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I Don't Believe In Love Anymore

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    The Earth's Domino Effect Evolution

    Looking at the Grand Scheme of the Earth in its History. It's being the outcome of Evolution on a Domino Effect. Having Generations that give off New and Reformed Generations of its Evolution. And on and on to our time. For each of us from Birth to Death. All the...
    ChakraSolipsismMGP ChakraSolipsismMGP 56-60, M 1 Response Mar 22, 2010

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    What Can You Believe Anymore?

    What if you meet someone by chance and there is that immediate "spark" and then you see them months later and the spark becomes a flame, and you tread recklessly into love, because that flame has been kept by someone else for 6 years. HOW CAN YOU FEEL SO "...
    DARKLYLIT DARKLYLIT 41-45 2 Responses Feb 15, 2009

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    Naive Love Is Not Enough Anymore

    Naive trusting love is not enough anymore for me. I need more, I need communication, show of respect, I need emotional intimacy and actions rather than words. When love was enough, I was used, thrown aside for selfishness and personal desires and wants. My needs and desires...
    NorthernOntarioMama NorthernOntarioMama 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 5, 2011

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    I somewhat dont believe in love anymore Because

    of a guy that kinnda broke me. After him, I decided to shut myself from love and decided that being numb was the best thing to do. I do wish I could believe in love again. Who knows?
    defi4nce defi4nce 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    Love Is A Joke!

    It must be me and not every female I date. I can't seem to do it right no matter how hard I try. I have been married three times and divorced all three and have not had a physical relationship for nearly four years now. I recently tried again to be with someone, albeit long...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 13, 2012

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    What's The Point

    I had love and she left me.  I help onto hope that if I tried hard enough and solved the problems that she used as evidence against our relationship I could be happy again.  I was wrong.   I have lost the only thing that kept my life in order, I have lost the only thing that...
    jdude19 jdude19 18-21, M Sep 11, 2011

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    Finally I Understand.........

    One night while watching Sex and the City an amazing thing happened. An epiphany. Suddenly it all made sense. Carrie posed the question Do you not believe in love? There it was. It hit me like a ton of bricks. After years of loving, caring, nurturing, giving and doing all the...
    lov2explore lov2explore 46-50, F 4 Responses Oct 2, 2008

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    I Could Be A Person That Doesnt Believe In Love, But I Cant Help Noticing It All Around

    I have been through some very hard times in my life, yet every day when I look around me I can't help but see the love there is in the world and to keep hoping that all will be well ..So when you feel that you'v been let down by some people, go out to the park, the cafe or donate...
    PinkHippy PinkHippy 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 11, 2013

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    Time to Stop Trying

    i walked down love street one day and fell in a hole... took me a long time but i found my way out... i bruised my knee the next time i walked down love street i fell into the same hole... this time i found my way out more quickly.... i scratched my knee the next time i walked...
    sashafierce sashafierce 31-35 1 Response Jan 8, 2009

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    No

    I don't believe in this "idea of love" that I once held. In the beginning, my idea of love between a man and a woman came from movies and books. But I'm at a point in my life where certain experiences shattered that idea. And I would have to say that though they weren't the most...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 31, 2013

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    Heart Broken; Hope Lost

    I was "in love" for three years with a man who took me for granted half the time and then spent the rest of the time trying to change and control and hurt me. There were patches of REALLY great times but looking back now even those seem coated in deciet and manipulation. I...
    firefly21 firefly21 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 26, 2010

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    I was hopeless romantic,

    but after being in a few bad relationships, I am starting to think that love is actually just a habit, a fiction. I am in relationship with someone right now, and I love him, but I also think I would be fine without him as well. I don't know what happened to me, and why am I...
    mysecretstop mysecretstop 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 26

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    I Just Can't Do This

    I HAVE BEEN MARRIED, RAISED CHILDREN THAT WEREN'T MINE  AND  MY OWN.  IT TOOK SO MUCH OUT OF ME THAT AFTER THE DIVORCE I JUST GOT TO BURNED.  I AM A WORKING SINGLE PARENT NOW WITH AN 18 YEAR OLD MAKING ENDS MEET AND TRYING TO DO THE BEST I CAN AS A MOM...
    PR50 PR50 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 20, 2010

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    There Is No Point Any More

     I remained hopeful, I thought maybe there was chance we would get back together.  I help on to that small glimmer of home.  This is all in the past tense, we won't get back together, we had a beautiful and civil conversation and it is clear that I will never be lucky enough...
    jdude19 jdude19 18-21, M Sep 25, 2011

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    Only Necessary Interactions

    I still have to get along with others. I still have to be civil. i still have to be peaceful. And I will be. But I will never love again. Love only exists in fantasies now for me. Not in real life. Because there does not seem to be so much trust anymore, anywhere.   Seems more...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 28, 2012

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    I Used To Believe

    Since he left me with no idea to do. I never wanted to love again cause it hurts to accept you love someone so dearly and he just left you there to fail :( I don't want to believe anymore
    Awesome234 Awesome234 18-21, F Dec 12, 2011

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    My Thoughts On Love

    throwing my thoughts into this vast emptiness. I've been asking myself "where does this leave me now?" it never ceases to amaze me how long i can live in fantasy. I feel like a kid trying to hold my breathe under water. I did it for a full two minutes this time...
    sashafierce sashafierce 31-35 1 Response Jan 2, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I honestly don't understand love anymore, maybe I'm just young for it right now, but with the experiences I've had, I wasn't so happy with it... at one point I was happy while I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 7

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    I think I told this story before, but here I go again... I have lost my faith in so many things. I have lost my faith in myself, in people, in life. When I was a kid, I had a...
    Allaloneandpoisoned Allaloneandpoisoned 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 10

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    Everybody has their own beliefs that they follow, and I do to. But I'm not going to go around scoffing at the religious people in this world. They have a greater being that they...
    ToBeAnOtaku101 ToBeAnOtaku101 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    I don't believe in love that last for ever we always hear and read about stories that two love each other but someone die in the end .. i don't hear about two lovers married and...
    onlypeace onlypeace 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 8

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    Two things. I don't believe religion is a good thing and I don't believe religions are real. Religions are there, but they aren't real to me. Because there are so many of them...
    LeonardFinch LeonardFinch 16-17, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I KNOW that I love my mother. She's the only one I actually love. On the other hand I don't believe in the concept of being in love. It's just a bunch of BS. Let's say you get...
    Adeinwonderland Adeinwonderland 18-21, F Aug 7

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    I am so tired of people saying "everything happens for a reason," or "you just have to take it as a learning experience...," or "God has a purpose for everything." Quite honestly...
    RaTEARSin RaTEARSin 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    I closed my heart off like, two months ago due to the shock, depression and anger of a five year unrequited yet confusing love. My eyes opened at my own carelessness and stupidity...
    cults cults 18-21, F Aug 12

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    God is great, I totally believe in God and a heaven. But I don't believe in all these religions.
    alyssab11 alyssab11 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    Take any religion Hindu Christian Muslim Jewish Jains all these says we are his children its he who created and he is the one who is responsible for everything. It also says it is...
    Abhayabhay Abhayabhay 22-25, M Aug 8

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    I consider myself Jewish and identify with a lot of the ethical teachings of Judaism, but I've always had a hard time buying the metaphysical aspects of it. I've been thinking...
    davidginsberg davidginsberg 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 3

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    ... I know some people don't believe in god, and neither do I.. But if he actually did exist.. What IS he? What kind of creature is he? Does he drink alcohol or smoke weed? Does he...
    CheeseBomb500 CheeseBomb500 13-15, M 6 Responses Aug 5

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    Love is for the mentally weak...i really don't think love is real it's just so many people want it to be that they actually think they feel it.
    J4ckie123 J4ckie123 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I frankly think religion is dumb as hell. I just don't believe in anything. At all.
    BeautifulMistake21 BeautifulMistake21 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 16

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    I just recently found out that my husband is talking to several women online....in a very sexual way. He apologized and regrets it.... We talked it out and want to grow from that...
    Brownie27 Brownie27 26-30, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    What the hell are my friends doing? When they are alone, they always invite me to hang out. however, when I need help, they do not help me. I do not believe friendship anymore. It...
    fitwealth fitwealth 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    I want to believe in you so badly. I want something to instill my hopes in. I wish I could feel your unconditional love. I yearn for your eternal forgiveness. Life is really hard...
    skybaby0 skybaby0 18-21 3 Responses Aug 8

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    i personally.... don't share your belief on quite the same level, i think. I think it's super neat that you can find something that you have put your faith into believing. I think...
    a1uM1nuM448 a1uM1nuM448 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    JK I completely believe in love, I just think all of you who "don't" are just hurt and really need some love! So I'm here to say that I love you! As a person you are beautiful and...
    OliviaOcean OliviaOcean 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    I am twelve and I have believed in god since about two years ago. Then I started to question things. I also took adv biology last year and we learned sines tuff about how the earth...
    Dev4444 Dev4444 13-15, F 12 Responses Aug 3

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    We've been cursed with minds that can count time and hearts that yearn for a God. Sometimes I think about God and religion and how someone tried to make up this perfect world of...
    skybaby0 skybaby0 18-21 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Perhaps God exists. And perhaps I will "burn in hell" when I stand before Him because I did not believe in Him when I was alive. But I guess that will be my problem, and no one...
    23db 23db 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 14

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    So I'm 14 and I've been a Christian all my life but I'm realizing that I don't really think that's he's logical and now I believe in the Big Bang theory but my parents don't know...
    Sgthunter99 Sgthunter99 26-30 Aug 8

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    I learned in life not to be so trusting and that nobody is perfect, there's good and bad in all of us so don't be so hard on people.
    kissssmykiki kissssmykiki 22-25, F Jul 30

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    I think karma is just probable or a coincidence, I don't think a person's every action will have an equal response. If this were the case then why do bad things happen to 'good...
    MissRanger MissRanger 13-15, F Aug 10

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    Everyone tomorrow is Monday. Did you enjoy your weekend? :):) sometimes we find happiness in this life an sometimes we are in a constant battle with this world. Everyone if anyone...
    smilebigalways smilebigalways 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 10

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    I have a very hard time opening up to people for that exact reason. And if I do open up to tell someone, something personal, then I will not tell them the full details. I find...
    sammy0216 sammy0216 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 12

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    I don't trust people very easily... But once I do, I tend to give too much and still get burned...
    pandora1357 pandora1357 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 15

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    Dear Christians, please DO NOT tell me what to do. Okay, maybe I'm ready to burn in hell. Maybe, I don't care. God is dead to me. I think that being a good person is better than...
    TheAverageIdiot TheAverageIdiot 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 17

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    I won't believe till i see it with my eyes.
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    I don't feel like I have a personality. Constantly numb.
    Trionak1993 Trionak1993 18-21, F a week ago

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    my trust in people is so beyond broken that I really don't see anyone ever wanting to put up with me long enough to gain it
    Persayous Persayous 22-25, F 2 days ago

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