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I Don't Believe In Love Anymore

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    I Used To Believe

    Since he left me with no idea to do. I never wanted to love again cause it hurts to accept you love someone so dearly and he just left you there to fail :( I don't want to believe anymore
    Awesome234 Awesome234 18-21, F Dec 12, 2011

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    I'm Loving Angels Instead!

    I sit and waitdoes an angel contemplate my fateand do they knowthe places where we gowhen we´re grey and old´cos I´ve been toldthat salvation lets their wings unfoldso when I'm lying in my bedthoughts running through my headand I feel that love is deadI'm loving angels...
    ThePeach ThePeach 26-30, F Sep 24, 2011

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    Finally I Understand.........

    One night while watching Sex and the City an amazing thing happened. An epiphany. Suddenly it all made sense. Carrie posed the question Do you not believe in love? There it was. It hit me like a ton of bricks. After years of loving, caring, nurturing, giving and doing all the...
    lov2explore lov2explore 46-50, F 4 Responses Oct 2, 2008

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    My Thoughts On Love

    throwing my thoughts into this vast emptiness. I've been asking myself "where does this leave me now?" it never ceases to amaze me how long i can live in fantasy. I feel like a kid trying to hold my breathe under water. I did it for a full two minutes this time...
    sashafierce sashafierce 31-35 1 Response Jan 2, 2009

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    No

    I don't believe in this "idea of love" that I once held. In the beginning, my idea of love between a man and a woman came from movies and books. But I'm at a point in my life where certain experiences shattered that idea. And I would have to say that though they weren't the most...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 31, 2013

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    Time to Stop Trying

    i walked down love street one day and fell in a hole... took me a long time but i found my way out... i bruised my knee the next time i walked down love street i fell into the same hole... this time i found my way out more quickly.... i scratched my knee the next time i walked...
    sashafierce sashafierce 31-35 1 Response Jan 8, 2009

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    Only Necessary Interactions

    I still have to get along with others. I still have to be civil. i still have to be peaceful. And I will be. But I will never love again. Love only exists in fantasies now for me. Not in real life. Because there does not seem to be so much trust anymore, anywhere.   Seems more...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 28, 2012

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    I somewhat dont believe in love anymore Because

    of a guy that kinnda broke me. After him, I decided to shut myself from love and decided that being numb was the best thing to do. I do wish I could believe in love again. Who knows?
    defi4nce defi4nce 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 3

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    I Just Can't Do This

    I HAVE BEEN MARRIED, RAISED CHILDREN THAT WEREN'T MINE  AND  MY OWN.  IT TOOK SO MUCH OUT OF ME THAT AFTER THE DIVORCE I JUST GOT TO BURNED.  I AM A WORKING SINGLE PARENT NOW WITH AN 18 YEAR OLD MAKING ENDS MEET AND TRYING TO DO THE BEST I CAN AS A MOM...
    PR50 PR50 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 20, 2010

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    The Earth's Domino Effect Evolution

    Looking at the Grand Scheme of the Earth in its History. It's being the outcome of Evolution on a Domino Effect. Having Generations that give off New and Reformed Generations of its Evolution. And on and on to our time. For each of us from Birth to Death. All the...
    ChakraSolipsismMGP ChakraSolipsismMGP 56-60, M 1 Response Mar 22, 2010

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    What's The Point

    I had love and she left me.  I help onto hope that if I tried hard enough and solved the problems that she used as evidence against our relationship I could be happy again.  I was wrong.   I have lost the only thing that kept my life in order, I have lost the only thing that...
    jdude19 jdude19 18-21, M Sep 11, 2011

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    Naive Love Is Not Enough Anymore

    Naive trusting love is not enough anymore for me. I need more, I need communication, show of respect, I need emotional intimacy and actions rather than words. When love was enough, I was used, thrown aside for selfishness and personal desires and wants. My needs and desires...
    NorthernOntarioMama NorthernOntarioMama 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 5, 2011

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    There Is No Point Any More

     I remained hopeful, I thought maybe there was chance we would get back together.  I help on to that small glimmer of home.  This is all in the past tense, we won't get back together, we had a beautiful and civil conversation and it is clear that I will never be lucky enough...
    jdude19 jdude19 18-21, M Sep 25, 2011

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    I was hopeless romantic,

    but after being in a few bad relationships, I am starting to think that love is actually just a habit, a fiction. I am in relationship with someone right now, and I love him, but I also think I would be fine without him as well. I don't know what happened to me, and why am I...
    mysecretstop mysecretstop 26-30, F Feb 26

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    I Could Be A Person That Doesnt Believe In Love, But I Cant Help Noticing It All Around

    I have been through some very hard times in my life, yet every day when I look around me I can't help but see the love there is in the world and to keep hoping that all will be well ..So when you feel that you'v been let down by some people, go out to the park, the cafe or donate...
    PinkHippy PinkHippy 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 11, 2013

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    What Can You Believe Anymore?

    What if you meet someone by chance and there is that immediate "spark" and then you see them months later and the spark becomes a flame, and you tread recklessly into love, because that flame has been kept by someone else for 6 years. HOW CAN YOU FEEL SO "...
    DARKLYLIT DARKLYLIT 41-45 2 Responses Feb 15, 2009

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    Heart Broken; Hope Lost

    I was "in love" for three years with a man who took me for granted half the time and then spent the rest of the time trying to change and control and hurt me. There were patches of REALLY great times but looking back now even those seem coated in deciet and manipulation. I...
    firefly21 firefly21 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 26, 2010

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    Love Is A Joke!

    It must be me and not every female I date. I can't seem to do it right no matter how hard I try. I have been married three times and divorced all three and have not had a physical relationship for nearly four years now. I recently tried again to be with someone, albeit long...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 13, 2012

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    I'm fat so I don't deserve to be loved.
    niamandthings niamandthings 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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