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I Don't Believe In Love Or Romance Anymore

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    I Love You But... - Never really understood loving relationships. I thought everybody fought, yelled, screamed and hit. That was what I came up knowing. Then in my mid-twenties...
    girl1974 girl1974 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 23, 2012

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    No Love In My Life! - Well, to begin with i am not saying that maybe there isn't any chances for people along the road but for me....?....i don't think its possible anymore, though...
    melonely melonely 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 10, 2009

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    Fantasy Land! - I thought I loved a woman once, but now I question all of it! Was it real? Did love actually enter the equation at all? Was I just a fool? Blinded? Feels like it...
    SonicReducer75 SonicReducer75 36-40, M 5 Responses Apr 4, 2010

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    No Love In My Life! - Well, to begin with i am not saying that maybe there isn't any chances for people along the road but for me....?....i don't think its possible anymore, though...
    melonely melonely 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2009

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    No Love In My Life! - Well, to begin with i am not saying that maybe there isn't any chances for people along the road but for me....?....i don't think its possible anymore, though...
    melonely melonely 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2009

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    Love Is A Many Splendid Thing...(can You See Me Rolling My Eyes???) - "Love, love, you know what love is? Love is an illusion created by lawyer types like yourself to perpetuate...
    LolaJ LolaJ 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 25, 2011

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    Love? - As the years tick by in my now 12 year marriage. I have never doubted the "power" of love more than now. I feel that the feelings that we get when we are in a new...
    marriedandsoalone marriedandsoalone 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 2, 2012

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    Another Fantasy Why Don't Ppl Just Wake Up And See Reality - Love is just another fantasy ppl need to wake up and see reality. Reality really sees love like this a dark horrid...
    fax4ever fax4ever 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2011

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