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I Don't Believe In Unconditional Love

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    Do You Love The Way He Lies?

    I'm alright because I love the way it burns... Check out this video on Rhinna and Eminem's new song "I love the way you lie"
    Tiddlemouse Tiddlemouse 22-25, F Aug 11, 2010

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    I Don'T Think People Think When They Say This...

    "Unconditional Love"People seem to see it as being either black or white. Either there are no conditions and you love each other totally and completely, or, there are conditions, exceptions, clauses, and other legalese which are petty and do nothing at all to contribute to the...
    MidKnightStorm13 MidKnightStorm13 22-25, F May 8, 2013

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    It Would Be Nice But....

    Nothing is unconditional. I have been accused of being conditional. But that very same person puts conditions on me...to move, to die, to suffer, to conform to his conditions so that he can be happy. So what's the difference? There is none. Hate blinds a person from moving on, or...
    rowenbumble rowenbumble 56-60, F Jan 1, 2013

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    Not From a Human Stand Point Anyway...

    ... and it depends on your definition of love and if you believe there is more than one kind of love.  Like the way you my love your wife, is different than your Mother, which is different than your brother, which is different than your cousin and different from a friend and...
    2nice 2nice 46-50, M Jul 9, 2008

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    I Used to Believe In Unconditional Love...

    There was a time that I believed in unconditional love, but I truly don't anymore. I am in a situation where I am totally in love with my wife, but she has a serious problem with negativity. It's to the point where I am literally at the end of my rope with this relationship...
    SpringForward2k8 SpringForward2k8 41-45, M 5 Responses Jun 30, 2007

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    I Have Been Hurt Many Times By People, But I Have Found The Most Valuable Of All Love In Him

    I found this video on unconditional love... let me know what you think 
    Tiddlemouse Tiddlemouse 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2010

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    UNCONDITIONAL? I don't believe in loving

    someone totally 'unconditionally'. How can there be absolutely no conditions? How?? The closest kind of love I could see fitting under this heading would be a mother's love for her children (and I say 'mother' simply because I am one.....I'm certainly not trying to discount...
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 46-50, F 21 Responses Oct 30, 2014

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    I Just Can't....

    I used to believe in unconditional love and I have given that to several people in my life including some of the people on here. I think that sometimes women are better at giving unconditional love as the men in my life that I have expected unconditional love from really couldn...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 22 Responses Jul 8, 2008

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    Crazy Logic

    I've always had trouble with the idea of unconditional love. People have tried to explain it to me in various ways. They have said it is love given without expectation of anything in return. To me, unconditional love means that there are no conditions. You will love the person...
    wundayatta wundayatta 56-60, M 7 Responses Jun 29, 2010

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    Hmmmm

    I used to think it existed but after me giving it to another and getting just heartache in return I really don't think I will meet someone who can give it in return.
    Tigress Tigress 51-55, F 3 Responses Jul 19, 2007

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    Too Much Has Happened To Prove Otherwise

    I see kids with good, healthy relationships with their parents and sometimes (well, a lot of the times actually), I'm envious. I've never known what it's like to have a parent as a best friend, confident, reliant, and predictable adult. Who has been raising me all my life...
    Emokitten Emokitten 18-21, T Jun 2, 2011

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    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 19, 2014

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    He Says He Loves Me...

    ..all the time.  But then there's all the things that I don't do right every day.  I'm tired of trying to endlessly please.  He says that I say I'll do things that I never do.  That's true.  I do say I'll do and then somehow time slips by and whatever it...
    amychris72 amychris72 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 13, 2007

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    The Trouble With Love

    You can never, ever be certain that a person loves you unconditionally. You can never truly know the contents of someone's heart. You could be in a wonderful relationship with the person of your dreams. You share everything, know all about each other's life story, likes and...
    CosmoLang CosmoLang 36-40, M 2 Responses May 21, 2012

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    Tell me why you believe in god. I swear I'm not bashing your beliefs. It's just that so much bad **** has happened to me I literally can't find one reason to believe.
    georgiemarie7 georgiemarie7 16-17, F 2 hrs ago

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    I don't believe in throwing something as sacred as marriage away. I believe in fixing it! We were almost on the verge and instead, I fixed me and became a better wife! My husband...
    Rscfm04 Rscfm04 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    BlackPotion BlackPotion 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I used to believe they were real but after seeing the process for long enough I no longer believe they last and become real friendships without physical real world connections. I...
    4myinnerchild 4myinnerchild 51-55, M 2 days ago

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    I don't believe everything was created this perfectly.... From an explosion. God, gets all the glory. Not some science.
    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I just don't. I am not going to. I don't believe that I evolved from a monkey nor a fish.
    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F 119 Responses 3 days ago

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    Ladies, there are better guys out there. Don't waste yourself on the bad ones. He won't change. Give us good guys a chance.
    Spidey0 Spidey0 26-30, M 9 Responses 4 days ago

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    I hate religion my self but I love Jesus Christ. Religion is a bunch of laws we can't keep, that's why we need a savior which is a relationship with God (not religion) something...
    arin19807 arin19807 31-35, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Too much crap grows. Moronic crap. Jesus was love. But hate gays And send books around the world. But dont solve american problems. Unless its preventing gays wed...
    Converted Converted 46-50, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I don't love you. I have love for my family that I actually give a **** about and a few people but other than that no. In fact I hate you and hope you die burning with a ****** big...
    YOURFAVXO YOURFAVXO 22-25, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    sometimes I think that the only reason I never really get asked out is because I am a strong believer in sex after marriage (that and my annoying personality and my hideous body...
    xnikkkix xnikkkix 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    It's been almost a month since my ex and I broke up and I'm usually good with bouncing back after a fall but this time is a bit different. For the first few weeks, I felt as if I...
    leelan21 leelan21 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I just found out something... Something that broke my heart. Something that keeps me sad for days. Someone who has a place in my heart just blocked me... I don't know what is he...
    JustAnotherGirlOnEP JustAnotherGirlOnEP 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Imagine falling madly in love, and then having a child. Is it reasonable to force your infant to choose a political party? And if they don't choose yours you disown them as your...
    Taynk Taynk 18-21, M 5 Responses a week ago

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    I believe everything has to be earned, respect, trust, love etc. So I don't understand the whole 'respect your parents and elders' thing. Should they not have to earn it first? why...
    Hayden23 Hayden23 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    He's back so many times I have wished for him to come back so many times I prayed for the second chance to love him so many times I cried for it will never gonna happen so many...
    soyyoprincesa soyyoprincesa 22-25, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    There just isn't enough evidence either way to reach a conclusion. And I've been reading and thinking about this for years -- decades.
    mrHdrJ mrHdrJ 61-65, M Aug 21

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    I believe in organized religion. I know it's real. Unfortunately, I think it does more harm than good. I've seen more hate come from organized religious groups than non-religious...
    SybMan SybMan 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    I think it is a legal price of paper, so the federal government can poke n prod into yo personal affairs. I think you can love someone n make a commitment from the heart. I shouldn...
    craigslist504 craigslist504 36-40 3 Responses Aug 20

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    IF there is a higher being, he ISN'T listening ! If there's a higher being, it 's the same as if you have a pond in your yard. You put some fish in that pond and at first you look...
    Luckyguy1970 Luckyguy1970 41-45, M Aug 20

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    I've been married. Most of the time it was good, and I would recommend it to others. But for me, I'm now happy being single. It's the life that suits me. I am happy and I don't...
    daniol daniol 46-50, M 2 Responses Aug 20

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    I have a theory. God isn't a man, but a ball of energy. Energy makes up everything in our world. Whe you pray out of the true kindest of your heart "God" doesn't help, but you...
    Autumn02 Autumn02 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    Don't keep holding your breath The promises and apologies need a rest You and I have reached near death I know this circumstance is not best
    Isis27 Isis27 36-40 Aug 18

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    I think I'm going to start a new religion. It will be called Don't be a **** about it. Because for every aspect of one's life there should be one rule... don't be a **** about it...
    Kriekki Kriekki 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    It baffles me how some people just throw the phrase around so carelessly. I can't say it unless I mean it. I use terms like I care for you or you're special to me. I take I Love...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Aug 16

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    I don't ever think i could get married. I would rather be in a relationship for my whole live haha
    AyeItsAustin AyeItsAustin 13-15, M Aug 16

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    I am an atheist and completely rule out the possibility of a god. I see absolutely no evidence for a God, so that equates to 0% of my belief. If you're like; 'You don't have...
    valldos valldos 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 16

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    as if every word that comes out of their mouth is from God. i believe in reading the Bible if you want and know the truth for yourself. i just am in a very irritable mood, and i...
    amazedbygrace amazedbygrace 31-35, F Aug 16

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