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I Don't Believe In Love Or Romance Anymore

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    Fantasy Land!

    I thought I loved a woman once, but now I question all of it! Was it real? Did love actually enter the equation at all? Was I just a fool? Blinded? Feels like it was all a dream, a fantasy. If it was real, wouldn't I have found it somewhere? Now I'm not so sure I believe in...
    SonicReducer75 SonicReducer75 36-40, M 5 Responses Apr 4, 2010

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    No Love In My Life!

    Well, to begin with i am not saying that maybe there isn't any chances for people along the road but for me....?....i don't think its possible anymore, though i wish someday, someone, somehow would surprise me once again..... Ok, i am a 28 yr old divorced mother of a beautiful 4...
    melonely melonely 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 10, 2009

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    Love?

    As the years tick by in my now 12 year marriage. I have never doubted the "power" of love more than now. I feel that the feelings that we get when we are in a new relationship are more akin to infatuation and sexual attraction. It's more of a mating instinct than anything else...
    marriedandsoalone marriedandsoalone 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 2, 2012

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    Why Should I?

    It ignores me daily and on the rare few times I've decided to give chase it has eluded me. Apparently the fates have deemed that I will not be rewarded with love or romance. I know belief can be invlved in things unseen, but that kind of belief draws reality. So if I can't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 26, 2011

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    Another Fantasy Why Don't Ppl Just Wake Up And See Reality

    Love is just another fantasy ppl need to wake up and see reality. Reality really sees love like this a dark horrid place with all that valentines crap you get all torn and trashed on the floor black rose petals scattered then you see a girl with black long hair covering her face...
    fax4ever fax4ever 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2011

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    I Love You But...

    Never really understood loving relationships. I thought everybody fought, yelled, screamed and hit. That was what I came up knowing. Then in my mid-twenties something magical (or I thought so at the time) happened. I learned of another side. A side where people got along. There...
    girl1974 girl1974 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 23, 2012

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    No Love In My Life!

    Well, to begin with i am not saying that maybe there isn't any chances for people along the road but for me....?....i don't think its possible anymore, though i wish someday, someone, somehow would surprise me once again..... Ok, i am a 28 yr old divorced mother of a beautiful 4...
    melonely melonely 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2009

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    No Love In My Life!

    Well, to begin with i am not saying that maybe there isn't any chances for people along the road but for me....?....i don't think its possible anymore, though i wish someday, someone, somehow would surprise me once again..... Ok, i am a 28 yr old divorced mother of a beautiful 4...
    melonely melonely 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2009

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    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    Love Is A Many Splendid Thing...(can You See Me Rolling My Eyes???)

    "Love, love, you know what love is? Love is an illusion created by lawyer types like yourself to perpetuate another illusion called marriage to create the reality of divorce and then the illusionary need for divorce lawyers." (Kevin played by Andrew McCarthy, St. Elmo's Fire...
    LolaJ LolaJ 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 25, 2011

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    I was lucky I had a scan ran on me by a lady I was seeing from a dating site it mostly hurt my pride what I had left they only got 100 so it was not to bad the other money is...
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    Tonight my husband told me since I'm not going to get a job & provide for myself he's leaving. He said it's not his responsibility to keep me in my habits we've been married for 23...
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    I don't think it's wrong to want your partner to text you or call you back in a reasonable amount of time. I don't think you can be doing something that's more important. Like when...
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    Well I'd be a fool to believe "everything" wouldn't I? I've been lied to so much in my life and I'm still lied to to this day. So what would make me believe everything? I have a...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 24

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    I hope that I won't regret trusting him.
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    AHHHH! Sometimes men are so infuriatingly frustrating!!!! I do not believe I am the marrying type, why did I ever choose to walk down the aisle? Lol! It's like talking to a 3...
    plhwish plhwish 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 6

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    One day I'll have options other than story for EP as not everything is one but anyway I firmly believe a persons physical build as a male or female does not of itself have anything...
    Joanne0chan Joanne0chan 31-35 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    If jesus died fo mall mans sins, then why has more people died thin jesus name than any war, holocaust, or religion, I cannot follow religious beliefs of a so called loving person...
    xwave37 xwave37 46-50, M Dec 1

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    I still think there are dinosaurs on this earth. I have an open mind & with the government keep a lot of things a secret I wouldn't be surprise if unbeknownst to us that there are...
    DaCreativeChild DaCreativeChild 22-25, F Nov 27

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    I really like the guy I'm dating, but what if someone dared him to go out with me 😕? He says he loves me, I love him too. But no one has ever loved me before soo...
    lizethybear lizethybear 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 22

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
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    There was once a You and I, the sun shined in our eyes when we looked at Eachother. We use to entwine fingers, feel more, breathe more. The nights of sneaking out to see each other...
    Xenasdreams Xenasdreams 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 2

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    its like I'm always waiting for him to notice me even though I'm right there. he lied to me and hurt me and maybe doesn't even know how to love me. I feel empty but I chase the...
    themuffingirly themuffingirly 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    If you fell in love your love can run out if you fall in love every day your love will last eternity! My love has run out!!
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    I love her so ******* much but it seems like it's gonna be over sooner than I expected...
    EmotionlessDude EmotionlessDude 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 23

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    so my crush told me she likes me and I obvious like her too. we got together and we're In a relationship. I always initiate things first. she never texts me firsts or cuddles with...
    drukware drukware 13-15, M 2 Responses Dec 7

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    sometimes I'm wondering if he loves me as much as I love him.
    danna223 danna223 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    When i think of them i think of the hook to that eminem song "toy soldiers" because thats what they are , pawns on a board
    Ottoe Ottoe 22-25, M 5 hrs ago

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    Sorry to the people who had add me recently and in the past.
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F Nov 20

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    Everything is subjective. That's right, I said it. I am going to be one of these ******** from now on. CHRIST. "Come on Daaaaaaad, gimme the car tonight..."
    Plutonianbabe Plutonianbabe 18-21, F Dec 7

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    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Nov 18

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    intelligence, no.....wisdom, yes
    intoinnything intoinnything 51-55, M Nov 18

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