I Don't Believe In Love

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 441 People

    Love was once a beautiful thing shared by two

    people who felt very strongly for one another. The two would be compassionate and intimate, and truly enjoy each others company. Nobody's opinions mattered to them as long as they were happy with each other, as long as they were having a good time together. Love was simple and...
    PrincessKayleigh PrincessKayleigh
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jun 10, 2014

    I'm just too lazy for any more "trial

    and error." I have other crap to worry about right now.
    ThePeepingTomahawk ThePeepingTomahawk
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 15

    I Never Really Did To Be Honest.

    I mean I never did I wanted to believe it was real but after not finding people I can connect with on the same level or love me back me,won't hurt me time and time again.Every single time I fall in love I always end up getting hurt so **** love,I honestly think it is easier to...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    8 Responses Nov 14, 2012

    Fiction

    I believe in the love a friend has for a friend, or a family member has or another family member, but as far as romantic love- nope. It's a total fantasy that disappears after the newness has worn off.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Sep 28, 2010

    "Love" Is Never Unconditional. It Is An Exchange Of The Satisfaction Of Needs

    Some people like to fantasize and believe in such a thing as love. They believe that two people are able to be attracted to each other and "love" the aspects of the other. They believe that two such people form what is known as a romantic bond. I believe in no such things. Love...
    WK95 WK95
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Oct 25, 2013

    "I wanna know what it's like,

    to be on the inside of love. Standing in-front of the gates, I see the beauty above" -Nada Surf Love... "People say the words, they sing the songs, they write the movies, but they don't love. "Love" independently does exist. I'm not saying the concept of love is completely...
    YukaPlant YukaPlant
    22-25, F
    Jan 31, 2015

    Or is it because I haven't been in-love?

    Ppl come into your life, you lust, you love, you break up, you hurt, you then move on. Weeks, months or years later they may pop back in, but the feeling you once had for them has faded. And so that is not love, it never was. I've felt this way numerous times. Instant attraction...
    Trainedheart Trainedheart
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jul 15, 2015

    No Love

    I spent 8k bringing my girfriend out from Wales, soon as she got here she dumped me, I asked a lady out and she said ok, then she brought her friends into work to check me out and I never saw or heard from her again, I never get women approaching me ever, then my work sent me to...
    dx2dsquared dx2dsquared
    41-45, M
    10 Responses May 7, 2011

    No Such Thing.

    There is no such thing as love! It's all pointless. Pathetic. Fake. Lies. Roles. Pretend. It's just a fantasy. I never believed in love and I have no regrets about it. You can **** off if you don't like it. It's just a fantasy people want to have in order to escape their lives if...
    CuriousIronButterfly CuriousIronButterfly
    13-15, F
    4 Responses Jan 20, 2013

    My boyfriend of 1 year just broke up with me on

    our anniversary. He's the nicest guy I've ever known. But we just couldn't work. It seems relationships aren't meant for me. And I'm not even sad!
    anwalker154 anwalker154
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 8, 2015

    You know that I am now again,

    broken. You are the only one that knows how to heal me. You healed me the first time, when I met you in 2013 when I was your FWB, when I was emotionally unavailable, when my heart was filled with hatred, you were able to heal me and I was able to allow myself to embrace the hurt...
    Trainedheart Trainedheart
    31-35, F
    Nov 15, 2015

    Once I used to dream about someone to complete

    myself. I had my experience and I learnt that love doesn't exist, not for me at least. Life is like a book, how many loves are in a love story? Not many, isn't it? I don't want a pale copy of what I felt before. Now, when I feel that someone is about to pursue me, I take...
    hashsoul hashsoul
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 11

    Love Doesn't Seem To Exist

    The reason I don't believe in love, is that I see couples who have been together for so long break up. You can never fully trust someone and have them never let you down. I'm not saying a relationship has to be perfect, but you'll always be let down. One of you will give their...
    Gingersnaps1 Gingersnaps1
    13-15, F
    1 Response Jul 7, 2013

    Love Is For Children.

    i love my sister, my best friend, my cat. I am capable of experiencing the emotion of love. It's just caring. But capital-L Love, on the other hand, is bullshit. "True Love" and "Soulmates" are nothing more than a media representation of an idealistic childhood daydream. It...
    Margaery Margaery
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 20, 2013

    Just A Few Months

    A few months was all it took to shatter the idea of being in love, after 22 years of dreaming about the perfect marriage and being in love with someone forever. And then I began an affair with a married man. And then I dumped my boyfriend of 7 years after realizing I wasn't in...
    SpilledSecrets SpilledSecrets
    26-30, F
    Jul 10, 2011

    An everyday argument between me

    and my friends. Them saying no one can crack the code of love and I saying it doesn't even exist. I'm 16 without a crush, never had one never will. Sure I care about people, I would cry if they pasted but I love you never comes to mind. I love you doesn't exist.
    lostfollower lostfollower
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Feb 4, 2015
    SPieterse SPieterse
    22-25, F
    Dec 7, 2015

    This is a song by Dido

    and it very nicely describes how I feel about love. How I am capable of falling in love deeply yet I hold myself back for my own good. "Don't Believe In Love" I wanna go to bed With arms around me But wake up on my own Pretend That I'm still sleeping Til' you go home Oh I...
    daeneryss daeneryss
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 15, 2014

    "I wanted a Love that would last,

    one when this world is our past. A love that no time could erase, A love in a higher place" What was I to you? Is it really so damn hard for you to call? To text? Just a minute of your time to say "Goodbye" You told me in November that we had 5 months together before you move...
    Trainedheart Trainedheart
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 13

    Make Believe

    Can anyone define or explain love? Human beings throw the word 'love' around without truly knowing the meaning. The illusion of falling in love is like that of the tooth fairy, Santa Claus or the Easter bunny. It is something we fabricate in our minds. Humans are hungry for love...
    1 Response Feb 18, 2013

    Always worked with the theory

    that all love turns into hatred or pain one day, so far it seems to be true
    Thelonery Thelonery
    16-17, M
    Oct 12, 2015

    What ... Seriously?

    Ok, so I have to get this off my chest somehow, and what better way than to blog out my frustrations. So, love The concept has been completely strange to me for as long as I can remember, and to make matters worse, everytime I tell someone that I don't believe in love they start...
    chrysad chrysad
    18-21, F
    Dec 14, 2012
    Sonadora87 Sonadora87
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jul 20, 2015

    https://www.psychologytoday.

    com/blog/getting-laid-over-60/200908/the-romantic-hoax I especially enjoyed the part where the article states that, basically, what drives humans to mate is no loftier than the impulse that drives a dog in heat to do the same. Just what I figured.
    thelioninwinter thelioninwinter
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Apr 23, 2015

    Not Ever Again

    I don't believe in love - it's not real. It's not. People tell you this  - and you think they really do, and then they leave and break your heart and you are always left to pick up the pieces.  I just don't think that I believe anymore. Everyone...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72
    36-40, F
    17 Responses Nov 24, 2008

    A Long Overdue Story...

    I am sure somewhere in my experiences is one listed "I believe in Love" so then why this now? Things happened, I changed, you changed, we all changed and who knows if it was for good or bad but my change is certainly helping me put things more in perspective. Hitting on the...
    Floydian Floydian
    22-25, M
    17 Responses May 11, 2010

    family love I just don't feel.

    I do things for my mom n brothers but I feel obligated to...is that love? as far as the rest my family I don't feel a a thing....
    BBskool BBskool
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 18, 2015

    I'm alone again. He left.

    He left with the words - "You are a great soul. You will be fine." I was left behind asking - "Why me?". I hate the heartbreak. I hate the tears. I hate the sick feeling in the pit of my stomach. And that's the reason I had tried to fight love, tried to shoo people away. Bcoz I...
    Sonadora87 Sonadora87
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jul 18, 2015

    There's this really complex feeling inside of me

    but I'm not depressed. But it doesn't mean either that it'll change just because 'I'll find the right person''. There's is NO right person for everybody. Whoever made that BS can shut the hell up! Because first of all, a lot of people can't face the fact that we're all different...
    AfricanGirl19 AfricanGirl19
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 5, 2015

    You told me how I mattered right to my face,

    and how there was no way I'd ever be replaced. Well your words have etched out disgrace. BS. And I wonder how it tastes? Repeating it all over again, whispering in the ear of your new boyfriend. I hoped love would find you, happiness, too. I don't hate what I knew would...
    Taynkbot Taynkbot
    18-21, M
    Feb 6

    Well, today I've realized,

    love isn't real. I mean you could love someone support them best you could, truly do anything for them, and she would just stomp on your heart, like you're not worth ****, you know I thought she was different, I thought finally I found someone to renew my faith in love, but...
    RebelLynx RebelLynx
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Aug 12, 2014

    Sadly this is a generic group.

    To be more accurate I do not believe in the romantic love. You know that wonderful lie that males and females a like tell themselves to make them feel better about wanting to have sex. I do believe in some form of love because I loved my kitties that were in my life very much...
    ForgottenMale ForgottenMale
    26-30, M
    Jan 31, 2015

    Everything is subjective.

    That's right, I said it. I am going to be one of these ******** from now on. CHRIST. "Come on Daaaaaaad, gimme the car tonight..."
    Dreambrother Dreambrother
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 7, 2014

    I never believed in love,

    never experienced it, I say it but don't feel it, and my life is full of hate
    craz3f8g craz3f8g
    18-21
    Jan 31, 2015

    I believe in family live

    and friends love but I just don't believe in ROMANTIC LOVE. It just doesn't make sense to me. I think people just get married to show that they have a husband to their friends, and some of them so it because they want to have babies. And others do it because they want sex. I don...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 25, 2015

    What The Hell's The Point, Anyway?

    Seriously, why do we punish ourselves with trying to fall in love? There are over 6 billion people on this God-forsaken turd we call "Earth" and I doubt more than a 100th of the global population has a chance in Hell of ever finding someone they can spend their lives with. I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses Jan 17, 2011

    Not In The Third Dimensional One.

    Do you ever wonder why spiritual and religious figures such as Jesus or mystics/ Buddhists from the east never marry or get easily attached to people of the opposite sex? It's because they have figured it out that third dimensional love (the one we experience on the earth plane...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 14, 2012

    It is not that I don't believe in love.

    love doesn't believe in me
    isa1196 isa1196
    22-25, F
    May 13, 2015

    I Dont Deserve Love Anyway

    I tell myself that I dont believe in love because its the easiest way out. If you dont believe in something, it can't hurt you, right? I try and try to make myself believe that I don't believe in love. Tell myself that Im a cold heart, that I feel nothing, that Im not human. Its...
    Urca Urca
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 23, 2011

    I'm almost to the point

    where I don't believe in TRUE love. It just really sucks... My friend, Ben told me all about her girlfriend. She told him that she'll love him forever but where's the forever part? It disappeared... That time, Is the first time I saw Ben cried... And I feel bad for him...
    Sakihiro Sakihiro
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    emilyccaa emilyccaa
    26-30, F
    Dec 8, 2015

    It's Only A Chemical Deception

    It's a name we created for a rush of brain chemicals that makes us feel stupid and infatuated with a person. That's all it is. Stop romanticizing it.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Sep 5, 2013

    Media Hype

    The notion of Romantic love is fiction and it always has been, from the ancients on until modern times. Poetic license. And the media thrives on it, giving kids and young people expectations that will only leave them bitter and disappointed. My experiences were with TV shows in...
    TheOriginalPard TheOriginalPard
    51-55, F
    1 Response Jan 23, 2013

    It's just chemicals that will fade.

    I hate fairy tales of "love" lasting forever, it's just not real.
    daniellemx daniellemx
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 25, 2015

    Valentine's Day has just passed.

    Everywhere I go, I see all these happy people, holding hands, engaging in public displays of affection. If only they knew how much it tortured some of us. But humans, by their very nature, are selfish. Most of them couldn't care less about anything other than their own happiness...
    forestlaw77 forestlaw77
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Feb 14, 2015

    Couple of months ago I was reading a library

    book and at the bottom of the page someone had wrote in pencil "LOVE ISN'T REAL PEOPLE JUST GET DESPERATE". It made me think. And whoever wrote that deserves at least partial credit. I think thats the case with most people, as soon as they reach a certain age they flip out and...
    Brimmless Brimmless
    18-21, F
    Jan 30, 2015

    Title Of This Group Says It All.

    I just started leaving all the groups I was in about love. At least ones that I hadn't written stories in. I'm going through a love-purge, of sorts.I've never really experienced love. Or I'm just totally blind. It's a long story. I'm not so sure it even exists - thus I don't...
    SonicReducer75 SonicReducer75
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Mar 25, 2012

    I don't know.. I guess it don't really believe

    in love. As a child I did, but with each year I mature, I stray away from the thought. If it exists, it's more like extreme infatuation, or it is only one-sided. It's nothing like the books. I have been told by people before that they love me, but I don't think they mean it...
    TaylorNicoleee TaylorNicoleee
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 29, 2014

    Everyone has their own hidden motives.

    There is no selfless love like we sometimes see in movies. Sweethearts, husband-wife, parent-child, government-people, religion/cult-followers, teacher-student, best-friends and all kinds of relationships exist because of mutual benefits for everyone involved. It is impossible...
    Arushan Arushan
    18-21, M
    1 Response Dec 16, 2015

    I used to think love had the answers.

    Those dreams died a painful death.
    SecretAdmirerer SecretAdmirerer
    18-21, M
    Sep 8, 2014

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    chriscc11 chriscc11
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 21, 2015

    Whats The Point!!

    I dont believe in love. I believe its just a word people use to get you to stay with them. They say they love and then they leave. They all leave after awhile. Nothing lasts. I know I'm a cynic but I'm speaking the truth!
    Gazabarbie Gazabarbie
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 5, 2009

    Love Shmove

    Love? What's that... I mean I love my family, and my dog, and my car, and my blackberry, my laptop, chocolate, purses, shoes, sunshine... How do you call something love when it's so "buggy" (geek term). Lack of trust, insecurities, cheating... Love is described as PURE...
    MissVickies MissVickies
    22-25
    2 Responses Jan 3, 2009
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