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I Don't Believe In Love Or Romance Anymore

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 97 People

    Another Fantasy Why Don't Ppl Just Wake Up And See Reality

    Love is just another fantasy ppl need to wake up and see reality. Reality really sees love like this a dark horrid place with all that valentines crap you get all torn and trashed on the floor black rose petals scattered then you see a girl with black long hair covering her face...
    fax4ever fax4ever 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2011

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    No Love In My Life!

    Well, to begin with i am not saying that maybe there isn't any chances for people along the road but for me....?....i don't think its possible anymore, though i wish someday, someone, somehow would surprise me once again..... Ok, i am a 28 yr old divorced mother of a beautiful 4...
    melonely melonely 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2009

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    Love?

    As the years tick by in my now 12 year marriage. I have never doubted the "power" of love more than now. I feel that the feelings that we get when we are in a new relationship are more akin to infatuation and sexual attraction. It's more of a mating instinct than anything else...
    marriedandsoalone marriedandsoalone 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 2, 2012

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    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2014

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    Why Should I?

    It ignores me daily and on the rare few times I've decided to give chase it has eluded me. Apparently the fates have deemed that I will not be rewarded with love or romance. I know belief can be invlved in things unseen, but that kind of belief draws reality. So if I can't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 26, 2011

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    Fantasy Land!

    I thought I loved a woman once, but now I question all of it! Was it real? Did love actually enter the equation at all? Was I just a fool? Blinded? Feels like it was all a dream, a fantasy. If it was real, wouldn't I have found it somewhere? Now I'm not so sure I believe in...
    SonicReducer75 SonicReducer75 36-40, M 5 Responses Apr 4, 2010

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    Love Is A Many Splendid Thing...(can You See Me Rolling My Eyes???)

    "Love, love, you know what love is? Love is an illusion created by lawyer types like yourself to perpetuate another illusion called marriage to create the reality of divorce and then the illusionary need for divorce lawyers." (Kevin played by Andrew McCarthy, St. Elmo's Fire...
    LolaJ LolaJ 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 25, 2011

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    No Love In My Life!

    Well, to begin with i am not saying that maybe there isn't any chances for people along the road but for me....?....i don't think its possible anymore, though i wish someday, someone, somehow would surprise me once again..... Ok, i am a 28 yr old divorced mother of a beautiful 4...
    melonely melonely 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2009

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    No Love In My Life!

    Well, to begin with i am not saying that maybe there isn't any chances for people along the road but for me....?....i don't think its possible anymore, though i wish someday, someone, somehow would surprise me once again..... Ok, i am a 28 yr old divorced mother of a beautiful 4...
    melonely melonely 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 10, 2009

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    I Love You But...

    Never really understood loving relationships. I thought everybody fought, yelled, screamed and hit. That was what I came up knowing. Then in my mid-twenties something magical (or I thought so at the time) happened. I learned of another side. A side where people got along. There...
    girl1974 girl1974 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 23, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    So do I. Nevertheless I had experienced a so called chakra opening during an LSD trip years ago. It has 3 stages: 1. A sudden explosive clarity and consiousness 2. A mental sliding...
    niezuweit niezuweit 26-30 7 hrs ago

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    Well, for me there´s no such thing as a friendzone when it comes to women. If a women is not having sex with me, or i can see that it ain´t gonna happen in the future, she isn´t...
    PenetrationGuru PenetrationGuru 36-40, M 8 hrs ago

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    Marriage is not really a big thing to me because... People who love each other will love each other regardless of if there was a bit of paper with ones last name the same, I think...
    NoUsernameInserted NoUsernameInserted 18-21, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    i met the love of my life almost 6 years ago. he was the sweetest gentle sensitive man. he proposed 6 months in and i honestly thought my dreams were coming true. i was the...
    akyesnomaybe akyesnomaybe 26-30, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    The friendzone is an imaginary land where guys only talk to girls for sex. In this land guys and girls can't be friends. Guys don't seem to understand that women were not put on...
    DoneAnd0ver DoneAnd0ver 18-21, F 2 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    I felt like crying but nothing came out. It was just a sort of sad sickness, sick sad, when you can't feel any worse. I think you know it. I think everybody knows it now and then...
    raiee raiee 26-30 23 hrs ago

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    I just try and be nice to people and do good things. If a religion helps you, fine. But I don't need it in my life.
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    I feel..that if you really love someone? you don't need to get married to prove that. I find that kinda stupid? lol I will never get married. marriage doesint last? nor does...
    Muffin19 Muffin19 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I'm agnostic- meaning I don't 100% rule out the idea that there might be some kind of intelligent design... But for god's sake (pun intended), I'm so SICK of people giving "God...
    nickels513 nickels513 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Sometimes I feel I do not understand him enough because he has a stressful job. But then I think I have a stressful job too. We are after all in the same line of work. How come I...
    Fierceapple Fierceapple 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I don't think I ever have.. My father was (still is) very religious man and he would take me and my brother to church every Sunday. We would pray, attend to church activities and...
    SuicidalSam SuicidalSam 22-25, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    And I'm sick of people getting offended and demanding proof. I don't owe them an explanation anymore than they owe me one. I was born Christian and no number of scriptures...
    sixstringsattached sixstringsattached 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I don't believe in God. When I say it out loud, it's hard for me to understand why. I've always believed in God as a kid. I was raised that God heals all and we must pray everyday...
    Shygal3029876 Shygal3029876 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I totally respect and admire the fact of two people devoting themselves to each other for as long as they live, but I feel marriage is a way of requiring someone to stick around...
    blazinbree blazinbree 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I've been so played I've reached the point where I don't believe ANYTHING I'm told. That's what happens when you've been bs'ed for years and years and years.
    smokingrocks1 smokingrocks1 56-60, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    So the few people who know my husband is cheating on me seem to have the perfect solutions. Have more sex! Spoil him more! Love him better! How do they know we don't have a great...
    miaruth miaruth 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I don't know where all the love went in my marriage? There was a day that I felt she was the best thing in my life, in a way still feel so! But the lose of intimacy has taken it's...
    Dawnofanewage Dawnofanewage 41-45, M 5 days ago

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    I am nine months pregnant and I recently found my husband's dating profiles and sexts to other women, as well as requests to meet up with them. He says he didn't have sex with...
    miaruth miaruth 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I honestly don't think I do.. It all has to do with what happened when I was younger.
    flexb flexb 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I volunteer at a natural history museum and have officially only talked to one person who believed in Creationism there. Why he was there at all I have no idea, but actually there...
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M a week ago

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    It is horrible. I don't care if it is not a person yet, it will one day be a person. Even if can't afford to take care of it, or don't want it, give it up for adoption. If you don...
    AnyExperience AnyExperience 13-15, F a week ago

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    DilophosaurusYou killed Newman! So you might not actually be able to shoot poisonous venom or have a crazy neck flaps like in Jurassic Park, but you do have two pretty crests on...
    CravenMoorhead CravenMoorhead 26-30, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I got: Velociraptor...... (yay!!!) Hollywood loves you! Also, you’re frightening. Not only do you have death teeth, you’re the size of a turkey and have sickle claws on your...
    SvveetKiester SvveetKiester 41-45, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    But i love Jesuss, i always did and i always wear a cross and pray sometimes even that i think that im not religious! im really weird :/
    MoongirlDA MoongirlDA 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    chriscc11 chriscc11 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I've been in a relationship for 13 years. lately it's been really bad. since about November of last year things have gone really down hill. i mean really bad really fast. there's...
    RdjOne RdjOne 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 20

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    Again I'm trying to cry, It doesn't work no matter how hard I try, Part of me is dead the rest will soon die, Im left here ready for my good bye, My past haunts me, my pain isn't...
    psychopuppet23 psychopuppet23 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 20

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    I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 5 years. This past February he became completely cold hearted and broke my heart when he unexpectedly broke up with me. I was...
    schaunie schaunie 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 20

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    3 years ago I left an abusive relationship. I haven't been myself since. I miss my old self.
    Grasshopper2Ninja Grasshopper2Ninja 31-35, F Jul 19

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    Lately I've been changing a lot. I do things I never would have done just two years ago. I don't feel the same way I used to, either. I'm having fun, and I think I'm happier. I...
    aj00000 aj00000 18-21 1 Response Jul 19

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    In this modern day and age, getting married simply isn't necessary in this modern age. Although I can appreciate the beauty of two people committing to a life together, or the...
    lilysworld lilysworld 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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