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I Don't Believe In Unconditional Love

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    I Have Been Hurt Many Times By People, But I Have Found The Most Valuable Of All Love In Him

    I found this video on unconditional love... let me know what you think 
    Tiddlemouse Tiddlemouse 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2010

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    He Says He Loves Me...

    ..all the time.  But then there's all the things that I don't do right every day.  I'm tired of trying to endlessly please.  He says that I say I'll do things that I never do.  That's true.  I do say I'll do and then somehow time slips by and whatever it...
    amychris72 amychris72 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 13, 2007

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    Do You Love The Way He Lies?

    I'm alright because I love the way it burns... Check out this video on Rhinna and Eminem's new song "I love the way you lie"
    Tiddlemouse Tiddlemouse 22-25, F Aug 11, 2010

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    I Don'T Think People Think When They Say This...

    "Unconditional Love"People seem to see it as being either black or white. Either there are no conditions and you love each other totally and completely, or, there are conditions, exceptions, clauses, and other legalese which are petty and do nothing at all to contribute to the...
    MidKnightStorm13 MidKnightStorm13 22-25, F May 8, 2013

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    Crazy Logic

    I've always had trouble with the idea of unconditional love. People have tried to explain it to me in various ways. They have said it is love given without expectation of anything in return. To me, unconditional love means that there are no conditions. You will love the person...
    wundayatta wundayatta 56-60, M 7 Responses Jun 29, 2010

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    Hmmmm

    I used to think it existed but after me giving it to another and getting just heartache in return I really don't think I will meet someone who can give it in return.
    Tigress Tigress 51-55, F 3 Responses Jul 19, 2007

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    The Trouble With Love

    You can never, ever be certain that a person loves you unconditionally. You can never truly know the contents of someone's heart. You could be in a wonderful relationship with the person of your dreams. You share everything, know all about each other's life story, likes and...
    CosmoLang CosmoLang 36-40, M 2 Responses May 21, 2012

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    Not From a Human Stand Point Anyway...

    ... and it depends on your definition of love and if you believe there is more than one kind of love.  Like the way you my love your wife, is different than your Mother, which is different than your brother, which is different than your cousin and different from a friend and...
    2nice 2nice 46-50, M Jul 9, 2008

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    I Used to Believe In Unconditional Love...

    There was a time that I believed in unconditional love, but I truly don't anymore. I am in a situation where I am totally in love with my wife, but she has a serious problem with negativity. It's to the point where I am literally at the end of my rope with this relationship...
    SpringForward2k8 SpringForward2k8 41-45, M 5 Responses Jun 30, 2007

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    I Just Can't....

    I used to believe in unconditional love and I have given that to several people in my life including some of the people on here. I think that sometimes women are better at giving unconditional love as the men in my life that I have expected unconditional love from really couldn...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 22 Responses Jul 8, 2008

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    Too Much Has Happened To Prove Otherwise

    I see kids with good, healthy relationships with their parents and sometimes (well, a lot of the times actually), I'm envious. I've never known what it's like to have a parent as a best friend, confident, reliant, and predictable adult. Who has been raising me all my life...
    Emokitten Emokitten 18-21, F Jun 2, 2011

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    It Would Be Nice But....

    Nothing is unconditional. I have been accused of being conditional. But that very same person puts conditions on me...to move, to die, to suffer, to conform to his conditions so that he can be happy. So what's the difference? There is none. Hate blinds a person from moving on, or...
    rowenbumble rowenbumble 56-60, F Jan 1, 2013

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    UNCONDITIONAL? I don't believe in loving

    someone totally 'unconditionally'. How can there be absolutely no conditions? How?? The closest kind of love I could see fitting under this heading would be a mother's love for her children (and I say 'mother' simply because I am one.....I'm certainly not trying to discount...
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 41-45, F 29 Responses Oct 30

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    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M Nov 17

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    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    Everything is subjective. That's right, I said it. I am going to be one of these ******** from now on. CHRIST. "Come on Daaaaaaad, gimme the car tonight..."
    Plutonianbabe Plutonianbabe 18-21, F Dec 7

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    Life is indeed unfair. There are times when i stare at the sky at night and wonder why you are my entire universe when i am not even a little star in yours.
    Thiswillbethelast Thiswillbethelast 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Ever since I heard about the word "soul mate", I always pondered whether it was true or not and I don't believe it is. I am very practical, so I was always a skeptic, anyway, but I...
    sesi1116 sesi1116 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I don't feel marriage proves your love to someone. Actions speak louder than words and if you want to prove your love to someone you spend your life with them. Saying you're going...
    ChristianKekoa90 ChristianKekoa90 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    For many reasons, I don't believe in Politicians and their politics... I'm really bored when I listen to their long speech ! They talk a lot for nothing because they never keep...
    Intelligentgirl2 Intelligentgirl2 18-21, F Dec 1

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    I don't believe in divorce. So, my first marriage is most likely going to be my only marriage. But I am not going to get married until I am 46 or 49. Lmao
    SunshineH316 SunshineH316 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 28

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    I don't believe it's really in the Bible... "For the wages of sin is DEATH... (not eternity in hell).." I think Hell was made up by a confused person long ago...
    LulaZee LulaZee 31-35, F 6 Responses Dec 15

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    You put your heart on the line for that person, You give it to him and tell him it is his to keep or break, exposing all what you are to him. All of your imperfections and...
    susipsikopat susipsikopat 22-25, F 7 Responses Dec 16

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    Never believed in regret until recently. You make decisions based on how you feel at the time, and that should be enough to see you through it. Right or wrong, it builds your...
    Shiningstar26 Shiningstar26 18-21, F Dec 8

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    The truth is, I really don't know whether to believe or not. I know that everything happens for a reason, and to quote Steve Jobs," You'll always find that you'll be able to...
    IDontWantNoTrouble IDontWantNoTrouble 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    I'm so in love with my fiance he means everything to me if he were to die I would have to die as well he is my soul mate and I don't want to live with out him ever he's saved me in...
    babydollveee babydollveee 22-25, F Nov 30

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    I was lucky I had a scan ran on me by a lady I was seeing from a dating site it mostly hurt my pride what I had left they only got 100 so it was not to bad the other money is...
    daddylove4u daddylove4u 51-55, M 1 Response Nov 25

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    Everybody always throws trust on it! I'm here to tell you, it is not always directly about trust! Sometimes it's about logic and logically speaking long distance and relationship...
    newbeginnings15 newbeginnings15 18-21, F Nov 26

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    Love is something not to play with. I only say it if I mean it. I just don't get people that throw the word around like it was nothing and playing with others hearts. You either...
    mrhph3 mrhph3 36-40, M 2 Responses Dec 11

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    Couple of weeks ago,I also make the same gesture to a female friend of mine,in which she accepted but few days later,I text her to inform her I was not interested again. She was...
    tobcreal tobcreal 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 25

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    I don't even tell my family I love them unless I mean it. I can't tell you the last time I told my dad that even worse I don't remember him ever telling me.
    CaliArs CaliArs 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 15

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    Don't tell someone you love them if you don't if you did tell them they would Probably take it the wrong way or get their hopes up so don't say it if you don't mean it
    nickigirl525 nickigirl525 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Love... we think about it, we sing about it, dream about it, lose sleep worrying about it. When we don't have it we search for it; when we discover it, we don't know what do to...
    Thiswillbethelast Thiswillbethelast 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I find it hard to say I love you when I don't. It's like somebody is holding my mouth shut, but I'm still trying to takk
    Alweleevbehind Alweleevbehind 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 29

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    3 days left. I don't wanna leave school, we've just started getting close. I really can't bear the pain of losing her I can't bear the pain of not seeing her everyday I can't bear...
    Shibesh Shibesh 16-17, M 3 Responses Nov 29

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    I hate it when people are together for like a week and are all I love you and ****!! You don't even know them mofucka!!🙌
    Zac8503 Zac8503 26-30, M 5 Responses a week ago

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    I love my boyfriend but I have started developing feeling for this boy in my year and I keep kissing this boy and I don't know if I should tell my boyfriend
    xXxLaylaxXx xXxLaylaxXx 13-15, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I think I'm starting to fall for this guy that works on the oil rig. He talked to me for months before we finally met and he accepts me even though I have herpes and he isn't mad...
    CaliArs CaliArs 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    Like what's the point of lying & hurting people when you can just be real with them & tell them you don't love them
    cutegirl104 cutegirl104 18-21, F 8 Responses 5 days ago

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    I was with my ex boyfriend for over four years, we broke up a year a go, due to him cheating and getting someone pregnant. We haven't stopped taking during the whole time. I...
    neverforgotten27 neverforgotten27 22-25, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
    toylycc11 toylycc11 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 26

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    "I know you said life is great I don't care"
    JMGEARTHTHINKER JMGEARTHTHINKER 18-21, F Dec 4

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
    cassiecc11 cassiecc11 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    I hardly even say those three words even when I do mean it and feel it. They scare me. And although I know why, I don't know how to fix it.
    BrokenHeartedOlicityShipper BrokenHeartedOlicityShipper 70+, F 3 Responses Dec 15

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    zoecc11 zoecc11 26-30, F 3 hrs ago

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    Everyone is special in their own ways! No one is above or below when comparing to others, they have their own speciality that no one can dare to point on it. Hate how people...
    Huda13 Huda13 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 hrs ago

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