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I Don't Believe In Unconditional Love

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    Not From a Human Stand Point Anyway...

    ... and it depends on your definition of love and if you believe there is more than one kind of love.  Like the way you my love your wife, is different than your Mother, which is different than your brother, which is different than your cousin and different from a friend and...
    2nice 2nice 46-50, M Jul 9, 2008

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    Do You Love The Way He Lies?

    I'm alright because I love the way it burns... Check out this video on Rhinna and Eminem's new song "I love the way you lie"
    Tiddlemouse Tiddlemouse 22-25, F Aug 11, 2010

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    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 19, 2014

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    Hmmmm

    I used to think it existed but after me giving it to another and getting just heartache in return I really don't think I will meet someone who can give it in return.
    Tigress Tigress 51-55, F 3 Responses Jul 19, 2007

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    He Says He Loves Me...

    ..all the time.  But then there's all the things that I don't do right every day.  I'm tired of trying to endlessly please.  He says that I say I'll do things that I never do.  That's true.  I do say I'll do and then somehow time slips by and whatever it...
    amychris72 amychris72 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 13, 2007

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    Too Much Has Happened To Prove Otherwise

    I see kids with good, healthy relationships with their parents and sometimes (well, a lot of the times actually), I'm envious. I've never known what it's like to have a parent as a best friend, confident, reliant, and predictable adult. Who has been raising me all my life...
    Emokitten Emokitten 18-21, T Jun 2, 2011

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    It Would Be Nice But....

    Nothing is unconditional. I have been accused of being conditional. But that very same person puts conditions on me...to move, to die, to suffer, to conform to his conditions so that he can be happy. So what's the difference? There is none. Hate blinds a person from moving on, or...
    rowenbumble rowenbumble 56-60, F Jan 1, 2013

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    UNCONDITIONAL? I don't believe in loving

    someone totally 'unconditionally'. How can there be absolutely no conditions? How?? The closest kind of love I could see fitting under this heading would be a mother's love for her children (and I say 'mother' simply because I am one.....I'm certainly not trying to discount...
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 41-45, F 24 Responses Oct 30, 2014

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    The Trouble With Love

    You can never, ever be certain that a person loves you unconditionally. You can never truly know the contents of someone's heart. You could be in a wonderful relationship with the person of your dreams. You share everything, know all about each other's life story, likes and...
    CosmoLang CosmoLang 36-40, M 2 Responses May 21, 2012

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    I Used to Believe In Unconditional Love...

    There was a time that I believed in unconditional love, but I truly don't anymore. I am in a situation where I am totally in love with my wife, but she has a serious problem with negativity. It's to the point where I am literally at the end of my rope with this relationship...
    SpringForward2k8 SpringForward2k8 41-45, M 5 Responses Jun 30, 2007

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    I Just Can't....

    I used to believe in unconditional love and I have given that to several people in my life including some of the people on here. I think that sometimes women are better at giving unconditional love as the men in my life that I have expected unconditional love from really couldn...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 22 Responses Jul 8, 2008

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    I Don'T Think People Think When They Say This...

    "Unconditional Love"People seem to see it as being either black or white. Either there are no conditions and you love each other totally and completely, or, there are conditions, exceptions, clauses, and other legalese which are petty and do nothing at all to contribute to the...
    MidKnightStorm13 MidKnightStorm13 22-25, F May 8, 2013

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    Crazy Logic

    I've always had trouble with the idea of unconditional love. People have tried to explain it to me in various ways. They have said it is love given without expectation of anything in return. To me, unconditional love means that there are no conditions. You will love the person...
    wundayatta wundayatta 56-60, M 7 Responses Jun 29, 2010

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    I Have Been Hurt Many Times By People, But I Have Found The Most Valuable Of All Love In Him

    I found this video on unconditional love... let me know what you think 
    Tiddlemouse Tiddlemouse 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2010

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    family love I just don't feel. I do things for my mom n brothers but I feel obligated to...is that love? as far as the rest my family I don't feel a a thing....
    BBskool BBskool 22-25, F a week ago

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    I lost that belief about a month ago and it has been draining more and more as the days go by. I was in a relationship with a person I thought I loved, but we had grown apart andi...
    katie3401 katie3401 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    Nope. After spending my life wishing for nothing more, thinking of love constantly, seeking it, a marriage, many relationships, i feel as if i am waking from a dream. it was all a...
    nighthouse66 nighthouse66 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    You know, you never really give up on love. You just get tired and force yourself not to want it.
    OrangeViolin OrangeViolin 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    bettycc11 bettycc11 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I do for others, but not for me. It's just not there anymore...
    BeyondGreenEyes BeyondGreenEyes 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/getting-laid-over-60/200908/the-romantic-hoax I especially enjoyed the part where the article states that, basically, what drives humans to...
    thelioninwinter thelioninwinter 46-50, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Don't say you love me unless forever. Don't tell me you need me, if you're not gonna stay. Don't give me this feeling, I'll only believe it. Make it real or take it all away...
    ElizabethSwanTurner ElizabethSwanTurner 18-21, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    You say I’m crazy Cause you don’t think I know what you’ve done But when you call me baby I know I’m not the only one I don’t believe in monogamy, in the conventional...
    kinkysexybabe kinkysexybabe 36-40, F 9 Responses Apr 6

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    It's Openly Secular Day. I know it is so much more than simply not having a belief in any god, but that's the distinction we must ride until the day people let go of the stigmas...
    KatieTreat KatieTreat 51-55, T 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I don't believe in God, but I hate pushy atheists who feel superior and criticize others for having a religion. My two sisters are atheists, and I'm pretty sure my parents are too...
    TheStarshipCat TheStarshipCat 13-15, F Apr 2

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    What started as a spark over some instant messages, shared emails and exchanged pictures, turned flat. I met a couple of guys long distance. While I maintain just strictly...
    favestril favestril 41-45, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I don't believe in HELL. At least not the hell that most people envision. I know that when I become Spirit, I will be reunited with my spiritual family. I will understand what the...
    bcvegas4u2 bcvegas4u2 66-70, M Apr 4

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    I don't believe i need one i trust my boyfriend completely even if i was allowed one.
    sassygirl15 sassygirl15 13-15, F 4 Responses Apr 13

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    My fiance is dead set certain that Nibiru is on it's way and is going to cause massive tsunamis and earthquakes as it passes by. Like religion, I don't believe it without evidence...
    KSPerson KSPerson 46-50, M a week ago

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    When I say those special 3 little words I really mean it cause it's coming from the the bottom of my heart.Don't say you love me just so you can get between my legs
    DariaBrianna123 DariaBrianna123 16-17, F 5 Responses Apr 10

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    I have studied this for a while and would like to point out a few "FACTS" rather than hype. If you want to comment, read them! If you still doubt, check for yourselves. Don't...
    anonymuspersona anonymuspersona 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 13

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    Love is a word that I feel is carelessly thrown around these days. It is used so frequently that to some it has lost it's true meaning. It is a special feeling and should only be...
    srfchopper srfchopper 56-60, M Mar 27

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    I do know one or two couples who met through dating agencies of one sort or another (internet or not), but generally I regard them as cynical and parasitical. If you are unable to...
    Perspicares Perspicares 61-65, M 2 Responses Mar 28

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    who doesn't believe in God ?? I'm here to prove for you that God exist , you'll share your point of view and i'll share mine and someone have to be convinced in the end.. lets...
    Rwnn Rwnn 13-15, F 4 Responses Apr 10

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    I don't because I believe you shouldn't say "I Love You " unless you mean it, but if you really really mean it, you must say it out loud Alot. Because people forget. *shrugs*
    BlueFairy09 BlueFairy09 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I wouldn't say I don't because there is always a possibility but as I get older I think a lot deeper and question a lot of things I've been told and there is absolutely no proof it...
    londepV londepV 22-25, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    O.k., obviously there are people out there that are truly mentally Ill and help came to late for them. They needed help. But in my opinion, people should face the consequences of...
    TheEnduringSunrise TheEnduringSunrise 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 3

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    I don't know if I can do it, he's away in a total of what sums up to be half a year and the rest of the time he seems exhausted. I want him by my side all the time and it's killing...
    Ennah Ennah 18-21, F Apr 14

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    when I say I love you I will never say it in vain if I don't love you I'll say I like you or don't say anything at all the word love to me is a strong word and very passionate it...
    tonya2025 tonya2025 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    I would give my life for you. I sis love you so much I cry when we aren't together. I listen to rap music I can't stand because it reminds me of you. I seriously would be lost...
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 16-17, F Mar 30

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    I Love You is something that shouldn't be said unless ment. It's too important. So I've been dating a girl for 4 months and I haven't said it, she hasn't said it. Then yesterday...
    0815Jade 0815Jade 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 16

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    After seeing all that I have off the world in the little amount of time that I have been here so far, I now find it hard to make myself believe in a god. Certainly one such as the...
    seanlucifer seanlucifer 18-21, M 7 Responses Apr 16

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