I Don't Believe In Marriage

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    ladyrhiannon824 ladyrhiannon824
    22-25, F
    Dec 4, 2011

    I think marrige is an invented construct of

    control,or maybe I just like to sleep around
    dethlord dethlord
    31-35, M
    1 Response Jul 30, 2015

    Future Concerns

    I mentioned this in my other post for this group, but I have concerns about in the future, when I and my boyfriend are out of college, and therefore more marriage-eligible, that it will start to be expected from our families. If we are still together at that time (I say that...
    Jenabeth Jenabeth
    18-21, F
    Dec 4, 2009

    Kinda Funny

    I was at my mom's house with my boyfriend and I told her, "Marriage is so unnatural. It's ungodly. It's an abomination. Men and women shouldn't be together for such a long time." She didn't like that.
    NotApplicable NotApplicable
    22-25, F
    Oct 6, 2013

    I Use To

    I truly use to believe in marriage. I wanted to be the person that would find the person to spend the rest of their life with.  To be able to share their dreams, and make their dreams my dreams too.  I wanted that more than anything. In college, I met this man, and I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Nov 7, 2009

    No Judgement

    ...It's just not for me.
    WomanReclaimingSelf WomanReclaimingSelf
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 17, 2011

    Was Never A Big Deal To Me.

    As some girls, it seems almost a right of passage, to make out and fantasize the extrevagant weddings they shall have when they're older. Speaking of their dreamy man, and how they would love to be proposed too. To me, I never understood this inconsequential event that they so...
    Chasing4flowers Chasing4flowers
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 22, 2012

    Marriage Is Right For Some, But Not Me

    As a young girl, I came to this realization.  All of my little friends would play wedding, and really think about their future husbands and families.  I could care less about these things, and was more interested in climbing trees, playing in the woods, and sports...
    CitizenApe CitizenApe
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Oct 5, 2009

    To me, marriage is TOO binding.

    Honestly, how many people can actually be happy together forever? The answer is 50%. half of marriages end in divorce. I believe that being in an unmarried, open relationship is the best thing for anyone involved. "cheating" cannot happen in an open relationship. Nobody has to...
    StrangeDarkSecrets StrangeDarkSecrets
    16-17, T
    Jul 10, 2014

    i had a high school sweet heart.

    we were best friends first. then she laid it on me...he dad was forcing her and her family to move back to egypt. we commited to eachother that day. we said we koved eachother and when we meet again, we'll marry. 12 years pass by. we kept in touch over the years.i was finally in...
    7gabriel7 7gabriel7
    36-40, M
    Aug 2, 2015

    Society's Decision

    I have gotten married twice to the same person. Both times we have done it to be together by law in order to have the ability to live together and meet certain requirements. We love each other to an extent but marriage has made us hurt too much. Society's expectations on what...
    cleargerman cleargerman
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 23, 2012

    I feel..that if you really love someone?

    you don't need to get married to prove that. I find that kinda stupid? lol I will never get married. marriage doesint last? nor does relationships? some do. but that's rare. I think people get married because they're really in love at that moment and they decide I want to marry...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jul 29, 2015

    Not For Mee.....

    I've been married twice, and both times ended in disaster. Not my cup of tea.
    chillsdavis chillsdavis
    56-60, M
    Nov 21, 2012

    Respect for marriage has been tainted just like

    most of the brides wearing white... Seems like today the value of marriage is literally a price tag. Instead of being importance of being wed in the eyes of the Lord, it's more like being wed in the shoes of Louis Vuitton. Would you still say yes if there was no diamond ring...
    LetsBeRealK LetsBeRealK
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 30, 2015

    I don't believe in marriage,

    because I think that it takes away a lot of what made the bond a bond in the first place. If you're in accordance with the concept of marriage, please explain your opinion
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 14, 2015

    Dont See A Point

    now my parents have been together since they were in their teens and theyre still in love half a decade later, and yes theyre married, but i still dont see the point they could still be together not married, i will never get married i feel if i find someone and they love me...
    agonyblue agonyblue
    18-21
    Sep 5, 2011

    I don't ever think i could get married.

    I would rather be in a relationship for my whole live haha
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 16, 2015

    Not For Me Anyway

    I try not to talk it down, especially with the young adults.  There is some merrit in the institution of marriage, but....after 2 failed marriages, in which I felt I put 110% and they didn't want to work on anything to keep it together, well I think marriage just isn't for me...
    Psychodelic Psychodelic
    46-50, F
    Nov 2, 2011

    I was engaged last year

    and was one month away from my wedding when I canceled it. I did so for many reasons. A year after the cancelled wedding I have no regrets about it. I'm happy to not be married and I am in to rush to become married! I am still with the same partner and he is happy too. After a...
    wantingtobehappy84 wantingtobehappy84
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Nov 12, 2015
    Rarias Rarias
    16-17, M
    Jul 30, 2015

    Every situation is unique & I have great respect

    for the choices of others. It's just a concept I personally can't really embrace...
    JanaRose JanaRose
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Mar 3, 2014

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    amelcc11 amelcc11
    26-30, F
    Aug 3, 2015

    Sharing My Views

    I suppose I don't have an experience related to marriage, and only one long-term relationship that wouldn't be ready to progress to matrimony now even if I was looking for such a course. But feel bad discussing my views with my partner, when I know he doesn't agree with them and...
    Jenabeth Jenabeth
    18-21, F
    10 Responses Nov 9, 2009

    I think marriage is something tough to embrace

    though I am in it. It restricts people under made up social prejudices.
    sarahrhm sarahrhm
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Mar 3, 2014

    I Definitely Don't Believe In Marriage.

    Over the years I have come to the conclusion that marriage is not a necessity and in some cases it makes things worse. People used to marry because their church told them that was the done thing. Nowadays people use marriage to settle themselves. They spend all this time wooing...
    wendelyn wendelyn
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 31, 2010

    Working in a banquet hall one would think is

    magical. But in reality, every wedding I arranged pushed me away from the thought of ever getting married. Now this is entirely separate from my parents not working out together and every other couple that I don't see working out... Ever.
    sarahriley sarahriley
    22-25, F
    Jan 4, 2014

    I believe in forever,

    but I don't believe marriage should be a necessity for it.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jul 3, 2015

    Marriage is not really a big thing to me

    because... People who love each other will love each other regardless of if there was a bit of paper with ones last name the same, I think marriage is a big con that basically tricks people into spending ALOT of money for a little bit of paper to say your married
    NoUsernameInserted NoUsernameInserted
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 30, 2015

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