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I Don't Believe In Love Or Romance Anymore

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 94 People

    Another Fantasy Why Don't Ppl Just Wake Up And See Reality

    Love is just another fantasy ppl need to wake up and see reality. Reality really sees love like this a dark horrid place with all that valentines crap you get all torn and trashed on the floor black rose petals scattered then you see a girl with black long hair covering her face...
    fax4ever fax4ever 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2011

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    Love?

    As the years tick by in my now 12 year marriage. I have never doubted the "power" of love more than now. I feel that the feelings that we get when we are in a new relationship are more akin to infatuation and sexual attraction. It's more of a mating instinct than anything else...
    marriedandsoalone marriedandsoalone 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 2, 2012

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    No Love In My Life!

    Well, to begin with i am not saying that maybe there isn't any chances for people along the road but for me....?....i don't think its possible anymore, though i wish someday, someone, somehow would surprise me once again..... Ok, i am a 28 yr old divorced mother of a beautiful 4...
    melonely melonely 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 10, 2009

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    Fantasy Land!

    I thought I loved a woman once, but now I question all of it! Was it real? Did love actually enter the equation at all? Was I just a fool? Blinded? Feels like it was all a dream, a fantasy. If it was real, wouldn't I have found it somewhere? Now I'm not so sure I believe in...
    SonicReducer75 SonicReducer75 36-40, M 5 Responses Apr 4, 2010

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    No Love In My Life!

    Well, to begin with i am not saying that maybe there isn't any chances for people along the road but for me....?....i don't think its possible anymore, though i wish someday, someone, somehow would surprise me once again..... Ok, i am a 28 yr old divorced mother of a beautiful 4...
    melonely melonely 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2009

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    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    Love Is A Many Splendid Thing...(can You See Me Rolling My Eyes???)

    "Love, love, you know what love is? Love is an illusion created by lawyer types like yourself to perpetuate another illusion called marriage to create the reality of divorce and then the illusionary need for divorce lawyers." (Kevin played by Andrew McCarthy, St. Elmo's Fire...
    LolaJ LolaJ 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 25, 2011

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    No Love In My Life!

    Well, to begin with i am not saying that maybe there isn't any chances for people along the road but for me....?....i don't think its possible anymore, though i wish someday, someone, somehow would surprise me once again..... Ok, i am a 28 yr old divorced mother of a beautiful 4...
    melonely melonely 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2009

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    Why Should I?

    It ignores me daily and on the rare few times I've decided to give chase it has eluded me. Apparently the fates have deemed that I will not be rewarded with love or romance. I know belief can be invlved in things unseen, but that kind of belief draws reality. So if I can't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 26, 2011

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    I Love You But...

    Never really understood loving relationships. I thought everybody fought, yelled, screamed and hit. That was what I came up knowing. Then in my mid-twenties something magical (or I thought so at the time) happened. I learned of another side. A side where people got along. There...
    girl1974 girl1974 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 23, 2012

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    MeSolumRelinquatis MeSolumRelinquatis 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 3

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    And I don't even know why. I don't feel like I belong, surrounded by people who've known each other almost all their lives. And who at least have enough in common to draw closer...
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    I don't believe everything happens for a reason. There is so much in each of our perceived little realities that simply cannot be predicted. Horrible things happen where fault...
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    UNCONDITIONAL? I don't believe in loving someone totally 'unconditionally'. How can there be absolutely no conditions? How?? The closest kind of love I could see fitting...
    Babydoll42 Babydoll42 41-45, F 27 Responses Oct 30

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    Superstitions are the work of the devil. Charles Stanley has talked about it. Don't believe in them. They exist to make you upset, stressed, worried and keep you from God!
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response Oct 30

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    I've never been in a relationship longer than the one I'm in currently, which is not long compared to the many years others have had. For the year that we have been together, we've...
    ephemeralise ephemeralise 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 9

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    A letter to the mother of my unborn twins... Well this certainly sucks big time.. I have totally flipped my life around for you and only you, made enemies out of people I have...
    lerz2000uk lerz2000uk 31-35, M Nov 16

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    I've become someone I don't recognize anymore. I hate this person I've become. I don't remember when we met, or when I let her take control of my life.
    hacky2012 hacky2012 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 31

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    I want to ask him if I he actually still cares, or is he just scared to be alone. I'm not sure anymore. Whenever something is wrong or there's an argument, he's quick to buy...
    SadZweibel SadZweibel 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 4

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    Since i have been on this site ,i have been called allsorts of things that i am definitely not ! I've been called a man on several occasions ,why?? i have no idea,do my questions...
    angelofsweetness angelofsweetness 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 27

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    My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now but we've been distant... It's like we don't love each other anymore. It seemed like it happened overnight but I'm sure we...
    estellerosen estellerosen 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 6

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    It's hard to answer the question "what's wrong" when nothing is right. I'm tired of trying, sick of crying, I know I've been smiling, but inside I'm dying. Maybe one day it will be...
    Lhander28 Lhander28 36-40, M Nov 10

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    This is what I DO believe: nothing matters. Not a single thing we do will ever matter. Why? Because we will all be forgotten in time. Sure celebrities, famous history figures will...
    PimpledCorpse PimpledCorpse 16-17, F 11 Responses Nov 10

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    I've been married for 13 years. My wife has put on weight since our last child (he is 11). Because of her weight and fitness we can not make love successfully. It's been probably...
    crossvilledavis crossvilledavis 41-45, M 3 Responses Nov 10

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    I started medication and I feel really depressed and sick. I told the guy I used to like, who wants to be friends with benefits where to go. I don't know if I'll regret this...
    cmdoran cmdoran 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 28

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    It's been like this for a while and I don't know why I feel like this maybe it's the depression and I never really thought it was a problem until my twin sister fainted today and I...
    LostCause LostCause 18-21, F Oct 30

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    Holy **** yes, I don't even care what kind of music it is. Music is my life and always has been since I was 6. First it was Linkin Park, then it was Simple Plan, then it was pop...
    nickwrocks1 nickwrocks1 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 31

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    Those of you who support this page need to grow up and get your heads out of your a$$es. The world is an ugly place right now and yes there are people that want to destroy America...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 30

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    What is the point of Halloween? Everyone makes themselves look as hideous as possible. Children are encouraged to threaten strangers in return for gifts. Who thought this was a...
    Wyesman Wyesman 70+, M Oct 31

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    Oh you don't say?? Why was this thread made?
    AlwaysAnonnymous AlwaysAnonnymous 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 2

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    A world ended in 2012, we just don't know where. That whole thing was funny though. Makes me wonder how those stupid predictions become so popular, but then again, it seems like...
    PuckDrop PuckDrop 18-21, M Nov 3

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    Why do I need to get married? I'm happy with my partner and we are not married. I don't need a ring to show my commitment. Plus it saves money. Who says we won't move on later in...
    SurpriseMeToday SurpriseMeToday 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 12

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    I was lucky I had a scan ran on me by a lady I was seeing from a dating site it mostly hurt my pride what I had left they only got 100 so it was not to bad the other money is...
    daddylove4u daddylove4u 51-55, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Everybody always throws trust on it! I'm here to tell you, it is not always directly about trust! Sometimes it's about logic and logically speaking long distance and relationship...
    newbeginnings15 newbeginnings15 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    me and my boyfriend have been together 11 months. things where so amazing in the beginning it was perfect he is my first steady relationship since i divorced my husband to how I...
    Shawnmae Shawnmae 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 1

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    I've been with my boyfriend officially for 8 years ( but we've been off and on for the last 2) . But we've known each other since we were 13 and have always had this amazing...
    Catherine05 Catherine05 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 5

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    Tonight my husband told me since I'm not going to get a job & provide for myself he's leaving. He said it's not his responsibility to keep me in my habits we've been married for 23...
    Poohbear1974 Poohbear1974 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 18

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    About a year ago my wife realized she was going to turn 50, and our oldest kid would be leaving us for college. She has said that she sees herself as 90% mom and now that purpose...
    SeatownMan1 SeatownMan1 46-50, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    My husband and I got married because I was pregnant with our daughter, which was fine, but neither of us really wanted to get married. Our families pressured us into it (both are...
    katinbell katinbell 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 30

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    I've been married for 23 years, we have 4 kids 3 girls 1 boy, the oldest girls are grown ups now but the last 2 kids are 15 & 13. In the past 5-6 years my husband has been so...
    Poohbear1974 Poohbear1974 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 4

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    what do I do if this guy I have been talking to since September off and on wants to have sex but I'm a virgin and don't think I'm ready. we have stopped talking for many reasons...
    xkxexe xkxexe 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 6

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    My husband is constantly telling me about EVERYTHING I do wrong. I cant keep up with all the changes he wants me to make with myself. I truly feel like he hates who I am. It hurts...
    hope0209 hope0209 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 11

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    I still think there are dinosaurs on this earth. I have an open mind & with the government keep a lot of things a secret I wouldn't be surprise if unbeknownst to us that there are...
    DaCreativeChild DaCreativeChild 22-25, F 10 hrs ago

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    Just because my elephant can play darts,ride a bicycle and play the tuba! Why won't you believe me??
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Oct 27

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    Anyone out there left a 23 yr long marriage to a controlling, emotionally & verbally abusive spouse? I'm at that point but scared to make the actual move. 4 teens at home who have...
    artchic artchic 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 28

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    ok so this is gonna get confusing fast (unless uve been there) im with a man at the moment weve dated twice once yrs ago when we were teens for about a yr and a half and had a...
    pebbles93 pebbles93 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 3

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