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I Don't Believe In Love Or Romance Anymore

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 93 People

    No Love In My Life!

    Well, to begin with i am not saying that maybe there isn't any chances for people along the road but for me....?....i don't think its possible anymore, though i wish someday, someone, somehow would surprise me once again..... Ok, i am a 28 yr old divorced mother of a beautiful 4...
    melonely melonely 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 10, 2009

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    Fantasy Land!

    I thought I loved a woman once, but now I question all of it! Was it real? Did love actually enter the equation at all? Was I just a fool? Blinded? Feels like it was all a dream, a fantasy. If it was real, wouldn't I have found it somewhere? Now I'm not so sure I believe in...
    SonicReducer75 SonicReducer75 36-40, M 5 Responses Apr 4, 2010

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    Love Is A Many Splendid Thing...(can You See Me Rolling My Eyes???)

    "Love, love, you know what love is? Love is an illusion created by lawyer types like yourself to perpetuate another illusion called marriage to create the reality of divorce and then the illusionary need for divorce lawyers." (Kevin played by Andrew McCarthy, St. Elmo's Fire...
    LolaJ LolaJ 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 25, 2011

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    Why Should I?

    It ignores me daily and on the rare few times I've decided to give chase it has eluded me. Apparently the fates have deemed that I will not be rewarded with love or romance. I know belief can be invlved in things unseen, but that kind of belief draws reality. So if I can't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 26, 2011

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    I Love You But...

    Never really understood loving relationships. I thought everybody fought, yelled, screamed and hit. That was what I came up knowing. Then in my mid-twenties something magical (or I thought so at the time) happened. I learned of another side. A side where people got along. There...
    girl1974 girl1974 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 23, 2012

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    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    Love?

    As the years tick by in my now 12 year marriage. I have never doubted the "power" of love more than now. I feel that the feelings that we get when we are in a new relationship are more akin to infatuation and sexual attraction. It's more of a mating instinct than anything else...
    marriedandsoalone marriedandsoalone 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 2, 2012

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    No Love In My Life!

    Well, to begin with i am not saying that maybe there isn't any chances for people along the road but for me....?....i don't think its possible anymore, though i wish someday, someone, somehow would surprise me once again..... Ok, i am a 28 yr old divorced mother of a beautiful 4...
    melonely melonely 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2009

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    No Love In My Life!

    Well, to begin with i am not saying that maybe there isn't any chances for people along the road but for me....?....i don't think its possible anymore, though i wish someday, someone, somehow would surprise me once again..... Ok, i am a 28 yr old divorced mother of a beautiful 4...
    melonely melonely 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2009

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    Another Fantasy Why Don't Ppl Just Wake Up And See Reality

    Love is just another fantasy ppl need to wake up and see reality. Reality really sees love like this a dark horrid place with all that valentines crap you get all torn and trashed on the floor black rose petals scattered then you see a girl with black long hair covering her face...
    fax4ever fax4ever 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2011

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    I am in a relationship going on 6 years now. Marriage has always been talked about as if it was unnecessary, and will happen in the future of I felt that strongly about it. I have...
    BiancaNicole BiancaNicole 26-30, F a week ago

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    Someday I'll leave this place, I'll leave behind the friends I've made but keep the memories of our happiness in my heart. But someday I'll return cuz I don't believe in goodbyes...
    LuckyGuy001 LuckyGuy001 13-15, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    many of the two year olds i know are adorable, and sweethearts! you're still half-baby at age two, and can't even use full sentences, so i don't find it fair that people assume...
    hans13 hans13 51-55, F a week ago

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    I have been in a relationship for 5 years and we have a son together, but I feel I can't handle this anymore. I do everything, work, clean, cook, care for our son. I am very...
    hbear2010 hbear2010 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 30

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    I'm dating a guy who doesn't think certain things are important. I've never received flowers from a guy. I've dated this man for a year and he can't spend five dollars on me. When...
    NotaDisneyPrincess NotaDisneyPrincess 18-21, F Oct 7

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    I use to care what people think of me, I used to care about school work, I used to worry about everything. Now, I honestly could care less. I'm not that concerned about it anymore...
    Maleahpage Maleahpage 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 24

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    So before I get into the deep stuff, let me fill you in. I grew up an only child in a happy home, my parents were never married but were always together, I am 22, my mom is 44...
    Chelssea Chelssea 18-21 Oct 3

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    Not sure where to start this my second marriage we been together 10 years now it seems to always be a battle She 6 children from prev marriages I have two boys grown and gone from...
    firefighter39m firefighter39m 51-55, M 1 Response Oct 10

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    Well, my boyfriend tries but he's too busy so he's never really around. My mom takes the side of her other children who sexually abused me when I was little. They tried to make me...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    But what if the world really did end in 2012... What if we are all dead and this is the afterlife? (I don't actually believe this it just sounded kind of interesting)
    indigostory indigostory 13-15, F Sep 22

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    He tells me he loves me and then he doesn't talk to me for hours, then replies with things like: "haha" "yup" "lol" And he wants us to get back together?? Im his "one and only...
    Tooweak Tooweak 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    I don't shave, and I shouldn't have to. If I've got hair growing on me whether it's on my arms, under my arms, or on my v*gina, I know it's there for a reason otherwise I wouldn't...
    WinterIncandescence WinterIncandescence 16-17, F 5 Responses Sep 20

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    I don't shave my down area. Why because nobody special to me. My boyfriends at the time don't like it but whatever you don't like it You must not be my soulmate
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 19 Responses Sep 21

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    I didn't believe, yet mine did.
    System113 System113 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 22

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    "We have an obligation to every last victim of this illegal aggression because all of this carnage has been done in our name. Since World War II, 90% of the casualties of war are...
    Bewail Bewail 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 28

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    Doctors are useless! Apparently pills and drugs are the answers these days and well they are wrong! They got everything wrong with me treating me as if i'm a lab rat and i'm the...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F Oct 11

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    I personally do shave but if you don't want to then you shouldn't feel like you have to
    WendyDarlin WendyDarlin 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 20

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    I don't shave my legs often
    dogssing dogssing 18-21, F Sep 21

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    I don't usually shave my legs in the winter, haha.
    Theycallherelly Theycallherelly 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 21

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    Bloody hell ok, for the people that shave good for you!!!! And for the people that don't shave good for you too!!!! **** what people think it's your body not there's,do what ever...
    Randomchick3 Randomchick3 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 22

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    I don't cuz it's 2014!!!!!
    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 22

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    Not really. Well one of the ladies that talked to me As long as I eat 3 meals a day and exercise To me that was wrong because I'm a big girl lol I'm 5'7 I have to eat at least 5...
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 23

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    I am a full-on lesbian so i according to religious people a. Going to hell but i don't care because I'm also i third generation Wiccan *beat that*
    Kitry Kitry 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 26

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    Doctors don't have all the answers. It's all about learning. I have been diagnosed with Stiff Person Syndrome SPS, autoimmune issue. Anyways based on my research, cleaned up my...
    Mscrabtree Mscrabtree 51-55, F 2 Responses Sep 30

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    I don't think cheating is acceptable in a relationship because for me if I am in a relationship, that person has my up most respect even if we are going through a hard time we can...
    SuckMyAwesome SuckMyAwesome 16-17, F Oct 6

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    I wish people would stop messaging me interested in sex or a relationship. First of all, I have a boyfriend. I'm not going to trade him in for someone I don't even know in the...
    ChanelLove12 ChanelLove12 70+, F Oct 7

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    Hahaha. Just found this experience on my list. Wow I've been a member on this site a long time. Nah, I don't think the world will end in 2012.
    unluckE unluckE 31-35, M 4 Responses Oct 8

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    He's never around and when he is he just either falls asleep or plays games on his phone. I don't feel like I'm in a relationship.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    I have been with my partner 6 years. I love her so much. We have a son together. At the beginning I paid her through uni and brought her a house. I did everything I could. I have...
    forest23 forest23 22-25, M Oct 7

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    I've been married for 30 years. My wife is always tired or ****. We never do anything fun together and our sex life is nonexistent. I don't really want to live the rest of my life...
    tigerfan14 tigerfan14 46-50, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    sure one or two couples actually do truly love each other, but love is lacking..!! divorce rates are out of this world. then there's all these gold diggers, and people stuck in...
    butterflysplurge123 butterflysplurge123 18-21, F 1 day ago

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