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I Don't Believe In Love At First Sight

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    I actually believe that you can be infatuated

    just by looking at someone (it happened to me) but you don't love this person, you like the face and the ideal that this person represents in your head. I mean how do you know that it's not a ********* or worse?!
    lailase lailase 16-17, F 1 Response May 20

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    Search for a beautiful heart not necessarily a

    beautiful face. Beautiful people are not always good, but good people are always beautiful. From a first glance you can't tell what you're going to achieve. From a first glance you only like the person because you've only distinguished their looks, not their heart. They could...
    RadiateLove RadiateLove 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 24

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    This is a song by Dido and it very nicely describes how I feel about love. How I am capable of falling in love deeply yet I hold myself back for my own good. "Don't Believe In...
    daeneryss daeneryss 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    It seems a common misconception among theists I talk to that atheists don't believe in god because they think they have some definitive proof that Go does not exist. That isn't...
    Leannaix Leannaix 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 8

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    I need to say this: I believe in "God" but I don't believe in "God". I believe there is more to life than Ego; so yes I believe in spirit and the power of creation. I don't believe...
    monty1212 monty1212 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My intention with this post isn't to be inflammatory, but to rather state what I believe and why. I don't think less of people who believe in god, in some ways I envy them. I don't...
    dontknowmylife dontknowmylife 18-21, M 3 Responses Sep 8

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    Two things. I don't believe religion is a good thing and I don't believe religions are real. Religions are there, but they aren't real to me. Because there are so many of them...
    LeonardFinch LeonardFinch 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 25

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    A ran done piece of advice I got from a drunk: "Don't believe anything you are told and don't believe half of the things you see."
    ChanelLove12 ChanelLove12 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 11

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    I swear, THE most annoying thing in my life is battling against the preaching of god believers. Why can't we just be peaceful in the silence of our disagreement? I don't believe...
    rainallthedays rainallthedays 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 9

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    I don't shave my down area. Why because nobody special to me. My boyfriends at the time don't like it but whatever you don't like it You must not be my soulmate
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 17 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I don't shave my legs often
    dogssing dogssing 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    I don't usually shave my legs in the winter, haha.
    Theycallherelly Theycallherelly 13-15, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    i personally.... don't share your belief on quite the same level, i think. I think it's super neat that you can find something that you have put your faith into believing. I think...
    a1uM1nuM448 a1uM1nuM448 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    One thing I am totally sick of hearing from Americans military personnel is, "Don't be so ungrateful! I'm fighting for your freedom!" No. No you're not. First of all, I live in New...
    Bewail Bewail 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 4

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    I just recently found out that my husband is talking to several women online....in a very sexual way. He apologized and regrets it.... We talked it out and want to grow from that...
    Brownie27 Brownie27 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 23

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    A sad fairy tale turned into a nightmare, gazing upon a beauty I've never seen, on the outside appearing to be sweet, caring, and a mystery. I wanted to know You and You, Me. I...
    Xenasdreams Xenasdreams 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 13

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    I really don't like the idea of marriage. I feel dating and being inseparable is love. Don't need the whole legal system involved. My inspiration of love is Alan Rickman who has...
    PrincessAnnaT PrincessAnnaT 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    Good guys finish last? Nope, don't think so. There's a misconception that "good guys" are generally idiots, just because we're kind doesn't mean were idiots. I hate it when people...
    TheTrueStory TheTrueStory 70+ Sep 12

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    It's never happened to me I don't really see how someone can love someone through a piece of metal. Chances are they act much differently behind the screen than they do in person...
    Hypnotise Hypnotise 16-17, M 2 days ago

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    I don't shave, and I shouldn't have to. If I've got hair growing on me whether it's on my arms, under my arms, or on my v*gina, I know it's there for a reason otherwise I wouldn't...
    WinterIncandescence WinterIncandescence 16-17, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I shave my armpits but not my legs, leg hair is there for a reason. I mean, I often wear tanks and that's why I shave my armpits- to reduce rumors bullying lies opinions etc. I don...
    dogsandwolves dogsandwolves 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    I have to say I am really happy about the situation here in Europe! Of course sometimes it would be nice just to have a gun, because I am neither very strong (physically) nor have...
    European2014 European2014 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 29

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    No way! Leave the person if you want someone else dammit! Don't juggle two different hearts because eventually one will/is gonna catch up with you. And then everything falls apart...
    MajesticDreams MajesticDreams 13-15, F Aug 30

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    But I realized once they find out that I get to hang out with wonderful beautiful people and they don't it was them who became upset.
    Professorfate Professorfate 51-55 Sep 10

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    "Listen, here's what I think. I think that we can't go around measuring our goodness by what we don't do.......By what we deny ourselves, what we resist, and who we exclude. I...
    underconstruction underconstruction 41-45, F 6 days ago

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    the reason is that i have size 9 foot, and that is considered below average, but a couple a feet upward doesn't match, i mean i don't have bragging rights but my dong isn't...
    ajgamer ajgamer 13-15, M 5 days ago

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    I personally do shave but if you don't want to then you shouldn't feel like you have to
    WendyDarlin WendyDarlin 18-21, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    I guess its not totally his fault. He has been dealing with depression for most of his life. It has become more and more unmanageable for me. He decided to go off his med about...
    Pharmalady Pharmalady 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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    Been together 4 1/2 years he broke up with me and kicked me out of his house out of a small argument I moved out got my own place didn't speak for a month . Started talking again...
    stephygee1991 stephygee1991 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 26

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    I myself do, but if someone doesn't, it is fine to just be how God made us.
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    The extent to which I do and do not believe in God is a 50/50 thing in my eyes, mainly because I believe in reincarnation and other dimensions. To all religious people, I do...
    JohnBobMac JohnBobMac 16-17, T 1 Response Sep 2

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    Been together for years. Mid-morning, told my boyfriend hi twice because he stopped texting me. But he never answered (happens alot from time to time) so I believed he just fell...
    AirSlice AirSlice 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    I do not believe the bible is perfect. But I believe in God and He is perfect.
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    I have always been more intelligent than my father so intelligence and age not positively correlated. Actually it is correlated but negatively correlated, the older you get the...
    RagnarLodbrok RagnarLodbrok 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 10

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    My dad just posted a video to my fb wall some holy roller bs about how the devil has shaped america. The man in the video kept saying "If I were the Devil I do 'this'". To which I...
    LifeLacksLuster LifeLacksLuster 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 22

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    Not A Bit i do believe in the the non-existence of Aliens (not the illegal ones, the "take me to your leader" / @n@l-probe aliens.) and saying that.... i firmly plant my head in...
    SKiesterly SKiesterly 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    As I traveled about a hundred miles to the nearest big city in my state, I noticed about 100 or more churches and signs for churches. Something about them that I never noticed when...
    Leannaix Leannaix 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 11

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    My parents weren't the religious type but they enrolled me to a Catholic School since my primary school. So I know him all my life but I started doubting when I entered high school...
    rabblemagic rabblemagic 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 13

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    Man evolved from monkeys? The only thing a monkey has ever created was monkey ****!!!!!!Monkeys do not create,they imitate!!!!!!!As long as we allow monkeys to imitate scientists...
    Spitbak Spitbak 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 1

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    I used to think love had the answers. Those dreams died a painful death.
    SecretAdmirerer SecretAdmirerer 16-17, M Sep 8

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    Burn victims.This is a difficult video to watch, but it deals with a difficult subject that should not be avoided simply because it is unpleasant. The harsh imagery is necessary in...
    innosflew innosflew 22-25, M Sep 10

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    My gynecologist suddenly passed away two months ago. So today I made a visit to a female doctor who shared the office with him. She asked me a few simple yes-no questions.....like...
    jagapee jagapee 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    I can't figure what I want or why others enjoy or feel strongly about whatever it is that gets them going. I'm not unhappy. I simply live. Ambition or lack thereof seem like 2...
    wonkadood wonkadood 26-30, M Aug 26

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    Evolution doesn’t give you wings, Red Bull does :-)
    chasingdreamss83 chasingdreamss83 31-35, M Aug 30

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    I was cross dressed as an infant ??? During an extended stay with the sweetest human soul to that I have ever known (Gramma Minnie), I learned that my mother used to dress me as a...
    JessicaDale JessicaDale 51-55, T 2 Responses Sep 5

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    A lie I tell myself:I'll forget I loved you a someday. Because the memory will become faint. And the feelings will dissipate. And the thought of you won't make me hurt anymore.And...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    Perhaps I'm just a bitter, young thing, but in all honesty I say this without a bitter tone. This isn't a threatening idea, it simply is a truth. What is there to love? And if...
    typedwriter typedwriter 26-30, F Aug 22

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