I Dont Believe In Love At First Sight

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    I think what a lot of people experience

    when they say they fell in love at first sight was really infatuation. I'm not saying that relationships haven't come out of those type of situations but you cannot know that you love someone just by looking at them. You know nothing than that you are physically attracted to...
    SolitarySummer SolitarySummer
    26-30, F
    3 Responses May 1, 2014

    that would be physical attraction

    and love isn't based on that! sharing laughs and tears is what love is! being there for each other, knowing that person's needs and wants!
    lovemycrazylife95 lovemycrazylife95
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 21, 2015

    I don't believe in it.

    However in some ways I do. I don't believe you can automatically be in love with someone just by looking at them, you don't even know the person. Sure, you may be sexually attracted to them by the way they look, but what about what matters more? The person who they really are...
    BoLostTheSheep BoLostTheSheep
    18-21, F
    Aug 8, 2014

    I don't. I think a person should know me better

    than I do. and that's hard to do with me. I don't like instant relationships. I have to have time to decide how I feel.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic
    36-40, F
    Jun 19, 2015

    Happens in movies and it seems lovely

    and magical. It should be "Attract At First Sight" because their looks attracted us but it really isn't love since we don't know that persons personality. Looks capture the eye but personality captures the heart.
    EmiTru EmiTru
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 8, 2014

    You can't look at a person & magically know

    that's your ms or mr right. That doesn't even make sense. I hate people who says "I first looked into your eyes and I knew you were the one" shut up your didn't know that person wasn't the one yet. Stop lying. Love at first sight yeah right.. Who came up with that worst...
    lorrena19 lorrena19
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 19, 2015

    Yh i don't because then you would just be

    falling in love with how they look For all you know that person could be a murderer or something.... Just saying
    xhumairax xhumairax
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Jun 22, 2014

    I dont belive in love at First sight becuase

    It mean you're falling in love with someone appearance not personality
    skylere3212002 skylere3212002
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 25, 2014

    I Have a Friend...

    he told me that 3 days after he met this girl he was in love. At first sight, too. Yeah, that relationship lasted about a week. Stupid. I don't know, maybe I'm just envious because I can't find love. I think that's it...   ~ChunChun^_^
    ChunChun ChunChun
    18-21, F
    Dec 23, 2007
    deleted deleted
    Jun 19, 2015

    I am a believer. I don't come here to say you

    guys are wrong but i'd like to share my story for those who want to read. Love at first sight for us (my guy & I) felt like a strong mutual connection. It wasn't just that he thought I was the most beautiful, he felt strongly connected with me as I did to him. That connection is...
    XXLovelyPoisonXX XXLovelyPoisonXX
    22-25, F
    Oct 12, 2015

    I don't believe in this,

    like yes you can be attracted but love?? Not so sure, since I also definitely go for a friendship and personality usually before Love.
    RandomExistence RandomExistence
    18-21, M
    Oct 13, 2015

    Sorry for people out there

    who do but, yeah i don't. It just seems to me like it is impossible without knowing them fully.
    sabrinabryn sabrinabryn
    16-17, F
    Jun 19, 2015

    Love can not be determined by a 3 second

    meeting of the eyes. To me love is a realistic affair. Loving to me is knowing all of a person's flaws and still coming to accept them. It is the willingness to compromise and sacrifice for the happiness of another entirely without expecting something in return. Meeting and...
    MsIdiosyncrasy0 MsIdiosyncrasy0
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 19, 2015

    No. Maybe lust at first sight.

    But you can't determine you really love someone without meeting them and knowing their personality. So far you just love their body. But what if they were abusive, of a jerk?
    CutiePie199 CutiePie199
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 23, 2014

    I don't believe in love at first sight

    because it jusg seems weird. Lots of my friends disagree with me....screw them!!!
    Sven22002 Sven22002
    13-15, M
    2 Responses Jun 19, 2015

    It Doesn't Exist.

    It is not possible to love someone from merely looking at them, that my dear friend would be lust. Lust at first sight is common, and often confused for love. If you can 'love' someone by just looking at them, where is that going to leave you in 50 years when both of you are old...
    Cnbrrn Cnbrrn
    18-21, M
    6 Responses Dec 23, 2007

    I have a difficult time believing somebody can

    just fall madly in love with someone at first sight. I just can't. But- However, the only way I could fully wrap my head around this idea is if reincarnation is a factor and the two said people were once lovers in a past life.
    deleted deleted
    Jun 19, 2015
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