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I Dont Bother Dressing Up When Going Out

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    Smart Casual...Without The Smart

    If I'm wearing something already I'll just throw on a pair of outdoor shoes and a jacket and I'm done. I don't have anything to wear that's posh because I don't do any of that stuff. I have a dark suit that I keep for funerals.
    Baaane Baaane 51-55, M 1 Response Jan 29, 2013

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    Most social situations end up with me being alone or wanting to go home. Many of the times I've gone out, I'd end up with the wrong crowd- people who do drugs and drink, despite it...
    RhinosaurusRex RhinosaurusRex 18-21, F 9 Responses Feb 16

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    I am a practising Jew so my night for going out is Thursday. Living in Paris means there are plenty of clubs and bars to go out to. There are fabulous shops to buy sexy dresses to...
    Astrucbmt Astrucbmt 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    It's Friday night...everybody's going out but I'd rather just stay home and enjoy doing absolutely nothing.
    myluvzdivine myluvzdivine 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 6

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    Granted I always complain or state I'm lonely. But going out is to nerve wracking for me. Yes I'll do ocassional walk along river or local water hole. But if more the 5 people are...
    Averageguy41074 Averageguy41074 36-40, M 5 Responses Feb 10

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    I really don't mind going out in nature, but I hate being in the midst of social drama at a bar. there is a calmness in being alone. a way to still the mind and body. to cleanse...
    simplyafriend simplyafriend 41-45, F Feb 16

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    I don't see what all the hoppla is about going out. My sister often tries to get me to go out to this bar or that and I just don't enjoy myself. Give me a nice bottle of wine...
    beenhereb4 beenhereb4 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    It's snowing....leave me alone people who are going out.
    Reznin Reznin 18-21, M Feb 16

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    I love going out with my buddies havin some beer and diggin up some chicks! MERICA!!!
    REDNECKMIKE92 REDNECKMIKE92 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 18

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    Of course I enjoy going out with some friends every now and then. But most of the time I prefer being at home. Safe and secure, a place where you don't have to deal with other...
    xMiinaaa xMiinaaa 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 18

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    I love getting dressed up and going out💁
    imlame4sure imlame4sure 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm not much for clubs anymore in my old age unless its a gay bar (they are more fun and not as many random ppl hitting on you), but going out to dinner with some friends. Have a...
    NikkiTattooedHeart NikkiTattooedHeart 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I tend to have more fun while alone than going out to a party or such. I have the ability to keep myself amused with my own company. A computer and internet does help though!!!!
    Brian1953 Brian1953 61-65, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm a boy and whenever someone I don't know uses female pronouns on me in public, I get an exhilarated rush. Dressing in "men's" clothes always made me feel like nothing, but when...
    ToshiLSB ToshiLSB 18-21 2 days ago

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    I stopped going to the gym because it was too hard. the "encouragement" and "advice" I got from people only discouraged me, because I was sure I could never be able to "go hard" or...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Feb 2

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    I am an introvert. I am going to be dragged to a party Saturday. Then I'm going to be accused of refusing to have fun and refusing to live a life. Then I'm going to think that they...
    goagainsttheflow goagainsttheflow 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 29

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    I do like to hang with friends, but after I feel so drained. I sometimes try to push myself to hang out more but id rather just stay home. I love just hanging out with myself and...
    littlejxoxo littlejxoxo 26-30, F Feb 10

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    For somebody who rants about the beauty and importance of people, I sure do find socializing in real life awkward. I mean, I'd so much rather be on the internet talking with people...
    WikaloFwoosh WikaloFwoosh 18-21, M Jan 30

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    i hate to go outside i am very stress person i feel very annoyed and stressful when too many people around me i feel i want to back home immediately.. yes i know its baddd !! but...
    avyn avyn 22-25, F Feb 15

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    I miss going to bars with my friends. They are all back home in my country
    anonymaes anonymaes 22-25, F 2 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    Sometimes I feel ridiculous when I'm at the gym. I'm already slim and I only go because of the guys. I know they don't stare at me but I like to go watch guys pick up weights. When...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 2

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    I'm an introvert. Always have been. My husband and I are total opposites here. He is a socialite. I feel awkward in a group of people small or large people that I don't know. He...
    Allie9273 Allie9273 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    I'm not one to go out around a lot of people would rather stay home and hold you in my arms and have you to myself .
    Wildman43055 Wildman43055 46-50, M Feb 13

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    Once I am out, I am positive, fun and everyone loves me. But I am actually an extroverted introvert and I appreciate my time home alone to relax and be with myself.
    Sewmuch2do Sewmuch2do 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    doesn't mean I want to sit home watching b-rated movies or your video games. I want to cuddle, kiss, feel desired..... making out like teenagers on the couch. maybe a few fun and...
    simplyafriend simplyafriend 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    Most weekends I sneak out my bedroom and go meet my friends and go on adventures!
    AnnonAA AnnonAA 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    This came in the mail today :) Gotta love it :) Looking forward to spring :D
    royksokk royksokk 26-30, M Feb 19

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    ...at least in this weather! It's been snowing for a week, and then just as the snow starts to melt we got freezing rain! Plus, can you say wind chill?
    jleeb98 jleeb98 16-17, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I love dressing up and looking great when I am going out and doing whatever with family and/or friends. I love the compliments I have received on my appearance when I am alone or...
    dianefisher dianefisher 22-25, F Feb 1

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    I love to dress up when going to work, running errands, and when I am out with family and/or friends for fun activities. I seldom wear pants because I only have two pair of them.
    middleagedfemalemom middleagedfemalemom 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 30

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    I cannot stand when people take pictures of me when my hair not done. It bothers me when I see the picture. I also can't stand when people take pictures of me without me knowing. I...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    I cant remember when i started doing this, but i have always loved being naked. I have been on naked bike rides, but very shorts ones. This started by being naked at my house...
    nightlover666 nightlover666 22-25, M Feb 1

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    Okay. This is probably the only site/thing or whatever, that soon will know who I am and what I actually feel. Truth is, on the outside - everyone sees me like a 'gorgeous...
    Matildatilda Matildatilda 18-21, F Feb 18

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    I really like going outside after or while it rains. I like how the air smells before a bad storm too. It's too bad I can't go outside in the rain without an umbrella because my...
    StillFlawless StillFlawless 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    I don't really date girls... I'm kind of a lonely person but girls I guess think I'm attractive so I end up having lots of sex but not so many dates.. unless going out to hook up...
    striDr striDr 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 3

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    Blond, blue eyes, perfect smile, deep, funny. That's my crush. Blond and brown striped hair, blue/gray eyes, crooked smile, hard to understand, fast talker, totally random. That's...
    Rowanness Rowanness 13-15, F Feb 14

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    Going out tonight cannot wait
    YesterdayTomorrow YesterdayTomorrow 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    We rent out a couple of rooms in our house to make a little extra money, yesterday I thought I had the place to myself so I was wearing a bra and panties and just a dressing gown...
    LibbyLee LibbyLee 56-60, T 3 Responses 1 hr ago

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    She has the same routine every morning, She wakes up, sits on the edge of her bed and looks out the window to see what the weather is like. She believes she can always judge how a...
    majesticalbree majesticalbree 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    Im not really sure how to start. Theres really so much going on and anyone could give me some kind of insight this would help a whole lot, even if its a few words. Im sorry for...
    ConfusedNote ConfusedNote 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I should've bought you flowers, and held your hand. Should've gave you all my hours, when I had the chance. Taken you to every party cause all you wanted to do was dance. Now my...
    blondie1113 blondie1113 13-15, F 6 hrs ago

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    I put alot into my relationship with my ex and I got nothing out. I'm talking physically, mentally and emotionally. I've realised that's why I have this feeling of i can't be...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My first time out dressed was a number of years ago. Prior to this my dressing was at home, both in the closet. and when I finally came out to my wife. After a period of...
    MandytgAndy MandytgAndy 70+, T 5 Responses Feb 11

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    I hate seeing it too. If I'm in a circle and someone is just standing there awkwardly ( or doesn't know anyone) I'll be the first to introduce myself and try to include them. I...
    Streptococcus Streptococcus 18-21, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    In order to accomplish this I am planning to travel to SouthAmerica in April... Btw, my method is sodium pentobarbital ( aka Nembutal ) and I know where it can be found there ... I...
    mybygone mybygone 46-50, M 1 hr ago