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I Don't Believe In Long Distance Relationships

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    Chapter#1 The Reason To Never Want Phil Guy Anymore

    First of all i been with my Philippine Guy live in partner we have two kids boy@girl i was so happy, and contented just in the house cleaning, cooking..chasing the kids. and i was in love with my ex, but a years pass by...its December 3Days before the New year.. me and my ex...
    1 Response Feb 3, 2013

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    I'm Scared Of Growing Apart

    I'm in a long distance relationship. I'm completely in love w my boyfriend. I'm 30 and consider this the first time I've ever truly been in love. I live in denver and he lives in California. We met in Vegas and had an instant connection. We just clicked. Well since then he has...
    Jan 10, 2013

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    Why I Believe In Long Distance Relationships

    Hello, First of all, let me introduce my relationship. I have been dating for a few years with my girlfriend who lives half way across the world. In the beginning, when I was living in Japan, I met my girlfriend who then had a boyfriend. Despite that, we both had interests in...
    UnthoughtKnowing UnthoughtKnowing 22-25 1 Response Aug 3, 2013

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    This is about long distance relationship.

    (I am 18 years old) I only do if we will be apart for 3-5 years and no longer. However, I an going abroad for medical program, which means I will be away for more than 7 years, (10 actually in total minimum) and we both agree our pathway will be hard to meet later future. But i...
    uniqueresonance uniqueresonance 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    Yeah...

    ...mine didn't work out. It is very very very difficult. I really believed for 2 years that it would work, but now I don't. I wish things had been different. The only way it can work is if two people are in it together, and do everything they can to see each other. Unfortunately...
    djfx311 djfx311 36-40, F May 19, 2012

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    I Just Can't Do Another Long Distance Relationship

    I have to be upfront: I can't do a long-distance relationship again. I live in the Philly metro area. I want to meet someone HERE. And here's why: I have had two long-distance relationships these past two years. I saw them as pleasant distractions to get me through a rough patch...
    lisa36 lisa36 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 18, 2012

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    Been There Done That! - My Recent Breakup

    My Recent Breakup I haven’t don’t much talking about this since the end or lately for so many different reasons. Before it was good, now I wonder if maybe I should let it out. I don’t like to sound bitter, and I don’t want to be angry even though sometimes it is...
    ForgetHate ForgetHate 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 13, 2013

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    Short Term, Long Distance...sure...long Term, Long Distance...not A Chance!

    I used to believe long distance relationships could work.I still believe that, at least for the short term... But that was 12 years ago. I had been dating my then boyfriend, now husband for 2 years when the air force took him overseas for months at a time. We made it work then...
    Achange4me Achange4me 26-30, F Jun 30, 2012

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    Only A Certain Type Of Person Can Do A Long Distance Relationship

    And that is not me, you see I have insecurity issues more than most, and the feel of abandonment feels me with dread. Then again I think I was in an unhealthy relationship, with a man that had commitment issues, but was incredible lonely, put this together with our long distance...
    Gracie2012 Gracie2012 31-35, F Jul 9, 2012

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    Things Have Changed

    Fine, long distance can work of you got separated for whatever reason. Or if you live like an hour or two away from each other. That's alright, because at least there's a foundation on which a relationship was founded. But no relationship can be forged off nothing but pictures...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 18, 2011

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    Oh Cmon!

    He is far away! Why should I talk to him and create more misunderstandings? I just dont want to start NOW! I want to wait till he comes! Whats so difficult in that?
    HelenParis HelenParis 22-25 Mar 7, 2012

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    For Over 3years

    for 3year's i did chat and talk to my boyfriend online nothing's is happen.all he does is lie to me.and pretending and don't even come here yet....and not just that he keep talking to his first online ex girlfriend. i think he love the girl still because he still continue...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 4, 2013

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    Varying Results.

    I was recently in a long-distance relationship. We started dating right when high school ended. We spent the summer together, but then we had to part and go to college. We were about five hours apart. We knew we wanted to stay together, and we agreed on long-distance. We mostly...
    pauserewind pauserewind 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 31, 2012

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    Long Distance..

    I don't believe in one.. Well.. i did before things fall apart.. I've been with 2 REALLLLLYYYY short term ldr (first one is not actually ldr.. well.. we'll see), yeah, short, but who cares? it doesn't mean i didn't gave my best no? Now, i prefer having a relationship offline...
    4uu1 4uu1 18-21 Nov 19, 2013

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    It's not that I don't want to believe.

    It's just... it's so much harder on the heart to know you're thousands of miles away and every night you count the stars before I do but you're counting alone. How my heart aches when I look up at the moon and know you see the same one but that connection is so faint. It hurts...
    Blueaquatic Blueaquatic 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 1

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    I met a guy a month before I study abroad,

    he confessed to me that he likes me and I kinda like him too, and he took me to meet his family and I spent a night w them cause I get a long really well w his parents, and I was so drunk that night, I kinda made out w him. But it was only 1st base, and I slept w him. It went...
    Fluouracarpott Fluouracarpott 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 18

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    Long Distance Relationship

    It's really difficult to maintain a long distance relationship. I had a bf online and yes, we used to talk and see each other in Skype almost everyday. During our first month, everything was so good. Then during the second month, he started to become cold little by little until...
    mariet0712 mariet0712 26-30, F Aug 2, 2013

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    And My Parents Were In One

    I don't believe in LDRs. I don't believe they never work out, time-wise, but I just believe they are not fulfilling enough for anyone to want to pursue them. My parents went into an LDR shortly after meeting at university. Now they have been married 20 years, of which about 10...
    Castorinox Castorinox 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 2, 2013

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    Not Working

    When you're forgetting you're even IN a relationship, it's pretty much time to end it with Mr. Washington when you're in Illinois. Know what I mean?
    CheerioGrrrl CheerioGrrrl 13-15, F May 20, 2012

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    Small Problem Major Confusion

    Let me start out by explaining my current situation. I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half. He and I go to separate colleges. However, our colleges are only 20 minutes apart. But between school work we only get to see each other once a week. I'm really grateful...
    StrugglinToSurvive StrugglinToSurvive 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 15, 2013

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    Here is Practical Explanation about Next Life,

    Purpose of Human Life, philosophical/religious facts, theories etc. ___________________________ *********** Practical Explanation ( For Example ) :- `1st of all can you tell me every single seconds detail from that time when you born ?? ( i need every seconds detail ?? that what...
    bolt0 bolt0 22-25, M Dec 7, 2013

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    Nevermind :/

    I don't think I will ever have a long distance relationship again, they never work out, I will stick with people who are from the UK (same as me) but no where like America or anywhere. You don't know what they're doing behind your back. :/
    Ml4566 Ml4566 13-15, M 4 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    I Dont Believe In LDRs Until...

    4 years ago I dont believe in LDRs... until luck played tricks on me and met this guy online.. We had an instant connection and he became my bf.. We broke up 4 times (minimum!) and got together again over the years.. I dont receommend this kind of setup but I guess it can work if...
    soulcatchersvictim soulcatchersvictim 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 29, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I believe they can to an certain point. If your boyfriend who you've dated for a couple years is gone for a couple months on business and both people stay faithful and talk to each...
    HappyHart5 HappyHart5 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    Actually no...I don't believe in long distance relationship, or I used to but after my experience in the end I just felt empty and crushed from the inside. I met that girl while I...
    ClassicGentleman ClassicGentleman 18-21, M 4 Responses Jul 22

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    I am (technically) a Christian. I believed in god until the age of 11. Everything began to mess up from then forward. The first time I cut myself, the first time I misbehaved, the...
    Jas4001 Jas4001 18-21, F Jul 9

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    I don't believe I can be loved because my ex put that in my head for 17 years. I feel like I can only love myself which is impossible. Love is out of my reach but I accept it. I...
    Esmahan Esmahan 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 8

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    Probabily everyone at some point has said that they're "happy", myself included. However, I don't believe the feeling or state of being happy is a reality. Imo happy is just a...
    Jdog15 Jdog15 22-25, M Jul 10

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    after dating someone for 8 months, I was madly in love with him. he said he felt the same about me. one who love you doesn't hurt you emotionally like that. if you love someone you...
    lizshiv lizshiv 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    It's great that soldiers cared enough to fight for our country. But a hero is definitely NOT someone who goes to other countries and kills other people. It's stupid to kill people...
    alysssaa alysssaa 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I don't believe in evolution. I don't have to, because it's fact.
    KatieTreat KatieTreat 51-55, T 1 Response Jul 23

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    Long Distance Relationship aren’t always ideal. In fact, they’re really tough. You spend countless of hours just talking through a phone or through a screen. You can’t see...
    AJAY2404 AJAY2404 31-35, M 8 Responses Jul 8

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    Never had a long distance relationship before , but I just hope when I leave for college me & my girlfriend remain to stay strong . I know it's going to be difficult but im willing...
    lmyrical lmyrical 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm a 20 years old girl and I've been texting with a guy that lives very far away from me for 11 months now. We text every day, and we know everything about each other.. I mean...
    shaaa9 shaaa9 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    It's so crazy to think that I met a guy who doesn't even live in the same state as me but we have such crazy chemistry! His names Jake and he's the love of my life I swear. I'm so...
    jdonavon97 jdonavon97 16-17, M Jul 2

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    I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months. We've met once and he's suppose to visit me again before school starts. we're completely infatuated with each other. don't give up hope...
    LDRprttywhnyoucry LDRprttywhnyoucry 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 16

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    So he got drunk last night and called me and said "I love you" twice. Ive told him not to say that till we've met but I'm not going to take it seriously. He also talked about...
    helreb helreb 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 20

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    Mine was the most true relationship i've ever had, although it was tragically destroyed eventually, so i don't know whether to say it worked or not. She was my net friend, and not...
    carelesswhisper00 carelesswhisper00 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I was dating somebody that lived in New York but she said I don't like dating boys out of state so she broke up with me
    goodplaya goodplaya 13-15, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    People always say I love him/her. I roll my eyes and smile and say good for you sweetie. Inside however I tell myself love is a myth an urban legend, like Bigfoot or Slenderman. I...
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    A long time boys told me I was to hideous to be kissed. Literally told by the guy who wanted to have sex with me. I just want one nights stand with you! Kisses is only for the girl...
    ZKAZ ZKAZ 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    Hi guys! Ok, so long story short.. Its been a while since I've realised I was emotionally unavailable coz of my past, found someone who made me realise the emotional waves of...
    Trainedheart Trainedheart 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Evolution simply cannot explain fundamental loopholes in the obsolete evolution theory. That's what evolution is..a THEORY.. Now don't get me wrong - I was a believer myself, that...
    Jamieblinn Jamieblinn 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 3

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    Whats the point of doing anything if everything is already predetermined? Lol, I believe we make and shape our own destiny, in our moments of decision we shape our future. For...
    Jakey942 Jakey942 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 6

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    Just Because It's In Books... Doesn't Mean It Still Exists - When something is listed or mentioned in a book about either history, religion or philosophy - it means they existed...
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 2

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    Love is nothing more than a lie, a pathetic lie for those not strong enough to accept the cruelty of reality. I hate seeing people in love, I hate them, love has always alluded me...
    Nix0 Nix0 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 14

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    As my sister put it, "4 years undergrad. 4 years med school. 3-7 year residency. And that's something I actually WANT to do. Why the Hell would I add a whiny man-child to that mix...
    Eitan Eitan 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    And you probably don't either. Who wants pie? :-)
    joshmasters joshmasters 26-30 4 days ago

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    The evolution of relationships. (Mini comic) https://answersingenesis.org/media/cartoons/after-eden/evolutionary-terms/
    Vicvoss Vicvoss 13-15, M Jul 23

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    This One Crazy Person - There was this one crazy person online who used to harrass me and he believed in the illuminati and that the world was going to end in De