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I Dont Bother Dressing Up When Going Out

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    If I'm wearing something already I'll just throw on a pair of outdoor shoes and a jacket and I'm done. I don't have anything to wear that's posh because I don't do any of that stuff. I have a dark suit that I keep for funerals.
    Baaane Baaane 51-55, M 1 Response Jan 29, 2013

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    I don't understand the general idea of going out. Or maybe it's some people who don't understand that going out is not for everyone and it's not a crucial element of a human's life...
    ListenerTalker ListenerTalker 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 30

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    Staying HOME!!!... For me personally staying home is this shizzz! I get free food, free mifi, free tv, and my own space and time, oh especially sleep whenever I want to. Going out...
    BabyDgay BabyDgay 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    I have an irrational fear of crowds so ya instead of going out to some crowded bar or club I would much rather stay home. It may be anti social and I may be considered anti social...
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M Apr 2

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    Remember my last story where I said I was going out and this is what happened. We had some pizza and a big ice cream and then we were leaving and I was so tired, it was like 1am...
    larson101 larson101 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    I enjoy reading, playing online games, watching TV shows back-to-back on netflix, so naturally I spend much more time at home. It's not that I hate going out, it's just that I don...
    sarahtc9 sarahtc9 26-30, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have never drank, never smoked, never done drugs. I feel that this makes me the odd person out, especially now in college. I prefer to stay in my dorm instead of going out. I...
    DeJeKlu DeJeKlu 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I'd rather sit here and write about this oh so true experience than going upstairs to make another pot of coffee, and that's not even going outside!
    0nest0 0nest0 31-35, M 3 Responses Apr 12

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    I prefer not socialising and staying home than going out with a bunch of people. It's just that I feel like I can't connect with most people and I'm a bit shy. I like to observe...
    RupanjaliSamadder RupanjaliSamadder 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 25

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    Going out=people, noise, weird smells, being touched, and just a whole mess if annoying stuff. At Home (Alone)= no noise, I can play my music as loud as I like, I can read without...
    BleedingOrchids BleedingOrchids 13-15, F 4 Responses Apr 12

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    I have serve social anxiety so going out is more often than not very hard for me, especially for group events which I always avoid. I would much rather be home alone than say at a...
    WithoutHope00 WithoutHope00 22-25, M 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    I used to have a social life. I used to go to clubs with friends and dance the night away with random strangers. And I used to drive everyone home safely too. I even found a club...
    Sinjintiger Sinjintiger 41-45, M Mar 29

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    On Saturday April %th I am having my first night out dressed as a woman. Going to town with a group of natural girls foe food, show and drinks. just cant wait. Plenty of shopping...
    cperry3105 cperry3105 51-55 1 Response Mar 23

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    Last night I went on another date :) it really was a fantastic night out. I was wearing a purple dress, nude tights and black heels. I felt really good in the outfit and had some...
    LucyTG LucyTG 26-30, T 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I'm going "camping" with my class and I know I will hate it. The outside world is not that bad. But we will be walking and working. It's so hard and I'm to lazy. :P
    FantasyButterfly4 FantasyButterfly4 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    The stars are just so beautiful. It's amazing to think that each star is like out sun and likely has orbiting planets, possibly like our own. The possibilities are endless. When...
    matt61277 matt61277 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    Well I'm back from lunch and drinks with friends and had to write this to fill you all in :) I was having a wonderful time when I excused myself to go to the toilet. On my way back...
    LucyTG LucyTG 26-30, T 2 Responses Apr 12

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    I only go out when I visit my dad in the Netherlands. I got no business outside just school...
    MrIndeedNL MrIndeedNL 13-15, M 2 Responses Apr 12

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    I live in the more urban parts of Georgia. When I take rare trips outside of the city, I always take the time to look up at the sky. It's like looking at a sheet of darkness...
    Boulier Boulier 16-17, F Apr 13

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    Today was my first appointment at the Gender Clinic and it all went very well. The staff there were very welcoming and I was put at ease straight away talking to them. I made...
    LucyTG LucyTG 26-30, T 3 Responses a week ago

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    It is 19:50 Central European time just left the baby at mum and I am going to have dinner with my wife. Good thing is she's driving not me. Tell ya about it tomorrow
    larson101 larson101 18-21, M a week ago

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    Honestly id rather stay at home cuddling and watching movie or paying video games than go out. IM not much for people unless it's online anyway
    sexy23guy sexy23guy 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I'd rather stay home and watch a movie on the sofa and snuggle, rather than having to go out and socialize.
    AlaiahMay AlaiahMay 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    Id rather stay in my room and write about anything... stories, fanfiction, poetry, ANYTHING. I like being alone and yet... I feel lonely when I see other teens my age laughing...
    DecemberSky1 DecemberSky1 16-17, F Mar 29

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    I just love to look at the stars! I don't even have to go outside, ill open window all they way and look at them like that. I just love looking at them and making my own pictures...
    dwinc732 dwinc732 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    Today I went on a bit of a shopping spree for living as Lucy full time. I got a few skirts, dresses, tights, some heels and flats and some bra and panties. I came out with quite a...
    LucyTG LucyTG 26-30, T 1 Response Apr 1

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    Well that's me ready for my date, I'm so excited about meeting Alex at the local T Girl friendly bar :) I am wearing a royal blue dress, nude tights and nude heels. Underneath it...
    LucyTG LucyTG 26-30, T 3 Responses Apr 2

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    I love to eat anywhere. I don't care if it's at my favorite sandwich shop, eating out is great every once in a while.
    Knicksfan20 Knicksfan20 18-21, M Apr 3

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    Outside never heard of the word...
    Daisyellenrose Daisyellenrose 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 12

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    For a while I lived in a very bright city and until then I never really realized that the stars are so beautiful. So now that I live pretty much in the middle of nowhere I go...
    KarleeJo23 KarleeJo23 13-15, F Apr 12

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    I'm off out to meet some friends for a bank holiday catch up :) Love being out and about as Lucy. Today I'm wearing a nice black dress, 40 denier black tights and nude heels. I...
    LucyTG LucyTG 26-30, T 2 days ago

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    There is plenty to do at home. cleaning, washing, cooking, reading, writing, listening to music, watching the TV, searching on the internet. So why go out and spend money?
    Wulfstan Wulfstan 70+, M 1 day ago

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    A few beers, a few good friends and video games. Chips, dip and more beers. Sounds like heaven and maybe tainting around on ep for a little while. I enjoy this place. Lots of...
    UnchartedOne UnchartedOne 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I admit that I am a hardcore introvert. I have a 9-5 job and even if I'm not working on a highly extroverted field, I still have to interact with people and socialize, therefors...
    lavandelune lavandelune 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I wish I was born in japan they get praised for being introverts it's part their culture America land of the extroverts
    loner1226 loner1226 16-17, M 4 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    A Decision I Made... Years Ago. To have and to hold from this day forward. Sept 15, 2001 on this date I informed my spouse and said "I was going to transition into a woman, many...
    Trisha60ts Trisha60ts 61-65, T 3 Responses Mar 24

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    Match Report I am in my school junior football team, what my American friends call soccer. It is for girls 16 years and younger. This time of year, we would normally be...
    yulico yulico 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    Sooo this makes little sense, I know. But the thing is- I love going out. I love to party. I love having the spotlight. (I realize that probably makes me sound like some drunk...
    KaylenG2121 KaylenG2121 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    Im starting a Ki.K group chat ANY full time cross dressers under the age of 30 This is a chat for crossdressers to show off their outfits talk about shopping clothes and post like...
    lovevspink16 lovevspink16 18-21 Apr 5

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    I love to dress up when I am going out to church, work, shopping, and running errands. I love wearing short skirts and a blouse, short dress, shorts and top, with appropriate...
    ebonynbill ebonynbill 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I don't do it intentionally. Sometimes if I'm in a rut, I keep to myself and leave others alone. Its a fault I have, but no one's perfect. I rather dwell and deal with my own...
    BobFrost BobFrost 36-40, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Or like when they say they are going to do something and don't do it, or vice versa. My mother in law has this problem and it annoys the crap out of me. She's always complaining to...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F Mar 25

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    We had an amazing time together that whole day. We went out to eat, played games together, watched a show he hated (and ended up making fun of the whole thing) and laughing! It was...
    HurtingLover HurtingLover 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I've literally gone insane... I think I found myself at work last week starring at a wall for 10 minutes in a moment of solitude, its like something biological within me cant...
    barnest2 barnest2 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    Man people always say this phrase "I am going through he'll in my life" so often but really to be honest I can really say that about me. As of right now my mom has cancer, I...
    Colpaige Colpaige 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 13

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    Need help this will be my first date with me dressed as a women going out with a male. What should I wear and except from the man. I don't want to look like I am easy just want a...
    wal1966 wal1966 46-50, M Mar 30

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    My heart is going out to a family I know tonight that is hurting. They have been through so much already and this last blow is just so hard but I am holding out hope that things...
    QueenAwesomePants QueenAwesomePants 36-40, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm far away from home, in a place where I know no one and have nowhere to go. My days go by sitting around home, or going outside just to frustrate myself on the fact that I have...
    psycss psycss 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    I love being on things outside. Ever since I was young I have always enjoyed peeing on objects outside. I love the splashing sound it makes. Plastics are the funniest to pee on as...
    splashy34 splashy34 26-30, M 5 Responses Mar 28

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    I have a very low confidence in myself so I hated communicating with people. I love hanging out with people but I hate going out to see people. That's a problem of me. I'm afraid...
    Planetweird Planetweird 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    Im starting a Ki.K group chat ANY full time cross dressers under the age of 30 This is a chat for crossdressers to show off their outfits talk about shopping clothes and post like...