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I Dont Bother Dressing Up When Going Out

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    Smart Casual...Without The Smart

    If I'm wearing something already I'll just throw on a pair of outdoor shoes and a jacket and I'm done. I don't have anything to wear that's posh because I don't do any of that stuff. I have a dark suit that I keep for funerals.
    Baaane Baaane 51-55, M 1 Response Jan 29, 2013

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    I love going out! Just give me a reason to! Sometimes it's hard getting to that point...You come home from work and you're tired, or you aren't in the mood, or you feel like you're...
    ERMAHGERD1 ERMAHGERD1 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm going out tonight as Lisa with some girlfriends. I'm so excited, going to be a great night :) I will be wearing a nice royal blue dress with nude tights and nude heels. Love...
    GirlyLisaTG GirlyLisaTG 26-30, T 3 Responses May 9

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    I'm doing some work and visiting friends in a big city for a few days; the same city where I lived for 22 years before moving a couple years ago so it's fun to be back. I'm going...
    BBWand40 BBWand40 41-45, F 6 Responses May 16

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    Ehh.. well I have always been a shy and indoors person. I don't know why, even as a kid, I never liked playing outside in the mud or anything.. i only used to go out if i had the...
    AnnaIsMe6 AnnaIsMe6 18-21, T 3 Responses May 13

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    As I've written previously, I often go nude at home, especially on the weekends. Up until about a month ago, I would only go nude in the house. I would put on shorts when I went...
    ChargeHard ChargeHard 51-55, M 4 Responses May 3

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    I love my room and my bed! I spend most of my time minus a f/t job in my room. no need to impress anyone, I already have a fiance that had seen me when I first wake up. I don't...
    kareenmarie kareenmarie 36-40, F Apr 30

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    I would rather stay home than go out, not because I'm antisocial or depressed. I just prefer it, even if ive got a bunch of people over doin what we do goin out, drinking, hangin...
    AnnyOnimous AnnyOnimous 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 29

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    I have never gone on a date all dressed up... Have dinner in an elegant restaurant! I wish to... I always go with family when I see them but never on a date...
    Mariferb86 Mariferb86 18-21, F May 18

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    Hubby's coming with me to a couple of concerts this weekend. Hoping I can still let loose & enjoy myself even though he'll probably stand there with his arms folded. I'm just going...
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    please i don't want to go out with you...it would be happier if I'm home...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 29

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    Movies, take-out, video games, blaring music that doesn't have Mickey Mouse on the cd cover...a night on the town can't hold a candle to a night on the couch.
    Bumblelion Bumblelion 31-35, M 2 Responses May 7

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    I don't want to go outside today. But I have some things I need to get accomplished or my abusive wife will belittle me, verbally bash me, make me feel worthless. I struggle with...
    bipolarPeter bipolarPeter 31-35, M May 9

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    it's been a year since the last time i got out . think u school i realy do.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 18

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    Don't get me wrong... I like school but it's time for a break. School let out today at 1:00 To bad it's not sunny out. If be tanning.
    pardax pardax 13-15, M May 20

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    I'll talk to everyone later ;)
    BrendaRomero BrendaRomero 16-17, F Apr 30

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    Easily done around here. suddenly everything feels good again. My thoughts are lost amongst the cosmos dreaming of meeting you.
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 7

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    What a awkward day,first unexpected visit from company CEO that of course,turned into a meeting,lots of people in the room,couldn't find a reason to escape.Later small party I...
    somerandomguyfromspace somerandomguyfromspace 31-35, M 1 Response May 12

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    I suppose I'm partly shy, and partly happy with my own company. I don't really have close friends and am happy to sit in my room playing with the computer or reading or whatever...
    helloitsjayne helloitsjayne 18-21, F 5 Responses May 15

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    I have never been a party person I geuss its the way I was raised. It disgusts me knowing that girls get pregnant at such a young age ... Don't ven get me started on the drinking...
    OrochimaruSama92 OrochimaruSama92 22-25, F 6 Responses May 17

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    Gonna be awhile before I can do this again.
    criticalminded criticalminded 36-40, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    There's no place like home. I don't like crowds, but I love people, its just easier and more comfortable at home, more casual, less dressy.
    1946sunrise 1946sunrise 66-70, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I've never understood the concept of being socially engaged in life, somehow it just feels very.. time consuming.. For instance I'd rather stay in my room writing manga, learn more...
    MartinTheFirst MartinTheFirst 16-17 1 Response 2 days ago

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    sometimes i just like to stay home
    anneloves anneloves 18-21, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    I love doing my hair, nails, face when going out alone or with others. When I put on my gown, dress, or skirt and blouse, along with my hose and heels, I feel like I am dressed to...
    oldermaturewife oldermaturewife 46-50, F 3 Responses May 6

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    It was shortly after I started going out dressed enfemme in public and I was wearing a modest blue dress and heels like I had just gotten out of work. Walking into a department...
    Elizabethanne253 Elizabethanne253 61-65, T 9 Responses Apr 29

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    My first time ever going out in public crossdresser. I was with my sister's friend, Tori who knew about my dressing before my sister and mom did. I had asked Tori for her phone...
    CDcarly CDcarly 22-25, T 4 Responses May 17

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    My husband passed away. Since then I have been coping sometimes ok and at times worse than what I'm going through now. I feel that I'm bothering people when I need help just...
    infinityalone infinityalone 46-50, F 2 Responses May 19

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    One thing that still seriously bothers me when I came out is something my mom said after. First she apologized for all the anti-gay comments she's said, and for saying things like...
    abercrombie99 abercrombie99 16-17, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I feel like I'm about to break down and become something numb. My parents took away everything I truly cared about. I had friends that I loved like adopted family. They were gone...
    Stormeyes Stormeyes 18-21, F 1 Response May 19

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    I met my ex-girlfriend on a dating site. We started talking on line then in person and found that we liked each other and she ended up moving in with me. We were together for ten...
    wingski5 wingski5 51-55, M May 18

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    Ok. This may sound trite, but it's a big deal for me. I'm going to cancel my cable tv this week. Big whoop, right? Well, yeah, it is. For one, I'm going to save a helluva lot...
    angsty angsty 61-65, F 3 Responses May 9

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    My brother had been letting me dress him for about 6 months and a the tender age of 14 he looked good. We had practiced all the walking and gestures. To see him strut around the...
    lisaann21 lisaann21 22-25, F 3 Responses May 10

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    Home every single day. Spend my life in my bed. Have for many years. Since I left high school years ago. I did go out once a week just to get shopping but since my health has...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response 6 days ago

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    When I was a child, I loved going out and playing with other kids my own age. I enjoyed playing different sports, sledding down a hill of snow, and swimming and water skiing.
    oldermaturewife oldermaturewife 46-50, F 10 Responses May 5

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    I think I went on like one date my entire life and man do I crave for another one of those moments. My current situation is I'm not going to school right now so I rarely ever see...
    WardenChult WardenChult 18-21, M May 8

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    My most memorable time going out cross-dressed was the time I had to drive 200 miles for an appointment. I decided I would do it as a women and get changed for my appointment...
    bmg1kel bmg1kel 61-65, T 2 Responses May 7

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    I'm going out tonight as Lisa with some girlfriends, I'm so excited. I will be wearing a royal blue dress with nude tights and nude heels. It's going to be a great night :) It is...
    GirlyLisaTG GirlyLisaTG 26-30, T 11 Responses May 9

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    I love going out and just standing in the rain like an idiot just for the smell so clean and pure its amazing
    youngkinyteenmom youngkinyteenmom 18-21, F 5 Responses May 4

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    I thought about going out, but instead I'm ordering in. Netflix all the way.
    thisisarandomusername thisisarandomusername 22-25, M May 16

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    when im at home for a long time i wanna go out then when im out i wanna go back home
    poopmaster1960 poopmaster1960 51-55, M May 5

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