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I Don't Believe It's Better To Have Loved And Lost

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    I have had two perfect husbands

    that have passed away and now I am alone. Two total different relationships, but now alone, sad, and just sort of afraid of being alone the rest of my days. I can take care of myself but, do I want to? I pay my own way but miss someone with me to say all will be okay baby! Is...
    Vickilynnd Vickilynnd 61-65, F Jun 27, 2014

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    The moment when I was with her

    and we were at the airport to pick up my sister. She was my sisters friend and work colleague and I had a few chats with her. We were going from level 2 to level 1 and we stepped on to the escalator. It was a flat escalator, no steps. She lurched forward and I caught her, she...
    catsfan1972 catsfan1972 41-45, M Jan 19, 2014

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    I Don't Agree

    When I Love Someone, I Love them with all My Heart & Soul. When they push me away or we break apart, it Hurts me so Bad. The Wall around my Heart goes back up
    sweetnshort sweetnshort 56-60, M 3 Responses Jun 9, 2010

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    Really??????

    Not sure about all that.  It's been over two years and it still hurts like a m-Effer!!!!!  Sometimes I think I would have rather just been single and miserably dating all this time.  The only problem with that is I wouldn't have had my daughter.  I couldn't imagine my life...
    Mahal1023 Mahal1023 46-50, F 6 Responses Mar 27, 2011

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    It Hurts

    How is it that no one can heal there heart from love that broke theres i dont agree cause my boyfriend I was playing aroound with him  and the next morning i get a phone call that hes in the hospital he was my best friend not my boy friend he was a boy and a perfect...
    harboraqua harboraqua 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 10, 2010

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    It's Better When You Don't Know This Pain...

    There are many ways to lose a loved one and all of them bring pain. I won't believe that it's better that way, there's too much grief and sorrow about things that weren't meant to happen at all, and it always leaves regrets. Of course, time brings relief, but there are ways...
    sat321 sat321 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 15, 2010

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    oh certainly. I do t think I'm better than anyone else here on this earth but I know I'm very very unique when it comes to my Intelectual abilities, and the way I think a out...
    dathglas dathglas 13-15, M 10 hrs ago

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    According to the IQ Test I am a genius. And I'm also very involved in college, extracurriculars, and my job. But I don't feel I'm superior in any way.
    eharber97 eharber97 18-21, M 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    A few months back, I got drunk and went on social media (never a good idea by the way). When I woke up, I realized I had on online girlfriend. Strange how stuff happens. I only...
    Cheemoni Cheemoni 46-50, M 14 hrs ago

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    please don't judge or hate me... but I simply can't believe in what makes absolutely no sense to me.... I was raised to believe in god and being a Christian but with time and...
    passionat3kiss3s passionat3kiss3s 22-25, F 7 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    That is except you, dummy.
    hopefullyRD hopefullyRD 36-40, M 1 day ago

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    You can do that for a few days ago and now I'm not sure if it is the best way. The only thing that could make it a lot more fun and addicting. You are a little bit more of a new...
    TheAvenue TheAvenue 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    Everything is changing continuously in a pace hardly imaginable. I'm almost nothing like the person I was two years ago, finances changed drastically (and thereby my lifestyle and...
    Gentle153 Gentle153 26-30, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I need someone who pays some attention to me. I don't ask for much.
    Kitty72013 Kitty72013 31-35, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Why would someone take someone's heart and just play with it. Who could be so cruel to play such games?
    lifealwayschanges lifealwayschanges 41-45, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I always hear people saying: 'Digital art isn't real art. It's cheating! all you have to do is push a magic button and the computer does the rest...' Yeah, you know what? If you...
    TrippingKitty TrippingKitty 26-30 2 days ago

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    It's true. I don't know everything. Nobody does. Although people often say I am intelligent for my age idk why tho ^_^
    EmoMusicLuv EmoMusicLuv 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    You told me how I mattered right to my face, and how there was no way I'd ever be replaced. Well your words have etched out disgrace. BS. And I wonder how it tastes? Repeating it...
    Taynkbot Taynkbot 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I never have and I never will!
    darthchubby darthchubby 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    I've never had a flat belly, and I don't thing I ever will!
    fattyfatt8 fattyfatt8 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    You attract confusion when you put yourself in a complicated situation.. You wont feel the effect at first but once you indulge yourself with others peoples dilemma you find your...
    nalbyan nalbyan 31-35, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Maybe not...but the way I'm being loved now is a pretty good substitute.
    savoy2 savoy2 46-50, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I only believe it as a parent to a child. But romantic love? nope. If you say you love someone unconditionally, doesn't that mean they can treat you 'any' way they want, good...
    ElephantSH0ES ElephantSH0ES 46-50, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    This is the disturbing truth. *Writes all the poopy and pee stuff* *Gets sh*t tons of notifications, from guys especially* However, *Writes stuff about my life* *Almost zero...
    iiTetraLoh iiTetraLoh 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Yes it's True, I don't. I don't care if I am single or not even have a girlfriend, I just don't like it.
    JakeV101 JakeV101 36-40, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Non-most of the time on important things but sometimes I'll get a little entertained when someone's lying just their imagination
    sirnatural sirnatural 36-40, M 6 days ago

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    I work as a hvac service technician often. In this profession i work alone but with a support staff. Ok several "bosses" who might send me here or there to fix something. In part i...
    Thethought Thethought 46-50, M 4 Responses Feb 2

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    I used to blog, write poetry, short stories, started a novel even. That feels like a dream, not a memory. I can't do it anymore. I lost my ability, my spark. It's like that part of...
    goodwitchofthenorth goodwitchofthenorth 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 2

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    I don't believe ANYONE has the "right" to judge anyone else! And I don't. I may not feel another person's kinks or life style acts are things I'D ever do, but it is their right...
    craverandscarlett craverandscarlett 66-70, M 7 Responses Feb 1

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    I have a different definition of a Soul Mate. For me, I think a Soul Mate is your complete opposite. They are the person keeping you from reaching your potential or holding you...
    AKent0107 AKent0107 36-40, M Jan 31

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    This year I turn 41. I have only ever had one real relationship and that lasted 5 years. Throughout the relationship he told me I love you but I am not in love with you. That...
    hine2go hine2go 36-40, F Jan 31

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    "You gooder than me, make no difference" Ted Mosby - How I Met Your Mother
    JasonThick JasonThick 22-25, M Jan 28

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    I don't understand why anyone believes in it, It's Just random nonsense.
    PanHead1989 PanHead1989 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 28

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    I don't know why many Indians from India call Guyanese Indians whom originate from India "Untouchables". There was one Indian family who stole my parents keys and drugged my family...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F Jan 26

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    I won't claim to know, but I also choose not to believe due to a lack of evidence or any reason to do so. When I put critical thought into the subject, it just becomes another...
    OrganicMachina OrganicMachina 31-35, M 3 Responses Jan 26

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    Changed my mind. Turns out I spoke too soon.
    savoy2 savoy2 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 26

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    When my children were toddlers, I did a year with a Baptist church that was masquerading as a "Non-Denominational" church. Some of my friends attended this church, so I gave it a...
    Deedle623 Deedle623 51-55, F 4 Responses Jan 26

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    It never will be- I don't care what you've been through, that's no excuse to be toxic.
    FlowerWarrior FlowerWarrior 13-15, T Jan 24

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    I dont know if thats true. I loved her who was wonderful to all but me. She just left.
    isaidenough isaidenough 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 24

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    Unfortunately, that's going to have to be the case. My mother doesn't understand why I want to gain weight and refuses to accept it. She refuses to buy me new clothes and gets on...
    PiggieCutie PiggieCutie 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 24

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    I think I just don't fit it.. I don't fit in in this world and with these people even less. Well, I'm sure about it. I should accept it, so I will feel much better, but that's so...