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I Don't Believe In Love At First Sight

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    I actually believe that you can be infatuated

    just by looking at someone (it happened to me) but you don't love this person, you like the face and the ideal that this person represents in your head. I mean how do you know that it's not a ********* or worse?!
    lailase lailase 16-17, F 1 Response May 20, 2014

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    I feel in order to fall in love,

    you need to know the person first. Although, I believe in attraction at first sight. For example, there is this junior I see everyday. I see him on my way to Japanese class. I have never spoken to him, nor done anything with him before. I don't even know his name. Yet, seeing...
    Icrossmyheart Icrossmyheart 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 28

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    How can you fall in love with someone you just

    met? You can have a crush, for sure, but those tend to simmer down fast after you realize that the ideal you fell in love with is not real. I believe love is something you build. You get to know someone, all of their strengths and all their weaknesses. You fall in love with...
    Featherwings Featherwings 18-21, F Dec 10, 2014

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    Search for a beautiful heart not necessarily a

    beautiful face. Beautiful people are not always good, but good people are always beautiful. From a first glance you can't tell what you're going to achieve. From a first glance you only like the person because you've only distinguished their looks, not their heart. They could...
    RadiateLove RadiateLove 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 24, 2014

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    TheEnduringSunrise TheEnduringSunrise 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 3

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    I don't know if I can do it, he's away in a total of what sums up to be half a year and the rest of the time he seems exhausted. I want him by my side all the time and it's killing...
    Ennah Ennah 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I feel like my relationship is almost over. We been together almost 2 1/2 years and we hardly talk. He's hardly ever home and doesn't make any time for me. All we do is argue. I'm...
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    Missing my fiancée so much he's been sectioned for the last 2 years in a mental hospital. We have a daughter together and lately I'm finding it hard to keep everything together I...
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    megsygirl megsygirl 13-15 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I lost that belief about a month ago and it has been draining more and more as the days go by. I was in a relationship with a person I thought I loved, but we had grown apart andi...
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    It's one of those theories that sound wonderful and ideal. But it's that all it is, a theory, a theory without proof at that. If somebody who is generally a terrible person gets...
    everyotherusernamewastaken everyotherusernamewastaken 26-30, M Apr 3

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    My mom believes in mediums. Ugh. Why are people so stupid?
    ftmFreddy ftmFreddy 18-21, T 1 Response 1 day ago

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    BrokeBandit BrokeBandit 36-40, F 5 days ago

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    NudistJohnR NudistJohnR 51-55, M Mar 24

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