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I Don't Believe In Love Or Romance Anymore

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 97 People

    Another Fantasy Why Don't Ppl Just Wake Up And See Reality

    Love is just another fantasy ppl need to wake up and see reality. Reality really sees love like this a dark horrid place with all that valentines crap you get all torn and trashed on the floor black rose petals scattered then you see a girl with black long hair covering her face...
    fax4ever fax4ever 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2011

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    I Love You But...

    Never really understood loving relationships. I thought everybody fought, yelled, screamed and hit. That was what I came up knowing. Then in my mid-twenties something magical (or I thought so at the time) happened. I learned of another side. A side where people got along. There...
    girl1974 girl1974 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 23, 2012

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    No Love In My Life!

    Well, to begin with i am not saying that maybe there isn't any chances for people along the road but for me....?....i don't think its possible anymore, though i wish someday, someone, somehow would surprise me once again..... Ok, i am a 28 yr old divorced mother of a beautiful 4...
    melonely melonely 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2009

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    Love Is A Many Splendid Thing...(can You See Me Rolling My Eyes???)

    "Love, love, you know what love is? Love is an illusion created by lawyer types like yourself to perpetuate another illusion called marriage to create the reality of divorce and then the illusionary need for divorce lawyers." (Kevin played by Andrew McCarthy, St. Elmo's Fire...
    LolaJ LolaJ 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 25, 2011

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    Love?

    As the years tick by in my now 12 year marriage. I have never doubted the "power" of love more than now. I feel that the feelings that we get when we are in a new relationship are more akin to infatuation and sexual attraction. It's more of a mating instinct than anything else...
    marriedandsoalone marriedandsoalone 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 2, 2012

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    Fantasy Land!

    I thought I loved a woman once, but now I question all of it! Was it real? Did love actually enter the equation at all? Was I just a fool? Blinded? Feels like it was all a dream, a fantasy. If it was real, wouldn't I have found it somewhere? Now I'm not so sure I believe in...
    SonicReducer75 SonicReducer75 36-40, M 5 Responses Apr 4, 2010

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    No Love In My Life!

    Well, to begin with i am not saying that maybe there isn't any chances for people along the road but for me....?....i don't think its possible anymore, though i wish someday, someone, somehow would surprise me once again..... Ok, i am a 28 yr old divorced mother of a beautiful 4...
    melonely melonely 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 10, 2009

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    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2014

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    Why Should I?

    It ignores me daily and on the rare few times I've decided to give chase it has eluded me. Apparently the fates have deemed that I will not be rewarded with love or romance. I know belief can be invlved in things unseen, but that kind of belief draws reality. So if I can't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 26, 2011

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    No Love In My Life!

    Well, to begin with i am not saying that maybe there isn't any chances for people along the road but for me....?....i don't think its possible anymore, though i wish someday, someone, somehow would surprise me once again..... Ok, i am a 28 yr old divorced mother of a beautiful 4...
    melonely melonely 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2009

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    I don't believe in God. When I say it out loud, it's hard for me to understand why. I've always believed in God as a kid. I was raised that God heals all and we must pray everyday...
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    I totally respect and admire the fact of two people devoting themselves to each other for as long as they live, but I feel marriage is a way of requiring someone to stick around...
    blazinbree blazinbree 18-21, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    I've been so played I've reached the point where I don't believe ANYTHING I'm told. That's what happens when you've been bs'ed for years and years and years.
    smokingrocks1 smokingrocks1 56-60, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    So the few people who know my husband is cheating on me seem to have the perfect solutions. Have more sex! Spoil him more! Love him better! How do they know we don't have a great...
    miaruth miaruth 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I don't know where all the love went in my marriage? There was a day that I felt she was the best thing in my life, in a way still feel so! But the lose of intimacy has taken it's...
    Dawnofanewage Dawnofanewage 41-45, M 3 days ago

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    I am nine months pregnant and I recently found my husband's dating profiles and sexts to other women, as well as requests to meet up with them. He says he didn't have sex with...
    miaruth miaruth 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I honestly don't think I do.. It all has to do with what happened when I was younger.
    flexb flexb 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I volunteer at a natural history museum and have officially only talked to one person who believed in Creationism there. Why he was there at all I have no idea, but actually there...
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M 5 days ago

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    It is horrible. I don't care if it is not a person yet, it will one day be a person. Even if can't afford to take care of it, or don't want it, give it up for adoption. If you don...
    AnyExperience AnyExperience 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    DilophosaurusYou killed Newman! So you might not actually be able to shoot poisonous venom or have a crazy neck flaps like in Jurassic Park, but you do have two pretty crests on...
    CravenMoorhead CravenMoorhead 26-30, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I got: Velociraptor...... (yay!!!) Hollywood loves you! Also, you’re frightening. Not only do you have death teeth, you’re the size of a turkey and have sickle claws on your...
    SvveetKiester SvveetKiester 41-45, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    But i love Jesuss, i always did and i always wear a cross and pray sometimes even that i think that im not religious! im really weird :/
    MoongirlDA MoongirlDA 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    chriscc11 chriscc11 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I've been in a relationship for 13 years. lately it's been really bad. since about November of last year things have gone really down hill. i mean really bad really fast. there's...
    RdjOne RdjOne 31-35, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Again I'm trying to cry, It doesn't work no matter how hard I try, Part of me is dead the rest will soon die, Im left here ready for my good bye, My past haunts me, my pain isn't...
    psychopuppet23 psychopuppet23 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 5 years. This past February he became completely cold hearted and broke my heart when he unexpectedly broke up with me. I was...
    schaunie schaunie 22-25, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    3 years ago I left an abusive relationship. I haven't been myself since. I miss my old self.
    Grasshopper2Ninja Grasshopper2Ninja 31-35, F Jul 19

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    Lately I've been changing a lot. I do things I never would have done just two years ago. I don't feel the same way I used to, either. I'm having fun, and I think I'm happier. I...
    aj00000 aj00000 18-21 1 Response Jul 19

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    In this modern day and age, getting married simply isn't necessary in this modern age. Although I can appreciate the beauty of two people committing to a life together, or the...
    lilysworld lilysworld 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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    I'm alone again. He left. He left with the words - "You are a great soul. You will be fine." I was left behind asking - "Why me?". I hate the heartbreak. I hate the tears. I hate...
    sonadora87 sonadora87 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    My wife and I were arguing over this nonsense. This year will be the first Christmas we have with a child. I don't want to do the whole Santa Claus thing with my children. I think...
    docblm6294 docblm6294 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 18

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    And I don't care for those who use it as an excuse/justification.
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M Jul 17

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    Well I have a stupidly hard life but I am still the same as if nothing is wrong so if sum is wrong that isn't a excuse u get ur *** back up and keep on moving
    Bennythebull7 Bennythebull7 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 16

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    Or is it because I haven't been in-love? Ppl come into your life, you lust, you love, you break up, you hurt, you then move on. Weeks, months or years later they may pop back in...
    Trainedheart Trainedheart 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    I believe there are many soul mates out there <3
    AlwaysNastasya AlwaysNastasya 22-25, F Jul 13

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    I have read the bible.. Nowhere in there did Jesus or God say anything about a Religion. He had hair like wool and skin,the color of a wooden table, pretty much the...
    Loopiee Loopiee 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    Two people that can tolerate each other's flaws and bulls**t for a long period of time though, that's perfection in my eyes.
    HeyIThappens HeyIThappens 18-21, M Jul 12

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    I think my boyfriend is addicted to ****. I noticed he masturbates almost every day but when it comes to sex we barely do it once every 10 days or so on average and when I try to...
    someusername20 someusername20 22-25, F 39 Responses Jul 12

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    I don't believe there's hell somewhere up-there. I believe we are already living in it.
    Chezsoldierr Chezsoldierr 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 11

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