because the rough things we both...
    Djluvsyu98 Djluvsyu98 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 16

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So..so many sad and heartbroken stories ! I am gonna share mine ! He is handsome .. But he did not even pay attention to me .. I do not know whether my feeling to him is the...
    NoneEver NoneEver 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 16

    Your Response

    Cancel
    We expect too much of love. I, personally, believe I am completely incapable of a romantic attachment. I have friendship attachments and I have carnal desires. Occasionally those...
    SoulScribe SoulScribe 26-30, F Jun 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    so there was this guy I was in love with, but he didn't know, but I knew he didn't love me back. Anyway, we're pretty close friends, but I still love him,he makes me laugh and all...
    Naockey Naockey 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    jamiacc11 jamiacc11 26-30, F Jun 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    jamiacc11 jamiacc11 26-30, F Jun 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Need to be able to understand and quantity what true love is first before I can dis/agree that it's happened to me. I have loved before (not often though) where you think if that...
    PeterSp8 PeterSp8 41-45, M 1 Response Jun 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    What if we all believed that there is nothing wrong with us? What if we treated ourselves this way? What if we treated each other this way? What if we were all surrounded by this...
    lovevolves8 lovevolves8 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I loved someone who didn't love me and they wouldn't say one way or another allowing me to hurt even more!
    steve393 steve393 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have little crushes on a few boys I met during work. I admire them for their qualities like empathy, chivalry, being a good friend. I am glad that there are people who like that...
    unconsciousdreamer unconsciousdreamer 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    i cant force people to love me back all i need is respect
    KrissiaGeramie KrissiaGeramie 18-21, F Jun 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I had not fallen in love before when I suddenly realized that a girl lets call her miss-x is attracting me. She was my batch mate. I slowly started to move close to her and in a...
    mrshahbaz mrshahbaz 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    minacc11 minacc11 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I still love this person so much I didn't realize it was possible to love someone that much. Crazy how someone can just crush your spirit so blatantly and not even care. I don't...
    DoveinMourning DoveinMourning 36-40, F 12 Responses Jun 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I know it's worth waiting for. Don't force love... If someone loves you they'll come to you. So don't try and have a pretend relationship it doesn't make the pain go away
    LeeMcguck LeeMcguck 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I didn't intend to fall for him. he is rude, violent, overbearing, and disrespectful but he was also my friend and we had a weird type of respect for each other. I liked him...
    ButterKnuckles123 ButterKnuckles123 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My parents don't show affection. They fight, they blame everything on me. A lot of the time, they're nice. When they're busy (like, 60% of the time) they become selfless demons...
    randoomness randoomness 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Obviously as the title suggests I feel for someone here on EP, now thats awesome right? Well yeah, but I am still scared. I have had so many people walk out of my life, I am afraid...
    ImOnlyMe84 ImOnlyMe84 26-30, F 14 Responses Jun 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Hi there! I'm new to this and I just hope I can have support from others. I've been reading some of you 'all stories, and I was so relief because I though I was the only "crazy one...
    aimeecflores aimeecflores 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Well, I don't love him. Not yet at least. Here's my story though, if you want to bother with it. After experiences from before, I thought I would try my best not to fall in love...
    Anita467 Anita467 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 8

    Your Response

    Cancel