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I Don't Believe In Love Or Romance Anymore

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    No Love In My Life!

    Well, to begin with i am not saying that maybe there isn't any chances for people along the road but for me....?....i don't think its possible anymore, though i wish someday, someone, somehow would surprise me once again..... Ok, i am a 28 yr old divorced mother of a beautiful 4...
    melonely melonely 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2009

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    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    No Love In My Life!

    Well, to begin with i am not saying that maybe there isn't any chances for people along the road but for me....?....i don't think its possible anymore, though i wish someday, someone, somehow would surprise me once again..... Ok, i am a 28 yr old divorced mother of a beautiful 4...
    melonely melonely 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2009

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    Fantasy Land!

    I thought I loved a woman once, but now I question all of it! Was it real? Did love actually enter the equation at all? Was I just a fool? Blinded? Feels like it was all a dream, a fantasy. If it was real, wouldn't I have found it somewhere? Now I'm not so sure I believe in...
    SonicReducer75 SonicReducer75 36-40, M 5 Responses Apr 4, 2010

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    No Love In My Life!

    Well, to begin with i am not saying that maybe there isn't any chances for people along the road but for me....?....i don't think its possible anymore, though i wish someday, someone, somehow would surprise me once again..... Ok, i am a 28 yr old divorced mother of a beautiful 4...
    melonely melonely 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 10, 2009

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    Love Is A Many Splendid Thing...(can You See Me Rolling My Eyes???)

    "Love, love, you know what love is? Love is an illusion created by lawyer types like yourself to perpetuate another illusion called marriage to create the reality of divorce and then the illusionary need for divorce lawyers." (Kevin played by Andrew McCarthy, St. Elmo's Fire...
    LolaJ LolaJ 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 25, 2011

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    Why Should I?

    It ignores me daily and on the rare few times I've decided to give chase it has eluded me. Apparently the fates have deemed that I will not be rewarded with love or romance. I know belief can be invlved in things unseen, but that kind of belief draws reality. So if I can't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 26, 2011

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    I Love You But...

    Never really understood loving relationships. I thought everybody fought, yelled, screamed and hit. That was what I came up knowing. Then in my mid-twenties something magical (or I thought so at the time) happened. I learned of another side. A side where people got along. There...
    girl1974 girl1974 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 23, 2012

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    Another Fantasy Why Don't Ppl Just Wake Up And See Reality

    Love is just another fantasy ppl need to wake up and see reality. Reality really sees love like this a dark horrid place with all that valentines crap you get all torn and trashed on the floor black rose petals scattered then you see a girl with black long hair covering her face...
    fax4ever fax4ever 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2011

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    Love?

    As the years tick by in my now 12 year marriage. I have never doubted the "power" of love more than now. I feel that the feelings that we get when we are in a new relationship are more akin to infatuation and sexual attraction. It's more of a mating instinct than anything else...
    marriedandsoalone marriedandsoalone 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 2, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I just recently found out that my husband is talking to several women online....in a very sexual way. He apologized and regrets it.... We talked it out and want to grow from that...
    Brownie27 Brownie27 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 23

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    Used to think i was going to meet a perfect girl, someone i wanted to spend the rest of my life with. Used to think i'd get married and everything will be just fine, but that...
    jafetgx jafetgx 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    This is a song by Dido and it very nicely describes how I feel about love. How I am capable of falling in love deeply yet I hold myself back for my own good. "Don't Believe In...
    daeneryss daeneryss 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I need to say this: I believe in "God" but I don't believe in "God". I believe there is more to life than Ego; so yes I believe in spirit and the power of creation. I don't believe...
    monty1212 monty1212 26-30, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    My intention with this post isn't to be inflammatory, but to rather state what I believe and why. I don't think less of people who believe in god, in some ways I envy them. I don't...
    dontknowmylife dontknowmylife 18-21, M 3 Responses Sep 8

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    Two things. I don't believe religion is a good thing and I don't believe religions are real. Religions are there, but they aren't real to me. Because there are so many of them...
    LeonardFinch LeonardFinch 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 25

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    It seems a common misconception among theists I talk to that atheists don't believe in god because they think they have some definitive proof that Go does not exist. That isn't...
    Leannaix Leannaix 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 8

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    A ran done piece of advice I got from a drunk: "Don't believe anything you are told and don't believe half of the things you see."
    ChanelLove12 ChanelLove12 70+, F 1 Response a week ago

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    God is great, I totally believe in God and a heaven. But I don't believe in all these religions.
    alyssab11 alyssab11 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    I swear, THE most annoying thing in my life is battling against the preaching of god believers. Why can't we just be peaceful in the silence of our disagreement? I don't believe...
    rainallthedays rainallthedays 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 9

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    I just want to be numb. I don't want feelings to get in the way. I don't want to get hurt again. I will build a thicker wall, change my door with a steel one, with more locks and...
    pepperdoll pepperdoll 31-35, F 2 hrs ago

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    i personally.... don't share your belief on quite the same level, i think. I think it's super neat that you can find something that you have put your faith into believing. I think...
    a1uM1nuM448 a1uM1nuM448 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    I believe homosexuality is a sin. 25 years ago there were gays but most people I ran into thought it was wrong. I know a lot of people today still do but they are afraid to openly...
    Shellybelle Shellybelle 41-45, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I believe homosexuality is a sin. 25 years ago there were gays but most people I ran into thought it was wrong. I know a lot of people today still do but they are afraid to openly...
    Shellybelle Shellybelle 41-45, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    A sad fairy tale turned into a nightmare, gazing upon a beauty I've never seen, on the outside appearing to be sweet, caring, and a mystery. I wanted to know You and You, Me. I...
    Xenasdreams Xenasdreams 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I won't believe till i see it with my eyes.
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    I really don't like the idea of marriage. I feel dating and being inseparable is love. Don't need the whole legal system involved. My inspiration of love is Alan Rickman who has...
    PrincessAnnaT PrincessAnnaT 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    Good guys finish last? Nope, don't think so. There's a misconception that "good guys" are generally idiots, just because we're kind doesn't mean were idiots. I hate it when people...
    TheTrueStory TheTrueStory 70+ 6 days ago

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    A lie I tell myself:I'll forget I loved you a someday. Because the memory will become faint. And the feelings will dissipate. And the thought of you won't make me hurt anymore.And...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    One thing I am totally sick of hearing from Americans military personnel is, "Don't be so ungrateful! I'm fighting for your freedom!" No. No you're not. First of all, I live in New...
    Bewail Bewail 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 4

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    It's never happened to me I don't really see how someone can love someone through a piece of metal. Chances are they act much differently behind the screen than they do in person...
    Hypnotise Hypnotise 16-17, M 6 hrs ago

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    I shave my armpits but not my legs, leg hair is there for a reason. I mean, I often wear tanks and that's why I shave my armpits- to reduce rumors bullying lies opinions etc. I don...
    dogsandwolves dogsandwolves 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    I have to say I am really happy about the situation here in Europe! Of course sometimes it would be nice just to have a gun, because I am neither very strong (physically) nor have...
    European2014 European2014 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 29

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    No way! Leave the person if you want someone else dammit! Don't juggle two different hearts because eventually one will/is gonna catch up with you. And then everything falls apart...
    MajesticDreams MajesticDreams 13-15, F Aug 30

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    But I realized once they find out that I get to hang out with wonderful beautiful people and they don't it was them who became upset.
    Professorfate Professorfate 51-55 Sep 10

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    "Listen, here's what I think. I think that we can't go around measuring our goodness by what we don't do.......By what we deny ourselves, what we resist, and who we exclude. I...
    underconstruction underconstruction 41-45, F 4 days ago

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    the reason is that i have size 9 foot, and that is considered below average, but a couple a feet upward doesn't match, i mean i don't have bragging rights but my dong isn't...
    ajgamer ajgamer 13-15, M 2 days ago

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    I guess its not totally his fault. He has been dealing with depression for most of his life. It has become more and more unmanageable for me. He decided to go off his med about...
    Pharmalady Pharmalady 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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    Been together 4 1/2 years he broke up with me and kicked me out of his house out of a small argument I moved out got my own place didn't speak for a month . Started talking again...
    stephygee1991 stephygee1991 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 26

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    The extent to which I do and do not believe in God is a 50/50 thing in my eyes, mainly because I believe in reincarnation and other dimensions. To all religious people, I do...
    JohnBobMac JohnBobMac 16-17, T 1 Response Sep 2

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    I do not believe the bible is perfect. But I believe in God and He is perfect.
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    I dont deserve to go to hell nor heaven since I deserve to reincarnate. I was born and raised in Hong Kong (a bad place) and I should've been a female wolf when I was born because...
    Miserablechildhood Miserablechildhood 13-15, M Aug 20

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    My dad just posted a video to my fb wall some holy roller bs about how the devil has shaped america. The man in the video kept saying "If I were the Devil I do 'this'". To which I...
    LifeLacksLuster LifeLacksLuster 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 22

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    Not A Bit i do believe in the the non-existence of Aliens (not the illegal ones, the "take me to your leader" / @n@l-probe aliens.) and saying that.... i firmly plant my head in...
    SKiesterly SKiesterly 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    As I traveled about a hundred miles to the nearest big city in my state, I noticed about 100 or more churches and signs for churches. Something about them that I never noticed when...
    Leannaix Leannaix 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Gay people are like unicorns. Or the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. But if you close your eyes and just believe, just think really hard about two things that are hard (or...
    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My parents weren't the religious type but they enrolled me to a Catholic School since my primary school. So I know him all my life but I started doubting when I entered high school...
    rabblemagic rabblemagic 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am 22 years old and I already think that sex is overrated and wouldn't bring me anyhow to happiness. As today, I prefer to reach my goals than find a good lass to bang.
    psycopower90 psycopower90 22-25, M Aug 25

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