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I Don't Believe In Long Distance Relationships

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    Here is Practical Explanation about Next Life,

    Purpose of Human Life, philosophical/religious facts, theories etc. ___________________________ *********** Practical Explanation ( For Example ) :- `1st of all can you tell me every single seconds detail from that time when you born ?? ( i need every seconds detail ?? that what...
    bolt0 bolt0 22-25, M Dec 7, 2013

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    Things Have Changed

    Fine, long distance can work of you got separated for whatever reason. Or if you live like an hour or two away from each other. That's alright, because at least there's a foundation on which a relationship was founded. But no relationship can be forged off nothing but pictures...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 18, 2011

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    For Over 3years

    for 3year's i did chat and talk to my boyfriend online nothing's is happen.all he does is lie to me.and pretending and don't even come here yet....and not just that he keep talking to his first online ex girlfriend. i think he love the girl still because he still continue...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 4, 2013

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    Chapter#1 The Reason To Never Want Phil Guy Anymore

    First of all i been with my Philippine Guy live in partner we have two kids boy@girl i was so happy, and contented just in the house cleaning, cooking..chasing the kids. and i was in love with my ex, but a years pass by...its December 3Days before the New year.. me and my ex...
    1 Response Feb 3, 2013

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    Varying Results.

    I was recently in a long-distance relationship. We started dating right when high school ended. We spent the summer together, but then we had to part and go to college. We were about five hours apart. We knew we wanted to stay together, and we agreed on long-distance. We mostly...
    pauserewind pauserewind 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 31, 2012

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    Long Distance Relationship

    It's really difficult to maintain a long distance relationship. I had a bf online and yes, we used to talk and see each other in Skype almost everyday. During our first month, everything was so good. Then during the second month, he started to become cold little by little until...
    mariet0712 mariet0712 26-30, F Aug 2, 2013

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    I'm Scared Of Growing Apart

    I'm in a long distance relationship. I'm completely in love w my boyfriend. I'm 30 and consider this the first time I've ever truly been in love. I live in denver and he lives in California. We met in Vegas and had an instant connection. We just clicked. Well since then he has...
    Jan 10, 2013

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    This is about long distance relationship.

    (I am 18 years old) I only do if we will be apart for 3-5 years and no longer. However, I an going abroad for medical program, which means I will be away for more than 7 years, (10 actually in total minimum) and we both agree our pathway will be hard to meet later future. But i...
    uniqueresonance uniqueresonance 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    Why I Believe In Long Distance Relationships

    Hello, First of all, let me introduce my relationship. I have been dating for a few years with my girlfriend who lives half way across the world. In the beginning, when I was living in Japan, I met my girlfriend who then had a boyfriend. Despite that, we both had interests in...
    UnthoughtKnowing UnthoughtKnowing 22-25 1 Response Aug 3, 2013

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    Not Working

    When you're forgetting you're even IN a relationship, it's pretty much time to end it with Mr. Washington when you're in Illinois. Know what I mean?
    CheerioGrrrl CheerioGrrrl 13-15, F May 20, 2012

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    Short Term, Long Distance...sure...long Term, Long Distance...not A Chance!

    I used to believe long distance relationships could work.I still believe that, at least for the short term... But that was 12 years ago. I had been dating my then boyfriend, now husband for 2 years when the air force took him overseas for months at a time. We made it work then...
    Achange4me Achange4me 26-30, F Jun 30, 2012

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    It's not that I don't want to believe.

    It's just... it's so much harder on the heart to know you're thousands of miles away and every night you count the stars before I do but you're counting alone. How my heart aches when I look up at the moon and know you see the same one but that connection is so faint. It hurts...
    Blueaquatic Blueaquatic 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 1

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    Small Problem Major Confusion

    Let me start out by explaining my current situation. I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half. He and I go to separate colleges. However, our colleges are only 20 minutes apart. But between school work we only get to see each other once a week. I'm really grateful...
    StrugglinToSurvive StrugglinToSurvive 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 15, 2013

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    Oh Cmon!

    He is far away! Why should I talk to him and create more misunderstandings? I just dont want to start NOW! I want to wait till he comes! Whats so difficult in that?
    HelenParis HelenParis 22-25 Mar 7, 2012

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    I Just Can't Do Another Long Distance Relationship

    I have to be upfront: I can't do a long-distance relationship again. I live in the Philly metro area. I want to meet someone HERE. And here's why: I have had two long-distance relationships these past two years. I saw them as pleasant distractions to get me through a rough patch...
    lisa36 lisa36 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 18, 2012

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    I Dont Believe In LDRs Until...

    4 years ago I dont believe in LDRs... until luck played tricks on me and met this guy online.. We had an instant connection and he became my bf.. We broke up 4 times (minimum!) and got together again over the years.. I dont receommend this kind of setup but I guess it can work if...
    soulcatchersvictim soulcatchersvictim 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 29, 2013

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    Nevermind :/

    I don't think I will ever have a long distance relationship again, they never work out, I will stick with people who are from the UK (same as me) but no where like America or anywhere. You don't know what they're doing behind your back. :/
    Ml4566 Ml4566 13-15, M 4 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    Yeah...

    ...mine didn't work out. It is very very very difficult. I really believed for 2 years that it would work, but now I don't. I wish things had been different. The only way it can work is if two people are in it together, and do everything they can to see each other. Unfortunately...
    djfx311 djfx311 36-40, F May 19, 2012

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    Only A Certain Type Of Person Can Do A Long Distance Relationship

    And that is not me, you see I have insecurity issues more than most, and the feel of abandonment feels me with dread. Then again I think I was in an unhealthy relationship, with a man that had commitment issues, but was incredible lonely, put this together with our long distance...
    Gracie2012 Gracie2012 31-35, F Jul 9, 2012

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    And My Parents Were In One

    I don't believe in LDRs. I don't believe they never work out, time-wise, but I just believe they are not fulfilling enough for anyone to want to pursue them. My parents went into an LDR shortly after meeting at university. Now they have been married 20 years, of which about 10...
    Castorinox Castorinox 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 2, 2013

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    Long Distance..

    I don't believe in one.. Well.. i did before things fall apart.. I've been with 2 REALLLLLYYYY short term ldr (first one is not actually ldr.. well.. we'll see), yeah, short, but who cares? it doesn't mean i didn't gave my best no? Now, i prefer having a relationship offline...
    4uu1 4uu1 18-21 Nov 19, 2013

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    I met a guy a month before I study abroad,

    he confessed to me that he likes me and I kinda like him too, and he took me to meet his family and I spent a night w them cause I get a long really well w his parents, and I was so drunk that night, I kinda made out w him. But it was only 1st base, and I slept w him. It went...
    Fluouracarpott Fluouracarpott 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 18

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    Been There Done That! - My Recent Breakup

    My Recent Breakup I haven’t don’t much talking about this since the end or lately for so many different reasons. Before it was good, now I wonder if maybe I should let it out. I don’t like to sound bitter, and I don’t want to be angry even though sometimes it is...
    ForgetHate ForgetHate 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 13, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I just don't. You never know who you're talking to and also it's like a long distance relationship. Long distance doesn't work.
    adrianacecilia14 adrianacecilia14 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    I can tell you a lot about long distance relationships. They ARE hard. They CAN work, but MOST of the time, they don't. There is a big difference between being in a long distance...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 2 Responses Aug 2

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    I think they can. Just depends who you're with. Things can go great one day and just pure crap the next. I've been in several long distance relationships. They've been okay, but...
    innocentflower innocentflower 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 9

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    I think I told this story before, but here I go again... I have lost my faith in so many things. I have lost my faith in myself, in people, in life. When I was a kid, I had a...
    Allaloneandpoisoned Allaloneandpoisoned 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 10

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    Everybody has their own beliefs that they follow, and I do to. But I'm not going to go around scoffing at the religious people in this world. They have a greater being that they...
    ToBeAnOtaku101 ToBeAnOtaku101 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    I don't believe in love that last for ever we always hear and read about stories that two love each other but someone die in the end .. i don't hear about two lovers married and...
    onlypeace onlypeace 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 8

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    I am so tired of people saying "everything happens for a reason," or "you just have to take it as a learning experience...," or "God has a purpose for everything." Quite honestly...
    RaTEARSin RaTEARSin 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    God is great, I totally believe in God and a heaven. But I don't believe in all these religions.
    alyssab11 alyssab11 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I don't believe in evolution. I don't have to, because it's fact.
    KatieTreat KatieTreat 51-55, T 1 Response Jul 23

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    I consider myself Jewish and identify with a lot of the ethical teachings of Judaism, but I've always had a hard time buying the metaphysical aspects of it. I've been thinking...
    davidginsberg davidginsberg 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 3

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    ... I know some people don't believe in god, and neither do I.. But if he actually did exist.. What IS he? What kind of creature is he? Does he drink alcohol or smoke weed? Does he...
    CheeseBomb500 CheeseBomb500 13-15, M 6 Responses Aug 5

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    I KNOW that I love my mother. She's the only one I actually love. On the other hand I don't believe in the concept of being in love. It's just a bunch of BS. Let's say you get...
    Adeinwonderland Adeinwonderland 18-21, F Aug 7

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    Take any religion Hindu Christian Muslim Jewish Jains all these says we are his children its he who created and he is the one who is responsible for everything. It also says it is...
    Abhayabhay Abhayabhay 22-25, M Aug 8

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    I closed my heart off like, two months ago due to the shock, depression and anger of a five year unrequited yet confusing love. My eyes opened at my own carelessness and stupidity...
    cults cults 18-21, F Aug 12

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    I frankly think religion is dumb as hell. I just don't believe in anything. At all.
    BeautifulMistake21 BeautifulMistake21 13-15, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    Never had a long distance relationship before , but I just hope when I leave for college me & my girlfriend remain to stay strong . I know it's going to be difficult but im willing...
    lmyrical lmyrical 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    I just want a relationship. I don't care if it's long distance as long as you girls don't care. ;)
    Darkwolf523 Darkwolf523 16-17, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    Let me tell you something about it. It sucks. It's not for the faint hearted. And you're gonna feel more often than not, that you don't wanna do it anymore. It's especially harder...
    nicoleACA nicoleACA 22-25, F Aug 10

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    It seems that another profound theory is wheedling to come to life on paper. I have done a lot of thinking about relationships lately, and have reached several conclusions that...
    bbcfolyfe1771 bbcfolyfe1771 18-21, M Aug 2

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    Mine was the most true relationship i've ever had, although it was tragically destroyed eventually, so i don't know whether to say it worked or not. She was my net friend, and not...
    carelesswhisper00 carelesswhisper00 18-21, F Jul 24

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    I was dating somebody that lived in New York but she said I don't like dating boys out of state so she broke up with me
    goodplaya goodplaya 13-15, M 3 Responses Jul 29

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    We've been cursed with minds that can count time and hearts that yearn for a God. Sometimes I think about God and religion and how someone tried to make up this perfect world of...
    skybaby0 skybaby0 18-21 1 Response Aug 3

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    I want to believe in you so badly. I want something to instill my hopes in. I wish I could feel your unconditional love. I yearn for your eternal forgiveness. Life is really hard...
    skybaby0 skybaby0 18-21 2 Responses Aug 8

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    Ever since i was about 12 so not to long after my first period I started getting terrible "headaches" but they're really located behind my eyes and they make me see weird squiggly...
    NjVgVrgo NjVgVrgo 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    Hi guys! Ok, so long story short.. Its been a while since I've realised I was emotionally unavailable coz of my past, found someone who made me realise the emotional waves of...
    Trainedheart Trainedheart 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 24

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    I am twelve and I have believed in god since about two years ago. Then I started to question things. I also took adv biology last year and we learned sines tuff about how the earth...
    Dev4444 Dev4444 13-15, F 12 Responses Aug 3

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