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I Don't Believe In Love Or Romance Anymore

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    Fantasy Land!

    I thought I loved a woman once, but now I question all of it! Was it real? Did love actually enter the equation at all? Was I just a fool? Blinded? Feels like it was all a dream, a fantasy. If it was real, wouldn't I have found it somewhere? Now I'm not so sure I believe in...
    SonicReducer75 SonicReducer75 36-40, M 5 Responses Apr 4, 2010

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    No Love In My Life!

    Well, to begin with i am not saying that maybe there isn't any chances for people along the road but for me....?....i don't think its possible anymore, though i wish someday, someone, somehow would surprise me once again..... Ok, i am a 28 yr old divorced mother of a beautiful 4...
    melonely melonely 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2009

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    No Love In My Life!

    Well, to begin with i am not saying that maybe there isn't any chances for people along the road but for me....?....i don't think its possible anymore, though i wish someday, someone, somehow would surprise me once again..... Ok, i am a 28 yr old divorced mother of a beautiful 4...
    melonely melonely 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 10, 2009

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    Love?

    As the years tick by in my now 12 year marriage. I have never doubted the "power" of love more than now. I feel that the feelings that we get when we are in a new relationship are more akin to infatuation and sexual attraction. It's more of a mating instinct than anything else...
    marriedandsoalone marriedandsoalone 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 2, 2012

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    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2014

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    No Love In My Life!

    Well, to begin with i am not saying that maybe there isn't any chances for people along the road but for me....?....i don't think its possible anymore, though i wish someday, someone, somehow would surprise me once again..... Ok, i am a 28 yr old divorced mother of a beautiful 4...
    melonely melonely 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2009

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    Another Fantasy Why Don't Ppl Just Wake Up And See Reality

    Love is just another fantasy ppl need to wake up and see reality. Reality really sees love like this a dark horrid place with all that valentines crap you get all torn and trashed on the floor black rose petals scattered then you see a girl with black long hair covering her face...
    fax4ever fax4ever 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2011

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    Love Is A Many Splendid Thing...(can You See Me Rolling My Eyes???)

    "Love, love, you know what love is? Love is an illusion created by lawyer types like yourself to perpetuate another illusion called marriage to create the reality of divorce and then the illusionary need for divorce lawyers." (Kevin played by Andrew McCarthy, St. Elmo's Fire...
    LolaJ LolaJ 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 25, 2011

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    Why Should I?

    It ignores me daily and on the rare few times I've decided to give chase it has eluded me. Apparently the fates have deemed that I will not be rewarded with love or romance. I know belief can be invlved in things unseen, but that kind of belief draws reality. So if I can't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 26, 2011

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    I Love You But...

    Never really understood loving relationships. I thought everybody fought, yelled, screamed and hit. That was what I came up knowing. Then in my mid-twenties something magical (or I thought so at the time) happened. I learned of another side. A side where people got along. There...
    girl1974 girl1974 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 23, 2012

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    It is not that I don't believe in love. love doesn't believe in me
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    There is no proof god exist. So I don't believe in it .
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    I still can feel the pain in my heart from this afternoon's conversation with my hubby. No matter how reasoned out with me, no matter how rational they might sound I still can't...
    Outofnowheregurl Outofnowheregurl 36-40, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm not sure if ill ever get married. I don't feel love.
    Ang012685 Ang012685 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    9:10pm and I'm in bed. Staying at my parents' place because I can't stand to be in the place I'm supposed to call home. The flat I live in with my husband isn't a home, it's a flat...
    Jenezebel Jenezebel 26-30, F 8 hrs ago

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    So a friend of mine keeps treating me like a true romance is coming from us and she then turns around and goes on about her 'one true love' and how she has already found it, but it...
    SorceressSupreme2 SorceressSupreme2 22-25, F 1 Response May 8

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    It doesn't matter who owns the land, you pay taxes anyways. I don't want to sound offensive, but why would anyone be OK with giving up their life just so the world can keep...
    steviehunt steviehunt 18-21, M May 8

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    I found out that I was pregnant four weeks ago. Being young and scared the first thing that seemed logical was to get an abortion, and my boyfriend supported that 100%. I was never...
    hannahr123456789 hannahr123456789 18-21, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I at the lowest of my boyfriend and i's relationship. I don't want to give up because we have been together for so long but it is just do hard and I am so confused. We have both...
    krissylampley krissylampley 18-21, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I've been married for 16 years but have been feeling lonely for so long now. We don't do much together and we hardly talk anymore. I am afraid that I am not in love with him...
    RahRah73 RahRah73 41-45, F 12 Responses May 14

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    Sometimes I just get so irritated by things religious people say. I just cannot figure out how anybody believes in any of this stuff, and I still can't fully believe that they...
    KatieTreat KatieTreat 51-55, T 6 Responses May 2

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    I came here to make friends, to be myself: respectful, caring, helpful, straightforward, confident. Now I feel rejected, scared, betrayed, and unwanted. I never hurt anybody, nor...
    biggerbro biggerbro 22-25, M 2 Responses May 11

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    I've studied sociology, anthropology, psychology and biochemistry and I don't think I'll ever get it. I've experienced infatuation and lust but love..... Nope. I'm not sure it's...
    4science 4science 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    I feel so dirty and gross after what happened. I feel like I don't deserve to want or desire anything and that all good things that happen to me I shouldn't expect. I hope I can...
    reyrey022 reyrey022 26-30, F 1 Response May 8

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    don't you just do or say things sometimes, that you regret later ? that you when you look at them you say "have I really said/done that ?" or "have I really reached this stage...
    Betruebnis Betruebnis 22-25, M May 2

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    Documentary: Atheists Don't Exist
    PMWhite PMWhite 31-35, M 2 Responses May 6

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    “Love never dies a natural ― It dies because we don't know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of...
    buttabella buttabella 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 28

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    so here's my experience. I'm talking to this guy, we been talking for about 3 months now. Although it sounds crazy, he mentioned he's has manic depression aka, bipolar. When I met...
    vf702 vf702 22-25, F 3 Responses May 4

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    He does a lot of things for me but I still feel empty inside. I don't feel that I am really loved. It feels weird no matter how many times he says that He loves me but I just can't...
    blueskyocean blueskyocean 26-30, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    I just don't deserve too be happy!
    AwesomeGuyy22 AwesomeGuyy22 22-25, M 1 Response May 9

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    As a strong independent woman, I am higly attracted to those strong personalities that don't say I care for you, but do. Just so hard to find them among the playboys. Ok time for a...
    HouseMouser HouseMouser 46-50, F May 11

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    I just had to stop myself from killing myself I don't want my kids to find me is the only reason I stopped
    lostmomto4 lostmomto4 36-40, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I was a young lady expecting romance but I never received it. The man I dated for 3-4 years was always cold to me. Cold kisses. No hugs. No holding hands. Always cold hands. Names...
    Myalee Myalee 41-45, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    my parents make me visit church youth... which is ok. we do lots of cool stuff like singing, camping and art stuff. however i dont believe in god at all... its sometimes shocking...
    Clarissa01 Clarissa01 13-15, F 3 Responses May 16

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    I am proud to be Scottish, but Scottish is wholly my identity. My identity is comprised of many different aspects, such as my personality, morals and beliefs. I feel that in...
    CaitlinBuchan97 CaitlinBuchan97 16-17, F 2 Responses May 4

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    I used to like EP being able to share my experiences with people who were interested. The censorship and more recent changes have now made EP too vanilla to be worth using. All my...
    jacko0312 jacko0312 51-55, M 1 Response May 19

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    I find it a silly idea to believe in saints,as far as i can notice people do that for most time to get "Heavenly Blessings". I think believing in saints will distract a believer...
    wasseem wasseem 26-30, M 6 days ago

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    Long ago I met people I thought would be lifelong friends here,turns out that some of them were liars and fakes and others were just passing through my life. I should be more...
    shelle48 shelle48 61-65, F 4 Responses May 5