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I Don\'t Believe You Have to Be Christian to Be Nice

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 285 People

    It Should Come Natrually

     you should by nature be kind.and if the only reason your doing something is to make out like you are a christian,then your a lie.because then you are doing it because you feel obligated.when you should do it just to be kind to someone.
    mamaslittlebaby mamaslittlebaby 18-21, M Oct 15, 2009

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    It Annoys Me!

    I am so tired of people judging others. I have had a friends mom tell him that she was so surprised that I was so nice...for a witch! Why can't I be nice? Why do I have to be your stereotypical green skinned, wart covered ***** witch?! I'm a decent person, in fact, I'm probably...
    HanaNoMizu HanaNoMizu 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 10, 2009

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    Christians Don't Understand Nice Or The Love Of Christ

     There is truth and there are lies. There is reality and there is hidden deception. To be Christian is not to go to church and follow the religions of man; because to do that is only receiving false truth through hidden deception that is going to blindside hundreds of...
    timesoftrouble timesoftrouble 56-60, M 7 Responses Jan 31, 2010

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    The Reality Tv All Must See

    We only can know the truths of God by becoming completely submissive in spiritual ways the natural man understands not. [1 Corinthians 2:14] Look at the world in some depth, and then look at God in more depth. Look at what He says while ignoring what man says, and then you will...
    timesoftrouble timesoftrouble 56-60, M 2 Responses Feb 6, 2010

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    Some Of The Nicest People Are Not Labled " Christian"

    From Ancient Past. Man made Up God. And Cultures made up their Religions in order to get control of their Culture by making them feel guilty if they disobeyed the rules. And trying to put fear in people by saying the rules are God Given. Pretty soon Religion begins making...
    ChakraSolipsismMGP ChakraSolipsismMGP 56-60, M May 9, 2010

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    We Should Not Be Judgemental

    I was born in non-christian family. But I started loving Jesus as I grew and now I am totally christian by heart and faith. My family came to know about Lord through me. They love Christ but  are apprehensive about christians as at several occasions they...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 25, 2010

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     No i don't =). I'm not a christian and i don't think I'm that bad... lol There are thousands correction, Millions of nice people out there who are not Christians. so no i don't believe you have to be a christian to be nice.
    LunaWolff LunaWolff 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 20, 2009

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    Christians & Church

    I also don't believe that you have to attend Church to be a good person, perhaps to be a good Christian but that still doesn't make you a better person nor does it make you be nice.
    jettboo jettboo 41-45, F Oct 8, 2010

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    Don't

    And i also don't believe you have to be Christian to be judgemental either.
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M Feb 25, 2010

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    Read Your History

    Lots of VERY NOT NICE Christians running around, lots of nice non-Chritsitans too. Surprise?
    ChipmunkErnie ChipmunkErnie 61-65, M 6 Responses Feb 24, 2010

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      Your Life Path Number is 9 Your Life Path Number represents the path you should take through life and the talents and skills you have to make your journey a rewarding one. A 9 Life Path will lead you to look at all with love, compassion and tolerance. You will explore...
    burwi333 burwi333 36-40, M Oct 13, 2010

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    By Nature

    I have been on the planet longer than most here, and in a pretty comfortable part of it at that.  I have traveled a lotand met people of many different faiths.  This answer could be a book.  But I will keep it brief.If you meet the Dalai Lama, or read the "Art of Happiness...
    Tuck Tuck 56-60, M 1 Response Nov 25, 2011

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    What Would Jesus Say?

     I was raised a churchgoer, a Protestant. When my son was little, I took him to Sunday school. But one day I just looked around and realized that I was surrounded with hypocrites and phonies, and I stopped going. I still have my faith, I just stay home with it. I think...
    Abbeyrhode Abbeyrhode 46-50, F 40 Responses Feb 23, 2010

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    don't you just get so annoyed by someone staring at you? like you could tell they're judging everything you do and it'd like wth -_-
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    I am not here to be judged or to judge others. Every situation has its unique perspective, and until we put ourselves in someone else's shoes, you have no right.
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    I know its not a choice, but i dont think youre born with it either.
    rehn65 rehn65 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 24

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    If jesus died fo mall mans sins, then why has more people died thin jesus name than any war, holocaust, or religion, I cannot follow religious beliefs of a so called loving person...
    xwave37 xwave37 46-50, M Dec 1

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    And by "you" I mean generally, every one on EP. the worst thing you might do is annoying me by some words and I believe it's possible that you didn't mean it. so there is no any...
    JustCallMeDude JustCallMeDude 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 5

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    I feel like when ever I say anything about "God" people are so quick to back him up and and say "how dare you insult your maker" ummm where is the FACTS and the PROOF? Y'all just...
    foreverbetsy foreverbetsy 13-15, F 3 Responses Dec 5

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    PCOSstrength PCOSstrength 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 30

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    sumone1somebody sumone1somebody 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 9

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    Please. .......This love is heavenly, so let's not waste it on the people who can't understand its meaning....
    ElliasA ElliasA 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 30