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I Don't Believe In Love Anymore

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    ChakraSolipsismMGP ChakraSolipsismMGP 56-60, M 1 Response Mar 22, 2010

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    I was hopeless romantic,

    but after being in a few bad relationships, I am starting to think that love is actually just a habit, a fiction. I am in relationship with someone right now, and I love him, but I also think I would be fine without him as well. I don't know what happened to me, and why am I...
    mysecretstop mysecretstop 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 26, 2014

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    I Just Can't Do This

    I HAVE BEEN MARRIED, RAISED CHILDREN THAT WEREN'T MINE  AND  MY OWN.  IT TOOK SO MUCH OUT OF ME THAT AFTER THE DIVORCE I JUST GOT TO BURNED.  I AM A WORKING SINGLE PARENT NOW WITH AN 18 YEAR OLD MAKING ENDS MEET AND TRYING TO DO THE BEST I CAN AS A MOM...
    PR50 PR50 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 20, 2010

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    Soooooo,Hmm(clearing throat) I met a woman in

    college in 2009 after a breakup with another woman that just up and left me with these words ''Later on in life you'll see that it was for the better'', but in all actuality it just reopened wounds from past hurts of being dumped for someone else. When I met this woman in my...
    SchizoEffective6 SchizoEffective6 36-40, M Jun 23

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    There Is No Point Any More

     I remained hopeful, I thought maybe there was chance we would get back together.  I help on to that small glimmer of home.  This is all in the past tense, we won't get back together, we had a beautiful and civil conversation and it is clear that I will never be lucky enough...
    jdude19 jdude19 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 25, 2011

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    I do for others, but not

    for me. It's just not there anymore...
    BeyondGreenEyes BeyondGreenEyes 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    No

    I don't believe in this "idea of love" that I once held. In the beginning, my idea of love between a man and a woman came from movies and books. But I'm at a point in my life where certain experiences shattered that idea. And I would have to say that though they weren't the most...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 31, 2013

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    Finally I Understand.........

    One night while watching Sex and the City an amazing thing happened. An epiphany. Suddenly it all made sense. Carrie posed the question Do you not believe in love? There it was. It hit me like a ton of bricks. After years of loving, caring, nurturing, giving and doing all the...
    lov2explore lov2explore 46-50, F 4 Responses Oct 2, 2008

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    XxMadnessxX XxMadnessxX 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 14

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    What Can You Believe Anymore?

    What if you meet someone by chance and there is that immediate "spark" and then you see them months later and the spark becomes a flame, and you tread recklessly into love, because that flame has been kept by someone else for 6 years. HOW CAN YOU FEEL SO "...
    DARKLYLIT DARKLYLIT 41-45 2 Responses Feb 15, 2009

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    I lost that belief about a month ago

    and it has been draining more and more as the days go by. I was in a relationship with a person I thought I loved, but we had grown apart andi ended things. He made me feel really bad but found some girl to hook up with. Everyone i trust lets me down. If love involves full trust...
    katie3401 katie3401 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    What's The Point

    I had love and she left me.  I help onto hope that if I tried hard enough and solved the problems that she used as evidence against our relationship I could be happy again.  I was wrong.   I have lost the only thing that kept my life in order, I have lost the only thing that...
    jdude19 jdude19 18-21, M Sep 11, 2011

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    I was a young lady expecting romance

    but I never received it. The man I dated for 3-4 years was always cold to me. Cold kisses. No hugs. No holding hands. Always cold hands. Names calling damaged my self esteem. It was unforgivable and The man was ugly inside out. I dated a few men after the ugly man and they were...
    Myalee Myalee 41-45, F 2 Responses May 23

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    I somewhat dont believe in love anymore Because

    of a guy that kinnda broke me. After him, I decided to shut myself from love and decided that being numb was the best thing to do. I do wish I could believe in love again. Who knows?
    defi4nce defi4nce 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 3, 2014

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    Time to Stop Trying

    i walked down love street one day and fell in a hole... took me a long time but i found my way out... i bruised my knee the next time i walked down love street i fell into the same hole... this time i found my way out more quickly.... i scratched my knee the next time i walked...
    sashafierce sashafierce 31-35 1 Response Jan 8, 2009

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    Ivan, the one I still love

    even though I just want to hate his guts, sent me this email when all I said was I didn't want to hear about his girlfriends anymore, that he was expecting too much of me: no dont you just cant get over me knowing that we are never going to happen to you just stop if you...
    AngelsInBlack AngelsInBlack 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    Naive Love Is Not Enough Anymore

    Naive trusting love is not enough anymore for me. I need more, I need communication, show of respect, I need emotional intimacy and actions rather than words. When love was enough, I was used, thrown aside for selfishness and personal desires and wants. My needs and desires...
    NorthernOntarioMama NorthernOntarioMama 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 5, 2011

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    Love Is A Joke!

    It must be me and not every female I date. I can't seem to do it right no matter how hard I try. I have been married three times and divorced all three and have not had a physical relationship for nearly four years now. I recently tried again to be with someone, albeit long...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 13, 2012

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    You know, you never really give up on love.

    You just get tired and force yourself not to want it.
    OrangeViolin OrangeViolin 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    Nope. After spending my life wishing

    for nothing more, thinking of love constantly, seeking it, a marriage, many relationships, i feel as if i am waking from a dream. it was all a big dream. Now i do not know what to replace it with. Its like there is this massive void in my life now. "Believe in YOURSELF" they say...
    nighthouse66 nighthouse66 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    My Thoughts On Love

    throwing my thoughts into this vast emptiness. I've been asking myself "where does this leave me now?" it never ceases to amaze me how long i can live in fantasy. I feel like a kid trying to hold my breathe under water. I did it for a full two minutes this time...
    sashafierce sashafierce 31-35 1 Response Jan 2, 2009

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    I Could Be A Person That Doesnt Believe In Love, But I Cant Help Noticing It All Around

    I have been through some very hard times in my life, yet every day when I look around me I can't help but see the love there is in the world and to keep hoping that all will be well ..So when you feel that you'v been let down by some people, go out to the park, the cafe or donate...
    PinkHippy PinkHippy 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 11, 2013

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    Only Necessary Interactions

    I still have to get along with others. I still have to be civil. i still have to be peaceful. And I will be. But I will never love again. Love only exists in fantasies now for me. Not in real life. Because there does not seem to be so much trust anymore, anywhere.   Seems more...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 28, 2012

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    Heart Broken; Hope Lost

    I was "in love" for three years with a man who took me for granted half the time and then spent the rest of the time trying to change and control and hurt me. There were patches of REALLY great times but looking back now even those seem coated in deciet and manipulation. I...
    firefly21 firefly21 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 26, 2010

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    Broken Abandoned Poisoned Murdered Neglected

    Deferred Cast aside Lost Eroded Starved Burned Deceived Ambushed Resented Overextended Impersonated Transferred Abused Raided Pilfered Exhausted Betrayed Replaced Outranked Supplanted Overstated Insulted Diseased Self serving Faded Starved Over-inflated Ignored Rejected...
    Faerylight Faerylight 41-45, F 6 Responses Jun 13

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    I Used To Believe

    Since he left me with no idea to do. I never wanted to love again cause it hurts to accept you love someone so dearly and he just left you there to fail :( I don't want to believe anymore
    CandyofSadness CandyofSadness 18-21, F Dec 12, 2011

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    along the way people have betrayed my trust. I think I have had slot kg contractions when it comes to men. I had a bad father figure in my father but really good from my uncles. so...
    justlilyg justlilyg 22-25, F 8 hrs ago

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    It's hard to trust people - I don't even take my chances with people anymore. I learnt my lesson, and to never trust anyone outside of my own circle. I'm rarely friendly and...
    Draves700 Draves700 22-25, M 13 hrs ago

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    I hate it when people think too much of themselves and think they are better than everyone else. I also hate it when people who have money think they are better than those who work...
    iamabigtease iamabigtease 13-15, F 15 hrs ago

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    I am married and it is a sexless marriage. I have a high sex drive and find myself jacking off daily. I want to enjoy sex again with a partner who responds to my touch and touches...
    rjd4dnvr6pk rjd4dnvr6pk 46-50 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I have no desire in praising an Chauvinist self absorbed Dictator.and the Zeus came before the Bible Even the Egyptian Gods. I think The Earth or the Universe has no beginning nor...
    FrostyElsie FrostyElsie 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    They believe they are the only true religion. That they are the only people for God, and everyone outside their faith will die and be destroyed. I don't think so! For in the bible...
    noaht43 noaht43 41-45, T 2 days ago

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    I don't believe in it and probably( most likely), never will.
    UnlovingAlex UnlovingAlex 16-17, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    So do I. Nevertheless I had experienced a so called chakra opening during an LSD trip years ago. It has 3 stages: 1. A sudden explosive clarity and consiousness 2. A mental sliding...
    niezuweit niezuweit 26-30 3 days ago

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    Well, for me there´s no such thing as a friendzone when it comes to women. If a women is not having sex with me, or i can see that it ain´t gonna happen in the future, she isn´t...
    PenetrationGuru PenetrationGuru 36-40, M 3 days ago

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    Marriage is not really a big thing to me because... People who love each other will love each other regardless of if there was a bit of paper with ones last name the same, I think...
    NoUsernameInserted NoUsernameInserted 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    i met the love of my life almost 6 years ago. he was the sweetest gentle sensitive man. he proposed 6 months in and i honestly thought my dreams were coming true. i was the...
    akyesnomaybe akyesnomaybe 26-30, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    The friendzone is an imaginary land where guys only talk to girls for sex. In this land guys and girls can't be friends. Guys don't seem to understand that women were not put on...
    DoneAnd0ver DoneAnd0ver 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I just try and be nice to people and do good things. If a religion helps you, fine. But I don't need it in my life.
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Trust is like giving someone a loaded gun and believing that they won't shoot you, but some people are like children, because no matter how much you try to tell a child how not to...
    geminixleo geminixleo 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I feel..that if you really love someone? you don't need to get married to prove that. I find that kinda stupid? lol I will never get married. marriage doesint last? nor does...
    Muffin19 Muffin19 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I'm agnostic- meaning I don't 100% rule out the idea that there might be some kind of intelligent design... But for god's sake (pun intended), I'm so SICK of people giving "God...
    nickels513 nickels513 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Sometimes I feel I do not understand him enough because he has a stressful job. But then I think I have a stressful job too. We are after all in the same line of work. How come I...
    Fierceapple Fierceapple 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I don't think I ever have.. My father was (still is) very religious man and he would take me and my brother to church every Sunday. We would pray, attend to church activities and...
    SuicidalSam SuicidalSam 22-25, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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