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I Don't Believe In Love

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    Love Doesn't Seem To Exist

    The reason I don't believe in love, is that I see couples who have been together for so long break up. You can never fully trust someone and have them never let you down. I'm not saying a relationship has to be perfect, but you'll always be let down. One of you will give their...
    Gingersnaps1 Gingersnaps1 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 7, 2013

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    I Hate U

    I dont like love.i hate it.it is a handsome evil .it always comes to me inside the mask of care and trust but it plays with my emotions and hit them.it gives me a lot of tears,sleepless nights & restless days.it hurts me, betrayed me,breaks me and badly treats.it makes me alone...
    dalfo dalfo 22-25 Sep 18, 2013

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    I Never Really Did To Be Honest.

    I mean I never did I wanted to believe it was real but after not finding people I can connect with on the same level or love me back me,won't hurt me time and time again.Every single time I fall in love I always end up getting hurt so **** love,I honestly think it is easier to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Nov 14, 2012

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    No Prince Charming For Me.

    All my life I have never really felt love, only hate. I dont believe that this world has love anymore. I dont think that I am capable of even receiving love for another. It just doesnt seem like it is possible to love someone without reason. When I was young I would watch the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 9, 2012

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    Title Of This Group Says It All.

    I just started leaving all the groups I was in about love. At least ones that I hadn't written stories in. I'm going through a love-purge, of sorts.I've never really experienced love. Or I'm just totally blind. It's a long story. I'm not so sure it even exists - thus I don't...
    SonicReducer75 SonicReducer75 36-40, M 3 Responses Mar 25, 2012

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    Two Is Enough

    i once fell in love with this amassing guy and of course like every relation we had our ups and downs, but i loved been with him. one day me and my cousins wen to a party and they told me that he was talking bad about them, that he was saying that i said they got in my way that i...
    16mc 16mc 16-17 Feb 10, 2013

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    A Wise Man

    A wise man once said '' greater love has no man than this, that a man would lay down his life for a friend." My personal belief is, when I feel This, that is, the feeling and in the mind, that I know I would take a bullet, give a kidney, or half of my liver, for someone and am...
    doctrpenn doctrpenn 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 20, 2013

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    I don't know.. I guess it don't really believe

    in love. As a child I did, but with each year I mature, I stray away from the thought. If it exists, it's more like extreme infatuation, or it is only one-sided. It's nothing like the books. I have been told by people before that they love me, but I don't think they mean it...
    TaylorNicoleee TaylorNicoleee 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 29

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    Not In The Third Dimensional One.

    Do you ever wonder why spiritual and religious figures such as Jesus or mystics/ Buddhists from the east never marry or get easily attached to people of the opposite sex? It's because they have figured it out that third dimensional love (the one we experience on the earth plane...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 14, 2012

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    Love was once a beautiful thing shared by two

    people who felt very strongly for one another. The two would be compassionate and intimate, and truly enjoy each others company. Nobody's opinions mattered to them as long as they were happy with each other, as long as they were having a good time together. Love was simple and...
    PrincessKayleigh PrincessKayleigh 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 10

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    A Long Overdue Story...

    I am sure somewhere in my experiences is one listed "I believe in Love" so then why this now? Things happened, I changed, you changed, we all changed and who knows if it was for good or bad but my change is certainly helping me put things more in perspective. Hitting on the...
    Floydian Floydian 22-25, M 20 Responses May 11, 2010

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    It's Just Media Propaganda

    The notion of Romantic love is fiction and it always has been, from the ancients on until modern times. Poetic license. And the media thrives on it, giving kids and young people expectations that will only leave them bitter and disappointed. My experiences were with TV shows...
    4 Responses Jan 23, 2013

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    Love Is An Illusion

     I don't think I believe in love, i know its sad and i think i'd like to believe in love. But then i hear of people falling in and out of love and even the best relationships going to pot and i wonder if they weren't just infatuated. If they didn't loose their senses and let...
    followthewhiterabbit followthewhiterabbit 22-25, F 3 Responses May 17, 2008

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    I Don't Believe In Love

    I guess at a young age, I'd have thought I would find my "prince charming"... I didn't go through any heart breaking experience as I have never had a boyfriend. I just have grown to understand more about life, and well... I don't believe in true love. I don't care for it and...
    relinashinee relinashinee 16-17 1 Response Sep 14, 2013

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    Just A Few Months

    A few months was all it took to shatter the idea of being in love, after 22 years of dreaming about the perfect marriage and being in love with someone forever. And then I began an affair with a married man. And then I dumped my boyfriend of 7 years after realizing I wasn't in...
    SpilledSecrets SpilledSecrets 22-25, F Jul 10, 2011

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    Hi guys! Ok, so long story short.

    . Its been a while since I've realised I was emotionally unavailable coz of my past, found someone who made me realise the emotional waves of falling in 'lust' only to have it go to **** but made me positive and overall grateful. Years of being closed only to ride the waves of...
    Trainedheart Trainedheart 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have trouble believeing in love.

    Blame it on my horrible experiences with males, but I don't believe there is someone made for me out there. Ever guy I've been interested in wanted me for my body. One actually got it and ruined my life. Everytime I meet a new person I tell my sister "This one feels different...
    NutellaXoxo NutellaXoxo 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    The Opium Of The Heart

    Love is just what prudes call their sexual instinct. The fact of the matter is that love is just our innate, basic, primal reproductive instinct, but it developed and got a bit sophisticated, just like every other instinct did. For example, what was basically pick-peel-eat...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 3, 2013

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    What ... Seriously?

    Ok, so I have to get this off my chest somehow, and what better way than to blog out my frustrations. So, love The concept has been completely strange to me for as long as I can remember, and to make matters worse, everytime I tell someone that I don't believe in love they start...
    chrysad chrysad 18-21, F Dec 14, 2012

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    Savitri And Satyavan : An Indian Love Story

    There was a king called Ashvapati. The king had a daughter, who was so good and beautiful that she was called Sâvitri, which is the name of a sacred prayer of the Hindus. When Savitri grew old enough, her father asked her to choose a husband for herself. These ancient Indian...
    Abhih123 Abhih123 22-25, M Sep 19, 2013

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    Media Hype

    The notion of Romantic love is fiction and it always has been, from the ancients on until modern times. Poetic license. And the media thrives on it, giving kids and young people expectations that will only leave them bitter and disappointed. My experiences were with TV shows in...
    TheOriginalPard TheOriginalPard 51-55, F 1 Response Jan 23, 2013

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    Love Shmove

    Love? What's that... I mean I love my family, and my dog, and my car, and my blackberry, my laptop, chocolate, purses, shoes, sunshine... How do you call something love when it's so "buggy" (geek term). Lack of trust, insecurities, cheating... Love is described as PURE...
    MissVickies MissVickies 22-25 2 Responses Jan 3, 2009

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    Love Is For Children.

    i love my sister, my best friend, my cat. I am capable of experiencing the emotion of love. It's just caring. But capital-L Love, on the other hand, is bullshit. "True Love" and "Soulmates" are nothing more than a media representation of an idealistic childhood daydream. It...
    Margaery Margaery 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2013

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    Is Love A Finite Resource?

    Do you believe that love is a finite resource? I think that some people are born with an infinite amount of love and can jump from one relationship to the next. Then you have people like me...I think i was born with a certain amount of love and once that emotion has been expended...
    KalaniPaz KalaniPaz 31-35, M Nov 11, 2013

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    Love is nothing more

    than a lie, a pathetic lie for those not strong enough to accept the cruelty of reality. I hate seeing people in love, I hate them, love has always alluded me. I loved before, but all that served was to teach me how cruel and pointless reality truly is. The one person I cared...
    Nix0 Nix0 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 14

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    Fiction

    I believe in the love a friend has for a friend, or a family member has or another family member, but as far as romantic love- nope. It's a total fantasy that disappears after the newness has worn off.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 28, 2010

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    No Love

    I spent 8k bringing my girfriend out from Wales, soon as she got here she dumped me, I asked a lady out and she said ok, then she brought her friends into work to check me out and I never saw or heard from her again, I never get women approaching me ever, then my work sent me to...
    dx2dsquared dx2dsquared 41-45, M 11 Responses May 7, 2011

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    I Don't Believe In Love For Everyone

     I believe that love may exist for some people, but I quite frankly don't think it does for me.  I'm 20 now, and it seems like every person I find myself attracted to isn't interested, doesn't want a boyfriend, or is already taken.  The normal routine is I'll start...
    veritasaequitas veritasaequitas 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 1, 2009

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    Not Ever Again

    I don't believe in love - it's not real. It's not. People tell you this  - and you think they really do, and then they leave and break your heart and you are always left to pick up the pieces.  I just don't think that I believe anymore. Everyone...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 16 Responses Nov 24, 2008

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    there is nothing as love out there

    for me. Everyone just sticks with me when they are lonely. i hate people,i hate love,i hate girls, i hate me.
    bhanu09 bhanu09 18-21, M Dec 31, 2013

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    I Want To Believe In Love

    id love to believe in love, although it seems so fake. I haven't met one person who is "inlove". Or that even lasted with another person, stayed happy with someone. I believe it's a figment of the imagantion to make us look forward to something to keep everyone going. To have...
    LovinLu12 LovinLu12 16-17, F Jan 20, 2013

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    I believe that love is just another word used

    for deception and trickery. It is a fraud to reach a persons heart and mind then crush them slowly until they shatter. Money, hate or even pure tricks are the only things **** people want but they use the word love. So there it is my idea of love.
    PoppyJones113 PoppyJones113 13-15, F Mar 14

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    Make Believe

    Can anyone define or explain love? Human beings throw the word 'love' around without truly knowing the meaning. The illusion of falling in love is like that of the tooth fairy, Santa Claus or the Easter bunny. It is something we fabricate in our minds. Humans are hungry for love...
    2 Responses Feb 18, 2013

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    Maybe I'm just a cocky bastard,

    but I don't feel like I've ever been in love, and I don't want to be. I read all these experiences about people loving in a sexless relationship because of love, but stay because they feel somehow responsible for their partners libido. I believe in lust. I don't want to settle...
    mybonerandme mybonerandme 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 17

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    Whats The Point!!

    I dont believe in love. I believe its just a word people use to get you to stay with them. They say they love and then they leave. They all leave after awhile. Nothing lasts. I know I'm a cynic but I'm speaking the truth!
    Gazabarbie Gazabarbie 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 5, 2009

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    So You Never Really Loved Me? What Else Is New?

    Really? Really....he tells me that two years were just a lie, all bullshit.  All told for whatever the reasons.  He says these things around telling me never to contact him again.  No one has ever broken my heart like this one did.  He has the gall to ask if I've found...
    Whym Whym 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 3, 2012

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    "Love" Is Never Unconditional. It Is An Exchange Of The Satisfaction Of Needs

    Some people like to fantasize and believe in such a thing as love. They believe that two people are able to be attracted to each other and "love" the aspects of the other. They believe that two such people form what is known as a romantic bond. I believe in no such things. Love...
    WK95 WK95 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 25, 2013

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    No Point

    There isn't really a point. We try to seek that companionship, someone we love with all our hearts. and they end up hurting you over and over again. You completely trust them, honest , loyal, but they break you like a stick and leave you crumbling on the ground
    luvmidnite luvmidnite 18-21, M Aug 15, 2013

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    after dating someone

    for 8 months, I was madly in love with him. he said he felt the same about me. one who love you doesn't hurt you emotionally like that. if you love someone you can't constantly break their trust. you can't do everything you've done to me with love on your mind. when you love...
    lizshiv lizshiv 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    It's A Personal Definition And Not Reality

    I really have gotten to realize "Love" is Solipsism. We all have (Our) Own ideas of what it should "Mean" Because it all comes from (Our) Own Perceptions.And everyone is always on a different Chemistry and Vibration on this Life.It can not really be "Meant" By this "Yen & Yang...
    ChakraSolipsismMGP ChakraSolipsismMGP 56-60, M Jan 19, 2013

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    Soul Mates Are Pure Fiction

    There is no perfect person out there for any of us I believe the reason why most people get together is for companionship but they dilute themselves into believing that they are in love. Time and time again I have had people tell me who they have found their soul mates only to...
    birdsofprey93 birdsofprey93 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 4, 2013

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    No Such Thing.

    There is no such thing as love! It's all pointless. Pathetic. Fake. Lies. Roles. Pretend. It's just a fantasy. I never believed in love and I have no regrets about it. You can **** off if you don't like it. It's just a fantasy people want to have in order to escape their lives if...
    CuriousIronButterfly CuriousIronButterfly 13-15, F 4 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    What The Hell's The Point, Anyway?

    Seriously, why do we punish ourselves with trying to fall in love? There are over 6 billion people on this God-forsaken turd we call "Earth" and I doubt more than a 100th of the global population has a chance in Hell of ever finding someone they can spend their lives with. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jan 17, 2011

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    I Dont Deserve Love Anyway

    I tell myself that I dont believe in love because its the easiest way out. If you dont believe in something, it can't hurt you, right? I try and try to make myself believe that I don't believe in love. Tell myself that Im a cold heart, that I feel nothing, that Im not human. Its...
    Urca Urca 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 23, 2011

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    It's Only A Chemical Deception

    It's a name we created for a rush of brain chemicals that makes us feel stupid and infatuated with a person. That's all it is. Stop romanticizing it.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 5, 2013

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    21Jas 21Jas 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    Yeah so I never am able to find a "perfect" guy.

    I dunno.. Some of them want to date me, others just want to be **** buddies. Idk what I want, all I know is that they confuse the h*ll out of me. But anyway, on my old account I talked about almost losing my virginity to one of my guy friends. The problem is, my period hasn't...
    TaylorNicoleee TaylorNicoleee 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Just Don't

    I believe there's something between people when they being together and then they just be familiar with each other  or something like that...we love our parents, of course who always be there.it's hard for us to love the family member who we don't even meet yet,for instance...
    Zinniqe Zinniqe 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 1, 2008

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