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I Don't Believe In Love At First Sight

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 56 People

    How can you fall in love with someone you just

    met? You can have a crush, for sure, but those tend to simmer down fast after you realize that the ideal you fell in love with is not real. I believe love is something you build. You get to know someone, all of their strengths and all their weaknesses. You fall in love with...
    Featherwings Featherwings 18-21, F Dec 10, 2014

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    Search for a beautiful heart not necessarily a

    beautiful face. Beautiful people are not always good, but good people are always beautiful. From a first glance you can't tell what you're going to achieve. From a first glance you only like the person because you've only distinguished their looks, not their heart. They could...
    RadiateLove RadiateLove 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 24, 2014

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    I actually believe that you can be infatuated

    just by looking at someone (it happened to me) but you don't love this person, you like the face and the ideal that this person represents in your head. I mean how do you know that it's not a ********* or worse?!
    lailase lailase 18-21, F 1 Response May 20, 2014

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    I feel in order to fall in love,

    you need to know the person first. Although, I believe in attraction at first sight. For example, there is this junior I see everyday. I see him on my way to Japanese class. I have never spoken to him, nor done anything with him before. I don't even know his name. Yet, seeing...
    Icrossmyheart Icrossmyheart 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 28

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