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I Don't Believe In Love At First Sight

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    Search for a beautiful heart not necessarily a

    beautiful face. Beautiful people are not always good, but good people are always beautiful. From a first glance you can't tell what you're going to achieve. From a first glance you only like the person because you've only distinguished their looks, not their heart. They could...
    RadiateLove RadiateLove 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 24

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    I actually believe that you can be infatuated

    just by looking at someone (it happened to me) but you don't love this person, you like the face and the ideal that this person represents in your head. I mean how do you know that it's not a ********* or worse?!
    lailase lailase 16-17, F 1 Response May 20

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    dogsandwolves dogsandwolves 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    MajesticDreams MajesticDreams 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    aproudwoman aproudwoman 41-45, F Aug 7

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    kitty465 kitty465 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    FeelAlone75 FeelAlone75 36-40, F Aug 8

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    fitwealth fitwealth 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 17

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