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I Don't Believe It's Better To Have Loved And Lost

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    I have had two perfect husbands

    that have passed away and now I am alone. Two total different relationships, but now alone, sad, and just sort of afraid of being alone the rest of my days. I can take care of myself but, do I want to? I pay my own way but miss someone with me to say all will be okay baby! Is...
    Vickilynnd Vickilynnd 61-65, F Jun 27, 2014

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    I Don't Agree

    When I Love Someone, I Love them with all My Heart & Soul. When they push me away or we break apart, it Hurts me so Bad. The Wall around my Heart goes back up
    sweetnshort sweetnshort 56-60, M 3 Responses Jun 9, 2010

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    It's Better When You Don't Know This Pain...

    There are many ways to lose a loved one and all of them bring pain. I won't believe that it's better that way, there's too much grief and sorrow about things that weren't meant to happen at all, and it always leaves regrets. Of course, time brings relief, but there are ways...
    sat321 sat321 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 15, 2010

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    The moment when I was with her

    and we were at the airport to pick up my sister. She was my sisters friend and work colleague and I had a few chats with her. We were going from level 2 to level 1 and we stepped on to the escalator. It was a flat escalator, no steps. She lurched forward and I caught her, she...
    catsfan1972 catsfan1972 41-45, M Jan 19, 2014

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    Really??????

    Not sure about all that.  It's been over two years and it still hurts like a m-Effer!!!!!  Sometimes I think I would have rather just been single and miserably dating all this time.  The only problem with that is I wouldn't have had my daughter.  I couldn't imagine my life...
    Mahal1023 Mahal1023 46-50, F 7 Responses Mar 27, 2011

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    It Hurts

    How is it that no one can heal there heart from love that broke theres i dont agree cause my boyfriend I was playing aroound with him  and the next morning i get a phone call that hes in the hospital he was my best friend not my boy friend he was a boy and a perfect...
    harboraqua harboraqua 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 10, 2010

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    FalseSmile FalseSmile 22-25, M Jul 19

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